ohlizard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	What do you put on your OLD profile?	SEEKING ADVICE	ohlizard	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 05:38 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	experience with grooming from a male therapist I've never experienced this but I'm so sorry that happened to you. He is absolutely a predator.	/r/askFDS	19/10/20 11:30 AM
4	How to avoid "forcing" a new friendship into the direction of a relationship, just because you haven't dated in a long time? Yeah it's definitely a lot harder right now. What about at least looking for some women pen pals rather than this guy?	/r/askFDS	15/10/20 04:33 PM
22	How to avoid "forcing" a new friendship into the direction of a relationship, just because you haven't dated in a long time? I'm pretty much a lone wolf, I hardly have close friends You really need to develop some healthy friendships before you consider dating. I say this as someone who is also an introvert and didn't have many friends during my last relationship. I relied on him for most of my social interaction (and vice versa) which just wasn't good for the relationship. And then when we broke up I had no friends nearby to support me. So since being single I've forced myself to get out and meet people, and I've mad…	/r/askFDS	15/10/20 01:30 PM
17	“PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sis I'm so glad I found FDS and realised what bullshit this is. I used to watch it a lot myself and thought it was totally normal.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 09:22 PM
32	Is he LVM? We also kind of agreed we can’t really be together long-term because of our religious differences. So why the hell are you living with him? Have you read the handbook?	/r/askFDS	11/10/20 08:56 AM
24	Sooooooo many LVMS. How to weed them out? Message the women privately so you don't get bullshit from men. And as the other poster said, definitely don't mention FDS to guys.	/r/askFDS	05/10/20 06:40 PM
4	Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheat We also have /r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy which is not focused on dating. So sorry your husband has treated you like this.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 04:35 PM
10	Help. I'm in trouble. Obsessing over a guy, nearly over night. This is BAD. Girl this is so so creepy.	/r/askFDS	01/10/20 02:58 PM
8	What would you do if there were no men around for 24hrs? Yeah this has really made me stop and think. If there were no men I'd feel safe to go camping/hiking by myself, I'd go for late night walks, walk home at night feeling totally safe...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 08:20 PM
22	Classic “let’s go on a walk” 100%. I'm never bored except on rare occasions like maybe being stuck in an airport without anything to read or listen to. How dull minded do you have to be to regularly be bored of everything in the whole world?! Although on OLD I interpret 'bored' to mean 'horny' anyway.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/20 10:10 PM
12	If he wants a casual date, then you should casually drop him ❤️ Who is she/what's her insta?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 09:46 PM
6	I use to be a Pickmeisha and I kind of hate myself. But so glad I found this sub!!! Red pill women	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 12:44 PM
39	I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑 It's kinda hilarious. Why the fuck are you taking someone to a field for a date 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 08:51 AM
6	Are we all the same people experiencing the same thing? Me too, she's hilarious 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 07:29 PM
11	How men subtly deflect. My ex used to do this and it drove me up the f*cking wall	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/09/20 07:07 PM
1	What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLS This seems staged tbh, typical TikTok video.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 10:04 PM
9	I used to lurk here a lot when I was trying to date, and now I have a high value man which I thought I'd never find and there's so much stuff that I've never seen before because I've only seen low value men in relationships. Here are some things you see in high value relationships! Yeah they've only been dating 6 months, I would be wary.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 09:21 PM
5	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020 I don't think I'd call that gaslighting but it's dismissive and disrespectful - unacceptable.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 04:12 PM
6	Which Movies Do you Consider a Red Flag if A Man Raves About it and Says it's his Favorite? I watched AP a few years ago and just didn't get it. I've never watched a film where I hated the protagonist, I couldn't understand why people liked it. This is from the Wikipedia page, sums it up quite well: In his review for the Los Angeles Times, Kenneth Turan wrote, "The difficult truth is that the more viewers can model themselves after protagonist Bateman, the more they can distance themselves from the human reality of the slick violence that fills the screen and take it all as some kind o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 09:13 AM
2	Oh well It's so manipulative :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 01:43 PM
80	"we talk all the time at work so let's keep doing that" 💀💀 Ugh I saw that thread. Why are you handing your personal number to a colleague without any indication that she wants it?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 09:07 PM
56	Oh well This reminds me of all my exes so bad, I hate it lol. Like one of my exes cheated on me and told me how much it hurt him that he hurt me like that... excuse me wat	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 08:55 PM
8	A song saying "I ain't gonna do your laundry, I ain't your mama..." was playing and it made me realize a lot of things Oh that's weird. Does this link work? https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2tQGzxeUeuVVFYgiExaaoo?si=w-g23NjfT2yqVdOwT36hYQ	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 06:04 PM
36	This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodged If she even exists...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 04:50 PM
3	A song saying "I ain't gonna do your laundry, I ain't your mama..." was playing and it made me realize a lot of things Search 'Female Dating Strategy' on Spotify!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 04:31 PM
31	A song saying "I ain't gonna do your laundry, I ain't your mama..." was playing and it made me realize a lot of things It's one of the songs on the FDS spotify playlist :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 09:32 AM
1	Why on earth to pickmeishas/libfems think porn, casual hookups, and kinks are "empowering"? Great explanation, I saved your comment!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/20 09:25 AM
2	“Women who create things other than children are still considered dangerous by many.” — Literary Witches, Pam Grossman Another CFer here :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 08:42 AM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020 Are you in a committed exclusive relationship? If not you should be dating more than one guy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 08:16 AM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020 I hope he doesn't tell anyone we both know. Soooo embarrassing. He's the one who should be embarrassed, not you. Gross.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/20 08:13 AM
34	What common bio phrase you’re tired of seeing on OLD? posts picture of dog "The dog is my friend's."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/20 08:48 AM
12	Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah” Yep. Would she think it was cute and funny if one of her female friends was this rude? I doubt it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 07:37 AM
1	Reminder: LVM don't like it when you have a support system Good reminder. I'm hoping to move to a new city in the next few months so I'll definitely be cautious about telling people I'm new to the area.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 07:24 PM
18	Quick question about cancelling dates I think the key point is he didn't offer an alternative date. I would move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 06:38 PM
2	Can’t believe kids are going to grow thinking bruises like this are okay. This is so disturbing :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/20 05:06 PM
14	Most men are intimidated by smart women. He didn't pass the test. Yeah this came across as quite /r/iamverysmart.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/20 02:21 PM
5	Olympic swimming champ Sharron Davies on her 50th birthday. No wall in sight. 👍 Yeah I made a similar comment on another 'the wall' post and got called a pickmeisha for it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/20 09:16 PM
44	The Imaginary “Wall” Seems To Have Missed Shakira Completely Is anyone else getting kinda sick of these 'the wall' posts? We all know it's not true, do we have to keep posting about it? Preaching to the choir like.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/20 06:01 PM
20	Another reminder on why women need this sub to be reminded that they're not crazy for having basic standards For those that missed it. Okay now please no joke this is actually serious. Also, this is a throwaway account and I was an idiot when writing my name and typed throwaway instead of throwra. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now, so it's pretty new. So far everything is going well except this tiny little detail. He has this teddy bear, let's name him Teddy. Teddy has always been a part of my boyfriend's life : he got him for his birth and when at around the age of 5 or 6 (or whatever age…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 07:58 PM
33	A friendly reminder Yeah I will never lend money to another boyfriend, ffs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 08:43 PM