old_dirtbag Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Signs look decent, still not sure how to proceed What are you aiming for here...sex? Relationship? Two things that did jump out about your post: if she's inviting other people to your "dates" you're labeled as friend at this point. Maybe locked into that. Also, re "hinting" at going to your place for Netflix. Don't hint, be direct.	/r/seduction	24/12/17 07:41 AM
7	A girl told my friend she thinks I'm cute, should I slide into her DMs? Designated marksman?	/r/seduction	24/12/17 07:30 AM
1	[22m] I can’t get laid to save my life. I’ve seemingly lost my game. Sounds like you're doing a lot of work. I think you got this man. Maybe you're trying too hard. It usually comes roaring back when you're not thinking about it. Not flogging yourself also helps tho I can't explain why, just seems to. So does visualizing what you want in your mind. I had a girlfriend like that too. She sucked and it took awhile to come back from that. Best of luck to you.	/r/seduction	24/12/17 07:22 AM
2	I'm great at building romantic interest. But how do you build sexual interest? Yes. Be tactful about it. Romantic is very easy to parlay into sexual. Kissing and fingering are great starts, it almost seems like you're holding yourself back.	/r/seduction	24/12/17 07:10 AM
1	How can I turn FWB into relationship? "she told that we shouldnt do it, because I will fall in love with her lol and it might affect our group." Sounds like a woman's way of saying no without saying no. Been in this scenario twice before. My advice is to not waste your time. This one already has you pegged fwb. You're stuck imo. There's too many others out there for ya.	/r/seduction	24/12/17 06:40 AM
1	Embarrassingly flaked on/ ghosted - how could I have seen this coming? It's hard to see foreshadowing for that kind of thing in the heat of the moment, ya know? Had women leave me hanging plenty of times. Just one of those things you have to put up with when you put yourself out there, most people are basically selfish and not real considerate.	/r/seduction	22/12/17 07:56 AM
1	A cautionary tale Flip side: if you're around enough people often enough there'll always be another. Just don't blow every chance you get.	/r/seduction	22/12/17 07:50 AM
1	Seemed to have more balls as a teen. Some of that comes with gaining age and experience, but I almost get the sense there's something at the root of this you haven't mentioned?	/r/seduction	22/12/17 07:41 AM
2	What to do when on the other end of the stick? Jump aboard and see where it goes...? I dunno, my experience with this sort of thing is that generally she'll turn out to be more aggressive than you really want. Unless you like that.	/r/seduction	22/12/17 07:37 AM
1	Why are people like this? It's a funny thing isn't it. If you leave em wanting more you'll always be in demand. Seriously tho, I have my own thing going on too. Sometimes I get bored or overwhelmed with it and decide to check someone else's. It works both ways. If people sense that you don't have anything to check they won't bother. I think this sub refers to that as "adding value".	/r/seduction	22/12/17 07:31 AM
1	How to escalate when sex isn't the goal? Places where religion is strict usually have a ritual for this sort of thing...what is the customary ritual?	/r/seduction	22/12/17 07:24 AM
1	Okay so maybe this doesn't belong here, but how do you work on the non-seductive side of seduction? How do you really get to know a girl once you've hooked up and all that? You guys are all assuming she wants to connect on a deeper level. And maybe she does. But sometimes "let's chill and watch a movie" is code for "let's have an excuse to mess around some more"	/r/seduction	22/12/17 07:17 AM
5	I use too many interview questions with girls. How should I be more light and flirty instead? Loosen up. Don't be afraid to use irreverent or off the wall questions or commentary, especially if it's honest. You don't have much to lose. Sometimes the most off the cuff thing can lead to meaningful, and telling, conversation.	/r/seduction	20/12/17 07:14 AM
2	Should I get veneers to fix my teeth, since they're fuked up. Would it raise my attractiveness? Ever hear of Bill Haley? 50's rock & roller. One of his eyes is crooked but you never notice because of the large curlicue of hair hanging in the middle of his forehead. He created a distraction. I have about the same problem as you and create a distraction by keeping some hair on my upper lip. It both camouflages and draws attention away from my teeth. It helps the confidence level some. Anyway, the girl is going to be looking at YOU, not your flaws. Be ready for possible shit test. But if she'…	/r/seduction	20/12/17 06:36 AM