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Thank you so much for the advice and sub suggestion! I genuinely didn't know askFDS existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:31 AM
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Can I pm you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:44 AM
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Lmao he is an absolute tool. I may not understand the turmoil men with small penises go through but a lot of them in that sub, I am so grateful they cannot even touch a woman or keep one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:51 AM
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She is INSANELY gorgeous. Idk why she put up with that asshole for 7 whole years. But then again, based on what she wrote, he is a manipulative bastard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:46 PM
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The way I kust screamed at this comment 🤣. At the end of the day, babygirl can always find the right dick for her not so much for this lad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:40 PM
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I believe this 100%. The scum already showed us his porn deluded mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:40 PM
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Idk if I can tell you exactly but it was a sub for men to vent their struggles on having a small peepee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:22 PM
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The sad part is people within the comments were trying to tell him that. Patiently explaining. They were downvoted, with him arguing his same wrong points over and over. No use trying to educate someone like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:21 PM
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He does 😭😭 it was one of those subs about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:17 PM
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It was even longer lmao. I screenshot the part that had my eyes popped out. Any comment, even from men going through the same thing as them, if they called him out, they were downvoted like hell. They want to stay in their delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:17 PM
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What's up with the attraction towards hobosexuals? This whole "build a man" is freaking draining. I already have a part time job plus taking classes, a man like that is just a full time 40 hours that I can do without.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:58 PM
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Does she know what love language is? Love language doesn't mean you shouldn't love your partner they way THEY want and need to feel loved. My love language is words of affirmation and time. I HATE the lovey dovey physical touches but if my partner's love language is physical touch, I do so, I just don't want it reciprocated. Getting down on one knee to ask the person you supposedly love is the bar fucking minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:11 PM
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I had no idea this man was a single dad, the hypocrisy is astonishing. Doesn't like single mothers but made his ex a single mother. Even worse that he has a daughter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:51 PM
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"We want the classic beauty of a feminine hourglass shape" says the bald, 5 foot something ass. I'm am weak 😂, most of the men in his comments are NOT attractive at ALL yet they think they deserve a virgin with no body count, a woman that cooks and cleans, keeps up with her appearance while this bastard sports a pot belly. Dare I say I want a guy taller than me with a slightly above average dick and men lose it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:23 PM
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Lmao I remember seeing this on Twitter. Black men were mad, going off on how black women will be old and alone, wE ReJEcT GOoD gUys, shallow, our standards are too high, etc. It's so hilarious seeing men foam at the mouth at the idea of women having the right to reject whomever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 03:13 PM
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What? After reading about article of a pastor that black mailed a 15 year old girl or else he'll call ICE on her undocumented parents, the sick bastard forced a young male kid to watch him violate this poor girl. Thank goodness the young child told police and had him arrested. I've removed myself from Christianity and the church. Too many pedos there. If I decide miraculously to have children, I will never take them there. Parents would be cut off of they try me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:14 PM
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Yup, don't even open the message. Just block. Delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:26 PM
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Truly. In all forms of my social media I have my private messages set to friends only allowed to talk to me. Here, I disabled all chats and private PMS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:53 PM
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For me, vetting a man means also vetting his family. If his mother is outright a bitch to me and we all know who those mothers are, sees me as competition, expects me to basically be a second mother giving me lists on how to take care of her son, expects grandchildren even going further to dictate how much she expects me to have...I'm out the door. I want a lot of women to break free from the traditional hold their families chain them to cause so many are miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:06 PM
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I hate the idea we have to wear loose fitted baggy ass, unflattering clothing to show we're not being promiscuous. It's ten times harder as a woman with bigger assets too cause then you're written off as some whore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:59 PM
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Yup best is to block, ignore. These inept bastards see any form of engagement with them including blocking and ignoring as a sign of them getting to you. Do not engage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:18 PM
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I always said persistence is a threat. If I have to go to HR, get violent to defend myself, get loud, rude and stink or involve the cops, I will. Because I will be left alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 02:42 AM
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I always thought I was a weird one for feeling this. I discovered what aromantism is and honestly see why I view friendship and romance so differently. I mourn over lost friendships way more than I do the lost of an "SO". I want that "let's move in together and grow old together" type life long female companionship. I crave everlasting friendship not romantic love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:28 PM
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Lmao they asses think they're a catch? A large percentage of black men are felons, homophobic, uneducated, low income as black women are usually the breadwinners, let's not forgot the huge issue on domestic violence black men act against black women...I can go on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:39 PM
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I was wondering why they split? From her tweets, he seemed like a relief to be away from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:28 PM
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😭 what's brewing in your mind? Wait! They were both in high school, same school. Idk what specific grade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:23 PM
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Yeah. I'm realizing low value doesn't necessarily means bad father. One can be a good parent but overall shitty spouse. But then again we don't truly know their dynamic other than from what they show us meaning he could be a totally different person behind the scenes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:24 PM
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Imagine being a black woman lmao. I once dated a white guy that said he'd probably go back to white women because they obey their men. Black men expect full submission of black women like we're fucking dogs instead of partners. Being compared to men and that's why we're considered undesirable because we don't allow ourselves to be weak, "feminine ", we're supposedly aggressive. Just plain bull crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:00 PM
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And she has no kids at all. Not even with him! Clean break from that man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:02 PM
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Can be multiple reasons. He's impotent, he's genuinely shy cause nervousness can affect not only a man's perfomance in bed but how long he can stay erect or even can get an erection, body insecurities, possible std, smaller penis/micro penis. You two have to talk and get a definite answer. No more beating around the bush. Sexual compatibility seems to be something you find important. It's either sit and get some answers or terminate the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:05 AM
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The bar is so low, it's in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 06:16 PM
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Not only that but even if they're genuinely nice, some of them have this idea that that's all it should take for the women they want to want them back. They hate it when you process in Chemistry, comparability and attraction into it all the while picking you for all those reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:30 PM
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This so much. I got tired of being the one to make plans all the time. Suggesting activities to do, places to go only to be met with "no" or "I'm not feeling like it right now" every single time but always wanted me to drop by their place. I got my shit together rather quickly. Now it's "ok" and they'll never here from me again. I won't say the sub but it has incel in it (go figure) where this guy complains about a woman dumping him while calling him boring. He says after work he's usually burne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:22 PM
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The fight for women to lower their standards just to accommodate men is disgusting. Make shit up like lookism and heightist ( which I believe are serious things when it comes to jobs, schools, and flat out bullying but should not be ruled into dating) just to make women feel bad for wanting a partner they deem right for them. If you don't give every poor soul a chance that comes your way, you'll be alone for the rest of your life just like how they believe women lose their value at 30. I see thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:42 PM
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I view persistent as a threat and idgaf if that's a reach. If I've told you bluntly no, not interested will never be interested and you still persistent? After three times of patience I'm going to be a bitch. I do not care. I will say genuinely mean shit. Workplace will result in an HR call/ talk with the boss/complaint will be filed, will block your number and I have no problem changing it. If friend or neighbor, police can and will be called. I do not like persistence in men who I do not have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:21 PM
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Tbh to me this seems fake as hell. Incels and other groups love to pose themselves as a chad basically catfishing women. This seems like an overly exaggerated attempt at what they ridicule women for doing (having height, race and penis size requirements on their profiles). This is just to get attention for their own amusement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:22 PM
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I've heard the opposite as well. I repeated this a lot but they love to say it "you can change your weight but you can't change your height." I am aware of that but you rejected the woman that's overweight simply because you did not find it attractive. If personality was really all that matters then a lot of them shouldn't mind being with her and helping her get into a healthier lifestyle. Firmly believe that as well. I'm black. I'm aware there are people who aren't attracted to me due to my rac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:58 PM
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You're completely contradicting yourself and you most definitely are standard shaming. "Could you at least acknowledge that, unlike allll the other stuff you named, the race and height of your partner do not directly and indirectly affect your quality of life?" Let's take away race and height for a moment. We can all agree that physical attraction towards your partner is a MUST. You've probably seen threads here on reddit where people often ask questions on whether or not they're shallow simply …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:51 AM
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I never understood that sentiment. Why do I have to? Why can't no be no? Not interested be no interested? I don't care how much of a nice guy you think he is I'm not dating him cause if you do, it becomes a lose-lose situation. You don't give him a chance you're a stuck up bitch. You do and decide you aren't compatible, you lead him on, standards are too high, don't know what you want, etc because why wouldn't you want him as if Chemistry and attraction isn't a thing. Acting as of niceness is al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:23 AM
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As always it's ok for them but not us as they deem their own requirements reasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:10 AM
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We're just being too picky, leaving "good" men behind plus the reason why mgtows, red pillers and incels are on the rise/s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:08 AM
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I'm surprised he ran. Usually any man that defends women or a woman, he's automatically deemed a simp. No matter the context, he's a simp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 05:41 PM
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I have a bunch of angry peeps in my notifications, though I can't see them. Hi, in the black community there are a group of individuals called hoteps and ankh "niggas". These people routinely reject science for their own psuedo beliefs. For example, they genuinely believe menstruation is made up by white people and that specifically black women aren't supposed to have periods and that if we eat less, omit certain items (that are nutritious btw) from our diet, we'll stop bleeding. They also belie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:11 AM
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People legit think a woman carry the different personalities, essence, spirit of every man she sleeps with and essentially she mimics their behavior and becomes this mentally/emotionally dysfunctional being. That dumb science and that we're not supposed to act like men despite many women liking sex too, we're held at a higher standard blah blah blah. Unless his dick is 8+ he's not affecting shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 05:49 PM
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Don't do wife things at girlfriend prices lmao. I'll cook for him when he cooks for me. Now that I see it, a spouse that can cook is a must on my list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:57 AM
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This is what happens when people are guilt tripped into thinking they're pieces of shits for factoring physical attraction into dating someone and rejecting a potential partner because you're not attracted to them. It is not shallow at all to want to be attracted to a romantic and sexual partner at all. No matter how good of a person, could be great partner they are, if I'm not attracted to them then that's it. Attraction never grows for me. It's either there or it isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:36 AM
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And if you reject them, persistent bums would scream "ageist" and try to convince you men around our age are too young, they're immature, don't have their life together (that one made me laugh because a lot of older men don't have shit). Some I've bumped into even tried to tell me that since I'm young , I don't really know what I want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:38 PM
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I've heard about it but never got the chance to read it. I'll definitely look into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:18 PM
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It's ok for them but not for us and some black women buy into that crap. Its always ok for the men to do shit but put us at a standard cause we're women. I've heard bm make up reasons why it's ok for them to date white women while black women can't even look at a white guy and it's the most ridiculous thing. They bring up the years of rape black women suffer from white men and them dating white women is a power thing, conveniently leaving out them being killed and used as human dildos by white w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:38 AM
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Thank you. High incarceration rates, low education, poor income while bw are the most educated and statistically the breads winners in the relationship forking in majority of the income but ok. They're using brazen stereotypes of black women while painting black men as poor little victims meanwhile domestic violence black men commit against black women is higher than the empire state building. The ride or die, build a man no matter how poor or a fucking loser he is is beaten into black women at …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:35 PM
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I'm baffled by these men. Why the fuck do they feel the need to send messages like this? When has that ever worked for them? Did he expect you to be flattered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:42 PM
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I hope so. At least they can talk to women that actually want and prefer them rather than shaming women that don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:19 AM
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I wanna enjoy that sub because they often touch on racial inequality but once it's about women issues especially black women issues, the large amount of men in there would shut you down. They hate it when white men in that sub derail their experiences but will do the exact same to women and see nothing wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:18 PM
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Please if you ever go there, ask for a manager and report that man. If he's doing this to you, he is damn sure doing this to other women. Please stay safe out there. The misogynistic mentality that what a woman wears is what is causing her harrassment is such outdated bullshit, I do encourage you explain to your father as well cause this is terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:32 AM
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Doing something you're supposed to be doing as an able bodied adult, something so basic shouldn't be applauded. Wow you washed the dishes after weeks of contributing to shit, yes you deserve a reward. Kinda like fathers being applauded for doing the bare minimum for their kids while mothers carry the brute force of it all. (Obviously this doesn't extend to all fathers and mothers).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:56 PM
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I feel this on a spiritual level as a woman who doesn't date single fathers. People have nagged me about being out of luck since "everyone in there 20s are having kids so it will be difficult for you to find a man without". I truly don't care, I am not settling. I will not be a stepmom nor have a baby mother and child from another woman a permanent part of my life. And obviously it's not everyone if I do not have any of my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:37 AM
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