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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:32 AM
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I think generally speaking the PUA community was to seduction what Facebook was to socialization: good observations, bad execution Taking sociological insights and trying to apply scientific application The concept of negging for example is like an autistic person's understanding and application of flirting It'd take a much longer post to unpack all the bad approaches, but in sum what works better is taking positive sociological insights and applying them artfully without hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:31 PM
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Mocked by people who are nowhere nearly self developed as him to get a date with any girl, let alone one half as attractive as her, and who pay to watch him play videogames for a living. Beyond irony into parody.
/r/MensRights18/10/18 07:41 PM
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Yeah that makes sense, I didn't know if you were referring to a book or theory that had already been established somewhere that I could learn about.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 02:29 PM
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What is the "correct evolutionary politics" you're referring to? Not trolling, wandered into this thread and if I'm in a bubble or blue-pilling it then I want to be enlightened.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 05:29 AM
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This reminds me of a PUA guy I was introduced to in real life and who musta read the same thing somewhere. He would never. break. eye. contact. ever. Groups of girls just thought he was fucking weird because he did zero calibration with it/had no social awareness to tamper it down. He would be in the way of the bar service staff but because PUA would hold his ground and eye contact. Ended up going back to his ex that cheated on him.
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:02 PM
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Pardon my ignorance because I've never used Tinder, but I have friends who hook up off it. I thought the premise was you like a photo then meet up for discreet smashing? If so, why so much foreplay OP?
/r/seduction06/11/14 01:57 AM
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Yeah it's your brain giving you a cocktail of good emotions because it thinks you found a mate. Mindfulness and jerking off really helps.
/r/seduction16/09/14 01:32 AM
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I'm not. Thanks.
/r/seduction13/09/14 08:40 PM
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Ignore the haters and keyboard jockeys, negative emotions and harsh judgements are usually because of their own unmet needs. You provided tremendous value to the girl while both of you were having a blast, and you got to see her again. I've had women I pulled the first night that wind up being sweethearts, that I've dated off/on for years. If you're ever down South hit me up, we can go pimping sometime.
/r/seduction13/09/14 03:06 PM
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Smile. You'll feel better, people will respond better, which will make you feel even better, and so on.
/r/seduction06/09/14 11:35 PM
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Great advice, I'd just add to keep a smile throughout. Especially at the point of "How original (roll eyes). Show me then".
/r/seduction06/09/14 11:34 PM
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The momentum you built up is awesome, and to anyone who's done it before, going out that often is truly a herculean effort. Great work, and you had fun, so it didn't feel like work! I don't want to be the tunnel at the end of the light, but please don't give up when your peaks inevitably turn to valleys. I've always found that a large amount of exposure over a short period of time, followed by short periods of exposure over a large amount of time to be the best way to implement and keep a habit.…
/r/seduction03/07/14 10:55 PM
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Very true. My enjoyment of "game" increased a lot once I got away from other PUA's who'd just analyze me and themselves the whole time, and started hanging around guys who could let loose. They are great guys, and I'm still friends with some of them, but having to explain my reasoning for moving my arm left and up vs right and up was exhausting.
/r/seduction26/06/14 05:18 PM
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"Either way, I don't give any fucks about their opinions on what I've done and I'm here to share what I've learned from this." I think you're leaving yourself closed off to potentially valuable feedback by having this mindset. You seem to have a chip on your shoulder in general, there's some defensiveness and an anger that detracts from what you've been able to do here. That said, you've been able to do a lot in a small amount of approaches. It looks like you're doing the game that works for you…
/r/seduction14/06/14 04:16 AM
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I've had experiences where I forgot the girl's name, and she has ripped my phone out of my hand and put it in or one time took a pen and wrote it on my hand. This has happened on nights when I'm in state and talking to a lot of women. It shocked me when this started happening, then I realized it was probably a high status event. If a rock star didn't remember a groupie's name he took backstage, with a bunch of others, do you think she'd run away in tears? She realizes there's competition and jus…
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:49 PM
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A mindfuck will be when you get really good at this, and girls who are super into you think you're even more of a challenge because you actually don't remember details like this about them. But it's very situational, context, and state dependent that occurring naturally when you've been hitting it hard for years. Do not attempt as a tactic.
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:27 PM
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Just say 'my bad' and move on. No need to say sorry. It's overused, and no one should feel genuine sorrow for an accidental bump. Guys that are having issues with social anxiety may feel worse running into people saying sorry all night. The way we go right to the most extreme connotation for our words some times is likewise ridiculous. Sorry should be reserved for situations like 'really sorry for your loss.', i.e. genuine regret and remorse.
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:22 PM
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This guy is scary good. Saw one of his Hot Seats and some of it was downright shocking.
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:23 AM
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Right - it is an exaggeration and a newbie wouldn't be able to discern exaggeration from hard-fast rule because of lack of experience/education. If the real life experience is not calibrated and guided in the right direction -which could be the case without proper context - then the experience could potentially be very counterproductive and scare them off from further experiences. There's also other variables your blanket statement misses: where does this 24 hr real life experience take place? I…
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:18 PM
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As to your thread title: Not really. Potentially very counterproductive advice for newbies. Impossible blanket statement to make and quantify. It's like saying you'll travel further in the right direction in one day of walking vs six months of planning the route. If you're not heading in the right direction, then the amount of walking is irrelevant. The truth is for some people "just doing it" may be more effective, given consideration to all other factors, over studying. And vice verse with all…
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:18 PM
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L.A.?
/r/seduction01/03/14 08:49 AM
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Source for your claims about how most guys end up?
/r/seduction29/10/13 03:33 PM
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Most guys can relate to this because its what most guys do, and not all of it is bad, at least in moderation. Some of what he says is in the right direction, but a lot of it is an angry regurgitation of Fight Club with no real specifics. I would be interested in learning what a 19 yr old blogger from Ireland has done that would give him the spiritual authority he appears to be coming from. He's a teenager.
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:59 AM
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Really great technique. Reminds me of a similar technique in cognitive therapy, where you imagine and meditate on specific issue bothering you. You then zoom out of the image and see yourself there in the image. Then you turn it into a snapshot, drain the color out of it, and float on. It helps to minimize and disassociate the emotional turmoil from a scenario that was/is bothering you.
/r/seduction24/10/13 12:00 AM
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Hey man, it was your own fault. After all the first rule was: Don't talk about the secret society. Though seriously, how do you get so upset about negative feedback?
/r/seduction17/07/13 10:30 PM
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Thanks. The link to Tyler's video where he approaches this topic, if anyone is interested: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xKoJJ1UnQmI&feature=c4-overview&list=UUD4xqm6vJ3K4ntppsE1jL4g
/r/seduction17/07/13 04:40 PM
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Tyler from RSD has a short bit of good advice on this one. Basically, when you're out approaching/seducing, you want to keep the independent mindset. However, when you're attempting to build a relationship, it should be a interdependent mindset you're coming from. You can't be assertive and put yourself first in a long term relationship and expect to have a healthy, happy relationship. You've traded in a lifestyle of independence and flings in for a lifestyle of cooperation and commitment. There…
/r/seduction17/07/13 12:03 AM
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Real solid advice, and I follow a similar pattern of watching the same infield footage. Even before I go out, I'll brush up on it by watching infield footage. And meditation is really helpful. Best way meditation works for me is to sit still for 20 minutes. Thoughts will come at me, but I will just continue to breathe in to a 1, 2, 3 count, then exhale to a 1, 2, 3 count. Eventually the oncoming thoughts lessen, and I will reach a state of boredom. Which is, of course, just another state. Once I…
/r/seduction04/07/13 12:00 AM
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It depends on the video and the audience he's making it for. Sometimes he has chill videos about internal game, approaching, etc. then other times he has these high energy videos to address a certain topic. I've seen it where he's just gotten out of the club and has been on a high. He even talks about how he's in a period of productivity where he's putting everything out, no filters just pure authenticity. There's bound to be something in a mass release of content that people aren't gonna like. …
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:28 PM
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