okashiikessen Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Walking around streets You're in your own head too much. I mean, I get it. I do it too. But, for example, there was an AskReddit or something earlier this week where women were asked how they feel about glances. You know... catching a stranger noticing their ASSets. The general consensus was that glances are fine; just don't be a creep. Some acknowledged that they're aware that it's often involuntary or even admitted that, hey, they enjoy a quick look at other women, themselves. So looking up and doing the polite smil…	/r/MenSupportMen	21/05/22 07:43 AM
1	How to Become a Man? Thank you, sir. I hope you're doing well. Thank you for taking the time to talk today.	/r/MenSupportMen	20/08/21 05:26 PM
2	How to Become a Man? See, my concern there is that this shouldn't be a rule, either. It's general advice, at best. Marriage is just legal paperwork and perception. It doesn't change the relationship, itself. But the perception is important - if a guy just puts his foot down on some arbitrary age because he heard it on reddit, his partner is going to leave because s/he's not being heard. Every relationship is unique. The only hard rule that might apply universally is to communicate with and listen to your partner. Bu…	/r/MenSupportMen	20/08/21 02:47 PM
1	How to Become a Man? I'm glad you're hear to share your experience. I appreciate that. Not many older men can recognize that men need support. Period. But there are serious systemic changes underway. Society has started to recognize that men need psychological and emotional support. There's still a lot of work to be done, but as long as we reinforce the effort, progress will be made, and your statement will inevitably be wholly false. All of that said, OP did state he's from the Philippines, and I don't believe thei…	/r/MenSupportMen	20/08/21 02:33 PM
2	How to Become a Man? I'll grant that you're not wrong. Traditionally, men don't get the support they need. But times are changing. The taboo of men having emotional or psychological needs is dying off. The presence of this sub is evidence of that. Granted, tools like Matt Walsh exist, but that mindset is on its way out. I just think it's harmful to tell a young man that men are "always alone". I get what you were going for now, but the phrasing just sounds so jaded. And without elaboration, leads young men towards s…	/r/MenSupportMen	20/08/21 02:13 PM
1	How to Become a Man? Okay, serious problem with #5. You can't game a relationship. There's no reason to hold off on marriage until after 30. And you are, most certainly, not "always on your own as a man". I mean, did you really just say that? That sort of attitude is exactly what leads to the thing he's complaining about his father doing. Everything else I've seen is great - this whole thread has been super wholesome and I'm fucking loving this sub. But chill the fuck out on this idea that there's any substantial di…	/r/MenSupportMen	20/08/21 12:12 PM
5	This is a 23 year old man crying out for help It's hard. You care for this person, you've tried to help this person, and she has been helpful for you in the past. But it also sounds like she has become too you what her two friends are to her. She's a toxic influence now. And it's probably the last thing you want to do, but you may need to distance yourself, at the least. Cut her out at the most. My wife and I had a friend, call her Jade, in high school who was in trouble quite a bit, and definitely had family issues at home. She was one of …	/r/MenSupportMen	05/08/21 03:25 PM
1	Do women live off men's taxes?!?! Yeah, I still don't believe that line explains everything. Again, pay transparency is not a thing that exists right now. And I'm not saying that EVERY company does it, and definitely not that many companies do it consciously. But I've yet to see actual evidence that the pay gap doesn't exist. Also, I know a few women who might knock your block off for saying women choose "cushy" jobs.	/r/MGTOW	17/10/19 08:58 PM
0	Do women live off men's taxes?!?! Wow. Never start your response with a logical fallacy. Men also choose to work at jobs which are emotionally rewarding. The emotions just might be different. My cousin is a welder, and he loves the shit out of it. He would fucking die in an office job - but, believe it or not, there are some people (men AND women) who enjoy office jobs! Dale Earnhardt didn't get into racing because it was financially rewarding. He did it because he enjoyed working on cars, racing them, and to follow in his d…	/r/MGTOW	14/10/19 08:44 PM
1	Do women live off men's taxes?!?! No, it checks out: Men make more money -> Men get taxed more Women make less money -> Single mothers more common than single fathers -> Single mothers more likely to have to fall into safety nets -> Women on average pay less into tax buckets And I fail to see how this should be anything to get caught up on because you're just confirming the equality that has been stated to exist - you're just not looking at the root causes.	/r/MGTOW	14/10/19 03:54 PM