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I have some pics in my post history, nothing recent. Just finishing up a cut for summer
/r/seduction23/03/19 05:37 AM
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You're taking a lot of what she says at face value, not opening up to people, telling you at the end of the date, not ghosting people etc. Personally, I don't hold statements like these in high regards especially until I've got to know them. It doesnt mean a thing to me. So text her in a few days, chat her up a bit and see if she wants to go out, if she doesn't, no big deal she saved you some time.
/r/seduction26/02/19 06:16 PM
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This helped me a lot too. Definitely recommend. If you have family or something tell them to call if theres an emergency, and turn off all notifications aside from that.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:57 PM
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I'm a competitive powerlifter working out at a commercial gym for the last 5+ years. The easiest way I have found to do this is just start talking to anyone. You see someone doing something that looks interesting? Ask them about it, "Hey I noticed you threw that guy really far, I suck at throwing people far any pointers?" Boom new friend when you see them again say whatsup hows the weekend onto your workout. Guy or girl doesnt matter, develop friendships with everyone there. Then focus on the hb…
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:56 PM
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Just want to offer a different perspective. I met a girl at a party of a mutual friend and we really hit it off. Planned a date and eventually went out, some subtle kino, a hug and a rejected kiss that read she just wasnt ready yet, which is fine by me. We planned another date t he following week but I got hit with a wanted to talk and wasnt ready to date yet speech. K, no biggie we go out and talk about it, she just isn't sure of herself but wants to see me again, this is date #2 same experienc…
/r/seduction25/02/19 05:06 AM
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I will always listen to tpain before going out. I know it isn't very good, but it always puts me in the fun positive mindset if I'm not feeling particularly good that day.
/r/seduction22/02/19 03:58 PM
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how often are you going out and meeting people? When I got out of a ltr I was going out super often and meeting a ton fo people and it became draining for sure. Especially combined with my grad studies and work, so I started limiting how often I went out to bars and out with friends. Still if you need to go to a coffee shop to study or a bookstore or something no harm in meeting people, but dont put a fixation on it like you must meet x amount of people everyday. that will kill you.
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:48 AM
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First, don't apologize over something like that. I know you're 18, but try and work on your inner game mate. It gets thrown around a lot but read Models by Mark Manson, build that inner confidence. Fuck if people think its abrasive, guess what bold people get laid. If she laughs at you, or tells you to fuck off, cool you know she's someone you won't be interested in. She did you the favor in that interaction. To directly answer your question there is no harm in asking for a phone number from som…
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:51 PM
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It will definitely help your confidence by asking her. To be fair, I wouldn't say dinner that is a lot for the first time hanging out outside of school shit. Grab some coffee or ice cream or some shit. "Hey, x I enjoyed talking to you last class or whatever, we should grab some coffee and continue our conversation." You'll know by her reaction if shes digging it or not, then get the number.
/r/seduction21/02/19 03:41 PM
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One girl I'm with is 30 rn, and its like she's never kissed anyone before. I try not do think about age as long as it isn't under 21, am 28 currently, but I look more at how they can kiss and fuck. Because it is such a fucking turn off, jesus christ.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:09 PM
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You literally just argued about it last night, how old are you?
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:36 PM
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Right here is your answer. I have had such better results just meeting people in real life, if you have a strong personality you will do much better. I got a lot of matches on tinder, but I refuse to sit and entertain them to maybe get a reply back its just a waste of time.
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:35 PM
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Honestly, if you are doing it for pure just looking good I'd go 4 times a week. Have a solid back day (super underrated for aesthetics) incorporate a lot of rows and vertical pulls, then a chest day standard pressing and flys, arm day, and a shoulder day. I superset my ab work throughout my lifts, be sure to get that in too though. It's super "bro-ey" but it has the best results for what I think you are looking for.
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:32 PM
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As someone whose had this hobby for an insane amount of time, naturally (w/out gear) it will take years and years to get anywhere near the level you're speaking of, and that is compounded with meticulous dieting and training splits. I've worked out almost everyday for 5 years and weighed and tracked a majority of my meals, and I can tell you my body is no where near the level that would be a turn off for girls. It just doesn't happen naturally without drugs.
/r/seduction18/02/19 06:11 AM
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I don't entirely disagree, but I'll usually shoot a "looking forward to seeing you tonight" text. I can gauge interest levels, and see if shes even still down, but I stopped messing with online dating because it was a waste those girls were really lame.
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:08 PM
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As a recently single guy at the start of the new year, I've been on 10-12 dates in the past month and a half man. Maybe 2-3 were from dating apps, and let me tell you they fucking suck. My strongest trait is my personality by far, so meeting them in person always yields better results for me. So go about your life, I hope you have hobbies and shit outside of work and meet people, guys/girls it doesn't matter just talk and converse with people everywhere you go.
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:05 PM
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Man, that shit was on easy mode for you. Np though it happens a lot, simplest move I like to do in a situation where eye contact is made like that is go up extend your hand out and ask to dance. Just go to a club with your boys/girls and have fun. If something like that happens again just walk your ass over and ask her to dance.
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:02 PM
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Is this a restaurant/bar? I've worked in one for a while now, a lot of time these things are off the cuff remarks, you need to be ready for shit like that. Who cares if it was out of the blue, is she attractive? Escalate man.
/r/seduction16/02/19 04:20 PM
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Cut your losses, and get that number up man. In the past year you've been interested in 3 girls? In the past month I've been talking to 10, and narrowed it down to 3 this week. Fuck tinder, go out and meet people you're in college man and its Saturday. Go out with some friends have a good time, see any girls you think are cute go chat with them, but having fun should be your number 1 priority. The other thing I want to mention is 95% of the time it just isn't going to work out with girls. Someti…
/r/seduction16/02/19 04:10 PM
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Eh, girls are so weird about shit like that sometimes. Maybe she was down to bone at first, than got over it. You'll never know, so don't waste your time thinking about it. If you wanna smash you have an opening now to text her and ask her out.
/r/seduction16/02/19 04:04 PM
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Shouldve smashed like two nights ago bro, wtf are you doing? At least get the poor girls number. You left her hanging on a hug? Thats ice cold bro.
/r/seduction16/02/19 04:02 PM
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Or they are the catfish, the amount of cam girls I meet in southern california is ridiculous and they love moving the convo to ig.
/r/seduction16/02/19 04:00 PM
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Yeah what this guy said. I used to be like that, but I was also at the tail end of a failing ltr so I didnt know any better. I get so much better results talking in person, its not even funny. So drop the snap shit, this girl is probably boning some guy who isn't snapping her all day, and go get some numbers its fucking saturday bro.
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:59 PM
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Sometimes best to go with your gut man. Yesterday at the gym same thing happened to me, she was finishing up training a client so it was definitely tough, but I also know I'll see her again. Trying something new at the gym where I build rapport first a couple times then #close.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:56 PM
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Thats good, but I don't know what you mean by getting a full yes. I'm going out with 2 different girls this weekend and one set of female coworkers to club on saturday. Abundance mentality is a real thing mate. And yes, next time get her number don't make it urgent I always wait until I can see the convo start to drift and immediately say something like, "I really enjoyed talking with you, I'd love to grab some coffee and continue this. What was your number?" hands phone to her
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:51 PM
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Glad you're making changes. But, to start try chatting people everywhere you go. Baristas, bank tellers, that old guy at the gym working out next to you. By doing this you will learn nuances of conversation and everyday you should be chatting up strangers.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:45 PM
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Nah, not the worst thing. Sometimes it works out, out of sight out of mind until then. Go out this weekend tho and get some numbers at least.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:41 PM
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Not sure what your friendship is like, but I can say no girl that has been interested has had that reply. I don't know why she would be mad, she sounds like she aint into you.
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:22 PM
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Did you get a number at least bro?
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:12 PM
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Currently a competitive powerlifer, wanted to say you will get much better results running a bro split if muscle is what you are after. Doing a starting strength program is great.. for strength, which does not translate to the muscles I believe you desire. I can't tell you how many times I see a guy pull 405 but weigh 150 lbs with barely any muscle.
/r/seduction14/02/19 04:26 PM
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The first time I realized this I had met a hb7 at a party and hit it off, similar background city school etc. About 30 minutes into the convo I remembered I was meeting another girl for a date and had to mention I was meeting a friend and had to leave. Because it was the first time I had come across a situation like this I'm fairly certain she knew it was a girl, but it worked to my advantage. I 100% agree with /u/Rkingpin I'm so busy with dates/school/work if a girl asks when I'm free and I hav…
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:42 AM
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My kino and tension escalation is definitely getting better with practice, which is leading me to the right direction but not the destination yet. What are some things I should be saying, like explicit things about what I want to do with her? because that I can definitely implement better.
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:46 PM
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Agreed, my confidence has really reached a new level after getting out of a ltr, and having just an insane abunance of girls around. But im not one to turn down tips, feel free tos hoot away man.
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:39 PM
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I actually am planning on going to a different location to try it out next week, I'll lyk how it goes lmao. My theory is with enough muscle it shouldn't matter, that becomes your like social proof, or whatever the right term is/
/r/seduction12/02/19 04:34 PM
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Hey, so I'm out of a ltr as of a month ago and back in the game. I've been crushing my approach and getting numbers/dates. Been on 8ish dates in the last 2 weeks but I'm having a problem fclosing. I usually wait til the end and we have a handsy makeout sesh but can't seem to escalate past that. Do you have any advice?
/r/seduction12/02/19 04:23 PM
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To be fair I've been going to the same commericial gym for 5 years, so I'm incredibly comfortable there. Had the same experience as /u/dani098 If it's someone I haven't seen before I'll make a comment about their lift, "hey that was a really impressive squat, any plans on competing?" This works because I'm a powerlifter and am genuinely curious. An average gym goer with minimal muscle would not elicit the same response from the girl because it would come off like hes just trying to fuck, which I…
/r/seduction12/02/19 04:19 PM
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Gotcha, yeah thats good. When you were talking about approach counts I figured you were just getting into it.
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:23 PM
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I sort of disagree. I agree with the fact that getting that number thing out of your head is important. Think of it more like, I'm gonna try and meet some new people today, and not quantify it. Save intentions for when you actually go out with them. That isn't to say you shouldn't exude some sex appeal, but women are keen to picking up what you're doing. Walk up with confidence, strike a conversation if you and her are enjoying it, get a number. If not no big deal. That's how I've been going abo…
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:04 PM
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If I was in your position, I'd be her friend for now man. She is going through a really rough time. Don't want to add more stress in her life. She may resent you for that. Keep doing you if something happens down the line cool if not no sweat off your back.
/r/seduction09/02/19 04:42 PM
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Dude, I know a fuck ton of girls like this. It is nothing weird at all especially if you're from southern california. They just like the disney image and culture bs.
/r/seduction07/02/19 07:12 AM
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Seriously? Then stop wasting people's time. Nothing in life is going to fall into your god damn lap, wtf do you expect? People who are successful in any avenue in life had to put in hard fucking work, including this. No girl is going to find you attractive with that shit mind set.
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:31 PM
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I don't know how you managed to strictly extrapolate what you wanted from my reply. So, I'm only going to say it once more. Fix yourself, go read some self help books, find your inner confidence and realize girls don't give any value to your life, you do.
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:05 PM
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No, you said it because you felt like you can't get a girl like that. You literally said "I can't get a girl like her." You need to work on your self bro before you drag some girl into this shit show.
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:01 PM
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Seriously, he's on another level.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:06 PM
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"I can't get a girl like her" That alone says more to me about you than anything else you typed here.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:06 PM
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Was gonna say just cut your hair you arent like sub 5, but with this attitude in your replies you're like a 2 dude. Fix that shit.
/r/seduction05/02/19 02:28 PM
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This sounds like the best advice. After getting out of a ltr, and after a couple months of self reflection and "inner game" building, tinder aided in my confidence. Now, I'm getting numbers a fuck ton more in public. I feel like it taught me how to not care about rejection and I used that in the real world.
/r/seduction05/02/19 02:25 PM
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