oilsander Archive

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1	Need some help guys. I always found it hard to go go from friend /co-worker to anything farther than that. It also sucks too much to have your advances rejected and face that person over and over afterward. Knowing that, I would hesitant to try it. I always found it much easier away from your home turf. A lot of women in small insular communities actively look for men who are not from their area for a quickie or more as well. As I keep saying, be the handsome stranger in town, arousing the curiosity of the females i…	/r/seduction	01/03/16 11:41 PM
1	any tips on approaching conservative girls? You have a better chance with conservative girls if you are a stranger in town. They don't want to be intimate with people from their home area who will tell everyone. Small towns are great for these girls. Everyone else is in the "friend zone". That leaves the women for you.	/r/seduction	01/03/16 05:18 AM
3	Going out solo: an observation I ALWAYS went out solo. I ALWAYS had my own transportation as well. Having "friends" with you is a liability--you are less approachable and your friends sometimes even sabotage your efforts. One more thing: If you are in your early 20s, DON'T overlook older women 30s or even 40s. They know what they want and will go for it. A previous post you might be interested in: 1)Conventional pickup bars suck. Too many people, too much noise, lights flashing all over. And you're trying to be noticed in all…	/r/seduction	29/02/16 07:02 AM
1	What level of ugly is it time to stop approaching? Look at all the groupies who hang around the men in rock bands. Ever seen a dirty outlaw biker without a girlfriend? Women love ugly men.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 03:27 PM
1	Maybe I'm just doing this wrong but how do I get the energy to open at night This might sound weird, but instead of going out to bars, why not go walking with a friendly dog . All kinds of women will approach you "to pet the dog". Great way to initiate contact.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 02:58 PM
2	What's the difference between being a "pleaser" and being a "nice gentleman"? You become a submissive cuckold when you give endlessly and don't receive, and/ or are willing to tolerate just about any naughty behavior that she dishes out.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 02:38 PM
1	Maybe I'm just doing this wrong but how do I get the energy to open at night You don't have to talk to someone to enjoy their company,and vice versa. Most communication is non-verbal, anyhow. And why is it your fault if the conversation dies? Relax.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 02:28 PM
1	U.K. It's impossible for an ugly guy to be treated as a person by girls.... Nothing wrong with your looks. Why not visit an escort a couple of times just for the experience? It may make you more comfortable for when the time comes in the outside world.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 01:24 AM
1	Lacking emotional connection? Don't take dating advice from women, because they don't know what they want. Women used to say they wanted a man that was sensitive, but I never saw an outlaw biker without a woman. The fact is, the man a woman likes and the man a woman loves are different people. How far would you get if you told a woman she was kind of ugly but interesting to talk to?	/r/seduction	28/02/16 01:11 AM
1	First night out at a club... got rejected by everyone. I feel crushed... is this normal? Conventional pickup bars suck. Too many people, too much noise, lights flashing all over. And you're trying to be noticed in all this bullshit? Good luck. Go to a quiet bar with a regular crowd in a strange area where you don't know anybody. Go alone. Women will immediately be curious about who you are, and why you are there. Be the handsome stranger riding through town.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 12:41 AM
1	I think I blew it. (Attraction window expired) If she would't go to your room, what makes you think she wanted you in hers? As a man, you don't know. Maybe she was on the rag. Ask her out again before you assume.	/r/seduction	28/02/16 12:00 AM
1	[Question] When to move on If you have been hanging out with them, chatting them up and nothing happens, then nothing will. You are in the friend zone. Nothing will happen .Forget about them. Distance yourself.	/r/seduction	27/02/16 11:50 PM
1	A specific behavior I noticed at the bar She doesn't know you and you have gotten too close for her comfort level. She isn't ready to go nose-to nose with someone she doesn't know. You should have sat one seat further away if it was possible.	/r/seduction	27/02/16 11:38 PM