off_brand_gobshite Archive

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24	The Red Pill Community has Destroyed My Relationship with Father \| A Retrospect of Now Sometimes, it pays to be honest and to take care of yourself. "Dad, when you make me watch pseudoscientific material despite me telling you that I do not wish to, it makes me lose respect for you as a parent, which means you may never see any grandchildren as I wouldn't want them to become like you." "Dad, when you show me this information, it conveys that you don't value women or the work women do, and it makes me reconsider any expectations you might have of me to care for you or even show up …	/r/ExRedPill	03/06/21 05:20 PM
22	How is black pill and hypergamy false. Let me ask a few questions: Would you stay in a job that pays 50k a year, expecting 60 hour weeks, when the company down the road is offering 75K for 40 hour weeks PLUS healthcare? Would you stay in a house with spreading mould, fissuring cracks due to shitty foundations and water damage, or would you shift to a house that's more structurally sound and safe? You don't seem to ever get up in arms about men leaving partners for drastically younger women, or the fact that men are six times more lik…	/r/ExRedPill	30/04/21 09:34 PM
3	If looks don't matter and aren't everything why did women delete me when I put other pictures of myself? Then the beard was hiding the punchable facial expressions. Got it.	/r/ExRedPill	25/04/21 10:35 PM
5	If looks don't matter and aren't everything why did women delete me when I put other pictures of myself? Maybe it's all the other things in the photo that make you look like a bad prospect. Maybe you're taking a photo in a filthy bathroom with a mirror caked in (what I will charitably guess is) toothpaste or with an unflushed toilet in the background. Maybe you dress like dogshit. Maybe your pose or facial expression is giving you major backpfeifengesicht. Maybe they can't tell who you are in the photo. Maybe you're just taking every photo from that unflattering low angle in your car like every oth…	/r/ExRedPill	25/04/21 10:18 PM
13	Is it me or... Because redpill ideology only works when women are culturally and institutionally gaslit into believing that they are deserving of redpill treatment, and we've seen enough when we're young to have a dog in the fight of bringing it down.	/r/ExRedPill	16/04/21 09:59 PM
5	Old men are not successful on average with young women It's also a cope that helps prevent adherents from realising the logical and ethical problems with TRP: if all the benefits are delayed, then how can you say it's not working? Dudes who don't have the social skills and understanding/appreciation of norms that women are attracted to when they're younger don't develop those social skills/appreciation of norms without therapy, better socialisation or sincere reflection - all of which being things that TRP is diametrically opposed to.	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/21 01:36 AM
3	Do redpill men have mother issues? I kinda think we should be encouraging men to be comfortable with both solitude and community in a way that goes beyond a romantic relationship. The urge to use women as their only source of companionship and emotional support isn’t healthy for anyone, and that so many of these dudes fall into shit communities like TRP is a reflection that there’s very little community participation happening for them IRL.	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/21 10:59 PM
1	Do redpill men have mother issues? I think people become shitty out of complacency and socialisation. If you see your mum clean up after you your whole life or do all the chores in addition to a full time job while dad does none of them, it’s easy to assume this is the norm. When care and domestic labour is devalued economically, it’s easy to assume it is inconsequential and you don’t need to do it. The 70% statistic ties into the sex of the person lodging the divorce paperwork - not who requests the divorce. And if the divorced …	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/21 09:41 PM
1	Do redpill men have mother issues? However, I think a majority of them have been emotionally burned by romantic partners and interests countless times. Have they been burned, or are they just shit partners who don't know how to nurture a relationship or show healthy care for others (at best) or are outright abusive and feel entitled to treat their partners this way?	/r/ExRedPill	31/03/21 07:48 PM
2	TheRedPill: Enslavement through the promise of freedom Yo this is kinda the same rhetoric that MLM companies use to explain the failure of consultants and independent contractors to earn a liveable salary while hocking their wares. Were you trying hard enough? Did you tap into your downline sufficiently? Were you hustling on SM? Ultimately, if the product is a turd, very few people can sell it. As it appears from the outside, I'm yet to meet or hear about a genuinely successful man who has applied TRP to his life which isn't just as much of a front …	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/21 09:24 PM
5	How to spot a red piller, incel, MRA, Jordan Petersonist, and whatnot? Men's lib = fuck yeah Men's rights = gtfo	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/21 09:07 PM
2	The Reality of Hypergamy in people. Why not listen to them and provide it? If they have communicated clearly what they want through explicit language or implicit body language and responses, then give them what they want - not what you want to give them.	/r/ExRedPill	06/12/20 12:52 AM
5	How is MGTOW any different compare to extreme radical feminist I mean, you could start with the historical evidence of legislative, cultural, religious, social, economic and political inequality that routinely saw women across nearly all cultures marginalised, disenfranchised and exploited. Or, I mean, you could try considering the significant evidence of death-toll already associated with MRA/Red Pill/Incel groups and their adjacent organisations - not to mention the overwhelming data from hospitals, courts and government/NGAs that demonstrate a burden of …	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/20 08:33 PM
3	Most women I know in relationships would happily cheat on their husband with me . Right? Imagine being proud that your personality type attracted scummy people!	/r/ExRedPill	20/11/20 12:48 AM
5	What do you guys think of MGTOW communism? Advocating for a equal mating society under the banners of Roosh V and Paul Elam , the Lenins of the Manosphere Now here's some specimens that I wouldn't mind having hurled out of a helicopter!	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/20 04:14 AM
17	Opinions on Mail Order Brides? Why not spend the money on therapy to become less lame?	/r/ExRedPill	25/10/20 03:47 AM
13	A daily dose of delusion from this PUA 33scam Why is that man so poorly groomed?	/r/ExRedPill	21/10/20 08:55 PM
12	A Red Puller's Valuation of Women For him physical appearance and health are the main criteria for any woman he would consider dating. If she doesn't fit bit spec, he will show no interest in her. Character and personality are secondary characteristics. I'm not saying that he deserves bad things to happen to him; I'm just saying that I would be highly entertained if his criteria netted him a Dave Rubin-tier grifter.	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/20 12:15 AM
3	High Standards. Because they don't value unpaid emotional and domestic labour. In their minds, bringing in any full-time income = being the breadwinner, regardless of whether or not they work shorter hours, have fewer responsibilities or earn a smaller salary. They're the boss because in their mind they identify as the boss. But unfortunately, facts don't care about their feelings.	/r/ExRedPill	20/09/20 03:43 AM
3	High Standards. But that didn't prevent those women from going on dates with those dudes in that OK Cupid study: it just revealed that physical appearance wasn't the only defining factor for choosing a partner.	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/20 09:49 PM
8	High Standards. Sure, I mean definitely. If your knowledge of human relationships is entirely made up of what you see in the media or online because you have poor social networks and your parents didn't love you enough to bring you up with social skills, that's definitely an inference you'd draw.	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/20 09:47 PM
3	High Standards. RP dudes don't want the responsibility of being the sole financial provider, though. They want the wife who works who does all the housework and parenting as well who stays hot.	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/20 09:46 PM
1	TRP RUINED MY LIFE QUESTION: you know those chemicals your mum keeps under the sink? Do you open the lid to just have a sniff every so often, or do you just drink from the bottle like it's milk?	/r/ExRedPill	30/08/20 08:46 PM
11	I think I know why I want a virgin girlfriend Not one of those is a personality attribute.	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 09:18 PM
6	I think I know why I want a virgin girlfriend What would make you special to someone other than being their first? What qualities do you have that would make you memorable, unique or a person worth savouring - other than in a negative light?	/r/ExRedPill	16/08/20 09:10 PM
2	Ugly men have a right to be angry Well, you throw a rock into a pack of dogs and the one that barks is the one that got hit. It’s clearly riled you to the point that you’ve needed to make several posts about it. Either you’re simping for the ugliest dudes out of a twisted sense of loyalty, or you think you’re ugly.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 03:53 AM
4	Ugly men have a right to be angry Homie, I went into your post history. Your appearance is fine; you're not overweight or emaciated, your skin is nice, and you seem reasonably well groomed. Your glasses aren't very stylish (also they are FILTHY), and you could probably do with spending a little more on finding a barber with a bit more flair, but there's very little that CBT and an eye for style couldn't fix.	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 03:25 AM
1	Ugly men have a right to be angry You seriously don't know how to post a URL? I'm going to throw out there that it's not your appearance that precludes you from a relationship...	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 03:21 AM
7	Ugly men have a right to be angry Look: do they care about being called gay by dudes who they will never bang, or do they care about being attractive to the sex they want to sleep with? If they're looking for a relationship and are willing to show that they care about their partner's comfort and tastes, then they'll choose the latter. If they are paranoid about their social standing amongst other men, they'll be preoccupied with the former. I mean, if he wants to avoid washing his ass to own the libs, he can go ahead: if r/relat…	/r/ExRedPill	02/08/20 01:52 AM
42	Ugly men have a right to be angry Ugly men have the right try to the same skincare, orthodontics, plastic surgery, diet and fashion advice that women have been bullied into accepting as required to be socially acceptable for centuries.	/r/ExRedPill	01/08/20 10:17 PM
4	Unfairness of the dating/hook up culture I mean... you're not very conversationally great, in this very post you've made yourself. You're not responsive to the spirit or ethos of questions, you communicate your ideas oddly by choosing vocab that's a poor fit for meaning and mood, and you're not particularly self-aware. If your speech is anything like your written expression, it's probably a bit off-putting. Anyone can say they have "great conversations" and that they're "compassionate", but in this thread it took me literally asking th…	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/20 10:18 AM
7	Unfairness of the dating/hook up culture What do "good" and "interesting" entail? That's... kinda nebulous.	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/20 08:08 AM
3	Unfairness of the dating/hook up culture Well... yeah. What about you is attractive or appealing for them?	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/20 08:03 AM
6	Unfairness of the dating/hook up culture Why should people want to have sex with you?	/r/ExRedPill	29/07/20 07:59 AM
2	How dare you evil red pillers expose our hypocrisy and double standards? Bro, you can't even use real sentences. Step down. You're inferior to eleven year olds grammatically: on a logical front, why would I ever believe that you're anybody's superior?	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 09:41 AM
3	How dare you evil red pillers expose our hypocrisy and double standards? M8 I doubt you even have any dominant genes being expressed at present. All you want to do is feel like a victim because it buffets you against the realisation that you have achieved nothing; you do nothing; you have nothing. You are literally converting oxygen into carbon dioxide and methane while standing up straight and feeling like a big brave boy for calling yourself a dom because you lack the emotional literacy to form any kind of meaningful relationship with anyone.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 09:10 AM
6	How dare you evil red pillers expose our hypocrisy and double standards? Given that you really seem to enjoy victimhood maybe you need to find yourself a dom?	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/20 08:48 AM
1	How do I overcome the understanding that most women care about a guy's salary more than mens? I mean, what are you willing to contribute to a relationship otherwise? Do you have the skillset to be a really good involved primary caregiver? Would you get into homesteading or consider communal living? People are looking for something of value. Working in the home can be intensely valuable if it is done well and it maintains a sense of community. It takes a lot of mental and emotional fortitude and social skills to raise children exceptionally well and to care for relatives who need it, and …	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/20 01:13 PM
1	How do I overcome the understanding that most women care about a guy's salary more than mens? Think about what money materially does for you, compared to what beauty actually does. Beauty gets a dick hard, and to an extent it can open a few social doors, but I think its currency is drastically overstated and can be compensated for with other things in a way that you really can't do with money. As a woman, my appearance has got me nothing - I have some facial disfigurement from scarring, a bodyfat distribution and connective tissue disorder that causes pain and looks odd, and while I take…	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/20 12:53 PM
1	How do I overcome the understanding that most women care about a guy's salary more than mens? I didn't argue anything about famous women who married "down" economically, but I mean, sure: Gwen Stefani's ex-husband was arguably much less financially successful than her; same for Sandra Bullock, same for Elle Macpherson with Andrew Wakefield (vom), same for plenty of celebs. The argument was about marrying "down" in terms of appearance. If it's neurological that men are attracted to physical beauty, why is it not neurological or biological that women might be drawn to men that demonstrate …	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/20 12:28 PM
3	How do I overcome the understanding that most women care about a guy's salary more than mens? From my personal experience, most men I know will not always directly say they want a woman who looks incredible, but their actions always seem to be the opposite to me. Even if they're handsome. Look at every single celebrity man you find online and they all seem to date beautiful women, however I can find countless famous women that happen to date "normal" men, or men who look far worse than them. In fact ask most women if they care if a man is attractive or ugly and they will usually say they…	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/20 11:02 AM
10	Women. On the contrary. As a consequence of poor parenting and childhood abuse, I didn't recognise that I was experiencing relationship abuse until I started talking to people who were able to provide me with some valid perspective. I didn't even sugarcoat it for myself: if anything, despite me sugarcoating my ex-spouse's behaviour, it still came through as abusive to other parties. Perhaps if more men sought assistance or a listening ear they might be able to avoid some of their relationship issues?	/r/ExRedPill	17/03/20 07:58 AM
9	Women arent as open and tolerant as reddit suggest Many men myself included have done the laundry list of advice and all I have really learned is that women put up a lot of barriers through and through and it gets kinda dehumanize again tiring trying to get through them just for something that they selves would never have to think about. Boundaries are what healthy, sane people of any gender put up to safeguard their social and emotional wellbeing, and to prevent exploitation and abuse. They then, in turn, respect other people's boundaries. It c…	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/20 05:09 PM
3	Confusion about the 'traditional' family. So beyond the fact that it takes you 15 minutes to brush your teeth and take vitamins (which prompts the question how exactly are you taking those vitamins), a few things. What are families who earn 1/10th, 1/20th or even 1/50th of your income meant to do? Is this the norm they should achieve? Is every man capable of getting that job that pays your income? I'd argue it's not likely for most men just due to the structure of our economy in the first place (and even less likely than men who follow …	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/20 12:07 AM
3	What is causing boys' decline in academia? Funny you mention this: I read an article this morning on compulsive behaviours and self-regulation as a consequence of social isolation or exclusion for my postgrad study. Oppositionality is also a consequence and sign for trauma: when your risk-ascertaining skills have been altered by extreme harm, over-reaction can be very common to having your autonomy limited. These were lovely girls too, BTW, who responded really well to a caring relationship with their teachers and who - when given suppor…	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/20 11:39 PM
5	What is causing boys' decline in academia? Traditionally masculine trades pay drastically more than traditionally feminine trades requiring a similar level of educational attainment. There's a lot of incentive for bright and motivated students to explore work like HVAC or mechanics, and they do require a lot of cognitive flexibility and capacity.	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/20 10:59 PM
8	What is causing boys' decline in academia? That’s very true and a bad oversight on my behalf in terms of the diagnosis. The observations about girls gaming are also probably just relevant to my own contexts (I imagine your classroom gaming was far less intrusive, obvious, or oppositional than the examples I have seen). Thanks for this valid insight.	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/20 09:11 PM
52	What is causing boys' decline in academia? Teacher of ten years. Worked in an all boys' school for over five years, and am now in the co-ed sector. This is a topic of particular interest for me. When I hear complaints about boys' achievements in schools, I feel a bit burnt out. A good question is "which boys"? The very wealthy boys are doing perfectly fine; boys from cultural groups that prioritise and emphasise tertiary education do perfectly fine; boys from families with entrenched backgrounds in white collar professions with strong re…	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/20 12:28 PM
15	The red pill actually has a lot of truths Of course looks matter - go on, why don't you give that overweight girl with poor dental hygiene and untreated flaky eczema skin a chance? Of course you can't just be yourself - if yourself is unmotivated, negative, self-centred, and resistant to growth and maturation. Of course socially connected, emotionally healthy women value status inasmuch as avoiding men with poor social networks, a criminal record, cyclical issues with substances or other self-destructive behaviours, or an unwillingness …	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/20 03:37 AM
22	The red pill actually has a lot of truths I think TRP is very analogous to a naturopath. All the stuff you listed above is great - as is the bulk of things that naturopaths recommend. Like, a good 80-85% of the stuff they recommend is good. Get more sleep and practice better sleep hygiene? Great. Eat more vegetables and limit processed food? Awesome. Consider reducing stress and get in more natural daylight to address mood disorders? Terrific. And then there's the sneaky shit. The 15-20% of stuff that's terrible. Vaccines cause autism. …	/r/ExRedPill	29/02/20 02:42 AM
15	“Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”. You can want your preference all you like; don't be surprised when we draw inferences about your selfishness, hatred of women, and poor critical thinking skills. Don't be surprised when those debt-free virgins without tattoos are also disgusted by you (because I guarantee that if the inference you draw about them is that they have discerning standards, that people like you will absolutely fail to meet other standards they hold about the values and conduct of their future husbands).	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/20 08:39 PM
21	“Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”. I also love it when people threaten me with a good time.	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/20 08:37 PM
1	Destroyed some friendships. What can I do? I agree with you: negative emotions like guilt and shame do have an evolutionary purpose, and so long as they're for things within your control that have resulted in harm, it's healthy to experience them. OP, it sounds like you're in a course of your life where you could do some real good for yourself with volunteering, community engagement and therapy. TRP is easy to fall into if you're a young guy with weak social networks and if you spend too much time in front of a screen. Time to get out an…	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/20 12:17 AM
13	Thoughts? Not gona lie they do have a good point imo Women are considered to be more capable of empathy but they are much more cold than men, they move on more quickly, they are more judgemental, and friendship among women are normally just a fight of backstabbing, where did the stereotype come from? Fam none of these things fit the definition of what empathy is. Their point is shitty and anyone who thinks their point isn't shitty is a pretty uncritical thinker.	/r/ExRedPill	25/01/20 06:56 AM
9	Red pill convinced me I might be too ugly for love. is it true? Dude, you look totally fine. You might want to consider sunscreen or experimenting with moisturiser (fair, dry skin like yours can place you at a risk for skin cancer and generally showing flushing when irritated) as a preventative health measure, but you need to show yourself a bit of compassion with appearance. The vast majority of people are going to look fine: features that balance fine, skin and hair that's healthy without drawing too much attention, and a body that's functioning and genera…	/r/ExRedPill	15/01/20 10:51 PM
1	Just want to vent Agreed. Anxiety and how it influences your consequent behaviour can be just as toxic as TRP philosophy; having to second-guess yourself constantly and always being defensive and compensatory are terrible ways to establish rapport and deep trust with others to the point where something like TRP, which offers a formula and blueprint for behaving as a self-preserving mechanism, becomes attractive. Starting with counselling might provide some encouragement for living a little more vulnerably and gen…	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/20 09:30 PM
2	Just want to vent So this sounds pretty distressing, but I do want to point out that most family breaches like this can be repaired - if you have the resources, counselling can equip you with the skillset you need for listening skills and assertiveness. If not, books can be a good place to start. What do you think would be the biggest conflict issue with your family to repair?	/r/ExRedPill	13/01/20 05:53 AM
3	I’ve apologized and feel great Proud of you man. It only keeps getting better from here - our actions and beliefs are always changing, and we are always a work-in-progress and never a finished product. It's still important to be proud of that great progress you've made!	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/20 02:27 AM
2	Lonely... What are you doing in terms of co-curricular or extension activities that get you out of your school and interacting with other people? Local theatre groups and speech/debating societies can give you some great opportunities to work with young women, on the proviso you collaborate with them in good faith.	/r/ExRedPill	07/01/20 02:41 AM
5	I feel so bad.... 17yo m I think it's really positive that you're able to look to life pre-RP to recognise the strengths and positive traits that made you happy in yourself, which other people liked as well. You're showing a lot of maturity in this insight, and it's clear that you value being warm and inclusive. Talking to your old friends might help, but one-on-one; it takes a lot of courage to self-disclose these things and to show vulnerability in self-improvement. As a teacher, I think students in their last year of…	/r/ExRedPill	05/01/20 11:11 AM
4	I am never going to be in a relationship red pill or not. You literally don't have the one thing you want, so clearly it's not. The only thing standing in the way of your dreams is the fact that the person having those dreams is you.	/r/ExRedPill	30/12/19 08:46 AM
15	I am never going to be in a relationship red pill or not. FR you sound like someone who repeatedly puts their hand on the hot plate then complains about being burnt. Why do we need to be offering you any sympathy or advice when you won’t do the most basic ass shit to manage your own life? You’re so passive and apathetic about your own internal growth that you scare away worthwhile people of any sex.	/r/ExRedPill	29/12/19 09:35 PM
23	Do you think most red pill types live in the internet more than they do in real life? I worry more broadly for any young person whose socialisation is primarily screenbased: whose only experience of watching people interact might be through watching fictionalised interactions in TV shows and movies. There are a lot of very poorly and absently parented young people who can't read body language, understand social nuance or engage with their peers and adults around them because they've been raised by the internet, games and their TVs.	/r/ExRedPill	26/12/19 08:30 PM
2	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post Not really. You made a specific claim that divorce is caused by women doing more work both inside and outside of the house than men. I don't think that's true based on the numbers I saw there. Now, I did make a mistake here, I forgot the rows for 'caring for household members' and 'caring for nonhousehold numbers'. So, let's do that: For men it's a total of .51 hours. For women it's .94 hours, for a difference of .43 hours. This means that the men still work .38 hours more between working outsid…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 10:07 PM
1	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post The household activities figures in that table don't appear to include leisure pressures. I'm not sure why that would be relevant... Time available for leisure pursuits is directly germane to the discussion and they are listed and categorised in the same table. "I destroyed my perfectly good marriage and family because I was bored and not intellectually stimulated enough". You know this is a bad-faith, uncharitable response. It's not just boredom: it's financial, social, cultural and political i…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 06:47 PM
3	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post See this BLS report for details. Note the longer hours worked by men in full time jobs and see Table 1. In Table 1, that BLS report says that the average man averages 4.16 hours a day working. The Average woman averages 3.02 hours a day working, a difference of 1.14 hours. The average man spends 1.36 hours on household activities and the average woman spends 2.17 hours on household activities for a difference of 0.81 hours. I'm not American but I can use the data. I note you omitted caring for h…	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 11:32 AM
6	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post Think of how many more hours men work out of the home. And even if the event that a marriage dissolution is bipartisan and amicable, something of value is still lost. Women are increasingly working full-time in greater proportions, increasingly entering highly paid professions, and in increasing numbers becoming the family breadwinner. Hours spent on domestic and caregiving labour still exceeds what is being done by men. The whole "culture should allow men to outwardly demonstrate emotion" card …	/r/ExRedPill	16/12/19 07:30 AM
19	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post Redpill likes to sprinkle in weird, decontextualised statistics without any kind of critical thinking. They don't think about the underlying behaviour or historical factors that contributed to this, they don't empathise with the position of the individuals that comprise these numbers - they just want to spook dudes. women file for what 70%(?) of divorces So? Someone's going to file for it. Given that adultery rates indicate that men cheat on women at a statistically higher rate, of course women …	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/19 08:55 PM
29	How do I detox from red pill as a woman? This really just is internet self-harm, which Contrapoints talks about in the "Incels" video. (You should definitely watch that, btw: it covers all the shit you've been reading about and addresses why it's so noxious.) First off, recognise the tremendous cognitive dissonance in all that shit - and it is mired in cognitive dissonance. You're probably an intelligent person who operates under a set of logic; run yourself through it. Has literally EVERY woman been like that? Do you have your own evi…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/19 11:01 AM
13	Escaping the red pill is near impossible when society shows you exactly what you were fearing the most TRP works in the same way that a naturopath's advice works. 80% of it is such unobjectionable (yet bland) platitudes that work for everyone. Get more sleep. Eat a vegetable. Drink more water. Go to the gym. Take pride in your appearance. That shit is totally fine, but to the point that you need someone to actually tell you these specific things implies you need WAY more help for issues beyond that anyway. It's the other 20% that ruins the package - much like a smear of shit will inevitably ruin …	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/19 01:25 AM
7	The story of my awakening from MGTOW Good on you, dude. I get it; I'm taking a year or so off all dating and relationships and enjoying a very peaceful time. But I haven't (and don't see other single women who've purposefully chosen solo life) spent my time slagging off men as a whole, or avoiding them full-stop, or not giving them aide and assistance and friendship, as adherents of MGTOW often advise. It's an ugly, hollow, isolating way to live. I hope you've got some good professional or social networks, or you're in a position w…	/r/ExRedPill	02/11/19 10:13 AM