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| 48 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ? | Question For Women | odeacon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:11 AM |
| 19 | Why does it seem like many feminists celebrate the death of relationships? | Question for BluePill | odeacon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 12:04 PM |
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| 1 | Is "Male-Dominated" a Misandrist Term?No because it is a real thing. Some things are make dominated and some are female dominated | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/08/24 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Subsidy to all female students by charity, a gender discrimination?That is pretty clear cut discrimination | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/07/24 02:36 PM |
| 6 | What are people's opinions on TERFs and trans rights in general?It shouldn’t step on protections that were definitively raised for separation of biological sex | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/24 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Two X users propose eugenics and conversion therapy in their quest for gender equalityYes. Women have never lied before ever in history. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/07/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid becoming an incel?Don’t talk to women online to much. They’re way nicer in person I’ve noticed | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/24 09:31 PM |
| 14 | Women's Groups in Italy demand men to 'stay silent' about Domestic Abuse. They perceive helping these men as an "attack on women."Ok so feminism is just misandry I guess | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/24 08:34 AM |
| 7 | When it comes to men making women comfortable, there is never really a win for men.Yeah it’s just not worth putting much effort into | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/06/24 03:56 PM |
| 2 | According to some surveys, it's not most women who pick the bear instead of the man, but a vocal minority.😅 that actually makes me feel so much Better . Thank you | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/05/24 10:45 PM |
| 3 | How do you combat the stats of men vastly outnumbering women in nearly all crime?It is true though . Those stats aren’t made up. Yes some places don’t count women raping men as rape by definition, but it’s still more or less fairly accurate unfortunately | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Sex-selective IVF apparently favors girls in the USNo way?! What surprise this is | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/05/24 08:59 PM |
| 2 | This Woman Hits The Target About The Bear vs Man SituationShe is speaking the language of god | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/05/24 01:21 AM |
| -3 | I'm tired of being viewed as a weaponI’d much rather be viewed as a potential warrior for a good cause than a threat. Which is how a lot of women see men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/24 11:35 AM |
| 7 | What is the best way to respond to misandry?Just repeat the statement but switching men with women and vice versa | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/24 10:58 AM |
| 11 | Men don't need to open up more; society needs to be more perceptive.No society just needs to be more accepting when we open up. Then we might start doing so | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/04/24 10:47 AM |
| 8 | ‘We have a crisis of male violence’: Attorney-General says men must step up (collective punishment and responsibility)The attorney general should be the first to suffer from the collective punishment then | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Men age better than Women. Fact or Societal standards/expectations?Both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 10:55 AM |
| -1 | Mind over body is the solution to men's issues (and civilization in general)You lost me at “ men are naturally evil oriented “ yeah I’m not reading the rest . This is misandry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Provocative question - Would you consider the Pride Flag to be a feminist symbol?The pride flag is for a completely different community | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/24 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Is that hate and dismissal that Red Pill movements and Jordan Peterson get justified?Spot on | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/24 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Is that hate and dismissal that Red Pill movements and Jordan Peterson get justified?Yes. Definitely yes. They do get a few things right but they’re mostly just women hating assholes | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/24 11:38 AM |
| 19 | Why don't men protest more?Because you’ll get doxxed and fired | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/24 09:22 PM |
| 2 | 30 yr old, single women in mediocre jobs, shouldn't expect more than average.Heard from who though ? Can you provide some examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketI agree many women do this , but I don’t think it has anything to do with feminism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Redpilled men and virgin women will be incompatible with each otherExactly. Redpill men want to sleep around with women who don’t sleep around , because if they do then they’re “ sluts” . What do they expect ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?Exactly! Could I get a girl at a club quicker than I could at my local café? Yes. But do I want a hot clubbing girl , or do I want that cute nerdy girl with the glasses and mysterious facial scar , reading a book at the cafe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?I don’t want a club going lady. I want a cafe , library , bookstore, or hobby shop going lady . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Women raising their standards beyond what’s reachable while simultaneously pretending it’s lower then ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:34 AM |
| 1 | The primitive narrative was women searching for love and men looking for sex , and men are to blame for accepting the reputation that comes with itI haven’t accepted that reputation! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Men Shouldn't commit anything significant to women or minimize commitment to womenBut Trump hasn’t been proven guilty of rape though , so what are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/24 12:23 AM |
| 1 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Im a little bit sheltered so keep that in mind . But “ she’s for the streets “ is less about her body count exactly, and more about her relationship fitness . It doesn’t matter if she’s slept with 1000 men or zero . If she’s hot but a vain, self important asshole, then she’s for the streets. As the only way for her to make a man happy in anyway is to be used for quick sex and to discard . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 10:50 PM |
| 4 | Which words and phrases are some examples of hate speech or misandry against men?“ I hate men” | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Men, if you made $1M a year, would you want a bang maid or a 50/50 relationship?Assuming she’d be happy with both , I’d prefer the former . But please don’t call stay at home moms “ bang maids “ . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Good thing to talk about. I’d love to talk about my job on a date and show her pictures of my favorite dogs there. If you asked this question assuming it would be about money, that’s not the case 80% of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather have a high value person of the opposite sex tell you that they like you but don’t want physical intimacy with you, or would you rather have sex with a high value person of the opposite sex who obviously doesn’t like you?What does “ high value “ mean . Cuz high value to most guys and high value to me are very different . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedI do. Sometimes I’ll talk to a physically unattractive woman because of something we have in common ( reading the same author , playing dnd together , walking into the same seminar , etc ) and I’ll start being won over by their personality and kick myself that night for not asking for her number | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What is happening to men? I am concernedBut it certainly was though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:22 AM |
| 1 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADShe’s not always like that . She’s usually quite nice and has a very balanced moderate adjacent take to things . But sometimes she gets in a mood . She’s still nice though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:04 AM |
| 12 | Do men see women as objects?Some do unfortunately. But the vast majority of men don’t. You can be sexually attracted to a woman and not see her as an object | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/03/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | So much of dating is right time/right place - and no, this doesn’t exactly mean what you think this isWait so that natural? Weight lifting does that for everyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | So much of dating is right time/right place - and no, this doesn’t exactly mean what you think this isIt’s only fun to have a high sex drive if you have someone to help satiate it . Otherwise it kind of sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Why does it seem like many feminists celebrate the death of relationships?Wow that’s horrifying. Thank you for bringing this to my attention I had no idea that this happened here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem like many feminists celebrate the death of relationships?Source? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 02:45 PM |
| 5 | Why does it seem like many feminists celebrate the death of relationships?The posts were more along the lines of celebrating women swearing off of relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like many feminists celebrate the death of relationships?Not in America though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 11:53 AM |
| 6 | “Why don’t men build their own resources?”If they have the “ it’s not our job to help you “ mindset , why do they expect men to care about their issues ? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/24 04:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m posting this on behalf of an anonymous woman. Would you actually be willing to hear a woman out? Hi, I'm a woman who is hurt by the misogynistic rhetoric that is posted here. I'd like to share my experience as a woman. 1st off, one of the most important lessons I ever learned was that anger is a secondary emotion. Anger stems from pain and hurt. I'd like to just say my peace, I hope it resonates with some of you. Both sexes have it hard. Full stop. I acknowledge that men have unrealistic and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you bring to the table?What about companionship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, what do you bring to the table?I believe it was asked because it’s something women ask about to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever gotten the ick from a woman being too into you?Litterally all three points are shining green flags . It shows that I’m not just a stand in till a better option arises . She is actually serious about me . And I’m much more likely to be serious about her if that’s the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Ever gotten the ick from a woman being too into you?Never , like litteraly never , the slightest bit , at all . That’s like getting offended for someone giving you all there money levels of not gonna fucking happen . Now does that mean I’m always going to be attracted to someone who is into me? Of course not . But I’m going to see them as more attractive if they’re attracted to me . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:55 PM |
| 9 | What is wrong with being nice to have sex?I agree with it’s wrong to fake emotional connection for sex. But being nice with the intent to have sex doesn’t necessarily require that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youNot the same way. And they can offer understanding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youA good women offers comfort and support | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do some smart men like to be dominated?What would being smart have to do with if I want a women to take control of me and pleasure me while I get to relax and let it happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 12:13 PM |
| 3 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youHow do I show it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:45 AM |
| 1 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youAny advice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:58 AM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?No , she can’t be fucking other guys while in a relationship with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 01:52 AM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?Well that’s your taste , This is mine . But I don’t understand how desiring a date with you could be seen as an insult . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 11:15 PM |
| 6 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youBut I’m not even sure how to approach. I’m really attracted to girls who read , but then I don’t want to interrupt their reading | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 10:30 PM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?I like being desired romantically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 10:15 PM |
| 8 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youHow old are you though ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 09:21 PM |
| 6 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youLack of objective as doesn’t mean there can’t be a widely accepted consensus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 07:35 PM |
| 99 | The Blue Pill didn't lie to youThis worked in the older generation. Yeah People 45 and older were able to get a nice partner by being a baseline decent person who looks after themselves well, before the gender wars started . The dating market is different for youngsters , and different in almost exclusively bad ways . More guys are just looking for sex, and women won’t believe you if you say you aren’t . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 07:33 PM |
| – | Is the default world view blue pill or purple pill?Purple pill is the default world view , blue pill is the default western media worldview | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Why are men encouraging women to settle for men they aren’t attracted to when they know that women aren’t going to pour into a man she doesn’t like ?It’s more we’re encouraging women to care more about personality and character and to be less shallow . Because that’s what they tell us to do , and we want them to practice what they preach . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 07:04 PM |
| 2 | What would it take to change your mind?A switch in focus from blame , to solution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 06:22 PM |
| – | Should Western Countries Encourage Mail Order Brides?No cuz sex trafficking ………. Is bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 06:17 PM |
| – | When it comes to romantic, or frankly any kind of relationship, love must be conditional.Aside from parent and child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:35 PM |
| – | The narrative that women can have sex whenever they want is wrong and detrimental to women's mental healthWomen say this all the time though! They say they can get laid super easily, they just can’t find someone worth laying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:34 PM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?That’s seems like a very negative way to look at this situation where a woman says she wants to be with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:32 PM |
| – | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?It makes me see her in a more positive light | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 12:31 PM |
| – | Toxic masculinity is the attempt of men to copy high value men in term of behaviours and nothing more .Though you would have known that already if you spent more time asking her what her beliefs are rather then filling in the holes yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:07 PM |
| – | Toxic masculinity is the attempt of men to copy high value men in term of behaviours and nothing more .I can vouch for her here. She absolutely believes in toxic femininity and got banned from ask women no censor ( even though they censor ) for speaking out about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:06 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou do realize that by saying that saying, you are still comparing her to swine right. That’s like the whole point of the saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNever heard of KAM? Ever heard of the draft ? not saying the scale or nature is anywhere near the same . Obviously women have it far worse in this situation. Anyway, she’s on your side, maybe lay off of her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that most guys think they would do better in dating if they were bringing in all the money?I can’t speak for all guys, but I don’t think this is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Most of what gives women the "Ick" is just what got you called "Gay" by dude brosActually facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Is redpill just embracing what feminist say about men?Yeah that’s seems a pretty good summary actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Why would I care what complete randos think ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?It may apply to some women but is much more often applicable to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?And many women are socialized the same way, especially in less progressive societies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I’m gonna have to insist it is . You don’t hear all these stories of men turning away when there partner shows vulnerability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I think most men want to be vulnerable to the right Person. Someone that won’t lose respect for them . Someone who will listen and care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?It’s not about how many. I just want a partner who will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?No, because once again, I ask you to acknowledge how I am not saying all women or even most women do this. Just that’s there’s quite a few who do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?A listening ear would be great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Then it shouldn’t be used as an insult then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?But it’s weird you’ve never heard of it given how common it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Really? You’ve never heard of this phenomenon ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 11:31 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Women losing interest in men as soon as they’re vulnerable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?We want her to respond in any way other then losing all respect and attraction for us and leaving of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Are you not from the west? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?So you know that it happens, and can assume guy’s know that it happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:12 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I know plenty of women though . My bff is a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:03 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?You need to talk to more men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Men don’t lose respect for women being vulnerable in the same way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 09:57 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Even if you haven’t experienced it first hand you must’ve heard of it. Even if it miraculously never happened to someone your close with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I just don’t want her to lose respect for me when I show my vulnerability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?So this is your first time hearing about how some women lose interest when a man shows he’s vulnerable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?A lot of these men have been burned before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I think there’s still a good amount of quality women out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Like against her will ? No. I don’t blame women for being sexually assaulted wtf? Also what is black pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?What are you looking for then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Is having trauma but wanting to talk it out with your partner so you can get through it together abusive ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Hard to tell. But the one driving a otherwise calm and controlled man to the point of lashing out certainly bares some of the blame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 03:04 AM |
| -1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Yes . But some respect as to why we are hesitant about it would be appreciated . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?That’s fine . Then don’t ask. I’m not going to pour my trauma out on someone without there enthusiastic consent . But if they show me that consent , they’re fully responsible for how they react to it . And if they react like harpies , they’re harpies . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:57 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?We aren’t pretending to be someone else. We just aren’t pouring our Trauma out to everyone we meet as our introduction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:55 AM |
| 6 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?That’s obviously not true . What you just described is abusive as shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Bro I’m not trying to date anyone who does that . They do pull that shot and I’m out of there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Ding ding ding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?It’s less they don’t want to open up about traumatic events, and more they don’t want to be laughed at humiliated , and left by there partner when they do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Like someone else said , if your partner still has there exes nudes , it’s reasonable to ask them to delete them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:48 AM |
| 11 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Or sometimes they find we aren’t all as joyous and “ it is what it is “ all the time . But they’re the ones asking for this level of honesty. So why would they ask if they won’t be able to accept it . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:47 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?That just isn’t something you have to accept in life . Break that shit off and don’t give them another chance if they treat you that badly . You deserve to be happy and loved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Bro who are you dating if your partner intentionally opening up the wounds in your mental health is something you’ve just grown to see as a fact of life . Who did this to you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Well yeah someone’s deepest darkest fears aren’t exactly fun and exciting. Especially if they’re rooted in trauma . Not sure what you were expecting. And women will often ask men to be vulnerable and complain when they don’t . If you aren’t willing to see the darkness , then don’t ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Would you really be able to just shrug it off of your partner was using your insecurities against you ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Of course not . But the more reasonable ones should be accommodated , and even the weird ones should be handled delicately rather then mocked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?No In general. Not by her . She made him feel appreciated. That declaration of feelings was to much to soon for her so she dipped | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:35 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Which results in …….. insecurity! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?No. Not at all. Actually I fantasize romantically about quite the opposite but that’s neither here nor their | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?But if your getting them to the point where they’re lashing out , you’ve probably already made a half dozen bad decisions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:30 AM |
| 6 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Genuinely though , please use that instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I wasn’t cheated on but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:29 AM |
| 7 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?So if he isn’t trying to use his insecurity to control someone, using it as an insult is wrong and shouldn’t be tolerated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?It’s not controlling if he’s trying to get over it and isn’t asking you to change your behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Yeah so we agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?That is a very fair response, I don’t see what we’re arguing about now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:25 AM |
| 6 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Yes he’s somewhat clingy. She still was a piece of crap about it though . And I don’t want to experience what he did . So I’m hesitant to open up completely about my insecurities and how intense my feelings might be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:23 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?No. My brother is very very far left | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:22 AM |
| 9 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?That’s not my understanding of insecure. I’m insecure about being forgotten. So when someone who I care about forgets about me I take it very very hard and I can trace that response back to 6th grade when my mom was 6 hours late for picking me up from chess club and nobody in my family noticed I was missing until dinner was almost over . We have dinner together as a family btw. There’s nothing bigoted about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:20 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Like if she opens up about a traumatic event and I know her enough to know that she’s comforted by putting a arm around her and pulling her in , I’d do that . If I don’t know her enough , I’d just try and see what I can do to aloe her feel better even if I’m not experienced enough to know how to do so effectively. I wouldn’t know her love language so I’d just start guessing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?That should never be done in the tone of an insult . There’s a difference between “ hey I feel like I may have struck a nerve , I didn’t mean to make you feel this way . Is there something going on you want to talk to me about “ and “ looks like someone’s insecure about ___ lol” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:14 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?There’s insecurity and then there using the insecurity to control people . If you feel uncomfortable about your wife having male friends , but are trying to get over it , that’s a innocent insecurity. Demanding that she cut off her male friends , that’s using the insecurity to control her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:11 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?So the difference is being insecure vs feeing insecure ? That’s not how I see it . If you feel insecure about her having a male friend, that’s an insecurity. If he demands you leave all your male friends, that’s him trying to use his insecurity to control you . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?And you certainly shouldn’t laugh. Especially if they explain that they feel insecure about it because they have a history of being cheated on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?You don’t have to change your behavior for there insecurities, but you should be gentle with them. If they’re insecure about you wearing revealing clothing while on your night out without them , you don’t have to change , but you should them them that your loyal to them and that you’d never cheat on them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:05 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Ok let me spell it out for you . If you laugh at someone for being insecure about something, it signals to the guys around you that you think other peoples insecurities are funny and that you will respect them less for having them . So if your going to respect them less for having insecurities, they’re not going to tell you about there insecurities. Got it ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:03 AM |
| 12 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?As in my big brother told his first girlfriend that he often feels unappreciated and unneeded and it just so happens that she dumped him less then a week after . Everything was going great up until then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:00 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?No because nobody wants to out themselves as a harpy . They presumably know that what they did was wrong . But it wasn’t a conscious decision | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:58 AM |
| 12 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Insecure is to have insecurities. That’s not a behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:53 AM |
| 13 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?But you’ve also heard women use “ Insecure “ as a insult . I can’t be expected to believe you if you say you’ve never heard or read that . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I am . Opening up is a sign of trust . Now will I know her well enough to provide her comfort properly? Probably not , but I’d try my best . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:50 AM |
| 11 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I know two friends and one bigger brother who had their partners lose interest in them after they showed there vulnerable side . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?If this was female nature I wouldn’t be able to interact with half the human population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:46 AM |
| 6 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?“ I never met a women who leaves after “ it’s not always as easy to see as them just immediately getting up and leaving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?I gotta disagree. I’d have every reason to take that personally . If they can’t be mindful of how using someone’s insecurities As a verbal weapon might effect them , they aren’t someone I’d want to date, and I really can’t see me forgiving them from that. And I’d advise others to not put up with that either . Maybe my standards are to high , but I’d rather be single then with someone like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?It’s all about tone and context. “ hey I think this may be a insecurity of yours , and it’s clouding your perception of the reality of the situation “ and “ your insecurity is showing lmao 🤣 “ are to very different things . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:39 AM |
| 12 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Yeah but if they lose all respect and attraction for him , that’s just as bad as leaving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Meaning ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Yeah but telling them and expecting some accommodations for it and using it to control someone is completely different . You should be accommodating to your partner’s emotional needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:35 AM |
| 8 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?But I feel like if you make those deep jabs against someone, it doesn’t matter if that’s an attack on their masculinity or if that’s just how they argue . That’s no way to treat a partner and they should be ashamed of themselves if they do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Yeah . I think less then half of women would lose respect for a man when they show vulnerability. But a great deal more then half of women seem completely ignorant about how some women have responded to them being vulnerable. Or don’t recognize when a women uses “ insecure “ as an insult . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:31 AM |
| 24 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?You really never heard a women use “ insecure “ as an insult before? I find that difficult to believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:27 AM |
| 6 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Most women as in more then 50% percent don’t do this . It’s certainly not rare , and I haven’t met a guy who this hasn’t happened to or they don’t personally know someone who this happened to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?That sounds , quite frankly , unhinged . What’s the purpose of a emotional relationship if you can’t even tell them about your insecurities, and if you aren’t willing to accommodate theirs ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 01:24 AM |
| 3 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBro what video games ? Do you think dnd is a video game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the current dating problems contribute largely to the mental health crisis seen in young adults?I can’t see how they wouldn’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 08:01 PM |
| 3 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou also seem to have inflated self image yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Does it annoy anybody else how those speaking up for male issues are often really conservative?I was saying more so that it seems to many boys and young men that the only side that actually cares about there issues is the right , so they’ll eat up whatever shit they feed them, because the left won’t feed them anything | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/24 06:54 PM |
| 11 | Does it annoy anybody else how those speaking up for male issues are often really conservative?It explains why young men are turning to the right | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/01/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityI wouldn’t really call it a diamond in the rough. I think the majority of men , even the ones that complain it’s gone “ to far “ recognize the importance of the me too movement. Even if they strongly disagree with where it applies or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:37 AM |
| – | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredIt’s not about assholery, it’s about masculinity and power. Generally speaking, women want masculine guys. Someone who won’t use his power to subject her, but who has the means to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:43 PM |
| 4 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityYes it happens to both men and women but first off. Men are physically stronger then women. A nasty woman know she can’t get away with much more then a hard slap, because if he felt threatened, he would win. Man on the other hand can kill a woman quite easily. Also the ratios just aren’t the same at all, it’s much more often the men who go ballistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:36 PM |
| 6 | Did anyone else develop a complex about how "scary" they were to women?For a while yeah | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/24 11:59 AM |
| 2 | masculinity on the leftI haven’t really seen much on what the left wants men to express there masculinity by | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/24 11:53 AM |
| 3 | as a trans man, how do i fit into male advocacy?The same as any other Man, but you bring added wisdom having experienced the other half of the coin . | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/24 11:49 PM |
| 47 | I really love this scene of Zootopia. It depicts exactly the feelings of men who can't bear to be shown as dangerousShe wouldn’t have that response if she saw him as a person rather then labeling him as a potential threat as the first thing she thinks about | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/24 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Women's struggles in dating are in no way equal to that of menBad options that you aren’t forced to take is objectively better then no options at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 09:03 AM |
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