okaysowutnow Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Problems following up after initial open		okaysowutnow	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 01:52 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Problems following up after initial open I agree. Ultimately it's up to me to make something of it. I just women would reciprocate even just a tiny bit more instead of just silently clutching their precious veto power	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 09:11 PM
1	Problems following up after initial open I mean I do care about things, but unlike a lot of people I meet I just don't keep a list of them on me to spout out during conversation. I don't define my identity by attaching band names and movie quotes to every conversation, I don't practice how to talk. I do care but I think caring is born out of being present for the current moment, to CREATE conversation worth participating in and not just having topics on reserve like your in an interview or something. I care about creating the moment IN…	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 07:17 PM
2	Problems following up after initial open This is probably part of it, I'll admit. As a fallback I try to be funny, to make fun of things, not to sound like an asshole or like I'm better than anyone, but really just to take down the needlessly nervous energy that surrounds so many millennial social interactions. Everybody will seem so tense, self-conscious and wary of every little comment or gesture. They're seriously handicapped.. SO in response to this I just say what the fuck ever. I think people get offended though. If my options ar…	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 07:05 PM
3	Problems following up after initial open cool. thank you	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 04:24 AM
2	Problems following up after initial open Are you trying to say I shouldn't drink or something? I don't live in two different cities or have stories about buddies going to jail or anything like that. I don't think telling the same story 500 times just in case some new girl around you hasn't heard it yet is really charisma, especially if they're ones like the Panera Bread story. It's great to hear your stories about getting poon man but just telling me I want to be boring and to learn your version of charisma really does nothing to help …	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 04:04 AM
3	Problems following up after initial open Uhh.. So all women at bars are self-medicating lost causes? I find that hard to believe. I can't tell if you're paddleboat story is meant to be serious or not. I don't have anything that comes anywhere near the mysteriousness of casting off on a paddleboat at sundown. I don't have a paddleboat, or a plane or even a motorcycle for that matter. I just have a car and go to school on land like a boring fuck This post also wasn't meant for finding hail mary plays for scoring one night stands, I'm jus…	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 02:42 AM
2	Problems following up after initial open If we seem to hit it off okay I at least try to set up another time to meet, usually something casual like lunch or a show or something. But for the purposes of this post I'm really just talking about pre-date conversation with someone I've just met at like a bar for instance.	/r/askTRP	22/02/16 02:20 AM