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| 3 | Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's human"But she chose you." No, she didn't. The ones she picked first were untenable, or abusive, or do-nothing/go-now here, or rejected her. And you're supposed to respect her for her lack of discernment and be grateful for whatever scraps of adventure she has left for you when she's done with the shine and the flash. (By the way, I think you've really captured the desire men have here with the "adventure" thing versus a "purity" thing, OP. I think that's kind of a big revelation in this conversion.) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 05:51 PM |
| – | The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting menAs a bi guy, my best advice to guys who feel insecure about their own size is... bottom for several guys. Big dicks look awesome, but being on the receiving end of one ain't all that great, IMHO. Personally, I like longer and skinny-ish. Girth does damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Feminist infiltration in liberal spaces has cost us everything.Look no further than the FACT that the ACLU used to defend the right of Nazis and the KKK to march. Because freedom of speech was important. Was. It's disgraceful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 12:23 AM |
| 4 | A lot of “icks” and turn-offs are just modern women reinforcing traditional gender roles while pretending to reject themYou want to really bake your noodle, take everything you just said and apply it to "sexual preference." For most of history, socially, "discernment" was required to supercede innate attraction. Nowadays, we'd argue that innate attraction is the "truth" and what passed for "discernment" in the past was, in fact, "bigotry." Soooooooooo... how's that work with "the ick?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Honestly, could you have missed the point any harder? I never said I didn't want my partner to feel safe. See, that was an example of something women value in a relationship, and which men tend to treat as valid and legitimate. By contrast, the need for sex, something men value, is not treated as legitimate by women, and men are shamed for wanting it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 11:53 PM |
| 1 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.It demonstrates that the priorities men and women have for relationships are different. For too long, women have benefited from the protective, patriarchal and chivalrous notion that men should be interested in some sort of Disneyfied, chaste "love." Women have been allowed to define what a "relationship" is supposed to look like. It's bullshit and it's always been limiting on what men are allowed by society to expect in terms of sexually willing and enthusiastic partners. Dismantle the patriarc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.And, if things were equal, that would be a legitimate concern. As is, men are shamed for admitting it's an emotional need, and even if they do admit it, women won't believe them anyway, so they persist in feeling justified in denial and blame a man for leaving because of it. That, my dear, is sexist bullshit. Imagine men laughing off a woman's need to be seen or be heard or to feel "safe" (whatever the nebulous fuck that's supposed to mean). It'd be a bloodbath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:58 PM |
| 14 | People obsess over women initiating divorce because they believe women should stay miserable in marriages.Agreed. Men need to be a lot more proactive. I'm talking, the second or third "all you think about is sex" conversion, just walk. That one's just going to lead to "I'm just not attracted to him anymore" which leads to her filling for divorce. Guys, save yourself the years of feeling (and being) unwanted. You're NOT gonna be able to fix it. Her standards are unachievable and constantly moving. She WON'T suddenly want you again. Don't be a glutton for punishment. Leave early. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/25 01:38 PM |
| – | How true is it that men pretend to be good boys at work but are totally different at home?Who did this to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Do women expect men to present more "manly" as they age?Did you happen to catch the popular vote in the last election? Fashion trends don't care about your ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Why don't more men advocate for better male contraceptive options?Let's also point out that men will put up with and sleep with an overweight, mood swinging woman with acne but can the same be said if the genders are reversed? You only need contraceptives if you can have sex in the first place. In this case, the "solution" makes itself irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex isIt's actually kind of gross/terrifying what unbridled male horniness looks like without the civilizing force of women's ambivalence calling it to heel a little bit. But, it's EASY! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 07:39 PM |
| 7 | There is no good Bluepill Dating Manual.To do any of this, they'd have to respect men's desire for sex as a legitimate thing. They tend not to do that. That desire is automatically converted to "force women to have sex." They're all very sex positive and kink friendly until a man expresses a desire for sex or frustration at not being able to find it. Then they're instantly more puritanical than a quaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex isOh, they can be fun. No doubt. But even with the most willing woman in the world, it's just so much work getting there. Comparatively speaking. Their "arousal curve" is alien and slow and strange, they're generally more inhibited and reserved, can sometimes be less than active participants. You're the one who brought up NSA encounters here. You're currently giving your opinion from the perspective of a seller in a seller's market. I'm just saying there is a massive untapped market out there that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 05:14 PM |
| 0 | If a guy wants NSA sex he has to go to where NSA sex isAs a bi guy, I have no problem with any of this. Just waiting for the rest of my bros to let themselves loose. Once again, the Greeks had it right. Women are for babies, guys are for fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | If most women who claim to be afraid of the potential threat men pose to their lives were sincere, they wouldn’t feel emboldened to mock, berate, or taunt men online, especially men who express sentiment from a socially/romantically unsuccessful perspectiveWe're this an actual study, sure. And I'm sure that data would be fairly easy to compile. Even if the women berating men online don't genuinely fear men irl, casual anecdotal observation tells you that they've probably gone on record as having "chosen the bear" at some point. It's such a facile argument for women to use. Automatic, unassailable victim status. Challenging their perceived fear makes you the aggressor and the monster. Easy points. Too easy to pass up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Are there any sub reddit that might make you feel like maybe there's light at the end of the tunnel for this men vs women thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/25 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Why do men think its unfair that they have to pay for their kids?There's one consistent factor there. Don't tar and feather us all because you have consistently horrible "luck" at picking baby daddies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/25 12:23 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?Well that is certainly a bold and definitive statement bolstered by no supports whatsoever. Neat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 05:00 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?Easy there, tiger. I didn't say a single, solitary thing about that, did I? And I don't think it's so much about "high libido" at that point as it is about "novelty." Your husband bores you and sex feels like a chore. Who's to say that some different guy won't reignite that fire, though? Similarly, who's to say that some other woman might not be titillated by qualities of your husband that you've grown desensitized to? Regardless, you feel like sex with him is a chore and that's tragic because N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:50 PM |
| – | How do men view sex?Look at the animal kingdom. In pretty much (as far as I know) every mammalian and bird species there's a certain pattern. Males spend most of their lives trying to impress females. Whether that's by being big and strong, holding a large territory, doing a dance, building a nest, whatever. The test is, do a thing, impress a lady. How do you know that you've succeeded? Sex. Not holding hands, not spending quality time together, not words of affirmation, not picking out paint swatches or going to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 01:28 PM |
| 0 | Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her?There are none so blind as those who will not see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 12:17 PM |
| 5 | Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her?The difference is learning to appreciate McDonald's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.Fair point. But they're neither shaving nor makeup. But they are gross. Soooooooo, I'm rethinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Men who think makeup is deceptive while being ok with body hair removal are inconsistent.Men want bare skin That's inconsistent! No it isn't. Next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Are you okay being the man she settled for? Does is matter if you disgust her?You know, part of arguing that someone should change their standards is hoping that they will actually. Change. Their. Standards. No one said anything about settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughSoooooooo, your answer is, there aren't really any societal benefits to men to "not oppress women." And, as OP posits, your argument rests on "it's the right thing to do." You're selling a vacuum and we have hard wood floors and a dust mop. There is no discernable improvement to our lives in buying your product. By the way, your condescension is just wonderful. Your head must be "very* big. Congratulations. Does insulting the intelligence (or, apparently, age?) of the person you're talking to im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughIt's an idea. There is a "marketplace of ideas." Maybe you've heard of it. If not, look into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughNo it isn't. It's about marketing. And the shit job feminists do of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughWhaaaaaaaat the fuck are you even talking about? All you're doing is proving his point that the only arrow in the argument's quiver is "if you don't do it you're a bad person." This may shock you, but lot and lots and lots of people are pretty okay being "bad" to other people if it benefits them. Crabs in a barrel, baby. He's saying, "give people a self-interested reason to be in favor of it." If you can't do that, maybe there's something wrong with the product you're selling. Maybe it isn't the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Feminism, as an ideological framework, is not enoughThe title of the post is "feminism doesn't go far enough.". You read what you wanted/expected to read then doubled down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?Nice try, reddit mod team. I'm not volunteering to get banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksI find these terms acceptable. As long as no "whores" (male or female) start crying about not being able to find a partner to settle down with (because they choose their role when they were young) I think we have a deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 01:08 PM |
| 12 | Would you date a trans woman that passes well?I'd literally date a guy first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/25 10:29 PM |
| – | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsExactly. You're welcome. Someone who actually is an "alpha" doesn't give a shit about anyone else's "social status," (or their opinions of his) and they certainly would never actually use the term "alpha" with regard to themselves. Because they don't care. If you call yourself an "alpha," you're not. Simple as that. It's like, I don't keep track of how tall anyone else is. They're (almost) all shorter than I am. I literally look down on everyone. That's all I see. I'm not "tall." I'm me. I'm the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/25 12:22 AM |
| 8 | Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patternsStoicism and self-reliance are only "bad" in the case that you find yourself doing/being them when you don't want to. Beyond that, letting anyone else determine what is right, wrong, or, God forbid, "toxic" for you is a chicken shit move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 02:33 PM |
| 13 | Why are women uncomfortable (or refuse) to date virgin menAll true. But, there's also the bandwagon effect. I'm sure lots of men have experienced not being able to find a girlfriend and not being able to find a girlfriend, then, you find a girlfriend and suddenly all kinds of women are magically interested in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Everything being men's fault may be somewhat true, but THAT might not be men's fault.This is why I think male bisexuality should be more widely embraced. Soooo many women just don't give a shit about sex. They refuse to take it seriously as a legitimate desire of men. Men wanting sex is seen as a pathetic and gross thing. They simply don't think about, view, value, or feel the significance of it the same way men do. Alright. Fine. You know who does? Other guys. I'm just saying, it works in prison and boarding schools where women are unavailable. How is modern society really that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do women adamantly refuse to admit that the way they talk about penis size affects how men view themselves?And you're directly saying the source of that insecurity is the size (small) of their dick. Which, by is very nature validates that it would be something to be ashamed of, and ignored the fact that you most likely have no idea how big his dick is or isn't, or how he feels about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | The “average man” line of thought plays a sizeable role on my men are miserableWhat in the hippy Chakra psycho babble did I just read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young?It also doesn't take into account the number of people who have two, three, or four divorces of their own. People who have been divorced are more likely to get divorced again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Female Sexuality is innately SelfishNot gonna lie, as a bi guy, I can tell you that being the object of a man's unrestrained passion and being "ravished," it's pretty fucking great. If it's an option for you, I'd highly recommend it. There's an energy there that has no analog coming from a woman (in my experience). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:09 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveIn that case, how is it that older men dating younger women is such a cliché? Are those women being forced into those situations somehow? As long as we're being blatantly stereotypical, women are ONLY interested in success. Older men tend to be more established, or successful than younger men, ergo, women are only interested in older men. That's pretty much how simplistic your reasoning is throughout the post itself and every subsequent consent you've made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Men need more than women to "choose better"I'd go out on a limb and say men are chasing casual sex, but, if unsuccessful and therefore forced, will resort to a bartered settlement of sex in exchange for commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men are intimidated by successful women is mostly a myth.Look, the trendy thing to do is to harness the power of "toxic masculinity" and use it to shame and cajole men into behaving in ways that women want them to. For example: men are turned off, romantically, by the traditionally "masculine" attributes of a "successful" woman. Women want ALL men to be attracted to ALL women (but never to act upon that attraction unless such action is desired), because feminism. So, how do you address this lack of attraction? Shame. "Oh, you're just intimidated. Cowa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of actual bad boys?To your brain, yes. To your body though? I mean, it goes both ways. The phrase "never stick your dick in crazy" exists, and is often repeated, for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 06:28 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of actual bad boys?Are you expecting attraction to be logical? Or, Alternatively, are you not seeing the logic in this design at a caveman level? The man who can take from others, can provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 05:30 PM |
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