okamiibnida Archive

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2	Stay at home wives, what do you wear in winter that is comfortable yet feminine? not a sahw, but I live in a very cold and windy city. What I found works best is a few pair of thick leggings that look like my skin tone when I wear tights (not the ones with all the little fur inside, just thicker than an average legging). I wear a bunch of dresses or skirts and use big t-shirts as dresses with those leggings and some safety shorts (just to hide the ugly seams and avoid them riding down lmao). Since they are so thick, they are warmer than regular leggings which is much appreci…	/r/RedPillWives	22/12/23 07:12 AM
1	Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men? Masking	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/23 01:17 AM
1	Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month. Well, I am Spanish and many times I've heard my friends vent about how it was impossible to do anything right in their relationships, they didn't feel important, they felt like there was no point in having small acts for their partners because no matter what there was always going to be something wrong with it... My boyfriend is American though, we are LDR. He's actually the most thoughtful and caring person I've met! He makes sure to wish me good night every day before I get in bed, and he will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 03:41 PM
2	Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month. maybe it's cultural then, because my friends feel like this and have talked about it a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 02:58 PM
6	Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month. I'm sorry but, why would you not want to show equal interest and appreciation to a potential partner? Most of the time guys are more romantic and caring when they also feel loved and cared for. If your financial situation is worse than the guy's, I understand not being able to pay for half of it but, showing actual intention still means a lot to them. You might not be able to pay for a night out but I'm sure you can cover one round of drinks or the junk food for a movie night. The sex part? Most…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/23 06:40 AM
5	Awkward sex question Use a lot if lube! Maybe even talk about including a massage in foreplay to help you relax. The first time's pain can also be psychologically making you tense up. Have a discussion with him to take it easy and definetly not seriously! the more you laugh during sex, the better communication you two will have! Check what time of the month you are in, the cervix sits higher or lower depending on your hormonal cycle too. If he's too big you could buy toys that lead up to his size, maybe at least one…	/r/RedPillWives	24/07/23 06:10 AM
6	[CMV] Girls who participate in online dating are not to be taken seriously because they don't take guys seriously. I met my partner online! and we actually live in different countries. I had probably matched with 5? 6 guys? before him but none of them were even able to have a nice conversation, it was all too shallow. He's told me I was the first profile on his discovery page and we inmediately hit it off. He was able to visit me 7 months after and it's been well over a year since we became exclusive and 5 months since we became a couple! And about vetting, we already swipe left way more often than men, we j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/23 09:51 PM
1	Do you share location w ur bf I like someone having my location, specially when I get off work late at night. We decided to use life360 and he used the free notifications on my house, my workplace and my dad's place. We are LDR in different countries, so it gives him a sense of being able to protect me better and knowing I am safe. He also makes it a point to send me a "welcome home" text before I can even tell him I made it home. It also allows me to see what he's up to so I can call him if he's home or wait if I see he's o…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/06/23 01:10 PM
1	I keep getting asked “why” with why I don’t want a full time job or career :( I would probably say something along the lines of "I value my personal growth over my professional growth. There are plenty of fulfilling things to do in life outside of these four walls, and I am lucky enough to have the chance to experience it!" I think it's soft enough to be amicably but gets the point across!	/r/RedPillWives	27/06/23 12:41 PM
9	CMV: The take-away shouldn't be that "women think 80% of men are below average"; it should be that "women suck at rating men systematically". 100%! The moment I saw my boyfriend, I thought he was very handsome, but I didn't find him attractive because he gave off fuckboy vibes in his pics. We started talking and I was inmediately whipped because of his personality. You can be the hottest dude in the world but if you don't fit into the type of looks and personality I find attractive, you're gonna be a 3 in my books.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/23 02:57 PM
5	The modern dating dynamic is extremely uneven and it only seems to be getting worse I'm Spanish, this is true! I am only gonna be able to afford being a mom because my partner is foreign and we can have a better life in his country 😶😶	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/23 08:30 AM
1	Do you agree with the belief that women don’t have to change themselves or dedicate significant time and effort to self improvement to have the relationship they want? A good and healthy relationship should always make you grow as an individual. You should be with someone you admire and look up to, which should be a motivation to follow their lead on whatever aspects they have/are that you also wanna achieve. If you communicate properly, differences and rocky parts of the relationship should also shape you into a more understanding person, or help you reinforce boundaries!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 05:18 AM
1	American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men. I haven't really been to the States but I am dating an American guy. His past partners sound like a total nightmare of abuse and entitlement (althought you will never hear him bad mouth them), specially his ex wife. On the other hand, he's the perfect partner. He's from the south, kinda traditional, so he takes chivalry very serious. He's very attentive and memorizes Every. Single. Detail. about me, he can anticipate what I'll say or what I'll do like, 90% of the time lol He's also a good listen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/23 04:55 AM
2	How do you know if he’s worth it? hello! super newbie here! I was also at a huge loss last year. I had lost all faith in men until I met my now boyfriend, who has basically made it impossible for me to find another partner if we were to ever break up (which I doubt lol) hell, he's even made me realize some stuff a man should be like that I hadn't thought about! First off, like you said, you are supposed to be a partner, not a mother. There's nothing wrong with wanting to take care of your partner, but it should be mutual and an …	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/23 12:11 AM