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ogrethebuffoon/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 08:01 PM
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Thanks, it's a great post. I think more important than asking yourself "what will I do?" is "who will I be?"
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:54 AM
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I've never walked a great Dune in the Sahara, climbed a glacial ice wall, been in a bar fight in Dublin or done a line of cocaine off a Tokyo model, chased by a bear or been genuinely fearful for my life. These aren't what's missing. What's missing is a mission and a higher purpose that guides your daily actions and a set of values that you adhere to which brings fulfillment. It's progress towards a vision of the greatest version of yourself that brings happiness. I will tell my grandchildren, i…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:23 PM
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"Confidence is a high degree of certainty in one's actions and beliefs" That's secondary. Confidence is a result of self-love and knowing/appreciating one's own self-worth totally independent of one's actions and beliefs. From that inner knowing, actions and beliefs that are aligned with who you really are will follow and will build greater experiential knowledge of the expression of your self-worth in a virtuous circle. Confidence is the cherry on top.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 02:17 PM
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Bending to other people's and society's ideas about what is best for you is generally a poor idea. Only you can know what excites you and fulfills you and if you wish to live joyfully you must pursue things from a place of pure desire towards something, not a craving to get away from your current circumstances. Of course, use the stepping stones in front of you and trust that another one will always show up although it may not look like what you expected.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 01:59 PM
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I realized it's not worth trying to spread red pill truths into other subs. Don't try to teach a pig to fly. It doesn't work and it bothers the pig. I think the best way to attract people to this sub is to post intelligently elsewhere on non RP topics such that people look at your comment history and become curious about TRP. Sure, most will reject it because hamster, but critical thinkers will stay and keep reading. There is very little to worry about for 99% of us by posting here. Don't reveal…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:18 PM
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Just to clarify that's not what 80/20 usually refers to although 4:1 action:study is a good ratio. The 80/20 principle means you only need to study the right 20% of a certain set of material to get 80% of the results (i.e. important information). This could be only reading the first sentence of each paragraph of everything in the sidebar. It also means that 20% of what you could be practicing will yield 80% of the results. That 20% is probably approaching women you're most attracted to. So focus…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 10:46 PM
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Get some amber tinted glasses at start wearing them a few hours before you want to sleep. They block out blue light which makes the brain think the sun has set. Works great, no drugs.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:50 PM
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I don't think it would produce a world with more pain. Less actually. We have never seen a truly free market economy protected by a minimalist voluntary taxation government on any large scale. It seems it is simply fear of the unknown that makes you anticipate greater pain. There would be an even better safety net coming from private charities. Don't underestimate what true prosperity can accomplish.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 04:51 AM
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My bluepill buddies were quick to hate on Ayn Rand even though they only read critiques of her work. It's no coincidence that I love her work and have also swallowed TRP. Both give me truth tingles.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:51 AM
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Someone asked my grandad if he had ever paid for sex and he said, "I've been married twice!"
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:21 PM
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Your past is a warning, not necessarily your future. Put in the work and enjoy your transformation.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:11 PM
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You do have an attitude, one that respects yourself more than her. She's not going to like that on the surface, but it will keep her (and other women) attracted to you long term. It's not a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:09 AM
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By attempting to please everyone you please no one. It's better to stick out and make a stand and attract only those that are part of your tribe.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 06:23 PM
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It's in the best interest of "Rome" too. Only debate feminism when it directly confronts you in your own life. Dismantle arguments with facts and logic and walk away. If everyone on TRP started arguing with feminists online just so that others could enjoy the show and perhaps side with us, well that just puts us on the same level as feminism as something that needs to go out and stir up trouble because they have nothing productive to do. What you resist persists. The best thing we can do in supp…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 05:36 PM
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It's only stressful for you to hold frame because it's not congruent with your limited self identity yet. The more you condition yourself to think and act in an alpha manner, the more relaxed you become and the more effortlessly you hold frame. In fact, you don't really have to "hold" frame after a certain point except on the rare occasion that you're faced with a soul crushing shit test. Frame is a muscle that you build and what seems difficult today becomes child's play in due time.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 04:42 PM
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Energy spent in conflict with feminism is energy that cannot be put to far more productive use (slaying pussy, growing a business, lifting, reading great books, whatever).
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 04:19 PM
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It's only expensive if you're beta. Alphas don't buy girls shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:05 PM
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By being a living example of TRP such that they become curious how your life is so awesome and they ask you about it. Then you can drop wisdom on them and they won't feel as defensive if you had simply approached them and started trying to slip red pill truths quietly into their mind.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:19 PM
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Or ignore them and cut them out of your life.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:53 AM
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That's too zero sum for my tastes. Create win-win situations with everyone you come across. You can even collaborate with competitors in business.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:24 AM
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Not every hot girl is boring. Go meet more women. Next her if you're not feeling it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:27 PM
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I tend to make things simpler and just focus on health, wealth, relationships, and spirituality. So in 5 years.... Health: I want to weigh 200 pounds and be ripped (170 now with ten pounds of belly fat to lose) Visible abs, high functional strength. I want to be an even better soccer player than I am now and I want to be a black belt in a martial art, probably aikido. I want to have a diet that rocks and I want to be able to cook a lot of great meals. Wealth: I want to have 500 customers in my S…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:25 PM
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You're seeing getting women as a "fight" and that you have to try extra hard. That's scarcity mentality and women will pick up on that no matter how good you think your game is on the surface. Yes, go lift. You will feel better about yourself. You will be able to attract women when you stop thinking of yourself as low SMV. Focus on the variables you can control. Women want confidence, indifference, genuineness, mystery, and dominance from a man more than they want a tall white guy. Your good loo…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:53 PM
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Having goals and values that move you away from things you don't want can be good until you inevitably hit a plateau. You also need things you're moving towards. For example, just wanting to not be poor will get you to 50K/year, but wanting to create wealth can make you a millionaire. Just wanting to not be a loser will help you finish college, but wanting to be an expert in your field will lead to greater success. Moving away from pain is a good way to get started but moving towards pleasure ke…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:09 PM
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I feel much better about how I would survive if I became homeless now. I could stay clean cut, fit, and pick up women in a decent size city and sleep at their place most nights. Funny that TRP is not just a sexual strategy but a potential survival strategy too.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 01:19 AM
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It's better to focus more on process goals than outcome goals. For example, having a goal of making a certain number of sales calls for your business every week or going to the gym three times a week. Your goals should be completely within your control (having goals that depend on other people's decisions is a bad idea), specific, and measurable.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 06:31 PM
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You are grossly exaggerating the risks of just hooking up with some women. Probably as a way to rationalize it so that you don't feel as bad for not putting in any effort... when you know it would be very much worth it to you. Actually, you might not know that because you might not have experienced some real excitement with a woman in a long time. Go out and test for yourself whether or not women are worth it. Don't just sit there and analyze yourself into inaction.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 05:17 PM
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The very word "overachiever" was made up by mediocre people. You can never achieve too much, just be careful that what you're achieving is actually important to you and be aware of opportunity costs.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:13 AM
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You don't like that there are challenges in life? Do you look at walkthroughs before you even try to beat a video game? Life is completely uninteresting without challenges. Women are a challenge because you can't just walk up to them and ask them to sleep with you. At least not without enormous SMV. Boring, chubby, plain-looking women are not much of a challenge. If that's all you want, that's all you'll get. The hot women worth going for are a challenge. You have to drastically improve yourself…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 10:17 PM
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You are not who you think you are. You are the creator of your life, not your life. You choose your beliefs, you are not your beliefs. Making progress in your life and overcoming challenges is always worth it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:33 PM
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If she could not go to college without affording it herself she had no business going. You don't owe her anything. She's your girlfriend not your wife. She won't starve in the streets if you stop sending your paycheck, she will be able to find a job. Ask yourself if you would continue sending her money if she was a male friend of yours that you had been hanging out with for two years and got close to. What's the difference? Her pussy? Is that a reason to let her continue to emotionally and finan…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 09:27 PM
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If you're interested in psychology then become interested in the psychology of selling. Build a business, become a high ticket salesman, become a copywriter. You don't need college to succeed, you only need to study what successful people actually do (and not just what they say) and model that. For example you could skim the best parts of a dozen books and become l become an expert about something where people are 1) passionate about it (and you share the passion) 2) are already spending money o…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:53 PM
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I will only want kids when I have a business that allows me to work an hour a day and only if I want to. And yes, it's quite possible. I don't want to be a father who works all the time and misses their childhood.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:43 PM
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You can appreciate a nice plate without getting oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:25 PM
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It's just like there's no such thing as true altruism. We do things for others because it will (or we think it will) make us feel better either immediately or in a future state. Improve yourself because you will feel better if you do for a variety of reasons. You will feel better about yourself just looking in the mirror or in the privacy of your own thoughts and because you will get positive reactions from those you have an interest in (mostly other people with high SMV i.e. hot women). You wil…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 07:12 PM
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Yep, that's a great tactic too. Keep switching it up so she never quite knows how you'll answer a question... or if you'll ignore her entirely.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:18 PM
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Yea, but at least you could have made the decision to stay with her from an enlightened perspective knowing full well that you could have a similar or better experience with other women.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 02:17 AM
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Tone and body language are important. If you look and sound like you're squirming under the pressure of her questions, even if you deflect, she can peg you as low SMV. What's important is not so much what you say but how you say it. She has to feel like you're relaxed and confident and could walk away from her at any moment. That said, building an air of mystery about you is better than telling her you make a lot of money. Let her discover your high SMV from being around you and from your action…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 02:01 AM
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If you really had swallowed RP back then you would have been aware of oneitis and unless the girl was objectively a unicorn you would have begun to see your love for the illusion it is. But let's not argue too much about your hypothetical past!
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:49 AM
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Nah, you would've turned her into a plate or nexted her after a while.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 01:25 AM
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Alright, I see your situation more clearly now. Carry on.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 08:39 PM
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You're not naturally blue pill bro. You were conditioned unnaturally into believing in unicorns and putting pussy on a pedestal. Remember that you're just reclaiming your birthright by swallowing TRP. You're also not naturally small. You just haven't lifted properly while eating properly in order to put on muscle. Go read Four Hour Body to get started. How you were in the past and how you are today does not mean that's what you'll be in the future when you make new decisions, take action, and ch…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 05:14 PM
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You're not complex, you're an idiot. Get back in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 04:02 PM
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It's both, even if your testosterone levels are off the charts but you're still putting the pussy on a pedestal then the pussy won't stick around. Likewise someone with great frame will not do as well as someone with average frame who's sending out loads of juicy pheromones to women.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 03:51 PM
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Yes everything does take time, but if you apply the 80/20 principle to your life then you will have time for everything. You might only need to go out once or twice every couple of weeks and have a ONS in order to break your "addiction" and still be cultivating your skills. Working out six days a week might sound like a good idea but if your only goal is to build muscle then the most effective strategy is to follow Occom's Protocol as described in Four Hour Body... which means doing only a few u…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 03:26 PM
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The only way you're really going to develop rock solid frame is by testing that frame against women that make your heart beat out of your chest. Are you going into "monk mode" because it's easier than learning how to attract beautiful women? Don't kid yourself. If you really want to develop frame then you are going to make much more progress in conversation with women than in the gym or rock climbing. You say your focus should be on you and I agree. Your career goals and fitness goals are not in…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:57 AM
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This can't come soon enough. I read about this technique already being done in India with essentially 100% success rate.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:16 AM
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Entrepreneurship. You don't need an idea to get started and you don't need investors and you don't need to put up your own money. Talk to decision-makers at $1-20 million annual revenue businesses and learn what their pains are. Help them to uncover pains and problems they didn't know they had. Ask them how they would solve those problems. If they don't know, help them connect the dots. Ask them how they would benefit from having those problems solved. Make them feel it emotionally. Tie it to wh…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:11 AM
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Simply be confident, be straightforward, and don't let yourself be disrespected. Don't make it too complicated.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:08 AM
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Don't count calories if you want to lose weight. It's a waste of time and ineffective. Read up on the Slow Carb Diet and implement it ASAP. It's like keto, but better for most people due to the cheat day. Here's Slow Carb in a nutshell: Rule #1: Avoid “white” starchy carbohydrates (or those that can be white). This means all bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, and grains. If you have to ask, don’t eat it. Rule #2: Eat the same few meals over and over again, especially for breakfast and lunch. You alre…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 02:20 AM
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It's becoming harder and harder to get away with being duplicitous in business these days. Authenticity and genuineness will get you farther than cunning. The wealthiest (true wealth is discretionary time) don't play to win, they play for win-win. That said, you have to hold frame in business in order to get what you want and not be taken advantage of.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 01:33 AM
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It's definitely true in sales and entrepreneurship. Holding frame is basically akin to being a "Challenger" salesperson (dominant, assertive, fearless). By contrast Relationship Builders (betas and hamsters) are typically the poorest performing salespersons. The Challenger Sale is a great book (so is SPIN Selling). When I'm not afraid to ask tough questions to customers then I get a much better response from them. I have little doubt that the large four figure deal I just landed (an advance paym…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 01:36 AM
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Marriage isn't the only way to be vulnerable with another. The rest isn't what I would call bluepill. Real vulnerability, not to be confused with neediness and attachment, is actually quite attractive to a woman because they want a genuine man who pursues truth. Of course you also have to bring dominance and all the rest into it or there won't be passion.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 04:23 PM
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Our equivalent of the shit test is being indifferent to them and withdrawing attention, making them earn it back by being interesting or otherwise valuable besides just pretty.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 04:41 AM
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The only thing that will attract women to male vulnerability is when you get emotional about whether or not you think you can fulfill your life's mission, whatever it is at the moment. She will gobble that up. Everything else you need to man up and handle that shit (or at least handle it with people other than her) and show her you can be the rock in her storm.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 04:11 AM
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"I gave her unadulterated red pill truths about what men want from women" that is a big turn off. She doesn't want all of the truth about what you want. She wants a mystery to unravel, a challenge to overcome, a nut to try and crack but never actually cracks because that would ruin the game. If you show her all your cards she'll realize you're not the four Aces she was hoping for.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 04:02 AM
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You're buying into your limitations and playing the victim. Stop it. Maximize what IS changeable, namely your own mindset, fitness, style, and wealth. The most important thing is mindset. There are guys shorter, uglier, less healthy, and poorer than you who understand women better and are sleeping with hotties right this minute. The information you need is here, just act on it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 02:49 PM
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What's more important than muscles and money is getting inside her reptilian brain with making her think you're a 50 shades of grey type of guy. She wants a man who is dominant, competent (not necessarily rich), good hearted (but not a pussy), mysterious, genuine, sexual, and has a mission and a vision.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 02:47 PM
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Well, what a woman could do to make me feel like a real man is to praise me when I achieve things like gaining muscle, making money, fixing stuff, or little things like opening jars for you. To know that my efforts are appreciated goes a long way. Another thing would be for the woman to genuinely enjoy blowing me and other such sex acts without expecting reciprocation all the time. Mainly just try to build a man up instead of cutting him down.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:16 PM
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This isn't really part of red pill, but it may help you. Everyone, men and women, have four primary emotional needs that get met in different ways depending on the person. Ask yourself how well are you meeting your husband's emotional needs? They are: Certainty: the need to feel comfortable, safe. Does he feel like he can trust you with his life? Is he afraid you'll cheat on him and divorce rape him? Variety: need for spontaneity, novelty, diversity. Are you surprising him and making him feel ex…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:18 PM
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This brings up a false dichotomy in some ways. You can still maintain frame and have a genuine connection with someone. Having a genuine connection as a masculine man with a feminine women does NOT mean that you show vulnerability to her. It means penetrating her in all ways. If you want to open up and be vulnerable with someone, that's what your family, friends, and coaches/therapists are for. You aren't trying to fuck those people and maintain a passionate balance of opposite energies with the…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:18 PM
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Believing that they're out of your league is the only thing keeping them out of your league.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:41 AM
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Cheating women are looking to satisfy their emotional needs for variety and significance which aren't being met by their beta partners.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 02:27 AM
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You say you don't have a lot of money as if that's a chronic disease you can't get rid of. Work on that and you'll feel like much more of an alpha. Invest in yourself and learn how to create more income with your own businesses. And lift.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 04:27 AM
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There was a great video I saw in this sub that had a comedian taking on gender studies bullshit with actual science from researchers. He found that men are wired from birth to tend towards the analytical thinking required for engineering and women are wired for emotional processing required for people oriented jobs like nursing. So don't blame women for not being engineers because you think it's too hard for them. It's just not where their strengths are. It's asking a fish to fly. Same reason wh…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 11:01 PM
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That was quite interesting thanks for linking that. The tldr is that class rank is a better indicator of success than whether or not you went to an elite school. How well we do relative to those in our immediate circle is what motivates us. You're better off going to a public state school and graduating top of your class than going to Harvard and feeling like an impostor and most likely dropping out or underperforming.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 07:19 PM
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Totally agree but replace spinning plates of different employers with my own businesses.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 05:18 PM
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I will continue making progress in my life by listening to those who are successful instead of those who are cynical, skeptical, and almost certainly broke.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 01:04 PM
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No, you have limiting beliefs about business because you see luck as the only way to get rich. It's just a numbers game. Everyone faces some rejection and failure on the road to creating wealth but they persist because they know that ultimately success is inevitable with proven strategies.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:12 AM
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No. The millionaires I know credit luck accounting for about 1% of their success. The other 99% comes from taking action on the right mindset, strategies, and tactics which can all be learned from studying other successful people. The Paris Hiltons of the world are few in number compared to those who take intelligent risks and play the long game. Those who work hard and do not become wealthy need to work smarter.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 03:44 PM
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I see what you're saying, of the few other bipolar people I know of I think it's true that most of the men still manage to support themselves. The women seem to attract white knight betas or they remain a burden to their family.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 03:52 AM
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That's fair. I just personally wouldn't want to be written off like that when I know I have a lot to offer.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 08:41 PM
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Speaking as a guy with bipolar disorder type I, there's a big difference between someone who's managing their disorder well and someone who is not. If they're taking care of themselves with proper nutrition, sleep, exercise, sun, meditation, meds, etc., then it could be many years before you even see them have any serious symptoms often due to very stressing circumstances that would throw anyone for a loop (although of course not as bad as we have it). We're at least worth dating if everything e…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 07:05 PM
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That was great, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 04:24 AM
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