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3

Hey ladies, did anyone receive their "top 20% men" report in their email? I didn't get one /s
/r/ExRedPill11/07/26 02:09 PM
6

These "books" are what happens when these losers jerk off to their own egos
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 06:12 PM
8

Reality contradicts basically everything RP claims.
/r/ExRedPill27/06/26 04:42 AM
3

She's not the first nor the last single mother out there. If you're willing to be a parent, you're what many of the other single moms out there are looking for
/r/ExRedPill28/05/26 07:55 PM
8

If you think a BBL is an indicator of someone's character...
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 09:43 PM
15

Keep in mind you're looking at a tiny, tiny, tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiny slice of the population even in the bar scene.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 07:04 PM
5

Nicely done OP
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 05:07 AM
10

Girl run, you do not meed his permission to do jack shit
/r/ExRedPill24/02/26 01:15 AM
0

It's a shame your dad didn't use a condom
/r/ExRedPill21/02/26 03:51 PM
0

So your mom offers you nothing, huh?
/r/ExRedPill21/02/26 02:32 PM
0

So you actually have sex with your mom or
/r/ExRedPill21/02/26 02:01 PM
7

You can't assume you know more about what women want. Simple.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 10:38 PM
5

The point is OP has a lot of growing up to do
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 09:41 PM
2

Son you're not even done with puberty. And even then your brain still needs about eight more years to fully develop. Please pay attention in school
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 08:15 PM
3

SA sexual assault
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 01:53 PM
-1

Ask your mother
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 01:30 AM
6

Because it's not relevant
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 01:29 AM
6

Not only does it not matter, keep in mind it can be traumatizing for people who have experienced SA.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 01:28 AM
11

It's what you want to believe based on what your insecurities are telling you.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:37 AM
14

And you think you know your girlfriend's thoughts better than she does?
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:23 AM
15

Why do you care about her exes? She's not with them anymore.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:17 AM
13

Because...
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:12 AM
30

Do you think of your mom that way?
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:06 AM
10

Why do you care that you're her third?
/r/ExRedPill31/12/25 12:06 AM
7

You don't literally have to have a small dick to have small dick energy
/r/ExRedPill19/12/25 04:59 PM
-4

Nah you made it pretty fuckin clear
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 11:51 PM
2

Buddy this person is not worth your time
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 11:39 PM
-3

You're really saying the Nazis and the KKK aren't wrong about everything. Unironically. Jesus Christ. OP ignore this fool
/r/ExRedPill23/11/25 11:38 PM
3

Point to where I made generalizations about men.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/25 12:35 AM
6

Pro tip: don't lecture women about women. Especially ones that have more life experience than you.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/25 07:21 PM
12

You're letting one awful girl define your idea of gender roles.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/25 05:20 PM
2

It literally isn't
/r/ExRedPill21/11/25 02:00 PM
2

So your comment isn't helpful when talking about the ones not "growing out of it."
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 08:06 PM
2

Assuming he'll grow out of it is the problem.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/25 12:47 PM
8

She picked him and is actively choosing to be with him. All you can do at this point is decide whether you want to stay friends.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 04:10 AM
4

What gives you the impression he's decent?
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 04:09 AM
6

Enabling that behavior is what leads to grown ass men acting that way
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 01:47 PM
2

This is just me, but I would browbeat your mom and tell her she's setting a terrible example. Ask her how she'd feel if you had a husband that acted like your brother. Would she want that for you?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 02:23 PM
2

Where are your parents in all this?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/25 12:58 PM
6

You dump him off at his mommy's house
/r/ExRedPill06/10/25 06:51 PM
12

I would roast the shit out of him if he were my dad. He didn't need redpill to get married and have a family.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/25 11:59 AM
5

Check out Pinterest. There's a lot of guys that use it.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/25 11:32 PM
6

Not a single original thought.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/25 01:41 AM
3

You don’t know what that guy’s life is like. He may have the very same internal struggles and insecurities you do.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/25 02:11 AM
3

Getting laid is not the goal for self-improvement. It’s about becoming a better person for the sake of it.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/25 09:38 PM
2

Just because you don’t think confidence is the advice OP needs to hear doesn’t mean it’s “not advice.”
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 09:08 PM
5

The advice you’re offering is misleading at best.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/25 12:48 AM
9

You wear your insecurities on the outside. If you don’t build up your confidence, that is what people notice.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/25 10:32 PM
5

You are at a minimum misinformed.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/25 02:28 AM
2

If you read my previous comments on this post, you’d see I think this psychologist is wrong.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 07:00 PM
3

Including the women here to help?
/r/ExRedPill02/05/25 02:47 AM
8

She’s saying men did this all the time back in the day. Now she has male clients whose wives are doing it. Cue Shocked Pikachu expression.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 10:07 PM
8

The basis of this person’s argument is a deeply flawed interpretation of feminist history. In other words, there’s a hell of a lot more context that is being left out on purpose. I personally think this person’s spouting nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 10:05 PM
15

A lot of these types can be shut down with a simple “how the fuck do they know how women think”? They don’t. They just make shit up.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/25 05:43 PM
3

What do you mean? Are you really incapable of imagining a “chad”-looking guy struggljng with anxieties and insecurities?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/25 01:19 PM
8

…no, buddy, you completely missed the point
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 04:44 PM
11

Same, great show
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 05:32 AM
11

You need to stop.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 05:31 AM
11

Attractiveness has nothing to do with your deeply flawed methodology.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 05:30 AM
23

What they don’t realize is the guys they think are “chads” may have the exact same struggles they do.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/25 05:28 AM
4

Buddy, if Red Pill was the truth everyone would understand and accept it.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 05:56 PM
7

Use common sense. You’ve met women IRL. You’ve seen women IRL. Do you think Janice the accountant from down the street is “hypergamous”
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 05:54 PM
4

Very, very easily.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 05:50 PM
5

That’s all you need. The guys that keep telling you that “you’re not like the other girls” want you to think their validation is what matters. Your self-confidence is more important.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 03:00 PM
3

Why would it be a bad thing to be like other girls?
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 12:58 PM
6

This is what is known as a “pick me” girl. They are insufferable. Any girl can be a “pick me”, but the tradwives and redpill types have a lot of overlapping similarities. See r/notliketheothergirls
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 05:26 AM
4

Bullshit promoted by grifters
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 06:43 PM
41

Tell him that she sucks, but the redpill is for losers.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 11:04 PM
3

Because logic debunks their bullshit
/r/ExRedPill08/04/25 01:20 PM
1

Your mother must be proud
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 09:31 PM
1

There are 8 billion people in the world. How many people are in your sample size?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 09:26 PM
1

Those guys aren’t worth listening to. They take advantage of people’s insecurities to make money
/r/ExRedPill24/03/25 01:44 PM
2

And what studies are you citing? Which gender theories are the basis of your opinions?
/r/ExRedPill22/03/25 04:01 PM
2

You still can’t make blanket assumptions about women’s preferences regardless of their background or culture.
/r/ExRedPill22/03/25 05:59 AM
7

Imagine thinking you know better than actual women
/r/ExRedPill21/03/25 05:12 PM
4

Women don’t like men who put words in our mouths.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/25 05:11 PM
2

You know more than they do.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/25 05:11 PM
9

You really don’t have to “debunk” guys like him, because it’s really simple and obvious. It’s a grift and an ego trip. Besides, wouldn’t it make more sense to hear advice from actual women?
/r/ExRedPill21/03/25 05:09 PM
4

And who are those people? Probably not women.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/25 05:17 AM
9

Because you chose to be convinced and not examine it with critical thinking.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:34 PM
12

Social Darwinism is psuedoscience bunk.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:33 PM
9

I would say it’s not abnormal in this day and age to have only experienced “situationships.” That alpha/beta male bullshit is nonsense, though
/r/ExRedPill19/03/25 05:32 PM
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Almost every damn day on this site
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 07:43 AM
6

That’s the kind of shit that should be a dead giveaway they know nothing about women
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 03:21 PM
9

Try listening to someone with a predominantly female fanbase.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/25 10:35 PM
59

Your rationale is directly contradicted by having a female friend who literally told you about your good qualities.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/25 04:57 PM
35

They’re really describing themselves
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 03:30 PM
53

Sounds like projection
/r/ExRedPill16/02/25 01:32 PM
6

Sir??
/r/ExRedPill14/02/25 02:14 AM
0

You’re on the right track. But sexualization isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It’s sexual objectification that is demeaning. The Sexy Lamp Test is a good way to learn the difference.
/r/ExRedPill04/02/25 12:08 AM
2

Literally everything -pill is bullshit, so just teach yourself to reject that mindset entirely. It’s nonsense. Go find some 100-level sociology study guides and start from there. Then read up on Michel Foucault’s work if you really want to start learning.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 02:01 AM
1

Okay, but did you make acquaintances based on looks?
/r/ExRedPill28/01/25 01:11 AM
1

You’ve never had a single friend, ever?
/r/ExRedPill27/01/25 11:26 PM
2

Well… are your friendships based on looks? Think about it.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/25 11:24 PM
4

Tell him that a) anything ending in -pill is a bullshit cult and b) the real red/blue pills were created by trans women and has nothing to do with pill ideology.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/25 10:00 PM
3

Incels exist because they feel entitled to sex.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/25 07:39 PM
1

No I did. It was still wrong.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/24 01:32 PM
11

Oh you were definitely too young to remember
/r/ExRedPill30/12/24 04:11 AM
1

You’re missing the entire point.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/24 11:43 PM
1

The semantics aren’t the point. People don’t foster relationships through looks.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/24 07:26 PM
4

There was no “good” interpretation. What you’re saying literally reinforces -pill bullshit and is harmful. As a woman I advise you fuck off.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 11:18 PM
5

I don’t have to prove shit to you.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 05:58 PM
5

Spare the lecture. It was a gross analogy to make.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 05:56 PM
4

Everything you have said is wrong.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 05:52 PM
6

People aren’t for sale.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 04:18 PM
5

A) That’s not what assortative mating means. B) nothing you’re saying is based in fact or reason. You’re confusing your own opinions for logic. C) you need help. Seriously.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 04:17 PM
5

How can looks “matter quite a lot” but “not in the long run?” You literally just defeated the point you thought you were trying to make.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/24 03:54 AM
4

Clearly this guy was doing something to get those girls’ attention. Or maybe he’s got one of those charming, sociable personalities. How were they interacting? Did he buy them drinks or something? That’s what works. Looks are secondary.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/24 07:21 PM
8

This literally made me want to throw up
/r/ExRedPill26/12/24 07:15 PM
10

This is garbage advice. Relationships are not built on looks.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/24 07:13 PM
3

Not currently iirc
/r/ExRedPill21/12/24 12:22 AM
3

Nobody’s that desperate to go to prison like he did
/r/ExRedPill20/12/24 11:59 PM
22

And that’s just his face.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 08:24 PM
15

Ewww. No.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 07:25 PM
9

It’s all toxic bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 02:11 PM
69

Notice how Andrew Tate doesn’t have fangirls?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 07:25 PM
57

It’s much more common for men to feel that way towards their partners.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/24 03:33 AM
1

And if any of it was rooted in truth or common knowledge, they’d be household names.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/24 08:51 PM
7

Tell him only losers believe in the red pill and that he’ll get beat up for being mean to girls. Real men treat women with respect.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 11:07 PM
9

We don’t use that terminology, that is redpill cult bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 11:03 PM
58

They’re all fucking losers. There’s no such thing as “high value” in a redpill context. It’s all cult language bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/24 07:56 PM
5

You have nothing to be ashamed of. Being a delivery driver, especially in an area where nobody else seems to want to do that job, speaks to your work ethic and integrity. Keep your chin up.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 04:23 PM
9

No we aren’t.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/24 04:21 PM
0

God forbid we express concern
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 02:29 PM
0

No but it’s the exact thing you’d get him evaluated for so he doesn’t become any of those things.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 01:05 PM
1

Being an “ex-redpiller” at only 14 is disturbing. Set an example for your peers and call out toxic behavior when you see it.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 12:49 PM
0

This is way beyond an “edgy” phase
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 12:42 PM
3

Why did you subscribe to her in the first place?
/r/ExRedPill31/10/24 05:41 PM
14

Use real words, bud
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 09:49 AM
1

Maybe you should get better friends.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 10:58 PM
22

That is absolutely a normal and reasonable feeling that a lot of people have. It’s not the same for everyone but there’s nothing wrong at 25.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/24 01:16 AM
7

Having anxiety about seeing someone is normal. Everyone has those feelings at some degree. The thoughts you’re describing are exactly what redpill bullshit is designed to make you believe. None of that is normal. It’s cult language.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 10:06 PM
1

You can’t demand someone change their tone just because you’re annoyed by their comments
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 03:09 PM
1

Irrelevant how?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 01:03 PM
22

This was a legitimate discussion for several decades, at least in academia
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 12:29 AM
8

More people have become comfortable expressing it, along with other bigoted views
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 12:27 AM
2

This is pretty easy. You are assuming every man and every woman find the same traits to be attractive, and at the same degree. Your friend is assuming every woman reacts the same way to someone they find attractive. I promise you, your height really isn’t that big of a deal. There are women who love shorter guys, but for the most part nobody cares. The people that do care aren’t the people you wouldn’t want to date in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/24 06:16 PM
2

Good luck! Having solidarity is important. 🤗
/r/ExRedPill28/09/24 12:33 AM
2

Again, I’m going to point you towards LGBTQ+-centered resources to start. Join subreddits, seek out local communities in your area, check out the Trevor Project, etc. You’re much more likely to find people who can relate to your experience and can offer advice.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 09:26 PM
1

Like swiping right on every profile and making plans to hook up with every single match on a dating app. Going to a bar/club and picking up anyone who pays attention. You can technically gain the experience you think you’re missing, but you’re much more likely to run into creeps, randos, and people who turn out to be horrible but are good at hiding it. I made similar mistakes when I was younger. I ended up in several abusive relationships. The more important thing is finding community that under…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 08:53 PM
2

The thing is, you can. But you don’t want to engage in risky behavior just so you can mark it off a checklist. That’s the easiest way to end up in really bad situations. There are too many people out there willing to take advantage of someone vulnerable. Seek out LGBTQ support groups and reach out to places like the Trevor Project. They will be much more helpful to you and your journey.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 01:52 PM
1

It’s all good, you’re learning from this.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/24 04:24 PM
8

That’s a faulty generalization, my dude.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/24 08:20 PM
11

I literally have no idea what the fuck you’re talking about
/r/ExRedPill20/09/24 06:09 PM
27

You have to get this whole “Chad and Stacy” thing out of your head. This is not how the world works, it’s cult language.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/24 05:09 PM
9

If you talk to him again, ask him why he supports a loser who stares directly into the sun during a solar eclipse.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/24 01:52 PM
8

Awesome job!
/r/ExRedPill08/09/24 04:57 PM
10

Learn to accept having prior partners as a simple fact of life. Your high school sweetheart chose to move on to someone else, and her relationship worked out for her. It had nothing to do with either of your histories. This whole mindset is only going to make you feel worse about yourself.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 07:20 PM
27

The entire premise of your argument is flawed. You are assuming another person has what you consider to be “better” traits. The reality is you have no idea who’s behind the screen and what their life is like. ETA: Andrew Tate is a fucking loser.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/24 05:43 PM
1

Tell him there’s easier ways to end up in prison
/r/ExRedPill03/09/24 08:47 PM
1

Nothing, because it is all bullshit
/r/ExRedPill21/08/24 06:59 PM
8

That’s exactly why you shouldn’t listen to those people
/r/ExRedPill19/08/24 10:20 PM
0

The point that those guys aren’t worth giving a platform to begin with?
/r/ExRedPill17/08/24 04:57 PM
3

You couldn’t pay me to watch their kind of “content”
/r/ExRedPill17/08/24 02:36 AM
4

Hey maybe mock the grifters and not the “dorks”?
/r/ExRedPill16/08/24 08:46 PM
6

Name five “disciplined men” then
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 08:13 AM
3

Because relationships aren’t built on looks. If you’re insecure about your appearance, people can tell. How you carry yourself determines the kind of attention you draw.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/24 08:04 AM
3

Oh I read your comment thoroughly. Again, you are missing the point. You can’t determine whether someone’s “let themselves go”, especially a stranger. You have no idea what their life was like before you laid eyes on them. You don’t know whether they have a medical condition, or overcame a personal struggle with addiction, etc. It’s one thing to decide if a person is attractive, but ranking looks on a scale doesn’t work. It’s always subjective. Someone might have the features that many people fi…
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 03:08 PM
5

You’re completely missing the point. There is no such thing as a “3” because you can’t measure attractiveness or “potential” that way. You also don’t know what her life was like before you met her, so you can’t argue she “let herself go.” She made some lifestyle adjustments and changed her looks, and that is drawing positive attention because it’s boosting her self esteem. So more people find her attractive, no doubt. But reframe your mindset.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 07:46 AM
18

Whatever the number is, it’s not something to brag about.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/24 05:51 AM
14

Okay let’s run down a few points here: You can’t quantify attractiveness. There is no universal scale of 1-10. It sounds like you feel insecure compared to your friends. Maybe they’re more outgoing and you’re more shy and reserved. (Honestly that’s the vibe I’m getting from reading your post). Have you talked to your friends and asked for their advice? They should help you out, y’all be each others’ wingmen. I would say it’s generally not a good idea to tap on a girl’s shoulders, it’s a bit awkw…
/r/ExRedPill02/08/24 10:18 PM
6

The logic that led you to that conclusion in the first place. Again, there are eight billion people on this planet.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 10:48 PM
6

You have a lot of deconstructing to do in order to scratch the surface here, buddy. Think about whatever led you to that conclusion.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 09:03 PM
11

That was not my question. Try again.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 06:56 PM
13

You think this applies to all eight billion people on earth, irrespective of culture, gender identity, sexual orientation, and norms surrounding relationships?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/24 05:54 PM
6

I don’t know what the answer is, but I’m sorry you’re having to deal with it. He’s going down a rabbit hole that could get very dangerous for him. I hope he recognizes that and gets out before something bad happens.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 03:38 PM
3

Don’t do it, it’s not worth it and your height really doesn’t matter. It’s like lying on a resume.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 05:21 PM
1

Don’t do it, it’s not worth it and your height really doesn’t matter. It’s like lying on a resume.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 05:21 PM
1

Don’t do it, it’s not worth it and your height really doesn’t matter. It’s like lying on a resume.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 05:21 PM
1

Not yet as far as I know
/r/ExRedPill23/07/24 02:10 AM
4

The key is go ask yourself “why does this person’s approval matter to me?” Andrew Tate is a loser. He’s in prison. You don’t need his approval to boost your self-esteem.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 09:20 PM
4

That’s not feminism
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 09:18 PM
6

The male equivalent would be watching tradwives
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 09:17 PM
1

Hey buddy, you have nothing to be ashamed about. Those “-pill” hawkers are a bunch of losers, idiots, and assholes. You are already better than them.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 06:46 PM
6

Um… if that’s the case why bother…?
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:59 PM
6

You’re not accomplishing what you think you’re doing.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:56 PM
8

Okay, once again: miso- = “hate” gyny = “women”. It really is that simple. Misogyny is bigotry towards women. You don’t need to read too much into it.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:52 PM
1

+Adam Kinzinger
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:41 PM
6

Either way, they failed gender studies 101
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:39 PM
7

Buddy, what the fuck are you even saying
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:38 PM
5

The content he consumes If he makes comments about other women, esp. friends’ partners, platonic female friends, coworkers, etc. His dynamic with his mother His opinion of splitting chores/money/raising a family
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 03:37 PM
3

Pretty much this. The dating pool is already rough here in my state.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 01:43 AM
3

This is a very thoughtful question and personally I appreciate it. Sheesh, I don’t even know where to begin.
/r/ExRedPill21/07/24 01:42 AM
17

It’s always the ones who claim they’re more “logical”, yet they never seem to grasp the concept of logic.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/24 01:17 AM
3

Yeah keep in mind RP is more like a cult. They try to make their bullshit sound intellectual and edgy, when in reality it’s just nonsensical garbage. Keep asking good questions. You might want to look into some gender studies 101 reading material (esp if you’re a student). I think you’d find it interesting.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 04:38 PM
0

Bad advice from peers and media. It’s more of a broader comparison. I don’t know why it’s a thing, and I’m a grown woman in my 30s. Just watch Mean Girls and you’ll get the idea.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 10:08 PM
4

Ah, clever! I thought you were referencing an actual RP nonsense term
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 09:51 PM
9

No. Friendship is not a consolation prize. What the fuck is “female fatalism”
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 09:42 PM
7

Where’d you hear that from?
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 09:40 PM
2

This is one of those bullshit things that girls were often taught growing up. Don’t do it. If you’re interested, shoot your shot.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 09:39 PM
8

Good! This is a general rule of thumb that applies to everything in life, not just self-help.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 05:15 PM
17

The age gap is sketchy at best, and that’s putting it VERY generously. His values are an indicator of his judgment.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 03:15 PM
40

Great job making these observations and using your critical thinking skills. He’s what I would call a “white knight predator” - someone who puts on a front pretending to be an “ally” to women those guys are the worst.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/24 02:27 PM
5

Isn’t it just the funniest shit ever?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 06:16 PM
4

Yes. Source: am woman
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 01:26 PM
6

If you’re going to claim “studies”, you need to show your work. What you’re saying is bunk.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 01:25 PM
6

What study?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 01:24 PM
4

That is self-deluded thinking.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 01:24 PM
55

Nobody in the real world thinks in terms of “Chads” and “Staceys.”
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 01:15 AM
2

Think of all the examples of good men in your life. You KNOW they exist. Maybe it was the elderly man who lived down the street, or that awesome middle school teacher everyone loved. If you can’t think of anyone, go watch clips of Mister Rogers.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/24 07:41 PM
2

Right…. And why do you watch them?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 07:40 PM
6

That would require assuming every woman has the same taste. And is heterosexual.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 07:39 PM
1

Again, based on whose definition?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 05:22 PM
2

No, I’m asking where you found these definitions.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 05:22 PM
7

See how that works? There is no “universal.”
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 05:21 PM
1

It’s clear I need improving What’s the basis of this argument?
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 04:33 PM
2

Where are you getting these definitions? Serious question.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 04:31 PM
4

I think he’s great but he’s not my type
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 04:30 PM
3

“The female gaze” is a concept, not a physical demand. What you’re watching in those videos is someone else’s interpretation of the female gaze - and it’s probably some loser who thinks being confident makes them smarter than everyone else.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/24 04:29 PM
11

Your worldview is smaller than my dating pool.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/24 10:04 PM
1

You should do some reading.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/24 11:10 PM
10

1000%. Having female friends makes a big difference.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 02:08 AM
6

Your mannerisms are more important than your muscles. Make sure you don’t stare, linger around, etc. you don’t want to be the creepy guy in the corner. Just go about your business. Build up your self-confidence, and be friendly. Think about going to the grocery store and small talk with the cashier. That’s where you want to start.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 02:06 AM
1

You want unsolicited d-ck pics and messages calling you a slut?
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 12:43 AM
9

I’ll save you some time: it’s bullshit
/r/ExRedPill22/05/24 01:44 AM
5

“Rules for thee but not for me”
/r/ExRedPill22/05/24 01:44 AM
3

Again, sounds like bullshit. Don’t let it get to you.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 11:29 PM
3

I’ve never heard the term praxiology in my life. Sounds like bullshit
/r/ExRedPill06/05/24 09:20 PM
1

Buddy, please stay in school.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 07:15 PM
1

He’s an idiot.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 07:15 PM
4

“The men”
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:28 AM
5

This person severely overestimates how much his approval matters to anyone else
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:26 AM
15

Jokes have to be funny.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 06:23 PM
5

Literally never because looks aren’t what build relationships.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 06:22 PM
16

Sex isn’t the same thing as relationships. Don’t assume it’s a good experience
/r/ExRedPill25/04/24 02:39 PM
13

The women in this subreddit.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 05:33 PM
8

That’s a very easy way to misinterpret the advice being given here. If you assume every commenter is generalizing about men, you will miss the entire point. This sub exists to help deconstruct the ideas and concepts from the -pill cult, which are often generalizations. Nuance doesn’t always come through over text.
/r/ExRedPill23/04/24 02:42 PM
5

Alternate interpretation: she came back BECAUSE she realized there was something she liked about you and and she came to that realization while with this other dude. Give it a shot!
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 04:48 AM
2

That’s what it’s designed to do.
/r/ExRedPill26/03/24 07:43 PM
2

Don’t confuse confidence with arrogance and inflated egotism. Confidence is feeling secure in yourself, and you don’t feel threatened by how others perceive you.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 10:35 PM
13

Because it is a cult mindset designed to ruin relationships, or any chance of being in one.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/24 10:33 PM
6

Let’s go over this. I feel like the stereotype that women are more emotional and romantic is untrue, I think it’s actually the opposite. What is the basis of your feelings, besides what you’ve observed among your friends? I’ve heard so many stories about men doing these grand romantic gestures for women, Examples? but it doesn’t seem like women do things like this nearly as much. What led you to this conclusion? Women file for divorce way more, Source? they tend to move on faster, and “Move on” …
/r/ExRedPill11/03/24 06:15 PM
6

Yes. Especially if they seem to be recent follows
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 01:45 AM
2

Generalizing and jumping to conclusions are a sure fire way to get locked into an unhealthy mindset.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/24 01:20 PM
3

Think about where these beliefs are coming from. You’re claiming it “seems like” this that and the other, but what led you to think this way?
/r/ExRedPill06/03/24 03:56 AM
3

Serious question: did you learn about periods in school?
/r/ExRedPill03/03/24 10:42 PM
8

Buddy, you really need to talk to a professional. Reddit’s not the best outlet. If you feel really depressed or feel like you’re in crisis, text 988 if you’re in the US.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 06:47 AM
1

No, it actually makes even less sense.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 12:50 PM
1

How can you point out all of the glaring flaws and still be convinced of redpill beliefs anyway? Do you not see the cognitive dissonance here?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/24 05:31 AM
42

Because it sounds like an insult by those who don’t understand what feminism is
/r/ExRedPill26/02/24 06:24 PM
12

That’s a bigger problem
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 07:45 PM
7

Do you have empathy for your guy friends?
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 06:38 PM
45

That’s usually a sign their maturity level is around age 14.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 12:32 AM
5

Grift
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 06:37 PM
38

None of that pill shit is real. It makes no sense. You have low self-esteem? That can be fixed, but none of this gibberish is going to help.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/24 01:14 PM
15

Being insecure about the state of the relationship isn’t what we’re talking about. It’s about why you feel that way.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 11:48 PM
15

That’s not really “being vulnerable with a partner” so much as “telling us why you feel insecure around us.” Not the same.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 11:35 PM
10

Yet another reason Redpill is garbage. Of course we want to know. That’s part of being in a relationship. We want a partner to be able to trust us and feel safe expressing their feelings.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 11:33 PM
11

You don’t know what any of those words mean. Please have a seat.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:10 PM
3

That’s… not at all what I said.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:09 PM
19

Being uncomfortable with someone’s sexual history is not a reflection on them, but on you. Ex: “too many boyfriends” - implies there’s a set limit that’s “acceptable” for a woman to have.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 01:34 PM
4

Who told you that?
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 01:33 AM
9

Literally going outside and being in public. Go to a restaurant, park, mall, movie theater, whatever. Look at every couple, young, old, middle aged. You know those ideas are bullshit because you have eyes.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 01:33 AM
10

Don’t overthink it, guys. Women treat height the same way we treat astrology. It’s tongue-in-cheek most of the time. You don’t want to be with someone who takes it seriously anyway.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/24 05:56 AM
–

That is literally what confirmation bias means
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 11:13 PM
–

Grow up, son
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 11:12 PM
–

Look at your mom. Look at your grandma. Are they “proof” the redpill works in your eyes?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 11:09 PM
19

Obsessing over body count.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 08:12 PM
5

JSTOR will be your best friend. Add bell hooks, Michel Foucault, and work your way up to Judith Butler for a challenge.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 02:13 AM
6

The most effective way to learn is from people that are radically different from yourself. Sharpen your critical thinking skills and challenge yourself with as many different perspectives as possible.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 02:10 AM
1

Redpill is a cult mindset full of bullshit. It’s much easier to understand when you recognize that.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 02:06 AM
3

You know that’s ridiculous.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/24 01:09 AM
2

Wallowing is exactly what they want you to do.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 06:11 PM
12

You were right the first time.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 05:53 AM
14

You know it’s bullshit because the only people talking about it are the people that believe in it. That’s some cult-gibberish nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 03:52 AM
7

Silence is an answer.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/24 01:22 AM
1

Anyone who toys with your feelings is not someone you want to be with, dude. This is all really toxic shit and it’s going to make you feel even worse.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 10:17 PM
4

People don’t run on algorithms. True connections aren’t made through AI or SEO software. You might find something promising on paper but the reality might reflect something different.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 02:26 AM
1

You have to reject this mindset. The world doesn’t worth this way, and thinking like this is what will prevent you from achieving your goals.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/24 12:14 AM
3

Stop. This is exactly the kind of shit redpill assholes want you to think.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/24 01:42 AM
1

You confirmed this after consulting with all ~4 billion women on this planet?
/r/ExRedPill20/01/24 01:40 AM
3

Don’t listen to anyone that says anything about your autism being a negative. That is a slippery slope to some horrible stuff.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 02:00 AM
0

Which still do not negate that all of those traits are relative and not universal. Literally the whole point.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:58 AM
1

That still doesn’t negate the fact that you can’t assign a quantifiable value to those traits. Blue eyes and brown eyes. Blonde hair and red hair. Accents. Religious beliefs. Views on having kids. Those things can’t be measured with numbers. All of those are common traits people look for.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 11:24 PM
2

Tl;dr version: you can’t measure attractiveness because everyone has different preferences
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:57 PM
1

Maybe sit this one out.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:56 PM
1

Good try
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:55 PM
11

This is the most ridiculous nonsense I’ve ever seen someone post in this subreddit
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:50 AM
8

For whom???
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:49 AM
20

There is no universal standard of attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 07:49 AM
7

You’re seeing it because the algorithm wants you to see it. It’s not mainstream.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 06:11 AM
8

Because just like the redpill itself, these concepts were misappropriated from a completely different context. The 80/20 rule applies to things like communication (80% body language, 20% spoken words). I don’t know WTF this garbage means.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 09:58 PM
1

And that’s where your attraction stems from? I’m not following
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 06:25 AM
3

Rare compared to what?
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 02:29 AM
5

r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 04:57 PM
9

That kind of fear is what fuels redpill.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 04:56 PM
4

Just real quick: • Amouranth is a survivor of spousal abuse. None of that money came easy for her. Money doesn’t stop abuse. • There’s nothing wrong with being 5’6. • Women are people, not achievements. • Anyone who tried to convince you women’s lives are easier is a moron. Ask any woman who isn’t white.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 04:55 PM
1

You can start by cutting that redpill bullshit out of vocabulary. Using sex workers is a choice, but you don’t seem mature enough to handle it. You’re probably better off talking out your issues to a sex therapist rather than Reddit.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 09:10 PM
2

What the fuck does that even mean? Using escorts? You do realize they’re people too, right?
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 09:06 PM
1

First and foremost, redpill is bullshit. These are all talking points designed to make you feel bad about yourself. If you take a step back, you can see how stupid redpill really is. Women are people and everyone has different preferences. There is no universal standard.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 04:42 AM
1

Okay dude, you’re clearly struggling with serious personal issues. That’s understandable. But that doesn’t mean what you’re saying is valid or accurate.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 04:57 PM
5

Relative to what? Everything you just said is subjective and open to interpretation. That’s not the same thing as fact.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 04:54 PM
6

Gonna need to see the sources you’re citing there, chief
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 02:42 PM
33

Uh… why is this post phrased like a wildlife nature documentary voiceover
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 12:45 PM
1

We don’t write those kinds of books.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 05:43 AM
7

Why do you know so much about this woman’s reading habits?
/r/ExRedPill05/01/24 11:29 PM
3

Struck a nerve, huh
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 02:05 PM
22

The thing is…. None of these people are “relevant.” It’s basically a cult.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 09:32 PM
1

Sorry if that’s how my tone came across. I’m just telling you this is a real thing that happens to a Lot of women. It’s not always easy to talk about.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 06:45 PM
3

Assumed because it’s happened to me enough times IRL, son.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:25 PM
4

Your question has nothing to do with OP. The older guy pursued the girl, she didn’t chase him. You can’t say the girl preferred “older guys” based on that particular person.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 05:12 PM
8

Shit, tell HER parents
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 03:33 PM
2

Explain how money is “biological”, Darwin
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 02:57 PM
0

It doesn’t though?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 01:28 PM
43

You notice how the older guy is usually the one to pursue the younger woman?
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 01:43 AM
7

Absolutely none of that is a real thing.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 01:48 PM
10

You’re welcome. Remember this is a completely normal part of dating and this happens to just about everyone, regardless of gender. Redpill wants you to think you’re an “outsider” to the dating world and you’re not.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 08:57 PM
12

Hang on. You realized the situation was a dealbreaker for you and you left. That is a good thing. Never go into a situation assuming things will play out based on what you believe “on paper.” You are setting yourself up for disappointment if the experience doesn’t go well. Unfortunately that’s what happened here. But that’s also totally normal and happens all the time. Now you have a “date gone wrong” story. Shake it off and move on, just go about your business. Don’t let the redpill bullshit co…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 08:35 PM
10

keep in mind you’re in a very small pond. When you get the opportunity to move to new environments, meeting new people, this will help you learn and grow your perspective.
/r/ExRedPill27/12/23 11:55 PM
1

Ah unfortunately you don’t get to grant permission.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 01:44 PM
6

If she does, that’s not a reflection on you. A decent person would want to understand their partner’s struggles.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 01:55 AM
1

This is going to sound like reverse psychology, but you’re more likely to attract women by demonstrating how respectful you are. (Not in a “nice guy way - sincere without expectation.) Go out and enjoy yourself, have fun, do the things you love. 100% true story: I met a guy I ended up dating for three years just because we happened to share an Uber. You never know when you’re going to meet someone special. Don’t be afraid to shoot your shot.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 12:12 AM
2

I don’t know that I’ve ever overheard people in public talking about “red pilling” each other when they’re gaslighting each other This is what I meant. This sentence makes no sense.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:44 PM
3

See the search tool? Use it.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:34 PM
3

Toxic redpill shit will convince you vulnerability is a sign of weakness. It’s actually a sign of strength. Your girlfriend is probably concerned that you don’t feel comfortable opening up to her. Please look into therapy if you’re not already going. It will help you so, so much with sorting out your feelings.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:31 PM
1

Did you use chatGPT to make this comment?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:25 PM
2

Buddy that’s not what gaslighting means
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:22 PM
1

That’s not how debating works. I don’t need to know or give a shit about this particular account because redpill isn’t something most people are familiar with, nor should they be. Redpill is a rabbit hole of bullshit targeted at young men who struggle with their self esteem and meeting women. Now you can tell me - a grown woman - why I should give a fuck.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:21 PM
2

Why does it matter? The concept sounds like bullshit because redpill is bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 09:52 PM
35

Anything ending in -pill is nonsense, even if it sounds positive.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 07:08 PM
9

A vicious negative feedback loop of toxic misogynistic and hateful beliefs that reinforce self-esteem issues.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 05:54 AM
2

Your lack of reading comprehension and syntax
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 05:49 AM
1

Plot twist: no
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 05:47 AM
2

It doesn’t make sense, dude…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 02:49 AM
2

Did you have a point to make?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 02:45 AM
2

No, just for the people that don’t know what they’re talking about.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 02:22 AM
1

He’s the trendy rebranded face of a very old problem.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:21 PM
7

And they’re all so easy to shut down! ”Why don’t male domestic shelters exist?” Google is free. ”The wage gap is a myth!!!1!!!” Citation needed.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:18 PM
5

You’re literally providing an example of what OP is talking about.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:13 PM
9

Yeah I had a very similar experience to you at that age. It was horrible, but not exactly -pill stuff. You’re completely spot on. For as much as these guys like to crow about being “logical,” literally none of the -pill ideology is rooted in fact.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:12 PM
2

Okay. Good starting point, did anyone say why?
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 10:01 PM
8

You don’t need “charm.” All you need is to be kind, friendly, sincere, and upfront with your intentions. But also remember not to expect anything. If you’re interested in someone and they don’t seem to reciprocate, that’s okay. I know autism can make it harder sometimes. I have ADHD and it took me a really, REALLY long time to figure out how to get it wrong. And I still get it wrong sometimes. I’m sure I’ve been the most awkward date many guys have had. But building up confidence helps. You gott…
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 10:00 PM
9

Dr Julie the Psych Doctor - more specifically for people with ADHD These are sown of my other favorite comedians and content creators whose work focuses on relationships: Taylor Tomlinson Ms. Pat Rosebud Baker Rachel Bloom - created the show Crazy Ex-Girlfriend
/r/ExRedPill19/12/23 12:14 AM
2

*Grown ass woman.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 11:53 PM
1

That wasn’t my question.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 01:51 AM
1

And what do you think marriage is? A happily ever after? Serious question.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 01:48 AM
1

And why would we want that?
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 01:47 AM
8

This is a “live and learn” moment. You lived it, and you learned why redpill doesn’t work. And that’s a good thing! Keep your head up. Now that you’re starting to recognize what not to do, just keep trying to do better. It may get awkward sometimes, but that’s okay. As long as you are kind, sincere, and respectful, that’s what really matters.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 02:36 AM
6

Your high school experience does not represent the entire world.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 11:57 PM
1

If that kind of advice was effective, they’d have a huge female fan base.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 07:10 PM
6

How many of my exes have you met?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 07:05 PM
-1

You know someone who understands women better than women?
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 06:14 PM
6

Bold to assume you know what I like.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 06:12 PM
22

This assumes every woman has the exact same dating experiences and preferences in a partner.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 06:07 AM
1

Literally anything by a woman
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 04:21 AM
3

Literally never heard of this account but sounds like bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill16/12/23 04:15 AM
3

Do you know what women actually think of redpill? It’s absolute bullshit. Think about who’s promoting these beliefs. It’s usually a guy who wants to profit off you feeling bad about yourself. How would these losers know what women want? Doesn’t it seem pretty obvious that these guys have no clue what they’re talking about?
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 01:44 AM
7

There’s too many idiots mistaking their overconfidence for knowledge.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 12:17 AM
3

I think too many people are conflating opinion and fact and assuming there is a universal standard when it comes to attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 12:16 AM
5

Further proof that none of -pill ideology is real
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 08:56 PM
10

I am. He’s not wrong.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:32 AM
2

Absolutely none of that is true.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:30 AM
3

Preferences are not a universal truth. “Common physical traits many people find attractive” =/= “you’re unattractive if you don’t look like this”
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 02:52 PM
8

Exactly. Doesn’t it sound silly to listen to a bunch of random guys tell you what women want? It’s utter nonsense if you think about it.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 02:45 PM
3

It’s very, very easy to disprove. Why? Because literally nothing in redpill is based in actual logic or common sense. You cannot make absolute truth out of something subjective (level of attractiveness).
/r/ExRedPill01/12/23 02:44 PM
2

Point out the irony of him only staying in touch with the one friend who validates his beliefs instead of his girlfriend.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 10:36 PM
2

It’s pretty obvious why it doesn’t work and why the “logic” is flawed. There is literally zero scientific basis, just thought-terminating cliches based on a twisted concept from a movie.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 10:33 PM
1

Women were not legally allowed to open credit cards in their own name until the 1970s.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 12:57 AM
5

And those likes could have been artificially inflated by bots
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 12:56 AM
2

A term made up by someone who doesn’t understand economics or history
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 12:55 AM
7

Why not search for “healthy relationship models” or “happy successful relationships” instead of redpill content?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 04:24 PM
73

It’s fair to say that that sub is a landfill.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 10:11 PM
7

You have no clue what you’re talking about.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 02:43 PM
6

Nah. Here.. Have some actual academic theory to chew on. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 04:32 AM
2

Never heard of it, has zero relevance to me. Gender identity is a personal thing so it’s none of my business.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 04:29 AM
2

Very disturbing to read tbh.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 04:57 AM
3

Fun fact: Botox is a legitimate medical treatment.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:38 PM
7

In Andrew Tate’s case, serious prison time
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:37 PM
10

Hey buddy, not every woman has the capacity to get pregnant in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:35 PM
14

Unfortunately a lot of women have first hand experience.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:30 PM
6

Andrew Tate is a loser and charged with serious crimes against women. What he preaches is predator bs and that’s why he promotes going after younger women who may not know better. You are correct when it comes to those large age gaps.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/23 05:27 PM
1

I felt the exact same way you did when I was younger. As I mentioned I didn’t have my first kiss until I was 19. Though my experiences eventually turns out differently, I was what most people considered a “late bloomer.” And that is okay. honestly, there are a lot of people who make stupid, risky, and even life threatening decisions when they were younger. There are tons of women out there who also feel the same way you do. You’re not alone.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 11:13 PM
1

I’m telling you this as a woman who was once in your shoes.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 11:05 PM
4

I don’t mean to be harsh, but that’s teenager logic. The good thing about adulthood is that most normal sane people don’t care about body counts. The ones that do are not people that you would want to be around. And I say this as someone who had never even kissed until the age of 19.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 11:00 PM
2

How old are you?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 10:56 PM
2

More experience =/= better Don’t call a woman “promiscuous” if you wouldn’t label a man the same way “Body count” is irrelevant
/r/ExRedPill21/10/23 10:46 PM
2

Absolutely. That’s how the cycle keeps going. It’s a cult that sucks vulnerable people in to make them feel worse about themselves.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 03:23 PM
3

Oh definitely
/r/ExRedPill19/10/23 03:30 AM
1

Mine?
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 10:05 PM
6

Nope. Bye.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 07:10 PM
5

Go troll somewhere else
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 07:06 PM
3

Absolutely. It’s one of the best ideas
/r/ExRedPill14/10/23 06:48 PM
2

Ahhh understood. I was very confused trying to follow along but it must be the mobile formatting
/r/ExRedPill10/10/23 11:21 PM
1

What are you talking about? Honest question.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/23 04:13 PM
3

I would be very interested to see what sources you’re citing.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 07:59 PM
3

If those “alpha males” were as successful as they claimed, they’d be too busy with women to produce that garbage content.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:30 PM
2

If redpill were that mainstream, wouldn’t everyone know what it was?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:28 PM
7

Redpill wasn’t a concept invented by women. Unless you’re referring to the original red pill from the Matrix films, which is a completely differently subject.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:27 PM
4

This is really disheartening to read from another woman.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:25 PM
2

Where are these beliefs coming from? Did someone tell you these things? Did religion play a role? Or your upbringing?
/r/ExRedPill09/10/23 01:24 PM
1

No. The point is for OP to not be overwhelmed and to avoid rushing to respond. That’s not “playing games.”
/r/ExRedPill08/10/23 07:41 PM
0

Just let the communication flow naturally. Give yourself extra time to focus on something else for a little while as a distraction and try to match her response rate. Like if she takes about ten minutes to respond, reply back in 15-20.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/23 07:16 AM
1

Redpill is nonsense. The people that preach redpill are losers. If redpill worked, everyone would know what it is.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/23 07:32 PM
1

Redpill =/= “pick me”. As I said it’s an apples and oranges comparison.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 10:52 PM
10

“Pick me”s have existed well before redpill. There’s a laundry list of reasons behind this, but it’s an apples and oranges comparison to redpill. Girls have the benefit of going through a period where we are taught how to deal with our emotions and self-esteem issues. It’s a huge part of coming of age that is constantly reinforced in our culture (books, teen magazines, movies). Think about it: what’s the male equivalent of Mean Girls?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 07:10 PM
2

I wish to answer in the affirmative fashion
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 09:45 PM
4

Nope.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 07:48 PM
7

Thank you for explaining.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 07:48 PM
7

Is this a shitpost?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 07:46 PM
5

No.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 07:46 PM
4

It IS nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 07:45 PM
6

What is that supposed to mean? Do you want to subscribe or not?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 07:44 PM
37

That’s not a fact. That’s complete nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 02:33 PM
14

Jordan Peterson is an idiot.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 09:30 PM
10

Body counts don’t matter, period.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 01:33 PM
3

Easy, buddy. There’s a lot to unpack here.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/23 12:30 AM
21

It’s by design. The whole point is to use terminology that sounds logical, while still reinforcing self-esteem issues.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 06:23 PM
6

Where are you getting these “percentages” from?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 02:27 PM
23

Your best weapon is actual academic research. If you’re a student, your school should have access to JSTOR or something similar. Or try your nearest library. Don’t confuse subjective terms like “top tier” with fact. Opinions and preferences are not the same for every person. There is no universal standard of attractiveness because everyone has different preferences. 2a. There are common physical traits that many people find attractive, but that does not mean it is “wrong” to not have these trait…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/23 02:25 PM
4

Literally everything “redpill” is nonsense garbage made up by someone who either never saw the Matrix or completely missed the point of the movie.
/r/ExRedPill22/09/23 11:55 PM
2

None of those statements are based on fact. They’re used as a trick to get you to obsess over your biggest insecurities. The redpill is made up nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/23 09:52 PM
1

If you’re only looking on Tinder, that’s like being upset you haven’t found the love of your life at your nearest bus stop. How many people live on this planet?
/r/ExRedPill15/09/23 01:24 PM
1

The simple answer: There wouldn’t be a market if there wasn’t demand. That’s what they’re choosing to do to make some money and it works for them. Glad you learned from this experience. Also be careful not to conflate the idea of what “everyone always says” with “things constantly repeated in redpill subculture.”
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:37 PM
8

Most women don’t know wtf redpill is (tbh I barely understand the concept). But the mentality behind it and the language being used is very, very toxic. How do these guys treat their partners? What is the age gap between them? How do they meet? If they’re getting together because the “redpilled” guy wants to “feel like an alpha”, I guarantee that relationship is a nightmare. You do not want to be in that situation, I promise.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:16 PM
2

“Show for” what? Who’s asking?
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:09 PM
2

Isn’t that proof redpill doesn’t make sense? Why would you want to belief in something that makes you feel worse? It’s total nonsense.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 05:08 PM
2

You’re rushing to conclusions about your own appearance based on a nonsensical belief system. That is not at all what this class was teaching. Evolutionary biology is much more broad than that, and what your coursework is describing as “biologically attractive” is not a judgment against any particular individual. If anything, it should prove how much redpill doesn’t make any sense. Your friend’s behavior sucks and isn’t feminist.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/23 01:02 PM
2

Try a completely different approach: there are so many legitimate mental health professionals that offer free services via social media. YouTube is full of this kind of content. You can also try guided meditations that help you focus on your self esteem. Here’s an old favorite.
/r/ExRedPill15/05/23 03:11 PM
7

Because being a jerk isn’t exclusive to any gender. Being vulnerable with the wrong person isn’t your fault.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 09:31 PM
10

That’s kind of like asking if every restaurant offer the exact same menu. Women are people. Everyone has different preferences, but that does not determine your worth as a person. Preferences are a reflection of that person, not you.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 01:46 PM
1

In my experience, there’s no correlation between appearance and misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:28 PM
1

Wanna try that again? Really? After all the help and guidance you were given you turn around and resort to this kind of bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:22 PM
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