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Appreciate the thought out reply. I definitely need to update my pics, and am just coming out of the trying to be aloof over text phase. Out of curiosity, when someone gives a far out date like that (granted just a week away vs this weekend), do you wait for her to text you I am assuming? BP me would have texted a day or two before to make a date, but I feel like leaving the ball in her court will show you if she is interested or not.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:59 PM
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I was trying to go with advice from another thread that talked about being direct and making demands. so "Tell me" vs "Let me". In your opinion, would I have been better with something like "well I am going to X later, meet me there" or something more like Baddaman's response "maybe... what makes you think i'd be so eager to meet up ;)" to build tension. First few back and forths, build tension vs. tell her location and time
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:55 PM
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Thank you for the reply, I think yours would definitely have worked better haha. I need to remember to be the prize and not just show that I can pull triggers.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:53 PM
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Thanks man, that's definitely why I am still thinking about it. Will go ahead and put this out of my head. Thanks for the feedback
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:51 PM
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That's a great point.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:49 PM
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Any chance you have it off hand, or remember who submitted it? I am looking for it now
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:32 PM
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I agree with this, and posit that it could have been an opportunity to invite her over for a Netflix and Chill situation. That being said, you will want to have your close game strong so she doesn't just come over to cuddle, or at least make it obvious to her "I was going to go to bed, but there's room in here for 2"
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:16 PM
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You should put a post on this. Granted I'm against lieing, but as long as it doesn't cause anyone harm, and its on an app like Tinder, then who cares. My Tinder game could be much improved with some real life examples, so if you have the time please share. At this point I am either going to hard, or taking to long, still trying to hone in on how to not waste my time and not push potentials away too quickly.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 04:14 PM
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Shit my bad, I posted it while reading asktrp and assumed when i posted it would put it in the same sub I was reading. Is there a way to move it over?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 01:37 PM
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That is good to know, thanks for the reply
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:25 PM
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This is what usually happens. First ones a quickie, 5 minute turn around time, then I can go for about 45m. Just figured the first one would cause a girl to giggle or some shit
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:14 PM
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Also, one main reason I will master bate is if it has been a while, and I don't want to finish to early. Any advice on that? I have heard that cardio can increase the time, but nothing worse than being with a girl and feeling like you going to cum in 2 minutes just because its been a little while
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 11:25 AM
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I think this is the right way forward. Radio silence works, but you most likely will come off as butthurt if you normally are texting her. I would go with an out of the blue: "I'm bored, entertain me" and when she replies, if its one of those boring conversations "That's boring, I thought you were going to entertain me?" Feel free to change with your degree of "Fake fight initiation". But she wants to be riled up for sure. This girl is just bored, so you need to create a situation for her to pla…
/r/askTRP06/04/16 05:23 PM
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I actually have this same problem going on right now with girl from OKC (actually found a lot more luck here than Tinder somehow). We have tried to plan 2 different things and the conversation goes something like: "what are you up to on X date/today" "I am off work today and don't have too much going on" "Ok lets do x" "I can't meet then, I am going to my nephews birthday, insert im busy reason here" She works at a hospital, and is very involved with family, so I get why she is busy, but the con…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 05:05 PM
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ahhhhhh that makes total sense
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 07:11 PM
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What would I have done from the get then that would have started me out in good frame? I wasn't paying too much attention to her at the start, and it all seemed fine until other dude showed up and we left for the third bar. I was even talking with other girls at the bar ie. demonstrating value/demand, it wasn't until around midnight when this started heading south
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:15 PM
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This is the feedback that I needed. Thank you man for setting it straight and not sugar coating it as well. not to say any of the other responses aren't also valued.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:11 PM
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I am not so sure about this, I didn't lose frame until 1:30 in the morning when my patience ran out. But either way your probably right, I think I needed to up the "don't give a fuck attitude" and just got too drunk instead. Appreciate the reply
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:08 PM
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Your totally right. It wasn't happening the entire time, just toward the end (being like 1am or so). Once it started happening I started to realize it and left, but should've been able to pick up on it sooner. My friend telling me I had a shot the whole night didn't really help either.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:07 PM
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