oignonne Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Do women find this (Putin) sexy? Despite my usual preference for authoritarian leaders with broken moral compasses, I just can't get into him. Edit: a word	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/17 01:01 AM
5	What do you think of people who have low or no interest in sex at all? It's totally fine. They may not be compatible with me as far as a relationship goes, but being asexual or not having a high sex drive is not a weird or shameful thing to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/17 03:32 AM
3	Q4Women: Do you think men are becoming more immature? In general, not necessarily, but definitely as a part of the increasingly vocal anti-feminist groups in the past few years. Men with these sentiments are seemingly entitled to anything they want from women, but feel no sense of responsibility to treat women with basic decency. If their dating life isn't ideal, it's because women are supposedly inherently stupid and evil children, and therefore it's okay to treat women poorly and push social regress. It's definitely entitled and lazy to approach …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/17 06:56 PM
5	Q4BP: Blue-Pillers of PPD, is anything in the TRP sidebar actually useful in your opinion? If so, what? From the introduction: It's too easy to blame feminism for our troubles. Feminism was inevitable. Equal rights are something I strongly am in support of. For men and women. Women have the right to pursue happiness. Nobody should tell them otherwise I agree with these things in theory, although I absolutely disagree with how TRP actually approaches this issue. That post goes on to describe feminism as a "sexual strategy," which is totally inaccurate (I'd rather people not be treated poorly for th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/17 06:10 AM
1	If you actually care about women, then being a feminist is the worse thing you can do That's how CMV posts work. For "CMV" and "Question for X" Threads: Parent comments that aren't from the target group will be removed, along with their child replies. If you want to agree with OP instead of challenging their view or if the question is not targeted at you, post it as an answer to this comment. Top level comments are always going to be the dissenters. If you want to challenge the challengers, do so, rather than complain that the view was challenged. That is the purpose of the post …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/17 02:49 AM
2	If you actually care about women, then being a feminist is the worse thing you can do Feminists want so much to be like men, they forgot about good ole' femininity. No. Traditional femininity, in men or women, should be accepted. It's just that no one should be forced to conform to traditional gender roles. But being female shouldn't be a bad or lesser thing- that's the point of feminism. The fact that women are naturally more submissive and passive actively pisses feminists off, and they believe gender roles are all a social construct. There are biological sex differences, but o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/17 09:54 PM
7	Q4Women: Women of PPD, do you like to when (ripped, attractive) men are very physically dominant and playful with you in a way that relegates you to a child-like status? The "playful punching, poking..." etc. is not something that I consider either "very physically dominant" or something that relegates me to "a child-like status." Not sure why one person messing around is the adult and the person being poked suddenly has the status of a child. If I poke back or initiate it, is the man suddenly the child? I'd rather not be picked up randomly, but that other stuff is fine from a friend and fine from an SO (appearance not mattering in the first case, mattering in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/17 08:26 PM
3	Do you think child custody should go to the higher earner? Not automatically, that parent having custody isn't always in the best interest of the child if other factors are taken into consideration. I'm in favor of joint custody when it's good for the child and when not, a variety of factors should go into consideration. Income doesn't necessarily indicate overall parenting ability. Nor does one parent being the higher earner mean the other parent, even if we take child support out the picture, doesn't earn enough to provide well for the child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/17 02:57 AM
2	What is your feminism score. Take the test Traditionalism: 16% Liberal Feminism: 71% Radical Feminism: 68% Marxist Feminism: 78% Cultural Feminism: 67%	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/17 02:46 AM
2	Women should have a certain amount of sex with their partners, even if they don't want to, to keep their man happy. While I acknowledge the rudeness and frustration here, it seems misplaced and it's actually not unthinking to give a thorough response or to answer the OP's questions. To slightly alter your example, this would be like having a post asking "is it illegal to use the n-word? Is it appropriate to use the n-word?" and then getting mad when the person answers both questions, or gives a little additional context, instead of just answering the second question. Hell, even if the person did point out it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 05:53 PM
3	Women should have a certain amount of sex with their partners, even if they don't want to, to keep their man happy. It wasn't at all knee-jerk. It was an attempt to be thorough. There are multiple contexts in which "when is it okay to say to no sex?" can be viewed and I talked about a couple. If you take a look at my full response (even just read the next couple of lines), you will see I also, and primarily, addressed the issue of sex frequency in maintaining a healthy and satisfying relationship. It's worth noting that forcing yourself to have sex you don't want isn't going to be the solution to an unsatisfy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 04:48 PM
12	Women should have a certain amount of sex with their partners, even if they don't want to, to keep their man happy. It's okay to say no at any time for any reason from a personal autonomy standpoint. As to how many times/reasons are acceptable to still keep the relationship strong and healthy, that will depend on the people involved. A woman can absolutely decide how much sex she wants and decline/not initiate accordingly. And her partner can absolutely decide that's not enough to maintain a happy relationship and they can decide together if it's something that can be worked on or is an incompatibility that n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 05:24 AM
3	Q4Feminists: What form of feminism do you practice? What are your beliefs regarding it? Intersectional feminism. It includes acknowledgment that identities can overlap and exacerbate discrimination and lack of privilege in general. Men and women can both be hurt under a patriarchal system, but in different ways. The experiences of black women and white women can differ significantly. An American woman, a Syrian woman, and a Chinese woman are going to be affected by gender issues differently. A sex worker and a doctor aren't going to experience the same types of gender-related issue…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/17 05:06 AM
7	Q4Women: Would you be upset if you found out your boyfriend/husband read and acted on dating guides/advice? Why or why not? Seeking dating advice is okay with me. It's not inherently problematic to need some guidance, we're not all perfect at every aspect of relationships without any outside information. I would not be happy, however, if the "advice" they sought out was actually misogynistic pick-up art or, obviously, if they are seeking advice on how to cheat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/17 01:23 AM
1	Since it's already established feminism is widely hated, What are feminists willing to do to change that? Sometimes it's neither positive nor possible to appease opponents. Feminism was hated by some when it was about basic things like being able to vote in the US. The feminist movement has been declared evil, unimportant, or unnecessary, for decades, although there certainly has been recent backlash, especially as a part of the rise in the far right. Feminism also has the issue many movements have, with a wide variety of different viewpoints. It's critical to continue to be inclusive as possible an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/17 04:00 AM
1	Meyers Briggs vs Pill Affiliation: Do redpillers tend to be ---J while bluepillers ---P? INTJ. Although I've taken tests for it before and also gotten INFJ or INTP, but I think INTJ is closest, if I have to pick. I don't think it's accurate to treat traits as though they dichotomies, it seems like an oversimplification of human thoughts, feelings, and behavior. I also often find what some people consider to be pure logic or "cold hard fact" isn't actually such (TRP certainly isn't), and also think it's okay to have emotions and express those towards others. It's situational.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/17 11:36 PM
1	Q4All: Are you religious? What religion are you? Blue 20 Woman Atheist Religion:0, Lack of Religion: 8-9. It is important to me to be good without god(s) and to prioritize promotion of equality and empathy in this lifetime. I'm not aware of any way in which they conflict. While I don't think it's inherently impossible to believe in a higher power and be a feminist, organized religion has a long history of harm against women and outsiders. I view both organized religion and the red pill ideology as frequently inaccurate and incredibly harmful. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/17 11:21 PM
5	CMV:Un-consensual Sex is not sexual violence. It's okay to both despise rape in one region and oppression in another region. More than one thing can be unacceptable and it's unreasonable to suggest we shouldn't address or be concerned about one issue because other, worse issues exist. And this argument tends to be applied inconsistently. Fo example, by people who care about who the US president is or how much their taxes are or what the laws in the country are, even though other people have it worse. If we can't talk about issues unless the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/17 08:06 PM
5	Women Who Make Men Use Condoms In A LTR Regard Them As Inferior Or they want to use condoms for a reason other than their relative attraction to their partner. Not wanting to be pregnant is not about a lack of respect. It's reasonable for women to want to prevent pregnancy. It's reasonable for some women to prefer one method of birth control over another. You mention the rhythm method, for example, but that's a poor option for people who have found a method with a lower risk of pregnancy or want to have sex with their partner outside one to two specific week…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 10:08 PM
2	Discussion: Be Yourself Prepare for a rough, quasi-philosophical answer. There's no objective list of factors that completely determine who someone is as a person (both in my opinion and within philosophy in general), it's to a large extent self-defined, but sense of self doesn't need to be unchanging it for it to be real. I can feel I was "myself" five years ago and feel I'm "myself" today, even I'm not the exact same. Both were accurate in the moment. If permanence were necessary for reality, few, if any, things woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/17 06:10 AM
1	Discussion: Be Yourself Yes, that's generally it. Finding a balance between socially appropriate behavior and not faking compatibility when that will cause long term problems. I don't think it's contradictory, I think it's possible to actually change in some ways. If you become a kinder (or more assertive, better dressed, more active, etc.) person, I don't think you're necessarily now a fake version of yourself. Self-improvements and changes brought on by other factors, like aging or significant changes in life conditi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/17 05:00 AM
5	Discussion: Be Yourself I view it as generally acting as a way that is consistent with your core values and interests. You're not faking any major parts of your identity. I think this advice is generally okay in the context of relationships to avoid trying to make things work with someone who is horribly incompatible. It does not mean all behavior is appropriate or is going to be viewed favorably by a date. It does not mean you have to share all your baggage with someone on the first date. It does not mean you cannot e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/17 01:03 AM