ohtobebeautiful Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Why do ugly guys get blown off as creeps but good looking guys are given more chances Attractive people are more trust worthy. You're probably sure there's nothing wrong with them, some guys give off the 'school shooter' vibe and it's worrysome. Also, a very unattractive guy chatting up a woman could be insulting to her because she wonders, 'if he thinks he has a chance with me, how ugly am I'?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:52 PM
2	What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off? I don't like very masculine men. LOVE me a guy who isn't uncomfortable wearing feminine clothing, nail polish, some make-up, isn't afraid to show emotion etc. I don't know what the underlying reason is. I just find it attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:50 PM
3	Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand? Well my boyfriend is a gym rat and so am I. The only negative thing I can tell about a gym bro is probably the stereotype of them being self obsessed and sleeping around, but there's plenty of dudes who just want a gf to lift with and who aren't self obsessed because they suffer from crippling body dysmorphia. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:47 PM
1	Should I be ashamed of losing weight and looking nicer if it isn’t for myself? It is not shameful at all! In the end, you're actually doing it for yourself anyways. Becoming more attractive for your love interest is great Motivation.	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/21 12:27 PM
16	Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together? He's not a good man if he broke up with her and basically played games. Why would you tolerate behaviour like this?	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 03:57 PM
1	If you're not hot or rich, you can't afford to be shallow. Good thing I'm both :))	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/21 07:59 PM
2	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? What kinda question is that Just because someone is good-looking it doesn't mean you are automatically attracted to me... This question would only matter if looks were the only thing of value in a relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 12:03 PM
2	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? He is aesthetically pleasing and looks better than the majority of people his age, I'm not denying that. However, as a 19 year old I simply don't find people more than like 5 years older than me hot... Look, if I find someone hot I am gonna think of sleeping with them, and I could not imagine sleeping with someone that old. I am not saying his is not Beautiful. I am just saying he is aesthetic in a way that is not at all sexual to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 11:21 AM
2	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? You're really funny... No, I never found DiCaprio attractive, Pitt used to be attractive in his 20s but now he is too old. Also, they are just people but with more money. The fact you even asked this shows me you're either really young or you don't have experience with women at all ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/21 07:57 AM
1	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? Depends on where you live, where I live people usually look pretty good and put together until their 50s... I guess in the USA (where most Redditors seem to be from) it is kind of different. Glad I don't live there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 05:16 PM
2	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? You're projecting your insecurities :) However, you can't change women's preferences... Rambling in this sub won't make you more popular amongst them. That's just how it is. Have a good one!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 04:53 PM
1	If the redpill is so wrong, why do all the women here seem so much happier? Take a look at any relationship sub. It is disastrous. This is the only sub I see with at least decently happy women. Because y'all aren't dumb. You don't go for men who have nothing to offer. Of course you are happier, ladies! You have the intelligence to SELECT a male who's not a pain in the ass to put up with in the first place.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/04/21 02:13 PM
5	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? I don't see feminity as being submissive, I guess everyone thinks differently. Of course I'd take the tall guy. I'd also rather date a tall woman over a short one. Being tall is a massive advantage in pretty much every area of life. I don't know how people are so triggered about this. 3. I honestly don't know, I'm only 19. After finishing my studies I can expect to earn a pretty good amount of money. Also, in my country people aren't poor per se. I would like to have my partner to have a good jo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 12:52 PM
1	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? You are right, however I am speaking for myself. Age gap when young: A disparity in life experience. Personally, I also don't find men who are more than 5 years older than me attractive. I know this isn't the case for many women, they are free to do what they want. Age gap when older: As you said, you're likely to be alone for a pretty long time. No we can not prevent this in most cases, but as most people on here live in western countries and can expect to live for a pretty long time. I'd also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 12:21 PM
7	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? Why the heck would I be submissive to a man? Am I an animal? I'm a human with intellect and feelings, I don't want to be submissive to another person. I don't see an appeal in that. I make my own money, I am getting an education, why would I be submissive? I'm 5'11, yes I would be okay with dating someone who's down to 5'7. I'm 19, I don't expect someone to be rich. I do expect someone to be similarly hard working as me however.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 12:16 PM
3	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? So nice to here this, especially on a subreddit like this one! Also thank you for the cake day wish :)))	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 09:39 AM
6	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? I'm 19 years old. I date people my age and I date to marry. I am extremely grossed out by 30 year olds hitting on me, so maybe I am shaming them. Please don't hit on teens, go away. It makes me and many others incredibly uncomfortable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 09:33 AM
5	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? I started appreciating the beauty of older women as well. Sadly, many people let themselves go after hitting their 50s, I don't think it has to be like that. I've got a good skin care routine, I live healthily and I try to keep stress out of my life. I'm no longer scared of aging. I'm even looking forward to getting my kids from school and their friends asking who's mom is that ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 09:31 AM
2	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? I don't care about the things you say. I am 19 years old and I only date for long term relationships. I have 0 interest in sleeping around. So keep that stuff to yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/21 09:27 AM
10	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? You just said you prefer women your own age. Good for you. It doesn't make anyone a bad or weird person for thinking a 23 year old is attractive/beautiful. But you have to also consider life experience when it comes to dating. A 23 year old is no where near at the same point as someone 10 years older than them. My personal thoughts are that as a woman I am likely going to live longer/healthier than my partner. Add a 10 to 15 year age gap to that and I can prepare for losing my partner when I am …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 08:34 PM
28	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? I honestly do not care anymore. When I found out about this, I was worried I might lose my 'worth' after 25. That's ridiculous. An older guy willing to put up with a much younger woman is no one I find attractive. I don't want to be in a relationship with guys who are okay with dating teens when they are in their 30s. So I couldn't give less of a fuck who these kinds of men find attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 04:23 PM
14	Do you honestly believe that men want younger women predominantly because he can't get women his own age as opposed to young adult women just being more attractive? I find both creepy as heck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 04:21 PM
2	[Q4All] Do women in general actually enjoy being smaller and weaker than men? I train to be strong to be able to fight back if something should happen. I'm also taller than the average male. However, I like it when my SO is heavier than me. I don't care that much about height and strength, but if he's lighter than me that would be a deal-breaker. I don't wanna feel fat next to a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/21 11:17 AM
2	What is a superficially unattractive man from your point of view? Fat, old, lighter than 150 lbs, bald I can excuse bad skin but only if he's willing to let me take care of that. I'm also 5'10 so no shorter than 5'7.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/21 10:53 AM