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Question for RedPillof_all/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 09:00 PM
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Lol if treating people like shit is your thing, at least admit that’s a personal issue and not some universal truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 08:14 PM
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Taking the piss isn’t a gendered thing. A lot of guys can’t deal with that shit and really hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 08:11 PM
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Human beings are human first before any gender position. This question can only be asked by a man that does not view women as being fundamentally human.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 08:06 PM
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What is the actual RP position on women making money? It seems to be either a bad thing or good thing depending on the context, ie, take whichever position makes it easier to shit on women in the context of the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 07:59 PM
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RP really needs to decide what it’s position is on women earning money. A woman earning money: she a ball busting “careerist” who dared to not die after her 30th birthday. Should have married a man at 19 and been his virgin bride, had his kids, and stayed in the home. A woman not earning money: A gold digging lazy whore who should do some work and up her own skills instead of mooching off a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 07:54 PM
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Adults generally like spending time with other adults too and not just their kids. Some adults even have skills that they enjoy using and are lucrative to use. Sending a kid to daycare isn’t going to break the kid and will give them the chance to play with other kids. I don’t get why someone wouldn’t want to send their kids to daycare, if they could afford to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 07:45 PM
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Poorer people are: more religious, divorce more, are more likely to become single parents, have more sexual partners, claim preference for “traditional roles”. If you were to look for “proof” of RP theory in action, you’ll find that it’s really just a story about class differences. One RP wet dream is the idea of the high-powered rich guy preferring the pretty young waitress over his age and class equal, but this does not at all represent reality — these men partner with equally credentialed wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 07:32 PM
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These subs are dives filled with defective men. The good thing is you won’t run into many IRL cause these guys don’t go out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:42 PM
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I don’t know any women that give two shits about being over 30 with stretch marks, but a lot of young, lonely, temporarily embarrassed aLpHaS on this sub seem to care quite a bit. These people need to unplug from their devices and barf up the pill before they hurt someone or further harm themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:33 PM
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I’ve heard the term “current wife” recent lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 12:18 AM
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It’s a funny thing. I’ve never paid much interest to dating rules or “strategies” (I’ve been off the market for a long time) but a lot of what FDS suggests are things I naturally did without realizing it. I ended up with someone better than I could imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 05:07 AM
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Some swolipsism right here
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:42 AM
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FDS is about having boundaries and slipping through the snares of fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:39 AM
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I’m in a fairly liberal circle and there is very little casual sex going on. Most are married or in healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 02:33 AM
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Psychology and charisma matter quite a bit in the flirting game. You can whip a guy into a frenzy even if he barely noticed you at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:54 AM
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The fuck is a surgerycel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 01:47 AM
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Yes let’s shit on war-traumatized women who married occupiers to survive while women are raped and murdered on a daily basis by living male occupying soldiers even today. The fuck is this even about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 12:45 AM
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There’s also the simple fact that there are higher rates of obesity in men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 12:36 AM
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“Men are very clear when they want someone.” Ultimate truth. Men get creative, excited and a little nervous too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:03 AM
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Being submissive is mostly or always doing what you’re told to do. Wearing pink isn’t submissive, it’s pink. Being happy isn’t submissive, it’s happy. Words mean what they mean specifically, that kind of thing. Men don’t actually want a woman who is submissive, ie a woman who mostly does what she is told to do. He wants a woman who is agreeable, feminine, charismatic, firm with her boundaries and doesn’t have to be told anything to behave in a context appropriate way. That isn’t submission. In s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 06:55 AM
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RP/incel/etc is the death rattle bravado of an imploding male ego. He can’t get what he wants to have or be what he wants to be, so he creates a whole worldview simultaneously worshipping and hating women, other men, himself, and how unfair he perceives his position to be in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 05:02 AM
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RP/incel/etc is the death rattle bravado of an imploding male ego. He can’t get what he wants to have or be what he wants to be, so he creates a whole worldview simultaneously worshipping and hating women, other men, himself, and how unfair he perceives his position to be in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:57 AM
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That was quite the floor routine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 04:28 AM
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I am engaged to a hot, very well earning, stable and strong man and I support him. I am also hot, very well earning, stable and strong and he supports me. We seem to have found ourselves in one of those weirdo Chad-free egalicuck relationships that RP thinks doesn’t or shouldn’t exist. I think we are each other’s 11/10 choice. Do you think I’d trade him in? Why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:36 AM
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I came here to say WAP hahahaah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:28 AM
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You played your hand in your last line there. “Oh yeah?? Well you’re ugly anyway!”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:23 AM
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Human beings aren’t wolves or other pack animal species, so I’m not sure what that behavior would even look like. If I ask my guy if we can go on a nice walk together, and he agrees, is that him being submissive to me or him being a chill guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:11 AM
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Since I am not a wolf and neither would I date one, I don’t suppose this scenario would ever come up in reality. I sure do dominate on board game night though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 02:05 AM
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I wouldn’t say that complaint posts on a niche subreddit is any indication of reality. The facts are this: college educated, professional women ages 26 and up have higher marriage rates than women without. Since the 90s, marriage rates for women with lower education levels have been going down. Professional men with degrees are more likely to marry other professional women with degrees, and this connection increases with higher attainment. Women with low incomes are significantly more likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 01:59 AM
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They over analyze them so much because it really is the closest they will ever get to having one for themselves. The only way out of that is to actually unplug.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:08 AM
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It really isn’t. The world according to RP has “the cock carousel” as a ride women purposely get on to enjoy a bunch of strange dick before lying about it to their beta cuck eventual husband once they decide to trap a man. Then they jump back on the carousel for some mid life crisis cougar adultery or to find a genetic baby daddy for her beta cuck to raise as his own. This insanity is what RP calls the cock carousel. The egos of RP men cannot exist whole in a world where women get to live their …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 12:03 AM
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I’ve seen a friend of my actually do this.. she got broken up with a couple of times in a row & concluded she must be punching above her weight in looks. She dated a few less attractive guys than certainly her average, and those didn’t work out either. She’s now dating the most attractive guy I’ve ever seen her with for the longest she’s ever dated anyone lol. It’s almost as if you can’t put a market price on how human beings fit together. Get it girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:45 PM
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TRP spends most of their time playing video games, so of course they treat people like mobs and conversations like levels to beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:40 PM
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Most women don’t view dating like a video game with character and mob levels, XP and min/maxing stats. It isn’t surprising at all that RP men view dating like a video game. It’s their only frame of reference.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:37 PM
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Lol I love the constant gymnastics around what a “high value man” even is. It seems to be whatever will win the particular argument at hand against the whamens in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 11:29 PM
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Sure thing. Create a new social circle or join one, ideally based on some kind of mutual activity. Something with both men (who can introduce you to female acquaintances eventually) and women (to see if there is a connection, or to intro you in the future). It’s about building a wider network of actual social connections/acquaintances based on some mutual activity or interest, rather than trying to snipe cheap fucks off of Tinder using “game”. Even if it doesn’t lead to new dating prospects imme…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:49 PM
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Blame women, loathe yourself and worship Chad. Not a single possible alternative out there in this big wide world of ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:20 PM
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The red pill is the bubble, friend, and nobody needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:16 PM
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I would recommend you engage your social circle to try and meet new people instead of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:13 PM
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The red pill is the bubble, friend. The rest of the world carries on just fine without it or we wouldn’t have 7 billion people alive today. That is 7 billion fucks, just counting the conception events. No pills needed save viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:08 PM
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I was actually recommending to detach from social media (ie, Reddit and any meeting strangers dating apps) and engage with your social circle, the people you actually know in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 10:05 PM
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There is a bit to break down here, but it sounds too straight forward for there not to have been some kind of actual data collected on this already. That would be interesting to read on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:41 PM
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If it’s a girl, the quality is called being a “submissive woman,” while guy expressing the same trait is a “chill dude.” The opposite qualities would make her a “bitchy woman” and him “an assertive man” lol From all that I’ve seen I think it’s fair to say that most PR men are certainly not chill dudes lol. I think we’d all know who we’d prefer to hang around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:33 PM
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It’s okay, they don’t know either lol. I think what they really mean is some sort of “feminine charisma” + high in agreeableness personality trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:28 PM
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There is so little in this post about submission, though. You’re talking about bright color pallets, attractiveness, loving, happy — none of these things are particularly related to submissiveness. None of those things preclude assertiveness or being a go-getter either. The most submissive woman you will ever meet could be a passive, depressed, angry, dead energy silent woman in a black head to toe burqa. I think the words you’re looking for are feminine charisma. This woman may or may not come …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:24 PM
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Definitely create a sub where you simultaneously worship and hate women, worship and hate yourself, create a bunch of jargon, re-brand the concept of a conversation to a “field report,” complain about your mother and all mothers by extension, and wrap in a bunch of tradcon cosplay. But no matter what you do, definitely don’t engage your existing social sphere to get out more and meet more people you already have a connection or mutual friend with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:10 PM
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I don’t know anyone who fucks, dates, marries and carries on in the world that had to take any pill to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:03 PM
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Yuuup. RP/incel/etc is the death rattle bravado of an imploding male ego. He can’t get what he wants to have or be what he wants to be, so he creates a whole worldview simultaneously worshipping and hating women, other men, himself, and how unfair he perceives his position to be in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:00 PM
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The most attractive quality in a mate is one you don’t have to submit to nor dominate, but naturally synch with. If someone has to actively manage their level of dominance or submission, they are in a bad relationship or aren’t even those things they strive for. A guy complaining about a girl not being submissive enough for him is the biggest tell that he’s not much of a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 08:53 PM
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Would this suggest that most RP gender theory is really about the gender dynamics of the working class (not really about “alpha males/successful men”)? So much of RP talking points are around things that the working class man struggles with most, reactionary behavior toward upwardly mobile women, and most RP theory seems to break down as soon as you consider real world data from upper-middle classes & beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 07:15 PM
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The interesting piece about Anna Bey is that most of her content isn’t really about how to be feminine so much as about how to signal being from an affluent background or upper class. If upper class/rich men don’t care about that and are happy with any hot young thing no matter her background, why would Anna need to spend so much time cultivating Affluence cosplay to get a rich guy? So much of RP theory really sounds like gender role preferences amongst working class men, not something universal…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 07:09 PM
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Hrmm.. but isn’t this basically saying that the more financially independent a woman is, the better decisions she’s going to make regarding marriage/family? Isn’t this flying in the face of the current bravado male fantasy of successful women being promiscuous and ending up alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:36 PM
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Has this analysis actually been done?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:34 PM
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Your last point is a good one to contest — at least in the US, divorce rates are highest amongst those of lower income & the religious. Both of these are negatively correlated with women’s financial independence. Overall, women who make good $$ in our society end up with good husbands & stable families.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:34 PM
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Yes, that’s why all the most efficient and prosperous societies today control female sexuality, like Norway and Sweden. Unlike Afghanistan and Central African countries where women have full freedoms and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:27 PM
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The idea that capable women end up alone is the bravado fantasy of crumbling male egos. The facts and reality do not support this notion. Capable women end up with incredibly rich support systems, healthy families, disposable income and great husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:22 PM
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This sounds like the death rattle of a crumbling, increasingly irrelevant ego. Kids go to summer camp, day care, after school art class with other kids, retired grandmas house, and hang out with the kids next door. OH THE HORROR!!!!11 Better chain the women to the stove before these kids spontaneously combust from an acute case of working mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:12 PM
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To be frank, I’d recommend focusing on your own life and experience for a sniff test. Can you think of a time when a woman became stronger, smarter, or more capable in some respect through her own efforts and that actually made her less desirable in your eyes? 1) Your girlfriend got the promotion she’s been vying for and you desired her less as a result. 2) Your long term flirty friend nailed her first live singing gig & you kinda wished you hadn’t gone because her successful performance was a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:02 PM
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Dumping filters means you gotta swipe more to find what you want, spending more time on the site & making more decisions for the creators to data mine & monetize. That’s really it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:36 PM
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Read: women in 30s are old and barren, me so aLpHa I comb post histories instead of defending my points. Go on, do continue embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 06:47 AM
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The facts just aren’t in your favor here, it’s okay to admit that. You had the option to do so or simply not respond, but your chosen path instead speaks volumes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:49 AM
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What do you mean by “isn’t great”? High chance of infertility and birth defects? You have a great chance of conceiving healthy children at 30, with a bit of a decrease by 35 but not by some life altering measure. This is the same sort of logic as the dreaded wall — it’s in the minds of certain men who care more about male bravado and ego than fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 04:15 AM
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It’s just impossible to know what advice could be useful without more information about your experience, but I do want to sympathize as COVID+hookup culture expectations have not made dating easy. What have your experiences been like? Do you live in a big city vs small town? How do you perceive yourself as a dating parroted, what have exes said?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 12:55 AM
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It gets so cold where we are that my winter at home garb ends up being several layers on top and bottom & a hood up over my head lol
/r/RedPillWives24/10/20 11:31 PM
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Good luck little man, I built this castle with my own two hands and dug the moat around it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:59 PM
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Hookup culture is for men, by men under the guise of female empowerment. I honestly don’t know what’s more damaging to women — hookup culture or religious repression. Both should be avoided in favor of strong boundaries and earned intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:54 PM
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No societal pressure at all, but I am still getting married soon and will try for a child within the next 1-3 years (mid 30s). The concern for fertility in your 30s and the obsession with young motherhood is just a societal neurosis and isn’t based on science. Fertility does decrease, but it isn’t some kind of rapid drop to 0 chance. I imagine I would feel a lot more pressure on the marriage piece if I was less able to provide for my own financial needs than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:53 PM
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This is like rural people thinking they’re libertarians & fuck gov. meddling all the while using tax-payer paved roads daily, gov. funded hospitals when they’re sick & they call the fire department when their barns go up in flames. In other words, some men like to pretend social issues are just women things & they care about logic and practicality, but daily reap the benefits of the social networks of the women they know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 07:44 PM
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Your side of the work is developing yourself, your standards and putting yourself out there socially — the good men will find you when they’re ready for you! You’ll see a lot of emphasis on youth and finding future husband/having kids young in this sub, but I personally think all of that is overrated. I dated many but found my forever guy at 27, will start trying for a kid at 34-35 or so. That space bought me a lot of time for life experience, financial development and growth.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 07:35 PM
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To me, much of RPW is about the pre-relationship dating and personal strategy points: 1) don’t sleep with men before commitment, 2) reject most men and vet the ones you accept heavily, 3) develop sky-high boundaries, and 4) justify them by investing in your character and femininity. To the 4th point, this is about developing yourself physically, aesthetically, emotionally, mentally, socially, charismatically, ethically, and even economically/career development. The further along in these dimensi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 07:19 PM
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Block the guy, his wife and any mutual contacts on all social media platforms and texting formats. Do not engage with either of them or their social sphere ever again for any reason. If he ever contacts you, don’t respond and block him on this new platform too. Take some time off from here and work through why you got yourself involved in a marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 06:19 PM
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I think the best thing for OP is a complete and total separation in all ways from this cheater and his family. No good will come for her with any further meddling.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 06:12 PM
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