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yeah i'd hit (the guy in the head with a pipe he looks so punchable) she ain't even that bad but her looksmatch is hanging from a fan
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:57 AM
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sometimes asking the internet for advice is even better, depending on where you look (don't ask reddit for relationship advice, for example). you might get a lot of tard responses but there's always some 200 IQ guy who lived exactly what you're living and got out of it somehow. better than paying $150/hr until you find a therapist of the same caliber
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:52 AM
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oh I would be, he would not be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:18 AM
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he's definitely one of the closest people in my life in terms of personality, I would actually prefer to live with him than be alone. he'd be a good wingman since he's just me but louder. can't be third wheeling in my own apartment though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:00 AM
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true attraction requiring a physical attractiveness threshold is unfortunately correct. I don't know why it's that way, I kinda wish primal attraction could come from other shallow means like income or even charisma. but at the same time, while you say gold digging women would be disgusted by the rich man she's fucking if he had no gold, the same could be said of chad chasing women who'd be disgusted if he weren't hot. they are the same morally, it's just a fact of life that physical attraction …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:42 PM
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my friend who lives on the other side of the country (known him 7 years, visited 8 times) is broke as fuck and wants to move in with me. I would have to move to a 2 bedroom which would be fine, but the real issue is he'd be bringing his hot gf with him and if I have to listen to them fuck I'd probably kill myself. I can't tell him that's the reason though. don't befriend an incel guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:34 PM
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I can't say I blame passport bros for getting laid off their wealth; I can't find an objective difference between getting laid because you're rich and getting laid because you're hot. both are shallow prerequisites, it's not like either one is getting laid because of soul ties and deep bonds. I agree that physical attraction as a shallow prerequisite is (for reasons I'm not sure of) a much better indicator of a successful, loving relationship, but for hookups? who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 08:09 PM
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if he looked like this he would've hit the shot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:51 PM
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whenever I hold a mushroom up to first place so I can dodge a blue shell I feel like a capitalist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:51 PM
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working on it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:07 PM
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we are trapped in our own subjective interpretation of objective reality and there is no escape :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:03 PM
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I often regret using hyperbole maybe someday ill stop an apple will not do what a slice of cake will do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:15 PM
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in current year I think it's really easy to not get any attention as an average man if all you do is go to work, go shopping, and maybe hang out with friends once a week. if people were as social as they used to be then you might be right. I think we both know average men on online dating are just fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:12 PM
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if I eat anything with sugar ill wake up with 5 new pimples so it's either ick from no dessert or ick from pepperoni pizza forehead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 09:08 PM
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yeah I make enough to live there but not enough to have a fuckton of expendable income like a lot of women may expect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:57 PM
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they need at least one chad and at least one emotional tampon in their scrotation at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:54 PM
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so many women have emotionally cheated on their bf with me, just not physically cheated because I'm ugly. it's always interesting watching their bf try to determine what boundaries to set when their gf had been talking to me about smut for 3 years some of them would tell their bf they're going to bed and then hop on a call w me. I imagine that would count as cheating because it's lying, but imo if your partner and elseperson had been close friends for a while w.o flirting then it's not that much…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:43 PM
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considering moving to NYC just for the gender ratio but I have a feeling most of the women are going to be "feminist who wants you to pay for everything" type. don't want to miss out on tomboy hiker midwest women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:38 PM
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chadfishing experiments say yes as long as he's attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:15 PM
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by far yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:08 PM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:45 PM
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ik what you mean but they were all diagnosed by psychs. I am eternally suspicious of psychs though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:25 PM
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yet another woman who once ghosted me has come back into my life. evidently she has bipolar. I believe every woman I've been close to has bipolar. what this says about me im not sure everyone will tell me not to let her back into my life but I am relatively detached emotionally and I need someone to play ff14 with me and she's very good. if anything romantic happens it'll have to be initiated by her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:20 PM
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ive never seen anyone get pussy from playing devil's advocate so im rooting for him to hit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:08 PM
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im voting for kamala but god everything the DNC does and everyone who supports them is so cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:05 PM
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first based competitive tennis post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:03 PM
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my aunt tried to shove a pickle in my mouth once when I was a child and I puked it up (this is a real story not a metaphor for my uncle's dick or something). I also read a lot of books that year. u may be on to something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:46 PM
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still waiting on my first and I schizopost regularly. im more anti-women than anti-men which makes me assume it's usually men sending these out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:40 PM
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nah I graduated college and have a strong friend group and travel/get paid for my hobbies and am monetarily successful. im just mildly autistic and bald, therefore unfuckable even to 40 bmi women. my mom doesn't measure her pride in me by how wet my dick is (only i do that)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:35 PM
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my mom seems satisfied with how I turned out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:18 PM
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this happens to me in real life every other month
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:30 PM
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it seems like touching anything on your face is a massive gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:20 PM
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I told an old friend I was getting a hair transplant and she was like "what's next?" as if to imply im entering the cosmetic surgery pipeline and im gonna zac efron myself, but I really don't think there's anything else I want to touch. my nose is kinda big but im not trying to become a model I just want to be a 7. it would be one thing if I was like 5'10 seeking out leg lengthening surgery but nah I started balding when I was 17 that's just unfair it did make me think about the ethics of plasti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:15 PM
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chincels and nosecels disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:09 PM
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no but im considering the possibility that it wasn't her fault but rather the fact that my foreskin was cut off + blowjobs don't actually feel that good and men are just easily pleased. maybe im just fucked up but the only thing more physically pleasurable for me than masturbating is raw piv
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 06:06 PM
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see I agree but I have no idea if the one woman who sucked my dick was just bad at it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:58 PM
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as much as i'd love to be a fly on the wall in the dungeons of other ppd'ers, i'm restricted to an online debate setting. but if you have the opportunity to observe their behavior then yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:31 PM
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i like tiny tits (no pedo)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:26 PM
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i do think a lot of ppd'ers fall into the strawman trap of seeing one woman/man say something and then seeing another woman/man say the opposite and concluding "women/men are hypocritical" but at the same time, people won't reveal their hypocrisy when asked. if someone holds a certain standard for men, and you directly ask them if they also hold that standard for women, they know what you're doing, so they can just lie to appear unbiased and not lose the argument, even if they would contradict t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:25 PM
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and parents like to complain about young people and their phones dude idk how but gen x'ers and boomers are so fucking hypocritical about this. my parents work in a school and constantly complain that kids are always on their phones but I swear both of them have lost 5 IQ points to youtube shorts in the past year. they used to give me so much shit and now they're worse than I ever was. I tried showing my mom a movie (EEAAO) and she was on her phone half the time. i spend way too much time on soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:13 PM
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not certain but I went on a date with a girl and it was going well until I mentioned that I uber'd there and her demeanor shifted and there wasn't a second date. I was getting a car in 2 weeks anyway but she didn't know that. oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:42 PM
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sorry I was using "femcel" the way feminists have twisted the word "incel," not necessarily to mean "unable to find dating/sex," but rather, "shitty person"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:26 PM
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mother of femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:22 PM
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chad with bad charisma or social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:02 PM
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in my experience their first go-to is sexual harassment/assault, which is funny in my case because I've experienced that and it doesn't effect me mentally nearly as much as my lowest points of isolation. I usually keep my mouth shut tho cuz that'll piss them off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:56 PM
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that is exactly why
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:37 PM
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we have gotta inflate the popularity of people like hawk tuah girl in the market until the concept of a meritocracy is destroyed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:34 PM
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the suffering of loneliness is extremely underrated. I have had several bad things happen to me that would evoke sympathy from the general population but they pale in comparison to loneliness, which receives little to no sympathy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:11 PM
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"women don't even like casual sex" crowd in shambles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:27 PM
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my physical standards are just no morbid obesity and if she is overweight then I don't think I could get a boner if it's all in her stomach w/ no ass or tits. I guess also no severe deformities
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:31 PM
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for the most part I just want my looksmatch but in this market im aware that's asking a lot anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:21 PM
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yeah it's extremely simple really particular guy isn't getting pussy. so who is? extroverted hot guys, okay. also hitler and serial killers and dark triad manipulators the goal is to get laid, not be a good person. bluepillers should pay attention to what people are asking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:17 PM
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ive realized im actually pretty similar to what bluepillers claim women to be. ive only actively pursued like 5 women before and only 1 of them was conventionally attractive - it's just so rare for me to meet a woman I click with in terms of personality so I hold onto that even if they're 30 bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:13 PM
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if im gymming on a monday it's gonna be 30 minutes before that shit closes or else it's pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:10 PM
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this would make so much sense although you have a slightly different aesthetic now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:25 AM
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that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:37 PM
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I come here for the false hot takes now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:30 PM
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side/back of head probably if you're 22 and lost literally all your hair including the sides then you started balding at 7
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:26 PM
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looking back, balding early actually kinda destroyed my life. constant nightmares about my hat flying off in public, not wanting to talk to women because I knew I'd have to take my hat off eventually. there's been 2 women I was close to who never saw the top of my head and I probably would've asked them out if not for my genes. idc if I have to drop even 20k on a transplant I think it'll be worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:22 PM
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this is like a new pill, like the blackpill but with hope. "yes looks matter, yes your genes matter, but you can get a hair transplant and rhinoplasty" kinda based tbh I support tricking women via surgery. only problem is most ppl can't afford that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:18 PM
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i care because im admittedly envious of people who can order affection like it's ubereats, especially if those people are also pieces of shit. but i get most men are able to just not think about this i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:05 PM
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she picked me lol, when I ask out normal women they say no but mentally ill women rly like me i think, like most people in this thread, you've missed OP's point. it's not just "pick a woman who won't jump ship lol" it's the fact that it's so easy for them to do so at all compared to men. it'd be like saying "just pick a man who won't beat you lol" to a woman who's worried about the physical differential between men and women, bar the difference in severity there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 05:02 PM
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women will never care about this power imbalance lol my ex abused me verbally and physically and because I'm bald and slightly introverted I'm cast to rot for the last year and a half while she found someone to cuddle/fuck a week or two after the breakup. I've seen this play out with my friends' relationships too. knowing they can discard you so quickly makes me not want to date unless I knew I could do the same, which is why I don't want to date unless I'm high status or hot or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 04:39 PM
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yeah I don't think you can fault any man for dropping out of dating when he just doesn't want to date down. you have to trust people to properly evaluate their own standing though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:07 PM
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when people say the dating market determines your dating value, they are correct, but I always like to add an addendum that humans inform markets and humans are retarded. for example, to paraphrase bill burr, you can smell fast food from 20 minutes away but you can't smell a bag of apples under your nose, because engineers have figured out the best way to trick you into eating their shit. this is also true for dating. fuckboys are mcdonald's and well-meaning but sub-7/10 guys are a bag of apples…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:00 PM
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and misandristic then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:45 PM
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jsyk for me personally idrc about n count and ive been downvoted by guys here for saying id date/fuck a woman with 50 bodies but it is not misogynistic to want someone who isn't into casual sex lmfao, what if they're bisexual and also don't want a man who does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:39 PM
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saving your comment for next time someone argues that "men are allowed to have n count preferences nobody thinks that's bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:34 PM
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I think most of us knew it played some part but we were taught that we could compensate in other areas, which isn't true. even smart high school boys thought "ok im kinda ugly but if I engineermaxx I'll be alright." compensation traits like EQ and income and household skills and competence matter in an LTR but it took some of us a while to realize that you have to be chad to even show a woman those traits
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:17 PM
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got a 7 day ban idek what I did this time, fairly tame comment compared to some of the shit I say. makes me think about how there's actually no possible good moderation system for anything: if you use bots they'll ban certain things because they'll take it out of context, and if you use humans they'll be asleep while one person breaks a rule and awake when someone else does, effectively creating a double standard. or they'll just be biased because we too are robots controlled by our subconscious…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:05 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:02 PM
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yeah this makes more sense. the "I like to work on cars, and I like football." airhead man is a type that a (large) subset of women love. leadership and assertion will probably always be more valuable for attraction than not regardless of which male archetype you are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:31 AM
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I never did it with the intent of getting a man. ain't that the whole definition of pickme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:26 AM
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somebody call margaret atwood we've got a premise
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:20 AM
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im 99th percentile yea, that would make a lot of sense actually
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:16 AM
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this happened to me too idk wtf they're thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:13 AM
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I can't wait to get a hot trophy wife so I can *checks notes* let her fuck my best friend
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:09 AM
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probably not false
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:07 AM
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make sense. dating trad women is harder because they have harsher more specific standards I wouldn't necessarily call them harsher, but very different and more aligned with masculine stereotypes of leadership and assertion, which I and probably many terminally online men don't have. feminists' standards may be harsh too but more in regards to emotional intelligence or something (not counting looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:05 AM
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it's a little strange to me that I've spent so much time in the manosphere and other male advocacy groups and yet a lot of the women I've gotten along well with or dated in the past were feminists/radfems. if a woman saw my internet post history she'd probably run for the hills but if she just talks to me/asks me questions about my beliefs then I probably come off as more of a feminist than most men. I just don't focus any mental energy on feminism because I'm not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:05 AM
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idk about other guys but when I point this out it's not born from a desire to get away with bad things, it's born from a desire to be so attractive that you theoretically could, as a result of her being madly in love with you(r face and height). I might be envious of a guy who can get away with shitting in womens' beds due to his chad status, but that doesn't mean I want to shit in womens' beds (unless she's into that). it means that if chad can get away with x shitty behavior, I just wish I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:58 AM
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stay innocent keeby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:44 AM
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psych ward or discord
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:48 AM
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u gotta hit em with lain and berserk too. maybe perfect blue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:45 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:16 AM
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im fit and have only asked out chubby women i cant deal with these femcel complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:52 AM
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red pill people on PPD are just black pill istg
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 02:41 AM
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i knew id find a use for those little guys someday
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:54 AM
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hair transplant asap + approach 50 women/wk, but until then ill keep complaining here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:50 AM
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everything in my life except romance is going pretty well rn, i fear these are the good ol days and i won't actually get to share them with anyone. things will probably get worse and then i'll get a gf when i'm 35 (because women will be more desperate) but i'll ironically be a worse bf than i would be now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:35 AM
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I don't think most forms of manipulation are deliberate sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:09 AM
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chadfish women to get their snapchats and then post their snapchat on 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:07 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:11 AM
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your first example is unfortunately proof that trump's fans are annoyingly diehard usually I too am against reactionary conclusions however attempted assassination is pretty far up there in severity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:36 AM
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probably this guy even though this is an obscure old movie about god not being real <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:29 AM
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thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:21 AM
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it makes me wonder why they're here at all if they can't argue against one of the basic principles men hold on this sub. I guess they just sit around waiting for posts with 0 upvotes titled "here's why all women are whores at birth" and then argue with that because it's easier
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:15 AM
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got invited to do standup at an 18+ anime con, all expenses paid for. I will try to have sex there because my cosplay will involve a wig so nobody will know im bald. im even gonna bring condoms (magnum xl)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:11 AM
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my favorite ppd trope is a pro-blackpill post where there's not a single woman to be found in the replies anyway trump won oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:35 AM
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im actually surprised that literally every woman said no. i want to get married but ik a handful of women who see a lifelong LTR and marriage as equivalent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:50 PM
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carry around a bow and arrow
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:48 PM
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I don't like when any woman gets taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 06:08 PM
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your OP would only contribute to that energy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:57 PM
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yeah I meant a ppd excluding your age group <3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:53 PM
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exhibit #756 why we need a zoomer ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:51 PM
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i love the free market it's objective and good mmmm yes free market yes daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:20 PM
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ill probably be one of the few people to admit to having the superiority complex derived from inferiority - it came from succeeding pretty well in just about every aspect of life except dating. this feels incongruent with what most men are taught as children ("just do xyz and women will come"), and flies in the face of anyone who draws correlation between lack of success with women and lack of success in general. there are very few good coping mechanisms for discovering that there are no rules a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:15 PM
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I agree, and thus I think people who say or imply "I'm not the problem, everyone else is" shouldn't be mocked so heavily. although they will be wrong a lot of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:30 AM
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using this thread as my diary again i've realized i have a problem with externalizing my self esteem, i.e. i use others' opinions of me to determine how i feel about myself. for example, my favorite standup bits that i've performed and my favorite stories that i've written are the ones other people like the most but i remember a louis ck bit where the premise is basically, "you don't get to decide if you're an asshole or not, other people do," which makes sense and most people seem to agree. but…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:17 AM
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yeah that's 100% my only problem not even kidding
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:10 AM
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good aspirations not sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:47 AM
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intense mewing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:24 PM
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so true
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:01 PM
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at anime con every bald guy is alone guys from 5'3 to 6'6 with hair have qt cosplayer gfs take the hair pill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:42 PM
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what is your bmi
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:28 PM
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there's a difference between inside out 2 and cocomelon the movie (idk if the latter is real)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:27 PM
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one of the better movies in the past cpl years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:28 PM
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this is the level of faith PPD women give arguments "age gaps aren't that bad" "so you like raping children?" "I wish I could get laid" "so you want to rape women?" "I like cake" "so you want to rape bakery employees?"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 11:08 PM
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god this topic is surrounded in cringe moral panic actually I think the age of consent should be 11 clearly tbh the cutoff should be based on some measure of mental adequacy that we can't really accurately calculate, take a person somewhere between 18-20, a lot of them are fucking retarded and probably can't provide more informed consent than someone who just passed midnight on their 18th birthday. the 18 cutoff is just our best estimate but it makes everyone (specifically americans) think you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:46 PM
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i do think anyone outraged at a sexualized 17 y/o should be about as equally outraged at a sexualized 18 y/o or else you have law=ethics brainrot idk anything about this game tho so for all i know this person is pretending they're 17 when really they're 13
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:36 PM
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same if you let your wii lay on its side that shit breaks in 5 years but mine's been standing strong since I was 6 yrs old
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:47 AM
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I just associate PUA with gurus but ig I don't have to. sometimes PUA advice steps outside the bounds of "present a better version of yourself" into "become a different person" which I cba to do anyone doing hours of standup is wild but yeah I've done 50 min. it does require social awareness at least, being edgy but getting away with it. ill figure somethin out eventually, thanks for the pep talk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:45 AM
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give me a few minutes to finish scratching mine then sure thing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:40 AM
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I already went down that route by living w/ my ex for 2 years so it'd at least be a familiar demon I commend anyone with bpd who works on themselves, really difficult disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:37 AM
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i love patrice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:34 AM
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actually I read the nice guy book as recovery from my ex, though I never finished all the exercises. it was pretty good, maybe I'll look at the other two assuming they're not PUA tbh I'm probably not gonna be interested in talking to IRL women until after I get a hair transplant. im in good shape but my head aint stand-up comedy is just performing a script, I actually consider it a pretty introverted activity because you don't have to have a conversation when you do it. if someone heckles you, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:32 AM
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the downvotes are coming out strong 2nite
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:21 AM
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blasting the a/c directly on my balls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:16 AM
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I don't think I know how or want to attract women in conventional ways. my only relationship started on omegle after years of dating app failures. if I ever date again it's gonna be because a terminally online woman with BPD read a surreal short story I wrote and dm'd me to pick my brain. I have no alternative methods
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:15 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:10 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 07:08 AM
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sorry but people with girlfriends do not get to comment on evsngelion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:52 AM
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no pussy really breaks a nigga
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:48 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:46 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:43 AM
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HEY FUCK YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:41 AM
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and they'll probably tell them poorly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:29 AM
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one great thing about standup is that I make hot women laugh. they'll never fuck me but at least I left an impression
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:13 AM
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being bald on OLD is bad enough but you can't be out of shape too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:21 PM
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ok!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:25 PM
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he's like the gen x uncle who does finger guns at everyone and isn't sure what's going on but loves to part-ay!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 05:23 PM
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they sew all the foreskins together and make trampolines
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:50 PM
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you got the right answer! great job ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:46 PM
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goalpost shifting is extremely common and annoying and nobody notices when they're doing it men probably do it too I just argue with women more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:39 PM
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I think a lot of men are like this including me, I won't feel shit until date 5 but that's what I expect. women will dip after date 1 if there's no tingles. hope u get laid tho bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:32 PM
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I will play this is me: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:26 PM
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ur waiting for someone to say you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 08:17 PM
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best ainsley one liner
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:02 PM
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not what I'm talking about I don't think the AI women have a bmi of 19-21 with all that metal so you wouldn't like them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:12 PM
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based and thoughtful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:01 PM
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good points I agree that an AI who's programmed to suck your dick as soon as you come home from work every day and ask about your problems while sharing none of their own is a bleak future. later in the video I actually make your last point, wondering if AI could ever closely resemble an actual relationship, where it's programmed to be a bit more random or just straight up divorce you lol, but then yeah you're just back to square one (humans). although I guess you could have an AI gf that's easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:00 PM
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most literate frat bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:55 PM
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generally ofc humans will give off signs as to what they're thinking but yeah I get what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:52 PM
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my question is basically "why do humans have that choice as opposed to AI? is our consciousness really so much more advanced than the potential of AI, or are we just appealing to the concept of 'being human'"? idek if there's an answer but thankfully my video is more of a discussion than definitive conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:49 PM
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this is a good attitude if the premise of AI girlfriends is just "fuckdolls" but otherwise free will would be important in a relationship with AI (feels cringe to type but idk where we'll be in 20 years)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:41 PM
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im working on a really long video about AI girlfriends and I need you guys to give me a counterargument to my own bullshit the main argument against AI companionship is that, no matter how well-programmed it is or how close it can get to human emulation, it doesn't have free will, so it can't love you. this is predicated on the idea that humans do have free will, so they can love you. but I can't tell if we do, because when I see tits my dick gets hard. that doesn't feel like freedom also people…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:30 PM
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that'll probably do it, my mom was somewhat kinda normal so idk where my problem started. im the creative/neurotic/slightly autistic type which is just a bpd magnet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:40 PM
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there must be some kind of x factor required to attract normal women, I don't know what it is, maybe henry cavil looks with 100% neurotypical social competence. I have only ever matched with or gotten close to traumatized alt girls who are crazier than me. it's beginning to feel like, if a woman is going to date outside of the normal social mold for what men should be, there has to be something wrong with her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:30 PM
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i wish we could see everyone's dating history or something, like the faces of the people they've dated. when women here validate the blackpill by saying looks trump all, I tend to imagine they all date guys who look like tom holland which is pretty depressing. but maybe they dated ppl most of us would consider ugly, that'd be lifefuel ig
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:22 PM
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can't wait for bbw sexbots to ironically cost more than regular sexbots because they're more expensive to manufacture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:18 PM
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rgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:15 PM
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top 5 wolfoveyes shitposts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:04 PM
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how did these get downvoted lol tfw no suicidal gf I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:10 PM
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not "ill change her" she's beyond repair just "ill take care of her" which is also pretty bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 02:09 PM
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yea I had to stop 9 of hers (rookie numbers) im a war vet round these parts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 08:03 AM
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i could write a novel but uh pretty bad. still wouldn't go back in time and change it, the experience was valuable. kinda pissed that she can attack me and verbally abuse me and then go on to new romantic partners while I rot but that's just gender dynamics in action in regards to ugliness though, bpd girls are a decent target because your looks might not matter as much if you're one of the few men who can validate her emotions and deal with her "mood swings" (see: love bombing and subsequent su…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:50 AM
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every day
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:31 AM
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Unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:44 PM
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they won't say "men with 0 body count are gross" they'll just say "inexperience isn't my preference ✨" (same thing)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:43 PM
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who downvoted this? fuck you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:40 PM
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great! here are my coordinates: (42.331429, -83.045753) 42° 19' 53.1444'' N 83° 2' 44.7108'' W let me know!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:40 PM
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oh ight based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:35 PM
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hey everybody! trying to raise my n count! let me know if anyone can help!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:30 PM
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u/afk_row is still gone that's concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:23 PM
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happened to me better because I found it very funny (I don't think she really cares about looks though, just whoever will give her the most attention and validation) I guess she did the dumping, I just left the apartment one night and ghosted after she assaulted me but technically she ended things officially? I was being a pussy ig but also I thought she'd kill herself if I left her. but it doesn't really affect how I feel about the new guy(s)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 04:18 PM
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if only being a liberal man (I am) had any dating benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:18 PM
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I meant figuratively, but yeah the literal interpretation is even more true I can look for the data but I don't think women wearing suits are typically searching for men in dresses, they're searching for men in bigger suits. SAHDs exist and I commend all girlboss x SAHD relationships despite their rarity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:54 PM
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time to spend my whole day looking for data
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:50 PM
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ppd try not to use excessively famous and wealthy people to debunk statements made about the general population challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:48 PM
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you have proven my point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:43 PM
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I think the traditional role debate can be pretty easily summarized by "women can wear suits and still find a husband but men can't wear dresses and still find a wife" I don't even know how you can contest that. people talk in circles about what you're allowed to do, that doesn't even matter, yeah I'm allowed to yell penis in a restaurant but what are the social repercussions?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:40 PM
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giant body =/= giant ass
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:46 PM
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im actually consistently surprised that the women here aren't morbidly obese shut-ins. idk how you end up at a place like this being 6/10+
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:42 PM
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dating post-tinder is pretty fucked, being fit won't help you with fit women especially if you have even 1 of many other physical flaws (bald, bad jaw, short, etc. can all make you the looksmatch of a 35 bmi woman even if you're jacked lol) fit or even average body type women are dating fit men with very marginal physical flaws
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:58 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:29 AM
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I don't want to fuck your wife either!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:28 AM
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reason #1 why I genuinely didn't want to steal her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:24 AM
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well the first two are good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:14 AM
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update on this: we talked for 10 hrs for 3 days catching up and all was well until her bf told her to block me so she did this has happened so many times nigga I'm so sick of boyfriends, I promise I don't want to fuck your mentally ill gf I just want friends, guess I'll stick to sucking off the homies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:09 AM
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long ways to go til stacy-lite I'm afraid....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 04:03 AM
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I made one once and got slightly slaughtered but I didn't explain myself well most of the top-upvoted of all time is shit I agree with and would wanna post about but redundancy is cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:31 AM
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there hasn't been a real banger post in a while that's for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:21 AM
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teaching is very undervalued. my only sentiment is I wish more men did it but that's unrelated to shitting on those who do teach. hard work n little pay but hopefully fulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:25 AM
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very true I recently realized my idea of a relationship is basically codependency, I may be stuck like this but we'll see
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:08 AM
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tbh I don't even remember but I'm sure it was really stupid, we once fought over whether cherry pudding was real and yeah she was a NEET and I was in school but didn't go to class or study because I'm very cool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:38 AM
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I was friends with a woman online from 2017-2020, we talked on average probably 9 hrs/day and never dated because she's 6 years older than me. we had a big fight and "friendship breakup" mid 2020 4 years later she has now contacted me again, I'm sure this will end well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 12:28 AM
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this is why my first step when cold approaching is to ask her what her cycle is; if she's not ovulating I move onto the next
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:12 PM
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I bet they also have anime body pillows and cobwebs on their small penises
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:28 PM
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feminists when men try
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 10:27 PM
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Not true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:27 PM
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somebody has to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:43 AM
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yeah that's not its initial purpose but inc3ls or inc3l-adjacents make up enough of the population that it's something i think about, doesn't mean others really have to i rarely have the inclination to happy-post about anything in my life though, relationship-wise or not, so i guess i can't even wrap my head around the premise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:41 AM
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when I had a gf I didn't gush over her here or any internet spaces, even when things were going really well, bc I knew the pain of inceldom, women don't know that pain and don't give a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:13 AM
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yea guys can go bald whenever but a tall guy isn't gonna shrink so it seemed like an obvious choice but ig I didn't include that in the hypothetical hairpill brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:18 PM
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i remember in middle school i had a phase where i came to school in a durag and sagging pants because i wanted to be like the other black kids but i wasnt foolin nobody
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:26 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 04:16 AM
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that's what the internet was like in the good ol days
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 03:50 AM
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nah that's good, regardless of the reasons they'll destroy everyone around them if you get close enough
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:04 PM
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this is reddit armchair psychology but ime they either completely lack a sense of self so they just say whatever the fuck, or they're unreasonably sensitive to rejection and believe if they don't fabricate a story to be more interesting, or say they enjoy x food instead of y food, the person they're talking to will abandon them or stop talking to them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:43 PM
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I didn't even get to 1k youtube subs before my discord got hacked by viewers, that shit's awful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:30 PM
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yeah there's a point where intensive DBT or EMDR or something needs to be tried. a lot of personality disorder symptoms are rooted in self-deception, and at that point you're fucked in talk therapy because in that state of mind, like you mentioned, full honesty is impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:27 PM
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lol I remember when I finally convinced my ex to go to therapy and she quit 3 of them because she "didn't like what they were saying," then I offered couples' therapy and she said I had to find one that was her exact demographic (younger black woman) or else they'd be biased in my favor. so I found one and then she decided she'd just try indiv therapy again (it made her worse)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:21 PM
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im surprised I hadn't heard this one yet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 08:08 PM
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dr. K has some annoying guru-esque traits but he does make a lot of good points, I at least admire him for being able to extend empathy to several different demographics, which most people online can't do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:50 PM
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friendpill is a risky one!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:01 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:24 AM
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someone went back and downvoted all my comments in this thread I think it was because of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:51 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:48 AM
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it must be your personality, I bet you kick puppies for fun, women can smell that sort of thing you know
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:09 AM
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true if everyone was normal weight that'd solve a lot of dating problems
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:54 AM
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poophead went on tinder genderswapped and is now blackpilled on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:45 AM
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women can throw consistency out the window because they can get the liberal pay pig but men can't get the tradwife who goes dutch when there's no reward for not being a hypocrite (or no punishment for being one) we get this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:41 AM
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born in the wrong generation 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:26 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:57 AM
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I was being facetious but since when do muscles and nice cars not attract women, especially shallow and physically attractive ones (normies) it won't help with obese or nerdy reddit women though I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:54 AM
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average man's looksmatch I wonder if her weight is at all related to being a widow (not like cuz her husband killed himself but that's possible, I mean depression eating)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:51 AM
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tell that to my harem when I buy steroids and a Lambo 💯💯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:46 AM
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tbh I was only inspired to post this because women can wear wigs and men can't, most people probably don't think of that as makeup covering acne/spots with foundation or something would be an example of a universally objective improvement tho I think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:34 AM
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milves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:31 AM
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I would've been surprised if you weren't I smell FDS too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:29 AM
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as we all start to realize mens' looks matter way more than they did in previous generations, I would hope that makeup for men becomes completely normalized but I'm not sure if that'll ever happen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:28 AM
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it's mostly women making posts asking all the other women if the guy they're talking to has any red flags. about 50% of the time there's no response or an "I knew him in HS he was chill" or something, and then another 45% are soft accusations with no proof, i.e. "he lovebombed me and left he's an asshole!!!" then 5% are real accusations of assault or stalking etc with either no proof or text evidence. sometimes they find a guy with a definitive criminal record so that's good proof ofc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:27 AM
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nah I'm a zoomer but that's interesting, AWDTSG may experience a similar fate I wish the posts were more entertaining than they are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:15 PM
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I am literally in the fb group how about I facetime u and prove it <3
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:08 PM
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<image> keep goin fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:59 PM
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nazi propaganda or college leftist propaganda u pick
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:23 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:15 AM
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i wish :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:11 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:09 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:58 AM
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generally I don't think that means they'll fuck you but maybe you can get off just from being groped
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:54 PM
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it's funny that this girl im talking to felt comfortable admitting that when she'd get drunk at parties she'd sometimes grab guys' asses (and one of those guys ended up developing a crush on her - perhaps unrelated to the ass-grabbing but still) women live in a different world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 07:31 PM
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especially you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 12:33 AM
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I don't think the recipient's self esteem is a good metric for determining abuse, but yes, I'd at least feel insecure about how I spend my free time I don't even need to use hypotheticals, my ex threatened breakups over menial things all the time, which, if seen as a form of control, runs contrary to the old adage of "anyone can break up with anyone for any reason." that's sort of what I'm getting at - either he's entitled to withhold the relationship due to her weight or he's not. is it true th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:36 PM
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I got that in last night with your mom LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:17 PM
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is it abuse if my gf says she'll break up with me if I don't stop playing video games 6 hrs/day when you say no please explain why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:15 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:59 PM
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checking subreddit overlap for twox, FDS, etc is enlightening, you'll see FDS users are 20x more likely than the average redditor to be subbed to r/CPTSD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:58 PM
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inc3ls don't know the simple trick of soccermaxxing to raise your attractiveness 1.5 points
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:55 PM
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make sure u exercise this week
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:53 PM
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in a group of men with the same fate it also creates identity and strengthens the group feeling me when the boys and I run out of bonding activities so we *checks notes* gangrape children wild
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:11 AM
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steer clear fellas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:08 AM
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are you drawn to them (the non-pedophile ones) due to their virginity or their culture
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:05 AM
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you're right, I'm merely focused on the fact that the question is conveniently only posed when action is taken to help men. if anything, I guess I'm advocating for men to be as proficient as women at social manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:43 PM
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not politically
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:22 PM
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it's just a shame that if that question is asked by men about women (what if the man is viewed as a perpetrator for defending himself against his wife's kitchen knife), nobody gives a shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:20 PM
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kyubey is actually terrifying and demonic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:15 PM
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darwinawards
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 09:09 PM
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im sure the irony is lost on them but I like how their argument against the campaign is that "violence against men is not structural or systemic" while structurally and systemically disenfranchising male victims
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 08:53 PM
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assuming those behaviors from women are in fact bad, shouldn't women also take accountability and...not engage in those behaviors? otherwise this reads as: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:15 PM
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"I can't get laid" ❌ "I don't participate in the culture of everyone raping each other" ✔️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 06:31 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:08 PM
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welcome back queen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:55 AM
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this is pretty common especially with mentally ill women, I'd like to think a bit less common for neurotypical women but I don't think I know any lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:14 AM
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everyone has very strong opinions on him, usually from n-word debate, kyle rittenhouse, israel/palestine, anti-red pill stuff, etc etc, most of the time from 1 clip they saw on twitter lol but dw I don't shove it in their face, I say "I think he's smart" if they bring him up and they're like "OH YEAH? HE'S RETARDED" so I defend my position, I don't go around preaching the cult of dgg
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:55 AM
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visiting my mom and I left my phone in the kitchen and she saw I had a bunch of notifications from girls, she thinks I'm a chad...little does she know I'm just really good at befriending women! I love my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:28 AM
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he's the only streamer I've listened to who's actually intelligent but arguing in favor of his intelligence is practically impossible because he's an asshole who doesn't care about rhetoric or optics everyone I know thinks he's stupid and then I have them watch more than 1 video and they're like "huh he might be onto something!"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:15 AM
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yeah I was just being facetious, unfortunately I relate on romantic and familial fronts and for some reason I (autistic) click with them well, and have seen many autistic x BPD relationships, but they, like most BPD relationships, don't have good outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:10 PM
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fujoshi or NEET
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:53 PM
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yeah that's usually the reason I see women give, learning a lesson basically if sex weren't generally viewed as an effort-reward system nobody would really have a problem with that, but it will bother some men if they have to dump $500 on dates and/or prove their compatibility to hit when guys of the past got to effortlessly I don't have an issue with it personally as long as I know it's not because she finds me unattractive - if it's just a new boundary she has with all men that's fine, but if …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:46 PM
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OP's point sucks but where did he mention men glowing up lol it's not that you as a man sucked and she's choosing you now that you're better, it's that she's choosing you because she's in a worse position (and you were always the same)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:28 PM
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just to be clear I think OP's take is kinda retarded but I don't think women who have casual sex and then withhold/move slower with men later in life are that rare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:20 PM
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the point of my comment is that my statement about feminists is just as ridiculous as saying the men here want hot slim young virgins, idk how every woman is missing this, I forgot most of you guys are probably millennials/x'ers and therefore don't read sarcasm through text that well since you weren't raised on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:07 PM
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haha, very clever! I wonder if the men who want hot slim young primal virgins (who probably are also submissive and don't speak) are in the room too! boy I hope this room is spacious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:11 PM
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idk how you managed to assume the opposite, that's pretty impressive actually - the women I know IRL are cool, whereas terminally online women on twox are the ones who'd be most likely to feel that way about men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:09 PM
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I forgot redditors universally lack of any sort of reading comprehension whatsoever, please forgive me women here don't say that (some women feel that way but won't say it out loud); I'm merely pointing out OP's insincerity in implying men here want "a hot slim young virgin who has raw primal lust for them." if you can show examples of a man saying that, I'll provide examples of women saying men are tools of competence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:08 PM
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feminists don't believe men are people, they just think men are tools of competence to serve them. they don't care about or think about average men, all they want is 6'4 athletes to pump and dump them and then complain that men are trash I'm not being cynical or sarcastic I'm just quoting what women here say :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:29 PM
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Is cynical and sarcastic Criticizes and judges from the sidelines ... They don’t want a wife and kids. They want a hot slim young virgin who has raw primal lust for them. the cycle is eternal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:57 PM
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this is every internet group, and if you're blind to it existing in your own in-group you suffer from bias due to echo-chambers, solipsism, personal trauma, or all of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:50 PM
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i giggled
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:36 PM
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no, it's because the potential of catfishing is specific to an individual i.e. not a stereotype inflicted upon an entire demographic, and "being a catfish" is less harmful than "being a predator," so labeling someone as such carries less weight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:34 PM
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i have been advocating for men to dress like this for years (no homo)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:28 PM
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what if u make good money but u dont like other ppl who make good money because theyre all squares :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:28 PM
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I also think misandry is embedded in everybody, but very different from misogyny ofc I wouldn't be as offended if someone assumed I'm a catfish vs. someone assuming I'm a predator, especially because the former is mostly only relevant in a romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:25 PM
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if you wouldn't be upset by millions of men immediately presuming you to be a gold-digger/whore based on your gender (and those men being accepted in that opinion), then I guess I do get why you wouldn't understand men being bothered by the bear hypo more power to everyone who doesn't give a shit I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:07 PM
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I was searching for a more ethical form of thugmaxxing, but I suppose if you relinquish any and all moral compass (or never had one to begin with) you can be a kidnapper, although wouldn't it make sense to resort to criminal paths to get romance? neither kidnapping nor drug dealing will lead to romance specifically, just sex (or rape)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:57 PM
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"if you're not a gold digger or whore why are you upset??? it's not about you"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:55 PM
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most men don't want to collectively be viewed as predators, similar to how most demographics of people don't want to be stereotyped as x bad thing on sight
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:54 PM
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it would probably be better to be like a drug dealer or something and just have women come to u because of that, kidnapping wouldn't have been my first choice! but I would always try to get really really really good at a particular thing (clout) to attract women before thugmaxxing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:40 PM
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true, for the very few times I've seen someone say "I should stay single due to my toxic behavioral patterns" it's lasted no more than two weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:12 PM
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because when unattractive men do bad things they get punished, unlike attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:26 PM
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this happens to me all the time, we use outlook idk their shit is broken
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:22 PM
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glad you brought this up poopgirl, as a man who snuck into an awdtsg group I too noticed this. the elderly love the apps, nobody will be able to stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 06:21 PM
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if you mean telling obese women they're beautiful, that's to eliminate competition if you mean taking everything other women say at face value, that's an in-group tactic that most demographics develop as a result of perceived or actual oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:13 AM
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how are there so many of us here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:50 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:49 AM
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did standup yesterday and got a lot of laughs for a bit about having sex with cows, I'm so happy I have this as a source of validation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:45 AM
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I read "social, college educated, upwardly mobile" as a list of separate traits, not a combination
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:40 AM
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you're probably better off making $30k moving boxes and being slightly extroverted instead of making $120k as a developer and being slightly introverted if we're talking casual sex I for example have no idea how to move from talking about work to being naked with someone, and I figure that lack of knowledge will hold most people back more than anything (assuming they're at least a 5)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:29 AM
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the numbers change a lot when you limit to social, college educated, upwardly mobile people I think change how? iirc poor people fuck a lot and higher IQ is negatively correlated with having sex (or maybe specifically "not being a virgin," might need to double-check)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:20 AM
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my favorite offshoot of the vegan debate is "if we can eat animals we should be able to fuck them too" and after thinking about and debating that statement for dozens of hours I have concluded there is no good argument against it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:12 AM
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this is super location-dependent but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:10 AM
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dating apps are mostly horrible for POC; most women I've either dated or gotten really close to having sex with (I've notoriously cock blocked myself) were ones I met via niche hobbies who either didn't care about looks much or specifically had an affinity for nerdy black guys I too feel I have a lot to offer but am shafted because on dating apps all that matters is appearance, and being brown brings default assumptions - obv people will recommend meeting women in person but tbh meeting women on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:13 PM
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that'll do it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:00 PM
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nah that makes sense unless WOC = black in which case yeah you're an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:59 PM
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when I was using apps hinge was my least successful despite similar profiles across the board m0ds might ban for this but I blame hinge's ethnicity filter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:55 PM
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yeah the "crazy women are great in bed" is overstated, and the sad part is, I think when they are good in bed it's mostly because they're playing into whatever ideals the guy has to decrease the odds that he'll abandon her, it's not like a genuine desire to please their partner I recommend everyone stay away from cluster Bs unless you're a very special type of person, like "prepared to apologize and take the blame because your partner cheated on you" type of person
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:30 PM
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BPD = borderline not bipolar (as you can see by my flair I'm an expert) I stayed with one for three years who had the same textbook characteristics that they all do, mostly because I figured nobody else would like me (I was right) the sex wasn't even that good especially because it was usually just me tempering her traumatic flashbacks with BPD it's not so much that they're happy one minute and sad the next, it's that they'll split on you: one moment you're their ideal partner ("favorite person"…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 06:06 PM
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my favorite afternoon pastime is posting something vulnerable on PPD and then quickly deleting it anyway here's a disabled chihuahua my mom is taking care of <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:34 PM
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I don't mean this to be an insult but any woman who picks bear should be getting treated for PTSD/CPTSD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:34 PM
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we set our sights and spent our nights waiting......for...you!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:36 AM
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nothing in that post says anything about giving up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:33 AM
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you can probably find this woman on sims or homestuck forums
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:50 PM
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yeah, dating is uniquely random because it relies on the consent of another person, unlike getting good at hobbies or going to school etc., so it's good to focus on the things you can control I think people are terrified of a "there's nothing I can do, woe is me" mindset, but that's not what he's saying; it's possible to both acknowledge the randomness of the situation while also improving yourself. you don't just say "well fuck it's all luck-based I guess I'll get fat and stop showering"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:36 PM
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despite her catering to their beliefs pearl is quoted as saying women shouldn't vote and 16 y/o girls are more attractive than mid-20's women. do you think most men believe these things? touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:30 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1c9t5aa/working_on_yourself_will_not_get_you_a/ the amount of people disagreeing with this guy but also saying exactly what he says in the post is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:27 PM
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ive got 300 anime under my belt and avoided yellow fever because anime girls rarely even look asian so idek where that comes from for other weebs, maybe voice actresses
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:02 PM
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You don’t need reason. LET'S GOOOOOOOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:04 AM
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if they wouldn't hire me at my worst then they don't deserve me at my best
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:15 PM
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alright that's a little too far
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:55 PM
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she's a 7 because she's not overweight (american)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:48 PM
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that's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:50 PM
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if a man hasn't removed vertebrae from his spine to suck his own dick he's not truly lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:41 PM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:03 PM
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last year I did a comedy gig opening for a wannabe late-night host at a shitty unlit bar an hour from home ($20 is $20). before anybody went on, the organizer of the whole thing came over to the opening comedians' table and half-drunkenly said, "y'know boys, you're only as good as the room you're playin. if you were better, you'd be playin' better rooms!" he didn't mean it to be an ass, just a fact of life. the three of us chuckled and agreed I don't wanna suck my own dick but my 15 minutes kill…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:00 PM
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remember, being nice is the bare minimum!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:53 PM
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a collective shit test perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:52 PM
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I think women just do a better job of presenting as happy to save face tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:47 PM
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pretty much any trad male gender role that still gets culturally enforced
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:27 AM
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Are they any female type mental illnesses that are compatible with autistic men? BPD, good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:23 AM
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"men made the patriarchal rules so why are they complaining about it" carries a whole lot of weight in online feminist communities for being maybe the worst argument anyone has ever made about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:27 PM
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body count = 1 so she was the best and worst ahahaha yes yes only because she's blabbing the redditor response to this case (even if it was made up) is fucking Wild, I will never ask this website for relationship advice these people are retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:20 PM
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they're at least doing nothing, which is better than doing something negative (overeating - chubby women)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:22 PM
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tfw taking care of your weight is the equivalent of someone who doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:14 PM
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when people say "women make the first move on guys they like all the time!" do they mean women literally asking men out or do they mean women wearing slightly more revealing clothing and smiling at guys they like from 50 yards away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:46 AM
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based reference
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:44 AM
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big agree
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:17 AM
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I don't have this problem, thankfully there's enough mentally ill mildly attractive women to go around for me. I just don't agree with the notion that "your league is what you can get," as the fluidity of the "sexual marketplace" is too volatile to easily decide somebody's league. But you and the other hardasses here are convinced that if a 6'0 fit guy can only attract women with a 35 BMI it must be some kind of personal failing, when I really really don't think it always is at all. Maybe it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:57 PM
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in 2024 your realistic standards as a fit man are a fat gf, thanks for confirming
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:40 PM
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this post is literally blaming men what the fuck are you guys on about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:33 PM
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are we talking guys who have slightly weird mannerisms like difficulty with eye contact or are we talking guys who are at a restaurant and say something like "wow that oven sure is cooking, kinda like the Jews getting cooked at Auschwitz"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 08:48 PM
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anecdotally I know more straight man/bi woman than I do straight man/straight woman would probably be my preference because ime bi women are more accepting of semi-sensitive men (me)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:37 PM
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it's over for me I got up a long time ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:25 PM
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my buddy got posted in an AWDTSG facebook group (just someone asking if he had any red flags and 1 woman saying yes and the rest saying no), so I screenshotted and sent it to him, now the women are all arguing about who's a snitch :/ im sorry ladies!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:21 PM
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q4a: should the partner making less money do more household chores? I always figured chores should be based on who works the most, i.e. if she makes less money but works 12 hr days I'll do the dishes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:47 PM
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for my ex I did just-because once in a while, like 5x/yr, and I think I was too autistic to pick up on any "buy this for me" hints I went all out for holidays tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:43 PM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 07:43 PM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:36 AM
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holy based
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:35 AM
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yeah I think for most women who don't use tiktok, "taller than me" is sufficient, but if he's 5'2, all of a sudden his Tom Holland features might not be as enticing. the same could be said for very overweight people or people with severely asymmetrical faces, but those both exist on more of a spectrum than a definitive number like height
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:51 AM
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someone in daily thread yesterday asked women how they'd rate the importance of face vs. body vs. height and iirc 90% said face>body>height, which is what I expected but for some reason a lot of people act like it's not true full blackpill would say it's because face is 100% genetics and women want to reproduce with good genes, but then height should be above body. as someone who doesn't care about face much it's hard to wrap my head around, imo body>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>faceheight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 02:42 AM
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I'm in midwest USA so literally about 8/10 profiles have a blatant typo or grammatical error, I really can't wrap my head around it. and yes the comma in the previous sentence should be a semicolon but that's not what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 09:21 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@aloralynnsavasta3/video/7345921704503299370 in current year they are looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:53 AM
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indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:18 PM
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"feminism is for men too" was far more frequently propagated by women at my university than anywhere else, but if you've been out of academia for a while I guess you wouldn't see that in reality feminism, like any movement, seems to have its own little bubbles that each think the other bubbles are fringe and niche
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:31 PM
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if only all (or even most) feminists agreed with you instead of dancing around this point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:23 PM
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would your recommendation to incels then be to lie and pretend like they've been rejecting women for years (an experience most men never have)?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:07 AM
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volcels and incels alike can have this preference and also be shamed for it, idk what the point is in making the distinction, although I guess most women would be more okay with a volcel having that preference than an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:48 AM
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inkwells here will downvote me but I really don't think height is that big of a deal until 5'6
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:47 AM
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i just like who likes me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:14 AM
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oh it did! im retarded. well it wasn't my post anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:13 AM
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as someone who doesn't even like virgins and prefers ran-through tatted goth mommies, yes; at the very least, the guy has to specify that he is a virgin himself/waiting for marriage as you did. but if a guy just says "I want a virgin" the default assumption is predation/insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:05 AM
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if he's white, ethnic women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 03:01 AM
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mine is different you can smell it through the screen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:54 AM
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Whoever downvoted this I just want you to know that you're going in my suicide note
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:47 AM
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I'm pooping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:43 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 02:41 AM
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ive heard of women fawning over green, hazel, blue, and gray eyes, but never brown. it never began for brown eyecels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:07 PM
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THIS IS YOUR BRAIN ON PINK PILL
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:11 PM
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I use this video as an argument when people say women can't be funny hopefully a man didn't write it for her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 08:14 PM
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russian female authors are based
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:12 PM
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don't forget d gray man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 07:09 PM
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tfw am black so can't get escorts cuz they think I'll pimp them anyway yeah she was a bit blunt, did she fuck well tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:26 PM
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if you're acknowledging american women do the same shit then we agree, very based
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 06:56 AM
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idk why any woman would care about passport bros, being white/american in some countries (not even necessarily poor ones) is the same as being chad in america, so they ought to be upset at chad too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:44 PM
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I wish any women found my entrepreneurial endeavors worth talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:27 PM
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in my friend group I mostly just see anime-loving awkward women dating athletes but I respect your experience, maybe it's better at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:08 PM
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I agree that shut-ins would be better off dating each other, I just wish they'd actually do it yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 06:00 PM
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an attractive extroverted guy will date the female shut in, an attractive extroverted woman will not date the male shut in how will the female shut in find that attractive extroverted guy? the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 05:51 PM
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me dick big
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 08:48 AM
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top 10 ppd thread-enders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 01:57 AM
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GIT HER
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:35 PM
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I'm not struggling to get laid so no one else is either is even bolder but more accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:24 PM
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in the comedy community sometimes there are women who specifically try to fuck comedians and they're called "chucklefuckers"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:34 PM
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that's why I plan to ask for my future wife's hand in marriage while I'm fucking her doggystyle, that way she knows I'm dominant and don't give a fuck about her answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:30 PM
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oh you were just more enthusiastic than I'd expect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:01 PM
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are you implying people wouldn't take it well? gee I wonder why
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:51 PM
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an understandable response to such smug assertions though, dare I say and thus the cycle of reddit continues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:48 AM
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as long as you're consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:30 AM
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after quitting my ssris cold turkey last week this hits pretty well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:28 AM
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you might be right. she should take an adequate amount of months (19-21) to reflect on her behavior before returning to the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:23 AM
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I've heard similar about John Maus although despite my affinity for depressing music I never really dipped into incelcore (weezer etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:17 AM
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it seems like eulen here wasn't feeling well and was operating at less than 100% (19-21% maybe) so I'd give her a break
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:13 AM
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relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:09 AM
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you're on an alt music kick huh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 06:04 AM
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we have gotta start responding to people who complain about the economy the same way we respond to people who complain about dating oh, you're struggling to afford rent? well, have you thought about getting, oh I don't know, a better job? can't get hired somewhere else? huh, well, employability has a lot to do with personality, so...sounds like you have some stuff to unpack. employers can smell your desperation. I was able to find a job pretty easily, so....try therapy, incel, lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:56 AM
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best PPD comment in ages
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:38 AM
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I've had this problem where people, even those I know who may be considered objectively smart, like they have a PhD in engineering or some shit, can't seem to follow a logical "if x = y and y = z then x = z." I do think, as you said in your first comment, it's mostly due to bias and groupthink. I don't think you necessarily have to be stupid to get sucked into a cult
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:29 AM
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70 IQ: instagram reel commenter 105 IQ: professional redditor 150 IQ: instagram reel commenter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:19 AM
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I get what you mean I think, I use that reactive tone but usually only if the other person does first. I lost faith in basic cognitive function a long time ago, or at least realized that most people don't have self-awareness. Like I'm at least aware that, in my OP, perhaps even I could be seen as believing I'm hovering above the other redditors by insulting them, thus making me a hypocrite. I don't know if I would agree with that, but I rarely witness people exercise the ability to question thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:10 AM
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ok 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:57 AM
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true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:48 AM
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idk what it is about this website but redditors seem to have a certain...smugness to them that doesn't exist on other sites. like the "play stupid games, win stupid prizes buddy!" attitude, as though they're hovering above the rest of us. I think it's the karma system ETA: this guy <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:43 AM
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inaccurate but very funny 9/10
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:42 AM
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u know it shawty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:47 PM
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yeah ik how to pick em
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:24 PM
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do you want screenshots and pictures oh wait it's you calp are you ESL?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:21 PM
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maybe sometimes, though in her case she was like this from day 1 and would frequently swap between finding an issue with me and zealous declarations of love in a moment of lucidity months later she also said she just does that with all her romantic partners lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 09:28 AM
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banger meme
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 08:20 AM
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(Retard)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:55 AM
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basado
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:26 AM
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not very unfortunately, I once yelled at robinhood when I was a teenager but I'm not much of a gambler with my own money, just others'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:25 AM
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can i participate? i make 6 figs but im black
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:16 AM
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nice guys (me) will use this tragedy as an opportunity to say she should've dated them (me) instead
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:11 AM
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im just a techbro thankfully i do have to market myself sometimes in the indie artist community but that doesnt count!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:07 AM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:05 AM
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overweight women mentioned, possum summoned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:58 AM
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I don't have a type but I seem to exclusively attract bisexual alt black women which is fine with me (except there are none in my city so I have to outsource pussy)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:36 AM
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annual reminder https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tHEOGrkhDp0
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:28 AM
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you gotta stop baiting we're all too stupid not to fall for it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:22 AM
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as the world is now I really don't tbh, though I see how saying "I wouldn't go this route myself" would imply I do want kids, just via a different route
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:56 PM
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it is on your thread I just don't be checkin my own threads hours later but to each their own I have a fourth date tmrw w/ someone who I Think isn't BPD but if she is I'll get the therapist and you get yours, deal accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:03 AM
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edits her own comment to enhance the roast comes back to the daily thread six hours later in search of comments about her I don't think your therapist is doing their job babe but hopefully your boyfriend can buy you a better one!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:57 AM
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ah geez, you're probably right! therapy would definitely help me avoid women like you, I'll look into it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:53 AM
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wit a chewwy on top? :3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:33 AM
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say please
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:31 AM
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gotchu keeby
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:27 AM
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better than kfc at least they got both I got pepsi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:24 AM
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<image> at popeyes waiting on fries yall want anything before I leave
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:22 AM
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not again :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:05 AM
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y'all young as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:45 AM
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now that's the benevolent misogyny we can all enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:45 AM
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haha okii approaches apprehensively
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:44 AM
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if I'm being real I don't and never hated women I just hate the empathy gap (which is reinforced by men and women) as it nearly ruined my life a few times but that's a systemic issue albeit a systemic issue women are very much not interested in solving
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:26 AM
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yes I'm in a permanent long distance (emotionally) relationship with the...the f-f-females
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:24 AM
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I was probably a legitimate misogynist in my teen years and everyone told me "just talk to women" but that made it worse so now I distance myself and I love women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:22 AM
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this ain't her first account and iirc she had a recent post or two regarding needing therapy for obsessing over appearances etc etc I ain't tryna throw shade (I am) but with the username "missionglowup" and constant rage-baiting I question her happiness and security
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:19 AM
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that helps too ye
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:42 AM
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elastin's a life saver
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:36 AM
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Currently, the system of raising boys aims to generate good accountants, not attractive men. based
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:48 AM
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me getting my hair back my ex's greatest dream was skinny legend too, loose skin fucked up her mental though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:44 AM
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gonna be honest wasn't expecting the comments to be so heavily against this maybe I'm a psychopath too though I wouldn't go this route myself, it doesn't seem...that strange?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:10 PM
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that's what I'm here for
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:59 PM
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the pic standard increases with each newest iPhone at least
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:51 PM
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this entire thread is people sharing useless personal information
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:51 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:42 PM
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I don't think I can do dating apps for the mere fact that I have no interest in photography and refuse to learn. I have happily studied classic literature and 18th century paintings but for some reason the second someone mentions "camera aperture" I want to kill myself. I will continue to use dating apps for shitposting only until I get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:26 PM
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omggggg yes it doooooo fr😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:23 PM
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what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:18 PM
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they think you're a girl because you said "need" with a surplus amount of "e"s and you used an emoji you must be more manly. next time, try, "This woman is very attractive. I like her."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:17 PM
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As per your implication, feminine elegance does in fact decline with age, and younger (19-21) women are indubitably the way to go, as they will have a healthier BMI (19-21) and a more exploitable IQ (19-21).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:13 PM
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haha, you get used to it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:11 PM
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REDDIT
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:09 PM
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is your flair your hair transplant savings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 08:03 PM
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yeah, and sadly the attention a top tier man gets is similar to the attention a slightly above average woman gets, so on average you do have to ask for more restraint from women misogyny aside humans are very unpredictable yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:24 AM
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maybe I'm just paranoid too but another thing is, if she does turn down the 5 guys/wk who hit on her, will she look down on you as her partner for not getting similar attention? at some point I'm pretty sure that's what my ex thought of me, blind to the dynamic that women usually don't hit on men anyway (likely because she hit on me and figured that's what most women did). idk this would only get fixed if we castrated 5/6 of men also 5'10 ain't shit height fuck social media
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:19 AM
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one day I'll stop liking your kind
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:15 AM
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I'm in a similar boat, although I have been screwed over, and I've only been approached by one woman (coincidentally the one who screwed me over). I would've and still do consider her my "looksmatch" (decent body average face) and she had an NBA player in her dm's shortly before we met. She didn't get w/ him (as far as I know lol) but the fact that the option is there makes me squint at any LTR situation ty for good wishes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:08 AM
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the dynamics of modern dating, that being the horniness of men compounded with social media/online dating, has resulted in women receiving infinitely more attention than their male equivalent (i.e. a fit man pales in comparison to a fit woman regarding their dating options), so this mostly results in men dating down or doing everything they can to barely date across this doesn't mean individual women can't be cool though, I'm more of a "most people are victims of the system they live in anyway" …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:55 AM
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I believe it's possible to both acknowledge the truth of a situation while approaching individuals without a massive chip on your shoulder (by faking it) it's true that dating sucks because women are picky and are overvalued; it's also true that this thought can be set aside when going to dinner with a particular woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:46 AM
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after having a meaningful 3-year LTR and going on a few dates with pleasant women in my area you'll have to connect the dots for me on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:44 AM
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I don't understand how so many men can go about dating while knowing their woman equivalent is infinitely more valuable than them, it dampens the whole process that said I have another date on friday lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 07:37 AM
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luck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:29 AM
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it's unfortunate that I dated a crazy woman and then came to this subreddit, because my sample size n=1 contradicts everything women say on here about other women my ex literally admitted to withholding sex on purpose, among other manipulation tactics, so it's possible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:07 AM
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topical min is very safe and I think the fear mongering around oral fin is overblown, I know I'm just n=1 but I've had way worse side effects from ssri's than I have from fin, and if fin side effects are unbearable then the odds of them reversing if you stop taking it are very very high - almost to the point where I'd guess those who suffer "post finasteride syndrome" are in a placebo I was also ready to blow my head off but I did get laid while bald with a 6/10, idk if it's women you're worried…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:52 AM
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you're right except the 6-7s I could only maybe get IRL, online dating is beyond fucked. and yeah I just talk in hyperbole sometimes but the stacy-landwhale dichotomy thankfully is not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:45 AM
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I started receding at 17 because God hates me but I didn't start fin until 3 months ago because side effects are stronger the younger you are 3 months ago I was actually only at about a nw2.5-3, after fin + min + microneedling + keto shampoo, my crown filled in and I'm like a nw1.5-2 and can pass with a buzz cut, hoping for more growth since it's still early
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:42 AM
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this aint my first rodeo mars
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:35 AM
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thanks! watch out folks im gonna hit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:32 AM
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post-covid feels pretty wild yeah I'm working on only talking to women irl who probably don't touch the apps, they tend to be attractive and more willing to speak to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:27 AM
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if I posted a meme on my ig story about how guys like me have good dick and a girl I've been talking to liked it is that a good sign that I could hit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:22 AM
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sorry that's a gamer way of saying "I agree with your take as it is intelligent"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:15 AM
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high IQ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:14 AM
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suspecting me as their first patient yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:13 AM
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and on the flip side I will only see a female urologist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:11 AM
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I know I'm not OP but I mostly agree with you, the annoying part is that online dating is so popular now and plays out the exact dilemma you described - most men won't turn women on with a picture and a 200-word bio, except for chris hemsworth. I want to go back to candles and horses (not actually, just the 90s tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:08 AM
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gen x men got it made
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:04 AM
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yeah I wouldn't want to be outdone by my own dog so I'd have to start humping her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:02 AM
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tyty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:54 AM
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hiking with our dogs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:51 AM
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u pass
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:47 AM
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what do they look like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:42 AM
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hell yeah, I met my ex (who turned out to be awful but I value the experience) fucking around on omegle of all places, if one of our internet connections had randomly gone out it probably would've taken a long time to find someone else compatible you can hit someone up at the library one day and they don't reciprocate because they had a shitty morning, but maybe if you'd done it yesterday you would've started dating. guys who act like they're hot shit because they found a relationship remind me …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:39 AM
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idk why I complain so much I have a date on wednesday hope it goes well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:20 AM
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their not I think your just projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:13 AM
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yeah I don't think I've ever seen a non-morbidly obese woman who wasn't an acid attack victim that I wouldn't give a shot at a relationship with. sometimes when they open their mouth is when I call it quits it was actually a shocker growing up to learn that women absolutely do not think like this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:09 AM
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TIL im not a man thank god now I can chase women at night in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:48 AM
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true, you should always do whatever you can to increase your odds, but people should keep in mind that you can make no mistakes and still lose
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:43 AM
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oh yeah the difference between buzzcut and shiny bald for some guys (me) is like 1-2 points on the 10 scale
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:41 AM
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we stan a self aware queen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:40 AM
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the former is me right now on fin lol, little receded at the temples though, so #1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:33 AM
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dating discussions wouldn't be so frustrating if people could just concede the ever-important factors of luck and circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 03:31 AM
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In my short life and brief collegiate philosophy classes I would have never thought the phrase "good _____" would not be morally loaded, this is an entirely new culture
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:06 AM
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I've seen the "morally bad" argument explicitly a few times, but I think even "bad personality" could reasonably be assumed to mean "morally bad." If people are saying "bad personality" to mean "shitty social skills" or something similar then they're just communicating poorly imo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:40 AM
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I finally got a car so I'll start soon, going dancing next week with my chad buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:35 AM
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on dating apps it is, irl maybe not as long as you don't have alien skull shape and are shooting for the late 20's+ crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:27 AM
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if they do, status symbol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:05 AM
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would have to do a poll to see if men would rather date a woman with 32 BMI (and a shitty waist-hip ratio) and a good face or a fit woman with a busted face being a good conversationalist is nice but pretty much a bonus for most men at this point, for me it's a requirement 'cause if she can't hold a conversation my charisma falls flat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:04 AM
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as the ex of a crazy bitch I always recommend guys find out for themselves, would never expect someone to heed our warnings you might wake up with a knife in your chest though so I hope you're ready to die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:48 PM
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it seemed less directed at the idea that you didn't put in more effort and more directed at the idea that you wouldn't have had to in order to meet the top 20% - with your other improvements you're probably top 10% idk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:41 PM
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s tier rant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:32 PM
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true I can't claim inceldom usually I dgaf but when I'm not busy with other things the frustration seeps in, accompanied by the fact that this "fact of life" is denied by the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:28 PM
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hair is kope like u don't think it matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:22 PM
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that's pretty much my plan, I make enough money to do it, I don't want to take advantage of desolate Indonesian women but if I have to make 100k to get an American woman making 30k to speak to me then I wager I am no longer the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:10 PM
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my face is hella average if not a 4 due to slight hair loss at my temples would definitely date a bald woman or a woman with a big fucking nose or something though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 11:07 PM
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facts which is why I swore off dating for a while, don't enjoy subjecting myself to a skewed game, gotta fight 50 other men for a crumb of attention from a woman who can barely read and only goes to planet fitness for pizza Tuesdays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:54 PM
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porque no los dos
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:43 PM
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going to the gym feels weird. despite having a decent gym body myself there's just something telling me that none of the women at the gym who are as fit as me, my looksmatches, would ever give me the time of day. this is probably a result of mostly matching with 300+lb women on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:39 PM
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me!!!! UwU :3c
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:36 PM
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everywhere all of the time if you haven't seen a man's dating woes be met with "maybe you're just a bad person/have a bad personality" on this website alone then you must be a grade A grass toucher
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 10:24 PM
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they really don't lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:40 PM
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This has been my experience dating feminist women and observing others' relationships with feminist women - there never seems to be a comfortable 50/50. Even in an interpersonal dynamic between two people, this expectation that the man must somehow make up for the sins of his ancestors always seeps in. I'm at a point where I don't really trust anyone to separate their political beliefs from how they conduct their relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 01:01 AM
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Honestly a big part of dating that should be mentioned more is just knowing your audience. If you're a guy and you're genuinely a misogynistic asshole, you can definitely still get laid - just look for women at your local psych ward. Similarly, if you're a nice-guy yes-man doormat, you can also still get laid - just look for women at your local psych ward. Every time someone says "oh you struggle with women because xyz," I immediately write off anything else they have to say, because there are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:45 PM
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usually yes sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:34 AM
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k pop easy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:33 AM
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I believe most of the untreated ones are very good at crafting their own realities and believing it themselves, and if you're trying to care for them you want to consider their perspective as important and valuable as your own. But their perspective is severely warped by trauma/fear and after descending several layers of argumentative nonsense where they often get violent or start screaming, you realize there's no real resolution. Somehow, though, yeah you do end up questioning shit for a long t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:21 AM
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very true, yellow fever among anime fans is not nearly as pronounced as non-anime fans think it is now that I think about it, this could be because anime characters rarely actually look asian lol, only exceptions are obscure 2000's stuff nobody watches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:03 AM
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I keep thinking about an argument my ex and I had where she said that I never did anything for her, so I listed all the things I did for her on a regular basis, many of which should only be expected in a parent-child relationship. As a result, she accused me of "holding those things over her head." Most arguments felt like a trap she'd set up from the beginning that I'd foolishly walk into. Still recovering from all the "gaslighting" or whatever new-age psych term would be used to poorly describ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:59 AM
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latter easily
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:53 AM
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While I do ioften assume a woman's silence is a discreet plea for me to unzip my pants, I'm not sure that's the case here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:32 AM
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I don't know why people don't block when they ghost. You could be flirting with someone for three months and they suddenly disappear, but don't block your number. You've left the door open for me to send dick pics, berate you verbally, etc etc, which I uh normally won't do, but why not just block?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:07 AM
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my age range would probably be 21-32 I don't have any big preference really all I know is 19 y/o's are annoying and mid-30's may be a bit too old (exceptions possible)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:54 AM
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I haven't had any horrendous side effects yet but I'll stop if I do as I would prefer a working dick to keeping my hair I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:20 AM
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ah thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:55 AM
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okay that's a funny response
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:52 AM
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what the FUCK did you just say to me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:46 AM
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I did standup at a bar tonight and had a good set and afterwards a 30-y/o-ish woman in the audience came up and asked me how to get into standup because "her life sucks and she thinks it'd be therapeutic." We talked for like 20 minutes and I gave her tips on writing and what open mic/showcase spots she could check out. My dumb fuck ass forgot to ask for her number. I know her name but I'm not going to find her on facebook that would be creepy. Maybe I'll see her again. At least I got to socializ…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:31 AM
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cringe (I used to do that)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:59 AM
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I failed to factor in shared funds/budgets to this question, makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:59 AM
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he buys your makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:55 AM
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makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:09 PM
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understandable, I paid for stuff 95% of the time anyway but I was def curious about the embarrassment/social aspect of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:07 PM
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Q4W: say you're out getting groceries with your bf/husband, would you be embarrassed to split the grocery order at the checkout lane, like he pays for his stuff/some of the shared items, and you pay for your stuff/some of the shared items? asking 'cause my ex, even if she wanted to pay me back later, hated this; she preferred I pay for everything up front for the sake of social presentation. I didn't mind but I'm curious how common a preference like that is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:46 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:40 PM
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this is good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:03 PM
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depends on their attractiveness level/proclivity to be gay or bi but yes perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:36 AM
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if I was being held at gunpoint and told to cold approach a stranger woman I would get shot compliment something she was wearing or her hairstyle or w/e, then try to make a passing, neutral comment on something in the surrounding environment (i.e. an exhibit if we were at a museum or something), then introduce myself, then walk away politely when she doesn't introduce herself back
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:33 AM
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relatable but vice versa. does that fall into incel-crazy though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:29 AM
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oh the "bitches be crazy" ones can be pretty vicious they're just better at giving the tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:12 AM
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probably true though I don't think women are beating down the doors of male bell hooks readers so avoiding this phenomenon definitely isn't top priority I imagine incel misogyny is definitely less attractive than womanizer misogyny having to pick between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:48 AM
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the "women can smell a bad personality" feels like a reddit-only thing. hitler had women ffs. sometimes I ask people irl if they think assholes/misogynists get laid and they look at me like I'm crazy and say yeah of course
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:22 AM
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Q4A: do you think "I'm not photogenic" is just cope for "I'm ugly"? for me I've had several people say I look like shit in every picture I take, yet am pretty average/slightly above in person. I never really know what to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:07 AM
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u gotta lay off the schizoposting bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:42 AM
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couldn't have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:32 AM
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I held 8 bed frames in my first tinder pic and didn't get any matches, but then I held up the same 8 bed frames while standing in the shower and got 50 likes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:50 AM
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friends still aren't a guarantee but I do agree people should still try to be more social even if not for dating, especially in younger generations you can probably come out with less dignity than you started with though if you fuck up enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:15 AM
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there is decent correlation between income and having a bachelor's/master's degree, but trades/training programs are definitely underrated and not fucking $50k/yr like some colleges so good point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:11 AM
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lmao that's what I say about some of my hobbies. maybe this is better: practice piano 7 hours / day as a 4-year-old -> become great pianist practice piano 7 hours / day as a 30-year-old -> give up quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:08 AM
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everything in life seems to have some kind of consistent reward system besides dating practice piano 7 hours / day -> become great pianist lift 5 days / wk -> gain muscle study a lot at school -> better grades do well in school -> make more money play video games -> acquire more achievements work on your personality and be more social -> still get no dates/get ghosted because emotions are fleeting and people are unpredictable and maybe they just weren't feeling you that day when another day they…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 06:01 AM
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another malfunctioned personality detector
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:19 AM
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some men are envious of the attention women en masse receive, regardless of if that attention has sexual ulterior motives, and may come across as wanting to be a woman despite no gender dysphoria
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:34 PM
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as an ex-catholic myself I lumped them all in together but huh the more you know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:33 AM
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I would like my submissive traditional wife along with electricity in the home thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:30 AM
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four times yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:50 AM
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I thought it was weird that you didn't separate emotional intelligence and maturity as concepts because I'd heavily distinguish between the two You asked for a couple sentences and I wrote three paragraphs so I wasn't gonna continue into a dissertation, but I kind of agree, though I wouldn't "heavily" distinguish them. There are definitely aspects of maturity that are only loosely tied to emotional intelligence But I'll be honest I have no fucking idea how someone who has actually had a relation…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:15 AM
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I don't think anyone could give you a satisfactory response because you're already demonstrating extreme bad faith but I know that's mostly how you interact on these subs anyway. I will probably regret responding. Emotional intelligence/maturity relates to one's ability to manage and communicate their own emotions in an effective manner. Approaching conflicts with honesty and without throwing a tantrum. Finding compromises when applicable, and knowing your own boundaries well enough to not compr…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 06:25 AM
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yeah it's a bit hard to do things for yourself when you're parenting your partner. I worked from home and she didn't so I'd always offer to help her get ready in the morning, which then turned into me doing her entire morning routine for her, and if I ever couldn't she'd feel slighted. I have better boundaries now but I don't believe they would've helped while dating her there are definitely more women out there like this than society tends to warn us - most focus is placed on teaching men how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 10:22 PM
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I'm telling you the main problem is the accountability shit is all projectionism and never fucking equal, but all we can really do is just leave and walk out the door if women do that shit. my ex took up about half the living room with her dirty laundry that she said over and over again that she'd clean, but would claim I "didn't care about her or the relationship" and "didn't care about cleanliness as much as her" if I accidentally left a plate by the sink instead of washing it. I believe it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:52 PM
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ay yo just here to say I also have an ex like this, the only woman I've dated, likely had BPD, never diagnosed but was diagnosed with precisely 9 other mental disorders and I would personally diagnose her with BPD (+ she diagnosed herself at some point). basically the exact same dishwasher situation happened with most chores; I also paid rent/paid for her groceries but it didn't matter and the end of our relationship 1 year ago cast me into loneliness hell, once in a while hoping to get abused a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:31 PM
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posting something delusional, in this case it would've been you pretending to have a gf but I now see you were being satirical
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:49 AM
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true I don't actually know why they do that, they could tell a dating subreddit, or their friends, or a diary, or anyone else, it must be to ragebait if I come here to talk about relationship things it will be about my failures, as intended by PPD culture read the room ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:29 AM
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I believe he is schizoposting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 06:23 AM
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this will become more and more common among zoomers/young millennials, money is so much easier than pussy jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:24 AM
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I remember some guy posted on the bald subreddit and said when he went out drinking w/ his friends, they all "scored" with women while he didn't, and he suspected it was because he was bald (he was still like a 5 at least but yeah) several commenters had the nerve to say "well it's not because you're bald, it's because you said 'scoring', women are not a prize to be won!" as if there's not a 99% chance his friends also use that language jfc, but no I'm sure his friends got laid by correcting his…
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 04:04 PM
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I'm only 24 but things feel that dire already; statistically there shouldn't be anything so wrong with me that I can't find dates (tall, fit, make good money, decent face, funny/creative, have female friends so not like I'm completely vagina-repellent, they're just all in relationships), but...I can't. I'm black in a predominantly white area, so that probably doesn't help. But when I get 200 matches on OLD from foreign women, why wouldn't I try that instead? Western women make fun of passport br…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:01 PM
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no, after my dad got my mom's number he waited over two weeks to call her, and to this day he's extremely emotionally unavailable; if she's crying about anything there's a 95% chance you can find him in the basement watching football
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 05:19 PM
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SO TRUE HOLY
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 06:20 AM
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ordered fin and min + a microneedle tool, will try to preserve my hair that's left since it looks alright buzzed, or maybe grow some back if I'm lucky. hopefully with this + gym I can be a consistent 6 until I die
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:48 PM
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my cope for not getting laid is that sex with a condom on feels like sticking my dick in a toilet paper roll, and I wouldn't want to have unprotected sex with strangers anyway, so masturbating is just superior. idk if there are any actually good condom brands. this would not be a problem but the doctors stole my foreskin without my consent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:20 AM
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https://imgur.com/D7sDNvr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:54 PM
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my favorite dating apps are omegle and discord
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:21 PM
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I think that's exclusively who I have to date
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:20 PM
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the latter if you don't fit into an archetype by default, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:12 PM
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I fucking love this website
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:00 PM
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bout 9 times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:55 PM
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I think fitting into a certain niche or archetype is an underrated aspect of being attractive, at least in the initial stages of dating. There's goth men and women, druggie men and women, lumberjack men, country girls, giga nerds, etc. You need an aesthetic about you that somebody else just likes by default, crafted by how you dress, talk, and act, even if it's undesirable to the majority of people. The only woman who's liked me, my ex, had a string of ex-boyfriends or love interests who looked …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 04:55 PM
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I think your premise is accurate but your example isn't great just because, without looking at the comments, I'm guessing several people are coming forth with their anecdotes about the cleanly, decor-loving men they know. One example I always use instead is method of communication - the way women communicate their feelings in a relationship is currently considered the default, correct way, whereas mens' style of communication is considered toxic and uncouth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 01:33 AM
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he does look chill. I wonder if he's made any cool video games
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 07:04 PM
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leftists are pretty consistent in finding ways to justify atrocities while condemning much less; maybe they'd be less okay with it if somebody said "jewish females are being raped" because then they'd be using the naughty female word also abolish prisons and rehabilitate murderers via some alternative but if you said the f-slur in 2013 you're irredeemable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:41 PM
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I don't know if it's ever a good idea to come to reddit for relationship advice. You're asking strangers with their own biases and hangups to evaluate the morality of yourself or your S/O based on a 10-paragraph or less blurb with a TL;DR at the end, and half the commenters are probably only reading the latter. Some people may have never had a bad encounter with a woman in their life and by default think the man is always the issue, others just got out of an abusive relationship with a woman and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:29 PM
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I've known a couple women who specifically expressed the sentiments I listed in the OP, I'm sure they were also concerned about physical dangers too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 08:17 PM
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that's true but don't spend money on OF unless you're gonna pipe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:40 PM
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when I first typed it I wrote "the same reservations" and then changed it to "similar reservations" because of this, believe me I know, I don't think it's parallel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:39 PM
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thats true shoutout to my shortcels passport bro is their best option
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:37 PM
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which you can get for much less money from a real person I won't go full "dating is prostitution lul" redpill but this does depend on how much she wants to be wined and dined and obv getting sex from randos isn't easy if you have any specific hangup, like sub 4 looks or ND, but these traits may just be unattractive whether or not he gets a hooker anyway Also he could potentially be a sex addict with a hooker habit true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:26 PM
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if that's all, then you and I spending money on drugs is probably a lil wasteful
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:15 PM
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I would only do tit for tat lying on an individual level, not "some of them lie about this so I will lie to this specific woman who may or may not be a liar." I could just not mention it tho but I'm used to knowing basically everything about my partner and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:13 PM
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because you don't believe trading sex for money is ethical? or because he had to stoop so low? or both
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:08 PM
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was thinking about seeing an escort but I had similar reservations women have about becoming one - "will I have to lie about this in the future"/"how much would future partners judge me" at the end of the day I think I would make a good LTR partner but I'm too lazy to learn the necessary social song and dance to meet new people, yet I'm greedy enough to still want physical affection. unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:00 PM
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if it's any lifefuel I got a gf at 21 with NW2 and a buzzcut (looked effectively bald to her because she was 5'2), surprisingly it hasn't moved since, but ik it's gonna get worse and I'm gonna be single for the foreseeable future just become the rock bro
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:51 PM
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thanks for destroying my hope of hooking up with 30+ y/o's as a 23 y/o about to lose his hair
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:38 PM
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I memorize most of my sets and I've only been heckled a couple times, one time I had a good response, the other time not so much. I'm really bad at improv, and that's basically what conversations are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:33 AM
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let's gooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:31 PM
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they don't deserve me 😤 😤 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:27 PM
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not necessarily but it would've socially made sense to try and carry on the conversation like, "oh where did you see me?" or something, I just can't think on the spot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:27 PM
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ty that one's my fav too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:21 PM
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ah shit just unlisted now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:15 PM
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the real challenge would be writing jokes for autistic people since they don't laugh at anything [there was once a video here] face doxx i will delete (or edit) this comment in 10 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:02 PM
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the other day I was out w/ a friend and a girl recognized me for doing standup comedy and said "hey you're really funny" and I said "thanks." and kept walking, good reminder that my dating failures are mostly due to my autism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:55 PM
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pretty sure most people, and maybe more women than men, use "empathy" and "emotional intelligence" to mean "agreeing with me." I can't count how many times I've been able to explain someone's exact thoughts/position to them, and why it makes sense to them, only for them to still accuse me of not being empathetic - yeah, the last thing I didn't do was agree
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:42 PM
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I can understand having standards for your own potential wife's past but having standards for another guys' wife's past is a bit strange that said I don't think all the criticism has to come from jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:39 PM
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that wasn't a fun fact at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:35 PM
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please invite me to the planet you're living on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:49 AM
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the alpha male will never run out of money anyway 100 emoji but yeah one is a resource that can be depleted by others and the other (looks) you'll have for as long as you take care of it and will only be depleted by time, that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:08 PM
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another +1 for blackpill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:01 PM
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this is true, I'm pretty sure you can get attraction from nationality alone without having to prove that your currency is worth 100x the local's
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:00 AM
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I always say this too, but it depends on how much you value being in a relationship at all vs. being alone. I also think there's something to be said about people who date each other for other shallow reasons, like looks - "she only likes you for your face" isn't said very often. I'm not entirely sure why someone liking you for your looks and then developing an emotional bond with you later is so much different and so much more permissible than someone liking you for your money and then developi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:49 AM
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happy sex life easy. work is supposed to suck a lil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:45 AM
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you must not be familiar with women who ghost for 2 months and then try to contact you when their new bf/relationship doesn't work out, this has happened thrice to me so I envy you carry on with your perspective, just a lack of experience :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:55 PM
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blocking is definitely not announcing loudly to the wall that this is unacceptable, people don't get notified when they're blocked; blocking is quietly having enough respect for yourself that if this person is taking weeks to respond, they're not worth hearing back from in the future
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:57 PM
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might try the former (since I at least know what those 3 are), don't really have anything to lose and not getting laid anytime soon so don't care about ED sides; also not a professional but I wouldn't be surprised if post-finasteride syndrome or w/e it's called is mostly mental if 2pacmaxxing seems unlikely I'll visit tressless more
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:16 AM
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nah it's not all gone but I'm not sure stopping it in its place is worth the meds will spend the next 4 years rapmaxxing look forward to my first release
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:11 AM
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couldn't get through the first season but the episode where he's in a diner (5 or 6) is pretty good, other than that it was snorefest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:09 AM
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my hair's fucking off pretty quickly too, I'm kind of alright because black + tall + good facial hair + gym, but now I have to rock the strong man look while having a twink personality considering fin but I really don't give a shit if it's not guaranteed to grow hair back
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:06 AM
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eye_fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:45 PM
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I am joking yes I just refuse to add /s to anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:34 PM
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I'm too autistic to know the middle ground between that and asking her to suck my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 09:06 PM
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another woman who won't let men be vulnerable.....smh......
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:22 PM
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planning on trying this when I travel outside the country
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:14 PM
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they are hard to come by
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:06 PM
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d-did I just get reverse halo-effected? well I'll be I rapidly swap between a 4 and a 6 depending on if I went to the barber recently or had a small acne breakout
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:02 PM
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god I wish every redditor who claims they've seen Cthulu dating Margot Robbie would also include their exact longitudinal and latitudinal coordinates in their message because I would absolutely love to move to whatever planet they're on if only to counter my own confirmation bias that these 3/10 men dating 8/10 women do not exist at all (at least for people under 35).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:55 PM
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nah if I was attractive enough she wouldn't have ghosted anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:53 PM
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I just see so many women complain about guys being too sexual too quickly, so if a conversation regarding her hobbies/interests also isn't enough, might as well shoot for the stars; my brand of "getting-to-know-her" rizz might be lackluster if she's there for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:48 PM
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anyone else throw hail marys (maries?) on dating apps? I'll match with a girl who's a writer, we'll have a good conversation about world-building in fiction or something, then she'll ghost for 3 days, so I send a "can I eat your ass?" it doesn't work but when there's nothing left to lose there's nothing left to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:43 PM
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🖕
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:13 PM
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personally I like to adapt and complain at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:10 PM
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quickly stalk his internet history in my experience when women are scared to introduce kink stuff it's like oh I want to be blindfolded teehee and when men are scared to introduce kink stuff he wants her to shit in his mouth while she cuts herself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:03 PM
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maybe this is the reverse of women emotionally comforting their bf's but still losing respect for him in the process for me if there was a kink that would make me lose respect for her I think I just wouldn't do the kink
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:41 PM
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usually in the initial message they just say it's "competitive" which I take about as well as a woman would take a man saying he has a "competitive dick size"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:42 PM
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Linkedin is like a reverse tinder. Recruiters message me and I ignore all of them because I don't think they're worth my time. This must be how women feel on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:35 PM
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yeah like I said elsewhere, better now than later
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:43 PM
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don't worry that wasn't the goal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:17 PM
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thanks, at the end of the day I'm glad I got the experience though, else I probably would've ended up dating someone like her at 27
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:40 PM
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I think she's "high functioning bpd" and she called herself the same once but didn't want to see a psych to get tested for it as the borderline label's a bit stigmatized. She did manage to graduate college and is really knowledgeable about certain things; most of her sabotaging is in regards to relationships but it spills over into other parts of her life, problem is she can't handle being single either
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:36 PM
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yes, and she has higher aspirations that I think she's smart enough to attain but she needs some kind of stability first; unfortunately she sabotages stability
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:19 PM
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I'm a dumbass so I'd probably do it again but I'd wanna see a psych eval first
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:12 PM
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if only she could keep a job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:08 PM
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bait post
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:07 PM
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me rich
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:06 PM
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while we were dating I'd been covering my ex's rent and groceries (we lived together), only for her to hop on dating apps and subsequently break up with me; now she's put her venmo in all her social media and is $3k in debt (as told by a friend of mine who still followers her). it sounds like an incel revenge story but it's just depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:02 PM
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True, and that's why RP is often so attractive to neurodivergent men; wider society espouses "Just be yourself and put yourself out there!" but a lot of social practices are inconsistent and nonsensical so RP at least provides some kind of framework deeper than the platitudes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:46 PM
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To be clear, I think approaching is still probably alive and well for people over 35. But I think there's a lot of young women who've been inundated with video after video (often acted) depicting harassment that's led to a greater cultural wariness of men who are strangers. I go to the gym frequently and I could probably flirt with a woman there without getting a sexual harassment charge, but I think the odds of her being at all receptive (i.e. a polite turn down if she's not interested, or flir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:27 PM
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"Now what would you rate yourself on a scale of 1-10?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:19 PM
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That follows since I am definitely not sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:15 PM
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I've been in the gym for 6 months and most of them are scrawny, it's great. They definitely do not want to be my friend. Little do they know I'm not really a threat because I have a touch of the tism but it is nice to be perceived that way yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:07 PM
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Wish we had any data but I would bet my life savings that men were less worried about approaching in 2008 than they are in 2018+
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:03 PM
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Anecdotally, radfems become repulsed by frat guys after dating them from 18-23 and learning from experience lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:02 PM
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I don't think the metoo movement itself necessarily caused the current zeitgeist of "don't approach women," it just played a part, but it seems we disagree that that zeitgeist even exists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:59 PM
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oh no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:52 PM
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There's a very important difference between the intentions of a movement (eliminating harassment and assault in the workplace) and how it gets applied by the general public (approaching women in public = bad).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:50 PM
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It definitely exacerbated the current cultural shift of "dont approach any woman in public ever" which negatively influences mens' dating options (since women still seem reluctant to approach themselves...), but PPD women here will tell you anyone who takes any issue with #metoo is obviously a rapist in training. ETA: It was a good movement for getting the Harvey Weinsteins out of Hollywood and overall had a net benefit, but people have a hard time acknowledging that a helpful movement may have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:42 PM
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as a future 30 y/o man hitting on 20 y/o's I took this personally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:22 PM
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I am more jacked than them so I will walk up and flex and patiently await their surrender
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:19 PM
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I think mostly the latter; there's definitely some bitterness coming from the fact that men are less picky when it comes to things like income, social status, and neurodivergence for relationships, with the implication that therefore, women should also be less picky about Something, mainly looks. But women have been socially freed to the point where they can and will look for the full package, while men need to learn to also be that picky (which won't happen)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:14 PM
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True if I was alpha I would simply murder their boyfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:08 PM
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All of my female friends are in relationships, so I've now been delegated to the role of "the guy friend she told you not to worry about." Their boyfriends all dislike me and my existence causes drama. I will not get my dick wet but I will have fun nonetheless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:03 PM
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I just don't see the mid 20's women mentioning their age often then (maybe to deter dm's) but I believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:31 PM
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nah you're good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:27 PM
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yes social media did cause a gigantic cultural shift that I truly believe needs to have been experienced for a proper understanding of "zoomer dating"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:27 PM
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she...she does not appreciate my sense of humor...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:25 PM
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you're lying subconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:23 PM
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I always feel weird talking to women here because they seem to either be 40 and married or 16 y/o potoricco and our experiences of reality are extremely polarized due to this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:20 PM
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yes 6 months in the gym consistently (no attention from women but I fuck with the endorphin releases)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 PM
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someone should ask this for women because although they obviously resent being used for sex more than men do, I don't know how many would still choose an eternally sexless relationship/marriage instead
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:47 PM
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right now? sex. when I'm older maybe option 1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 06:43 PM
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probably not but in past generations some were trained to put up with it I work full time from home so I actually do most chores in addition to working, I'm balancing out the misogyny of the past
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:51 PM
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yea exactly that's why you watch not-that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:26 PM
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you just gotta find the stuff that isn't shonen, pokemon, or porn and then it gets good
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:19 PM
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video games and anime in moderation are very based
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 05:15 PM
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Is it wrong for women to be stay at home mothers in 2023? no So how can men be expected to marry women that don't do everything like their mothers did? it is funny how easy a lot of our dads had it; women have made it clear that the expectations are much higher for us zoomers now and most women aren't willing to do what their mothers did anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:46 PM
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I've thought about doing this but never have because yeah I think it makes you seem more creepy. The problem is I don't know how to advertise myself as "not creepy" because for the first five minutes of talking to someone new I'm an awkward mess
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:21 PM
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I did but I pirated it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:19 PM
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bro gets laid off OLD once and starts spouting nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:33 AM
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yes thrice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 12:30 AM
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I don't know how this counters what I said, you've just stated more facts that are true. My "gotcha" is that men probably shouldn't be shit on as much as they are in relationships - you could disagree that they aren't shit on culturally, as lift and lurk did, but I can provide evidence to the contrary if necessary Women are more likely to experience and report DV, but correct me if I'm wrong...lesbians would have to experience DV (or IPV) at the hands of other women, right? Again I don't see you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:37 PM
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I don't think anyone's saying men are to blame for lesbian divorces, my point was that people often by default blame men for issues in heterosexual relationships, but this doesn't make sense because statistically, the more women you add to a relationship, the more problems the relationship has lol (gay men lowest domestic violence -> het relationships in the middle domestic violence -> lesbians highest domestic violence)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:25 PM
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the trauma that her ex bf gave her (before she realized she was gay) led to the divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:20 PM
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the fact that lesbians have the highest divorce and DV rates and gay men have the lowest divorce and DV rates is a hilarious data point that should be brought up more frequently to combat a "men are always to blame" culture in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:13 PM
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Absolutely, Susan, men hate feminine-acting men because they HATE women, not because they hate feminine-acting men, of course Susan how could I not have realized Susan idk how you got to this part but true (in the sense that, I agree with your irony)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 09:02 PM
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*links research studies* chad potoricco response: "Nuh uh"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:58 PM
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you responded quickly enough to not have had time to even read the abstracts to determine whether they fit your confirmation bias or not, you just decided by default that they're "shoddy" because your personal perceived reality overrides research believe it or not, if someone linked me a study showing that the majority of age gap relationships were manipulative and a net deficit for women, I would actually read it before deciding it was bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:54 PM
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6 months since last relationship, tbh I complain a lot for such a short dry spell but I think it's gonna be a while longer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:50 PM
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tru
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:46 PM
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I don't think she likes reading bro don't bother
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:44 PM
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easy solution: find a guy who doesn't have other options
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:39 PM
2

22 y/o's are Literal Children
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:38 PM
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no just the way you phrased it was really funny although I actually don't know the statistical likelihood of getting trafficked to africa vs. the statistical likelihood of losing a leg, but yeah I guess you're probably more likely to lose a leg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:34 PM
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it's so annoying sometimes they spawn you really far from the HP refills
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:16 PM
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"living in africa isn't realistic" is my new favorite ppd quote
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:05 PM
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do I need to make it worse? I like horror movies so I can do that I just saw a guy who slowly got his eye gouged out with a jackknife while his three-year-old daughter watched in agony before they were both tortured and left to die. That is a problem, not [insert less bad but still bad thing here]
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 08:02 PM
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I just saw a guy who got in a car accident with his whole family; they all died except for him, and he's paralyzed from the neck down. That is a problem, not the guy missing a leg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:53 PM
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what breed?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:48 PM
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don't they realize they're not entitled to better housing? maybe it's their attitude that's the problem. landlords can smell a bad personality y'know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:16 PM
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all ecchi sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:03 PM
1

an app might help (mint or something similar)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:24 PM
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this entire thread is just people saying "well yeah of course you can be a dick and get laid!!! but being a good person is better for better relationships!!!" but that's not what OP was responding to, he was responding to the people who said you do have to be a good person to just get laid, which people say all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:36 PM
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hinge and dating apps in general are brutal for POC anyway so I'd say latter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 07:53 PM
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even unknown musicians can kinda do well, I used to do standup at open mics in my city and sometimes there'd be musicians too who'd get fawned over, more than the comedians by a decent amount actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:31 AM
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never too late for a resurgence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:10 AM
2

this reminds me of the bo burnham song but thankfully he added a section for yall too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:51 AM
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5'5 middle eastern certified Nice Guy probably would end up on blackpill forums in about 2 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:47 AM
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unironically the cult of personality pill might transcend the blackpill, if I'm still struggling in 7 years I'm going to study sociopathy and start a religion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:44 AM
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if there's anything I've learned trying to date it's that nobody doesn't have a toxic trait and telling me I've dodged a bullet just means I need to find a different bullet to get hit by
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:36 AM
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he was like 5'5 are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:31 AM
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awoogah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:29 AM
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same but I also want to clean after her then we have sex in maid outfits
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:21 AM
2

great post
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:58 PM
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lots of lilith W's lately
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:57 AM
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fair trade
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:20 PM
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If someone doesn’t match your romantic effort - leave, easy as. >95% of men stop dating women (to be clear, I think women put a more equal amount of romantic effort once a relationship has been established, just not in the initial stages)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:12 AM
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when men claim that a large percent of sexually successful men are manipulators/sociopaths, people rush to say that they're just coping with their own frustrations and chads are actually good people. however, without that initial claim, a lot of people, particularly women, lament that the dating scene is filled with horrible, abusive, manipulative men, "bAR is In HeLL" etc. I am confused
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:54 AM
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to be fair I don't think anyone intentionally goes out of their way to mislead young men, but adults, teachers, and general societal messaging (popular media, especially childrens' media) have a habit of painting the world as way more just/fair than it is, if only for the purpose of maintaining social etiquette unfortunately I never really got invited to the tween girl sleepovers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:59 PM
2

"the penis corrupts" is a narrative that is upheld by everyone from conservatives to radfems alike
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:21 PM
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at the end of the day even if they're forced to concede that everyone just has preferences, the 100-N count girl will do 1000x better in dating than a guy who paid for a sex worker, but at least we can get a small win highlighting the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:22 AM
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me and the other slightly autistic guys accidentally believed society's lies that everything is sunshine and rainbows and good person = attractive whereas the socially intelligent kids figured out everyone's actually lying so yes you're supposed to learn that in middle school but some of us were naive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:02 AM
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potato potato
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:00 AM
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I think the race pill is intriguing even though it's not politically correct. based
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:44 AM
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the only thing his recent post touched on that I didn't see much of otherwise was the fact that "I'm-gonna-fix-him" women will fix psycho/sociopaths but not socially awkward guys, which is interesting to think about women too know it deep down even if they try to downplay/deny it I think the spergs (myself maybe included idk if I'm sperg or not tbh) want them to stop downplaying/denying it which is partially why it keeps getting rehashed, but that'll never happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:43 AM
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my ex and I looked at our SNP's together to see what kind of fucked up shit our potential child would have and I think every couple should do this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:39 AM
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it's probably mostly done by low inhib socially active men who certainly don't waste their time on reddit like us
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:37 AM
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ye
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:22 AM
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yeah I've seen enough women have the "actually I could see us fucking!" epiphany with their male friends to no longer believe the RP mantra that a woman immediately places you in a friendzone or fuckzone category permanently
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:18 AM
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the stereotype comes from their need to justify a reason to not like awkward people, the ones who just say they don't want to deal with social awkwardness are a breath of fresh air. it's also been my experience that a lot of autists are nice, if only out of a fear of stepping out line and fucking things up for NT's
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:09 AM
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hmm, yeah I guess there's two categories of "didn't find attractive," either "found unattractive" or "neutral/didn't register," the latter would be more acceptable. I had a female friend who never flirted with me or anything for 2 years, then out of the blue in a phone call said "yknow if you visited we'd probably just have sex." I was in a relationship and im a good boy so I didn't do anything but I think I was in the latter category for her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:05 AM
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I guess irl "vibes" that don't exist on dating apps can influence that. but if I had a partner who wasn't initially attracted to me and admitted that I'd probably be sus all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:59 PM
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how doesn't it work the same way IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:54 PM
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22 gonna get it back soon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:19 PM
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yeah it's probably overall very polarizing but great for matching with people who I'm way more likely to be compatible with, as opposed to a bio consisting of "Netflix" and "hiking," which may elicit some matches but probably conversations that will go nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:15 PM
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REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:11 PM
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why would you use a dating app for that? you can use discord servers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:52 PM
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throwback to when I tried making a normal tinder profile and got almost no matches, then made this one and got 10 in a week including a weeb IG model, never discount jestermaxxing https://imgur.com/a/qtpOTV4
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:48 PM
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I always viewed passport bro'ing as just "relocating/traveling to somewhere where I am more attractive" so the fact that so many people are upset by it is silly. I guess it's funny when a morbidly obese misogynistic 40 y/o guy making $5k/yr travels to the Dominican Republic just to fuck 1 cheap prostitute then gets stranded, but that's just someone being a bit stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:47 PM
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I’m not sure if people who already have negative views on dating and who are frustrated are the best people to conduct it. wouldn't they be the best, so long as their propositions don't infringe on anyone's rights? most cultural shifts are born out of frustration and negative views on the current status quo, the internet has probably just warped everyone to believe that "dating sucks" = "I hate women"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:33 PM
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my answer is just very slow cultural shifts that probably won't happen in our lifetime but no there's no immediate solution without state mandated gf's or forcing women to date who they don't like (same thing I guess). maybe a stimulus check to single men specifically for dating lol, that'd be funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:23 PM
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I'm guessing you would also say then, that men getting harsher sentences for the same crime is a small evil in an overall benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:52 PM
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I have no idea, for me at this point I feel like it's ingrained. I wouldn't mind it at all if it didn't drop my dating prospects by 98%. I imagine the only way out of it is a constant influx of uncomfortable situations (social or otherwise) until you're desensitized, but for some people, including myself, these can be hard to access. It's especially annoying when you know you have a lot to offer but just can't pass the bar for entry because you're a lil too quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:48 PM
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you're right, however: - women are assumed to be crazy due to misogyny - women get lighter prison sentences for the same crime as a result - misogyny....helps women? would you admit in this case that misogyny helps women, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:43 PM
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The interesting thing though is the black pill guys are dressed like they're trying to be red pill, but they would be better accepted by women in a more niche market where male softness is attractive like the art or alternative music community. I kinda had this problem, where I'm pretty meek/soft (at least in behavior), but my guy friends helped me pick out the current "in-fashion" clothes and got me to go to the gym consistently...now I can present as more attractive, but my personality hasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:41 PM
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nah I wouldn't lie but also they're definitely lying (or putting their height w/ heels or something). I don't know where you're from but I'm in USA and girls' tinder heights aligned with the average pretty well still strange to me that you can put your height on tinder but not like, your income or something lol, app gets to pick and choose which shallow quantifiers are most important
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:32 PM
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I'm staring at the screen, grunting, respecting women as hard as I can, but I still can't see it, the misogyny must run deep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:27 PM
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yeah prison sentence statistics alone would show that society is a bit more forgiving to angry women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:22 PM
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depending on the service that might be endearing but I'm a man so I have lower standards for life in general also I wouldn't say it's "capped off" that way, this is a street interview and he may or may not have a better answer to that question when they're alone
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:21 PM
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where is the 12th rule
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:16 PM
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u/Johnny_Autism
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:38 AM
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I love the contrast between the top comments on that thread from normal people acknowledging the wholesomeness of the situation vs. the immediate scrutiny from PPD women who, instead of assuming he's introverted or in a rush or worried about a scam or anything like that, do what red pill men do and ascribe poor behaviors to the demographic they dislike by default based on a 40-second clip. A sight to behold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:31 AM
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My ex was pretty attractive unless you mean dark skin = automatically low tier lol
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 05:30 PM
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I'm not black, I'm mixed, which I think may be even worse for dating? I'm 23, not an incel nor virgin anymore because I happened to stumble upon a black woman on Omegle who lived on the other side of the country and was willing to meet me and eventually live with me. We're no longer together, and nobody before or after her has shown interest in me - I got extremely lucky. If somebody asked me what the #1 thing holding me back in dating was, I would say being black. Not just that alone I guess, b…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:43 PM
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please evaluate my post history o gracious ROBYoutube also sub 4 sub on my channel? pls & ty
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 04:32 PM
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what the hell shawty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:50 AM
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glad to know I'm not the only one taking the drug in my flair
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:26 AM
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I'm always forced to assume the people who spend time arguing with and shitting on incels are just as miserable as the incels themselves
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 06:39 PM
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okay? so the only reason white men will become a minority in the US will be from race mixing between POC men and white women?
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 12:30 AM
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I don't necessarily agree with OP but this can also happen via minority women fucking white men lol
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 12:27 AM
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look at this genius over here GrassMower29
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:33 PM
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I don't know if there's any data on this but after my first (and last) relationship living with a woman, I noticed a pattern - I would do something like clean the bathroom, to the point of it being white, neat, no stains anywhere, etc., then she'd come in later and rearrange stuff to her liking, do an extra scrub in the tub...unnecessary(?) things, but to her standards, for an extra 30ish minutes. I wouldn't be surprised if that gets factored into the housework calculations, making me (and poten…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:58 PM
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thank god, I must be an HVM, I'm over 5'6 and think there's other shallow reasons women don't like me, and I'm angry that I'm actually very good at rizzing up specifically psychotic women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:52 PM
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I don't know if it's something in the food or what but I'm 23 and me and my peers are losing our hair fast as fuck. I get a slight buffer for being tall + beard + black but the norwood reaper's effects are being felt by everyone including the less fortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:28 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:21 PM
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a direct link between input and output in what context?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:49 PM
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yes, I even think how hard you can work is based on chance but maybe I'm too far gone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:25 PM
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you can still be proactive, like if you're fat lose weight, or if you literally never talk to another human being ever, at least join an online forum or something. but I think people attribute more consistency to the dating scene than there actually is, and for every time someone says "you don't have a girlfriend because x," there is someone with x who has a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:22 PM
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sometimes I think the only genuine answer is "get lucky." I've had no success on OLD or IRL, but got an LTR from Omegle. she didn't even give a shit about most of the things I'd done to "self improve," she just liked me, and there was no rhyme or reason for Omegle's servers to "match" me with her "put yourself out there" is cliche and annoying advice, but it's the only thing you can do to increase your RNG, because you'll have more interactions with people, but it still comes down to circumstanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:27 PM
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I dated a BW for 3 years (am mixed man) and code-switching is often used to reference putting on an act specifically around white people, which OP is talking about. You're right, knowing how to act in different circumstances is just being a professional, but there's an extra racial layer added when the term "code switching" gets used, at least in the black community. Is it necessary? Not sure, but it happens
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 03:23 PM
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I was hoping this sub of all places could detect my sarcasm but I guess you guys are retards too
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 01:54 PM
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haha incels are gay haha
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 02:41 AM
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Do you really think me making the decision to have sex with someone is the exact same scenario as a man making the decision I need to have sex with him? no? what the fuck are you talking about? This isn't a thing. We can ask; you still have every right to decline. yes, good job, gold star! Just like you can ask us to fuck you, you just can't expect it. another gold star for you! Merelyasking someone to do something is not what an expectation is. I don't know why you went on this tirade when I ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:52 AM
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doesn't infringe on anyone's bodily autonomy for some reason "bodily autonomy" seems to only apply to sex-related things - I actually see this a lot when TERF's and the like argue against sex work: "selling your body to men for money is appalling." ???? doesn't any manual labor employee sell their body for money? similarly, would a woman expecting a man to engage in social services, such as, I dunno, helping her move, protecting her, lifting things for her, etc., infringe on his bodily autonomy …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:31 AM
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true, and I don't even personally agree that would be a good idea, women seem more content with being repulsed when they find out their top 20% bf is cheating on them, then repeating that cycle eternally. some repulsions are better than others it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:35 PM
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yeah you're right in that sense, I even called it "fringe" (though funnily enough I see fat women with skinny men all the time when I go to the mall) I spent 5-10 minutes looking at their accounts n stuff and I think they're actually dating but could be wrong, I've seen more complex internet pranks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:12 PM
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cope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:08 PM
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not even in their top 10 tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:04 PM
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monthly fringe anti-blackpill case
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:02 PM
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you mean testosterone making men horny enough to fuck down?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:57 PM
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shoutouts for substantiating your arguments with stats and data love to see it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:56 PM
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they'll argue that the polite treatment and social services you're talking about are simple cultural expectations, whereas fucking and having relationships with men are not; you'll notice a pattern where all the things women want just so happen to be virtuous and owed by default, but everything men want is tainted by misogyny and entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:32 PM
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if by "fuck unattractive men" you mean "fuck men in your league" then yeah you're right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:19 PM
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im pretty blackpill and even I think there's a limit to that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:25 PM
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that is also possible yes regardless he has to be less degenerate than her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:58 PM
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was always funny to me when I'd meet a weeb girl whose bf was a college football player and she'd be like, "yeah we don't really have a lot in common and don't really understand each other but I love him...."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:52 PM
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they are also batshit insane but can't have everything yknow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:43 PM
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smells like creative fiction writing but send link
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:41 PM
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I've noticed that too, though reddit will say we're making it up. My only contact with really attractive women in my life has been through the drug scene; I was too autistic to actually do shit w/ them but it opened my eyes a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:36 PM
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understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:32 PM
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careful now, you're spouting some r/niceguys rhetoric that certain folks wouldn't like all too much...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:30 PM
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damn I should quit my job
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:25 PM
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Q4W: what do you think of the first 40 seconds of this set? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9u0-o0fNORg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:20 PM
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most onlyfans girls fail but I think you're right about women having more bargaining chips in the vast majority of relationships, and that nobody really recognizes this as a power imbalance nor cares to. I don't think machiavellian tactics are the correct response to this, but a response that, as you said, can be argued for. and being a man is preferable in many ways; in others, not so much, and there are many more ways it's a detriment than the average feminist seems to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:18 PM
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I always compare it to businesses being forced to act immorally because others are; otherwise they'll just go bankrupt, or in this case, men going sexless. I guess bankruptcy and virginity signify true virtue. Prisoner's dilemma sorta thing. If that's all the video is about it'd be a lot better than his other ones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:59 PM
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ah okay, I see the thumbnail and I know the video he's talking about. my impression from that video is the woman probably has PTSD or some shit, not that the guy had to be ugly. I don't wanna watch wheat waffles' video tho fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:55 PM
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YOU'VE BEEN WARNED Ugly Men DO NOT Approach Women isn't this exactly what you were on about yesterday? don't you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:45 PM
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I didn't think you would, I think we were both spouting nonsense actually - my favorite type of PPD interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:42 PM
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I tried but couldn't take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:14 PM
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you can fix those things and stop playing the games, sure, and then just probably die alone, but I suppose in a way that's better than warping your personality to appease people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:11 PM
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I've been in locker rooms and heard this stuff. Ah shit I just canceled you out. Now we need data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:02 PM
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no, because I don't think using feminine emojis and ordering lemonade and loving your mom make someone non-masculine, I only think they're superficialities that some women, for some reason, care about, which leads them to men who care about those superficialities, and I'm saying those men specifically may be less likely to be capable of love and hygiene. thanks for even referencing misandry though, nobody ever does that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:29 PM
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and I raise to you a woman who goes for men that are very physically attractive and have many women chasing them, then wonder why he cheats or won't commit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:14 AM
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someone had to do the uno reverse card :((( u right tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:06 AM
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They can observe the world around them and see and hear how women interact with them. maybe, although for a person to fall into the category you're describing I imagine they'd have some level of narcissism that could lead them to actually be deaf and dumb but tbh, you don't know if someone doesn't want to interact with you until after you interact with them; the only people whom this doesn't apply to are people who may begin every interaction with women by screaming at them or whipping out their…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:56 AM
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yeah I get that, I've just seen women turned off over much less than literal emotional incest/enmeshment, which is probably a valid ick, especially after early 20's
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:40 AM
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this is some high-brow satire well done sir
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:57 AM
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I kinda enjoy watching women discard men based on non-masculine superficialities, like he ordered lemonade on their date, or he used a feminine emoji, or he's a bit too close to his mom, and then when they find their masculine king you see a reddit post two years later like, "Hi reddit, my [24F] boyfriend [28M] never tells me he loves me and doesn't wash his ass because he thinks it's gay, please help." Gee I wonder how that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:51 AM
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this isn't a gendered thing women just complain about it more lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:38 AM
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I'm thinking raves and similar events are my best bet for socialization, only thing stopping me is everyone in my town loves Jesus, will have to drive like 3 hours but oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:34 AM
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too white for black people, too black for white people, the void calls
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:24 PM
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interesting, so you don't really care about his looks or income? your desire to have sex with him is based on his kindness, intelligence, sense of humor, and his vulnerability? where can I find one of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:28 AM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:16 AM
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now we're talkin
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:14 AM
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she will not respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:11 AM
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400K VIEWS 2M SUBS THE END IS NEAR
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:09 AM
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what's a high value man to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:56 AM
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as a black man (half but probably considered black here) I see the word "female" used a lot in the black community, by both men and women, so next time I see someone complain that "female" is a slur I'm going to call them out for racism
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:53 AM
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it does seem a bit strange when you put it like that - a monogamous person can have multiple FWB's, but then say, "I'm monogamous when I commit to someone" - no shit? someone who considers themselves poly could say the same thing, they'd be monogamous if they committed to someone though I guess it'd be more like, "when I'm committed to someone, I don't fuck anyone else," which makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:49 AM
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I love the concept of an LTR and the mutual growth of two people going through life together, learning about each other and themselves, etc., however the bar for entry to these things is based on superficiality and sales pitches, which is why I personally use these terms (sparingly). I wish it wasn't like this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:42 AM
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normie behavior, it's why they also hate emojis and fortnite
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:34 AM
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most of my friends met their partner through OLD, guess we're at an impasse...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:31 AM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:29 AM
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rates of meeting your s/o on OLD are rapidly increasing sadly, I wish I could talk to women at the gym like the good ol' days as much as the next guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:28 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x3lypVnJ0HM
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:22 AM
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you'd be willing to give up the internet for this cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:17 AM
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he looks old and yeah average men didn't have too much trouble pre-2012 or so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:15 PM
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extraordinarily average
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:12 PM
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meanwhile women: My boyfriend's voice cracked last week, he spent 3 days crying when his dog died, and he plays video games once in a while in his free time, I'm starting to lose attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 10:11 PM
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people saying that "nobody says any idiot could run a fortune 500 company" gotta spend more time on twitter, although I would agree maybe twitter users aren't real people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:25 PM
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okay asuka 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:34 PM
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yeah makes sense, I appreciate you sharing your experience tbh because I'm always curious where peoples' weird opinions come from personally I've had women throw shit at me and try to manipulate/control me by threatening to call the cops on me for entering my own apartment to get my belongings, while men have, for the most part, been very empathetic towards me and helped me through a lot of shit, as opposed to women often hitting me with the "just go to therapy lol" thankfully I think I've balan…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:18 PM
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women aren't any more fairly nice than any other group of people really but I'm glad you found a cause buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:06 PM
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yeah but what causes you to care so much about guys who do? what fuels that vigor?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:56 PM
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chad behavior keep it up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:48 PM
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this and most of your posts read like you're trying to compensate for a dark incel past, I don't think you are but your fixation on....shitting on men who shit on women while shitting on yourself.....is probably unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:47 PM
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you went outside?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:39 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if this was the trend, but even as a bit of a blackpiller myself, I recognized when a female (don't get mad at me I also say male) friend of mine broke up with a 6'0 8/10 bodybuilder because he was extremely emotionally unavailable. I try to look for exceptions like that to combat my own confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:13 AM
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berserk based
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:06 AM
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I got ghosted for 4 days after what I thought was a pretty good date but she still has me added on snap/insta/everything else? and she posts? like shawty I can see your shit why tf haven't you blocked me yet. though I think some women will keep you around if option 2 (or 3 or 4 or 5 or 6) doesn't work out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 01:03 AM
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right there with you, I've substituted my dating pursuits with consistent work on my hobbies/art and I've been much happier, apparently this is supposed to make men more attractive anyway but I'm trying not to let the horniness seep into my motivation supply. there's no real replacement for human affection but the best cope I've found so far is fully indulging in ambitions irrespective of women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:59 AM
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not sure if it's still there but that was specifically a piece of advice from FDS - "dont compliment men"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:09 PM
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My area is a bit on the conservative side so that could explain some of it. Some of the guys I'm thinking of are a little introverted too, not hermit level but not "ask out dozens of women per month" like people here say you need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:11 PM
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You could be going to restricting freedoms for the betterment of human evolution, which would unfortunately be actual i***l content. I think at that point we'd have to restrict everybody, because I don't think men are necessarily inclined to choose the most evolved women either. But I agree that caveman brain has not adapted to current society and there's a huge disconnect between modern day politics and culture, and sexual arousal. People (especially women) like to pretend their sexual inclinat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:34 PM
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It's actually normal to love and be committed to the first person you make love to for at least until mid-20's. I've been with only the one guy. You might've not seen my edit in time, but that would fall under "depends on how much he tried" - one partner, one body count is fine because he wasn't trying to fuck other people (hopefully). I promise there aren't that many men who are incapable of finding one decent partner. Well, I hope so at least... You'd be surprised :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:14 PM
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as a failure Dating failure, specifically, and it would depend on how much he's tried, I suppose. Your preferences for a virgin husband are great (although I'm always skeptical of this), but not the general sentiment. I'm a failure in this respect, I was just combating the idea that dating failure = something's wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:09 PM
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I don't think his argument is illogical, you invented a new argument and said it's illogical, I don't think he stated he's opposed to abortions, he made an "if x then y" statement. He might be opposed to abortions, but that wasn't evident to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:36 PM
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Yeah, this whole situation is based on moral judgments, as is the whole conversation around boundaries, I think. But we can take it to the extreme. Someone could say, "have sex with me right now or we're breaking up," and that's just a boundary, right? The other person can say "no, let's break up then," and simply have the autonomy to divorce after, say, a 20-year marriage with four kids. However, the original "boundary" set in this scenario would probably be considered morally reprehensible and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:25 PM
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What I'm troubled by is the vast amount of men who have plenty of reputable accomplishments and interesting hobbies who are mid-20's virgins still. The amount of men I know who make decent money, are funny, creative, 5'9+, and have at least a 5/10 face, but have a body count of 0 or 1, doesn't make sense. Dating failure seems to be an isolated problem that has almost nothing to do with any other facets in life, but that's just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:16 PM
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In this particular case, yeah I agree with you, based on the evidence I think Jonah Hill was in the right. I think the problem some people are having is that they've experienced or seen relationships where one person is intentionally using the "do x or we break up" threat to control the other person. I've experienced this myself, where the relationship is held hostage because I didn't want to spend infinite money on everything she wanted for the apartment. But I don't think that's what's happeni…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:07 PM
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You're being hyperbolic (I'm pretty sure most reasonable people wouldn't have been mad at Jonah Hill for breaking up over cheating, for example), but I agree most people seem to feel this sentiment. It often just so happens that when men want something, it's riddled with patriarchal ideas and bigotry, and when women want something, it's rooted in virtue and reasonability. Either men are just disgusting or something's off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:27 PM
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I was in a few writers' groups in college that were predominantly women and they mostly avoided me (although I'm black and they were white so they were probably just scared lmfao)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:22 PM
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looking forward to the barrage of comments saying that thin people date thin people and fat people date fat people ahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 06:18 PM
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some boundaries are inherently controlling then because it's commonplace to ask others to change their ways in order to protect yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:06 PM
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you think that's a male-only tactic?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:01 PM
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people will call this inc3l content but the only opinions I care about on this topic come from the trans community, where FtM's repeatedly report that life becomes 10x more isolated and lonely after transitioning
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:52 PM
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getting tired of this jonah hill stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:43 PM
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holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:48 AM
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holy based
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:38 AM
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latter, tell me my future
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:37 AM
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most christians don't behave very christian-like anyway so it'd probably just take saying you believe in god once and you're good to go, then go to church on christmas and easter and check your watch every 5 minutes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:35 AM
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where I'm from if I wanted this I'd have to also convert to Christianity, unlucky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:20 AM
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the amount of people in the comments gaslighting themselves into believing that she's not interested in his money/status and just "matured and knows what she wants now" is retarded but I'm on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:44 AM
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I have noticed that discrepancy in thinking between men and women, where more men are likely to be focused on the action itself and more women are likely to be focused on the people involved. But I still think the majority of people will fall victim to their own biases, and asking the average person to make moral judgments purely focused on the action without taking into account whatever broader social context they believe in is unlikely to yield any productive results, man or woman. Your second…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:38 AM
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the other problem is you could get someone to sleep with you and then you won't be able to cum from all the roids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:16 AM
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Believe me I'm open to the idea but what do you mean exactly, how do women think about right and wrong? Is it learned or innate?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:20 PM
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even the blue pillers think I'm doomed it's so over
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:31 PM
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Of course, I wouldn't deny the traumatic events that lead to the fear, and I'm not particularly great at empathy over the internet, but I'm sorry those things happened to you. I'm glad you don't hate men, and due to some of my own experiences I can relate to the vigilance. I guess I was just saying that those horrible experiences, leading to trauma and sometimes mental illness, seem to be the origin of a lot of man-bashing online, and the reason why many women don't sympathize with many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:30 PM
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The sub got quarantined and I think they're restricted to posting their podcast or whatever the fuck. Scamming crypto bros and trumpers is funny no disagreements there. I guess I can't reference the sub much anymore since their main content (posts shitting on men) is paywalled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:07 PM
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Schizopost, really living up to my flair here. After learning that users of r/femaledatingstrategy are 20x more likely than the average redditor to also use r/cptsd (complex ptsd), I feel like I'm starting to understand radfems more. I remember watching american horror story with my ex, big radfem, and in the witch season (s3 I think), one of the girls users her magic to flip a fraternity bus full of guys who'd teamed up to r*pe her. Perfectly fine, except there was one guy on the bus (Evan Pete…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:57 PM
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very bad; do not endorse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:16 AM
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as cardi b taught us, rape men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:13 AM
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you are literally gay bro you could have people wanting to date you if you made a grindr account with no pictures and a bio that says you're a nazi
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:06 AM
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had to navigate first kiss while paying rent and bills, wouldn't recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:23 PM
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Yeah the women demanding large upgrades compared to what they have are always funny. I don't know if every PPD woman is being dishonest, or if they're just the abnormal never-used-a-dating-app shut-in studious weird hobbies women. The latter would make sense, they're on reddit after all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:52 PM
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With all of the women chiming in to say they'd never have a man take care of them or they never see this happen, I figured it'd only be fair to chime in with my anecdote of paying for my ex's rent, groceries, and moving costs for a year, as well as outings to the symphony and conventions and things like that. We weren't even married, I'm just way too horny (and in love). Thanks for listening. Also she was very interesting and not lazy, just not great at making money. I don't think I would've don…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:10 PM
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Just asking for money from a boyfriend will most likely end up with him laughing in your face. fuck I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:05 PM
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just one?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:30 AM
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Some things girls I've met IRL have said to/about me: Why is he sniffing his fingers? Ew I've had a relationship before though and she thought me being a dork was cute, thought I was interesting and caring, etc. If you do make a dating guide for us I'd focus a lot on getting your foot in the door in the first place, since first impressions matter a lot and that seems to be the hardest part, compared to actually functioning within a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:00 AM
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in all seriousness the way we measure animal intelligence is still pretty centered around ourselves and if someone truly gives a shit about animals they should probably just go full vegan
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:56 AM
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so happy that the pigs I eat for breakfast each morning are the stupid pigs (they get their IQ tested at the slaughterhouse)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:42 AM
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In what case(s) would it be an advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:35 AM
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did you cold approach all of them? were they strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:09 AM
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"I'm a man with emotional needs"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:14 PM
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either that or very codependent people who they feel won't abandon them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:59 AM
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nothing unreasonable depending on how you evaluate leagues, it's just when people talk about a crazy hot girl, they usually say she's a 9/10 who'll poison your dog instead of saying she's a 2/10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:21 PM
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If "you get what you deserve" doesn't apply to shit people with good things, then it is equally untrue for good people with shit. based and empathy pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:56 PM
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true, it's not even "pull yourself up by your bootstraps," it's "here's your boots dumbass"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:33 PM
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mmmmmm yeah that ain't true yeah I'm thinkin that's bait
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:32 PM
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I don't date like that personally, a woman could fart during our first dinner date and I wouldn't care, I just assume most people (especially women my age) are dating with that mindset based on my own experiences/others' anecdotes. I would like everyone to be as laid back as me but most people have very very strict boundaries for strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:30 PM
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I'm not using myself as a baseline necessarily, I honestly don't like the victoria's secret model look but I'll still call them 9's because that's the current culture where I am. I agree it's subjective though and peoples' baselines differ a lot, which just makes "your league is what you can get" even less of a stable expression
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:27 PM
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Standards of beauty and attraction change, based on location and time I agree with this, I guess I'm just saying I don't often see it mentioned when leagues come up, even though it's like 90% of what makes someone's "league."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:19 PM
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Why do you even date people that you actually believe will leave you if you make any mistake? as someone else said, no other choice really keep in mind I don't believe anyone's leaving a 6-month, or even 3-month relationship over a voice crack or some shit, but the first few dates you better be literally perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:15 PM
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at some point I argued against the concept of "your league is what you can get," by saying that a 2/10 refrigerator-shaped woman who fucks an 8/10 body builder with a fat fetish would have to be an 8/10 herself, and a 7/10 gymbro who's socially awkward would have to be a 3/10 because only 3's will put up with his social awkwardness in recent threads people have said the "league" is actually just who you can get to commit to you, and that makes sense for the woman not actually being an 8, but I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 04:07 PM
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I laughed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:40 PM
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that's a take I wasn't expecting to see today
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:21 PM
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correct me if I'm wrong OP, but I think you mean "undateable" as in "given the standards most people claim to have for dating, most people are undateable and engage in what most would consider undateable behaviors" the comments are filled with "hurr durr but people date irl go outside" but I don't think that disproves the point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:31 AM
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"gatekeeping" bro misusing words like a tumblr princess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:29 AM
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nope not taking that bait nope
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 06:00 AM
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lol yeah I've always advocated men just do what they want instead of trying to please women, it's just a lot of us would have to be pussy-free for a very long time until the culture shifted
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:09 PM
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for historical reasons I wouldn't have predicted that, but good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 09:13 PM
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Tell me please, why this is a problem. in theory it's not, and a lot of women may find this revolting, but I'd bet most men constantly conceal parts of themselves we know you wouldn't like just because we'd die alone otherwise usually we think that some things a woman would theoretically be discounting us for (i.e., ordering lemonade on a first date because that's feminine) is kinda stupid anyway, as opposed to a crazy trait like breaking your shit during an argument I get that concealing things…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:03 PM
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ayo where'd you go in europe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:44 PM
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not false
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:05 AM
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that'd be a while from now but yeah something to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:58 AM
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she broke too but yeah I should say that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:55 AM
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Q4A: should I make my ex homeless? I'm paying the entire rent on our apartment because she's broke, but if I rug-pull she doesn't have anywhere to go. I've been bouncing between our apartment and my parents' house because being around her isn't exactly easy (she calls me abusive because sometimes I would yell back at her while she was yelling at me). She's admitted to seeing someone else, so I'm funding her lifestyle while she fucks not-me. However, it's a girl (she's bi), so I don't know exactl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 12:45 AM
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sleep a little better, slightly more confident, no compliments but I haven't been out much besides gym lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:27 PM
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not with that specific example, but I have been going to the gym lately, and I'm pretty useless in the realm of physical housework besides building PC's and following ikea instructions maybe I'll learn cars though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:14 PM
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currently gymmaxxing to compensate for the fact that I don't know how to use a wrench
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:10 PM
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wow that is a great idea, you are very brave!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:00 PM
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don't ask logistical questions to nonsensical propositions silly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 07:54 PM
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kinda complicated but if I leave she'd probably be homeless
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:09 AM
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oh shit you're a whitewashed black person too? welcome to the club shawty
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:24 AM
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thanks I did already, just stuck living with her and ruminating lol, first relationship so I've no idea what's normal or what I should be putting up with but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 02:00 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:54 AM
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any other guys in relationships just get blamed for everything that's either nobody's fault or both the fault of you and your partner? ex: - there was a gas leak from our stove in the apartment; it was 100% my fault for not smelling it and I was chastised for hours (we both live there and both have functioning noses) - we didn't have a lot of decorations for Christmas because there was a 6-day blizzard before and during Christmas; it was 100% my fault for us not having decorations (we were both …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:53 AM
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shit I didn't see all those I should've picked a different day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:43 PM
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I don't think you have to necessarily wear fboy clothing, probably just whatever suits your personality/body type well enough to come off as attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:27 PM
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both I hope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:02 AM
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around the Keegan-Michael Key area (I randomized my shitty reddit alien guy)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:06 PM
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Just realized that as a light-skinned feminine nerdy black guy, I appeal specifically to bisexual extroverted black women. Now that I know my demographic I will fuck hella puss
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:57 PM
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"Your league is what you can get" is a nice sentiment, it's just that, when it comes to sex, you'd have to concede that a morbidly obese unshowered basement-dwelling woman is a 7 because she can probably find a guy who's a 7 (and who has a bbw fetish) to sleep with her. You'd also have to concede that a guy who's fit and takes care of himself but is slightly socially awkward is a 3 because he only seems to attract 3's. Idk, I feel like there's a degree of objectivity to your "league" aside from …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:43 PM
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oh nooooo where are all the le epic redditors who think it is literally statutory rape when you have sex with someone born 20 minutes after you oh noooo where did they go? guys come baaaackkkkk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 02:50 AM
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Not so fast, I might be an adult but I'm also retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:20 PM
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Same, funny isn't it? If you don't take everything seriously, you're ignoring her feelings and deserve to be dumped. If you do take everything seriously, you're a doormat and deserve to be walked on, then dumped. In my short 23 years I have never seen a good explanation for this double-bind that wouldn't sound misogynistic. I guess maybe "she never liked you to begin with," which, alright, cool? It's actually mind boggling that not a single woman within the 340 some comments has admitted that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:54 PM
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Yep, I was the guy setting that precedent over and over again, and I thought by giving in I would make her happy, but it only got worse. Of course, any backlash to her complaints was met with accusations that I didn't care about her, so really it was a lose-lose anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:19 PM
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Find me a gf who doesn't care about Valentine's Day :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:30 PM
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Maybe not, but it seemed like your entire point in this thread was that all emotions are valid and people should have enough empathy to understand why something would be serious to another person, but not to them. That could include pencils, and it could especially include people expecting the world to cater to them. And I guess it's just my life experiences, but that's not even too extreme based on who I've been around. I'm just saying, how far should we go in validation before we have to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:23 PM
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True, although in my case she never wanted to talk about any issue once emotions were lower, particularly if I was bringing it up, which was another problem in itself. But your advice there is really sound in general
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:15 PM
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If someone is having a mental breakdown because they lost a pencil, that person is probably going to have a hard time functioning in life in general. Some peoples' expectations of how the world should work are completely disconnected from how the world actually works, which is going to cause a lifetime of mental torment. And this torment keeps getting reinforced every time somebody validates whatever out-of-proportion issue they're having.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:11 PM
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Yes thank you, I've been around people whose expectations were that I always validate their emotions, so that's what I did, only for them to become more neurotic over time because they begin to think their over-the-top reactions to everything are actually completely justified. In the end, I feel like I helped to drive them insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:58 PM
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damn straight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:04 PM
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who hurt u shawty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:56 PM
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Sometimes, we gotta be careful with this though, as I've seen many-a-man get manipulated and controlled by women with narcissistic tendencies who frame everything as her "needs and expectations" in a relationship, including what the man does with his free time, etc. The idea that a woman's complaints are valid and the man often just needs to do better is a nice fluffy idea, but it's also a great passage to men being emotionally abused
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:34 PM
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True lemme tone it down a bit. Women are inherently irrational idiots and men are the logical sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:31 PM
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Nah, why would I do that? I relayed this anecdote to several people in my life, including women, and they all thought she was excessively over-the-top and overinflating her worth. Thankfully, some women can be pretty rational!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:26 PM
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One time on Valentine's Day, I got flowers, chocolate, and play tickets for my then-girlfriend. The play was a week after Valentine's Day, so I offered to take her out for dinner on V-Day specifically. She was grateful, then later complained that, despite all my efforts, I hadn't "acknowledged my past holiday failures." What were they, you ask? Well, to celebrate one holiday in the past, I scheduled an event a few days after the holiday, so we didn't do anything on the holiday besides cook toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:19 PM
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OP got turned down by a shallow woman who was displeased with his <100 follower Instagram account
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:44 AM
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something something being uglier makes people more likely to mistreat you thus lowering your social skills/confidence etc etc w/e
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:43 AM
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True, and yeah I meant generally but you too. Passport'ing seems like a lucrative strat so long as nobody gets taken advantage of
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 07:03 PM
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I can concede that premise, so long as people can also concede that, based on what both sexes currently seem to want in the dating market, men, as a whole, have to work a lot harder and make a lot more adjustments to get what they want. I think it's still true that wanting to be a stay-at-home dad dooms you to a life of loneliness more so than being a go-getter boss bitch woman (whom I love btw please dm me)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:53 PM
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I woke up feeling pretty inc3l today so sorry in advance I don't know if it's because I've spent way too much time in the internet debate sphere, but hypocrisy really annoys me, like a lot. It makes me immediately think you're probably full of shit in several areas of life. I think both sexes can be equally hypocritical and stupid in different ways, but I constantly see women say things like, "yeah I'm a doctor but I wouldn't date a doctor," or, "yeah I have lots of social media but I wouldn't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:35 PM
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True, black men of the 80's and 90's lusted over the inflated snow bunny and now me and all the other college-educated black men are dealing with the aftermath
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:13 AM
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I'm a very fit guy, 6'0, and I'm pretty sure the only women that have liked me were fat. I don't really care, but I figured I'd throw my anecdote in to even slightly combat the idea that being a fit guy automatically means fit women will be falling all over you (I'm also half black so that's part of the problem, 400lb white trailer park moms fucking adore me)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:42 PM
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all the people I've known who've demanded very specific things from their partner for a "healthy loving adult relationship," things they expect to happen naturally and without communication, have ended up with some sociopath-adjacent fellow who just mirrors them perfectly, and I don't feel bad for them in the slightest edit: I do wonder if the women here defending the concept of waiting for "the one" are talking about incompatibilities in values or physicality, which would be reasonable, as oppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:25 PM
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I basically agree with OP, it just has to go both ways - a man making $15k/yr who wants a model virgin tradwife doesn't need to lower his standards, he just knows his worth!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:49 PM
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I don't know who manipulates more, but yeah I think a lot of manipulation from women just kinda slips under the radar. I've dated girls who would ask me to do something for them, I would agree, then they'd say, "y'know old_new_age...I wish I didn't have to ask you to do x, that feels inauthentic, you should do x because you want to do x" and think that's completely normal and not manipulative at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:14 AM
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please take a break from reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:59 AM
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>when women do anything morally questionable it's because someone's lying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 04:31 AM
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yeah, not trying to suck my own dick but I accomplished stuff that a lot of people really really struggle to do before I ever got into a relationship, it's always funny when people assume virgin/dateless men must be losers in everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 03:00 AM
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this just in: different people having different traits is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:53 AM
2

What's an example of a negative generalization toward women where a counter-argument via a comparison to race would be useful? I can't think of any. Actually I can think of one but I'd get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:48 AM
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Myself and other men I know have had to go to extreme lengths to prove to women we were either dating or "talking to" that we were not followers of Andrew Tate and the like. It felt manipulative at some point, like we had to give in to every demand and agree with every radfem talking point or else we were an incel/threat. Unfortunately I like crazy women :(
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:25 AM
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This post is kind of a testament to the sad reality that there is literally nobody trying to give young men the very basic advice of "work out, build your confidence, and improve your physique" besides misogyny-adjacent (or directly misogynistic) red pill spaces. No wonder red pill would blow up, then, where else are directionless young men and boys going to turn when nobody else is talking to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:07 PM
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Yeah I've talked to a lot of women about this, and it makes sense to be super cautious around male strangers and avoid being too nice, since there's a greater than 0 chance they'll take it the wrong way, think you're sexually interested, harass or assault you when you reject them, etc. The thing I've seen happen to myself and male peers, though, is being in committed relationships with women who don't understand the emotions of their male partner and put them far below their own in regards to im…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:29 PM
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When my girlfriend and I met we were the same age, but she had more life experience and more sexual experience (I hadn't even kissed anyone). Was she preying on me because of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:10 PM
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so true bestie we're not as cool as you, posting on a niche gender debate sub on the night of new year's eve
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:52 AM
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I edited fast as fuck and someone still got me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:13 PM
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If you're going to do a copy-paste gender-switch you'll want to pick a better celebrity crush, I admire your effort though, keep at it Edit: nevermind saw the original was Chris Rock, that's analogous enough, carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:10 PM
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I don't think someone has to feel intimidated to acknowledge they'd have an incompatible lifestyle with women who travel a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:23 PM
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I do agree with that to some extent. I don't think "no one" would call out a woman's bad behavior towards a man, but the threshold for doing so is probably greater than calling out a man's bad behavior towards a woman, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:27 PM
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I live with a woman I met on Omegle so I guess so (given we broke up)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:32 PM
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After that fiasco was over she proceeded to say some stuff that I can only imagine are usually said in an Andrew Tate podcast. Dave who was apparently raised by a single mother and has 5 sisters was horrified so he excused himself to the bathroom, paid for their meal, venmod Kim some cash for an Uber and left her at the restaurant alone. How do people read this shit and not laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:29 PM
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I've never seen anyone say men literally don't have emotions. Maybe that they're the "more logical sex," which I'm not sure is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:24 PM
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I got excited reading the title because I think women do overlook mens' emotions a lot of the time, then your example was kinda stupid :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:21 PM
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I think it can work but really only if you're coming with a specific plan/technique for the therapist to use. A lot of people pay a shitload of money for therapy and all they do is vent about the same stuff they vented about to their friend last week. You'd want to know exactly why you're there and what you want help with, or else it's basically useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:20 PM
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Yeah that can definitely play a part. Depending on how snake-y the snake in a grass is, you can only warn and teach a person about so much before the only real way for them to know their partner is toxic is when it's super upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:17 PM
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This is random as fuck but I don't think men are warned enough about emotionally manipulative/abusive women. Myself and many guys I know have met the lovebombing, not-like-the-other-girls, cute uwu damsel in distress, the one who finally wants to give us a chance, only to find out she has a desperate need to control us out of a fear of abandonment or being abused, etc. I'm talking about constant, illogical demands, that if you as her boyfriend/husband don't immediately kowtow to, you "don't care…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:58 PM
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do you have a $50/mo crash course I can purchase or do we get all this info for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:51 PM
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Yes. To avoid this I always shit by putting one foot on the toilet paper dispenser and the other foot on the handrail and aim my asshole at the toilet from above. In case I miss, I don't bother cleaning up, because cleaning is a woman's job and I'm not gay (not gay).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:30 PM
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Nobody will ever care about preemptively and unfairly judging brown people of Asian descent who possess an Indian accent and that's hilarious to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:05 PM
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You can have no interest in fucking or dating serial killers but still engage in the hypothetical of "having to choose" between them and crybabies, as you did. I wanted to see which one you actually found more unattractive: morose losers or violent criminals. Morbid curiosity. But of course, avoid both. Merry Christmas to you as well, fellow PPD solider.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:03 PM
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By citation I meant study featuring multiple people, not just one person's account
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:55 PM
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If men are victims of racism significantly more frequently than women that would surprise me. Willing to believe it but would want a citation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:49 PM
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I'm not sure if this will make sense, but if I say, "Unless you're being hyperbolic," followed by a statement, and you directly respond to that statement, that implies you were not being hyperbolic. Because if you were, why respond at all? The word "unless" is important here Anyway, yes, violent criminals and manchildren both bad, yes, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:47 PM
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Dawg I literally started my first response with, "Unless you're being hyperbolic..." Redditor reading comprehension challenge impossible mode
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:39 PM
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You just said, "If I had to choose between a serial killer and a whiny guy I'd pick serial killer," so you pretty much did say violent criminals are more attractive. Sure, maybe they're both unattractive in different ways, but you compared the two to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:33 PM
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Nobody will ever care about racism against Indians and that's hilarious to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:30 PM
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man child epidemic animorph fan
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:13 PM
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Actually true, for all the people using this to say "women are clueless" it's really just "rich people are clueless"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:08 PM
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True, one time a guy broke into my house with a baseball bat and killed my dog, but he at least did it confidently. He took charge of his life, and he knows what he wants, just like a real man should.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:59 PM
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Unless you're being hyperbolic, I always have to wonder why insecurity is sometimes more unattractive than violent criminals. They say men are more horny than women, but some of you guys are seemingly willing to die for some good dick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:48 PM
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Do you work at a school? I wish I could get a whole ass 2 weeks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:43 PM
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Ah, here we have it friends, the most pretentious, holier-than-thou comment in the thread!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:22 PM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 09:33 PM
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"Mommy, why is aunt WaxyButt trying to make me read this thing called 'PurpePillDebate'? That sounds like a weird drug cult."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:16 PM
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Churches burned a shit ton of Beatles stuff in the 60s. Did people lose the ability to hear the Beatles music? No, and people didn't lose the ability to listen to Andrew Tate, but just because something is still available elsewhere doesn't mean it hasn't been censored (I wouldn't call it oppression, though). At what point would you consider something censorship? Does it have to be completely unavailable everywhere? Like I can't even buy a "How to Manipulate Women Guaranteed Pussy 100%" CD from g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:41 AM
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Oh I wish they managed to stay single :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:34 AM
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Taco tate :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:33 AM
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I will disadvantage myself like that. If my current relationship ends, I will reveal my fetishes on first dates and get promptly arrested. Jail is a small price to pay for transparency.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:29 AM
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I'm not personally a big fan of RP shit, but...would you say burning books isn't censorship so long as you can get that book at a different library? Censorship =/= nuked from the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:24 AM
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Oh, lol. Well, they won't
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:22 AM
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Interesting, I don't know how many people are like that. Past partners have explicitly asked me why I love them, and I've been able to give concrete reasons that they appreciated. I feel like if I didn't choose them for those specific qualities/reasons, and I just said, "well I...I just love you, I can't help it," that would've been upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:17 AM
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Have you talked to her about being more sensual during sex? Even if her medication is affecting things, if you're polite about it and she gives a shit she might be open to spicing it up more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:09 AM
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When you say "we" do you mean women or people in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:07 AM
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Ah. Yeah extrapolating like that is silly. I've seen guys making half a million/yr marrying women with severe BPD and a barrage of bygone cocks. Anything is possible! Also if you find it sad, but you're not sad yourself, that means you do find it a bit amusing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:50 PM
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I'm actually surprised and impressed that former is winning
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:37 PM
1

What's an example of men "hamstering their little hearts out"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:35 PM
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Good. Keep them guessing. Truly the perception of poor punctuation as "female" is the greatest example of internalized misogyny in modern history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:24 PM
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I used to not capitalize my sentences on reddit but then I realized everyone thought I was a girl because of it. Fellas is it gay to not use consistently proper punctuation on anonymous websites?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:16 PM
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WaxyButt please spend some time away from the computer. This subreddit will drive innocent souls like yourself mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:06 PM
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