oiamo123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
234	Yet another women that's convinced that men owe her	oiamo123	/r/MGTOW	03/11/20 11:08 PM
67	Field Report - Went to a rave for the first time	oiamo123	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 12:16 AM
17	Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friends	oiamo123	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/23 03:18 PM
9	Opinion on men opening up?	oiamo123	/r/askTRP	07/11/20 03:58 PM
0	Psychologically shit-tested without knowing it, however later figured it out/ripped her a new one	oiamo123	/r/askTRP	22/08/20 12:50 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Fun or creative questions to ask on a date? Active listening too. If you actually listen to what the person is saying and develop a genuine interest in them, its a lot easier to ask questions.	/r/seduction	26/03/26 05:30 AM
22	Be selective; avoid taken women Issue is when they don't say anything until after. I remember I was at the club one night, and I met a cute gal out with some of her friends. Me and her got to chatting, did some dancing, a little grinding and eventually we got to making out. Wasn't until after we made out that she told me "btw I have a husband" lol. Told her have a nice night.	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/25 10:14 PM
1	How to flirt basics Id almost say the ability to talk about nothing is the ability to flirt. Also body language. Everybody's got their own form of flirting though so you have to figure it out for yourself.	/r/seduction	03/07/25 06:03 AM
2	men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be around Well… you didn’t answer my question lol so that tells me you would. I said word for word "So yea, I would, but it's not just black and white." My question is 100% binary LMAO!!! It is yes, but like I said, the answer isn't as binary as you're making it out to be. There's multiple factors. A platonic relationship is just that. A platonic relationship Exactly. As soon as sex comes into the relationship, it's no longer a friendship. Now it's FWB, a situationship or whatever you wanna call it but th…	/r/seduction	26/05/25 06:07 PM
4	men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be around Considering the friendships have been ongoing for years now, I'd say a long time. You're completely ignoring that people are capable of returning favors as well. So yea, I've forgotten my wallet, but then next time we go to the movies it's on me. I get the impression that the concept of mutual respect is being washed under the door here. But that question isn't as binary as you're making it out to be. Relationships are way more complicated than that. Are there mutual feelings? Would it complicat…	/r/seduction	26/05/25 02:16 PM
1	men who have no female friends feel unsafe to be around I'd have to respectfully disagree. What you're describing isn't a gender problem—it's a people problem. If someone gives more than they get and ends up resenting it, that’s on them to re-evaluate the dynamic or step back. It’s not on the other person to repay some unspoken emotional debt. Offering something only in the hopes of eventually “getting something” in return isn’t friendship—that’s manipulation. Personally, I’ve got multiple female friends and we all get along great. We go camping, clu…	/r/seduction	26/05/25 05:11 AM
2	This myth is hurting your dating life (and most guys don't know about it) Find something you enjoy and go to events. For some people that's clubbing, others that's group hikes. After that, you gotta put yourself out there and talk to people	/r/seduction	30/09/24 02:39 PM
5	I’m convinced you don’t need tight game to get laid, only confidence. Out of my experience, body language speaks volume haha	/r/seduction	25/03/24 05:01 PM
30	How come I do well in night game but suck at day game? Day drink to hit on girls ✍️✍️	/r/seduction	05/03/24 08:14 PM
4	How do you want things again Sounds like there's a serious disconnect from your future going on right now haha. I'm in the same boat. Things like buying a house or finding a girl and starting a family don't really seem to interest me. Go to the library and see if there's a book that catches your interest or maybe see if there's some documentaries on netflix. I think learning new things is a great tool that lots of people overlook in terms of mental health. It reignites curiosity and even gets you out of the house. Learning …	/r/TheRedPill	27/11/23 12:54 PM
12	Entitlement story of a girl asking for free drinks in a club Had a girl come up to me yesterday and asked for a drink. Bluntly told her no I'm not buying her a drink. But same thing she insisted and even went ad far as to say "let's arm-wrestle and whoever wins has to buy the loser a drink". It was pretty obvious her and her friends go to the gym so I was like sure why not haha. So I arm-wrestled her and won and then arm-wrestled both of her friends as well and won those as well. It was fun but they were still insistent I buy them drinks and I just told t…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/23 08:51 AM
20	She asked: “How Many Girls Have You Slept With?” Yea pretty much, could care less for keeping track of how many girls I've slept with. My answer is usually "Genuinely have no idea"	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/23 04:08 PM
8	Social NPC You're too focused inwardly. Shift your focus more outwardly and have a calm curiosity about people. "What do they do for work", "Where do they live", "Where would they like to live" "what would they like to do for work". Once your focus becomes more outward rather than inward, you won't be so worried about what you're going to say next.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/23 10:01 PM
4	Having low confidence is by far the least attractive trait a guy can have: how can I get rid of that? Ask some friends. They're more common than you think. I'm from Canada and I swear 1/5 people I talk to has done them/still does. They've got shroom dispensaries in Vancouver and they're more packed then weed dispensaries lmao	/r/seduction	18/07/23 03:46 AM
5	Having low confidence is by far the least attractive trait a guy can have: how can I get rid of that? Magic mushrooms or psychedelic mushrooms	/r/seduction	17/07/23 06:15 PM
32	Having low confidence is by far the least attractive trait a guy can have: how can I get rid of that? Hey man, I got problems with my confidence too. But I've gone from having anxiety when talking to strangers to having no anxiety when talking to strangers. I started going out to bars and other social events alone and I'd do a little bit of magic mushrooms lmao. Magic mushrooms have pro-social effects to them, so when you go out you'll find it super easy to connect with people. I'm talking like a quarter to half gram. They've been proven to reduce social anxiety and are used for other therapeuti…	/r/seduction	17/07/23 08:04 AM
2	How To Not Be So Fucking Lonely Anymore Get a hotel room/air bnb, go with a couple friends you do know so that prices are cheaper and then go out and tear it up ahah	/r/TheRedPill	01/07/23 07:49 AM
2	Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friends Don't let the age gap phase you man haha. I'm 23 and the girl I went home with was 27	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/23 01:53 PM
2	Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friends That mindset is more achievable when you're there for a good time vs talking to women. When you're there for a good time you inheritantly don't care if you're walking home alone or not. Hooking up is just the cherry on top. That also, ironically, makes it easier to talk to and approach women. Why would I care if she's interested in me or not? I'm having fun with or without other people. Anothet thing is if you're having a good time it makes you more emotionally attractive to women. I go to the c…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/23 06:27 AM
1	Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friends Yea it's definitely something I've picked up on. Last weekend we went to two clubs and the first one was a complete write-off. Playing Latino themed music, and it was a massive ego-fest. Everyone was standing around and dudes were puffing their chests. Me and my buddies were like "fuck this" and went across the street to this place where there was a band playing songs like Summer by Calvin Harris. Was having the time of my life in there and same thing, had some good success with the girls.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/23 02:27 AM
2	Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friends Might just be an effect where I think the mushrooms are doing something but they're not lol. I only had 0.25g's	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/23 11:27 PM
14	Never fucking show your weaknesses. And get back out there. Hit some concerts, go on a weekend trip if you can, hang with friends, hit the beach or something if there's one nearby, hit some clubs and dance a little if that's your thing. My ex cheated on me like 3 months ago and it was all I could think about for like 2 fucking months. It was horrible. I started hitting the gym luckily when it first happened and now I'm looking pretty shredded but still the gym didn't really help me mentally I found. What I did do though is go on a…	/r/TheRedPill	05/06/23 10:23 AM
1	To all my shy guys “ If you want her to open up her legs, you’re going to have to open up your mouth “ I've done a couple different things haha but all my approaches were at clubs. I'll walk over and be like "straight up, you're kinda cute", or "hey, what your name?" or if I see some girls looking like they're having a blast and just vibing I'll smile and say "love it!" haha Probably approached like 20 girls or so this weekend, made out with 2, brought 1 home and went for the kiss on another but got the cheek. But the biggest thing is just enjoying your own company and vibing. Get a drink or two …	/r/seduction	31/05/23 05:07 AM
1	Field Report - Went to a rave for the first time As I said early on in the post my self-esteem has been low due to the the relationship I got out of awhile back. If a girl doesn't want me that's not the end of the world. Just means she isn't interested. I've been turned down before or turned the cheek and could've gotten all butthurt but I'm more glad that at least I went for it then never knowing. You're absolutely right about learning to appreciate and value myself before anything and that's a work in progress. Isn't going to happen overnigh…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/23 12:58 AM
1	Field Report - Went to a rave for the first time Psychedelic's in general can be pretty eye opening. There's a lot of interesting research going into them and how they can alter how the brain thinks.	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 01:33 PM
3	Field Report - Went to a rave for the first time I mean you're absolutely right. For long term relationships there's a lot more depth to it but in terms of short term dating strategies the reality of the fact is that people literally seek emotional highs. I think in general there's a lot of factors going into play as to why the things are the way they are, especially being younger and the current dating scene. I'd say a massive part of it being entertainment. There's probably a connection to be made somewhere there but it's all hypothetical ha…	/r/TheRedPill	28/05/23 01:25 PM
4	Dating is just sales. Agree with the "it's gotta be smooth part", yesterday I was driving home and a cute girl was using the cross-walk while walking her dog so I had to stop and wait. Rolled my window down and I was like "I like your dog, is that a blue-heeler?" Convo lasted 5 mins, grabbed her snap and we went on our way haha	/r/seduction	19/04/23 01:56 AM
31	Breakup, need new plan of action Yea man, obviously it's shitty but life goes on	/r/TheRedPill	26/03/23 11:26 AM
2	Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by society Don't forget social media. Greater daily time spent on social media increases the odds of having depression, loneliness and social anxiety.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 08:38 PM
-1	Why are women such in the moment creatures? Take some magic mushrooms lmao. The emotional centers in your brain are turned way up.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 01:09 PM
7	To what degree do looks actually matter? Literally haha. If he focused as much attention on things like his career or fitness instead of getting laid, he'd ironically probably start to get laid	/r/seduction	25/07/22 08:51 PM
40	To what degree do looks actually matter? Sounds like an ego problem. Either make yourself more attractive or keep fantasizing over women that aren't interested. Attraction isn't debatable. People either find you attractive or they don't.	/r/seduction	25/07/22 05:58 PM
1	In being direct with your intentions what are best ways to get across that you are just trying to have sex? I like to say shit like "sooo, you wanna make out or what?" and have had good results haha	/r/seduction	25/07/22 05:32 PM
6	What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey? No point trying to feed a lion that doesn't want to eat haha.	/r/seduction	12/07/22 03:27 AM
14	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid I'm the polar opposite and just absolutely despise texting. It feels like a chore to me no matter who it's with. I'll go days on end without sending a single message and then all I'll text is "hey, let's do something if you're free later". Imo social media (texting included) has completely ruined what a relationship is on any level. Be it friendships, flings, an actual relationship etc etc. Texting wasn't even a thing back before 1992 and before 2007 it wasn't popular either. Before texting, int…	/r/seduction	10/07/22 09:15 PM
1	Women are checking out men all the time Don't need a girl for that bro	/r/seduction	09/07/22 12:39 AM
2	How do i get the confidence to start approaching? This, if you approach with the intention of just talking it completely changes your outlook. Think of it like you see a dude with a nice jacket and you crack a "nice jacket bro".	/r/seduction	07/07/22 12:09 AM
7	Time to wake up Being yourself IS good advice imo but what it actually means is overlooked. Becoming some anxiety stricken wuss just because you're talking to a woman isn't being yourself. Thinking to yourself that if you say/do certain things with the premise that it'll get you laid isn't being yourself. Stop focusing so much on how much vagina you get and a little more on what's actually important to you. You'll stop giving a fuck about how often you get laid all together. 90% of the guys on here become so en…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/22 11:28 PM
3	Do girls ever tell guys to stop contacting them as a test? You have nothing to lose by doing what she asked. She's either gonna come crawling back or she won't in which case she wasn't worth your time anyways.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 03:09 PM
1	Feeling very lonely Don't let that tear you down man. There's a lot more to life than whether or not other people like you. I was talking to this 60y/o fellow yesterday actually. I was out riding my bike and I seen he had a harley and decided to spark some conversation. He told me about how he's been to Cuba, Maui, the caribbean, he bought his bike in the spring, he likes to fish etc etc. all while not being in a relationship. Only thing holding you back is yourself my man. Go get yourself out there and start doing…	/r/seduction	26/06/22 04:50 PM
1	We all know a guy who seems to drown in poon juice despite having almost nothing going for him, so what's the deal? I'd say mental game is more important than anything. Once you're comfortable with yourself and can find enjoyment despite being 'alone' women will start coming in. If I had to guess you're trying too hard/subconciously coming off as needy. You're coming on here asking "why can't I pull women but this guy can" and truthfully why does it matter so much to you if you can or can't? Not saying there's anything wrong with that because that's why this subforum exists but it's food for thought.	/r/seduction	08/06/22 07:57 PM
8	How to stop obsessing over one girl? Turn off your phone, go to a different city for the weekend with your buddies and party it up. Have some fun and meet some people. Chances are social media isn't helping you whatsoever and turning off your phone will help with creating some distance. You're too emotionally invested in someone that isn't on the same page as you and it's gonna keep picking away at you until you create some space or pursue someone else.	/r/seduction	06/06/22 05:44 AM
1	How to cold approach at a nightclub? You can buy drinks for girls but don't expect anything in return just because you're buying them drinks lol	/r/seduction	28/05/22 08:16 PM
8	How to cold approach at a nightclub? I've heard "be yourself" is bad advice but I think it still stands true. Thinking about what you're gonna say next isn't exactly being yourself lol	/r/seduction	27/05/22 11:03 PM
5	Cold Approach Practice--Eye Contact "Drills" And find some hobbies and some nice clothes. From what i've noticed, getting women really isn't as deep as it's made out to be on here	/r/TheRedPill	20/05/22 04:21 PM
3	Just say what's on your mind Yea I've noticed a similar pattern as well with just saying what's on your mind ahah, especially if y'all are banging it off or having a good time together On multiple occasions I've just said bluntly "Wanna cuddle" "Wanna make out" "Wanna smash" Or whatever it might be and 95% of the time it leads to a big smile and a "yes" And if it's a "no", well now you know	/r/seduction	28/01/22 03:15 PM
3	[deleted by user] Bought a motorcycle, I don't have anyone to ride with so I started doing things I want to do alone. Such as checking out new restaurants, going out of town for the weekend etc etc. I found that it made me significantly more confident in my independence.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 10:07 PM
1	Is 28 too late to have your first kiss? What makes you think they're actively avoiding eye contact with you? Are they nervous? Scared? Shy? Intimidated? Creeped out? Distracted?	/r/seduction	22/12/21 04:55 AM
1	Is 28 too late to have your first kiss? Are you getting dates at least?	/r/seduction	22/12/21 04:19 AM
2	Never ask if she has a boyfriend It depends imo, I was talking to a girl a while back and long story short I met her on tinder, she wanted to hook up, but I was busy and wasn't all that interested so I never hit her up. This was last year. I was bored a couple weeks back and hit her up on her ig profile and noticed she had a bf. So I asked: "you've got a bf now?" "Yah, why?" "I had a recent business opportunity and never took you up on it ahah" I sent a screenshot of our tinder conversation, we had a good laugh and now a week l…	/r/seduction	18/12/21 07:37 PM
3	Is this an acceptable approach to women? Think of it like when you're walking along the street and someone going the opposite direction makes eye contact with you, smiles and you give them a "hey, how's it going". Same thing. It's more of an acknowledgement and you take the conversation from there.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 04:14 AM
1	How to create sexual tension? A calm demeanor, smiling, eye contact, and teasing go a long way 👍 Emotional investment is also an important factor. Too much can come off as desperate which is a turn off.	/r/seduction	08/11/21 03:24 AM
2	The reason that HUMOR is super attractive Watch stand-up comedies. You'll realise that humor mostly comes from how the joke is delivered. Also being quick witted	/r/seduction	30/01/21 10:41 PM
4	Yet another women that's convinced that men owe her When she asked why, I burst out laughing. It baffles me that she feels so entitled that she has to question WHY a man isnt giving her his money.	/r/MGTOW	04/11/20 03:04 PM
36	Yet another women that's convinced that men owe her She keeps asking me and I honestly get pleasure out of saying no lol	/r/MGTOW	03/11/20 11:49 PM
0	Psychologically shit-tested without knowing it, however later figured it out/ripped her a new one I was leaning towards crushing her ego and showing I dont care about her, however it's the past. Can't change it now	/r/askTRP	22/08/20 02:24 AM