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old58m/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 12:06 PM
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You missed that she has told him she don't want him several times and he refuses to listen. He even admits to being obsessed.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/23 12:16 AM
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You sound obsessed. Put yourself in her shoes for a minute. You put up the post and wanted opinions. I gave you mine.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 04:15 PM
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She don't want you. Accept it. It's tough, but just let it go. Why would you want to be with somebody that doesn't want you? Honestly, you're acting kinda scary. See a therapist. I'm trying to be nice and not sound like a dick, but you probably need professional help. Check out Better Help for an online counselor. It's pretty cheap. It's been helping me a lot. You don't have to live in this anguish man.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 03:36 PM
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Restraint order is all I can say. If you have hard evidence, maybe a lawyer or the police can fix her red wagon.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/23 02:51 PM
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I don't enjoy anything anymore, not even jerking off. I just feel numb.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 01:03 AM
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We've done all that stuff. This last shot at therapy has been about 6 or 8 weeks. Nothing is changing her. I've made tons of changes over the last 5 years. She just gets meaner. Right now she's texting me to see if I want to continue.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 09:33 PM
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Couple of months
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 09:20 PM
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I deleted it because I started getting a lot of negative responses. I am not ok. We had another fight today. It's never ending. I'm sure it's over. I can't fight anymore. I can't take the verbal abuse anymore. I'm out of fuel. I think a divorce is necessary at this point. I've got the next 6 days off. Think I'm going to the beach. She's in a hotel. I suspect she'll come home after I leave tomorrow. I'm just spent. I have zero local friends or family. I've never been completely alone. I'm a bit s…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 08:59 PM
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Ya know, I did. I've never brought something personal to a public forum. Most of the comments were supportive. Some were damning, cruel, and spoken with troll-type ignorance. I expected that. I still don't know what to do. I was taught that if you don't make a decision, the decision will be made for you. I'm glad no kids are involved. I still love her, but it hurts so bad and she can be so cruel. Today after work, we sat on the couch, in silence, and just held hands. No talking to speak of. It d…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 12:57 AM
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If you were a real therapist, you would NOT be giving the advice to end a marriage after reading a few paragraphs about my life and marriage you know almost nothing about. 2 This subreddit is for men. If I wanted to hear from a woman, I would have posted in another subreddit. Imo you are not welcome here. Take a walk.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 06:43 PM
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My porn habits were definitely not mainstream, but that's changed. I always am doing something or saying something stupid. I get yelled at a lot and always walk on eggshells. I honestly don't know how much more I can do. Feels like I'm running on fumes. I give her my best every day. It never seems to be enough.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 05:33 PM
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We haven't had anything remotely good in the bedroom in a very long time. Pretty much every time we have sex, she gets pissed at me. We did have good sex a few weeks ago. It was when I got the Trimix injections. But, even with that stuff, it's hard to stay hard if you're waiting for your wife to find fault with something you said or did or didn't say or do, and start berating you.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 05:27 PM
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Yea man, not really looking for advice. Really just a kind, understanding ear.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 02:41 PM
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Oh, dude, my addiction is handled. I went 2 years without looking. I still get slammed for it. As far as ending it, I don't know. She rarely gives me a yes or no answer to anything, so I never know what she's thinking. I'm thinking about getting a hotel and a bottle today after work today. I really don't know what I'm doing anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 02:06 PM
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Not this time.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:40 PM
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You've been reading my mail. My marriage is like yours. I've been to several therapists. The couples therapy is her 1st. The couples therapy is a good idea. I said I think I fell out of love, because I feel out of energy and hope. I've done so many things, over the past 6 years, I don't think I can do much more. I'm at a complete loss. This morning, she wanted to talk, but I couldn't even think through my sadness. I just told her I couldn't talk and that I was leaving early so I could be alone w…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:39 PM
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Probably going fishing tomorrow. I have zero friends or family within 1500 miles of me.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:27 PM
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Cheating is not an issue. We are swinger, and she can do what she wants. I don't care.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:23 PM
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Ty. We've been in therapy for a few weeks. I don't think it's helping much. I think I'm done. Not sure. I'm taking it moment by moment.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:19 PM
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Yea man, that wasn't cool
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:15 PM
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Ty
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:14 PM
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It fucking sucks, but you may be right. I feel like my life is over.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 01:13 PM
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Giving me a hand job, stopping, I ask if I can take over, because I have a skin condition and she was hurting me. When I did, she said, "I know what you're thinking about". And got up and left and went to bed. She was drunk too. She was drunk too. She's told me she has to get drunk to fuck me.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/23 12:28 PM
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