ohb2k2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Spousal Support Disgust		ohb2k2	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/23 09:12 PM
3	Modifiable v Non-Modifiable Spousal Support		ohb2k2	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/23 11:10 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Modifiable v Non-Modifiable Spousal Support My duration for support is double. Almost 9 yrs. A lot can happen good or bad. I have been leaning towards non-modifiable, but second guessing.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 12:33 AM
3	Yeah... In a mess, and can't find a way out. Be prepared for the crazy level to hit 1000 if she has BPD. In my current situation I never even knew about BPD until a visit to the psych hospital after a attempted suicide by my spouse. It was totally a control and manipulation tactic, which is scary and sad. The Psych Nurse Practitioner brought it up, 1st time hearing about bpd, when we had a meeting during her hospital stay. Looking back now and also several other recent incidents, I can clearly see the pattern went way back in our marriage …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/23 03:25 PM
2	I don’t think I want to live in this world… How do we get a 3-5 year renewable marriage contract. Why forever? Most people just get comfortable, but if it’s renewed every 5 years and you both want it to work comfortable goes away and is replaced by effort.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/23 02:19 AM
1	How did you celebrate? How did you pull off the $0 Alimony?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/23 11:50 AM
2	A good example of the emotional abuse I suffered at the hands of my (now ex-)wife. She cared more about my income than my marital fidelity. Marriage lasted 11 months before I walked out the door. I think we all care about money. If I didn’t care I wouldn’t be working as hard as I do. My stbxw had the audacity to ask how much life insurance I had while I was laying in a hospital after just having a heart attack. In our money discussions during this divorce process, I brought that comment up and how its always about the money for her. Her defense was I was taking that insurance question “out of context”. In what context is bringing up life insurance Ok, surely never when your lying in a ho…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/23 08:27 PM
2	Spousal Support Disgust Its part of the income equalization attorney’s use.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/23 12:48 AM
5	Spousal Support Disgust She is an RN and can pretty much make as much as she wants work. However the last 4 or 5 years there was always a reason why she couldn’t get hours. There has always been something, a reason to quit, a reason she was called off, a reason only got 4 days in the month, a reason couldn’t make dinner or a reason she needed to spend. She wants to keep the house, so she was told she needs to boost her income to qualify for a refi and magically she has 4 days a week no problem. If she worked a 40 hour …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/23 03:57 AM
2	Spousal Support Disgust We live in Ohio	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/23 11:56 PM
11	Spousal Support Disgust As I made more money each year, she slowly started to work less and less. Enjoying all the fun things she wanted to enjoy and working 1-2 days per week. Which I did not agree to, especially since our kids were pretty much self sufficient. She has been trying to basically retire early and do minimal work both outside and inside the home. Not aligned here which has slowly led to my resentment.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/23 11:23 PM