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1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. How many times are you gonna reply to this same month old comment? It's easy to say you'd step in and help the girl if you "saw it" but that's not how it works. Do you believe women when it happens or do you get defensive and look for "proof" and refuse to believe women on their word? Because this wasn't fucking about you, but you sure as hell made it about you. What about you makes you so insecure that that simple statement makes you want to spam me?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 08:05 AM
1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. You keep bringing up extreme examples vs SUPER common, culturally supported examples within rape culture. If women were out there systemically murdering their children the same way men rape women, maybe this point would be valid. But it isn't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 08:03 AM
1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. It's her fault. Just like I said about it being his fault if he rapes women. Although one is INSANELY more common than the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 08:01 AM
1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. That's not what I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 05:09 PM
1	Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is. Nah. Men win that one for sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 06:28 PM
1	Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is. It's so obvious you're not a woman. You don't understand that not only do we get rejected in the dating world. We also get rejected on basis of gender for employment frequently. Passed over for promotions based on gender. ("Oh well, she's 30 she's going to want to have babies soon, let's promote Mike") But trust me. As a woman, I'm old now but in my 20s I was very attractive. I had crushes on so many guys..I faced rejection 99% of the time I actually liked a guy. Guys I didn't want to ask me out…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 06:27 PM
6	Most women aren't honest about dating apps and finding relationships This sub needs to be renamed to r/MenProjecting	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 06:17 PM
2	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. The harm is documented in every study on gendered violence, trauma, and safety behavior. If you require women to personally educate you on why fear of violence is harmful, you’re not having a discussion you’re reenacting the imbalance I’m describing. Women finding men "guilty until proven innocent" is nowhere near as harmful as the actual violence rates. I'm sick of people pretending that it's somehow equal or worth this level of constant discussion instead of actually working to solve male viol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 06:15 PM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility Therapy is regulated. Life coaching is not. Therapy requires education, ethical training, and legal accountability. A life coach can be a random YouTube guy who took a weekend seminar. You keep treating facts and feelings like they are equal. They are not. If someone refuses therapy because “some people think it is a scam,” that is not a critique of therapy. That is a critique of their fear of introspection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 06:02 PM
3	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. You are pretending women being cautious around male violence is the same thing as men demanding sexual access to women. It is not. Women respond to a real pattern of harm. Incels argue women owe them sex and justify violence. Those are not equivalent positions. If you cannot tell the difference between trauma-based caution and entitlement to someone else’s body, you are proving why the caution exists in the first place. I never said that women do not hold some animosity towards men. Also studied…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:57 PM
2	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility The fact that you're referring to a psychological concept as "the Democrat approach" proves to me that you don't know anything about psychology or politics. Therapists have degrees in psychology/related fields. Some Instagram grifter calling himself a life coach could be literally anybody. God the anti intellectualism in this country is ridiculous. That's part of why there is stigma. "A lot of people believe" doesn't make them right. A lot of people are ignorant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:14 PM
2	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility But some random fuck bitches get money manosphere "life coach" grifter will? BS	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:08 PM
4	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility "none of this is the fault of men" Except men didn't want women to have careers, they pushed them into homes and childcare roles and refused to pay a decent wage or invest in childcare outside the home as a societal need. So men don't choose to be in childcare rolls because they're labeled as women's work and therefore paid basically nothing. You're close on the fact that "boys don't cry" narrative is bad, but it's really the "boys will be boys" narrative as well. It's not just mothers who belie…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 04:13 PM
3	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility Plenty of people aren't getting what they want out of life and still manage to have empathy. Empathy isn't about complete selflessness. Life coaching is an unregulated industry of fake gurus grifting you for money. Therapy. You're looking for therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 04:09 PM
2	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Incels, argue that they should get to rape women. Women complaining about rapists, are generalizing but also trauma survivors usually. The fact that you unironically think women think it's "all" men is wild. So is the fact that you're comparing those two things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 03:52 PM
5	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. This comment is fucking disgusting. It's not women's fault. It's is the men doing the raping. You're weird one off xenophobic example doesn't prove anything. If a man rapes a woman it is his fault. Full stop.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 03:48 PM
7	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. When I see people pushing back on stuff like this it always makes me wonder what they've done in their lifetime that makes them identify with and excuse abusers and rapists actions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 09:55 PM
0	What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to. I first dated the guy who was confident enough to ask me out. I had outdated ideas as a youngster and didn't think I was allowed to ask people out. Got older, gained my own confidence and asked out my spouse myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 08:46 PM
-2	What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to. Idk I said I wanted the latter. I picked a man who had those qualities. 10 years in and doing fine. He's not at all an assertive dude, not very confident/tends to hand wring and second guess himself (I do my best to build him up in those moments), and he's not super charismatic compared to others. Average looks. But I adore him. He's a good dad, an emotional safe space for our daughter, does his share of chores, has a good sense of humor, is respectful, kind, stable and supportive. I dated the g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 08:32 PM
4	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Weird cos I'm looking at "best posts" in there and they're basically all shit talking women and feminists	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 04:02 PM
5	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Hmm maybe because a lot of them aren't about men and are about talking shit about women and feminism. I love Men's Liberation. MRAs? Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 04:00 PM
21	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Men raping and abusing women, IS mens fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 03:59 PM
1	When exactly is a woman deserving? Having "bitter" in your username checks out. So God pilled, very Christian of you to be misogynistic	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 08:27 PM
3	When exactly is a woman deserving? And shouldn't get them either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 07:24 PM
4	When exactly is a woman deserving? You don't make the rules. The whole rant was just a baseless generalization and bitterness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 07:23 PM
6	Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing? Men do show off their chests all the time. Men wear tight pants, thongs, none of that bothers me. I really don't give a fuck about "formal attire" I think this concept is just kind of a useless social structure And no going to a nude beach with your partner and seeing naked people isn't cheating. It seems like you're just projecting your own insecurity, shame and control issues and expecting women to agree with you here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 04:54 PM
9	Women, how do you feel about normalizing male nudity, or men wearing revealing clothing? Meh. I let mine do that once. We were talking about how big it was, at girls night and he got called in to show off. He quite enjoyed the attention and no one was mad. 🤷‍♀️	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 04:46 PM
6	"The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women? I don't feel like this was my experience at all as someone who was looking to settle down early/a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/25 04:58 PM
2	Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal? Since always? I spent my 20s dating many a pizza boy	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 11:36 PM
1	Men need to stop tolerating physical aggression from women. The “play fighting” excuse has gone too far. That doesn't sound like play fighting to me. We play fight a lot in my house. Slow motion, with sound effects, we'll "fall" in slow motion to the ground while making silly sounds. That's play fighting	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 07:43 PM
3	Men need to stop tolerating physical aggression from women. The “play fighting” excuse has gone too far. Plenty of male abusers never see jail, or being beaten up by other men. Like so many	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 07:41 PM
2	Latvia prepares for mandatory conscription of women Conscription is bad for either gender.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/09/25 06:55 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Nice skirting I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 11:12 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Didn't you just say it was from "singlemotherhoodguide"? I'd loooove to see stats on who "complains" about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 11:01 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Mine are from Pew Research Center. Simple search gave them to me too. Everyone complains. It's life. I definitely doubt you have stats that say "most people who complain about single parenting are mothers who were never married"	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:57 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? I mean it's none of your business but yes we each had wills/living wills drawn up a year after our daughter was born. I literally work in the legal system. It's not that hard to get it done.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:54 PM
1	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? You can get a lot of the legal parts done without getting married. Power of attorney, life insurance etc can all be handled with legal docs without being married. 52% of single mothers were married. 35% were cohabitating. The rest fall in some other category. I am certain at some point they all complain about it because it's human nature to complain about shit sometimes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:28 PM
5	Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively? Some people don't place that same kind of value on marriage. I never want to be married, I am not religious and I don't really idealize the history of that institution. I have been with my partner/my child's father for a decade. Everything is stable. Moreso than some married couples I know. It's literally just an expensive party and some paper.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 10:18 PM
18	His Kinks Are A Reflection of His Values. Kink Shame Away. I am so glad I left the BDSM community. Definitely kinkshaming forever. If I hear "dom" I assume you want to control and beat me. That's just not a good thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/12/22 11:47 PM
1	CMV: Generally speaking, women will only acknowledge men's issues in one or more of three circumstances. Like Erin Pizzey didn't throw herself on hot coals for y'all lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/22 07:36 PM