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Thank you, I was on archive.is but I couldn't find it there. Also thanks for all your advice and content you give to the other members, much appreciated man!
/r/askTRP24/05/16 08:03 PM
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Interesting, I haven't tried it. I've overt criticism mostly to shut down conversations I don't want to get into. Or over the top sarcasm to show I don't care what she's talking about. I always use cooking as a neg. It's hilarious to me that I can cook better than most girls.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 06:21 PM
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Good advice, keeping that mystery and value up. I try to stay to radio silence between times that I see my plate. Conversely, women want to be desired by a high status man.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 06:07 PM
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Great advice as always /u/abdada I'm gonna reclaim some of my personal time back and have her associate me with fun and adventure.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 06:00 PM
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It really depends on you and whenever you feel like leaving. I've had nights where I bailed at 2am and turned in for the night after my 1 more drink. If you got stuff to do tomorrow weight the importance of it against getting fucked up...which in all likelihood you're just gonna drink and get fucked up again next weekend anyway. And like everyone else says, have fun! College is whatever you make it out to be.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 08:22 PM
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Some advice I wish I had when I started college. I passed what I learned to my younger brother. Time management and prioritization will be your best friends. If you put in a little bit everyday you'll never have to worry about your classes. (granted it depends on your major) Put yourself above everything else. Be social, it's another chance to reinvent yourself completely to the person you want to be. Go to any campus event that even interests you in the slightest. Join intramural sports whether…
/r/askTRP10/08/15 07:32 PM
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Whoa, I'm quite surprised your post didn't have much comments or visibility. I'm glad I stumbled upon it in this post. I like it a lot, very sneaky and in the lines of power talk. I've done this in my office unknowingly to get out of talking to women who bring up unnecessary topics at work. Minus the amplify part just to get out of the conversation. But it is good to know there is a way double down on the heard mentality and use it to your advantage in the right setting. Reminds me of law 38 "Th…
/r/askTRP05/08/15 10:23 PM
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I remember seeing these on reddit quite some time back. Not really teasing per say but it does get a rise out of them. Any emotions are greater than no emotions to a girl. https://archive.is/T2ixM https://archive.is/HXzhr
/r/askTRP05/08/15 08:49 PM
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Everything is just theory till it's applied. Good on you for making it work.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 12:39 AM
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Thanks, I'll be looking forward to your posts and trp related themes from the book.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 11:38 PM
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Would love to read this in english. But I'll definitely be following your posts.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:00 PM
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♂ Both you and /u/razorwan added a key piece in my understanding.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 12:54 AM
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Whoa, I just had an epiphany reading /u/abdada and your comment razorwan. As men in this sub we are constantly talking about improving to become the best version of ourselves. We discuss strategies for overcoming hardships and developing our own path to happiness, whether it is slaying pussy or molding the world to our liking. Through this continual process I found my happiness is the process of growth. I'm addicted to pushing my limits and testing boundaries in the different aspects of my life.…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 12:53 AM
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Excellent post. Have you read Cal Newport's "So Good They Can't Ignore You"? I personally am at that bridge of building what he describes as "Career capital" (skills) and knowing and getting my worth from an employer. I actually am seeking to become a consultant and work contracts after my current project is done. What kind of skills would you recommend I work on honing in? And the type of mindset I should put myself in during my day to day to further hone in those skills? What kind of path did …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:31 AM
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This should be much higher up. Kindness and generosity can only come from a position of strength and abundance. If one has strength and abundance then they are able to give freely to those who are worthy. Laughably OP's plate might not remember that lesson per Briffault's Law.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:33 PM
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I recall seeing this link in another thread. I was thinking about trying it out, sometime in the future with bro who share the same mindset. How to start a co-op gym: http://www.jack-donovan.com/axis/2013/01/how-to-start-a-gang-the-co-op-gym/
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:44 AM
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Very informative. Definitely going to add some of the shoulder stretches. I also recommend these stretches as well for the hip mobility. Joe Franco's Limber 11 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSSDLDhbacc The Limber 11 Foam Roll IT Band: 10-15 passes Foam Roll Adductors: 10-15 passes SMR Glutes (lax ball): 30sec. - 2min. Bent-knee Iron Cross x 5-10 each side Roll-overs into V-sits x 10 Rocking Frog Stretch x 10 Fire Hydrant Circles x 10 fwd/10 bwd Mountain Climbers x 10 each leg Cossack Squats x …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:22 AM
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Thanks for the response man, I'm going to approach it in that manner. Making my own notes and interpretations helps me understand better. And as time passes and you reread a book so too does the perspective in the reader has changed.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:10 AM
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Excellent. Yes, reading with the frame in mind. I do enjoy reading but for something like meditations it seems like it's best to read one excerpt at a time and ponder it before moving on to the next one. I usually learn best if I'm writing notes based against the experience I have, and trying to think beyond the surface meaning of the writing. Thank you for a thought out response. I've just realized I need to work on understating context. I haven't really cared for it but your point on the Rolli…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:08 AM
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Great advice. I'll take it slow as I read through it. As /u/LessThanPerfectCell said, he's writing as a reminder to himself. I'll read through it out with that frame in mind.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:52 AM
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Thanks for the response. I'll keep your tips in mind when I go through Meditations. It's definitely something to revisit time and again.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:48 AM
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Excellent write up. Post like these are what make me keep coming back to TRP. A question to you or anyone that can answer. What is the reading strategy you go through to read these types of books? And how do you gain your understanding of what Marcus Aurelius has written? Do you guys make notes or something similar?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 08:19 PM
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Subbed. I think it's a great idea for both people 30+ and under 30 to get an idea of how the game changes with experience and differing priorities.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 08:18 PM
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I've thought about this as well. But like someone else said, it is all relative. Someone can look, seem and act alpha. But maybe their frame is weaker. To me being alpha is having mastery over yourself first and foremost then being able to have a frame that is strong and commanding enough that people fall into your frame.
/r/askTRP01/04/15 11:33 PM
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I like bullets: What skills do you want in the future that you can build to day? What interests you on a whim? Try everything and anything so long it doesn't cause you (or others) serious harm or death is one of my life philosophies. Whatever vibes with you stick with it. I've tried photography, guitar, capoeira, parkour, web design, and long list of things that I've forgotten. But what sticks is the experience of going through learning how to do these things, meeting new people and learning wha…
/r/askTRP12/03/15 01:35 AM
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As you chase that north start don't forget to appreciate the struggles in the journey. That to me has been a big factor to my confidence level. Knowing I'm doing something to raise myself up every damn day.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 03:24 AM
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Thanks for you response! Right! Agreed, because they should be qualifying to our standards and expectations for a woman. However I find that most girls are kind of boring. For example some of the girls I've talked to: Me: So what do you like to do on a Saturday night? Her: Oh netflix and stay at home. I make fun of it, call em grandma and use it as an excuse to push and pull her physically. But it's boring and bland to me. They don't get me any more excited than their looks. It isn't enough to m…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 07:10 PM
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Ah! Similar with what alexinikita mentioned above. Observation. I like your approach. I'm trying to kill my hesitation and just go for it. I definitely will work on being observant and picking out those details to flip their expectations on their head. Doing it to shock them out of their little worlds. Thanks skorchzang!
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:59 PM
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Thanks for your comment! How would you introduce the more personal questions? Do you relate your own stories first?
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:54 PM
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Dang I need to get out of my head. That is good stuff, observational openers, getting to know their reason for being out, how they know each other. Hmm there's a lot of ways that could go. Thanks man!
/r/askTRP06/03/15 06:48 PM
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I hope this doesn't get lost, I love the concept and it resonates with me. I am on the track to becoming my own version of the renaissance man you've outlined. But I see an interesting issue with this. Man #1 is internally validated and own mastery to his own world. Man #2 can own up to the same, perhaps that is all he cares to be satisfied with. SMV related to both of them...actual SMV we could say Man #1 is higher than Man #2....on a "Man" scale. On a Woman's scale the SMV of Man #1 Vs. Man #2…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 03:11 AM
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This is my problem as well. I'm making strides to better myself and what I would have once chased now seems so low quality that it's not appealing. They have that inflated ego they carry just lowers them a point in my eyes.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 02:46 AM
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I was lost and now I am found. I cannot thank the mods, endorsed contributors, and community enough for opening my blind eyes. I have a mission and I'm gradually take control of every aspect of my life and subtly spreading the RP way to my friends and brothers. I love this subreddit because we are able to easily find like-minded individuals here. In the real world it takes a vetting process, with the concepts and theories I have learned here on TRP it has not only strengthened my bond with my cl…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 08:46 PM
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Thank you for this post IllimitableMan, I second vandaalen. This is definitely a top level post that might get lost in the noise. You've hit the nail on the head for me on why I don't want to pursue anything beyond plating women at this moment. Saved your comment and I plan on sharing with some of my bros.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 07:50 PM
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Saw your post and just wanted to tie the loop here. Good luck. It's tough to articulate what you mean in a succinct manner without everyone jumping over the point and bashing you.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:15 PM
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I too would like to see your analysis. I like that you're relating it to the concepts of the Gervais principal. Maybe you could do a comparison of guy's game (not that we really need it with an understanding of alpha and beta characteristics) to girl's game and roles?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 08:02 PM
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I read somewhere, the question on your mind should be "What is she like?" Learn about her, figure her out and see if she fits your standards.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:27 AM
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Sounds like you had a high investment in this girl. So what she flaked on you, you should have gone out with them and hit on her friend(s). Hit on the other girls, shit hit on anything that moves seductively. Explore the night life. Abundance mentality + outcome independence would have been a fun night for you. Who cares what she wanted or was trying to do to you. Honestly it sounds like your ego is in the way of you having fun. The girls are there for your entertainment not to pedestal.
/r/askTRP24/02/15 02:14 AM
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I'd like to share a link with you: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/20140319115749-20017018-the-real-meaning-of-passion-and-purpose tl:dr Purpose and passion are two opposing forces that can work together either for or against your best interests. Passion drives you. Purpose pulls you. Purpose can tug you along when your passion subsides, allowing you to endure even in the midst of uncertainty, challenge, or conflict. Purpose or passion, whichever defines you, keep in mind at the end of the day yo…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:42 PM
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Life has a way of grinding our will and motivation down to nothing. What I find that helps the most is perspective. I was at a point in my life that I was comparing myself to other people and hurting my own confidence by thinking, Why don't I have a good job? That fancy car? The balling night life? 4-5 girls in rotation. Whatever. I recommend taking a step back. See the big picture. Take a blank piece of paper and list out everything that you are grateful for having. Start with smallest possible…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 11:23 PM
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Like any goal have the ideal goal visualize and break it down to it's smallest subset that you can accomplish daily. We never stop learning till the day we die, learn to enjoy that process.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 07:46 AM
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Saved for later reading and action. Thank-you for this.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 09:33 PM
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I agree. Will power is like a muscle. The beautiful thing about trp is it opens our eyes and gives us a mission to pursue. However the equal problem is we try to take on too much at once. When I started I jumped into trying to learn 5 different things and over stacking my schedule. My willpower flagged and I started procrastinating. A lot of people don't realize that sometimes you have to start with one thing at a time and gradually build your willpower muscle up. It's taken me a while and now w…
/r/askTRP24/12/14 02:14 AM
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If nothing else this. Progress is slow. The measure of a man is not if he's motivated when stuff is going well and progress seems fast, it's how well he can get through periods of frustration and apparent lack of progress without getting knocked off course. I was stuck for a while. Like in quicksand. I know I'm making a lot of progress in my personal development but it was lacking that positive feedback loop. It was frustrating as hell and bringing negativity to my life. Browsing trp I come acro…
/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:29 PM
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At what point does "herbivore man" and MGTOW intersect? They seem to trend along the same lines.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:17 AM
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Great post, saved and will share.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:30 PM
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Ehhh depends on the context, I'll do it occasionally and just smirk. "Yeah I said that whatcha gonna do about it?"
/r/askTRP18/12/14 07:53 AM
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Hope this links...read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pg4hx/the_process_is_the_goal/ A man is his mission. It is not his goal that defines him but the daily sacrifices he makes to accomplish them. What makes him a man, what makes him high value, is in effect the process, the act of gritting his teeth and steeling his mind when despair and futility stare him in the eye. He gets mad, says fuck you! And pursues his mission with relentless dedication, passion and discipline. Thr…
/r/askTRP18/12/14 07:51 AM
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Perfect. Thank-you, I'll watch a few episodes while I meal prep this weekend.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:33 PM
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Time to go watch some of his old stuff! Yeah building into it. I usually practice on my friends, trying to remove that cheesey grin after I say something so it leave the effect of, "is he joking?..or not...what?"
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:01 PM
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I've heard good things about that book. It is definitely next on my reading list after 48 laws of power. Any tips on building on-your-feet-wit?
/r/askTRP17/12/14 07:53 PM
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I'd recommend reading this: http://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/ Essentially it's the same thing. Demonstrating you are of higher value than she is regardless of the length of time. More importantly trust your gut. If you feel something if off or wrong when she comes back more often than not you're probably right. We spin our own logic to make sense of it but don't listen to the bullshit your mind spews out.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:17 AM
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Learning, training, growing, gaining, that's alpha. Needing others to tell you, even needing to tell yourself outside of REAL material gains in the physical world is not alpha. How did you define your learning and growth? What is your passion or mission? And how are you working to fulfill it?
/r/askTRP02/12/14 09:17 PM
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Good writing. I thought it was quite informative. There is a level of creativity when talking to girls and you hit it. Which begs me to ask how did you read into her fantasies? What were the tells that she gave you?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 04:37 AM
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This should be way higher up. Excellent advice. One thing I'd like to say is that it is a grind. It takes time and effort to get there and it can get pretty discouraging. Personally, frequenting this sub helps keep me motivated and reenforces the theories. We're men and we go head to head against any adversity we face especially when it's internal adversity.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:59 PM
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I like that. Chunking it out and working on small bits at a time. I'll probably work on doing that and using /u/AFPJ 's suggestion at getting a early start in the mornings.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 07:36 AM
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Great advice! I'll give that a shot. It might work better for me, I tend to be more focused and active in the mornings.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 07:34 AM
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Two great posts earlier on the main sub. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2h1ydv/dealing_with_loneliness_as_you_work_toward/ and someone's reponse http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2h6vni/sic_parvis_magna_how_to_triumph_over_loneliness/ Good luck brother keeping busy helps me combat starting at the dizzying grind to the top.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 01:42 AM
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There's a tangible benefit to eating or sleeping. Whereas with women I see it as relationship for entertainment purposes. Right now I guess it's just something I don't value as much compared to investing and improving myself and position in my hand at life.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:01 PM
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Ah I know what you mean. There is a smug sense of confidence knowing you can dominate multiple women and have them wanting you at that primal sexual level. You got a good point. Keep them in contact to practice and make passing shit test just a natural thing.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:39 AM
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Yeah, I agree. By going into the top tier of men getting the girl is an effortless by product of your personal success.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 07:37 AM
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Truth. Experience is the only way to know whether or not that girl is worth investing time into. If I can ask, how much time do you spend approaching women? And do you do it as you go about your normal day or with the express intent in mind of meeting women?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:58 AM
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It's safe to say that the level of entitlement and destructive extremes of feminism in the US brings about a ridiculous gamut of shit that we have to filter through. In some measure we are driven by our inherent gender roles. The cultures you've reference, I'm sure, are cultures which enforce masculinity. There is a reason to be a man and you might not have an "ideal" wife after your service, but at least you will have a loyal wife. I think we're in a reactionary stage where positive masculinity…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:56 AM
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Hmm that's an interesting way of looking at it. I have to agree with you when she has that look in her eyes it's quite intoxicating and motivating to continue doing so. But it seems like short term vs long term reward. Are you doing more to further yourself into that to 20% of men category?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:45 AM
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I had a slight chuckle. If you get good at understanding and manipulating women then you have the ability to understand and manipulate men.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 01:42 AM
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