okthatsmyusername Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
46	Debunking Gender Myths: Surprising Findings on Female Privilege in the Judicial, Professional, and Social Spheres 🚺💼🔍	Social Issues	okthatsmyusername	/r/MensRights	07/10/23 04:42 AM
10	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ?		okthatsmyusername	/r/seduction	03/07/20 09:47 AM
8	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work		okthatsmyusername	/r/seduction	05/07/20 09:06 AM

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1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Yeah true nothing can ever replace real life interactions ! Damn that sucks for them that's way I always try to not "fall in love" just be interested but not attached because otherwise you end up giving everything paying a bunch of stuff investing all that you have and then when she tired of you she throws you away and your left feeling that you wasted so much emotionally/physically/financially on somedbody who doesn't care that much about you Well then it's not on purpose I try to not pedestali…	/r/seduction	06/07/20 08:26 AM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Oh yeah sure sorry if that's what it looks like I meant 1000% never but a girl on a pedestal or she'll just use you and throw you away I agree with that also that's exactly why I want to meet irl to know her more and yeah talking in real life is wayyyy better I agree with all that That's just not the way they seems to take it no matter what I say if I try to set up something they will think I want something from them hell you know sometimes you just talk to a girl randomly and she thinks you wan…	/r/seduction	06/07/20 08:18 AM
–	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work I see though you don't have to text her "all day long" and I think setting up the date while getting the number/social might be a good idea but that idea of "He who hesitates, masturbates" come on I'm not sure you just come up to a girl get her social/number and right away go in her pants. Like it might work for some but most that I know will get instantly turned off by the guy not even knowing her that much straight up trying to fuck her right away.	/r/seduction	06/07/20 05:43 AM
–	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work I don't think you understand I agree with you on texting "too much" but I just feel like this "Alpha Male Me You Now" approach doesn't really work for me How old are you ? For me it looks like they do need a bit of time and know you're really interested into her and not just the guy that just wants her booty but again to each his own if this works for you that's great I don't know why it's different for me but thanks !	/r/seduction	06/07/20 05:38 AM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Yes thanks mate you too !	/r/seduction	05/07/20 04:24 PM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Yeah bro I feel you it can definitely give you a bad look I guess maybe it works better with older women in certain particular settings but overall I think they just see you (or me) as some guy that just wants to fuck her or get physical without caring really about them and that is ofc an automatic turn off	/r/seduction	05/07/20 04:17 PM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Thanks man ! Yeah sometimes the things we read are a bit misleading but I guess it's trying things keeping what works throw away what doesn't and thankfully you guys give your advices	/r/seduction	05/07/20 04:13 PM
–	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Hahaaa I live in Reunion Island it's a french ex-colony in the middle of the Indian Ocean and yeah don't worry for me I think (hope) I'm fine I think you're right if you look up legal texts you might find something about it but in reality it happens all the time everywhere I've seen 23-24 years old guy be with 14 years old girls ofc I'm not willing to go that far but I would say anything roughly around my age or more shouldn't be to much of an issue it might be more where you live	/r/seduction	05/07/20 04:10 PM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Well it's always better to have a life for sure	/r/seduction	05/07/20 01:34 PM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Yep for sure plus I'm just making theories here but although it can work a lot of times setting up something riiight away makes you seems a little bit desesperate/agressive don't get me wrong you should do it sometimes but when you feel like she needs a bit more time and you force it with this "I set up date now either you come either fuck you" alpha male mentality I just think it makes you come off more as a weirdo and less like a human	/r/seduction	05/07/20 01:33 PM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Yup thanks makes more sense to do it that way !	/r/seduction	05/07/20 01:16 PM
2	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Thanks man I abso-fucking-lutely agree on setting things up when talking irl it seems so right to me since that's the moment where you really got her attention, just made a good impression and she can't bullshit you as much as via text I also think texting to know more the person is sometimes good anyway it feels good to see that I'm not the only one who think that "text only for logistics " is not always the best idea	/r/seduction	05/07/20 01:15 PM
–	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work Thanks you both ! Honestly I'm not that much of a social media guy I do have some cool stuff but not much and no stories hell I even though not so long ago about erasing all my social because it's all fake fake people fake friend and it change your view of womens (instathots) I use it to talk to people when it's not possible physically or when I'm not out and that I don't go to school because at those time I have less time to have longer concersation with people around IMO it's a good tool but i…	/r/seduction	05/07/20 01:09 PM
1	Texting only for logistics doesn't seems to work I understand it's true that if she sees you like this that's a good thing	/r/seduction	05/07/20 10:59 AM
1	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? True	/r/seduction	04/07/20 03:39 PM
1	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? Hmm ok that's good to know I'm not necessarily trying to get in their pants but I understand what you say I'll change that Thanks	/r/seduction	04/07/20 08:44 AM
–	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? Alright so what do you think would be better ? It seems crazy that to me that I need a reason to know somebody's name but I'm not saying you're wrong it's interesting	/r/seduction	04/07/20 04:20 AM
1	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? That's interesting I tried this kind of approach before but I felt like it would almost never work as good because they would get freaked out by the fact that a stranger just come up and ask for their social/number or maybe they felt like it's weak to ask those things to somebody you don't know overall I would say that if I do that they seem to not trust me at all compared to trying to talk about other stuff and redirecting the convo to social/phone number But I think you're right though it shou…	/r/seduction	04/07/20 04:17 AM
2	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? I think that's the best advice I had today I do feel that when I talk with people that know me with some girls around they tend to be more kind/open to me as opposed as cold approaching I guess as you said it's a trust thing they trust the mutual friend mutual friend trusts me so they don't view me as bad Thanks !	/r/seduction	03/07/20 01:33 PM
–	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? I don't mind the "your skills sucks" it feels a bit rude since you don't know much about my approach but I would absolutely like to hear what you think I can do better ? "Get better" is super generic same as learn "real results oriented conversation skills" So you think I should be going straight to "result" like a phone number, social media, etc I tried a bit of that but I felt like it didn't work that much for me since it made them feel that I talked to them to "get them", or had some kind of …	/r/seduction	03/07/20 01:29 PM
1	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? Theorically in France, but truly in Reunion Island wich is a ex-french colony it's an island in the middle of the Indian ocean but I think I see what you mean like I see this here too I think a big amount of them arr either spoiled or just have never aproached somebody like that so I guess they just feel like you're automatically some weirdo if you talk to them I think maybe situation might be a factor too say if I see the person everyday where I go or if we are in the same group for some reason…	/r/seduction	03/07/20 01:21 PM
–	Are most girls just fucked up people or am I doing it wrong ? I understand though most of the time I approached girls that were hanging out without masks and sometimes close to other peoples like no real distancing but I think what you see is definitely true there must be some of that I've also heard about the harassment part but how fucked up some guys yell stupid shit and act crazy so I get treated like shit because I want to say hello and ask how are you Maybe I should just stop with girls and just improve my life and comeback to it one day or not Thank…	/r/seduction	03/07/20 10:52 AM