oceanstwelve Archive

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2	my post about not listening to women's advice was removed most smart women agree themselves that sometimes they dont know why they do something or what they want. but the "toxic" feminism everywhere these days will just shoot anyone at sight for even a whiff of potential anti-feminist sentiments. welcome to reddit	/r/seduction	19/01/22 01:13 PM
1	What, exactly, is a double texting? just use common sense. any form of double texting (whether the response did not come for whatever reason, or the conversation died out) is BAD! you can however take your chances, 1 more time at best. if you genuinely feel effort from inside that a conversation has to be forced. RUN. she is NOT INTERESTED. if she was. she would either give a genuine reason herself . or continue talking till you actually get bored!! . girls LOVE to talk/chat. if you dont feel like continue conversation now. end it…	/r/seduction	16/01/22 09:43 PM
-1	All The Reasons Women Have Sex haha thats an interesting take on sapiosexuality. anyone who knows what it means would like to assume they are too. i personally am not. i want to be the smarter one :P but that being said. ive been regarded intelligent all my life (school college work) and girls definitely are drawn to that.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 12:31 AM
9	All The Reasons Women Have Sex also because she is emotionally attached/attractred/hooked to you (demisexuality)	/r/seduction	15/01/22 09:16 PM
2	Texting between dates - Need honest opinions on what you do, and advice on my current situation you pretty much nailed it. we are human after all . and as guys we will be tempted to text a super lot with the girl we're into. we'll just forget that its detrimental because the girll have a lot more options due to sheer disparity. (i live in a place where tinder ratio is at least 1:1000 guy girl, if i get a match and start a texting game with her, she will not bother one bit. she has too much in front of her). so its a safe and compact advice to give. DONT TEXT. as a veteran you can very well…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 03:12 PM
0	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? True. Be yourself is downright stupid when it comes to Seduction. You might be as busy as Elon musk but you might have a week off and the more you engage with a girl she might think you have nothing better to do in life. Being yourself is just a concept which has arisen because men started being deceitful and thus hurt women, which is not cool. You can and definitely should be yourself once that girl becomes a part your life and starts being into you etc. But before that its a big nope. It is ki…	/r/seduction	07/01/22 10:37 AM
24	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? just want to add a perspective. this is about seduction. which is mostly about attracting women and so sometimes that can involve harmless inauthenticity. as a woman can get turned off from instant text replies. in cases you might be a great guy otherwise but currently unemployed maybe. in an ideal world. a woman genuinely into you will leave everything(the games) and take genuine interest in you no matter what. e.g. while u sit on a couch playing video games. but there is no seduction there. it…	/r/seduction	06/01/22 10:31 PM
14	How quickly do yall reply to texts/messages? you seem to be on right path. replying instantly can show you have nothing better to do. it is a turn off even if some girl is genuinely interested. i was recently talking to a girl who was crazy about this guy but she kept telling(in a turned off way) this guy is available 24x7. i just text himand his response is instant. always ready to talk and text. its a major turn off for them. women want guys who are UPTO SOMETHING in their life	/r/seduction	06/01/22 07:04 PM
1	[deleted by user] dont assume details about her. e.g. what she said to someone about she liking to text or not. a girl usually has lot of texts to bother with compared to a guy. CALL!! thats direct 1on1 engagement. and ask her out . simple. and for the sake of examples. yes this girl could be bad at texting (or responding) but can still be interested in you. but you find out by CALLING. if you seem to be vibing. pull her from a group and ask her out liek that too.	/r/seduction	06/01/22 07:01 PM
3	Texting between dates - Need honest opinions on what you do, and advice on my current situation i will be honest i didnt go into the specific girl situations. as for texting: there is no black and white answer. what the point is that you avoid engagement and conversations in text to keep your mystery alive. your goal is hook up and/or relationship right?? if you are an open book on text. why would a girl bother?? so texts should be minimal . 3-4 back and forth. full of flirting humor and setting up dates. but dont start talking on texts once you finally connect with someone and the "dating…	/r/seduction	06/01/22 06:57 PM
1	Date keeps bringing her friend I want to have date with just you (or any variation combined with flirting), is not NEEDY. its your genuine desire for her. she bringing a friend along is not cool. but oh well. she is just confused or messing with u. you set your intention straight. 2-3 times uve met her already so ur even more entitled to desire her. and she needs to respect that now by coming alone or respectfully declining you and moving on. be assertive. be direct. do it with politeness: "hey , it was amazing to get to know…	/r/seduction	06/01/22 06:48 PM
9	Is there a reset button tough times :) . your post is very generic. but long story short. KEEP your intentions of being romantic clear from day 1 . thats it. after that a girl who is interested will not let you go . by day 1 its not literally day1. its the initial phase. so in case of a slower connection. getting to know each other back and forth for 3-5 days. u have to start flirting asap and then make your move. after that its upto the girl . and you move on . simple the more time you "waste". the more you get friend…	/r/seduction	06/01/22 01:18 PM
6	Girl with holding sex? it could be anything. you however learn from each situation. she is not ready first time. you accept humbly. she is not ready 2nd time. you accept humbly but express you not liking it. (Again like a gentleman) 3rd time you say : would you like to talk about it? remember sex is normal from both sides. you cant make it into a thing that she is "giving" it to you . (there can be situations where guys are not "ready") so if its something genuine but she is doing everything else. you get her out of i…	/r/seduction	04/01/22 03:20 PM
1	Dealing with flakes am I the problem? i dont know what crazy videos you are watching which say that you need women for your life to change. you are way off. im also at home right now (half the world is). you can enrich and change your life by as simple as reading stuff. almost any decent girl when realising that you read will start talking to you about what books you read and what youve read previously. play video games? the sheer amount of choice you have in games gurantees a lot of them will fit your personality. casual as candy c…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 04:59 PM
9	Whenever I meet a new girl I always gravitate towards deeper topics, consequently I come off as less playful/fun, any advice? observe funny people more. watch talk shows. talk show hosts are good at this. they interview celebrities and the purpose is to ask serious questions, about their life and the movies etc. but they add humor to it effortlessly. keep watching them. its entertainment already and you will learn. (conan, craig, leno, kimmel , fallon)	/r/seduction	02/01/22 03:12 PM
3	Dealing with flakes am I the problem? i think you have answered yourself mostly in your post. your looks arent primary. but since you have worked on them . they are definitely a bonus. but if you cant seem to get past a particular "stage" . you definitely are boring (thats not you , thats the current you). to change that, invest in yourself. be the guy a girl would forget her life and important things about. its easier than it sounds. in 1 line it can be simple as HAVING A LIFE. something you would be obssessively doing and aiming f…	/r/seduction	02/01/22 03:10 PM
2	Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”? tall guys also she doesn't find you attractive. Also this is the only one incident I've shared with you, you can't even imagine how bad i feel that i get rejected and not having any female fri if she didnt find you attractive. i can pretty much guarantee its not your height. but then again, i know how this feels so it can be pretty hard to convince otherwise from a reddit comment. that being said. every girl has a "preference". every guy has one too. i always prefer long hair girls. but a should…	/r/seduction	20/12/21 05:40 PM
1	Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”? who said you are ugly though?	/r/seduction	20/12/21 04:58 PM
2	What makes a Girl thinks she is better than me? And how to avoid it? (Game) any girl/woman who is not shallow may behave initially in WHATEVER way due to whatever circumstances, environment or your approach/behavior. BUT will NEVER think she is better than someone else.	/r/seduction	20/12/21 02:30 PM
35	Shooting your shot at someone “out of your league”? others have put it excellently. there are no leagues!! ask yourself: how is she out of your league? is she hot? (and you think youre not), then > how do you know she is interested in hot partners only?/ how do you know youre not hot for her? does she carry her physical trait turn ons on a signboard in her neck? how do you know she will not be turned on by your intellect? personality? your voice? your height maybe? your comic timing? (men are visual creatures, women primarily are not) how do you …	/r/seduction	20/12/21 12:42 AM
2	Are women the most driving life force (for you) ? you have written excellently. its the truth. however thats the catch 22. you have to prove to the universe that you can be emotional dependent and then you dont have to be. (because it sends someone for you).	/r/seduction	20/12/21 12:24 AM
4	Going out as friends, should I? give some more information. is this first date? 2nd ? 3rd? do you want to friendzone yourself if worst comes to worst? if you think you did not have good opportunity yet to make your moves/ declare your attraction to her. then go out with her once. if you fail (which can be because of any number of reasons you can look into later), just declare that you dont wanna be just friends with her and move on. that will be best for BOTH of you DONT keep friend-dating and hope something to change one day,…	/r/seduction	11/12/21 06:54 PM
1	Fuck the game if you understood the game you wouldnt react this way. you would make the exact same post expressing dissapointment . but not RAGE. (speaking from experience, have been in worse phase than you)	/r/seduction	08/12/21 04:59 PM
1	How do I actually know if this girl likes me? whether she is attracted to you or not is in her HEAD right now. you either work on getting her attracted to you or you are friendzoning yourself. simple another guy or 100 other guys and whether she accurately mention how long she knows them for, dont factor in this. if more "hints" keep happening. you make your move (whatever your game is, flirting or being down right honest etc. whatever). or continue being her FRIEND if you are into that. or walk away. DONT THINK	/r/seduction	07/12/21 07:09 PM
3	I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through texting Im sorry to hear that. I am not kidding though that you have to change your mindset. All these girls who are ghosting you (especially on whims). They are not worth it. Since you have clearly written that it damages your self esteem. It shouldn't. and that's why right now you are getting such girls as its kind of a self fulfilling prohpecy. I am not preaching anything, I speak from experience. And it was hard but once I finally started to let go even before I initiated texting, I started meeting …	/r/seduction	06/12/21 07:20 PM
3	[India] my therapist just told me that cold approaches don't work in this society vicious cycle. only fueled by lack of education(behavioural) and mass quantity of jerks :(	/r/seduction	29/11/21 11:02 PM
11	[India] my therapist just told me that cold approaches don't work in this society fellow indian guy here. yeah that was stupid lol. it would have been a crazy story if it worked. annyway many fellow redditors have given good comments on the matter. but yeah bottom line. cold approaches are nigh impossible in india. unless there is some genuine eye contact. or you and a girl have seen each other a couple of times in the same public space. inner game works superb in india though. just having a presence of a guy that a girl would be genuinely interested in. and then making a neu…	/r/seduction	29/11/21 03:14 PM
1	How should I dance at clubs/parties to have that ‘confident’ vibe? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5nEzCv5u1O8	/r/seduction	21/11/21 09:51 PM