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Damn Dr. Phil the guy’s just asking for advice. Is it a rule on this sub to have a psychological evaluation of every Reddit post we make? I thought it was a place to try to get real world advice from like minds.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:38 AM
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Two major major weaknesses at play here that are holding you back from doing what you KNOW you need to do. Love. You have to kill the “love” you have for her. Kill it dead. You wrote this post in a moment of clarity, when you realize what a piece of shit she is. But it’s likely you’ll forget the frustration that led to you writing it. You’ll even forgive her because of positivity bias (and it’s what married men do). Refer back to this post when it seems like “everything is fine” to keep from fal…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 09:16 AM
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Great book. Another one that would help OP is The Charisma Myth.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:33 PM
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I am 46 and got divorce raped in October of 2019 and had to start from less than zero. Your friend couldn’t be more wrong about the inability to change after 27. I am just now entering the best and most productive, enjoyable part of my life. I’m attracting more money now than I ever did when I was married. PR regularly at the gym, have a gf that is 20 years younger than me who is a solid HB8 and a good helper to my mission. I have completely transformed my mind and life in a very short time. It …
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:36 AM
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If you read the side bar you wouldn’t be asking this question.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 01:21 PM
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Be sure to always bring her breakfast in bed after she unties you. Then marry her before somebody else does. Keep us all informed of your wedding plans.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 08:45 PM
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Yo bro. You’re gonna be great. “With wisdom comes sorrow”. It’s good to hear that one more man has been set free from the matrix. The pain will pass I promise you - we’ve all been there to some extent. But - here it comes - quit being a whiny pussy and man the fuck up.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:31 PM
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Can you give sources for this info? This is the first I’ve heard about the pseudo hermaphroditism. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill10/02/21 05:48 PM
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Fo real dawg
/r/askTRP05/02/21 11:41 PM
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Well written and thoughtful. However, you’re projecting your belief system on RP theory. There’s really no long term benefit to bringing your spirituality into RP because it is aspiritual as well as amoral. There is a place for this thinking because there is truth here but it would be better suited for a sub of its own. /RPBuddhist maybe?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 04:12 AM
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Troll
/r/RPChristians14/11/20 05:32 PM
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I used to be what most would call rich (it’s a relative label) and was married to a Christian HB8+. I do believe she was/is saved but a after our children began to not need her, etc. she went through a midlife crisis and lost her identity. She started going out with younger or divorced friends, got super into fitness, got new boobs, face injections, and started posting on the socials. Of course she got TONS of attention from guys looking for the milf vibe and realized she felt really good gettin…
/r/RPChristians05/10/20 01:00 PM
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I’m hearing this idea more often across TRP and similar subs. But it is scarcity thinking. Maybe there are stats or personal experience to support this. Or maybe we partly create our own reality. Is this a narrative that we are being fed? Who would it benefit if more men have this mindset?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/20 09:37 PM
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There’s a company I use called “forhims”. I’m on their subscription service for finasteride and minoxidil. After the first 3 weeks I saw new hair growing from follicles that had been dormant for years. A year later my hair is three times as thick and I have a pretty full head of hair and Zero dick problems. I was already balding when I started so I still have a receded hairline. If I started earlier my hairline would be lower. Only problem is if you stop using it your hair falls out again. I’m h…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 12:13 PM
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To make a paragraph you put two spaces at the end of a sentence and press return.[space][space][return] Don’t jump around like an idiot and lose your shit - EVER, unless you stepped in a bear trap or something - but even then... You look like a fool who has no self control if you tard out. You seem to bristle at honest advice about your sister’s behavior. She is going through her slut phase. You can’t stop it. Don’t try to control her or you’ll look weak and immature. If you think someone may ac…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 01:33 AM
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If you’re referring to yourself, congrats on finding this group. If you don’t have a real life RP mentor then books (Rational Male, etc.) and this sub are your lifeline. I was fortunate to have a group of close brothers who circled the wagons and pushed me onward, but they are still all blue pilled except one. I’m still learning and practicing my own RP path but I’m willing to help a brother out if you’re going through shit. Message me if you want. No shame in asking for help.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 01:37 PM
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This sounds like my story from A to Z. Eventually for me the shoe did drop. She started going to our beach condo alone more and more, met a dude(s), I became even more beta, lost my shit completely, thought and talked about suicide, etc. I was served divorce papers the day after Christmas and got divorce-raped harder than most. That was a little over a year ago. Fortunately for me I had one friend - ONE friend - who was RP and started gradually introducing me to the concepts espoused in this gro…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 11:29 PM
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Hahaha my bad! Yes DAVE Ramsey. Been watching Kitchen Nightmares lately. Thanks for the correction
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:12 PM
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I was in the same exact situation almost a year ago. I got divorce-raped and was stuck with ~$100k in debt. Even though I had the means to pay it all down (I own a successful business) I preferred to spend it on creature comforts because I wanted to feel good. I even considered declaring bankruptcy. I read Gordon Ramsey's "Complete Money Makeover" and it changed my life and gave me some financial tools and a new perspective that I desperately needed. I hired a financial advisor for $300 and he h…
/r/askTRP29/02/20 04:04 PM
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You can get an STD from someone who doesn’t even know they have one. A girl will lie about anything. Tests are only useful to the person getting tested. A girl can theoretically get tested and then bang the clinician while she’s waiting for the results. Herpes (at least) are almost a sure bet if you’re gonna play the numbers game. Be more worried about making a baby. They’re harder to get rid of than an STD.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:08 PM
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Yeah you’re probably right. I’m looking forward to the day when it’s completely behind me. Thanks for calling me out.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 04:30 PM
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Ok maybe a little extreme but it’s fucking bad man. I hope you don’t go through a divorce and have to find out what I mean. Other divorcees might agree
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 04:23 PM
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Speaking from first-hand experience. My wife and I had a very flirty relationship with her best girl friend for about three years. Lots of drinking, hot tubbing, “accidental” wardrobe malfunctions, “playful” innuendo, etc. My wife acted totally cool with it all and even instigated, so me being a dumbass started thinking we were on our way to a threesome. Boy was that a fucking miscalculation. Wife grew jealous and resentful and they started competing for my attention. It all blew up over time an…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/20 03:08 AM
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Similar story here. It took me about a year to get over the PTSD and still have fragments of it. You’ll be better over time. Lift, lift and hit the heavy bag even when you don’t want to. Hypnotherapy and NLP changed my life. If you’re drinking to self medicate you gotta stop or you’ll prolong the healing process. But in the end it just takes time brother. Visualize a better life and it will happen.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:27 PM
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Solid
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:16 PM
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I think she observed me entering the pw. And yes good idea to disable notifications on lock screen. I’m too goddam trusting.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:44 PM
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You’re a genius. No shit. I have one but she must have observed me entering it and remembered it, which makes it worse.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:40 PM
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While not a follower of the royals, I happened to see this headline on Drudge. The BP prince is quoted saying, “What Meghan wants, Meghan gets.” Smh. He’s giving up his identity for the poontang. Classic example of an American feminist yielding her super powers to make this dude leave his post. On the surface they want us to think it’s a “noble thing” to stop taking public money as a royal, but in reality she just made the ultimate power move by pulling an actual PRINCE into her frame. Hold your…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 02:30 PM
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Stop texting her
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:32 PM
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I’m 45 and find no reason to date older women who are even close to my age. I usually go no older than 25-30 yo.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:52 PM
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When I got divorced I dreaded having to go back into the dating pool. But now “fish in a barrel” is the phrase that I use to describe my experiences. OP tell your buddy that dating is nothing like it used to be. There’s little reason to use online dating apps* as long as you live in a reasonably populated area. Instead attend social events - not just pubs - but networking events with high caliber women and approach, approach, approach. *The one exception to dating apps imo is if he wants to prac…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:49 PM
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Great reply. Really appreciated your story arc. And “...being shredded is a cheat code.” So true brother
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:13 PM
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Yes we're all in this together. Respect for your fellow man in all arenas is key to progress.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:07 PM
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It's not sad, it just is. It's the hand we men are dealt and we need to play it well. By saying "lose it all", where your "all" is a woman, then yes you would be sad. Reframe your thinking brother. A woman should never be your all. You create your reality by lifting, learning, working and right-thinking. After that a woman can be a part of the abundant life you've created if you let her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 01:51 PM
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Wtf? That's the same as calling your mommy bc the school bully stole your lunch money.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:42 PM
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I've seen the ugliest dudes get hot chicks. Lift, start a business/side-hustle and join business networking groups and surround yourself with achievers and believers. Be happy you're not an ugly woman.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:38 PM
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Keep lifting. Don't stop til you are either too old or you die. You can't really rush it (unless you use roids). Lift/hit heavy bag 5-6 days a week for the rest of your life. If you're consistent you'll be jacked in a year or less.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:32 PM
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Excellent reply. There seem to be a lot of bitter, butthurt, rejected guys on RP. You're not one of them. Thanks for the clarity.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:39 AM
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Can you elaborate? How is that weird
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:31 AM
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Nailed it
/r/askTRP01/11/19 03:58 PM
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Agree with nearly everything you said except, "The red pill is not for you." Some of us are still learning and haven't reached chadlightenment.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 01:41 PM
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Ditch social media This. Unless you're using it exclusively to make money or accomplish some other life goal.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 01:37 PM
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Oh, here's the problem. The exclusive part or the short time frame? If time frame how long would you say? Assuming one is not really into spinning plates. She has been borrowing one of my cars while hers is in the shop Yeah it was literally just sitting there not being used. How could I not offer, as I would to any friend or gf. But I see how that could be a BP move.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 11:43 AM
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Tim Hawkins is one of the best Christian comics I've seen. He's a goof but clean and self-effacing. https://timhawkins.net/ Pete Holmes was raised Christian and is quite funny, however seems to not be a Christian any more. His show "Crashing" was great, albeit vulgar. The show has a ton of comedians and comic instruction behind-the-scenes stuff that is useful if you're trying to learn how to pull off comedy. It also illustrates the arch of a successful stand-up comic, the struggles, sacrifices a…
/r/RPChristians24/10/19 05:10 PM
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