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Ahahahaha she's literally dating Rigby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:01 PM
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Thank you for this I really needed to hear this! I'm spring cleaning my life of fuckboys as well as shitty friends and sometimes I feel a pang of weakness - I will resist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:11 AM
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This is assault and you should report it to the police. I've fortunately/unfortunately been spat on 3 times in my life and I found it to be hugely traumatic. Worse than being punched or slapped. It was such a violation and most people can understand your reaction! I am very very sorry for you to have experienced that. Please report this creep to the police
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:57 AM
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She's absolutely correct and I hope that it will lead even one or two blokes to take a moment of self reflection. If even some guys read this, get pissed off for getting called out but then address that issue imagine how different the world would be? But, nah MUH PENIS right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 02:56 PM
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Oh god the Joker fanboys are the fucking worst
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:32 AM
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Time and time again on OLD. I took the plunge in Oct and made an account, I got 2 good dates (not good enough for me to want second though) and the vast, vast majority of guys - at least 99% end up blocked. Within a few moments of matching they usually ask "What are you looking for ? Xx" "Where do you live? Xxx" And I always keep it vague and say South, then they push to know "Yes but WHERE EXACTLY?". Too many guys can make your life hell off some basic loose seemingly innocent info, if you aren…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:30 AM
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Absolutely hit the nail on the head here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:47 PM
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It's the cultural misogyny we grew up in and still so pervasive it's just so wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:47 PM
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They know exactly what they're doing and their value. They cling onto a good woman like yourself in any way they can, they are just so cancerous. I'm sorry for your experience and glad you're free !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:46 PM
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I guarantee this guy surreptitiously started a campaign of making her feel guilty for being a burden on him with her illness and she internalised that energy in her final days. Imagine in your final days with your partner having to talk about her still. After all those years and everything you went through together. "there were three people in our marriage" time and time again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:45 PM
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I'm sorry for you to have to experience that, but my god you must be so relieved now! When I think back to how crazy I was for my jerk exes it's like waking up from a spell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:42 PM
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ABSOLUTELY! Particularly interesting that of all his conquests the one who told him "No" was revered, idolised and pined for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:34 PM
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Always, it's a way of reminding you they have other options, and settled with you. It's disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:33 PM
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Dollars to donuts the poor DYING wife felt she was a burden on him, after all, he had to settle with her and she was so lucky to have him! She could never really compare to that one who got away. These men are for the streets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:33 PM
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This is absolute gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:46 AM
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I have no idea either, someone in the main post comments suggested BDSM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:59 PM
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I'm guessing they try and play it off like they're somehow already acquainted and changed their phone or something. So gross! I feel embarrassed when I tell the host/ess I want to fill in my details myself rather than broadcast them but this shit is why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:55 PM
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Ever notice the biggest creeps always end their sentences with that muted smile emoticon ' :) '. Eurgh. Like swimming with sharks out there girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:15 AM
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Ahhahhahhhhaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:31 AM
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Fucking L O L. I wish I had her balls at moments like these in the past. Tremendous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:54 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ have some god damned self respect I'm sorry but at some point we all have to be responsible for the choices we make. Some women are financially broken and have to stay longer than they want to, there's no excuse. Does she not give a fuck what her kids will think growing up reading this? Him buying her a rolls wtf who cares she could buy her own?? Jesus just get a dildo. Man this pissed me off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:39 AM
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I'm almost finished reading it now and it's absolutely unreal, what an eye opener. Sometimes I need to take a break and calm down I start feeling hot, so many emotions. Such a crucial read, and so helpful for every woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:37 PM
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Wow! These are so beautiful and such creative ideas for lunch ❤️ this is wonderful self love!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:19 PM
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Owwww but truuuue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:03 PM
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Dick is abundant and low-value. Anyone anyone anyoneeeee can get a guy to shag.. it's getting someone worthwhile that takes thought. Stio putting penis on a pedestal 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:05 PM
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She needs to learn to communicate better /s 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:33 PM
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Four dates in less than a fortnight, already shagging, even initiation now he's making like Casper. tale as old as time, just don't do it ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:10 AM
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This line says it all "for a relationship with someone where I treat myself better than he treats me". What an important realization, only onwards and upwards. If they aren't adding they are actively detracting. I'm very glad you cut the deadweight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:15 PM
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I wish more of us read the HANDBOOK it takes less than an hour! Any attention you give a NVM or LVM after they let the mask slip is just attention they crave! They don't care if you're slagging them off you're just proving to them they are living rent free in your head. They aren't contacting you because they regret their behaviour it's just to twist the knife and provoke a response. The ONLY FDS response is no response ✋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:19 AM
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Too stilted, sounds like he's feeding lines he knows she wants to hear. Bundy vibes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 09:46 AM
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Underrated roast hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 08:57 PM
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I am tellin you ladies I absolutely needed this video today, her fucking energy is glorious I am crackin up hahahahha YES FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:08 AM
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It's entirely normal to feel upset and hurt and confused right now - you have invested time, feelings and energy and been disappointed. I know you understand this was a lucky escape, and it's not even that you are mourning the guy himself or your relationship - it was the idea of what you wanted it to be. The only advice I can give is this, remember your previous relationships/flings with fellas and you were devastated or so invested - now think back on how little you care, it's almost like a dr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:12 AM
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LVMs* abound in the chef and hospitality world. They are used to having a squad of girls doing what they say and their job is the perfect cover to be up all night and sleep all day. Initially you romanticize it as they can cook, but you'll soon realize you are just perpetually washing their chef whites, they are never home, you get a 5 minutes of texting on their lunch break, meanwhile they are chasing waitresses all day... avoid! *in fact, I'm going to go ahead and say NVM. They are truly dread…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:56 AM
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What a shit show these comments are, I enjoy his art and I liked the other statement "no longer available for things that make me feel like shit". It's cool he reuses them, and I enjoy it, I'm sure I'm not alone in this. Yes we all care about the environment but Jesus ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:02 PM
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Isn't it though! Girls stick to Papier mache, for the love of God please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:32 PM
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Jokes 😂 love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 03:16 PM
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Someone needs to push that Humpty Dumpty looking ass off that wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:27 AM
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Ew he had a "trial family" with this older woman, she probably told him she didn't want more kids but he did want kids, then abandoned her when she couldn't do it. He literally did a dry run, absolutely degenerate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:09 PM
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Innit! I was faltering for his name when I wrote the comment, it was like "you know skinny Irish guy...from Queen of the Damned..." - she made the comments back when she was "happily married" too. Scrotes gonna scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:06 PM
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I was absolutely blown away when I read about her childhood, what a strong woman she is - and her mom too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:05 PM
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YES KING! I'm sure they will somehow learn to cope without you not so subtly resenting them 24/7 and acting like you're doing them the ultimate favour by gracing them with your low value presence. The fucking audacity of these pricks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:13 AM
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Isn't it the most relaxing thing in the world? We get good pike fishing, such a friendly community where I live for it too. What's your go to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:26 AM
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Epic goals, same vibes as me except instead of archery I fish lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:16 AM
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The open marriage was meant to only make *him* feel good - poor guy, he must be devastated.... Dollars to donuts the guy is getting no actions whatsoever, and no hits - the "four fwbs" is probably a big exaggeration, and now his wife is cuckolding him hard. Hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:43 AM
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you know it's a funny thing, I swear I remember reading an interview with her from one of those women's mags from yeaaaaaaars ago talking about her old partner Stuart Townsend, and it stuck out because I felt so sad from it. She was saying something about him slagging her off for how she looked or not making some basic effort and I remember thinking "Wow she's so gorgeous and funny and talented why does she put up with that?". No wonder she's happier single! Interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:41 AM
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He's already sent you TEN texts what more do you want you harpy! God he's exhausted, poor guy /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:50 PM
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I am absolutely all for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:40 PM
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I understand where you are coming from, but honestly indifference is a revenge to these men. They are wired to see us as narcissistic supply, when you cut it off and stop caring (even if you do still care initially but act like you don't) and focus on yourself, it's the only way to really rock them or effect them in any way. Any other revenge just proves in their fuck up brains that you are still under their power or thinking about them. Even if you are ripping them to shreds verbally or outing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:34 PM
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"Wow so you really never cared about me huh" ​ My god but this is so true! I used to make such an idiot out of myself throwing myself at his feet, begging for whatever crumbs he would give, bending over backwards and always trying to swallow any issues. As SOON as I just cut him off and refused to engage anymore he started saying this shit "You say I don't care but it's you who stopped caring from such a long time". I think we are just their narcissistic supply! Never, ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:30 PM
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Since I broke up with my NVM fiance - I have been out on a mummy-daughter gal's date night every single week. I have more spare money than I have ever had in my LIFE since I'm no longer "sharing the finances" with him. I think I can count on one hand the amount of dates I had with that asshole in 4 years. NO REGRETS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:50 PM
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I've been there sis, and I think it's something to do with assuming because he's so gross that if *he* thinks about you like that - imagine how someone *good* must think about you?? It's like you have to rewire your brain to realise it's negging, and a deflection of how they feel about themselves. When you start mixing with higher calibre men who treat all people with dignity and respect you realise they are deeply damaged losers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:18 PM
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This is absolutely lovely, I'm very happy for your new life! <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:06 PM
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LEO - two narcissistic Leo exes, fool me once... *face palm*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:37 PM
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Love cooking waitrose ready made meals LOOOOOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:00 AM
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Unbelievable - and yet where is the outrage from the pro-lifers now?? Or is that only reserved for shaming women for their choices and - shock horror - nothing to do with human rights at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:29 AM
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Trust me, indifference is the biggest way to finish him. It's really, really, really hard. But you have realise nothing you say will reach him, or change him, or affect him - even a good burn or something harsh just proves he's still on your mind pissing you off. The very best revenge - especially if he's used to you chasing or getting upset by his douchebaggery - is the awesome power of the blank. Just blank him totally. It's DEVESTATINGLY effective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:51 PM
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Lesson learnt! I used to think that a man would return my kindness and generosity.... wroooong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:47 PM
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"I'm not good enough for you" "I don't deserve you" "I'm not ready for a relationship" "I've never had a girlfriend before, I don't know how to be a good boyfriend" ​ RUUUUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:45 PM
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An interesting one as well is sometimes their parents can have outwardly "good" relationships, which aren't necessarily abusive - but are codependent. My ex was a huge narcissist, he grew up with a mom who always put her husband first and her son could do no wrong. She literally lived for her family with no hobbies or time for herself. So my ex grew up expecting that was normal and was hugely entitled because of it. Just something to be aware of, yellow flags n all that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:43 PM
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Sometimes people get more annoyed by good but brutal advice than by the person who is actively hurting them. It's so unfortunate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:37 PM
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I sat myself down and wrote all the things he did that hurt me, the cheating, the lies, the disrespect, laziness, greed, selfishness, withdrawing of affection. It hurt at the start but then by the end it was a huge relief to see in black and white all the pain I was walking away from. I don't ruminate on it, but it's there should my mind ever think "bUt mUh SiTuAtiOnsHiIiIiiP"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:35 PM
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Wonderful tip, thank you! I passed this on to my daughter too, as she experiences this often with boys at school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:33 PM
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In the end, I felt like my ex was just using me to cum himself, I told him he would be as well just using a damn sock. He could not be bothered at all! I tried everything to get him interested sexually, but sex was work - porn was something which he could enjoy in private, looking like garbage, and didn't require any effort. Never agaaaaain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:25 PM
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My ex fiance's favourite catchphrase when he was caught out being a piece of a shit was "you always have something to complain about, I feel like I'm always on edge!" Imagine being held accountable for your own bad behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:23 PM
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Perfect for the pornsick noodledick's rags!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:46 AM
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I don't know this man, but I am positive I would never tire of kicking his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:32 AM
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Not being a pushover isn't harsh - it's just having standards ❤️ you did wonderfully!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:04 AM
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That "hmmmm" made me laugh 😂 Good for you for immediately identifying his antics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:01 AM
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Yeah, get a nice NVM wrapped around me like a fecking noose - PASS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:00 AM
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Just look at this boob, he can't even hold a glass of wine properly, clutches it like a Lego toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:13 AM
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Fuck sake, this tickled me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:58 PM
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LOL DON'T FORGET MY ONLY FANS BOYS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 05:56 PM
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Mary Beard is amazing! I posted this in another post but it's very relevant. Whenever you feel them pop into your mind keep this maxim "Why are you letting him live RENT FREE in your mind?". When I think of that twat I keep repeating rent free and do something else asap. Your mind is precious don't let someone walk through it with their dirty feet, sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:50 AM
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"test me"? Sorry scrub, you're a day late and a dollar short
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:46 AM
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A good friend of mine coined a term that haunts me (in a good way) whenever I'd mention my hobosexual soon -to-be-ex-fiance "Why are you letting him live RENT FREE in your mind?" And now all I hear is rent freeeee when that waste of space pops into my thoughts 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:42 AM
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Oh yes then maybe if I'm lucky you'll choose me to stay with forever and ever - toerags the lot of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:12 PM
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Brilliant comment, I will hold onto this truth!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:16 AM
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