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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
30	How to handle waiting to have sex?	Question For Men	oceaneyesbillie	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 04:57 AM

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2	How to handle waiting to have sex? So you're saying he was just as nervous and vulnerable about having sex? So leading with my vulnerability instead of being confident, will give him an "in" to not have to be "on" all the time?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 01:12 PM
1	How to handle waiting to have sex? I would have paid on the 3rd date, but he just got up and paid the bill. Next time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 01:09 PM
2	How to handle waiting to have sex? I kissed him first, pretty sure that showed him I was attracted. But maybe it just gave an impression that I'm confident and do this a lot. I've kissed two people, watch out. Anyway, good to know moving forward about working my way up to being ready for sex. I get it, your looking for psychical signs of interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 01:07 PM
2	How to handle waiting to have sex? No there was definitely connection. Chemistry, felt comfortable with him, liked what. knew about him. I just wish he'd asked me a bit more about myself, made me unsure how interested he was in me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 12:59 PM
6	How to handle waiting to have sex? He asked did I want to go back to his and I got awkward. It wasn't on purpose. I can be confident on dates, but I also don't have much experience. Also, I didn't know if he was going to make a thing of me being a virgin. Next time I'll just communicate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 12:41 PM
6	How to handle waiting to have sex? Thank you, kind sir.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:45 AM
1	How to handle waiting to have sex? I didn't feel ready for blow jobs, maybe a hand job but from what I've read, men don't seem to love them because no one can get them off better than they can. But I guess they're better than nothing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:37 AM
1	How to handle waiting to have sex? I wasn't looking to be his friend either. I don't makeup out with my friends..	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 08:33 AM
2	How to handle waiting to have sex? Australia	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 07:05 AM
5	How to handle waiting to have sex? Thank you. I also thought about it from his perspective, that maybe he felt like I was stringing him along for free food. But damn, I'm not that desperate. I have more self worth than making our with random guys for freebies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 07:02 AM
3	How to handle waiting to have sex? Thanks u/RunsWlthScissors I also wish you luck, sounds like it could get pretty dicey up in there. Safety first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 06:58 AM
9	How to handle waiting to have sex? oh, I see you updated your response. Thank you for honesty. Your daughter is lucky to have you. I have to say, I didn't quite understand: do the first, not the second? If I was sending mixed signals, playing games, stuff like that? Because I have a friend who's not a virgin, but wanting a relationship and things also fizzle after 2-3 dates if she hasn't had sex. But she mentions she's wanting something more/a relationship, so it's not like she's playing hard to get or something. Just setting a b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 06:55 AM
2	How to handle waiting to have sex? I get that. But we'd gone on a couple dates, I wasn't expecting exclusivity. I get losing interest if it's going how you want it to, but I also can't cross my boundaries. It's that polarity difference of men tend to open after sex (but not always) and women tend to be more open to sex when there's connection. Which I didn't feel like I had, so it was a no. I get where you're coming from, but I also know where I'm coming from. And I could go to bed with a lot of guys, wanting a relationship, to o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 06:25 AM
3	How to handle waiting to have sex? No, that was an example of him shutting down a conversation that wasn't light. There were others time we were talking and I mentioned something that had it been reversed, I would have asked him more about. A getting to know you question of sorts. 'What happened? What was that like? What kind of writing are you into?' and he wasn't going deeper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 06:10 AM
13	How to handle waiting to have sex? I could have been more honest and told him I was a virgin, but I wasn't doing that to play games, just got a bit shy. Because in reality, I could have shared that and he still could have ghosted. I do feel it's a numbers game of dates and people meeting and standing in your boundaries of what you do want. Thanks for the older brother advice, appreciate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 06:04 AM
4	How to handle waiting to have sex? Thanks, going to honest about where I'm coming from next time. You live and you learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 05:59 AM
6	How to handle waiting to have sex? I do want a relationship and I had asked him what he wanted and he said relationship. But people can say things and not mean them or they can want relationships, but not with you. I feel it was too soon to ask him that though, I don't think he knew enough to invest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 05:58 AM
14	How to handle waiting to have sex? I totally get that. I wasn't trying to make sex a game or something to be earned though. I was seeking a genuine connection, and because of that, I didn't feel quite ready for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 05:55 AM
5	How to handle waiting to have sex? Yes, I probably should have kept his interest in others ways but tbh I'm still getting a handle on dating. Also, sexting could then give the impression the next time you meet, it's on. I didn't want to five the wrong impression, if I wasn't already there. But it is smart to bring up sex before you're having it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 05:53 AM
4	How to handle waiting to have sex? I think just being a bit older and because we live in a sex positive society, not having had sex is like 'odd one out'. Like, I don't want them to make a thing of it. 'Why haven't you had sex?' I think it feels a bit vulnerable to tell someone you're a virgin and had our conversation been a dit deeper, I think it would have felt easier to share. Thank you, next time I'll communicate better	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/21 05:27 AM
2	Send your text and forget about it This is good. Texted a guy recently, got a bit of a vulnerability hangover and then was like stuff it, I did what was best for me. And then gave him the choice to do the same.	/r/seduction	29/05/21 03:16 PM