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| 673 | al i can say is… jfcHe pretends to have decency. "Oh, I've been fucking around like the disgusting community dick I am, but I'd never do it in front of her." "She's not relationship material but I'm jealous that she made out with someone. Was it a drunken mistake or was she trying to make me jealous?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 04:32 PM |
| 464 | Obvious things I never realized until someone else pointed it outFriend-zone= you appreciate them as a person, understand their feelings but can't reciprocate it. And you care about them enough to be friends with them. Fuck-zone= they objectify you, dehumanise you, think that the only thing you're good for is sex and don't feel any shame in texting "u up?" at 2 am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 10:33 AM |
| 77 | ✨How I realised if he wanted to he would is true ✨You're absolutely right. My friends and I buy each other small, random gifts and flowers whenever we feel like it. It is as simple as, "I saw these flowers and remembered that you liked them". Women realise that their tiny gifts and thoughtful actions can have huge emotional impact on their loved ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:29 PM |
| 200 | The darker underside of the “cool girl”If you're "out cold" when someone's doing something sexual to you, it's called rape. Funny how they'll go through crazy mental gymnastics and verbiage just to avoid the truth. With the 'free use' fetishes getting more rampant, I think libfems have started embracing role of a sex doll in the bedroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 164 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.I don't understand why libfem sex workers think that they're doing some kind of social service or charity work. In their heads, they think they're therapists and that these men definitely don't see them as a disposable p***y on demand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 31 | Ladies who have taken back an ex, did he change and what made you take him back?This! This is exactly why I'm wary of men who say that they've changed after therapy. An abusive man will remain abusive, no matter what. He sees the impact of his actions, he's self aware. All therapy does is teach him "sensitive talk", the ability to calmly fuck you up and therapy terms to invalidate your suffering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 07:33 AM |
| 14 | ‘Men rarely get compliments, women do’, ‘Men have no emotional support unlike women’ 🤡🤡You're right! All the women I've ever seen in my life get their emotional support/hype/confidence boost from the women around them. The friendships we build and nurture keep us happy, sane and strong. Compliments are nice, but it's not the basis of our emotional strength. Majority of the men who whine about men not having emotional support are scumbags nobody wants around them. If you don't have ANY friends, ANY relative or cousin to confide in; that's a you problem, not a "the entire male speci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 02:40 PM |
| 270 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an assholeOh god, I missed out the part where he says that he's repeating classes and hanging out with underclassmen. What a loser, why is she even with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 09:45 AM |
| 388 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an assholeshe's too pretty AND too smart for him He knows he can't insult her looks because everybody around him isn't blind. So, he insults her education, her intellect and her career, the thing she has worked hard to build her entire life. Funny how men prefer to resort to these manipulation tactics to maintain their relationships instead of just loving and respecting their women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:49 AM |
| 902 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an asshole"I like to joke around, it's a CS guy thing" "I'm very insecure because my girlfriend is pretty" "I said that she can either be pretty or intelligent, but not both. And now my class thinks that I'm the sigma male for banging a hottie." "I'm friends with the pieces of shit who think my gf is such an airhead that they can insult her right to her face without her realising it." ..........And then he's wondering if he's an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 04:11 AM |
| 48 | Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating appAnd it always starts with small, harmless lies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:53 AM |
| 350 | girl whatHe's an insidious, gold digging, gambling, irresponsible asshole living in delusion. No sane woman would want him as a partner and he doesn't even have enough sugar to get a sugar baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:50 AM |
| 60 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!You know, I usually ask men what they mean once or twice whenever they say crazy shit like this. Funnily enough, they're ready to elaborate and be even more creepy. So it's not a surprise that he doesn't realise how stalker-ish he sounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 04:01 AM |
| 90 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesDon't say walks aren't dates, they'll waste your time and start explaining why it's such a great idea. Just say, I don't do walk dates. If they start probing and asking why, just block. Any man who thinks a walk date is a good first date is not worth dating, you'll always have to nudge them in the right direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 57 | Basically they admit to everything FDS warns us about.'Easy lay', 'Plates' 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 12:21 PM |
| 35 | To those who were cheated on and took back their exes for a “second chance” how did it change you emotionally/mentally? What gave you the strength to leave?This is so similar to what happened to me. He was still "best friends" with his ex, having sleepovers and parties with her because there was "too much history" and that their friend group was the same. He would say, "I totally understand why you'd feel insecure about it babe. I'm really sorry, and I love you." And then I'd feel pathetic for being insecure and would try to act like the brave, cool, chilled out girl. He was isolating me and was killing every aspect of my personality bit by bit and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:03 PM |
| 51 | I’m tired of sex work being promoted as the only other option if a woman can’t make money. It’s not that easy and it will ruin your future opportunities if you were to transition out of it.They cry about meritocracy when universities offer scholarships and programmes to attract young girls to STEM fields yet constantly berate and talk down to women who are already working in it and have entered and made a space for themselves purely on merit basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:08 AM |
| 100 | Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭They realised that pitting us against other women isn't working, so now they're pitting us against plastic robots lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 32 | Another FDS hate post on the frontpage of LV males frothing at the mouthAnd b/c I have an education (thanks mom), a job and life skills, I'm able to happily live on my own for the rest of myyyy life. And that is what scares them. A truly independent woman is their worst nightmare. An independent woman knows that she doesn't need a man in her life, she can look after herself and that's why she doesn't take bullshit from these man-babies They want women to be independent and strong, but only with heaps of insecurities and emotional vulnerability because that keeps the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 03:43 AM |
| 104 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsBut you don't understand, a guy dumping his gf for not looking excited enough during BJs is mature and intelligent; a woman refusing to date a micro penis with erectile dysfunction is a hate crime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:07 PM |
| 309 | Guy dumps his GF over not enthusiastically having oral and not doing anal, and gets hailed as an upstanding guy for doing this in the commentsFunny how they acknowledge that he's "rare and valuable" and "knows his worth" because he earns well and is mature and that's why he's allowed to have standards and not compromise on anything. Yet they cry and call FDS hateful and misandrist when we say that we're successful, beautiful, high achieving and well established women and we're allowed to have high standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Saw this on Twitter and it felt discussable/appropriate to share hereThey can’t even give Jojo Siwa a break and she’s still a teen. I love her for not giving into the pressure to act "mature" and maintaining her kid friendly image. She really seems to enjoy that and loves being a role model to young girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 12 | Reflecting today… The greatest gift I’ve ever given myself was dumping the age gap, emotionally abusive scrote who couldn’t even keep his side of the bathroom clean.Same, but then i zoomed in and saw the toothpaste drool, water stains, beard hair and those weird white splotches ALL OVER THE PLACE!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 10:11 AM |
| 20 | Hopeful reminder: HVM existThis is so heartwarming! It's always the little things that count! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:13 PM |
| 38 | Madras HC lawyer seen canoodling a woman during virtual hearing.... "Boys will be Boys"The amount of times I've heard women complaining or being uncomfortable about their boyfriends constantly groping them is crazy. It's so disgusting and disrespectful. Like, sir, are you a dildo with legs? It's nice to feel desired, but a guy yanking at your breasts when you're cooking is straight up annoying. Men absolutely have no subtlety and grace when it comes to physical touch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 06:00 PM |
| 587 | Saw this on Twitter and it felt discussable/appropriate to share hereSuddenly they care about "infantalizing" women They care so much about not infantilizing 17-18 year old girls, yet make excuses for 23-24 year old men and keep calling them kids. So, a 17 year old girl is a strong sexy woman and a blossoming hottie because she turns 18 next month but we can't hold a 24 year old man accountable for his actions because he's just a kid and didn't know any better?? Fuck you, I'll call you a pedo if you're acting like a pedo, no matter what the "age of consent" is in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:52 PM |
| 35 | My FDS post gets shared across another sub, and now my inbox is flooded. HELP.Happened to me as well. Don't worry, just turn off your chat settings, that will solve the problem. Also, keep your account FDS exclusive, don't participate in other subs with your FDS account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 09:22 AM |
| 221 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himOh boy, scrotes will hate you so much for saying this. They already complain that we don't care about men's mental health. But the truth is, medication and therapy can help you only if you want to help yourself. If the person doesn't want to improve, it won't do shit. His heart is breaking for his wife, now that she won't be there to clean up after him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:25 AM |
| 6 | 'Body count': Do people count and what even matters?Honestly, any form of intimate touch, I do count it. I count men I've kissed, had any type of sexual contact with and had PIV sex with. I think men have a very clear definition of body count because apparently, sex is over when the man is done. Meanwhile, men didn't even give a shit about women's pleasure up till a few years ago. "The emphasis on her pleasure" became a mainstream thing very recently, and even now men will just talk about it, they still treat women the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 04:58 PM |
| 146 | Everyone in this supposed feminist sub is telling her to propose herselfI was also wondering about this, isn't Pandora jewellery super cheap and meant for teenagers?? And she says that she's secure and doesn't need labels to love him, but in the same breath she's crying about what she's doing wrong. This woman needs to get out of this toxic relationship with his psychological warfare inflicting "boyfriend". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 04:56 AM |
| 84 | A "compliment" that men need to stop usingWhen you are tall, you start getting, "I really like strong women" as a compliment and "why do you even wear heels" as a neg. All the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 11:59 PM |
| 8 | Doomscrolling: why we need to be picky on the internetI'm done with garbage people and their low vibrational existence. ✨ Amen, sister!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 08:45 PM |
| 130 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.You're right! I also saw clips of him shutting car door in Hailey's face, telling her not to touch him, groping her on IG live and being passive aggressive about "his lyme disease". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 06:14 AM |
| 261 | YEARS of Justin Bieber being narcissistic abusive and triangulating MANY women (from 2014 to present) - Ladies, this could be your life if you’re with a NVM.Justin Bieber has always been a piece of shit. I think I heard news about him being abusive and inappropriate towards Hailey as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 06:09 AM |
| 34 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️Even nice little things like journaling supplies- pens, markers, books, letter pads, a little stamp or wax seal; or handmade and assorted things would be good stocking stuffers. The thing is, if you're in a relationship, you're supposed to know what your partner likes and what their hobbies are. The generic, gift-guide, "hottest gifts this season" kind of gifts give me lazy and incompetent partner vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 57 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️This is the most useless thing I've seen on the planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 27 | When posting here have you gotten Reddit Cares messages from scrotes because they’re big mad?I speak against the porn/sex work industry quite often and get attacked for it. But the worst part is, LVM(they get so mad when we label them; as if they weren't labelling us as slts, whoes, h*es, butterfaces and what not, we're just branding them as LVM because they don't add value to our lives) and pick-mes will never even understand what this sub stands for. They'll nitpick and cry 'FDS bad'. Well ofcourse, it's a community of 200k+ women, not everyone is going to have the same preferences, i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 12:45 PM |
| 58 | Men really have no shame - serial philanderer candidly admits his “escapades” during first dateThis is exactly what I was thinking! How can anyone be so dumb? Did he want a medal for being a cheating piece of shit? I think he was just trying to appeal to her empathetic side and look for another host to suck the life out of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 02:18 PM |
| 89 | "The more accepting you become, the less bizarre things seem."- Why scepticism is important and why you don't owe acceptance to anyone.Exactly! Live and let live, but that doesn't mean that you become a therapist/home/refuge for someone purely out of sympathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Going on my first date.Experiencing a little anxiety is normal, especially when you're recovering from a bad relationship. Vet him thoroughly, but learn to differentiate between the irrational, paranoid thoughts and the rational, vetting mindset. Don't ignore genuine concerns and obvious red flags and do not make the mistake of treating it as paranoia. Have fun with it, dating is supposed to be enjoyable. I was emotionally abused for a long time and although he hasn’t done anything wrong yet…Every time we talk and thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 07:43 AM |
| 248 | My Friend's Husband is About to Ruin Her Entire Career. This is why you should always be financially independentDo not build a man, he may never repay you. Absolutely! That's why vetting is so important. It's important to see if they're giving you the same energy. Why walk miles for someone who won't move an inch for you? If you're both supporting each other, that's great! But a woman sacrificing everything to support a man who can't wait to leave her is a story that repeats itself too often. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Umm, that’s called sexual assault?? Tf, just cuz ur married doesn’t mean he can treat you any way he wants. That subreddit is a shit show.This is terrible and it's just the initial stage of their marriage. Who knows how much worse he's gonna get after 10-15 years. Also, why do men think that groping us/flashing us is sexy and will make us horny somehow? Things like these make my insides shrivel up like a raisin. Showing affection/small touches and kisses are so important to maintain a woman's sexual interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 12:38 PM |
| 129 | 19-Year-Old Billie Eilish On Starting To Watch Porn At 11, And How It Damaged HerI recently saw a subreddit about a tiktoker and their first rule was, "no NSFW posts about pictures and videos before her 18th birthday". And it was horrifying to see literal rape fantasies about this kid; and it was all fine because it was days after her 18th birthday. She has reacted to this subreddit in the past and has expressed discomfort and disgust and has urged people to stop sexualizing her. But Ofcourse, it never works. PC predators need to disappear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:05 AM |
| 158 | If a man does not date within his age range, it’s a red flag.I was having a similar discussion with my friends. We were discussing our dating lives and how we no longer feel attracted to college kids, simply because we're graduating and joining the workforce soon. Anybody who's in a different stage of life(school/college) is a kid to me and I cannot even imagine being romantically attracted to them. So, the fact that these men find young girls attractive is bizarre to me. Wouldn't you want a partner who is in the same stage of life as you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 09:02 AM |
| 130 | Wife’s message to husband on Tinderhe is looking like Michael Cera at 15 I was literally gonna say this! How do these men look the way they do and still have the audacity to cheat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 04:10 PM |
| 195 | A message to male lurkers: So what exactly is it about FDS that triggers you?"Those women are fat and ugly nobody wants them! Only there cats hur hur hur!" This never fails to make me laugh. They don't want to deal with the fact that young girls/barely legal girls have enough sense and awareness to not fall for their manipulation. I've introduced so many women to the handbook, they all love it because it helps them navigate in a world full of pedos, abusers, liars and sociopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 04:06 PM |
| 156 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.They'll act like they're the flag bearers of sexual liberation. They'll act woke. They'll feed you lies and gaslight you into believing that sex work is just as legitimate as any other job. They'll tell you it's empowering. They'll tell you it is respectable. Watch them get outraged and do unreal mental gymnastics when these women are related to them(partner/cousins/sisters/mothers/aunts/daughters). If it's so nice, encourage your family too; it's easy money, right? If sex work is sooooo healthy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I love these!! You're so talented and funny XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 08:47 AM |
| 29 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 40 -Scrote Decode: John Cena & His Insane 75 Page Girlfriend ContractYour comment led to me this video and it's hilarious!!!😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 07:12 AM |
| 55 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 40 -Scrote Decode: John Cena & His Insane 75 Page Girlfriend ContractExactly! These celebrities either have really good PR teams or really blind fans because they seem to face absolutely no repercussions for their abusive actions. It's weird how people seem to forget all about it, Hollywood is filled with pedos, abusers, frauds, cheaters and liars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:17 PM |
| 166 | Wonder why he stuck around for 3 dates... Just when you think men can't get any worseThis is just evidence that low value men will stick around for a quick fuck, even if they're not interested in you at all. They'll fake everything just to get you in bed with them; your looks, your personality, your ambition, your expectations, nothing matters to them as long as they can get their dick wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 49 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughOfcourse, I'm not surprised that the backstory of this song is low value af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 11:57 AM |
| 140 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughI don't fuck with you- Big Sean. I don't know why or how it became the "iconic badass post breakup song", but it reeks of entitlement, disrespect and grossness all over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 05:06 AM |
| 30 | Woman posts about her LVM in 2015 . . . and then updates SIX years later about leveled up lifeI've always said it, and I'll say it again; women live beautiful lives without low value men. Their relationships with their family and friends become stronger, their careers thrive, their homes look sorted and beautiful, they travel and see the world, their lives are peaceful, they're happier and start looking younger all of a sudden (because they don't have an LVM stressing them out 24x7). I think we should normalise young girls staying single till they get a proper understanding of healthy re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:15 AM |
| 76 | Right as we are about to get a place, I found out my boyfriend lied about his income.This! It's not even about how important this is to you, money is a significant aspect in ANY relationship. If they're lying about something like this (where they can easily be caught in their lie), then who knows what else they've lied about? He's trying to maintain the facade and that's even worse. Get away from this situation as soon as possible, he'll try to trap you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:50 AM |
| 47 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everJust like the her friend said, her looks were the least ugly thing about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 11:37 PM |
| 41 | “mAh LeGaCy!!!1!” Writes the wife incubator out of the equation and reduces her to an appliance. No mention of her at all and she’s the one doing all the work! At least the comments are sane. Be so careful who you breed with, the truth trickles out in strange ways so make sure you’re listeningI resonate so much with your comment!! I love kids and taking care of them. I have really young nephews and nieces and I absolutely adore them. But the idea of having my own kids scares me because of all the horror stories about incompetent, absent, abusive, workaholic, cheating fathers who'll weaponize their own children in divorce and custody battles. Men like the idea of kids till they realise how much love and dedication it requires. They remind me of the whiny kid who cries for a puppy and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 324 | The main character is catfished by some ugly guy but she eventually falls in love with his “personality”. Safe to say this is my least favourite film everOh god, your comment reminded me of that horrible movie, Sierra Burgess is a loser or something. The protagonist was a shitty teenager who thinks she's special and extra intelligent and constantly looks down upon pretty girls (they're pretty so they must be super dumb). Netflix just keeps on making horrible content specifically for pickmeishas and LVM. Anybody who is desperate enough to pretend to be someone else DOES NOT have a good personality either, they're already a bad person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 05:51 PM |
| 116 | Went on a Tinder date and guy just said Let’s talk more and didn’t ask for my phone number…Absolutely. It's been two days and he hasn't contacted you. If he wanted to talk more, he would've put in the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 156 | Tinder didn't kill dating... but it didn't help eitherAbsolutely but majority of men on dating sites aren't looking for stability or a relationship tbh. They look for insecure women who'll sleep with them and fulfill their depraved fantasies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:15 AM |
| 188 | Scrotes still want us to wait on them and their friends, like we’re a restaurantThe other weird part about this post is, he seems to entertain a lot of people in a regular basis yet never seems to be invited to anyone's place. Growing up, I've seen my parents inviting their friends and family over on a regular basis. But we'd get invited all the time too!! It's a back and forth interaction. It's funny how he's ~so social and friendly~ yet nobody invites him and his family. He's a scrote and everybody around him can see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 68 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:That's the part that got me. He's a med resident, knows how pregnancy changes a woman, knows how delicately things should be handled in the third trimester, knows that she needs extra care and nurturing rn. If he can't empathise with a person who needs extra care, support and rest; he's not mentally ready for his profession and fatherhood tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 116 | As if objectification suddenly becomes fine if you're paying for itI might be wrong but I don't think she has an onlyfans, she has spoken against it in the past. As per my knowledge, she's just a twitch steamer. But just like any female twitch streamer, she has male fans who are disrespectful and gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 102 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.Ew why? Why do softcore movies with a dash of ✨ rapey tendencies✨ sell like hotcakes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 11:02 AM |
| 401 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial manI'd like to add, some guys will have an entire friend circle full of jerks, liars, cheaters, misogynists, sexists, creepy dudes, and they'll tell you all about them with 100% honesty. They'll use these stories to establish trust "all my friends are trash, but I'm a nice guy babe". Never fall for it, because if all his friends are trash, he's trash as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 128 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳He'll offer him croissants and discuss everything next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 635 | Saw a surprising amount of HVM in the wild under a facebook article today. Happy Friday ☀️The fact that this kind of thing is seen as something that's worth writing an article about, says a lot about the society we live in. They're celebrating this rare unicorn because the bar is in hell. And it's so nice to see so many men noticing and pointing it out. Staying with your partner when they're vulnerable is the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:31 PM |
| 435 | Type of man to avoid: the brosocial or homosocial man100%. While it's okay to ask for your friends' opinion while dating someone new, it's completely unacceptable to prioritise them over your significant other. One thing I've always noticed is, men tend to weaponize their friend circle. If they want to "keep the woman in check", they'll constantly use their Bros and their girlfriends to triangulate situations and make their partner second guess everything. I also hate how guys will justify any poor behaviour with "Bros before hoes". Calling a woma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 34 | Thanks to female dating strategy I am watching movies with a different set of “glasses” on.I just watched The princess and the frog and it's proof that if you stay with low value guys long enough, they'll turn you into a low value person. The broke prince tries to trap the naive rich girl into marrying him, but ends up ruining the life of a girl who worked hard for years for a dream. And now they're both little froggies. I hate that such movies are catered towards little girls. We're raising generation after generation of pickmeishas who accept and settle for the first low value men t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:11 PM |
| 84 | Maybe Jack shouldn’t be writing about the “extreme” lengths women go to feel safe.It's not extreme. She just committed to the normal thing women do avoid getting raped/kidnapped/murdered; being on calls and sharing tracking link during cab rides, calling a friend or asking a friend to join them if they're expecting a maintenance guy, lying about having a boyfriend in bars and clubs, pretending you're waiting for someone/are with someone in a shady area, video calling friends when you're around someone suspicious, putting dirty men's shoes outside to make it look like a guy li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 11:39 AM |
| 54 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.Exactly!!! Why would you want to be with a guy who has already shown you his true colours? He immediately started being disrespectful, condescending and insulting the moment he felt threatened or insecure. This is not the kind of future anybody wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 55 | curious why men send dick picsThe most common motivation for sending such an image was hoping to receive sexual pictures in return, followed by hoping to turn on the recipient. And when has this ever worked? Lol nobody's tearing their bra off at the sight of a dick pic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 06:20 PM |
| 273 | Anyone had a scrote try this on them?Guy: NoBoDy CaN uNdErStAnD wOmEn, ThEy'Re So CoMpLiCaTeD Meanwhile, literally throws shit tests and manipulation at her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 06:16 PM |
| 120 | "Do you want to hang out sometime?"I don't even just "hang out" with my friends. I meet them for dinner, an activity/trip of some kind, a game night, to watch a movie together... OMG so true! Me and my friends always plan things properly, even when we see each other almost everyday. "Hanging out" is such a lazy term, it basically tells me that he hasn't given it a single thought. Nobody wants a guy like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 106 | There is no surefire way to avoid LVM - you are not responsible for what comes your way, but you are responsible for what you choose to entertain.LVM will shoot their shot with any woman, even women they know they don't deserve. You could be an accomplished CEO and you will still get broke scrotes with nothing going for them trying it on. That might be because of the advice, "go ask her out, even if she's totally out of your league. The more successful and pretty a woman is, the lonlier she is." Dudes will not hesitate to ask out women they do not deserve at all. It's almost shameless at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 12:05 PM |
| 136 | Hook-up culture is a lie! (This time with math!)I've said it before and I'll say it again, I do not have a problem with people having casual sex. If you are physically and mentally healthy, emotionally and financially independent, have a good judgement and can take responsibility for your safety and well being; then by all means, do have casual sex. The main problem here is, the people who have a good mindset generally do not indulge in this. Hook up pool normally attracts- people with low self esteem (who are often love deprived and are look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 185 | After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.Couldn't agree more! I remember reading about another woman whose boyfriend was mixing snails or something in her food for keeping her sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:23 PM |
| 108 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.That's the part that enraged me. He blocked you sis, why are you still making excuses for him? Why would anybody do that to themselves? It wasn't miscommunication if he straight up refused to communicate with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 12:10 PM |
| 60 | Is it okay to not want to date in your 20's?I feel the exact same way, I'm two years younger than you and don't think that dating right now is the best move for me. I am working towards building a life of my own right now, I want to be the woman I've always envisioned. So dating isn't really something on the top of my priority list. I also feel like I do not have the emotional energy to be cheated on, be two timed or to deal with all the sex-driven, broke-gross-unhygenic and proud of it kind of LVM. Maybe once I gain more stability career… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 110 | Victim Blaming"Respecting their privacy".........hmm, I've heard that so many times in the same context, toxic and abusive people throw it around so casually. Domestic violence is not a private family matter. You're not a peaceful person if you're picking fights outside pubs every night, drunk and drugged up. It's funny how people are still defending him ("we don't know the full story", "Yolanda was such a toxic person on RHOBH, she's doing it for attention", "poor Zayn") after he pleaded guilty on one charge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 147 | This is must watch. Rashida Jones speak out against the porn industry: “It’s a perfect storm to exploit girls.”It's heartwarming to see someone using their platform and voice to stand up for what's right. Porn/sex work isn't empowering and the only women who say that it is are living extremely privileged lives and don't know shit about working in this industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 08:13 PM |
| 164 | You should have a “hoe phase!”Ugh, I couldn't agree more!!! 'Hoe phase', 'Hot girl summer' etc is just libfem conditioning which tries to convince women that they can "reclaim their sexuality" by fucking around. I honestly don't care about people wanting and getting casual sex, but it's irritating when they try to tell you how amazing it is and that you're missing out. If getting drunk and having shit sex with a new guy every night is your dream life, go ahead girl, nobody's stopping you; but don't try to drag me into it. An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 07:59 PM |
| 43 | Your reminder that polyamory is a complete scam for women. This woman is trying to convince herself that she’s okay with hearing her husband have sex with another woman.The worst part of this article is "No one is dead, divorced, or even seriously injured. I count that as a win". I wonder what counts as a loss to her. And I wonder if she realises how low she's setting the bar for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:33 PM |
| 66 | Scrote harasses a 21 year old girl and people in the comments are blaming HER for not “shutting him down”…First of all, she rejected his advances multiple times. She was just being civil. And all the people blaming her would've been equally outraged had she been rude or disrespectful. I've heard things like, "get off your high horse, you're not that pretty", "not everybody is a rapist" or " you're too aggressive" when women react strongly in such situations and then they create their own "crazy woke bitch" narrative. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Better save your 3-4 minutes and energy by b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 01:25 PM |
| 25 | Public fears porn inspiring sexual violence - new pollHmm, it's almost as if porn........ruins your psyche? Who'd have thought...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:25 PM |
| 102 | Going to therapy is not the solution to every relationship problem. It only works if the person going is willing to be honest about their situation and is open to change, which is why it doesn’t work with addicts.Men throw around the word therapy as if it's a cure all. I also doubt that his therapist would tell him to "take back the control and not let his girlfriend dictate his life" if he's in therapy for porn addiction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 03:12 PM |
| 108 | He cheated because he “liked me too much” 🥺🥺🥺🥺I’ve fucked our relationship and it wasn’t worth it” It basically means that he disappointed another woman, was kicked back to the curb and decided to dust himself off and crawl back to you. It would've been ~totally~ worth it had he been able to sink his dirty claws into another naive woman. “I guess things from my past have hurt me and I just self sabotaged” He didn't self sabotage though. He sabotaged his relationship with you, then started brewing a shit potion of self deprecation so that yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:14 PM |
| 30 | New reddit challenge: try to find a thread on dick size where women with a preference for larger dicks aren't downvoted/ignored and women with a specific preference for smaller penises aren't upvoted. And they think we're the ones coping......Not saying people can't prefer smaller but hmm....Aye sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:35 AM |
| 31 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?I do not date artists. They have a very sly and manipulative way of sugarcoating and romanticizing their disgusting tendencies. They also know how to appeal to your empathetic side(because Ofcourse, they love to talk about ~their~ feelings) and would 100% screw you over in worst ways. Also, do not overlook the "crazy genius syndrome" artists and creatives will use to justify their immature, abusive, man-child behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:31 PM |
| 129 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???He wants to run free, like a stallion, while his ex-wife's parents continue to fund his delusional deadbeat ass. I'm also very sure that he would paint his ex-wife as a controlling bitch who "won't let him see his own kid" in front of the women he targets in future. I snorted at the part where he "doesn't want to screw her over" but still wants financial benefits and property rights over something he never invested a penny into while also not giving a shit about his own child. The entitlement, t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:24 PM |
| 188 | Another horrible online dating story. A good example of why you don't have sex too soon before you have a chance to vet thoroughly.It is deceptive and low-key manipulative and idk why, but I feel that they do this to take her confidence "down a notch" so that she starts doubting herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:37 AM |
| 25 | Of course Bill Cosby supports R. Kelly and hopes for a successful appeal. Predators will stick together to insist they are being wronged when they’ve traumatized dozens or hundreds of women. Who’s surprised?Trash loves trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminders to block and delete your ex and live in peace 😌You're too kind, thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 04:10 AM |
| 56 | One of many reasons we are against BDSM.I like how his wife stood against him and publicly exposed his abusive tendencies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 26 | Friendly reminders to block and delete your ex and live in peace 😌Oh god, you're so right! The last text my ex sent me was, "have you deleted my number too? I guess I deserve it. But at least listen to me, I can explain. You've been a kind and understanding person, I can explain". I straight up ghosted his lying ass. But I realised that my forgiveness or apologising didn't matter to him. It was just another attempt to appeal to my ✨forgiving and compassionate✨ side to get another ego boost and companionship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 01:49 PM |
| 22 | What age range do you belong to?"ThEy ArE lYiNg UgLy AnD fAt BiTcHeS" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 08:25 AM |
| 88 | Quick unmatch after one early text. I’m finally learning to not waste time by trusting my gut."I'll lose interest", he says like anybody's desperate for his interest. I don't understand this low-key threatening tone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 04:54 AM |
| 184 | Libfems are dying to gain control in a world where they don't have itBeautifully written and so true! I'm tired of arguing with my libfem classmates, they love romanticizing the onlyfans culture and willfully choose to turn a blind eye towards the grim reality of sex work. A vast majority of these women are not doing this because it's so empowering, they're doing it because they're trapped and have no other choice. When all else fails, they try to tell me that sex crimes would drastically decline if sex work is legally recognised. How do you claim to be a feminis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:55 AM |
| 20 | Pet Peeve: When You Cut a Man Off and He Goes “Well We Can Still Talk”What a fucking cockroach This made me laugh so hard XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:37 AM |
| 22 | “wHaT dO yOu bRiNg tO tHe tAbLe?”I'm stealing this line and distributing it to all the pickmeishas in need XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 303 | Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama cultureLet's not forget how Zayn broke up with Perrie over text. She was also stuck in the endless loop of forever gf/fiance. Him cheating on Gigi was no secret. He's a low value man through and through. Oddly enough, I saw Gigi "clap back" at someone on Twitter because they said that Zayn doesn't follow Gigi back, and she said, "I don't need a follow back from him, I have my eyes tattooed on his chest". Your man is nothing to be proud of sis, he got a whole portrait done of Perrie when they were engag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:41 PM |
| 312 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑But you'd be surprised at the replies. This guy asked for advice and a pickmeisha straight up told him that "with the right person, there's no way you could possibly ruin things, no matter how shitty the date idea is" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Ladies and gentle..ladies, welcome to Tinder! There is literally one line in my profile text. Solely stating where I’m from.You'd be surprised, but yes. When these guys mass text the same cheesy lines, sometimes they end up doing that lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:10 AM |
| 163 | “Oh the breadcrumbs Look Gretel, there are a lot of sweets down this path but it will end in a fiery oven for you or you have to shove his ass in to save yourself.” 😭"oh no no, you didn't reject me, I REJECT YOU" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:53 PM |
| 65 | Why can’t they stop invading our spaces? This guy thinks he can waltz into a sub dedicated to women decorating their homes for advice. Mod thinks it’s fine despite complaints. He’s entitled to a “woman’s touch” I guess.If he's that clueless, there's a male subreddit FOR THE EXACT SAME ADVICE. Why not go there and ask for advice? Why couldn't he post there? There are men who give amazing home decor advice on that subreddit, if he genuinely wanted advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:29 PM |
| 121 | Just some scrotes and pickmes raging against FDS on another extremely misogynistic and sexist sub that still exists (hopefully they are next)!And it's funny how they want us to validate their relationship. If your relationship is so perfect, why do you want a seal of approval from a group of women who specifically dislike age gap relationships? All of that aside, I've never seen women hating other women here, pickme or not. Sympathy and exasperation at times, yes but never hate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:02 AM |
| 219 | Being in a good relationship has made me realize how women are being gaslit on a mass scale to ask for lessAnd don't forget the "guy leaves selfish, demanding, high maintenance woman because he's unhappy with her, and then enters the low maintenance chick who makes him laugh, doesn't ask for much, gives him the world and fixes him" trope that Hollywood tries so hard to push. The only question I have is, why is it so bad to be an all achieving career women? Is it because we remind men of their own inadequacy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMsAh, the "exceptionally smart" fairytale | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 36 | When did you realize he hated you?When he tried to reuse a dirty condom after he had thrown it on his dusty bed frame because he "hadn't ejaculated" in it. Later, he bit my privates under the guise of not knowing how to give oral and tried convincing me that I had had an orgasm, I just didn't know it. A different scrote ex was sleeping with his ex girlfriend while giving me the slow romance treatment. He'd lovebomb me for a few days and disappear for a few months. Then he'd come back and tell me how much he loved me and then go … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:38 AM |
| 156 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Nevermind sis, I took a dive into his post history and found a bunch of asktrp posts. Typical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 02:32 AM |
| 141 | In this thread: Hundreds of LVM and Pickmeishas squealing to the high heavens that an elite 23 y/o woman at a top tier university will NEVER find a high paying, traveling job post graduation, and should shut up and be a compliant wife and mother to boring old scrote who trapped her in her youth. 🥴🤮She already has a job that pays really well and seems to be living her dream life. The commenters haven't even considered the possibility that she might actually be an excellent student and great at what she does. Top tier universities don't give you admission for daydreaming and companies don't pay you for looking pretty. All of these people who think she's delusional just sound jealous. Keep coping. Apart from this, I know so many actuaries, lawyers and people from different backgrounds who ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 06:27 PM |
| 53 | Wait...what?Yeah, just casually taking a break from my wife and child and being the detestable, repulsive scum that I am...... I hope someone lets his wife and kid know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:43 PM |
| 39 | Sucking the labour of women for 40 years!!!!Exactly! There are so many articles for young students who are just learning to be independent. From financial advice to housing advice to simple, one pot meals; you can find anything on the internet! But he just wants others to feel bad for him and stroke his wounded ego in addition to doing all the research for him because he can't be bothered to make a Google search. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Could there be a more dumpster fire LVM tinder profile? I need to unpack with the FDS ladiesOh yeah, you're absolutely right. In my experience, the nicest Uber drivers are the ones who don't try to talk to you. Majority of the shitty drivers try to get information out of you and when you don't give them any, they get mad at you for being a bitch. This one driver in particular tried to ask me about my hometown and my life at home. This was during a particularly long ride and I had already learned my lesson by then, so I fabricated a whole new life. It's easier and safer to lie than to r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:55 PM |
| 332 | It bothers me how casually men joke about violence or rape.Another thing that bothers me are these "dark" jokes. These days men will just crack jokes about rape and abuse and if you don't laugh along, they'll backtrack and hit you with "Oh, I have a really dark sense of humour. I guess you are too upright and rigid because YOU couldn't understand my amazing joke about casually raping and murdering hookers." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:12 PM |
| 39 | Could there be a more dumpster fire LVM tinder profile? I need to unpack with the FDS ladiesWhat are we supposed to do with his Uber rating? Also, an open relationship unicorn lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 03:21 AM |
| 111 | Reminder: this is the bare minimum.Don't forget the "he's so nice, he always receives his mother's calls" and "he applies moisturiser and sunscreen, he's so good at personal care". Like, isn't that what responsible adults are supposed to do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:40 AM |
| 17 | Chris D’elia can’t even do some basic chores without acting like a prick (under the guise of ‘comedy’)I wonder how this woman tolerates him. How can anyone find this funny? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 575 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.When women earn more than men, they're expected to accommodate, adjust and settle for less. They're expected be happy with cheap gifts, walk dates and bad vacations because, "look at the thought behind it, he's so kind. If you don't accept it with a smile, he'll feel bad." And when men earn more than women, they're told that they can do better and have a trophy wife. This woman is breaking her back, so that nobody would think that she's in it for the money; she's trying so hard to feel included … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:05 AM |
| 363 | Rich AH mad that his GF is still poor after she took a second job.Imagine being so ignorant and shameless that your family notices your partner's discomfort before you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 04:00 AM |
| 18 | Japanese artist Jasushi Takahashi made the biggest GPS drawing by crossing 7162 km in order to propose to his girlfriend.LVM hate HVM, romantic novels and movies with a passion because they think that these men and protagonists are making it harder for everyone. That's why they call them simps and think it's just female pandering fantasy. The only other example I could think of was the class backbenchers who hate all the hard-working kids because they're raising the teacher's expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 11:43 AM |
| 19 | I really wish men could understand and accept that yes, your genetics do determine a lot of your value! Regardless of whether or not you can "control" it.If you don't respect the sanctity of women only spaces, then you are definitely a disgusting scrote who needs to be banned into oblivion. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:43 AM |
| 471 | Beware of Male PostersI honestly don't like how people from the manosphere just feel like it's alright to poke their nose in a place that's exclusively for women and try to push the narrative to make us seem like the devil. Why do they feel so threatened by us if we're all entitled and will die alone? Just let us be and think whatever you want to think. Why do they want to force their way into a place that specifically says NO MEN?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:35 AM |
| 17 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮The only emotions I have for dusty creeps are anger, fear and irritation lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 04:39 AM |
| 19 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.Boundaries are meaningless unless they are enforced. This is the best thing I've read today and this is true in every area of life; whether it's a community, your professional life, friendships, family or relationships. Not everybody will respect your boundaries and that's why it's so important for everyone to be firm about their boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:17 AM |
| 527 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮Reading such things makes me wish my vagina had fangs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:32 AM |
| 29 | Got a 🍤🤏 pic once due to my activity here, but today I woke up to my first hate-spewing PM.I've seen many people spreading hate and disgusting ideologies but not once have I felt the need to slide into their PMs and threaten/verbally abuse them (but surprisingly, it happens a lot to women, even when they're in their personal space, just chilling). The worst part is, this sub is not a threat to anyone. We're not talking about inciting violence towards the men who won't date us, we're simply talking about not sleeping with low value men willy nilly and not wasting your time on LVM. So t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:50 AM |
| 375 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADWhy do all these tiktok trends feel like they'd attract pedophiles? I remember the silhouette challenge, the big booty-small waist something trend and the latest challenge that makes me wanna cry is the bugs bunny challenge. Why are literal children being coerced into objectifying themselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:19 AM |
| 78 | Kind of Peeved After “Build A Man”The idea of aiming for someone who's not equal to me in terms of income, education, family values, core values physical attributes and behaviour kinda makes me uncomfortable, so my ideal list only lists down the things I have or have achieved. My ideal guy list looks like this for now- Someone I can share a good emotional bond with 6' or taller (I'm a tall girl so it makes sense to me) College graduate with a good GPA and must have aspirations to study further A nice smile and good hair Should g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 05:57 PM |
| 472 | Men lack selfawarenessThis humbling thing really irks me. Some men will really go out of their way to make their partners feel like shit for no reason. Relationships are supposed to be about hyping each other up. He's just making sure that she starts feeling like she actually deserves his ugly, insufferable, negging self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 10 | UPDATE: I got a job! (From: "I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit")Congratulations! We're all rooting for you, it's heartwarming to see you grow and work towards the life you've always wanted. It'll take time, but it'll be totally worth it. So proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:29 AM |
| 60 | Can we please all do this to men who harass us 😂Laughing my ass off at this! Imagine having such a restrictive idea of masculinity that you don't even consider yourself a man if you aren't a certain height or build. Men hate women because they're insecure and hate themselves (and no, it's not our job to fix it, go and get your own friends and therapists and learn how to behave in a society). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:39 AM |
| 20 | Sometimes it just makes me want to cry.Online dating is a cesspool of LVM and pickmes. Majority of HVM and HVW prefer to date someone they already know and get along with, and they'll always get to know the person first. There is more accountability and better chances of a pleasant dating experience when you date someone from your social circles. OLD lacks that accountability and the person won't think twice before acting like a jackass because you're not a part of their real life and they can show you a completely shitty side of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:30 AM |
| 4 | Matt LeBlancHe really did, he looks like a happy grandpa who's living it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 03:58 PM |
| 176 | I'm so LuCkY ! My bf didn't leave me after I had his child ! The bar is in hell ! I feel sry for these young women .. ! Father leaving kids and mother is so common that she feels lucky ! ✋🙂Well, she thinks it's some accomplishment but isn't it the bare minimum? The advice she was receiving is actually true. In majority of such cases, the father either leaves or ends up resenting the mother and child. Glad it didn't happen in her case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:26 PM |
| 299 | Another day, another scrote abandoning his pregnant gf...I love how everybody abandoned OP's brother. I also love how OP stepped up and helped the ex girlfriend, that was heartwarming to read. Every lying, cheating man deserves this fate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 06:18 PM |
| 8 | It's the edit for me ~~~Some people make up weird nicknames or initials for their partners, so watch out for that as well. I remember this one instance where this woman's husband and his friends would call her ST, the husband convinced her that it means sexy titties. She later found out that her husband told his friends about her saggy breasts after childbirth and they were all calling her sock tits or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:57 PM |
| 11 | It's the edit for me ~~~I've learned this the hard way. Anybody's parents/friends/relatives are not gonna hate you for no reason, especially if you haven't done anything except testing them nicely. If a friend's/boyfriend's family and friends dislike you, it's almost always because they've been talking shit about you in order to look good in front of their families. Pickmes and LVM are two sides of the same coin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:53 PM |
| 8 | It's the edit for me ~~~I feel you sis, the worst thing I ever received from my ex was a pendant that clearly looked used and very childish, he hadn't even bothered to pack it nicely. He told me that it took a lot of effort in getting it I later found out that he stole it from his 7 year old niece!!! My parents always told me that if someone gives you a present, you accept it graciously and thank them, no matter how shitty it is. They were just teaching me good mannerisms and I really love them for all they've done for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 25 | It's the edit for me ~~~"The only reason I haven't dumped her is because she makes $30K more than I do." "Why is she linking my money and spending habits with herself?" Dude, she's a woman who makes good money, she is used to buying nice things for herself. And even though gifts should be accepted graciously, it's not odd to expect that your life partner will give you nice things, especially jewelry. I agree with her; if I have extremely pretty and nice things in my wardrobe, I wouldn't add a subpar thing to it just be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:42 AM |
| 261 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Lmao, he's the living embodiment of, "oh you're rejecting me? You're an ugly bitch and a whale and a gold digger, I didn't want you anyway, no, NO, I'M REJECTING YOU". Bro, nobody cares. We feel safer knowing that you don't want us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:17 PM |
| 92 | Because disappointing one woman at a time is not enough...It's just the porn sickness which makes them think that these women would be worshipping and fighting for their penis. It can also be related to their girl on girl fetishes, I've known a lot of college guys who think it's the hottest thing ever because they get some twisted voyeur gratification out of it. Majority of them can't please one woman, but they'll demand a threesome because it gives them the opportunity to cheat without calling it cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 6 | When people ask me "why are you so suspicious?" this is why...Get a Swiss knife and use it as a keychain. It's important for women to carry around safety equipments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:41 AM |
| 249 | Did you hear about John Mulaney's divorce? I'm shocked.I want to feel sorry about his addiction, but I just read that his wife was in rehab last year, struggling with depression and ED after he cheated on her multiple times. This is some Khloe-Lamar shit all over again. For LVM, these women are just collateral damage on their path to "self discovery". Years from now, they'll spew bullshit about how they rediscovered themselves, became these amazing people who can do no wrong now that they've seen rock bottom (while partying, doing drugs and cheating… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:23 AM |
| 114 | FDS principles lands on a political news channel. A few FDS’ers in the comments defending this woman for setting standards. So many complaining dinner is expensive and she’s a gold digger for the bare minimum.I laughed when she said that there are plenty of things to be paranoid about and not every man is trying to get you drunk. Like sis, have you seen crimes and violence against women? Miss me with that bullshit, I have every right to be paranoid about my safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:14 PM |
| 9 | And we‘re the toxic people...😒Same here sis, I get ugly dick pics and rape threats on a regular. It really startled me at first but now I just block and report and don't even bother. But it's really funny how they think that we're toxic and hate men, yet won't stop harassing and threatening us. Sure dude, at least I'm not flashing others online. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:40 AM |
| 79 | Meme I found posted on a Facebook page. The joke flew over a bunch of men's heads, and a lot were commenting dumbass stuff like the guy in the second slide [translation in comments]especially Slavic and Nordic women Are they really that delusional? Slavic and Nordic women are feminists and they won't deal with this NV bullshit. No Slavic or Nordic woman wants you, go back to whatever sewer hole you came from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I love this piece of advice, thank you so much! This is a very practical option and doesn't force me to push my limits too much. One step at a time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 6 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I've had a bad therapist in the past, he'd provide direct conclusions and verdicts without listening to me. Luckily, my current therapist is an amazing women and has helped me a lot with my self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:12 PM |
| 7 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?You can wear all of that right now! I watch a lot of youtubers like Cathy Hay, Shirinatra and Bernadette Banner and feminine things look good on everyone. It's never too late to start experimenting! I'm sorry that you had to go through all that during your formative years, that must've been heartbreaking. Male gaze and unwanted male attention ruin everything for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 3 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I'm not in the exact same place, but the culture is pretty similar. The place I currently live in is kinda like NYC; fast paced, very crowded and heavily reliant on public transport. And groping in crowds is very common, so safety shorts etc become the norm for women to avoid being groped. Hopefully, my big change will come once I graduate from college and gain more financial stability and become more self sufficient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 22 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I love the idea of dressing up at home, my therapist suggested similar things. I got into skincare and natural makeup a while ago and while it still feels a little uncomfortable, I finally feel like myself again. The process is slow, but I won't give up. Congrats on your growth with yourself, I hope that I'll start embracing myself just like you, thank you for your kind words! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:45 AM |
| 82 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?Idk why men have this lolita/child molestation rape-y ideas in their head. A lot of young girls suffer because of this mentality and men get away scot free. About the dressing part, thank you! I'll check her channel out, I love vintage/hand sewing youtubers so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:39 AM |
| 85 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I do, and she's been a big help. It's slow progress, but things are getting better. Thank you for the advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:35 AM |
| 40 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?Thank you for your kind words, I want to try MMA and boxing and I've been trying to find a suitable instructor. I'm really hopeful and think that it'll help with the anxiety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 11:33 AM |
| 77 | Men are ruining this for themselves. They are the ones making compliments seems something they are not. Whenever I am outside I made point to compliment other women I see. But I'm not going to put myself in danger by complimenting men. They see it as an "invitation" Men don't compliment other menYou can tell that he really doesn't give a shit about saying a "bunch of nice things" to people. He can easily go out and compliment a guy on anything, there are a million things to say that won't creep anyone out. Men literally treat their own friends like shit and call it banter and have no concept of healthy friendships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:10 AM |
| 38 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂All I'm doing here is trying to protect myself from abusive, manipulative deadbeats; I don't really see how that's a problem. If taking things slow, vetting your partner and caring about my well being makes me a b****, then so be it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 204 | A Woman's TouchMen go 50-50 on everything, then act surprised when she takes her 50% back after breakup XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 07:06 AM |
| 53 | My MIL is Leaving my FIL After 30+ YearsYou usually don't see this level of financial awareness in older women, so glad that she cares about her career. I hope she thrives and lives her best life! That being said, why is a man in his 60s watching porn? That's so unsettling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:42 AM |
| 120 | Things men don’t want you to know...It took me a long time to understand this. I'd always explain and tell LVM how they're hurting me, in excruciating detail, because I thought I wasn't communicating well enough. And they'd do it again and again, worse than before. Simply cutting them off is much easier and saves you a lot of time, energy, money and heartbreak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 95 | Liberal feminism won’t change anything – it only validates the way men behave nowI remember the time when men used to mock feminists and were like,"I wouldn't want to identify as a feminist, I'm an equalist" (whatever that means) because it didn't serve them in any way and they didn't care about our issues. Fast forward to today; libfems are pandering to men, bending over backwards and trying to prove that their feminism is the best because "we speak up for everybody" and now all of a sudden, every man is an ally because they've learned to be "sex positive", "kink positive" … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:34 PM |
| 151 | Oh, that was a little much for your personality? Is that an acceptable response when you can't back up your own post after getting called on the BS? 🤡So men are taught to abuse, manipulate, rape and gaslight us? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 03:30 AM |
| 55 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to LieLmao at least he was insecure. My LVX with a micropenis(no, I'm not exaggerating) and erectile dysfunction was so confident that he wanted me to scream-moan and tell him how big it was. His unnecessary overconfidence was so fucked up that I didn't know what to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:32 PM |
| 42 | wow.So he knows that he is a little b*tch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 55 | I don't even know what to say.I hope the girl finds out about this, sues tf out of him and leaves this disgusting man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:04 PM |
| 56 | LVM Use Their Depression as a Guilt-tripThey absolutely do. And they'll do this while telling you that they've never shared anything with anyone but something's JuSt sO DiFfErEnT aBoUt yOu. They'll constantly try to insinuate that their red flag behaviour is because you have the therapist face/comforting presence (another technique to use our kindness against us). If a man feels like you're their safe space within hours of talking to you, they aren't and can never be your safe space. Run as fast as you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:16 AM |
| 96 | If you’re broke, just say thathow far up your own ass do you have to be to think a picture of yourself is a great gift He's in the same league as my friend's ex who gave her CONDOMS as a Christmas gift. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:54 PM |
| 125 | Just a reminder, LV/NV men only see you as an extension of themselvesthe "dog phase" is bull as men never emotionally mature Even when they think they've matured enough to settle down, they don't feel any shame in how horrible they were during that "dog phase". They bask in it, glorify it and wear it like a badge with "back in the days, me and my boys" stories which always revolve around them being an inconvenience to the society. For the lurking scrotes who'll use this for "FDS is so insensitive, they don't believe in growth" whining; we do believe in growth, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:11 PM |
| 157 | This one is truer!!!!" Join us and pick us because we're actually men's rights activists." Libfems are breaking their backs trying to win male approval, it's becoming embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 20 | FDS PODCAST FIRST 30 DAYS RESULTS: we literally DOUBLED our goal of hitting 15k downloads in the first month. 🥳🎊🥂 Such a strong start, and a sign of a promising future! Special thanks to all you ladies who listened and shared!!! 💗💜💗💜💗💜💗💜FDS podcast got me through long hours of lab work; it's witty, informative and engaging. Reaux's "Die mad" outro gets me every time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:57 AM |
| 43 | BARE MINIMUM MALE HYGIENETrimming your nose hair and keeping it clean. [1 pt] I don't wanna see boogers and nose hair peeking out when I look at you, I've seen guys whose nose hair are so long that everything will start merging with their moustache. That shit's nasty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 07:53 AM |
| 9 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.That's why I'm never kind to old men now. I was taught to help them and be nice to them. When I was 15, I helped an old man with his luggage on a bus and he groped me under the pretence of stumbling. The naive 15 year old me couldn't even comprehend what had happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 3 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.I'm sorry it happened to you. And you're right, these "regular" things leave a major impact on you. It has stuck with me, I can't stop thinking about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:56 AM |
| 3 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.I don't understand this. I've had two dogs in the past (god bless their beautiful souls) and they perfectly understood the concept of respecting people's privacy. They never sniffed anyone when we'd go out on walks and maintained a distance from strangers, then how tf do these men act worse than dogs?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:54 AM |
| 3 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.The scrotacity is off the charts... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 4 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.giving them the benefit of the doubt is generally a bad idea You're absolutely right, I don't want to give anyone the benefit of the doubt from now on. I don't care how irrational people think I am, but I'm not compromising with my safety anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:50 AM |
| 7 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.i always take my dogs with me because of this as well No, you're absolutely right. I actually want one or two big dogs because of this reason (well, mostly because I want to shower all my love on a cutie, but safety is another big reason). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:48 AM |
| 7 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.I always try to dress in extremely baggy clothes so that my "female" form isn't visible, and people still won't leave me alone. Just imagine a less fashionable Billie Eilish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:45 AM |
| 18 | A gross grandpa followed me while I was taking a stroll and I've never felt more disgusted.Girl, I've never felt so unsafe in broad daylight. And I hate that guys always try to downplay it. "I've never seen that happen, wow. It's crazy, I'd personally never do that" was the response I got from a classmate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:43 AM |
| 9 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨Thank you for sharing! This is exactly what my dating life looks like and it's so sad to see that a lot of intelligent, ambitious and amazing women start dating men who suck out their life force like vampires. Not anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 9 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨Should we start calling them "ass garbage"?😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 10 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨I haven't sworn off dating and romance, but I'm not seeking it either because I've realised that I'm not ready for another heartbreak. I always say to my girlfriends that I'm only dating to marry, and if someone doesn't offer that sort of commitment, I don't want them. If you take my age in account, then it doesn't make any sense for me to date rn (I'm 22 and in college). Guys my age are not mentally and financially stable and they don't seek stable relationships either, so I don't wanna "experi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 71 | Let’s stop perpetuating the lie that men don’t have hormones and women are irrational. *** It was posted on a mom group (women’s only group🤨🙄)I've never seen a woman project her mood swings on people around her. Women usually become really quiet when they're sad. Men, on the other hand....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:26 PM |
| 113 | Why sex positivity always harms women and why I'll never accept it.I'll happily remain alone if it keeps me away from this race to the bottom This. I don't care if I have to stay alone, I just can't support and love a man who gets off on exploitation, abuse and trafficking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 253 | "He Might Not Be A Good Partner To You, Doesn't Make Him A Bad Person"What makes a person a good person? Their principles, values, morals, relationships and how they treat other people are the parameters through which we judge whether said person is good or bad. If they're treating a partner like shit, they're a bad person. Period. A person cannot be an angel to everyone but shitty to the one person they're closest to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 110 | % of prisoners that are women! Just wondered how the logical sex would explain this as I hear that male violence is NOT a legitimate threatYou would hear, "that's because the law favours women" or "men get thrown in jail over the slightest thing, while women get away with anything because they have it much easier" They'll say anything to justify their stupid beliefs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:13 AM |
| 25 | Imagine being ashamed of absolutely killing it in your career because of one man 💀Who asks their employer to reduce their salary, are they crazy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 6 | Woman makes a whole presentation to convince a guy to promote her to girlfriend..and this is how low he thinks of her. I'm in utter disbelief.Wtf is a plate? I died a little while reading that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 06:12 AM |
| 68 | Place Your Bets! Dominique's statement soonStop giving her any attention. The mods clarified their stance on the article and that's enough. It was a poorly written article but we appear butthurt if we constantly keep talking about her. This isn't the first article written against us. Let's talk about better things and grow together! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:58 PM |
| 1128 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.I feel weird because despite her extremely bad condition, he still managed to slide in the lack of sex, him having to work harder because he can no longer leech off of his wife and his own impatience with therapy because it's so slowwwwww. At the end of the day, it's still all about him. He wouldn't have cared at all if she would've carried on with her job and child rearing. He doesn't care about her depression or her traumatic childbirth. He cares about the fact that his wife is no longer servi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 77 | From /AskReddit about which subs give useless or even dangerous advice. Lol.You're absolutely right. I came here to feel proud of my pick me self that existed solely to please the men around me after a disgusting hookup with erectile dysfunction (in his early 20s!!!!) whined about it. Within a few hours, I dropped every single piece of shit I was associated to. Those scrotes are actually giving us free publicity and making sure that the women who need us end up finding us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 107 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!She's 100% TA. I would never ignore my girl friends' advice when it comes to dating because they always pick up on little things that you can't see because you're so blind in love. Surround yourself with good friends and always trust their advice. If they're telling you that your man should treat you better, then they're absolutely right. Wait till she gets an infection from his cheapass ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:28 AM |
| 9 | This is what dating a scrote looks like. Pass."Sex workers are liberated. Honest and excellent record of human experience." Why don't you try to pimp yourself out for that Jedi mind experience, boy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 18 | People respond poorly to Gigi Engle’s newest Pro-Kink article on Instagram, and rather than self reflect, she comes for Redditors. Gets told about herself by some infamous Redditors. 💅Why would ANY sane woman write such an article for Teen Vogue, knowing fully well that their target consumers are young girls?? Why TF are we trying to groom little girls into liking bondage and anal?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:15 AM |
| 153 | Scrote wants something casual but wants to choke you and exploit your trauma. 🙄 The repulsiveness and audacity is off the charts.He's specifically looking for a broken, traumatized woman so that he can add to the trauma. Gosh, he's disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:15 PM |
| 34 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino"."Women cannot anticipate their reaction to something they haven't had yet." All I see is a rapist in making. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 82 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?He wanted me to come to his office on valentine's day and spend the night there binge watching movies because it was "empty". Another guy took me on a walk date (I know, I know) and spent the entire hour convincing me that casual relationships/ friends with benefits/ hookups are better than relationships and that I should try it. Even in my pick me days, I had the brains to tell him that he's uninteresting and annoying and I left right there and then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 35 | Guys can't grasp the concept of shorts under a skirt and use it as an excuse to be degrading and gross to pro athletes. Giuliani is revolting and doesn't deserve to even be near MichelleSafety shorts are a big thing in Asian society because of this exact reason. Be it the K pop girl groups or your average school going teen, safety shorts are a part of the attire because of disgusting perverts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 193 | Why are they so lazy??I snort-laughed when he said that sending the first message is exhausting. Makes me wonder how he gets anything done if simply sending a message is exhausting for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:04 AM |
| 16 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I read your comment and it seems as though you were being polite and giving him logical reasons, which he obviously doesn't understand. I understand that you can't be mean to him because of safety reasons. Keep yourself safe and be direct and firm about your boundaries. Nobody can ask you to dress up and go out with him if you don't want to, no matter how depressed they are and no matter how it'll make them feel. You can simply tell this guy that you've never agreed to anything like that. Be cle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:38 PM |
| 13 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.Block, delete and move on. He can read about depression all he wants, not your problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:26 PM |
| 42 | MEN ALWAYS KNOW, ALWAYS!He's telling on himself. In addition to that, every dude that starts his sentences with "no scam" is definitely a scamster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:43 PM |
| 39 | Coming out as a former Cool GirlI was the cool girl and it drove me crazy. Now I'm slowly gaining confidence in my femininity, enjoying all of the things I claimed to hate. As a result, my friendships have become stronger, my life has become more disciplined and I enjoy every moment of it. One thing that I never understood was, " if you're the cool girl, act like a dude and mock everything the girls do." What's wrong with enjoying girly things? I hurt myself in the process of becoming the cool girl, and now I feel sorry for th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:57 AM |
| 10 | When you have kids with a manchild, you are literally taking away resources from your children. It is child abuse to have kids with a man if you know he is immature, lazy, selfish, needy, and/or insecure.I'm scared to have children now because I've seen the horrors of growing up in a home where the woman puts in all the effort. It fucks up the children and affects their quality of life. I love the idea of having children, but the thought of a NVM trapping me into it scares me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:53 AM |
| 2 | hOw dO i NoT eMbArRaSs mY HuSbAnD aBoUt hiS bUtT CrUmBsUgh, yes! I think it's because of their poor diets and lack of hygiene combined. I even met this one guy who made fun of me for eating a fruit salad. He told me that girls don't eat "real" food and how I'm such a cliche while sloppily eating chicken with his bare hands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 75 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?That they're not unaware, they KNOW they're hurting you and they keep doing it because they know that you won't leave if they cry "mentul-helthh" and unawareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:35 AM |
| 38 | hOw dO i NoT eMbArRaSs mY HuSbAnD aBoUt hiS bUtT CrUmBsOh god, he's gross! How tf does this woman tolerate it, I can't even tolerate men who don't shower regularly and smell like dudes (hope this makes sense, it's a very distinct and gross odour) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 62 | Reminder: no racism, homophobia, or transphobia. Report any rule-breaking content for moderator review.Thank you so much for talking about this! You guys are amazing mods and this community has grown into a beautiful pillar of strength for many women like myself. I'm glad you guys made a statement about this because sadly, the first thing I heard about FDS was that it was transphobic and homophobic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:41 PM |
| 9 | Oh... oh god... oh god it gets worse... oh it gets even worse...I was in tears when she started describing how much she loved him and wanted to salvage the situation. He's double her age and has already lived his life. Now he's just living as an energy vampire; draining away this woman's life force, happiness and ambitions. He's trying his best to make sure that she never sees the world that's out there and gains exposure because then she'll realise that she deserves better. I hope she realises that she has a whole life ahead of her and she can do better. Sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:35 PM |
| 3 | The audacity is off the chartsDamn, y'all found my ex boyfriend XD. He'd say even crazier shit with a very nonchalant attitude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:03 PM |
| 87 | Hilarious and true!!!If someone does this to me, I'll simply say, "I thought you had a nice date idea in mind when you decided to ask me out" and say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 11:03 AM |
| 63 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂r/FDSsuperfans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:55 AM |
| 3 | I had a gut feeling about this one... glad to find out sooner than later!Unpopular opinion here but men in any creative field like art and design are extra trash, generally speaking. They'll find new ways to fuck you over and will do it with their sensitive tortured artist complex in a way that you won't even be able to complain. The artsy softboy is someone who has never gotten over their angsty teenage phase and they'll eventually project all of their negative emotions on you and won't give a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 08:11 PM |
| 42 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬What the actual fuck? I think we need a category other than LVM and NVM for this fresh piece of hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:18 PM |
| 105 | She’s sixteen...So, dealing with your traumas by indulging in unhealthy sexual practices is a healthy coping mechanism? Then dealing with your failures through alcohol and drugs must also be healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:20 AM |
| 102 | You ever feel disgusted at the absolute scum you allowed to touch your body?Oh God, yes! If I could wipe my memory clean, I would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:45 AM |
| 93 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.From my experience, a lot of people nowadays use suicide and mental health issues as a means of control. What I've learned from my experience is that if someone is constantly making threats but does nothing to resolve their issues, doesn't get help or talk to someone about their issues and only brings it up as a means of escape when they're in a tough spot; then they're toxic AF and they're doing it just to establish control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:49 AM |
| 245 | Sister finds child porn on brother’s computer. REDDIT: bUt WhY WeRe yOu SnOOPinG ThOugh?Reddit: Doesn't matter if he was planning on being a rapist. It's your fault that you found out before it could happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 40 | Professional goldsmith makes a Mother's Ring for his wife and mother of their 3 children. I cried watching this video because the way he talks about his wife is so beautiful! Knowing that there are high value men like this out there, makes me not want to settle for love that is anything less.I absolutely loved it! He even selected the stones based on the kids' birth months and engraved their names on the inside. It was so cute that I cried. His love for his family is evident. And mother's ring should totally be a thing!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 22 | Pick Meisha mad that a man who wasn’t even willing to commit “cheated” on her after she bought him Husband level Christmas gifts. Thoughts?"Exclusively talking" isn't a thing babygirl, you played yourself. I've seen a lot of guys saying,"let's be exclusive" and I've always wondered what the hell that's supposed to be. The last time I accepted the exclusive offer, turned out the guy was asking others girls for hookups, that too left and right because he legit had like, 100 matches in my school. I think guys do this exclusive shit because it doesn't hold them accountable if they cheat. If he cheats on you while you're exclusive and y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 08:02 AM |
| 31 | When you’re such a pickme you cook for his female roommates and question how to resolve thisWhy do I feel that the women he's living with aren't just his roommates? Poor girl is being taken advantage of, yet she doesn't realise it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | The bar is in hell.She has left her pick me days behind and is a fellow FDS sister now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:36 AM |
| 42 | If he doesn't prioritize you, he's worthless, booOh damn, reminds me of my ex asking me for money so that he could buy cigarette packets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:18 PM |
| 15 | Where do you even start? Grotesque and laughableDorks don't wanna claim him either. Maybe he belongs with manipulative rapey liars? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:14 PM |
| 43 | The bar is in hell.Consensual non-consent?? TF does that even mean?? I'll just go do my job non-job and think non-think about it. On a serious note, why don't they do something that doesn't require the woman to not struggle, cry and feel violated? I had a friend who did it because her boyfriend asked her to and she was curious. Apparently, he got too "carried away" and she started crying hysterically. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:08 PM |
| 8 | What in the living f*ck is this thread? 17yo gets slapped in the face during sex and "it sounds like he's a good guy"?!As someone who'd claim that she was into BDSM (what a naive fool I was), I can safely say that no man would hit a woman this hard if he has even a shred of love and respect for her. Clearly, her boyfriend just wanted to hit her. I've asked for it in the past and none of my boyfriends would do it because they said that it was disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:20 AM |
| 49 | Wife Accidentally Burned By Scrote Husband Claims He Split Because He Couldn't DealThe fact that he just said, "I don't know what I'd be apologising for" makes me so fucking mad. And honestly, who TF puts gasoline in a fire and sits all pretty, thinking that it'll all work out for the best?? God save the women who marry such idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:03 AM |
| 60 | Dating fails from my vault of storiesThe best part of this story is that you got your money back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:29 AM |
| 237 | LVM will always use their "KiNkS" and BDSM to abuse youHer boyfriend basically used BDSM as a method to physically assault her for doing online sex work. This is proof that no matter how "open minded" men claim to be, they'll never respect you if you're a part of this industry. And that's why I'm anti sex work. It's never "liberating and empowering" like lib-fem women claim it is (and big names like Mia khalifa are like a grain of sand in desert), it dehumanises women and gives men a free pass to abuse them and strip them of their basic rights and p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:13 AM |
| 29 | NVM thinks that girlfriend's PTSD is "selfish".He sounds like an inconsiderate jerk. Good riddance! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:57 AM |
| 42 | Have any of you ever left a serious relationship because the man lacked ambition?This is a huge red flag. If he's thinking of not putting in effort now, it's bound to get worse with time. I'd also like to remind you that raising babies is way more work than trying to get better at your job and learning new things. If he's not putting in effort for something that completely benefits him and his career, what makes you think that he'll put in effort for kids? When you start out-earning him and he has to take care of the kids, he'll end up resenting you and it'll definitely take… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 12 | I invite you to watch Room 2806 on NetflixHe is supposedly a progressist, not a right wing lunatic. It shows that political views mean nothing when it comes to respect for women. I realised this a long time ago. Having left wing or right wing ideology does not say anything about how these men will treat the women around them. Right wing men will be "traditionally" shitty and left wing men will drain you of your energy, your money, your resources and will come up with new, more innovative, more progressive, creative ways to destroy you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 710 | Thoughts?The kind of men who get rejected never really discuss marriage or what their woman expects out of their relationship and then act hurt when the women actually expresses her opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:17 PM |
| 14 | Vegan vs. Non-vegan menI dated a HVM who was a vegan (I'm a vegetarian). Surprisingly, he was none of these people and dating him was a breeze. There are nice vegan men out there. While he'd get upset when I'd eat dairy, he wasn't ever condescending about it. In fact, I gained a new sense of respect for veganism and learned a lot about it because we'd have long discussions about it all the time. One thing I hate about vegan men is their "holier than thou"attitude where they constantly make snide remarks about your lif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:23 AM |
| 33 | A warning about Reddit Secret Santa ExchangeI've never participated in reddit secret Santa, but this reminds me of those global book exchanges where everybody gets scammed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:37 PM |
| 81 | Why do women advocate this?These are the women who take pride in being the side chick because,"He LoVeS mE eNoUgH tO kEeP mE oN tHe SiDe". These women are burning in their own personal pickmeisha hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | NVM destroyed meI'm so proud of you for recognising the abuse Queen!! Get all your things in order and leave him and it's okay if it takes a while. Meanwhile, take care of your physical and mental well being and don't take any shit from him. It's okay if you feel lost, you've been through a lot. The important thing is that now you've realised what damage he's done and you need to prioritise yourself from now on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Great FDS Dating Advice to share with your non-FDS friendsI absolutely love Alexandra!!! She has such amazing content on lifestyle, fashion and self care. Her feminine essence videos are gold and I suggest her channel to all FDS ladies. I have a feeling that she's secretly an FDS woman lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:18 PM |
| 7 | He says it’s a sign of disrespect towards him to not have lost the baby weight already- after giving birth to their 7th child. The audacity!I lost all my brain cells at 7th child. 7 kids in this economy?? Even if you're earning well, raising a frickin sports team is too much. Also, She's 175 lbs at 5'9", that isn't even overweight, like wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:02 PM |
| 30 | “I hate gold diggers! Women who take advantage of men! EQuALity” things LVM sayBelow average men with no money and no redeeming qualities whatsoever ALWAYS seem to think that every girl is after their money. They justify their low effort cheap behaviour with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:34 AM |
| 26 | “I hate gold diggers! Women who take advantage of men! EQuALity” things LVM sayLmao you need gold to attract gold diggers. It's just coal mining at best, Kevin! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 06:31 AM |
| 80 | Older me would've defended myself. Now I know what makes me a HVW and I don't need to justify it to anyone. Block. Delete. Move on.Lately, I've been receiving a lot of weird messages from men whose post history is full of FDS hating shit and I know that having a conversation with them will ultimately make me another screenshot in a woman hating sub, so I'm not even entertaining that shit now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:46 PM |
| 26 | LVM, LVM everywhere -_-u/burpleseaurchin suggested this beautiful manhwa yesterday, it's called 'beware of the villainess'. It's about a girl who is reincarnated in a romance novel as the vamp, the person everybody hated and originally, she ends up humiliated, publicly shamed and stripped of her pride. But she decides to change everything as she reincarnates and realises that the male protagonists were all pieces of shit who drove the vamp crazy and wronged her and that's how she came to be the villain of the story. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 39 | Low Value Men on TinderThey're looking for a literal stranger to buy them PS5 and worrying about the non existent money she would steal from them? Buy your own PS5, you broke turd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:40 AM |
| 65 | Man prefers playing videogames over taking care of wife (f60) with cancerHe's disgusting and I'm guessing that he's already praying for her to die so that he doesn't have to get up and do anything. Men don't care if someone is literally on the verge of dying, if their needs are not being fulfilled, they'll act like it's the end of the world. Reminds me of the lady who had undergone some major surgery, and her husband would have sex (!?) with her stoma because he just gOt So HoRnY. Later, it got infected horribly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:35 AM |
| 5 | The way he talks about fictional women will be the way he talks about youI started reading and I'm hooked. I absolutely love how the plot provides a backstory for the "irrational, crazy, scheming" vamp and shows how all the men in her life have wronged her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:01 PM |
| 129 | I think I found the queen of pickmesThis is 100% a man who's trying to justify his cheating and trying to seek validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 04:19 AM |
| 13 | Latest narrative from Pickmeville 🤡Can't wait to see mental breakdown memes and trust issues rant along with the whole espresso-depresso outlook from her in near future :))) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 126 | Can We All Say Bravo To This QueenWhy didn't he ask his own parents to loan him money? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:17 PM |
| 9 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would!!Thank you, that's very sweet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:02 PM |
| 111 | Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would!!Well, I recently had COVID and my sense of smell and taste were completely gone so it didn't really matter what I was eating. But I agree that it's still a bad meal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:08 AM |
| 4 | "Mosuo women living in matrilineal societies tend to have far fewer markers of chronic disease – including lower blood pressure and signs of inflammation"I was always the kid who took initiative in school and would volunteer to take up leadership opportunities and: Some boys in my class would make spit paper balls and throw them at me sneakily because I would answer all of the questions. No one did anything about it. (5th grade) They tried to spread a rumour that I was having an affair with a 40 year old teacher, when I was 10 YEARS OLD, just because he would praise me for being confident. When I would win championships for school, my classmates … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 08:20 PM |
| 4 | this is... embarrassingMight as well pack some diapers and tissues in case he makes a boo-boo at work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 07:58 PM |
| 34 | Men KNOW they aren’t treating you well and are bottom of the barrel LV but will PRAISE you for sticking with them through their BS — a LVM will calculate your worth over how much shit he can put you through and still have you stick by him 🤮So he's made it his life mission to break her because she's "so strong mentally and emotionally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 06:46 AM |
| 48 | Girls please never chase men! As if the post isn't embarassing enough, a guy commented just to make fun of her...I'm imagining he's a "nice guy". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:05 AM |
| 34 | The child actor in the pictures is 12 year old now, she was around 7-8 when the movie was released. But look at the thousands of men "excited" At her being a beautiful pre-teen because she's a female..... There are a lot more pedophiles than we can guess. Gross gross gross.I'll puke, this is so disgusting. She's still a child! Male depravity knows no bounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:54 PM |
| 64 | Meeting my needs is an obligation? Okay, bye!Being a pick me never works for anyone and your ex sounds like a real piece of shit. I'm glad you're out of that situation now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 22 | How SONS are treated VS How DAUGHTERS are treated. "Ready" = well in their 30s probablyThe amount of times I've served food for my brother because "I can't do it, I'll spill it everywhere" makes me so mad. If he's given a teeny tiny chore, he'll elaborate it and make it 10x harder for himself and will then proceed to ask for help. The one odd day he decides to cook, he'll turn everyone into his sous chef and will be extremely snappy with them because he wants everything to be "perfect". I love him but hate how he's been babied and is now incapable of being self sufficient. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:10 PM |
| 20 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!I swear I'll scream if one more white dude tells me that I'm "exotic" lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:02 PM |
| 70 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!My mother had some complications when she gave birth so she was bed ridden for 2 months and they couldn't afford a nurse so my father would take care of her, clean her bedpans, cook strictly according to her nutrition chart in addition to his full time job. He has never told me anything about it, I found out through my aunts and my mother. And when I meet and read about these men who think paying for a dinner date is too much effort or that they don't feel attracted to their girlfriends after se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 82 | She flew across the world to go on a date with him and he broke up with her when things got tough. They are married now, so happy ending, I guess!I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Brown men are a whole different species of trash. The moment you enter a relationship with them, they'll start expecting wifey shit and will commit to nothing because FaMiLy VaLuEs. They'll treat your belongings, your money, your space, your resources like it's theirs and will get offended when you tell them that you need space. They'll talk marriage and give you false hope and string you along when they clearly know that their family won't even let th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Day in the life of dating a D1 football player - OH MY GODI absolutely love how her whole identity is "dating a D1 football player"!!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:14 AM |
| 2 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itI hope his future gf sees it. This is a great motivation to remain childless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:08 PM |
| 37 | I'm having some flashbacks...There is a third kind of asshole who says, "yes honey, I understand that it was hurtful. I'm sorry, let it all out and talk to me about your feelings. I won't repeat this behaviour." And he ends up doing the same thing over and over again, just worse than before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:43 AM |
| 440 | Basically"she's so happy, let me ruin her life" has me laughing and crying at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:35 AM |
| 47 | I think this is supposed to be funny, but I’ve noticed a trend of women being incredibly desperate for a proposal on social media lately. Don’t be like this. You’re so much better than this.I can't decide what's more sad- the video or thousands of comments saying, "omg, that's so me", "story of my life". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 11 | I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again.Mine told me that I couldn't hang out with my guy friends unless he was involved lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).I tried to, she still says that he's stingy and very sly when it comes to money, but doesn't want to discuss him any further. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 12:49 PM |
| 3 | They're not even trying to sugarcoat it now.I'm a fan of tiny houses but holy shit, this sounds like a steaming pile of dog shit. This is literally a man child thinking he's "independent". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 12:29 PM |
| 3 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).Girl, it was the size of my thumb and yes, he was the worst I've ever had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 12:19 PM |
| 5 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).He was all over the place and had no redeeming qualities whatsoever. One of my mutual friends talked to him and he told her that he's dating again. The girl he was talking to asked him if he was on some medication for his mental health and then blocked him. He had a plethora of issues. He lied and told me that he wasn't a virgin (I still can't understand why anyone would lie about that) and when we had sex, he cried about his tiny dick. It was that along with family, education, work, personality… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:33 AM |
| 8 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).I went to a pre wedding cocktail party his brother threw. When we reached the venue, it was completely different from our imagination. It was in the middle of nowhere and we were the only people who were dressed well. It was a disaster and I hate sounding rude, but they were poor af and not how he described them to me at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:47 AM |
| 4 | They're not even trying to sugarcoat it now.You've painted a horrifying picture that'll give me nightmares for weeks because of how true it is lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:27 PM |
| 20 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).Thank you!! I absolutely love what you said. That's such a positive perspective of looking at things!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:25 PM |
| 158 | This is my pickmeisha story. I was the worst case of pick me I've ever seen and I thought that sharing my story would help me (and maybe some of you as well).I have been doing a lot of thinking during quarantine period and realised that putting up with someone's shit will not make your relationship awesome if it was shitty to begin with. I dumped this guy months ago, thanks to FDS. I wanted to share my story because a lot of times, we beat ourselves up for falling into traps and it changes the way we feel about ourselves. Ladies, it's okay if you've made mistakes in the past, the realisation and resolution to not repeat the same behaviour is the atti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:45 PM |
| 75 | They're not even trying to sugarcoat it now.The worst part about this is, only women are expected to give "unconditional love", no matter how poor, unhygienic and jobless the man is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 65 | Has anyone thought they were an obsessive overthinker and extremely anxious (not to undermine those with anxiety) but it was just because you were in a relationship with a LVMI felt like an overreacting, crazy bitch the entire time I was with my LVM ex. He'd give me verbal security which would keep me happy and sane whenever I was with him (thus ensuring a good time for him) and then he'd completely ignore me and not even acknowledge my existence and hang out with his ex (because they were such amazing friends) and I'd constantly feel like an insecure mess and then he'd come back and love bomb me so I'd feel bad for doubting him. I always felt secretly ashamed of bei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:45 AM |
| 29 | THIS is why we don’t date men who insist on going dutch!! He’s the gold digger!!!Even men who don't love you will never stoop that low, if they have even the most teensy bit of humanity. This is some other level of gutter trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:15 AM |
| 28 | Actions speak louder than wordsSadly, it took me a long time to realise this. I was always honest in my relationship and I thought he was too. He'd claim that I was the love of his life and then ignore me for weeks because he needed to "think and be in his zone". Glad to say that I'm over that bullshit now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 91 | Being a pickmeisha won’t make men like youCouldn't agree more! There's one thing I read somewhere that has stuck with me till now, "You are the only person who will accompany you from your first breath till your last breath. You are your own 'forever partner'. It becomes so important to love yourself and value yourself because this relationship is something you can't get rid of. So, make sure your relationship with yourself is a healthy one." Your romantic partners may come and go, ladies, but your partnership with yourself is here to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:53 PM |
| 21 | Story of a liarThe third party needs to be a reliable source, not their "Bros" who take pride in having each other's backs when they're lying and cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Came across this video and this is perfect for all the ladies who just got out of toxic situationsI love that song and I just discovered 'better by myself'. That's also an amazing post breakup song!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Came across this video and this is perfect for all the ladies who just got out of toxic situationsIt's called clean, the artist is Hey Violet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:00 AM |
| 137 | LVM traps girlfriend into forced pregnancy as a military wife. She’s only just realised her future.Disgusting. Also, who picks such an awful moment to propose? Oh right, the LVM who doesn't give a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:56 AM |
| 79 | Don't fake your orgasms!Oh lmao, ALL THE FREAKING TIME! Says, " please let me know if it's working for you." When you tell him it's not working, " but this works for everyone, you're different." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Perfect!I had a friend who thought his boyfriend's poor knowledge of female bodily functions was " cute and adorable". He thought urethra and vagina were the same thing and that women could pee out their periods whenever they wanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:17 AM |
| 13 | A pick me at my university replying to someone saying they're not comfortable with their partner watching pornhe’s probably wanking and thinking of your sexual encounters” It's already accessible to him, why would he lie next to his girlfriend and imagine their sexual encounters LMAO?? The delusion... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:13 AM |
| 5 | He thought threatening me was romantic.I'm glad I found FDS while I was with him, I have all the proof I need. Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 06:46 AM |
| 3 | He thought threatening me was romantic.Thankfully, he never made it to my home. It's easier to tell people that I have an ill tempered landlady than deal with a lot of guests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 06:45 AM |
| 4 | He thought threatening me was romantic.Agreed! One of my guy friends told me, "I only serve bullshit where they'll accept it. I won't give them bullshit if I know they won't take it." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | He thought threatening me was romantic.Oh no, no! That was the last conversation we had, I didn't want to keep a man like that. But yes, I've seen plenty of women who think it's romantic. My ex friend's boyfriend made his friends stand guard and forced kisses on her. She's marrying the guy and has been dating him for past 6 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 06:41 AM |
| 41 | He thought threatening me was romantic.Thank you for caring about my safety, I appreciate it a lot! I'm hundreds of miles away from him rn and he hasn't bothered me with texts or calls since I blocked him, but yes, I'll take extra precautions!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:27 PM |
| 2 | The sex subreddit is a dumpster fire. More in the comments.Fair point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:22 PM |
| 7 | The sex subreddit is a dumpster fire. More in the comments.I agree! But such stories just make me feel disheartened and sad for all of us. It makes me lose faith in humanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 6 | The sex subreddit is a dumpster fire. More in the comments.Why do these women always sound like," so, he's a rapist but he's never raped me before and is like, super nice otherwise. But I feel violated and hurt but reddit, please tell me if I'm totally crazy because I feel bad about being raped." ????? These women have been so brainwashed by their men that every rational reaction looks like an overreaction and every concern seems crazy. It's almost sad that such posts are so high in number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 46 | oh honey noIt feels like her fiance is a man with the intellect of a 5 year old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 06:32 AM |
| 190 | Men: “all these western women are whores, I will just get a submissive virgin from another country!” Men 5 years later: why doesn’t my wife like sex👺they really do want a virgin that fucks like a pornstar Lmao OMG, I can't stop thinking about what my ex said, "you should be a lady in the streets and a whore in the sheets". Like, bro, if I'm uptight and conservative, that's totally going to trickle into my sex life. What's with this fantasy of a bombshell woman fucking you like a pornstar and taking on the role of a doting wife/daughter in law/ mother and be all religious immediately afterwards? They want to constantly look at other women, ye… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 06:29 AM |
| 377 | Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this...LMAO look at him trying to give advice when she didn't even ask for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 06:18 AM |
| 120 | Women are finally allowing themselves to admit that they do not support the porn industry and they do not want their partners to do so eitherit’s an industry based on the degradation and humiliation of women The worst argument I've heard when I tell men this is, " but what about femdom? It's all about degrading and humiliating men. Porn is just about the preference, don't bring feminism into everything." I didn't even know how to react to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 06:23 PM |
| 6 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”It's like you're describing my ex. He used TEETH ON MY CLIT when I asked him to go down on me. He then went on to sob about his micropenis, and for some reason, orgasmed within seconds and told me that the hotter the girl, the faster men orgasm. What the fuck is this logic???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:07 PM |
| 38 | Male depravity knows NO boundariesIt's like he was waiting his whole life for this. The moment she gets diagnosed, he starts using it to his advantage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 160 | Was just forced to deal with a LVM for all of 5 minutes and it was 5 minutes too manyI realized with FDS, we are simply not going to buy the awful offer that LVM are trying to sell us The men who have something nice to offer won't aggressively try to shove their shitty ass deals down your throat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:39 PM |
| 4 | I have decided to date myself, & Thursday nights are date nights!I love this idea!!! Let's do this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:27 AM |
| 23 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsOh god, this whole story just gave me horrible flashbacks of Indian schoolboys cutting their wrists for their crushes. And the worst part is, these girls would think that it's a grand gesture of love and get together with the guy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:21 AM |
| 155 | Indian women should NOT marry: 1.3 billion reasonsEvery brown dude I know is a LVM who cannot do basic chores. This. Exactly this. And then they cry racism when women from other cultures think they're trash and don't give them any attention. The men who usually whine about not being wanted by non desi women are generally crude, creepy, stingy and misogynistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:15 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me or do ugly men just generally treat you horribly or worse?Ugh, just add a dead tooth to the list and it's my ex boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020I'm a 22 yr old FDS newbie. I realised that all my relationships have been with LVM/NVM and everywhere I look, I see men who want nothing more than sex and are generally shitty human beings and I'm losing hope. I've started thinking that I won't meet a HVM at this age and have sworn off dating for a year or two. I have also started seeing my friends' relationships in a whole new light. I'm worried that I'm becoming extremely pessimistic. How do I stop that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:27 AM |
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