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No because it is a real thing. Some things are make dominated and some are female dominated
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 09:51 AM
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That is pretty clear cut discrimination
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/24 02:36 PM
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It shouldn’t step on protections that were definitively raised for separation of biological sex
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/24 04:30 PM
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Yes. Women have never lied before ever in history.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/24 09:49 PM
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Don’t talk to women online to much. They’re way nicer in person I’ve noticed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/24 09:31 PM
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Ok so feminism is just misandry I guess
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 08:34 AM
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Yeah it’s just not worth putting much effort into
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/24 03:56 PM
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😅 that actually makes me feel so much Better . Thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/24 10:45 PM
3

It is true though . Those stats aren’t made up. Yes some places don’t count women raping men as rape by definition, but it’s still more or less fairly accurate unfortunately
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/24 12:08 PM
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No way?! What surprise this is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/24 08:59 PM
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She is speaking the language of god
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/24 01:21 AM
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I’d much rather be viewed as a potential warrior for a good cause than a threat. Which is how a lot of women see men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 11:35 AM
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Just repeat the statement but switching men with women and vice versa
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/24 10:58 AM
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No society just needs to be more accepting when we open up. Then we might start doing so
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/24 10:47 AM
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The attorney general should be the first to suffer from the collective punishment then
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/24 03:39 AM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:55 AM
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They think that 6 figures is the bare minimum, and honestly believe they can pull someone with 8 figures or something. They’re just narcissists
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:54 AM
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You lost me at “ men are naturally evil oriented “ yeah I’m not reading the rest . This is misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:52 AM
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The pride flag is for a completely different community
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/24 10:44 AM
3

Spot on
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 11:38 AM
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Yes. Definitely yes. They do get a few things right but they’re mostly just women hating assholes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 11:38 AM
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Because you’ll get doxxed and fired
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 09:22 PM
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Heard from who though ? Can you provide some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:55 AM
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I agree many women do this , but I don’t think it has anything to do with feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:53 AM
1

Exactly. Redpill men want to sleep around with women who don’t sleep around , because if they do then they’re “ sluts” . What do they expect ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:52 AM
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Exactly! Could I get a girl at a club quicker than I could at my local café? Yes. But do I want a hot clubbing girl , or do I want that cute nerdy girl with the glasses and mysterious facial scar , reading a book at the cafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:50 AM
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I don’t want a club going lady. I want a cafe , library , bookstore, or hobby shop going lady .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:44 AM
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Women raising their standards beyond what’s reachable while simultaneously pretending it’s lower then ever
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:34 AM
1

I haven’t accepted that reputation!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:32 AM
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But Trump hasn’t been proven guilty of rape though , so what are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 12:23 AM
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Im a little bit sheltered so keep that in mind . But “ she’s for the streets “ is less about her body count exactly, and more about her relationship fitness . It doesn’t matter if she’s slept with 1000 men or zero . If she’s hot but a vain, self important asshole, then she’s for the streets. As the only way for her to make a man happy in anyway is to be used for quick sex and to discard .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/24 10:50 PM
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“ I hate men”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/24 11:43 AM
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Assuming she’d be happy with both , I’d prefer the former . But please don’t call stay at home moms “ bang maids “ .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:02 PM
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Good thing to talk about. I’d love to talk about my job on a date and show her pictures of my favorite dogs there. If you asked this question assuming it would be about money, that’s not the case 80% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 10:00 PM
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What does “ high value “ mean . Cuz high value to most guys and high value to me are very different .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:26 AM
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I do. Sometimes I’ll talk to a physically unattractive woman because of something we have in common ( reading the same author , playing dnd together , walking into the same seminar , etc ) and I’ll start being won over by their personality and kick myself that night for not asking for her number
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:24 AM
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But it certainly was though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:22 AM
1

Hey! I’m religious. Dont bring your problems with this guy and dump it on to other people. That isn’t fair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:17 AM
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Why are you being nasty like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:15 AM
1

That first part isn’t true . Many animals practice monogamy. And I don’t see how shaming people for practicing monogamy is any better then shaming people for being polygamous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:12 AM
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I’m not sure if it’s common on this sub, but I’ve certainly experienced it on reddit in general
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:06 AM
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She’s not always like that . She’s usually quite nice and has a very balanced moderate adjacent take to things . But sometimes she gets in a mood . She’s still nice though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:04 AM
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Some do unfortunately. But the vast majority of men don’t. You can be sexually attracted to a woman and not see her as an object
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/24 11:46 AM
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Can I have the link?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:37 PM
1

Wait so that natural? Weight lifting does that for everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:26 PM
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It’s only fun to have a high sex drive if you have someone to help satiate it . Otherwise it kind of sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 07:58 PM
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Wow that’s horrifying. Thank you for bringing this to my attention I had no idea that this happened here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:37 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:45 PM
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The posts were more along the lines of celebrating women swearing off of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:54 AM
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Not in America though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 11:53 AM
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If they have the “ it’s not our job to help you “ mindset , why do they expect men to care about their issues ?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/24 04:13 PM
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She’s acknowledged how many things men have to deal with that she doesn’t . I think your trying to group her in with other people rather then approaching her as a individual
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:13 PM
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Ah ok so it’s a global study . Ok I can see that now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:36 PM
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Damn you are bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:35 PM
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Hey what does your tag mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:31 PM
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So true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:30 PM
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See that’s the thing. You won’t read it in good faith because it’s coming from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:30 PM
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Dude I’m a man. She just wants both sides to actually listen to eachother and acknowledge eachothers points.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:25 PM
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Well it seems very well done, but theirs no findings summary . Can you tel me what the important parts are ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:24 PM
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So a single buzzword is why your choosing to not read this in good faith
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:19 PM
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Then what explains the epidemic of men not picking up on obvious hints then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:17 PM
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Who cares how she says it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:17 PM
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I think you hit that little paper clip/ chain thingy over the letters in the text box I think. Or just tell me exactly what you entered into the search bar and what the website was titled so I can go find it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:13 PM
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“ feminist buzzword “ care to explain ? She’s acknowledging how men have it hard as well and is calling for more empathy on both sides . What else could you want ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:07 PM
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None of this was evidence . The only study cited in the whole thing is that 60% of women feel as is they’ve been sexually harassed in the workplace. ( which is horrible ). But the very opposite of this thing is more prevalent. Men missing the most stupidly obvious clues that she’s interested in him .
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:06 PM
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I think it’s a really important message.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:58 PM
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You just walk up, say you find them super attractive, and tell them what you want. Super easy , barely an inconvenience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:55 PM
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Please provide the evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:53 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:53 PM
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You can just scroll off past it then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:49 PM
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How ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:49 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:47 PM
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Most women will admit that they can go into a cafe and ask any single man there for sex and get it instantly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:46 PM
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True ….. if I can guarantee I’d be born in a developed country
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:45 PM
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I get that too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:44 PM
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Yeah women tend to overestimate there beauty and there friend’s beauty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:42 PM
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I’m posting this on behalf of an anonymous woman. Would you actually be willing to hear a woman out? Hi, I'm a woman who is hurt by the misogynistic rhetoric that is posted here. I'd like to share my experience as a woman. 1st off, one of the most important lessons I ever learned was that anger is a secondary emotion. Anger stems from pain and hurt. I'd like to just say my peace, I hope it resonates with some of you. Both sexes have it hard. Full stop. I acknowledge that men have unrealistic and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:40 PM
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I’m posting this on behalf of an anonymous woman. Would you actually be willing to hear a woman out? Hi, I'm a woman who is hurt by the misogynistic rhetoric that is posted here. I'd like to share my experience as a woman. 1st off, one of the most important lessons I ever learned was that anger is a secondary emotion. Anger stems from pain and hurt. I'd like to just say my peace, I hope it resonates with some of you. Both sexes have it hard. Full stop. I acknowledge that men have unrealistic and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:29 PM
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What about companionship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:10 PM
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I believe it was asked because it’s something women ask about to men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:08 PM
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Litterally all three points are shining green flags . It shows that I’m not just a stand in till a better option arises . She is actually serious about me . And I’m much more likely to be serious about her if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:57 PM
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Never , like litteraly never , the slightest bit , at all . That’s like getting offended for someone giving you all there money levels of not gonna fucking happen . Now does that mean I’m always going to be attracted to someone who is into me? Of course not . But I’m going to see them as more attractive if they’re attracted to me .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:55 PM
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I agree with it’s wrong to fake emotional connection for sex. But being nice with the intent to have sex doesn’t necessarily require that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:51 PM
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Not the same way. And they can offer understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 06:11 PM
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A good women offers comfort and support
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:30 PM
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What would being smart have to do with if I want a women to take control of me and pleasure me while I get to relax and let it happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:13 PM
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How do I show it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:45 AM
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Any advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:58 AM
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No , she can’t be fucking other guys while in a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:52 AM
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Well that’s your taste , This is mine . But I don’t understand how desiring a date with you could be seen as an insult .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:15 PM
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But I’m not even sure how to approach. I’m really attracted to girls who read , but then I don’t want to interrupt their reading
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:30 PM
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I like being desired romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:15 PM
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How old are you though ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 09:21 PM
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Lack of objective as doesn’t mean there can’t be a widely accepted consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:35 PM
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This worked in the older generation. Yeah People 45 and older were able to get a nice partner by being a baseline decent person who looks after themselves well, before the gender wars started . The dating market is different for youngsters , and different in almost exclusively bad ways . More guys are just looking for sex, and women won’t believe you if you say you aren’t .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:33 PM
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Purple pill is the default world view , blue pill is the default western media worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:07 PM
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It’s more we’re encouraging women to care more about personality and character and to be less shallow . Because that’s what they tell us to do , and we want them to practice what they preach .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 07:04 PM
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A switch in focus from blame , to solution
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:22 PM
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No cuz sex trafficking ………. Is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:17 PM
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Aside from parent and child
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:35 PM
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Women say this all the time though! They say they can get laid super easily, they just can’t find someone worth laying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:34 PM
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That’s seems like a very negative way to look at this situation where a woman says she wants to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:32 PM
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It makes me see her in a more positive light
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:31 PM
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Though you would have known that already if you spent more time asking her what her beliefs are rather then filling in the holes yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:07 PM
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I can vouch for her here. She absolutely believes in toxic femininity and got banned from ask women no censor ( even though they censor ) for speaking out about it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:06 PM
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Honestly yeah, I’m starting to understand that now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:04 PM
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You do realize that by saying that saying, you are still comparing her to swine right. That’s like the whole point of the saying
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:02 PM
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Never heard of KAM? Ever heard of the draft ? not saying the scale or nature is anywhere near the same . Obviously women have it far worse in this situation. Anyway, she’s on your side, maybe lay off of her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:00 PM
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This was so amazingly put
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 07:42 PM
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I can’t speak for all guys, but I don’t think this is true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:05 PM
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Actually facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:01 PM
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Yeah that’s seems a pretty good summary actually
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:58 PM
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Why would I care what complete randos think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:29 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:15 AM
2

It may apply to some women but is much more often applicable to men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:24 PM
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And many women are socialized the same way, especially in less progressive societies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:23 PM
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I’m gonna have to insist it is . You don’t hear all these stories of men turning away when there partner shows vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 06:43 PM
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I think most men want to be vulnerable to the right Person. Someone that won’t lose respect for them . Someone who will listen and care
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:16 PM
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Many men have experienced similar stuff. Just look into the ask men Reddit. Just about everyone has had this happen to them or knows someone personally who’s had it happen to them . Many ( but I don’t think most) women lose respect for a man when they get vulnerable. It is bizarre
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:24 PM
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It’s not about how many. I just want a partner who will
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:42 PM
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No, because once again, I ask you to acknowledge how I am not saying all women or even most women do this. Just that’s there’s quite a few who do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:31 PM
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A listening ear would be great
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:05 PM
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Then it shouldn’t be used as an insult then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:02 PM
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But it’s weird you’ve never heard of it given how common it is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:32 AM
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Really? You’ve never heard of this phenomenon ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:31 AM
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Women losing interest in men as soon as they’re vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:48 AM
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We want her to respond in any way other then losing all respect and attraction for us and leaving of course
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:39 AM
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Are you not from the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:21 AM
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So you know that it happens, and can assume guy’s know that it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:12 AM
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I know plenty of women though . My bff is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:03 AM
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You need to talk to more men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:01 AM
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Men don’t lose respect for women being vulnerable in the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:57 AM
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Even if you haven’t experienced it first hand you must’ve heard of it. Even if it miraculously never happened to someone your close with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:55 AM
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I just don’t want her to lose respect for me when I show my vulnerability
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:53 AM
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So this is your first time hearing about how some women lose interest when a man shows he’s vulnerable?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:46 AM
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A lot of these men have been burned before
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:45 AM
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I think there’s still a good amount of quality women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:48 AM
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Like against her will ? No. I don’t blame women for being sexually assaulted wtf? Also what is black pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:41 AM
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What are you looking for then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:12 AM
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I’m not talking about just that. I’m talking about everything you told me in general. People aren’t just born that pessimistic. Your heart has been through the ringer man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:11 AM
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It’s just about showing support . A tiny little thing to say “ I see you , I see your pain, and I want to ease it . I care about you “ that’s all I’d expect. I don’t want it to be a huge hassle . Just something to show she cares
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:08 AM
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Is having trauma but wanting to talk it out with your partner so you can get through it together abusive ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:05 AM
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Hard to tell. But the one driving a otherwise calm and controlled man to the point of lashing out certainly bares some of the blame
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:04 AM
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Yes . But some respect as to why we are hesitant about it would be appreciated .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:01 AM
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The whole opening up wounds in your mental health thing is incredibly abusive , but you’ve got so used to being treated like shit that you don’t even realize it’s not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:00 AM
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I’m only 21 and I’m single . And Id rather stay single then put up with what you’ve been through . So I’m going to keep to a fair but strict code of standards .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:59 AM
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That’s fine . Then don’t ask. I’m not going to pour my trauma out on someone without there enthusiastic consent . But if they show me that consent , they’re fully responsible for how they react to it . And if they react like harpies , they’re harpies .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:57 AM
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We aren’t pretending to be someone else. We just aren’t pouring our Trauma out to everyone we meet as our introduction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:55 AM
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That’s obviously not true . What you just described is abusive as shit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:54 AM
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Bro I’m not trying to date anyone who does that . They do pull that shot and I’m out of there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:53 AM
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Let’s say they have a traumatic event of there parents forgetting them. Asking for a daily “ hey how you doing “or something like that text when they go on a vacation or work trip is a reasonable thing to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:52 AM
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Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:50 AM
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It’s less they don’t want to open up about traumatic events, and more they don’t want to be laughed at humiliated , and left by there partner when they do so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:49 AM
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Like someone else said , if your partner still has there exes nudes , it’s reasonable to ask them to delete them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:48 AM
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Or sometimes they find we aren’t all as joyous and “ it is what it is “ all the time . But they’re the ones asking for this level of honesty. So why would they ask if they won’t be able to accept it .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:47 AM
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That just isn’t something you have to accept in life . Break that shit off and don’t give them another chance if they treat you that badly . You deserve to be happy and loved
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:45 AM
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Bro who are you dating if your partner intentionally opening up the wounds in your mental health is something you’ve just grown to see as a fact of life . Who did this to you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:44 AM
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Well yeah someone’s deepest darkest fears aren’t exactly fun and exciting. Especially if they’re rooted in trauma . Not sure what you were expecting. And women will often ask men to be vulnerable and complain when they don’t . If you aren’t willing to see the darkness , then don’t ask
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:41 AM
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Would you really be able to just shrug it off of your partner was using your insecurities against you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:39 AM
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Of course not . But the more reasonable ones should be accommodated , and even the weird ones should be handled delicately rather then mocked
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:36 AM
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No In general. Not by her . She made him feel appreciated. That declaration of feelings was to much to soon for her so she dipped
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:35 AM
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It sure is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:34 AM
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Which results in …….. insecurity!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:33 AM
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No. Not at all. Actually I fantasize romantically about quite the opposite but that’s neither here nor their
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:32 AM
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But if your getting them to the point where they’re lashing out , you’ve probably already made a half dozen bad decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:30 AM
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Genuinely though , please use that instead
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:29 AM
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I wasn’t cheated on but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:29 AM
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So if he isn’t trying to use his insecurity to control someone, using it as an insult is wrong and shouldn’t be tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:29 AM
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It’s not controlling if he’s trying to get over it and isn’t asking you to change your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:28 AM
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Yeah so we agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:27 AM
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That is a very fair response, I don’t see what we’re arguing about now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:25 AM
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Yes he’s somewhat clingy. She still was a piece of crap about it though . And I don’t want to experience what he did . So I’m hesitant to open up completely about my insecurities and how intense my feelings might be
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:23 AM
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No. My brother is very very far left
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:22 AM
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That’s not my understanding of insecure. I’m insecure about being forgotten. So when someone who I care about forgets about me I take it very very hard and I can trace that response back to 6th grade when my mom was 6 hours late for picking me up from chess club and nobody in my family noticed I was missing until dinner was almost over . We have dinner together as a family btw. There’s nothing bigoted about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:20 AM
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Like if she opens up about a traumatic event and I know her enough to know that she’s comforted by putting a arm around her and pulling her in , I’d do that . If I don’t know her enough , I’d just try and see what I can do to aloe her feel better even if I’m not experienced enough to know how to do so effectively. I wouldn’t know her love language so I’d just start guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:17 AM
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That should never be done in the tone of an insult . There’s a difference between “ hey I feel like I may have struck a nerve , I didn’t mean to make you feel this way . Is there something going on you want to talk to me about “ and “ looks like someone’s insecure about ___ lol”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:14 AM
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There’s insecurity and then there using the insecurity to control people . If you feel uncomfortable about your wife having male friends , but are trying to get over it , that’s a innocent insecurity. Demanding that she cut off her male friends , that’s using the insecurity to control her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:11 AM
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So the difference is being insecure vs feeing insecure ? That’s not how I see it . If you feel insecure about her having a male friend, that’s an insecurity. If he demands you leave all your male friends, that’s him trying to use his insecurity to control you .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:09 AM
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And you certainly shouldn’t laugh. Especially if they explain that they feel insecure about it because they have a history of being cheated on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:06 AM
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You don’t have to change your behavior for there insecurities, but you should be gentle with them. If they’re insecure about you wearing revealing clothing while on your night out without them , you don’t have to change , but you should them them that your loyal to them and that you’d never cheat on them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:05 AM
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Ok let me spell it out for you . If you laugh at someone for being insecure about something, it signals to the guys around you that you think other peoples insecurities are funny and that you will respect them less for having them . So if your going to respect them less for having insecurities, they’re not going to tell you about there insecurities. Got it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:03 AM
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As in my big brother told his first girlfriend that he often feels unappreciated and unneeded and it just so happens that she dumped him less then a week after . Everything was going great up until then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 02:00 AM
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No because nobody wants to out themselves as a harpy . They presumably know that what they did was wrong . But it wasn’t a conscious decision
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:58 AM
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Insecure is to have insecurities. That’s not a behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:53 AM
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But you’ve also heard women use “ Insecure “ as a insult . I can’t be expected to believe you if you say you’ve never heard or read that .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:52 AM
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I am . Opening up is a sign of trust . Now will I know her well enough to provide her comfort properly? Probably not , but I’d try my best .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:50 AM
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I know two friends and one bigger brother who had their partners lose interest in them after they showed there vulnerable side .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:48 AM
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For real. They’re still feigning ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:47 AM
6

If this was female nature I wouldn’t be able to interact with half the human population
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:46 AM
6

“ I never met a women who leaves after “ it’s not always as easy to see as them just immediately getting up and leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:45 AM
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I gotta disagree. I’d have every reason to take that personally . If they can’t be mindful of how using someone’s insecurities As a verbal weapon might effect them , they aren’t someone I’d want to date, and I really can’t see me forgiving them from that. And I’d advise others to not put up with that either . Maybe my standards are to high , but I’d rather be single then with someone like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:42 AM
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It’s all about tone and context. “ hey I think this may be a insecurity of yours , and it’s clouding your perception of the reality of the situation “ and “ your insecurity is showing lmao 🤣 “ are to very different things .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:39 AM
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Yeah but if they lose all respect and attraction for him , that’s just as bad as leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:36 AM
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Meaning ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:35 AM
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Yeah but telling them and expecting some accommodations for it and using it to control someone is completely different . You should be accommodating to your partner’s emotional needs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:35 AM
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But I feel like if you make those deep jabs against someone, it doesn’t matter if that’s an attack on their masculinity or if that’s just how they argue . That’s no way to treat a partner and they should be ashamed of themselves if they do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:33 AM
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Yeah . I think less then half of women would lose respect for a man when they show vulnerability. But a great deal more then half of women seem completely ignorant about how some women have responded to them being vulnerable. Or don’t recognize when a women uses “ insecure “ as an insult .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:31 AM
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You really never heard a women use “ insecure “ as an insult before? I find that difficult to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:27 AM
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Most women as in more then 50% percent don’t do this . It’s certainly not rare , and I haven’t met a guy who this hasn’t happened to or they don’t personally know someone who this happened to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:27 AM
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That sounds , quite frankly , unhinged . What’s the purpose of a emotional relationship if you can’t even tell them about your insecurities, and if you aren’t willing to accommodate theirs ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:24 AM
3

Bro what video games ? Do you think dnd is a video game?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:20 PM
1

I can’t see how they wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:01 PM
3

You also seem to have inflated self image yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:01 PM
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Yeah it’s ideal. That’s not my point. My point is that you seem to believe that the excerpt means most women are in relationships . That’s not what it means . It just informs us how the women who are in relationships tend to decide who to have a relationship with .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:19 AM
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It’s not inherently. It’s tha a talking stage can last years now, and most in that stage with 6 people at once. Everyone’s just trying to get attention
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:17 AM
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I hope so. The whole “ talking stage” thing has left the dating market in a disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 11:00 AM
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While it won’t be completely, there is a loneliness epidemic in the youth that seems to point that relationships are becoming slowly less common
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:57 AM
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I think she’s saying that that doesn’t mean most women are choosing relationships. It’s saying when they do choose relationships , it’s with men who are familiar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 10:54 AM
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I was saying more so that it seems to many boys and young men that the only side that actually cares about there issues is the right , so they’ll eat up whatever shit they feed them, because the left won’t feed them anything
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/24 06:54 PM
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It explains why young men are turning to the right
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/24 12:05 PM
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I wouldn’t really call it a diamond in the rough. I think the majority of men , even the ones that complain it’s gone “ to far “ recognize the importance of the me too movement. Even if they strongly disagree with where it applies or not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:37 AM
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Yeah I see that too. If only there’s something we could do proactively rather then just remaining “ on watch”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:32 AM
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It’s not about assholery, it’s about masculinity and power. Generally speaking, women want masculine guys. Someone who won’t use his power to subject her, but who has the means to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:43 PM
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Yes it happens to both men and women but first off. Men are physically stronger then women. A nasty woman know she can’t get away with much more then a hard slap, because if he felt threatened, he would win. Man on the other hand can kill a woman quite easily. Also the ratios just aren’t the same at all, it’s much more often the men who go ballistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 12:36 PM
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For a while yeah
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/24 11:59 AM
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I haven’t really seen much on what the left wants men to express there masculinity by
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/24 11:53 AM
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The same as any other Man, but you bring added wisdom having experienced the other half of the coin .
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 11:49 PM
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She wouldn’t have that response if she saw him as a person rather then labeling him as a potential threat as the first thing she thinks about
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 05:30 PM
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Bad options that you aren’t forced to take is objectively better then no options at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 09:03 AM
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