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practice until you get it right but practice until you can't do it wrong any more I'm going to crotchet this into a pillow. Amazing stuff, well said.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 02:16 PM
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Gold. Going to set this as my auto-reply to any and all communications from the wife.
/r/askMRP12/09/18 10:40 PM
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bro's can't pull rank and either slap a bitch or put her out on the curb Probably the best part of the new rules; sorts the men out from the boys and along with "empowered sexuality" has created a vast pool of dissatisfied house-wives/divorcees that I will dip into as I get older. All hail feminism!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 09:10 PM
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What other guys? Actually doesn't matter. Having heard both sides what do YOU think is the right advice for you? Once you figure out what YOU want to do, go ahead and do that.
/r/askMRP12/09/18 08:19 PM
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I'm not saying he SHOULD get married. I'm predicting that he WILL marry the next woman that shows him kindness and fucks him because he's a little bitch through and through. I wifed up my LTR because she has consistently demonstrated value to my life AND I know that I have the frame and mentality to keep her providing said value AND I'm a baller so if I have to give her half my shit I'll be a-okay. Wives are like yachts, if you have think about how much it costs, you probably can't afford it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 07:12 PM
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how long should I give it before I decide to throw the towel The general equation around here is 1 month for each year of marriage. I've been working on myself for a few weeks now Sounds like you have 13 months left at minimum. I am a bit out of shape, nothing major, but no excuses; I'm relatively certain I have a much higher SMV I'm betting that you're including your monetary wealth and ability to provide into your "SMV", which is wrong. She's not divorcing you because of your money, hence, "Be…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 06:03 PM
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This is terrible advice. OP has a lot of work to do to unfuck himself. Your advice will lead him to posting here again 3 years from now about his mistress/new-wife is not fucking him like she used to.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 05:56 PM
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What was the "mission" for the evening out? Was it: 1) Stick to the itinerary at all cost 2) Fun It's not confusing, you're being autistic. The goal is always fun. Fun is attractive. Having an extra drink and taking selfies is fun. Spontaneity is fun. Trying to get "alpha female" and your woman into a threesome while her beta watches is fun. Stop being a faggot and focus on what's important in life... You were so busy sticking to the plan that you weren't having fun, that's what /u/gettingmymojo…
/r/askMRP12/09/18 04:40 PM
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From what you posted, this incident made you wait what, half an hour? So lemme get this straight... you're hanging out with friends, having drinks, hopefully enjoying each others' company, and you came to the Internet to complain how "alpha female" and his beta-bitch made you wait an extra half hour? /u/red-sfpplus gave you great advice on how to better deal with this particular situation, but the bigger issue is your FRAME and how you carry yourself overall. This isolated incident is not your p…
/r/askMRP12/09/18 04:32 PM
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Give her the D and maybe she'll give you the T
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 04:14 PM
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Afterwards, the spouse asked for a full bloodwork done and got rubber stamped. Hippocratic oath my ass, more like hypocritical oath! Was the doctor super BP? Probably afraid that giving you TRT will further enhance your "toxic masculinity" i had to learn how to calculus to convert it into any acceptable format. They also gave me a "free testosterone" number at 92. From the little that I've read it seems to not matter as much. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 04:01 PM
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Thanks! I think that's what I have to do next
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 01:56 PM
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The way you typed it up in your OYS seemed to imply that you were letting it slide since AWALT. Sounds like that wasn't the case and you're on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 10:10 PM
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I got my results back last week (had a normal physical scheduled so added testosterone testing given the hype lately) and was at 880ish (I'm 40 yo) so the doctor said that I was on the high side and "in range" so did not qualify for TRT. Even if you feel fine, find your natural level I think this is my main issue around testosterone... What the hell is my "natural level"?! Is 880 optimal for my body type/genetics/lifestyle, etc.? Or is that lower than my body needs to live optimally? ​ I don't h…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 10:08 PM
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i will continue and i will not fucking stop I'll believe it when I see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 09:07 PM
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As another commenter said men hold to their word, but we can't expect that from women, AWALT. It seems that you're mixing and matching things. While AWALT (can't trust their words), her action is that she fulfill her responsibility. As the captain, are you going to make sure that your first officer is doing her job or not? Your butt-hurt response obviously needs to change, but enforcing rules and boundaries should not take second place to AWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 08:59 PM
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He has been doing exactly what you propose, and failing. I have no problem with him failing... I have a problem with him giving up. His initial statement was: But for now, I'm finally done trying to muscle my way into her pussy. ​ Why are you suggesting the opposite? I'm not. I'm suggesting that he continue to spar with his wife AND other women. Abundance mentality is key. Agreed. Separately, mental fortitude (i.e., Frame) is also key, which is why running away from the big bad dragon (his wife)…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 07:17 PM
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Not to mention the hassle and stress As with anything else, once you are practiced enough and incorporate it into your life, it's not that much of a hassle nor is it stressful. Perhaps your view will change after a few more rub and tugs. I know mine did. I catch and release often but without them "opening up" I don't feel that the hunt is complete. Truth be told I enjoy dominating people and it's psychologically enjoyable to get someone to do what you want when they don't have to, which is why p…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 07:08 PM
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And you got pissed for your woman cheering the kid on in the middle of a competition game? He was at a tennis match... etiquette dictates. WTF are you going to do when the other parents start yelling at your son to "Miss the ball" Not sure about OP but I'll walk over to the other parents and ask them politely to stop, using social shame and directness to confront them. 9 times out of 10 the offending parents will comply. The 1 time out of 10 (i.e., you)? If a normal Billy-Beta, fisticuffs. If yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 06:53 PM
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I’ve caught myself several times wanting to “order her to get on her knees” and then bailing out in fear of how she’d react. Fuck! Take the Figaro chain, put it around her neck and use it as leash to pull her head into your cock. Acta non verba!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 06:30 PM
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Cool thanks for sharing. I was curious about the legal enforceability to see if this could be a sort of "Mid-nup". Pre-nups frequently have fidelity clauses and some behavioral clauses with consequences so wondering if this could be used to men's collective advantage. You mentioned that your wife leans feminist, how far left does she lean?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 06:16 PM
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No you're not... not with that attitude.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 06:10 PM
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I actually started having fun after a little while. This happened to me. After 10 minutes I got up and said "Thanks for your time. I don't like to fuck around so I'll be heading to the other Mercedes dealership down the road. Have a nice day." Then at the other dealership I walked in and said "I just walked out of the other dealership because they were wasting my time and I'm hoping you won't do the same". Nailed down a price in 10 minutes and paperwork done in 30. Abundance mentality and OI is …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 06:07 PM
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I am more driven than ever I’m beginning to wonder if I instead need to start issuing directives Is it possible that because you're so driven she's staying out of your way? "Directives" can be softened to a "strong suggestion". Good leaders include others in their mission and provide clear roles and expectations. Setting a good example is a big part of that, but some times things need to be said for clarity.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:53 PM
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Any woman -- my wife included -- is a fine source for that practice; no reason I can't continue (and increase) that with her. No you're wrong. Does Michael Jordan find a bunch of high-school kids to sharpen his game? Don't be a faggot. Find the hardest sparring partner you can find to elevate your game. That person is your wife. Then once she rejects you go spar some more with the hottest women you can find. Practice makes perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:47 PM
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By all means please. I'm curious if there are termination provisions in your DDA? I.e., if she chooses to terminate the DDA then penalty is XYZ? Also, I'm curious if it's legally enforceable in case of divorce?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:34 PM
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she asks sarcastically whether I have a "hot date." I say, "no, just going to class." Missed opportunity! Something cocky & funny would've worked better. "Nope don't have A hot date, have 3"
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:26 PM
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So tired of putting in a million times more effort, of all the books, all the therapy sessions. This sounds a bit like a covert contract? Who are you doing this for? I choose to be with my wife. I fucking love her. She's amazing in many ways and still the sexiest woman I know. I would much, much, much rather have sex with her than anyone else. But I'm not beholden to her. With this feeling, plating is the next bridge that you'll likely have to cross. I hesitated for a long time due to morals, bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 05:21 PM
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Ah okay that makes more sense. 29 inch pant size sounds more reasonable. I don't lift anymore as I'm training for amateur boxing so unfortunately can't give you any reference there.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 07:32 PM
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Info: 37, 5'6", 145lbs, ~18%bf (navy method); 33" waist. I'm also 5'6" but 135lbs, 14% bf, 27" waist. From what I remember back when I was 145lbs my waist was 29"/30". Just curious how your waist is at 33"? Seems a bit odd.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 02:54 PM
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figure out why I give a shit about what random women think of me We humans are a social bunch, so understanding / reading the reactions of those around us (men or women) is not a problem in and of itself. The problem would be to let their reactions dictate your attitude or actions. Over time you will develop instinctual AM. For example, this morning I was on the subway and I was checking out a lipstick lesbian. Her bull was with her and she gave me a glare. I stared back and gave her a wink and …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 02:50 PM
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You're still lying to us and yourself. If you were staying at 1500 cals daily and lifting (even if it's just the fucking bar) you would would have lost some weight which you have not. My guess is 1500 cals are the "good days" when you're disciplined (3 or 4 days a week?) and the other days you fuck around and convince yourself that because you're doing so good on your diet and working out that you "deserve" to have a cheat meal or an extra wine spritzer.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 04:40 PM
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20% BF? Unchanged in 4 months? Expect to get laid? What the fuck is wrong with you? Stop fucking around and actually lift you fat fuck. Your "Week 19" OYS vs your 8/21/2018 OYS stats are nearly identical. What the fuck have you been doing for the past 4 months? This tells me that your wife is not the problem. You are. You lack discipline and are half-assing RP, which doesn't fucking work. You probably half-ass everything in life as well. If I can see through your bullshit your wife certainly can…
/r/askMRP06/09/18 03:17 PM
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Just watched this last night! Debated and rejected getting a "Pussy Wagon" tattoo
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 04:04 PM
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For me, I was "faking" RP but did not truly "make it" until after having great sex with a plate. After that is when I truly got rid of my oneitis and truly realized that AWALT. My oneitis was so severe that despite no fap, no porn, no sex, I still had trouble getting it up when I finally got past the morality of plate spinning. It took me 3 frustrating attempts before I was able to get my wife out of my head long enough to enjoy what the plate was offering. I am trying to figure out whats the ha…
/r/askMRP31/07/18 07:40 PM
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Been following your soap opera for quite a while and I'm rooting for you. However, I still sense that you are doing all of this to try to win her back or, at the very least, "show her what a mistake she's made". In short, you're still in her frame. Have you fucked anyone else yet? If not, I strongly suggest you do.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 02:07 PM
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Spencer is RP af
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/18 05:03 PM
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Damn... you DEER at every provocation, and in this case not even DEERing logically... You've been lifting for 20+ years... how did your "alpha" ass end up here? Maybe you should register the user name "mrpjourney_jr" so you can actually have something useful to pass onto him
/r/askMRP17/07/18 03:55 PM
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I like this because it rhymes
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/18 06:27 PM
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Yeah, but most of the internet are not HB10s! Pics or GTFO!
/r/askMRP09/07/18 08:59 PM
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Plus I'll be part of your beta program. #triggered
/r/askMRP27/06/18 09:29 PM
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I'll take 2
/r/askMRP27/06/18 09:27 PM
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Then why are you here? It sounds like you just had a "miserable moment" in an otherwise not so miserable marriage.
/r/askMRP20/06/18 06:53 PM
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Can you elaborate on what you would change? Mindset? Approach? Specific things?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 01:42 PM
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I think, in a distant future for you, you may be able to see some of the BP lies and use it to your advantage. Given that the world at large is largely BP, it's helpful to use your "enemy's" perceived strength and turn it into a weakness. But before you get there, you must learn Kung Fu (another Matrix reference).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 01:35 PM
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Glad to know I'm not the only one with that hobby
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:33 PM
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Well fuck now I'm going to save your reply as my "Daily Constitution of good thoughts"
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:24 PM
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RED PILL? IS IT A FUCKING MATRIX REFERENCE?? LOL! On the topic of the Matrix, one of the most difficult things that I had to overcome and still catch myself feeling nostalgic about is the part about the steak... " Cypher: You know, I know this steak doesn't exist. I know that when I put it in my mouth, the Matrix is telling my brain that it is juicy and delicious. " When life gets hard I sometimes catch myself feeling sorry for myself. Then I pound my fist to my chest twice and say to myself "Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 09:00 PM
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Jumping in to support Steve's claims. I've been keto for 2 years. I do 3 two hour boxing workouts every week (5 rounds heavy, 3 rounds speed, 2 rounds crazy, 3 sets push-ups, 6 sets leg-lifts/sit-ups, 3 sets Turkish get-ups, 3 rounds jump-rope). I water fast on work-out days and eat heavy the morning after (I work out at night). I feel no "fatigue". On top of that, I feel little to no muscle fatigue/pain/soreness post work-out. There are studies out there theorizing that because ketone usage in …
/r/askMRP15/06/18 06:15 PM
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Hah! Late reading this but was waiting for the comment.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 05:34 PM
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Since swallowing the pill, I don't really love things or people anymore. I love the feelz that things or people can give me. Your love of rare steak is an interesting analogy. You love your steak raw, primal, juicy, dripping. Once you eat that steak, taste it, digest it, absorb it, defecate it, do you still love it? I'm in love with the satisfaction that a well-prepared steak can give, but I don't love the steak. Lucky for my wife I'm a steak man. I don't like chicken or pork. If I have steak wh…
/r/askMRP22/05/18 07:13 PM
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Can't wait for part 3 of this troll/cuck erotica where you tell us how his cum tastes.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 08:13 PM
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Fuck... now I have to sell my Ducati since apparently it's ridden by faggots.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 07:57 PM
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Hmmm, that's an interesting point, let me think about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 02:16 PM
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younare talking about a transcendent or spiritual fulfillment My interpretation of Maslow's work is that it's a very broad observation about what motivates human beings so while it's helpful in that it applies to nearly everyone, it is equally not helpful because it lacks specifics. To what you are saying, years after he established the hierarchy he did go back and append/correct his concept of Self-Actualization to one of Self-Transcendence where it is more about devoting energy to a cause high…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 10:46 PM
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The way I think about it (and have thought about life this way for as long as I can remember) is through Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. The pyramid provided me an understanding of the framework of "What" but never the "How" which is where I fucked up. As many of us here have experienced, what went wrong in my relationship/life was the method with which I climbed the pyramid, specifically the "Love/Belonging" step through beta tendencies (for me, covert contracts). Having mostly fixed the "How" in …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 09:41 PM
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Agreed that we "are here to encourage, share, and support" but we all do that differently. Some are firm and direct, some cynical and crass, some faggoty. Wirh luck, the spectrum of advice drives the point home.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/18 03:29 PM
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Lol relax... I do amateur boxing so obviously lifting is not ideal.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 04:02 PM
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See what i mean? Doesn't get much straighter than this. Get to work. Faggot.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 03:09 PM
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I don't lift so no advice there but wanted to take the time to congratulate you on a great first post! One of the best I've seen. Confident, humble, takes ownership, analytical, direct. You're well on your way. You're also among friends (and if you fuck up we'll shoot straight with you like real friends should). Also, be sure to enjoy the ride.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 02:51 PM
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It really is as simple as two cars. One requires effort, patience, set backs. The other is ready to enjoy, instant gratification. You previously never had the means to get the Ferrari. Now you feel that you do and you're wondering if the Chevelle SS is worth fixing up. I personally have chosen to fix up the Chevelle SS, but it was a long and painful process (definitely lost my sanity and ended up costing more than a Ferrari) and continues to be (ever try to find parts for an old car?!? Hours on …
/r/askMRP06/04/18 10:49 PM
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Sorry...can you point me to the part of the sidebar where it says "do 80% of this and you will get 100% of the results"? Based on your lift stats, your muscle mass does not justify your weight for your height. I'm 39, 5'6", 140lbs, 15% BF. I currently don't lift since I box but based on my previous experience I can walk into a gym in a suit and throw up those numbers. You are fat. The reason you can't admit that is because of your ego. Kill the ego.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 10:24 PM
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I don't know what you mean by "blow up in your face"? If you are a turbo-Chad and can attract women better than your wife, then you are in a good position to make a choice. Analogously, you are driving a Chevelle SS that leaks oil, constantly breaks down, just generally a pain in the ass. You suddenly win the lottery and can now buy a Ferrari. Do you buy that Ferrari or do you devote resources to fixing up the Chevelle SS? Only you can answer that. In the end, there is no "blow up in your face" …
/r/askMRP06/04/18 09:42 PM
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She treats me like a king. I dislike this sentence. It implies that her validation means something to you. You're focusing on the wrong thing... As many have said here and in MRP, the point of all this is to focus on making you the best "you" that you can be. And as we all know, we can never be perfect so there is always room to improve. You don't know "how long it will last" because you don't believe that you ARE the king. When you ARE the king (preferably benevolent), you believe your subjects…
/r/askMRP06/04/18 09:09 PM
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For keto, since you're taking a break from lifting, have you tried fasting? I don't mean intermittent fasting, but straight up water fasting. I've been keto for about 2 years now and about a year ago I started water fasting once a week. I initially started with 1 full day (roughly 39 hours. Dinner day 1, skip food day 2, lunch day 3) and at one point (just for giggles) I fasted for 5 straight days and lost 12 lbs. Currently I do a 1 day fast every week on a non-work out day just because it makes…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 08:49 PM
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"Me: 41, 163.4 lb, 5’ 7’’" + "SQ 100 OH 70 DL 125 BP 70 Row 80" <> = "nor fat, I promise." ==> "Still, the bedroom is dead. Dead, dead, dead." Step 1: Kill the ego
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 06:39 PM
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You can say fuck here... and quite frankly whenever the fuck you want. Faggot.
/r/askMRP05/04/18 02:59 PM
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Not necessarily useful feedback but more of an observation... I think there's an over-emphasis on MRP/RP about lifting without taking into account height/body-type, etc. We're similar height (I'm 5'6") and at one point in my life I was muscular and bulky from lifting (160lbs, 15% body fat). My physical frame didn't carry the muscle mass well. For the past 4 years I've been boxing and am now 140lbs, 10-13% body fat. I work out 3 times a week doing 5 rounds of heavy bag, 4 rounds of speed bag, 3 r…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 05:57 PM
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"yeah, I'm back." This. /salute!
/r/askMRP12/02/18 10:13 PM
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How old are the kids? From personal experience women tend to be psychotic (more so) with small children (7 months to 2 years). From what I can tell, the problem here is not the car seats nor her thinking you'd be leaving the kids alone or even her not trusting you with the kids.... The real problem is that you don't set the frame for parenting to begin with. My response (because I have set the frame): "I'll take care of it tomorrow morning. If you're worried about the kids being alone while I'm …
/r/askMRP12/02/18 07:22 PM
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Others have already posted about how "women don't love that way" and I'm in full agreement there so won't repeat all of that. However, I'm really empathetic to what you're feeling so wanted to share what I did in a similar situation. A bit of background. I'm 5'6", roughly 13% body fat, am an aspiring amateur boxer so I don't "LIFT" like many redpillers do. Lifting is not productive for boxing since it adds unnecessary bulk. My wife and I went to see Thor: Ragnarok when it came out. After the mov…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/18 04:58 PM
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