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True. I think that sometimes we focus more on negative experiences. Even if we have a lot of positive ones, the negative ones are more memorable. This isn't good. I have to be more thankful and notice when something is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:46 PM
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I guess to clarify what I mean.... If they tell me I have to be mean to keep him nice then If rather be alone than be with a guy I have to play games, be fake with and manipulate. I just don't want to play games. I'd rather be with someone I can be my true self with. Not a game with fake mind games.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:45 PM
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That's a very true thing. Something to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:15 PM
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Yes, there's so much diversity in real life, but sites pool only certain types making false impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:01 PM
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I think it's true, I need to focus on more meaningful things and not let myself be radicalized online.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:59 PM
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Thanks. There are always pockets of bad that shouldn't taint my whole opinion of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:57 PM
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Yes. Covid, and the internet is a bad combination. I need to get out more and off the internet. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:56 PM
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This is good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:55 PM
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I need to avoid getting into arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:54 PM
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Which feelings are women proud of? Which feelings are women implementing more than men? I've always had a much easier time reading the body language and facial expressions of men than women. I also didn't feel that emotional in the past. Those two factors made me confused at this common stereotype about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:54 PM
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True. I need to stop looking for some hidden secret pattern or truth. It's really silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:51 PM
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Yes, I'm going to have to figure out how to not get into arguments. And if it's not a common hobby, sometimes it's boring. I liked star trek.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:49 PM
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Yes, it felt like we weren't having a real argument, but somehow he was not in touch with reality. It's like I had to define basics for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:48 PM
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It's ironic that they say women are emotional and not logical, but men are the reverse. Why is this a common belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:44 PM
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I'd rather not take any online dating advice and avoid peopleI have to become a way for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:42 PM
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I think the impression that she gave is that no matter what, he's always right. You can't argue with someone who's allways right. He doesn't care about your opinions or emotions is what she said. I care about things making sense. Sometimes people's feelings are more important than what's right. For example, you can find a tribe in Africa that's more disease resistant and healthy than any other tribe or group on Earth. For the advancement of all humans and to end suffering and climate change, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:40 PM
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Yes, I think it's Thunberg. You are right that it's better to not to let other people's opinions become your own. I think the route of the issue is that I let myself be influenced by other's opinions. I didn't realize how much until I got into an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:32 PM
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That's funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:29 PM
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Yes, that reminds me of the big five personality test.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:28 PM
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I'm saying that remember that many many many women online are saying the same things about men, this is tainting my opinion of men. It's disturbing me that it's creating such a bias to remember so many testimonies. The point is being exposed to online negativity can create a huge bias on my mind. It may be true that I was more dismissive of his statements for this reason. I would think that he's just saying things because of pride and because he's got to be right than taking him seriously. We we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:27 PM
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He didn't seem to be acknowledging basic facts and reality. He wanted me to define basic terms. It felt like he was being extra. I replied sarcastically to him so you want me to define air and breathing? We were arguing about if women are emotional and illogical. I said lust is an emotion. He told me it's not an emotion. I'm paraphrasing the basic gist of the argument. It kind of built from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:24 PM
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Thanks, I think real life will really help. I didn't realize that seeing negative things online would stick in my brain like this. In kind of disturbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:19 PM
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Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:18 PM
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I think a lot of people who game game too much. They are severely addicted. They don't have time for a relationship. That means that they will ignore their girlfriend. It's like being in a relationship with a non person who doesn't exist. Same for any addiction. I would be ok with a gamer if they weren't addicted and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 08:31 PM
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If it's the flight fight or freeze instinct it means that the man did something that scared her enough that she felt like she had to freeze. If he's overly aggressive and doing something to intimidate her she might freeze and people are underestimating the power of freezing and how much someone can't control themselves in that state. That they would like to unfreeze but they can't. I don't think a normal sexual encounter would scare a girl that much to say no unless she has pstd from my previous…
/r/MensRights16/09/20 07:28 PM
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You are assuming a bunch of things I have never said. I see men post in the subreddit for rape. Freeze is a reaction men get too. I think that one rapist can rape six or thirty women so that's why so many men and women are victims.
/r/MensRights15/09/20 03:38 PM
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Yes, if she's frozen like a corpse, filled with fear, it's consensual. That's what your downvotes mean. I have zero faith in the men if this subreddit from what I've seen. No empathy, no ability to reason. I could link a bunch of articles, scientific studies, zero comprehension. It's like talking to a brick wall. Hopeless people.
/r/MensRights15/09/20 02:50 PM
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It's not regret where they agreed and changed their minds. It's a response so strong that they can't control it. Women who freeze or dissociates can't control this response. They can't fight back. This response is extremely, extremely common responses for rape. That why I'm saying people need to be educated on this. Obviously, you just don't understand. If you go to male forums they talk like rape is super rare, and most men are good and wouldn't do it. If you go to female forums they say often …
/r/MensRights15/09/20 02:37 PM
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Me being downvoted so much and people saying what I said isn't relevant. I'm just outlining situations where the man could believe he's falsely accused, but from the woman's perspective it's rape. These situations are the most common actually. If you check the online forums for rape victims, they froze and so they weren't sure if it's rape because they didn't fight back. I see these types of comments constantly on these rape victim forums. That I got down voted so much just shows how unreasonabl…
/r/MensRights15/09/20 02:26 PM
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If you check the rape subreddits many fields and Women freeze and don't fight back. They ask are they raped because they aren't sure. They feel great guilt for not fighting, but their system took over and they froze. They wonder if the guy knew it took advantage. It's not so cut and dry like you think. These scenarios are extremely common. And that's just the point, I pointing out where the man may think he's falsely accused, but from her perspective it's rape.
/r/MensRights15/09/20 02:16 PM
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Who just climbs on top of someone and they continue and they don't move like a corpse? If you check the rape related subreddits, the most common response to rape are dissociation and freezing.
/r/MensRights15/09/20 04:40 AM
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I did some research on rape and there are common misconceptions that men and women need to be educated in really badly: 1) It's actually really surprisingly common for rape victims to dissociate. That means that they can't fight back or resist the rape. It's as if their spirit leaves their body and they aren't even there to resist. 2) There's the flight and fight response. But a very common response to danger is freezing. Women and men often freeze when raped. Also, this causes the appearance of…
/r/MensRights15/09/20 04:22 AM
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I read many newspaper articles where the woman who accused a man of rape was abused so badly by her school, work, media, etc that she had to change her name or change jobs or schools. In many instances everyone takes the side of the accused not the accuser. And the only reason the welfare is so highly used for women is that many men are deadbeats who believe that have no responsibility towards their children. Edit: Typos
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:12 PM
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When you go out in a city late at night so you actually have people come up to you and confront you though?
/r/MensRights10/09/20 07:06 PM
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I want to go undercover online to see the difference between how people treat men vs women. I don't think I could go undercover in real life though. I would have a very difficult time looking and sounding like a guy. That article about the man switching emails with a woman and getting treated much worse disturbed me a lot so I want to see if there's any truth to it. I used to work at a help desk and my female co-worker complained that if she said something the technician wouldn't believe her and…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 12:43 AM
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One example in my early twenties is that a really good looking guy who was very good at socializing that I talked to at work tried to all me out but I brushed it off and pretended he didn't. I didn't trust him. It was tempting because he was good looking and very good at socializing but it came down to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:26 PM
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It's not a few women who complained that men are disrespectful towards them at work. It's not s few trans women and trans men who are complaining about noticing a huge lack of disrespect coming from men when they are a woman. I've seen many give the same exact accounts. I'm not talking about one person who complained. It's many people noticing the same patterns. Open up your eyes and go online and look. You are going to dismiss everybody and act like everybody is crazy for noticing? Why are so m…
/r/MensRights31/08/20 05:52 PM
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People value the Kardashians and celebrities partly because they value fame and money. Feminists value men's roles because they value fame and money. Men's traditional roles to provide and protect are more associated with money and fame than women's traditional roles of nurturing and caretaking of the family. Through seeing through this lense of values, women will see men and their roles as more desirable and therefore think women are oppressed by men. However, if men stop doing their roles of p…
/r/MensRights31/08/20 05:02 AM
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But many men and women don't believe in platonic relationships. This means that women at work, especially male dominated jobs won't be able to connect, network and socialize well, especially with the leaders who are probably male. Women quit male dominated jobs at double to triple the rates of men, and many women in tech, finance, law and other jobs have many horror stories even to the point of warning women to not even go into the field because the sexism is over the top. The men they worked wi…
/r/MensRights31/08/20 03:51 AM
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If most murders and robberies are by men, maybe having an escort for them until they are 25 years old would be a good idea.
/r/MensRights31/08/20 02:04 AM
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Ha, the red pill and Mgtow is basically men complaining about how women are subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:39 PM
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I see women online complaining about how women are often blamed for men cheating. They are saying women are more likely to be blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:34 PM
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The second link is from the US government and has many superscripts referencing their info. And it's taking about the disorder in general. The symptoms check from the first link says your are more likely to get it if you're a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 11:14 PM
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Under Risk Factors it says that men are more likely. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662 In the intro to this report, it says that 50-75% of the people who have this are men. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5819598/ This final article says that there are different types of Narcissism and men are more likely to be certain types while in other types they are equal. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25546498/
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:56 PM
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Nope. Even mayo clinic's website says that Narcissistic personality disorder is more common in men. I've also seen a report that a meta analysis of many studies also says that men are more likely to be Narcissistic. The report said that 4.8% of women are, and 7.8% of men are. On YouTube, there's a huge community of many YouTube channels dedicated to getting over Narcissistic abuse. Most of the members of this community are women. Most of the comments are by women. How men are more Narcissistic 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:43 PM
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So you are saying that a man who's very permiscuious can settle down and not cheat (be monogamous) easier than a woman can?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:26 PM
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Income doesn't matter but the man's heart. His heart should be that he believes in providing for, taking care of and protecting his children. Just because he has a lot of money doesn't mean he believes that he has a responsibility towards his children. Indeed, I've heard of a few cases where a woman married a man that was rich or well off but he wouldn't spend money on the family at all. I believe that it's a woman's responsibility to a choose a man that will be responsible and help with the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 10:01 PM
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Yes, but women are more susceptible to catching sexually transmitted diseases by a lot. If she's pregnant the could could get it too. Also, women are not likely to think of sex in an emotional way, and if he's cheating that means to her that he doesn't like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 08:37 PM
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Yes men are different because men are more likely to be Narcissistic. Narcissistic people think rules shouldn't apply to them. Two quotes from women discussing cheating by men: "I’ve been cheated on and always was told to shrug it off and deal with it. I eventually accepted it. Every man will cheat on me because I’m not good enough. I cheated on an (emotionally abusive and sexually coercive) ex once a long time ago and in response he beat me, whipped me, raped me, punched me, and tormented me em…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:51 PM
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I doubt that. Womanizers, players, playboys, women often do avoid them for LTR because they think they'll cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:42 PM
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Well traditionally in the Greek and Roman empires the men were allowed to cheat and sleep around in the marriage but the women were not. This traditional held true because even today men any like women should be monogamous, but men can still sleep around. The point is men aren't known in society for being faithful, and it being okay for them to sleep around and not for women is part of this. Women can catch horrible diseases from him sleeping around and if she's pregnant the fetus can be at grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:12 PM
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But many surveys show that for most generations that men are most likely to cheat. So much so that women are expected to put up with cheating because that's the way men are. Only generation not fitting this are millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:05 PM
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Where do you meet these men? And you said they aren't interested in a friendship. Do you think men want friendships with women, or they only want women for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:04 PM
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What bothers me is the hypocrisy. Men are judging sluts as not being able to be faithful. But aren't men who sleep around a lot just as likely to cheat as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 06:00 PM
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But what if the guy has a very high n count. He's hypocritical then, what is he considering himself to be good relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:56 PM
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But isn't that hypocritical if the man is a hoe too? Why does he think that he's good relationship material himself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 05:52 PM
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I see Feminists online complain like they are constantly cat called and harassed. I'm not sure where they live that they are having so many issues. I wish they'd tell where they live more often. I used to live in Brooklyn, NY and attended school in Manhattan. I commuted by subway everyday. I don't remember anything bad happening to me. This is was when I was a young teenager that I started making trips alone. The advice my mom gave me to stay out of trouble was to avoid groups of teenagers, and …
/r/MensRights23/08/20 10:47 PM
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This is in North San Francisco, which isn't as bad. Also, I didn't say men should be less afraid because they're bigger, but because women just get approached more in general. In big cities, small cities, etc. Men even complain that people ignore them.
/r/MensRights23/08/20 10:22 PM
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I don't know. I'm a woman and I used to work in San Francisco near the pier. I'd get off work pretty late and I would have men approach me and ask for things, one guy asked to be my boyfriend, for a hug, another asked to get in his car, another guy was screaming crazily, it scared me enough to hide in the supermarket for awhile. I had random strange guys just start cursing at me. Nothing bad happened physically, but it was scary because I'd be waiting for the bus really late at night and not too…
/r/MensRights23/08/20 01:49 PM
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I'm from Brooklyn. I was one of the only white kids in the class. When I moved to wilmington most of the kids were black there too. I've had jobs where most of my coworkers were black. My sister was married to a very stereotypical in a bad way, black man. I get it. I've been around black people a lot in my life. Why do you assume that I don't get it? I can never understand completely though. It's a lot of pressure to be a minority and not have the same social networks and to have a lot of stereo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 09:10 PM
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Sheraseven1 says to lie, to cheat, to manipulate. Point blank period. She gives evil advice that's not ethical. That you defend her says to me that you also lack morals. School of Affluence doesn't promote bad ethics. I've only watched two of her videos though. It has nothing to do with her being black. And I know of 5 it 6 gold digger channels. All ran by black women. Most of the women in the comments section are pictures with black women. They are all praising a woman whose not ethical. Whose …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:45 PM
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I'm not judging. It's my observation. I haven't ran into a white gold digger channel on YouTube yet. Maybe closest thing to it is School of Affluence. And in reading their comments on these sites, this is what they said themselves. In just quoting what they are saying. If they don't want me to get this impression, then they shouldn't say this so much on their sites. It's not right to lie and manipulate. It's right to find a provider if you believe in a traditional relationship. But finding a pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 08:28 PM
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