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I've reconsidered what you said. There are people who are socially better than me and people who are socially worse off than me. I perceive this social middle ground to be the most authentic, but feel that I can choose to be the best. I've got the capacity to perform the social ideal, I've just been choosing not to because I want girls to like me for me, the social average. There is no true self, just good feelings and bad feelings. It feels good to be social in and of itself, and I've been deny…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 05:40 AM
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I just have a feeling that this is about semantics. I've talked to some engineers who seemed to have no social fluency at all. I shouldn't really say my friends are nerds, but I imagine they can't have much more success with women than I do even though we enjoy each other's company and I consider them pretty normal looking. I rarely see someone and say, wow, that guy's so cool and magnetic compared to me and my friends. Typically the guys I see with girls are silent and pissed off looking and bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:53 AM
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Is everything here nerd speak because we're debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:09 AM
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Define nerd speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:15 AM
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When you say social nuance, is this something that girls are consciously picking up on and utilizing, or is it just a product of the interaction? Because I'm sure I could break down social nuances about my interactions with my nerdy friends, but it's not on the forefront of my mind that it's a nuanced interaction. The "saying random shit" was just to put a negative spin on woman-speak to counter the negative spin you put on nerd-speak. Who knows? I could be interacting exactly the way you advise…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:59 AM
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I don't exactly agree with the extremity of this title, but I agree with the general concept. Check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:15 AM
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with a lot of emotion and social nuance. Is this referring to when people just say random shit and they aren't focusing on the words but on the feelings of the person? I prefer to talk about topics and joke about topics or joke about something I see and make it sound ridiculous, but generally I think there's a lot of focus on the words and the implication that the words mean something whether it be ironic or insightful, whereas girls like to communicate where the words don't have to mean anythin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:07 AM
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I have a diverse range of friends but yes, the ones I tend to be closest too are a little nerdy. I really feel like I could fit in with anyone if I tried, just not when it comes to girls I'm interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 11:36 PM
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I could easily make my life sound this horrible but I don't feel like writing that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 06:17 PM
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lol u gey bro
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:45 PM
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They do have wonderful and easy lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:41 PM
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it's men who are shooting up people because they can't get laid, not women. women don't shoot up people because they can't get laid women can't get laid LOL WUT
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:38 PM
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Why is it that anyone who questions if something is real from the news is a fool?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:25 PM
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The only problem with "mental illness" being used this way is that it's a cop-out. I believe that anyone, put in another's shoes, would make the same decisions that they made. It's not about some random mental disease rising out of nowhere, it's about the experience. We should treat these things by analyzing the experience of people rather than writing it off as "Oh he was just crazy, a normal person would never do that. Put him on meds and give him some happy thoughts".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:18 PM
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I feel like what really happens is the creepy guy is tired of being perceived as a monster so they're like: "Oh, you think I'm a monster huh? I'll show you a real monster." It sounds messed up but I don't think these guys would snap if it wasn't for girls rejecting them for putting off these elusive "bad vibes".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:12 PM
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Can we talk on skype or something? I just want to understand what's throwing women off about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 05:06 PM
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The supreme value of confidence when it comes to dating - because not only does it make 1 and 2 easier, but it also makes you more attractive to women in itself. And the value of confidence is not only through one's resilience regarding risk and rejection, but also projection a certain sense of self-esteem when it comes to yourself: you don't belittle yourself, or apologize, or cowtow when faced with adversity - instead you radiate the feeling that you're great and at ease. And all that while si…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:55 PM
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act confident even if its fake-it-till-you-make-it I really don't understand what "acting confident" even means. I thought all the confidence I'd need was the ability to approach on demand, but now I've got to put on a confident performance too? Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:38 PM
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I've always felt like the solution was some Buddha-tier enlightenment that apparently all the normies have naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:21 PM
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Why am I so good with my guy friends and not with women then? I was rated like a 6 or 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:17 PM
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Lots of women seem to sniff out "weirdness" and are much more preoccupied with avoid men who are "strange" or give off "bad vibes" rather than men who are outright distasteful or violent. How do you not give off "bad vibes"? I can only get laid off tinder because if I talk to them in person for too long eventually they just think I'm a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 04:05 PM
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You really think Trump the President of the United States™ is Donald Trump's real persona?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:11 PM
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I laugh with Trump because he trolls the fuck out of everybody forcing them to go on this rant about how they are more superior than a billionaire president because they are so logical and have so much empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:07 PM
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That both genders can be impacted by Hollywood things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:38 AM
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So people knowing a girl is a witch is the same thing as someone having their reputation ruined?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:35 AM
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To me that's even worse than grown women consensually fucking producers to advance their career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:31 AM
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You've never heard of the alleged pedophilia in Hollywood?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:24 AM
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The severity doesn't matter. It's the cultural belief in the accuser that is being compared.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:21 AM
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But then there's the pedos that make the genders equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:15 AM
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I could see a lot of women lying and also certain scandals being a bread and circuses sort of thing where they're fake media hype shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:13 AM
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It's a good comparison in terms of prosecution methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 03:09 AM
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What is it about game that is so game changing? No pun intended ;) Why is it that the hotter the girl, the more game you need? It just seems strange to me that you can go up the hotness scale with women like training levels on a video game personality-wise. What does it have to do with the primitive mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 12:33 AM
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What do you think about the fact that the women he wants to be casual with want him for something serious while the women he wants to have a relationship with just ghost him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 08:18 PM
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I wanted to be the relationship guy, so everything I worked for was relationship related. When I realized I could be slaying as the booty call guy, and that the women I was working for to be the relationship guy for them were giving it up to the booty call guy and simply crossed sides on a whim, I decided to become the booty call guy by lifting heavy things and becoming fearless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 08:11 PM
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How can you do booty calls and see the value of a relationship? It's something that confuses me. I thought women liked relationships and if they're into casual sex in that way, I guess I'm the stereotypical guy and kind of irked by that. Like, if I want a relationship with you and I learn that you are into booty calls, why wouldn't I want to try to be the booty call guy instead of the relationship guy? I'd be getting more value for less effort. Also I'd be emotionally committing to something tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:47 PM
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Sex is not the same for men and women. Nearly any sex is good for an average man. Many women report they can in fact have bad sex. I think if men could get sex consistently as women, they would also be picky about how good the sex was.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:43 PM
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"The Last Jedi" or "The Last White Male Main Character Who's Not A Villain".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:28 PM
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The irony is that the people who believe that stuff think they're the rebellious ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:24 PM
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What do you think the female future holds? If it's a male vs female kind of thing, it will revert to being for men at the first violent revolution. Will men adapt to this future? Will the world's strongest man be beaten in a wrestling match by a scrawny regular man? Will feminism ever achieve its goal of equality? Yes. It's achieved right now. The only problem is people don't realize that it requires time to catch up. The "white man" didn't just poof all that wealth into existence overnight with…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 05:06 PM
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Only rich people bathe. REEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:12 AM
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I'm gonna assume you meant exceeded by and not exceeded my. I personally think that female promiscuity exceeds male promiscuity simply because it's easier to be promiscuous as a woman, but you won't see women bragging about it or feeling accomplished by it, it's just "a little fun". The conventional wisdom would have you believe that men are more promiscuous and there are a few "sluts" having most of the sex with all the men, but it's actually the opposite, it's just well concealed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 12:47 AM
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like excessively beta men who are like love sick puppies, but they're the only real and clear exceptions. I was like this before I understood the extent of female promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:47 PM
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Nobody ever says anything to a person's face unless they got some balls. Most people will just talk about you behind your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:20 PM
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I was rated recently as 6.5-7 and one more specific as 6.8. Wat do? D: But seriously dude, if girls think you're an ugly creeper why would you give a shit about what they think? That should encourage you to make them uncomfortable as a "fuck you" for not considering you because it's not like they'll consider you anyway. You gotta develop the social skills through practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:15 PM
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As a man, I don't really feel intimidated by creepy eyeballs, as I feel like I could intimidate those creepy eyeballs right back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:11 PM
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They don't fall in love faster, but they do ghost with the cold indifference of a hitman at the first sign of misgivings.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:06 PM
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I have nothing to say to this except that it only reinforces my previous points.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:00 PM
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And what exactly is the purpose of this improvement? What are we working towards? I've got a quote for you from my favorite show at the moment: Maybe it doesn't matter that we have accomplished so much for the basest of reasons. But of course, the peacock can barely fly. It lives in the dirt, pecking insects out of the muck, consoling itself with its great beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:35 PM
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oh, really? what part of it? coz males dont like it unless it suits them. males dont like when a woman rejects them at her will, or when she has more than one lover, or when she doesnt want to carry his crotch spawn... Of course, because most of us are not pathetic cuckolds and want to be the one fucking the girl. More than one lover is fine, as long as no emotional or financial investment is expected. If a woman doesn't want to have a man's child and he wants to have children with his own DNA, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:21 PM
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Anyone who says women value money more than looks is just coping with the fact that they dont have a good genetic makeup I do not believe a woman wrote this for some reason. Not because I don't agree, but I don't think it would be stated like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:05 AM
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Waiting for someone to die isn't loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:58 AM
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I agree with you in your criticism especially in regards to the last part of the OP: The other day Jammerly made a post questioning whether men actualy like women...LMAO! Yes, men do like women. Very much so. The real question is whether women like men. Men do like women for their sexuality. Many of them would be the good guy or the bad just to have sex. I understand this core motivation in myself but I have to ask, what motivates you? Do you also have a selfish desire for attractive mates which…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:24 PM
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I was reminded of this comment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 11:13 PM
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Maybe not experience, but I definitely can understand it and why it would be fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:42 PM
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6 figure Do you mean n-count? ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:10 PM
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My situation is weird. I loved my first girlfriend a lot and she ghosted me. I don't think I could physically feel the things I felt for her for somebody else without feeling like a naive idiot. I do believe she was some form of crazy, like sociopathy or BPD or something. I didn't desire to have a bunch of casual sex, I just wanted to be with her forever, but after she ghosted me, I thought about the fact that she was probably indulging in it, so I felt like it'd only make sense for me to get my…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:35 PM
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I think a sizable portion of the guys who "date" wouldn't, if they knew they could get hot matches on tinder and fuck them on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:10 PM
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I wans't shoving him out the door with a hardon every goddamn night and then laughing while he wept in the bushes. The same bushes Chad emerged from to give you sum fuk until you guys were exclusive you backstabbing backstabber! REEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:04 PM
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Some guys date because they think they have to for sex. They think dating is part of the ritual that leads to sex and that any other way it could happen is near impossible or a drunk accident. These guys are outraged/surprised that they can actually just go straight for the sex and that it's not some crime against womankind to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:56 PM
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It seems like these things are constantly coming in and out of existence depending upon the argument being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:53 PM
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I feel like a good surreal meme could be made out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:52 PM
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Got pulled over once Was careful and didn't get shot The answer to your question is no. Just don't reach in your pockets, make sudden movements, or give them reason to suspect you are doing something illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:06 PM
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It depends on the criteria really. If they're having sex quickly with a criminal bad boy with multiple felonies and waiting to have sex with a stable provider guy, it'd be pretty hard to justify to most guys that your standards for different guys don't matter. If they're having sex quickly with players from the club, and waiting to have sex with the stable provider guy, still bad. If they're having sex quickly with players, and find a player who wants to settle down with them, so they wait to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:01 PM
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TRP doesn't like to leave "what I don't know won't hurt me" facts unrevealed. It encourages that you imagine the worst case scenario so you're not as attached when it turns out to be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:55 PM
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If they got hurt, that's a fair reason for it, but it's hard to evaluate if their true reasoning is that they aren't as attracted to you or if they are telling you the truth that it's about something that happened to them in the past. A lot of these things could be lied about which is why TRP advises for you to assume the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:45 PM
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Whatever you do professionally, somewhere in the world there is a guy who is getting paid more than you for the same job, that dosnt mean you should quit your job and become a hobo. Oh no. Time to become a hobo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:28 AM
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And this is fine. As long as they don't have double standards for different guys, waiting is perfectly acceptable, especially if they're a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:24 AM
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I never approach men. This is literally the only thing you have to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:35 AM
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I feel like TRP does advocate entitlement but in a different sense. Nice guyism advocates entitlement in terms of "Come to me I deserve this". While TRP entitlement is "I'll come to you and take what I deserve". You still have to have an assumption of what you deserve in the TRP model which is entitlement, but it's entitlement that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:31 AM
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He's saying the nice guy thing is a constant act one thinks they have to put on to get sex, but then once you behave in the red pill way enough times, it becomes who you are, so while you might acquire tokens, it becomes a side effect of your natural state rather than your goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:28 AM
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The problem with this is that the women who don't have sex on the first date are resisting having sex with you and not others. They're basically the same variety of woman as the woman who does have sex with you on the first date (based off what I understand from your definition), they're just being dishonest to try to get commitment. Both women have this same "red flag" you speak of, but now on top of that the woman who isn't having sex with you on the first date is also being dishonest or not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:20 AM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 05:30 PM
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Alright, I don't need the respecc just give me the sexx
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:37 PM
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I can bring myself to bang fatties off tinder, but the only girls I actually approach are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:55 AM
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Why is being handy attractive in that way? It's got nothing to do with smashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:11 AM
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Is being handy not attractive in the same way like you said wealth is attractive? It'd be useful for someone you're trying to lock down to have, but for sexy time isn't hotness the most primal thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:10 AM
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I guess that kind of makes sense. It seems like the men who complain about women making them wait can't get sex elsewhere though. They generally seem to be not hot enough to be a FWB but good enough to be a relationship partner. They're the ones that what I said above would apply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:41 AM
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It's more like if somehow women could wear a skinny suit and the fat women were sliding under the radar, fucking men above their league, and men collectively said "It's ok if you don't wear your skinny suit, I love your curves." Then they think: "Ah, a fatty, goodbye."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:17 AM
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I'm asking because i'm wondering why the red pill makes approaching women sound so hard. In my experience women make the first move by flirting. How direct are we talking here? Isn't it obvious that it's not simple if the IOIs are super subtle and she's doing it from across the room?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:42 PM
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The life experience of someone who had an easy time dating in high school vs. the life experience of someone who never dated in high school is going to be vastly different and will most likely cause them to have different viewpoints. I could see both sides being red pilled or blue pilled. On one side, you have the dark triad Chad who has been red pilled from birth and dominated his way up the social ladder, then you have hot Chad who is oblivious to what the "right thing" to do is and everything…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:24 PM
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I think it's our perceived notion of self worth that stops some people from going to certain extremes. By this do you mean low self worth stops them from trying to tackle the problem from every angle, or a high sense of dignity stops them from going to last resort extremes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:12 PM
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Recently those things got shut down, but I have partaken. Heh I don't think paying for it counts as "getting laid". "Paying to get laid" is its own category that doesn't fall under "getting laid" to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:10 PM
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No Except if we're talking about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:09 PM
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Because men seem to discard you if you screw around too early The logic behind this is that they probably interpret you as being a slut. If you wait only for some guys, you're creating the illusion that you're not a slut to the guys you make wait, while you still are a slut for the guys who you want to discard you. One, it's, perhaps unintentionally, deceptive, and two, it's rewarding the behavior of those you want to discard so more guys will want to act like a guy you'd want to be discarded by…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 08:03 PM
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We have to suffer through all your bumbling and unpleasant quirks ahem... E N T I T L E M E N T
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 07:56 PM
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( ͠° ͟ʖ ͠°) Y would I date u if u offer the fuk e-z?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 07:51 PM
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You've seriously never seen a woman blow off an attractive guy? You guys seem to agree. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 07:47 PM
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A sad hot woman and a happy hot woman are still just as hot. This doesn't seem to be as much the case for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 05:14 PM
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Yet, when ideas such as "Toxic Masculinity" or male suicide is discussed - men are often prompted to open up more, ask for help, and talk about their feelings. So why don't they do that? It feels like bait to be disqualified sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 05:11 PM
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That sounds like it could be an common view, especially the: I develop attraction rather than feel it right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 06:30 AM
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we go down hard with our first heartbreak. You're not seeing aloof men who are "wired" against attachment. You're seeing men who got hurt really bad and learned to wall themselves off emotionally. Heeyy that's me. #metoo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 11:40 PM
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Anything in particular that stands out about the 5% that you notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 11:38 PM
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You'd find a way to have a problem if I was a complete ass kissing simp. "OH MY GOSH YOU WE'RE NICE TO ME. YOU MUST THINK YOU'RE ENTITLED TO SEX WITH ME. REEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:29 PM
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I think eventually you just don't give a fuck and can develop a negative abundance mentality, where rejection is just your natural state, so it's not a disappointment when you get rejected. Me personally, when I shoot guns, I'll twitch and be a little startled hearing the first couple of shots, but then your body just gets used to it. That's somewhat been my relationship with rejection, except acclimation to rejection stays with me, while I kind of have to get used to gunshots every time I exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 05:12 PM
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See you at the day of the beta uprising. REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 04:37 AM
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This would be good yes. I wanted to marry my first gf but she wanted to fuq around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 02:42 AM
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Hot people are the only group of people who for no reason gain a superior position in life. You can't feel sorry about them at all because they have everything sorted out for them. Uglies are literally the only people you can feel sorry for because they actually have shit in their life to feel sorry for. Hot people's lives could be infinite joyous orgies of epic proportions if they so choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:52 PM
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What is white privilege besides "having a family that earned and passed down their wealth" privilege? What is male privilege but "had to work for women while they stay home, but women would rather be slaves to a boss than their ugly husband because women are vain" privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:58 PM
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Women aren't polygynous. Of course they're not unless they're lesbians. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:36 PM
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I'm talking about the men who are in relationships who can't get sex any other way. They shouldn't be in relationships because they're just being used for their stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:28 PM
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Could b tru. And those men who can't get casual sex should just go MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:03 AM
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The overwhelming majority of all men can't get casual sex with 20 something hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 11:28 PM
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I'm not emotional attached to his physical fidelity Why do you care about other forms of fidelity then? Or do you? Why would you even get into a relationship in the first place if you don't care about fidelity? Physical fidelity is the only thing in a relationship with a woman I am emotionally attached to. If she had this "emotionally rich and fulfilling," "emotional affair," I would give zero fucks as long as she wasn't fucking anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 09:07 PM
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am into masculine shit, was once a Cool Girl. Now I'm just a regular girl who still likes dude stuff. I'm not as afraid to admit typically female vanities and motivations from time to time now, though. Can you give an example of a female vanity/motivation you tried to hide before?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 09:01 PM
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He means positive opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 02:07 AM
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So not like, a feminist chad who gives people advice that is the opposite of what he's doing with a big fat fake smile, and continues going about his business as a super pissed off masculine brutal intimidating man who has intercourse with all the females?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:56 PM
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Machiavellian feminists by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 08:36 PM
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I don't think this problem will ever fade, because the only real way for girls to get rid of that image is to act differently to the girl he was initially attracted to. If he fell for a kind, gentle girl - she needs to give him a cold, somewhat abrupt refusal. Why does it matter if she's attractive to him or not if she wants nothing to do with him? Can't she break her script for one second?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:30 PM
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Leniency to both genders for the sake of the men, and to reduce the cognitive dissonance in those women. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:21 PM
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I mean, it would be fucking great if people were (A) reducible to a few neat little boxes; you could then create a science of interaction and decision-making. I think you've taken the anti-systematization thing too far here. There's things you can be certain of. Let's say you start sobbing and crying about how hard your life is to a girl and how things are so tough for you and everything sucks. Will you just give me a chance archetypal girl? The answer will be no almost every time guaranteed. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:11 PM
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Do you spend more time talking with him or having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 04:52 PM
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Aren't you the one who isn't monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 12:59 AM
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The hip thing is bone structure issue, not chub.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 08:44 PM
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Is his face good looking though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 08:40 PM
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My love led me to existential crisis after I lost the woman, so I think I have you beat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 08:39 PM
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That can't be it. I'm sure there are men who genuinely loved you who you willingly ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:53 PM
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He's extremely good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:52 PM
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I feel like womenz love runs deep for good looking men, but then they just feeeeeel like it's love, when it's really all in the aesthetics and the good feelings women get when someone with superior aesthetics gives them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:50 PM
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I have just never met anybody before with whom everything seems to fit so well on so many levels. There is resonance physically and mentally. Are you sure this isn't just the sex talking? We are really different from each other and in some other very rare way, we are really similar. This is why we are both still in it, even though we have been difficult on each other. Do you think he's feeling this internal struggle or is it just you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 06:40 PM
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I'd invest that thousand into my stocks. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 04:35 PM
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Nice doggie :) But just so you know, if someone accuses you of something like that, you can sue the heck out of them and if it's a blatantly false statement that damages your reputation significantly, I think you'd win. The situation isn't as bad as you think, you've probably just been browsing MGTOW too much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 01:45 AM
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I'm talking about the man suing the woman for libel if the accusation is false. I'm not sure about the frequency of these things. I'm learning about this stuff in one of my college courses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 01:38 AM
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Well I wouldn't pay her, she'd pay me, so of course I'd be keeping my grand. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 01:07 AM
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Not just any claim though. They are subject to get sued if it's extreme enough and the person who the claim is about wants to go through with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 12:40 AM
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I'd take that one step further and say that even the non-manipulative phrases are manipulation because the word apple is not actually the thing itself. Also, if you tell me that an object is an apple, I have to choose whether I reject that statement, accept it, or ignore your statement. The creation of that forced choice is where the manipulation comes in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 12:29 AM
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This logic falls apart if you think about it. What are you trying to unlearn manipulation for? So that you're more successful with women. That makes it a manipulation tactic. Unless you're about to completely let go of being successful with women as a goal and go full zen mode and hope for the best, you'll always be learning or unlearning something so that you can achieve your goals. This is manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 12:24 AM
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Just looked her up. Did she lose some weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 12:18 AM
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Yeah so you cut people out who treat you bad. You at least have some conditions on who you do nice things for, and that's perfectly ok. Just like it's perfectly ok for a nice guy to do nice things, and then expect sex, and when he doesn't get it, he cuts you out, and goes to find someone to be nice to who will have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:36 PM
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That's basically what I was doing with this one girl before I found the magical TRP, waiting in the wings to become her bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:33 PM
2

Maybe there is a woman so ugly I would refuse, but I've never seen one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:20 PM
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I've never bought anything for anyone in a romantic context, only for friends, and I can understand unconditionally giving to friends. It just seems like a nice girl who buys me things would be entitled to be frustrated if I chose a bat shit crazy psycho who fucks me good over her. She really did put in effort to show she appreciates me. I wouldn't try to flip things on her and say that she shouldn't be so entitled for my commitment, wearing the shiny jewelry she bought me while fucking crazy bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 09:42 PM
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It's not necessarily that they owe you, but it's nice to get appreciated for your gifts isn't it? You'd feel even more motivated to give gifts to someone who rewards you wouldn't you? It's not that they owe you something, it's just that you'd be more generous to a person who returns the favor wouldn't you? Because that makes sense and it's part of a mutual relationship? Would you really give gifts to someone who treats you like crap in the name of being "unconditional"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 09:35 PM
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I could understand maybe rejecting the offer if I ever get to a point where I make money that fast anyway and I'm drowning in pussy, but right now it seems like a good deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:38 PM
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If you make money that quick anyway then I understand. But if you don't, and it's a dignity issue, then how is an extra thousand not worth fucking an ugly girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:28 PM
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$1,000 dollars is a lot of money for something as meaningless as fucking some ugly girl. How long is that really gonna take? Can you personally make money that quick doing anything else? It's a quick thousand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:24 PM
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But would you consistently buy shit for someone who gives you nothing in return? Eventually you'd feel used wouldn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:18 PM
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it's usually the idea that women owe men sex because the men are nice, or they give the woman things, buy them drinks etc. that is awful. That implies that a guy who does end up having sex with you has to do all those things and more or do something better, but really the reality is that they have to do none of those things and probably have to do less things for you than the other guy, so you'd think a woman would be getting a better deal having sex with someone who gives them stuff than someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:34 PM
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What you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:22 PM
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Do you think you would struggle if you were to get back into the game? What was your view on all this when you had the girlfriends and the hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:46 PM
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Is this out of some red pill shit of "No I'm too dignified of an alpha to stoop so low as to ugly girl! Why, I wouldn't come down from my royal throne even for $1,000,000!"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:34 PM
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Any specific event this fear stems from?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 06:03 AM
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no being around drunk women, no inviting women over, no private conversations with women Were you doing any of this anyway before you decided to "change"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 05:18 AM
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Why? The pussy's the same, and if she had nice enough hair, you could do her in doggystyle and just pretend she's hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:20 AM
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You're more paranoid about the rape accusation in this situation than the charge that's more likely to happen, the prostitution charge. You could easily get out of the rape accusation if you took her down with you and fessed up to getting paid for sex. Also you're not a celebrity, so while your name may be tarnished locally, you're not going to get the coverage they'd get. I'm going to be frank with you. Whenever I hear someone say they've chosen abstinence to avoid a rape charge, I question if …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:16 AM
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The first step is to be able to approach on demand to where your willpower in regards to approaching is stronger than your anxiety. I'm past the first step, now I just have to git gud. If you need any recommendations for how to not feel anxious during your approach you can ask me. As for carrying on a conversation with a woman, it's quite easy as long as you don't have a goal in mind. To succeed in goal-oriented communication with women I believe it would involve getting good. I could get any gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:02 AM
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I would argue that "just talk to more women" would eventually be the solution if you really did grind out approaches for days until you got good.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:25 AM
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Too scared of a false rape accusation. "Oh my gosh, he raped me and took $1,000 from my wallet." Sounds plausible. /s The second strange thing about this is that with that kind of answer, I get the sense that you'd think this situation would actually happen to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:21 AM
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You'd reject an ugly if she offered you $1,000?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:17 AM
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It's kind of like asking "Would you breathe air if offered $1,000 dollars?" The answer is: "You don't even have to pay me, but if you'd like donate money to my college fund and give me sex, I won't be one to stop you m'lady."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:13 AM
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U wat m8? Serious answer: Of course. I wouldn't feel used, abused, or insulted. It would be more about trying to keep a straight face if a woman offered me that. "Ah yes, I see you've noticed my superior genetic lineage, ummm, right this way miss, I will give you what you've asked for." If anything I'd feel like I was ripping her off or that she's being awfully generous. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:09 AM
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There’s nothing romantic or meaningful about the sort of encounters men in this sub seem to be talking about in threads like this. Which makes it bad in a different way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 10:12 PM
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And every single father is a no good lying scumbag who conspires against the mother and deserves to be fleeced?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:05 PM
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Can't you sue for libel or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:01 PM
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Can he sue her for the cost of the domestic violence classes and any other things that were unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:58 PM
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You know, I actually think it's the opposite. I think girls compartmentalize sex and relationships better. They have their fuck-zone guys and "relationship material" guys. I don't think guys have this automatic filter where one girl can't cross over to the other side because she's already firmly stuck in whatever category she's stuck in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:25 PM
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Ehh, women fuck men they wouldn't commit too, happens a lot, you're comment also kinda assumes that man is only going into an LTR for sex and that he can't get sex on the side. Like if I all I wanted to do was just fuck a guy, I'd just fuck him, why go full on girl game for him, there's no point. And this attitude toward sex and lack of commitment to one relationship style generates disgust. Even if you're like: "The guy was hot, but he wasn't relationship material because he's a felon." That me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:15 PM
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If I'm not a woman's best roll in the hay, I don't want to be her lifetime partner. It's for her sake and mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:06 PM
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I can believe things like dominant personality or maybe the power surrounding money, but it seems like the money needs context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 06:13 AM
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I thought you were going to say that MGTOW and incels are desperate, and that when women start making subreddits similar to that, then maybe there would be a basis to saying that women branded as sluts struggle to find fulfilling relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 05:00 AM
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I mean, that would cause an issue with me. Would it cause an issue with you if a guy was dating more than one girl at a time? I'd rather her be serious enough about me even before the first date to just only date me and not anyone else until she decides if I'm a worthy candidate or not. I'd be more comfortable with someone who takes a serial monogamy approach to the beginning stages and have her focus on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 02:18 AM
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Yeh that's basically it. Seeing sex as an itch that you just scratch with random guys while you're out of a relationship makes guys who can't do that jealous and takes the romantic aspect out of having sex with that specific woman. Also I think guys who commit to one relationship style would rather have the girl do the same than to "play both sides" so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 02:11 AM
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I thought this was going to be a point about how little they were impacted by the slut label but it was actually about the misogyny bit, but I think it could apply to both. Women aren't as desperate because they can get sex on demand so they're way less likely to hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:34 AM
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Well I intend on having plenty of money and women don't seem to "pick up" on any of my traits. They'll meet me once and go cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:48 PM
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TRP doesn't stop them from finding that other stuff. You're doing the exact shitty thing that this post criticizes, radicalizing the romanceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:28 PM
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Alright, I'll give you intelligence, but is that proven to be genetics or is there still a possibility that it could be nurture? Beauty has nothing to do with earning potential. You could be a basement dwelling mastermind behind a business with perhaps an attractive frontman, or you could be a stock expert. You can make a lot of money with an original idea as long as it gets rolling. Maybe beauty has something to do with a boss's selection of candidates, but no one can disqualify you from potent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:25 PM
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I've always perceived this as a backtrack argument. After someone has recognized the error of claiming everything they're attracted to is moral and good, and the things they aren't attracted to are creepy and bad, they self righteously claim what they're attracted to is beyond morals and indulge selfishly and for some reason they don't apply that to every other area in their life just so they can have enough leeway to not be called an asshole. If you're going to indulge your preferences to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:41 PM
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Yeah if they focus on it. People have different starting points economically, but that doesn't mean it's in their genes to be poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:31 PM
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Unless someone has a mental or physical disability, or were brought up with an ideology that teaches that wealth is for bad evil people, everyone has the genetic traits that are necessary to earn wealth. All they need is the knowledge on how to do it. It doesn't have to be literally in their blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:14 PM
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Just a criticism: "Men shouldn't go for young girls first." Very well, women shouldn't go for wealthier men first. People need to stop equating the wealth of a man with actual physical sexual attraction. Just think about it for a second. Women like good looking men just like men like good looking women. The "attraction" to money is purely logical. Do you think prostitutes get off on the fact that men pay them because "oh, they must have all this money if they're paying me to have sex with them"?…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 04:34 PM
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Not really, but I do have some connections and friends of that type. I could definitely try to put some effort into those relationships and try to get more as well as asking to attend some parties. My closest friends are of the more nerdy variety. I've been "day gaming". I suppose the party environment is easier though because in that context things are expected to go down?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 03:45 AM
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I want a bunch of FWBs. I'm physically fit. I play guitar. I don't know, what kind of stuff do I need to offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 02:50 AM
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Except I'm not Chad yet. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 01:03 AM
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But I'm agonizing over what I'm supposed to change. I'm not obsessed with who I am and would gladly morph into whatever form is necessary for me to become Chad, but it's unclear to me what it is I have to do. I can approach on demand, but none of my approaches are any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:57 AM
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I go out, fail, and then agonize on the internet asking wat dafuq is the trait I need to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:45 AM
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I find myself completly capable of attracting women but in the back of my mind there is this soft voice reminding me I am not goood enough or whatever especially in shallow environments(tinder,bars,clubs..), unfortunately what I want must be sought in those type of environments So wait, are you successful in those environments?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 12:40 AM
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They choose the best among the men pursuing them. That's as active as me pressing save to send this comment. The role of pursuer is much more active, whether women "choose" or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:37 PM
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Fair enough, I personally have found value in the free RSD videos as well. Your method is very interesting and very seductive to my tastes. How do you think unconditional self love helped you become successful with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:32 AM
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Me. Except she didn't. She was The One™ so nevermind, I wanna fuck around too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 05:41 AM
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is built on the principles of individual liberty, the primary of which is sexual liberty. Umm, I do not think this is what the founding fathers intended when they say "liberty". Sure, sexual freedom is all fine and dandy, but this country was not built on it. Little do they know that monogamy is completely unnatural and animals are not designed to be monogamous. Relationships based on obligations will always fall apart This is one of the things that was supposed to philosophically raise humans a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 05:38 AM
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Show me a 9/10 or 10/10 in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:09 PM
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Can confirm as a dood. She's pretty much at the point where any increase in attractiveness would be negligent due to diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:06 PM
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My point was he's about 195 at 5'11". Do you see that as freakishly body builder?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:55 PM
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Ah, what about Rocky Balboa though? ;) pic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:48 PM
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I'm not really good at knowing what to do in social situations. Generally the people I've known who have been "good at socializing" have seemed really fake to me, or lacking in depth. It's like they enjoy hyping up emotions, but they never really talk to you. The words they say are nothing but a breeze of emotion and just enough meaning to seem almost authentic. I notice when guys are predatory in a "don't be drunk and alone with him" way before he does This might be because of guys' strength. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:44 PM
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What are social SKILLS though really? I talk to my friends and genuinely listen to the things they have to say, and I can understand when they're being genuine with me or playing a game. Are there really social SKILLS involved in socializing? To me the concept of social SKILLS sounds autistic by itself because you're dissecting every little thing you're doing and "oh, now I have to utilize this social skill to make this person feel a certain way, computing..." The way I see socializing, social S…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:20 PM
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I'm at the sperg level of being able to have guy friends, but not girl friends. Why would girls disqualify that level of sperginess? Maybe I act more spergy around women, but idk. Usually when I try to lead things somewhere, it's a hard rejection, but when I'm detached and not caring where things go, people seem more intent on listening to me for direction, but then I don't have any directions to give them because I'm in a state of not giving a fuck. My friends are ok with me, but people I show …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:08 PM
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200lb body would be pretty good if it was lean muscle. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:30 PM
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Now let's reverse it, do you have any sense that these interactions that lack romantic feelings are unethical towards your future romantic mates? I can never imagine a scenario where the one you have romantic feelings for gets a better deal than the fuck-zoned guy. The circumstances of that relationship, besides the fact that, as a guy, you could be dropped on a dime, seem really good for not that much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:27 PM
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So basically he's not delusional nor naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 10:00 PM
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Ahh, that's interesting. Willingness to say anything is also unattractive? I always find myself on one side of an extreme. you can even be shy and nervous I don't believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 09:18 PM
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Can't tell if sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 09:15 PM
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I doubt the women who are into them like exclusively soft and sensitive sex. That's what you'd be getting from a "soft and sensitive" guy if his personality is consistent, wouldn't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:39 PM
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If you decide as a man that sex isn't very important to you at this time, you can "turn your libido off". I truly believe this. It's not like you'd die from lack of sex, I mean, look at the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:35 PM
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I don't understand how the desire to fix a bad boy is out of a "nurturing instinct". It seems like nurturing is normally given to the weak to become strong, not to the strong to become more subdued. If he's a psychopathic criminal, he's literally got nothing to be nurtured for. He's perfectly content in his psychopathy. You normally nurture someone who's not content.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:31 PM
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I'm 20 now and I have trouble believing this. Are you talking about a soft and sensitive guy who's somehow into rough sex for some odd reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:27 PM
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And this was part of the reason I got red pilled. After I was depressed after a breakup in high school where I did not have sex with the woman, one of my friends tried to comfort me by saying "Don't worry man, girls when they're younger have shallow relationships where they just use the guy for sex, but when they're older and they mature, they want something more serious." Now, I was a serious relationship minded guy, but that made me think "U fuking wat m8? Fuk serious relationships my dood." a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:24 PM
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That confuses my perception of casual sex because I thought not being soft was one of the requirements to get it. Is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:16 PM
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Yeh I imagine that the user doesn't usually feel that way, but I'm thinking of a situation where a girl is being played to think that she's using a guy for sex and holding back relationship, where the guy doesn't really want any of that and is actually getting everything he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:14 PM
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I guess I've learned to not want that from anyone because at any time everyone you know could abandon you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:12 PM
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Y can't I be this guy. Sounds awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:09 PM
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There doesn't need to be an aggressor for someone to feel empathy toward a person's problem. It's like being indifferent to a poor person who's got no money, but then caring about the rich man who's got too much money and doesn't know how to spend it. ;( "Whenever I spend a million dollars I always feel used." ;( the billionaire says sadly. "Whenever I can't afford the things I want I feel sad." ;( THE POOR ENTITLED SEXIST RACIST PIG SAYS AS HE'S RIGHTFULLY KICKED TO THE CURB!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:05 PM
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Rape is different from feeling used during consensual sex though. Most men would consent to a random offer of sex, that doesn't mean you're free to rape men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:59 PM
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Hmmm, the first picture I can see it, but the second picture I can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:56 PM
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Chad takes the red pill: "I just realized that I've been a beta orbiter to all these women. They've been using me for sex! Oh god, the horror!"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:52 PM
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What would be the personality limitations of this person keeping him from relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:47 PM
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Usually when someone says they're "using" someone for sex, it's implied that the sex is not mutually beneficially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 05:46 PM
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That implies that Chad can't have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 06:31 AM
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I've made an edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:32 AM
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Well, by hypothetical, I wasn't denying that he could be a real man, it's just that these problems seem so trivial to me. If women want to have no strings attached sex with me my whole life and think I'm unfit for a "real relationship", fuck it, I want that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:31 AM
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The really rich part about this is that you give him more empathy than an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:21 AM
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Do you have any sense that this is unethical of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:17 AM
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Do you actually feel like you're "tricking him" to have sex with you in the sense that "Haha, I got the best of you mister, I'm only using you for sex! HA! In your face!" If so, I don't understand you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:14 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:11 AM
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Lol and did you empathize with his OOh so horrible problem? Rich Person: Ohh I just have too much money. WOEE ISS MEEEE.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:06 AM
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The real question though is does a guy ever feel he's being used for sex? It just seems like a woman who feels like she's getting a one-up on a guy by having sex with him is a fool or that the guy that feels used by sex is a fucking dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 04:05 AM
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 03:59 AM
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This hypothetical man's problems could be put into a satire and I'd laugh my ass off at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 03:58 AM
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Describe this middle ground very specifically. Can you? Is it more toward one extreme or the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 03:49 AM
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They can't conceive children. I don't think they're as manipulatively intuitive as real women either. I wouldn't associate with them in a romantic context.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:04 PM
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It's easier to defend against mental attacks than physical ones. I mean, what preventative measures are you really going to take if you think all men are going to rape you? Why would you even associate with a man in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:51 PM
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It may as well be scientific fact if it actually works. Just because there isn't a study or universal agreement doesn't mean it's untrue. People thought the Earth was flat and that didn't change the fact that the Earth is actually round.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:40 PM
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All women are the same in some way that distinguishes them as women. Women can abuse their power as women, so this is why you assume that they would at the first chance they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:27 PM
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I wouldn't say that. All females have female nature to the same extent, it is simply a matter of how morally flexible they are when facilitating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:25 PM
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"All men are rapists" or "all men have the potential to abuse their wives" is not on the same level as "All women are cheating gold-digging whores". Accusations of rape and abuse are far more severe. We're talking about legal morally reprehensible actions versus illegal morally reprehensible actions. The only thing I'd say all women have inherently is a spectacular ability to manipulate the truth. That ability to confuse truth and reality in the male mind, is the magazine. A woman plotting to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:23 PM
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Therapy doesn't do anything. The mind is a transient thing entirely created by thoughts so if you're having trouble with your thoughts all you need to do is stop thinking. You do that through meditation. You can change your thoughts by yourself, especially if you're in a place where by default you have none. "Taking responsibility" and "working through issues" isn't actually how thoughts actually work. Some things are just true and shitty, so you have to stop thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:06 PM
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Passive dread is ethical because there's nothing you can do about it. If you're attractive to your mate you're probably attractive to others. In fact, according to preselection, another RP concept, you'd probably be more attractive to others because your partner finds you attractive so it turns into this giant self fulfilling prophecy. Are we discussing TRP or your hypothetical idealized (read fantasy) version of TRP? Dread and negging are the most common criticisms. Taking specific action is HO…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:02 PM
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Yeah and "taking the beating" is a healthy option. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:46 PM
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All guns hold bullets. All females hold female nature. It's best to assume a gun is loaded but it won't be necessarily. It's best to assume that a woman will use her femininity against you, but she won't necessarily. All guns have mags of some sort, that is certain, otherwise it would not be a gun. All females have female nature magazines and if some other man loads her with bullets, she might just shoot you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:45 PM
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But isn't being miserable and defeated even less attractive than trying to "fight back"? I know you'd probably like all the miserable virgins to just be miserable all alone, but most of them are probably going to try to change and they might even APPROACH YOU. *gasp* Muahahahaha ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:38 PM
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But honestly, I think the majority of male virgins are neither red/blue - they're just dudes who can't get laid without needing to build an ideology around it. I think that's a pretty optimistic view that "the have-nots are kind of just content with their lot while me over here I'll be content with my sex and love and there's really no difference between me and them and everyone is just in this happy zen place where no matter what happens to them they all feel just as happy with their lot as I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:25 PM
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Majority of self-identifying incels are probably "mentalcel" then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:17 PM
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I'm pointing out an empirical fact. Not sure what stereotypes have to do with it. If it's true it's true, but the non-TRP view is not the controversial view is all I'm saying. The way you said "turns out that isn't true" in reference to the idea that men cheat more than women made it sound like you thought that was some new insight that had never been stated before in popular culture. Men cheating more isn't something counter-intuitive, it's the default perspective. Actually, all of these concep…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 07:01 PM
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Of what use are you otherwise? Well, if you feel that way see you on the day of the gender war. /s Oh I got another one. If so, why do men still need women to "be sex objects"? Of what use are you otherwise? HO HO HO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 05:10 PM
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They have game then. Getting in shape is not going to hurt you, it can only help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:48 PM
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Men cheating more is the mainstream stereotype, so you're not exactly going against the grain or breaking new ground by saying that. Body language Vague concept. Confidence Vague concept. Social capital Vague concept. Approach Actionable concept. Name one thing unethical about TRP. To me, it turns all the vague concepts into more actionable concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 04:37 PM
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This is really strange, but when I haven't eaten a lot or got poor sleep or some other issue along those lines, I'll give more fucks about female promiscuity. If I'm well fed, usually I give no fucks, unless somehow I got on a thought loop, but I'm starting to question whether those only arise when I'm nutritionally imbalanced. As for the judgments I make, it's usually that I'd feel betrayed by a slut who lied about her past and feigned innocence. Sometimes an honest slut can be endearing, unles…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:23 PM
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What is the primary attraction trigger then? I wish it was something as specific as for men (ass n' tiddies) as it is for women so that you could know for sure whether you have it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:20 PM
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Do you know if it's easy to make a counterfeit study that looks official, but is actually politically motivated?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:15 PM
1

Are you aware if it's because you know you have the capacity to fulfill your sexual desires to their fullest extent, and therefore don't need to fantasize about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:09 PM
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Is there any arousal in the anticipation of a touch, kiss, or whisper? In other words can you be aroused by thinking about an attractive man making moves on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 05:02 PM
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So good looks doesn't give you an advantage as a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:53 PM
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Early 20's Still in puberty Wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:50 PM
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Partially, but we're not denying that players and playees exist are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:47 PM
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By average man I mean the type of men they would marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:31 PM
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Yes. For the good of womankind they are keeping the promiscuity secret on lock-down so that betas keep lining up to love them for the "pure innocent angels" they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 03:46 AM
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It's more like they don't reveal their sexual past because the average man would have an existential crisis over it. It's not necessarily malicious in nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 01:51 AM
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I have used tested best practices and have found that the Earth is flat. You can't criticize me because I've done the science thing. How can you criticize me when I put the word science in my response? You don't know my practices, but they're really good and I've done all the complex calculations for you so you don't have to worry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 01:41 AM
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Still, the womenz don't want the normies to know about their club escapades. One of the normies could be their husband in the future. Can't have them knowing about Chad, Tyrone, and Felipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 01:37 AM
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lol my instinct was to say something short like this as well, but I was going to say survey. Basically the same point is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 01:33 AM
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seeming needy tends to turn people off. why is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:53 PM
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Are you female by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 09:50 PM
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don't project im a massive misogynistic jerk 24/7 Woah man, we can negotiate here. I'll hand over the misogyny, and you hand over the sexiness. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:44 AM
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Everything is in its natural state given its environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:46 AM
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I'd love to see a flat earth guy ride up to the edge of the earth. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 02:37 AM
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Sometimes I wonder if you aren't a man. So you're certain she's a man? Hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 12:34 AM
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I don't understand this. To me it seems like one is breaking character when they practice this sort of thing. Which one is the real you, the BDSM submissive, or the woman for equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 11:22 PM
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I thought toxic masculinity was more like violent criminal behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 11:14 PM
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FACE LIKE ROCKY BALBOA u fuking wat m8?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:54 PM
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Empower yourself, but be submissive. This
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:30 PM
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But that's not something you'd criticize a woman for like toxic masculinity would be something you'd criticize a man for, that just turns her into a victim of society's expectations of femininity. Turning yourself into a victim when criticized might be an aspect of toxic femininity though. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:27 PM
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Is there a male equivalent of this particular person?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 02:37 PM
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My first gf was this. Does this directly translate over to the other gender? If not what is the equivalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/18 03:39 AM
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If you can generalize what a group of people want, couldn't you say that they probably want that thing for the same reasons, and therefore think about it the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 08:54 PM
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But what if say the confidence in your generalization is part of what makes it work? Whereas, if you were kind of wishy washy about it, it wouldn't be as persuasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:47 PM
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It's not practical for a guy who wants to talk to a lot of girls to capitalize on their differences. The most efficient thing to do would be to find what they all have in common and use it to consistently get what you want. When you're first getting to know a person you use the generalizations, but you need to know them to see their differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 06:49 PM
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If you're taking a pragmatic approach, it's important to have a predictive model. It might be an oversimplification, but it would be too hard to take every single little thing into account when it comes to seducing a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:48 PM
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What makes you think that it's beyond the motivation of me bumming off a rich woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:44 PM
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I just don't know what kind of nurturing you'd have to get as a child to see quick hookups as the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:41 PM
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What kind of mental dynamic is capable of quick hookups but not relationships? The way I imagine it is that you get good at relationships, then getting good at hooking up is the next level. Hooking up is the difficult thing, not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:18 PM
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Do they really actually like you more or would it be the same motivation as me bumming off some rich woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 03:59 PM
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That's where the ideological component comes in I'd say. It depends on how they conceptualize their virginity. If you've got a guy who thinks "Hey, porn is better anyway." He's not as likely to become a terrorist as someone who feels robbed of their sexuality, or someone who sees porn as indirectly cucking yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 05:38 AM
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I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that most of this kind of violence comes from sexual frustration and that women experience this far less than men so therefore do not have any pent up rage in the same capacity. The sexually frustrated also desire to prove themselves. Women don't need to prove themselves for sex. Extreme violence is a way for these men to prove they were wrongly put in the undesirables category.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 04:25 AM
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What's the difference in look aesthetically? I feel like my gym muscles generally look "natural".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:50 PM
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It could go that way too, I just feel like the way I tell it gives more empathy towards the nice guy. People often critique that the nice guy "shouldn't feel entitled to sex just because he's nice", which implies that nice is a minimum requirement, but really it's not a requirement at all. People who are not nice have sex. That's what should be critiqued and not the nice guy's "entitlement".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 07:13 PM
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That's not what I see as a bad boy. He's clearly not dangerous looking at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:42 PM
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Here's how it goes: Bad Boy bully beats up nice guy nerd Nice guy nerd justifiably thinks that he's an asshole Girl dates Bad Boy bully Bad Boy treats her nice Girl thinks she likes him because he's nice but she clearly could have picked nice guy nerd Nice guy nerd gets angry that the guys who beat him up all have girlfriends Nice guy nerd feels justified in treating women like shit because they're latching themselves to guys who beat him up Bad Boy bully continues to treat women nice because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/18 06:27 PM
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