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you'll figure it out one day.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 02:38 AM
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Started her period.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:52 AM
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It just depends. It will always be a negative in your chances to get laid. It can be overcome, but it isn't a positive. I always liked paying. I felt like it gave me better control over the situation. However, I was making 4-5x if not more what a good date drinks and all would cost a day. You will come off most as a cheapskate if a date really sets you back financially. It will show up in your demeanor and everything else.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:49 AM
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Answered your own question. The reason is because you are depressed. Happens to me all the time. I have mild bipolar disorder, so it's just my life.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:41 AM
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pretty much. really take in what she just said to you. You might have like a dehumanization thing going on with women. Pretend a coworker or a guy friend said that to you. It should become real clear that person is trying passive aggressively to get you out of there.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:37 AM
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Bro there's really only two ways to handle that. You can put her on blast or ignore it either way someone to avoid in the future.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 03:32 AM
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Okayyyy lol.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:44 PM
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The black thing was black women in general typically have less abundance than other races, so typically all people especially other blacks will be quite successful with them. You get good results from black women because you are black and they have less options. Latinos, I guess because you have minority relation there. There are some geographies where latinos and blacks don't intermingle especially in gang areas. White women are "the most desirable" also you have rebel appeal there. TLDR: Black…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 08:07 PM
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Black women are generally among other cultures considered the least attractive of women. Surprisingly Asian culture is extremely against a dark skin tone. They also are culturally sound in that they very very seldom date outside of their race.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:48 PM
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You'll find women follow hobbies you more often see in polychronic societies.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:44 PM
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The ones that do have turned that hobby into something lucrative, or married a man that is already really successful in their hobby of choice. Musician woman? already married to a musician man. Fitness girl? already 20k on instagram with their own gear and either married to a man further into the fitness industry or an over all nightmare to deal with.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:42 PM
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By today's standards, when you start to low dose exogenous hormones you'll start to enter the buff zone. Otherwise, you'll be a big guy that's not very lean, or a fit guy who is lean, but not very big. I get described as buff now by some and others still say I only look like a lift. I have been lifting for power lifting for 5 years and have some IPF medals been lifting all together seriously for 8 years. I am 100% a peaked natural.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:39 PM
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The NISV defines rape as any sexual act that's occurred without consent, under violence, duress, threat, or of a mental state with the inability to consent. The source for the 321,000 defines rape as the criminal act as defined in each of the reporting jurisdictions.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 12:45 AM
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http://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/NISVS_Report2010-a.pdf that was the source. On average the US has around 321,000 rapes per year reported, so 60 *321/(.41) would be about 46 million
/r/askTRP13/05/19 10:22 PM
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Not always, I mean isn't it 1 in 3 women have been sexually assaulted. 1 in 5 women have been raped ,and 1 in 10 women have been raped by their significant other. I'd say if A is a women has been sexually assaulted and B is a women is damaged goods then 1>P(B|A)>P(B|A')
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:34 PM
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At some point, I can't right now. The buying power of what I make where I'm at is close to around 140k in a bigger city and Idk anyone hiring someone with less than 5 years industry experience in at that price. I also can't move until my probation has ended.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 12:54 AM
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5 and a half there about. It was never a monogamous relationship really but maybe NRE applies to that too.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:50 AM
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A friend of mine who quit being friends with me when he said everything I do is always a power play. I never do anything unless I think it'll allow me to increase the number of people i have who will do my bidding. I asked him what he meant by that and it wasn't just women it was new people in general. He claimed I would pull new people into social fold where I already had extreme influence until I could gain influence on them and use them for clout and invade the newcomers social circle.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 06:13 PM
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I would presume prior to meeting me simply because I have a habit of checking girls medicine cabinets for red flags (std kind) especially because I don't typically use condoms. I noticed she had those sample Paxil prescription things in there.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:46 PM
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I'm thinking I very well may be employing tactics that aren't necessarily to the benefit and may even be to the detriment of individuals mental health. I understand she was on a personal journey of her own to improve her mental health and her life in general. My main wonder is whether it was a simple bad circumstance that my behavior was at odds with her growth, or whether it is a commonality that has simply been failed to be addressed to this point. Just simple introspective things that I like …
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:39 PM
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Most people describe me as dangerously confident. I've been told my self-confidence is going to cause to me go headstrong into a situation that will be a detriment to me one day.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:32 PM
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Idk, I've been told by showing there is a lack of exclusivity I could be manipulating against an individuals insecurities into interaction they otherwise wouldn't want. I'm on the same wavelength as you though voluntary exchange can't be manipulation. Apparently from a psychological perspective that couldn't be further from the truth and being voluntary isn't as simple as agreeing to terms.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:30 PM
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That's something I'm contemplating about. Idk that I necessarily didn't have a concern toward her and her well being while she was involved with me. Now, she is no longer any of my concern.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:16 PM
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They were definitely a clinical psychologist because ik that's all they hire because she went to the same facility my cousin is a nurse in their suicide ward at.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:15 PM
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I've been fucking her and a couple of her friends for months. oh I need to add that to possibly manipulative behavior.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:13 PM
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Been replaced. I usually keep 6-10 at a time.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:12 PM
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I'm not really sure what they might be. I've been told I'm bad to lead girls on. I'm told I don't like to interact with women outside of settings where I typically have strong social pull and use that to make women feel compelled to submit themselves to my will. I've been told I'm bad to intellectually bully people out of their opinions. I've been told I use "negative humor" to exploit insecurities. I've been told I use urgency to not allow people to be thoughtful before giving me an answer. I'm…
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:10 PM
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Idgaf about her. I'm worrying about my own behaviors. IDK where anyone got the idea I was even the slightest bit worried about getting her back.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:05 PM
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I mean I've been fucking her for a few months prior to this along with quite a few other women.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 04:03 PM
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I mean these aren't just people though. These are individuals professionally trained to identify behaviors.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:56 PM
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Do you think redpill teaches things a therapist would believe to be toxic, or manipulative?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:45 PM
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" I'm mostly interested into opinions on why such an occurrence happened and if I am likely to see an increase in the frequency of this?"
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:37 PM
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"I'm only interested into opinions on why such an occurrence happened and if I am likely to see an increase in the frequency of this? "
/r/askTRP05/05/19 03:37 PM
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DM's are pointless without clout. If you don't have enough clout for a girl to know exactly who you are by the handle, then you probably aren't going to have much luck. The DM is a big pool to compete with.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:35 AM
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This. No girl wants to be the last girl at the bar.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:31 AM
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Ehhhh. I'd say it's 70/30. 70 she isn't interested. 30 she might be in a stance to be fucked but she doesn't want to be involved in any one on one dating activities.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:29 AM
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There's a stereotype every girl has in their head of the guy who uses them. The moment you meet too many checks for that stereotype you are instantly turned off. It's like being too hard of a sell. You run game in a way that sets a girls alarms off on you being everything the girl isn't interested in. Some girls are practically unnameable because their threshold is so low and those same one are most likely only looking a "beta" male, or the closest thing they can get to alpha while still screami…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:26 AM
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No there are girls that go on cock carousel phases in their mid twenties. There's also a bunch of girls who don't end their HS relationships until mid-college.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:48 PM
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Yeah, but that's the problem not the law. I mostly rebutted that because I thought your 16 was a rebuttal to the law thing being a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:58 PM
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Mine have all been military lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:53 PM
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This. We were in a transitory period. Divorce was ok, but there was still a social push for marriage. Compared to the earlier time where you got married and that was that. Then you have now where you do what you want don't worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:52 PM
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Except it's a dependent rate. Marriage rate is marriages per person. Divorce rate is divorces per marriage. Even if you have less marriages it wouldn't reflect in the divorce rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:51 PM
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This is something else I like. It's easier to play out opportunities in your mind than realize the cold reality of reaction from the actual pursuit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:47 PM
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You took another path. You didn't miss out really. You got to experience something most people didn't at that age. I'd say the latter in your last statement is true, but the former isn't. People who don't care for the approval of others are more likely to dive in a carve their own meaningful experiences like you did. Those that don't really fit in are likely to resentful and experience nothing in this time period. It's like on a saturday there's a huge house party. You went hiking. The other guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:46 PM
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There was a viral tweet that something to that effect. I remember 5 years ago complaining about how fat I was and here I am now actually fat. Oh if i only knew what was to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:41 PM
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House parties are like the biggest one. You aren't getting laid in someone else's closet after you hit career age. This is another major one is the shift in social acceptance of fun things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:41 PM
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lol at nerdy chads. I always thought about that with the frat guys in engineering with me. I got laid a ton though, but that's because I looked good and was a black sheep. I got to go to frat parties because of girls inviting me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:38 PM
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This is a good one. Once you break out of college age. How much money you make, how much you've achieved, how "woke" you are become true competitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:35 PM
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I think it happens to a lot of mid 20's. You've got to think a lot of 22-24 years olds are being shoved from the amazing experience of college into deadend jobs and forced to spend all of their time trying to leverage a decent entry level career. I mean i got to dive right into entry level career, but I still feel it a bit because my entry level career pits my hours against the normal people my age in the service industry leaving me lacking in the social realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:30 PM
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not technically most of the western world has an age of consent of 16 contrary to popular belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:27 PM
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It's not about the sex as much as the idea of opportunity and what that says about their value as a person. I'm sure guys would rather kiss that hot girl from college in their 20's than bang a hotter girl while their 40 for $700.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:25 PM
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They go to clubs the older people go to. There also tends to be at least a bit of an economic threshold there too. It's either an uppity club that charges a lot of money, or a dive bar where pretty people don't frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:23 PM
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24 and 26 is a weird time jobs matter how much money YOU make is a thing.18-20 doesn't matter your circle is mostly homogeneous economically and you have the most free time. 24-26 you are probably working at least 40 hours a week and making some type of decisions toward long term monogamy and many people in your circle may have already hit the race. 18-20 everyone is super social and there's so much fun to be had with little consequence. HS and college is probably the only time in your life wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 10:21 PM
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I love tattoos and piercings lol
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:50 PM
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Nah you were probably dealing with a legit sociopath the whole time and she sees you now as an easy ticket for a new set of novel experiences. Big red flags too fast and took a complete 180. She wants to move fast, so you don't have time to stop and think. Probably wasn't a 180. She just said things that didn't match her actions or real feelings. Once you quit being useful, you were sent on your way. She probably constantly wanted to do new and cool things. Probably wanted to have sex all the ti…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:49 PM
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This girl was slim DD tits. Wore a floral dress on the "date." The only masculine thing if you consider it would be her tattoos which said no gods no masters on each leg and quarter sleeve on her left arm of flowers where the design is your skin and gray and the background is all black.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:46 PM
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Same forest gump was probably
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:40 PM
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She might be a dom. I had an experience like this one time and I hit the race cause she wanted to tie me up pretty sure she was going to try to peg me.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 08:40 PM
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This and don't let a girl convince you otherwise.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 06:03 PM
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Opportunity I think is a major one for me. I also decided on some therapy about 8 months ago and I got referred to a psychologist who believes I may either have anti social personality disorder (sociopath), or be a psychopath. I think that I may immediately throw up red flags to women in my age range now because they have experience with people like me.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 02:18 PM
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I reposted it there after the first post
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 02:15 PM
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My high school had a population of 2500. I could get a girl to suck my dick in the stairwell straight off the clout of being the starting shooting guard and being down with neighborhood 60's Girls came to me, or their friends came to me for them. Also, I know how to talk to them it's not different than selling weed. The thing is I'm used to pushing a product that has no competition for both my weed and me as a member of the sexual market.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 01:51 PM
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Yeah in a lot of ways. I think you maybe right. I think I in my drug dealing days combined with being an honors engineering student made me a perfect storm of a top 1% or even .1% for attractiveness in that pool and age group. I think it was maybe just a once in a lifetime type thing.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 01:05 PM
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I wanted to put background to how pretty much I always got girls off pretty much image and I'm used to putting in 0 effort. I was looking for people that transitioned from that to I guess a more traditional approach t picking up women.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:01 PM
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I always went for the suburb types. I was the big man at the parties, so I was always someone you could brag about being a bad boy to your friends. I was also an honor engineering student, so I was someone your dad would say was going somewhere in life. It was always like the novel experience for me anyway. The bad boy who has a girl with daddy's money spend it on you and show you off to all her friends.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:00 PM
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Why didn't you just do it and put it in the spin cycle? Give her the number and just low key neg him and ask her to get coffee or something with you. Example: " Joe wanted me to give you his number. I guess he was too shy to give it you himself. Here's his number, but if you want to go get some drinks here's my number.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 11:55 PM
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I mean I still have a rotation of 3 or 4, but a lot are fading into marriage and kids. I'm 25 no one I knows parties anymore. All of my old friends are married or dead or in jail lol. I'm still a competitive power lifter. I'm on probation still and I can't legally go to clubs or bars in this state for the next 3 years. I literally just don't meet any women. Everyone at my job is 20 years older than me and have been married for a long time. I don't really know any hobbies that'll help me meet wom…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 11:46 PM
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It's never about what you do. It's about how you do it. You don't go fly fishing for bass. You find what you enjoy, so you can become the best of the best at it. There are good looking girls in every group. It's not about doing something that's appealing. It's about doing something so well that people it appeals to are attracted to you in droves. Hell the world champion magic the gathering players slay some decent girls.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 11:17 PM
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Do you not run even when you can drive? I believe that makes the point. There will still be those who choose natural birth for a sense of fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:13 AM
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