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| 6 | Why does the homeless situation continue to get worse despite the government spending millions of dollars on it.Housing first has a great track record of success in San Francisco. Let’s just increase funding for more of this. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/05/23 02:59 AM |
| 6 | The left is committing suicide: the increasing alienation of men is going to destroy our movementI don’t think they’re actively plotting misandry. I think it’s because people seem to, in general, loathe undesirable people. You have a visceral aversion that’s subconscious when you see a disfigured person. We have to train ourselves to not react in order to be polite. It’s why women feel attacked if a man they consider unattractive approaches them. It’s why watching a morbidly obese person eat makes you want to vomit. Democrat pollsters know that the party demos well with white women, so they… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/23 05:15 AM |
| 8 | Has the field of psychology failed men?Modern society is too quick to recommend therapy in my opinion. Whatever happened to “just vent with your friends?” Remember the phrase “letting off steam?” Now we have people saying to save those kinds of things for your therapist and people complain about “emotional labor.” | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/03/23 03:06 AM |
| 12 | Feminism and a lack of objectivity in academic fieldsLast year at my mothers school district (she’s a grade school teacher) they rolled out a policy to encourage girls to go into STEAM. A new acronym they invented, it’s STEM, but with an A to include the Arts. That’s right folks, we’re full circle. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/23 08:48 PM |
| 16 | CMV: Men have to get their abundance mentality on the same level of women.I’ll go further and say that the better answer is for you to figure how to have more options first. To use the homeless guy analogy, what’s more helpful to him long term? $100 right now or a clear path to not be homeless anymore? Your original assertion was correct - but you cannot have abundance unless you build yourself up into the best version of yourself first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been interested in somebody you thought was well within your league and then they soon partner up with an objectively way more attractive person leaving you massively disheartened?When I was in college there was a chick I was into that I thought was in my league that ended up dating an objectively worse version of myself. Same height, hair color, eye color, just 10% more body fat. Shittier job and career prospects but had the same hobbies as me at the time. Always a total buzzkill at parties. Also about 8 years older than me. I couldn’t understand it at all and it threw my confidence for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What actually happens when women lower their standards and settle for men they don't find attractive: resentment and unhappinessI’m married now but literally every girlfriend I had would tell me dudes who clearly put a fuck ton of effort in the gym and focusing on diet only looked average. “I want an average looking dad bod guy” “So somebody who looks like John Krasinski?” “Yes exactly!” ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I’ve had ups and downs with my physique but every time I had it totally dialed in, it would go great with OLD or casual meetups but in a LTR it was a total drag. They didn’t like me refusing to eat certain things, or weighing m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/22 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Prettier, dumb women will always triumph over an average to less attractive intelligent women.You hit on a lot of good points here. I work in finance and I wouldn’t be able to stand it if my partner also worked in finance. But simultaneously- if I come home in a bad mood and my wife asks me “what’s bothering you” and I literally cannot articulate it in a satisfying way because she wouldn’t understand - this is incredibly frustrating. Results in men just bottling things up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:45 PM |
| 7 | LMAO at this woman's request to join our private sub. Yes single moms, carousel riders, and FDS kweens, even other women recognize the low-value among you.Just don't be obese and high maintenance really. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 19 | Major redpill in the news todayNot only did this woman ruin her life to have risque sex with a prison inmate, she continues to attempt to maintain a sexual relationship with said inmate. Just wow. | /r/MGTOW | 03/07/21 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Its a miracle our MRA subreddits are still here, somehow we survived the latest purgeI've been banned from other subreddits for "hate speech" for mentioning that obesity is a medical condition that leads to higher mortality. I just disagreed with a person (it was related to COVID mortality), stated a scientific fact, and I was accused of being hateful and silenced. So yes, disagreement = hate for a lot of these people. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/06/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | I did an experiment to test if male job applicants are discriminated against. And that's exactly what happened.Try applying to another cashier job listing on Craigslist and have zero typos in the email and don’t include a resume this time. Look I’m all about pointing out double standards but this isn’t one of them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/20 10:54 PM |
| 4 | I did an experiment to test if male job applicants are discriminated against. And that's exactly what happened.You misspelled the name of the company that you applied to in the first email. In addition, a cashier is not the kind of job that you need a resume to apply to. This is why they didn't respond to you. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/20 09:46 PM |
| 11 | 2 Multi-Billionaire women whose wealth came from living of their husband's exploitations of their workers and the taxpayers; launch an "Equality Can’t Wait Challenge". I agree - wealth inequality is worse than it has been any other time is human history. Oh - you mean one-sided gender "equality"Yeah but she can't just dump all of her Amazon stock. There's also some sort of control clause where Jeff gets to keep the voting control rights to Mackenzie's shares but don't quote me on the specific details. Don't get me wrong she's probably filthy fucking rich but she absolutely does not have the cash floating around to drop $30mm at any given time. She likely is just donating some Amazon stock, which would conveniently erase her tax liability from her windfall divorce settlement. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/06/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do women here constantly mistake TRP with blackpill?It's because they associate incels with "nice guys" and beta related behavior, then they believe that TRP is evil so they also associate them with that. I'm willing to paint with a broad brush here and say that every woman that grew up in a 1st world country has experienced at least a few instances of this. And this is key - they literally despise these people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/20 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Poor blacks and poor whites have similarly high levels of violent crime, which in turn is mostly comitted by men, suggesting that poverty is far and away the strongest driver and explains the vast majority of black crime rates. What can be done to solve this issue?Social mobility is a trap in some ways. Someone has to work in the factories. Someone has to collect the garbage. Someone has to deliver the mail. Interesting that all of these jobs used to be middle class jobs in America. In some cases they still are. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/06/20 12:08 PM |
| 4 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?Yeah that's another interesting one. What happened to that movement? It's totally dead. Conspiracy theorists would say that the corporate donor class specifically started pushing more idpol to take the steam out of OWS. People have been aware of the income inequality issue for a while, of course. Thomas Picketty's "Capital in the 21st Century" was a real eye opener for me. But real solutions to these issues in the US, as far as I am aware of, were really only championed by the New Deal era democ… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?These were things that were talked about on Reddit. UBI was only ever brought up because of Andrew Yang - nobody else was seriously considering it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?So this might actually be a crazy but ... think about Romney Care. Biden has outright stated that he would veto Medicare-For-All. Is it theoretically possible that there will be a major party realignment after this election cycle? Trump already has more or less collected the support of all working class whites. Is it possible that the conservatives may actually be the first party to seriously consider a true single-payer option? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 07:49 PM |
| 6 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?Firstly, we need to build a movement on the left that is against identity politics and for the restoration of the labour movement. We need to identify and support politicians among the left that are aligned with our goals and values, who are able to continuously steer the political debate away from identity politics and back to the real issues. A recent example of this in the US is Bernie Sanders, who did fall victim to identity politics sometimes, but who was usually very good at steering the c… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?saddling an entire generation of kids with debt & no hope of joining the property class This was me. My community I grew up in is surrounded with poverty, drug use, unwed mothers, etc. But everyone made just enough to afford weed, air conditioning, fast food, high speed internet, and video games, so fuck it amiright? I rejected this defeatism and worked as hard as I could to join the "capitalist class." Somehow or another I made it and by the time I got there, I've been painted a villain for all… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 6 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?Agreed with the above but I'll ask the same of you as I asked somebody else. What can be done here? Google, Facebook, and Twitter are extremely powerful and wealthy entities that are quite literally able to control the public discourse. Lefty organizations are completely unable to advocate for labor issues (which are inherently men's issues) unless it somehow ties into idpol. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 04:33 PM |
| 5 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?Yeah the prophetic nature of a lot of this stuff is downright bizarre. For example, I always said "the lockdowns for COVID are so insane that they're going to end with riots" kind of in a tongue-in-cheek way. Well ... it's June 2020 and the lockdowns literally ended with riots ... Thanks for sharing, will watch later. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | What is happening with the "modern" left? Why have we forgotten all of the issues from the Bush years?What can we do about this though? And no I wasn't begging for that answer - read my last paragraph. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/20 02:25 PM |
| 18 | How the self-fulfilling prophecy of male feminism worksKind of like the Groucho Marx joke - "I don't want to belong to any club that would accept people like me as a member." | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/20 08:41 PM |
| 9 | The Early Labor Movements were skeptical of adopting Feminist ideology and only agreed to cooperate with some women's movements on truly egalitarian grounds, were they right to be that way?There were women who shamed men for being anti-war, socialists or anarchists like the White Feather Movement who even hated the Russian revolution. It's still like this in a lot of areas in the world. For example, South Korea used to have mandatory military service for all men for 3 years once they turn 18. It was somewhat recently reduced to 1.5 years (I think) but the leading opposition to the change primarily came from women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/06/20 05:50 PM |
| 8 | How the concepts of "white privilege" and "male privilege" as they are most commonly used alienates people and pushes them to the right.I don't think there's a misunderstanding here - I'm understanding the terminology quite well and yes, it literally is used as a weapon. I've had so many seminars and mandatory trainings at school and later on at my job where a woman or minority comes and lectures a group of white men how privileged they are. It has really made me desensitized to this issue ... I literally roll my eyes when I hear somebody talk about this now. For example, I grew up in a very poor urban environment and I attended… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers be likeSure the after picture looks cute but I was just trying to show how different they look after it’s changed. It’s definitely not a natural look. And considering how common plastic surgery is, imagine growing up not looking like your own mother ...? You must feel so ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers be like"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Seriously, what the Asian community considers attractive is different than what the Western community thinks is attractive. For example, the most common plastic surgery in Korea is eyelid surgery, the second being a nose job. Do you know why they do this? It makes them look more white. In the US, on the other hand, the most common procedure is a tummytuck / liposuction and the second most common is a boob job. My girlfriend always talked about getting plas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers be likeCan also confirm this is true in my experience in the Thai and Korean communities. If you are not a weeaboo / neckbeard, maintain a job, and are not fat (not even necessarily fit), you will slay. However, if they are Asian but born in the USA, the effect goes away. Needs to not be indoctrinated into western culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 07:46 AM |
| 5 | TRP is actually a collection of pretty sound advice but most of you guys take it too far with this machismo bullshitMy interpretation is that a lot of people refuse to admit to those "sound advice things," despite it going against their true nature. Biggest example is "women don't like guys with big muscles." This is plainly false as evidenced by people's behavior, yet somehow this little lie is so pervasive that it is held by every bluepilled guy. You can see it real time in conversations like "I don't think ___ makes guys more attractive/datable, in fact somebody like Jessie Eisenberg is the most handsome t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | TRP is actually a collection of pretty sound advice but most of you guys take it too far with this machismo bullshitHe was almost there You've piqued my interest. Can you please expand on this? Your other point is correct, there was more I could have rambled about but the post was already long enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | TRP is actually a collection of pretty sound advice but most of you guys take it too far with this machismo bullshitThere has been a giant migration of “blackpilled” types in recent years. You didn’t see posts like that in 2014/2015. That being said, I don’t think you need to subscribe to fitness subreddits to work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 5 | TRP is actually a collection of pretty sound advice but most of you guys take it too far with this machismo bullshitI have read "The Rational Male" and I have read the sidebar on TRP subreddits. I think I understand it pretty well. What I am saying is I disagree with Rollo's interpretation of "frame" and I disagree with most commenters asking inane questions about "alpha this / beta that." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 03:44 PM |
| 3 | TRP is actually a collection of pretty sound advice but most of you guys take it too far with this machismo bullshitI don't agree with the term "toxic masculinity" but I do agree that as long as they're focusing on becoming "better versions of themselves," what's the harm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 03:27 PM |
| 6 | TRP is actually a collection of pretty sound advice but most of you guys take it too far with this machismo bullshitPurge Week: "There are no rules?" Did I misunderstand? EDIT: I got whooshed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 03:10 PM |
| 27 | Hawaii's feminist department in government (actually real) is proposing a "feminist economic recovery plan" that unsurprisingly discriminates against men and single fathersThey see the average salary for men irrespective of profession and say that this means that women should get the same average salary. They don't ever consider the possibility that maybe society encourages men to select higher risk jobs / more working hours to earn more ... this kind of logic is not within their capacity. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 27 | Hawaii's feminist department in government (actually real) is proposing a "feminist economic recovery plan" that unsurprisingly discriminates against men and single fathers$25 an hour is a 50K a year job ($25 * 40 hour week * 50 weeks [2 weeks are vacation]). This is more than what an entry level lawyer makes if they're in civil service (Big Law is obviously more). If they aren't outright unemployable, you can guarantee that this legislation will just produce more single mothers. "Let me get this straight, if I'm married, I get $10.10 an hour. But if I'm single, I get $24.80 an hour, WIC, the Earned Income Tax Credit, and Social Security?" | /r/MensRights | 24/04/20 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Do men not care about commitment ?A work networking event. She was in grad school at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Do men not care about commitment ?Oh, I'm married. It happened for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Do men not care about commitment ?I'm a late 30s male. I want commitment. I've probably wanted commitment since my early 20s. Since my 30s, I don't even care so much about the sex aspect. I enjoy the relationships. It makes me feel more secure. I have a difficult time reconciling what I want/feel with what is actually true, ie; no woman will love you unconditionally the way you want them to, they will only love you provided you can still give some sort of utility (be it affection, attention, protection, shelter, money, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 05:21 PM |
| 8 | If all men were "up front" with their intentions 24/7 most would never get laid.But most chicks got that ONE dude that they messed with no strings attached and never hassled him. Most men want to be THAT guy. If they can't be then this is the next best way to get laid consistently. It pays to be a fuckboy. I might be the minority in this subreddit but I do not want to be that guy. I want an LTR. I'm happier in an LTR. In my personal opinion, I think most men are in the same boat as me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 04:39 AM |
| 4 | The horrible double standard in dating that no man talks about.You are not wrong. Society has a “head in the sand” mentality surrounding these issues. I don’t have any advice for you other than “this sucks.” I don’t know, maybe move to a non-western community? The reality is if you want a partner you’re likely going to have to settle for someone way below your level and also likely have to acquiesce to all of their demands. Statistically speaking the relationship won’t last anyway too, even if you get married. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/20 03:18 AM |
| 6 | Do you think some men become bitter since they have very high expectations of young women?Except in this case “your best self” can never include liking the things that your friend likes. So they have to change their self but women don’t have to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Female empowerment takes power away from men who want to exploit women.It’s possible but it’s also a “crabs in a bucket” mentality. “My junior years sucked so eat shit and make sure you have that memo done by 8am [sent: 2:32am]” Hiring more people might make it a little easier but probably not. It’s more because it’s a deal based environment, very similar to sales. Let’s say my boss takes a CEO out golfing on a random Thursday. On the car ride back the CEO calls him and says “ok I’m interested in XYZ, can you have something for me to look at tomorrow at 10am?” Sudd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 04:17 AM |
| 16 | Female empowerment takes power away from men who want to exploit women.This was my experience with my ex-wife. I could not have been more agreeable with the whole proceedings ... never attacking her personal character (even though I had a considerable amount of legitimate gripes) but she (and her lawyer that I paid for) painted me as this abusive tyrant. Why would she do this to a man that she supposedly loved “til death?” Because if it turns out I actually wasn’t a monster and she was being the unreasonable one, she would have felt guilty about her actions. For wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Female empowerment takes power away from men who want to exploit women.No one is really saying that though. It’s easy to argue against a strawman (and lots of TRPers do just that). I sympathize with some of the commenters here. For better or worse, men are motivated by sex. From like age 13 on ... all they can think about is sex. Why do men join bands, work out, start companies, get high paying careers? It’s all because of sex. I concede it’s not the only reason, but deep down I think people just want a family with a house and dog and a white picket fence. “The Ame… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?They are entitled because most of them are effectively useless these days. Why do PPD men keep acting like fat, unattractive, balding, porn addicted men add anything of value to society that entitles them to pussy? This is an interesting side topic along the lines of “Brave New World.” Creature comforts and products intended for mass consumption have become both so affordable and simultaneously so addictive that there are swathes of men who want to simply “opt out” of being a functioning member … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is it some big societal problem if every single man can't get sex?I don’t think this is bait. I think it’s actually a good topic. However, I haven’t been reading PPD religiously for a while so it might come up on new a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Why is transactional relationship is frowned upon?I don't really have any other comments other than the posts saying that you're intentionally choosing to date gold diggers are misguided (and likely are all women). They're missing an important paradigm here - "most men don't get to choose. They take whatever is available and it's rarely available." To answer your question - it's because the girls are programmed to not think that they owe you anything. They're amazing and beautiful and perfect just the way they are; obesity and laziness included… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Do men overhype muscles?A professional soccer player is "jacked." Your concept of a skinny guy is actually not a skinny guy. Look at Ronaldo. Does that look skinny to you? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men overhype muscles?Obesity adds a noticeable amount of adipose tissue to your face, even if you don't have a "double chin." If you want a visible jawline, you need to be in good shape. More muscles will increase your baseline calorie burn, hence lifting alone without even doing cardio will get you into much better shape than exclusively doing cardio. The average "tall guy with an attractive face" is actually quite fit. Also, if you're purely natural, you probably cannot get "jacked" to the point where average size… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Do men overhype muscles?You're contradicting yourself. Emphasis mine the average dude could get to 30 push ups with a few months of effort probably Is this not saying that the average person can't do 30 pushups, which was your previous example of a minimally exerting feat of strength? So what you're saying is that the average guy needs to go to the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Do men overhype muscles?You make it seem like a guy will go to the gym 3x a week for 25 minutes each time and accidentally turn into some freak of nature within a few months. If all it took was a better outfit and a haircut to make somebody attractive, then this guy was already in decent shape. Women seem to refuse to understand that the "average guy" to them is actually way above average. The median weight / height for American males is 5'9" and 190-195lbs. That's borderline obesity. Ask yourself this. Would you go ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 9 | A great illustration of why this sub is needed. Even self-identified lefties on allegedly leftist subs deny the harm of indefensible legal doctrines.An arrest still stays on your record, even if you were never convicted and or the records were expunged. It still comes up on any background check when you apply for a lease, open a bank account, apply for a job, etc. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/02/20 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Double standards on what it means to be physically attractiveIn my experience, unfortunately, everything is transactional. Everything. Every man pays for sex. You just pay indirectly. Every man pays for love. There is no such thing as unconditional love. This is reserved for a parent and their children. Consider this - cheat on your wife. Does she still love you? No? Well I guess it wasn’t unconditional. Now try your child. Your child killed someone and is on trial. Do you still love your child? Probably. That’s unconditional. Stop providing the things th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 3 | Double standards on what it means to be physically attractiveI’ve been married for a while now and I’m happy with it. But I’m always afraid when opening up ... I always dial it back a couple notches ... so I’m never really sharing. I had an LTR before I met my wife and I distinctly remember her telling me one day “Don’t talk to me anymore about [job]!” It dawned on me that I over-shared. She didn’t care about my job. Same way I don’t give a fuck about “that bitch Christina in accounting” that she complains about when she gets home. I just nod and say “wow… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/20 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Double standards on what it means to be physically attractiveI mostly tend to agree that a double standard exists and I find it very hard to reconcile this double standard with current leftist dogma. Can anyone show me examples of billboards prominently featuring an overweight or obese man that is trying to sell clothing? But you can find lots of examples for women’s clothing. I know the reasons for this, just an interesting observation. Sometimes I feel it’s pretty unfair when it comes to the gym. If you want to stay <15% BF indefinitely ... that means y… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/20 06:36 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Finance Thread - reduxOk so you’re investing in FAANG + a couple others. But we’re at the top of the cycle. You’ll be overly concentrated in tech ... what happens when the recession hits? You’ll get hosed. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 11:13 PM |
| 43 | The Red Pill Finance Thread - reduxThis should be the top reply. Encouraging average joes to read the intelligent investor and then go ham looking for value stocks is a great way to lose money. The best bet for most people (not all) is to just dump everything in to a target date retirement ETF. In 2019 the vanguard target date funds all had returns in excess of 20%. Who can argue with this? Let the portfolio manager and analysts pick the stocks for you. Save your money. Don’t spend needlessly (pack a lunch, don’t buy a new car ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Did the red pill solve poverty all of a sudden?It’s about personal investment, discipline, dedication, and “extreme ownership.” A man on a mission is a powerful force. There are a lot of ways to make money, no one size fits all solution. If you seriously take time to invest in yourself, develop marketable skills, be disciplined, and have a good work ethic, the American dream really does exist. The Red Pill preaches all of these things so people who really buy in (and not the bullshit artists you often find on various social media) should tra… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsI’m sorry I offended you. This was not an account of my life specifically, just an amalgamation of what I’ve experienced in my 38 years on this earth. I mean that’s really all people are, a collection of experiences and anecdotes that make up their reality. A common trope is the “awful mother in law.” Go look at the subreddit /r/justnoMIL. There’s a reason for this stereotype and it’s understandable, parents want the best partner for their children. Another common thing is people (both sexes) wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/20 01:35 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsThis is amazing. https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/slideshows/average-weight-height-waist-size-in-america?slide=8 The average American male is 5’9” and weighs ~200 pounds. This is overweight, almost obese. The guy in that picture is absolutely average. But the key thing here is she doesn’t believe you because to her, guys like that are literally invisible. She wouldn’t notice them in her environment. And if they talk to her - the immediate reaction would be “ew what is this creep doing tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 09:47 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Average Guys Aren’t Struggling, They’re the Majority of Men In RelationshipsThe average guy wifes up the first halfway decent girl who sticks with him. They don’t get to choose. Women “settle for you.” You are “lucky to be with her.” Okay so you get a LTR. Then you get kids and sex dies down, if it hadn’t already. She never does certain sex acts that you’ve always wanted. Time goes by, she gains some weight. Now she isn’t attractive enough for you to want to approach her if you were single and she was a stranger, but she’s the mother of your children. You’re going throu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 09:31 PM |
| 5 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheIt’s not frustration over thinking you’re owed something or entitlement. It’s frustration knowing that all of your efforts until that point, which society has enthusiastically encouraged, has actually been worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:17 PM |
| 7 | [CMV] The Red Pill is literally encouraging men to become mentally ill; even if the process attracts women, it is extremely damaging to a man's psycheTRP doesn’t claim to explain why the above works, only that it works. Anecdotally I could tell you all about my loser friends from high school / college that can’t hold a job and have multiple arrests, do drugs, etc, but for whatever reason always have women pining for them. I’m sure you know a few men like this too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 03:13 PM |
| 3 | As a conservative estimate, men lose an extra 156 days worth of free time compared to women over 18 years of child careNot bad. Thanks for sharing. It’s interesting because a lot of comedians will drop “red pills” in their routines but you would never say that seriously anywhere else. I know it’s “just a joke” but remember the phrase “a lot of truth is said in jest.” Modern feminism has been successful in making many traditional gender roles for women taboo. In addition, typically male dominated things have become available for women (most notably higher education and more career options). What I don’t understan… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/20 01:37 PM |
| 9 | As a conservative estimate, men lose an extra 156 days worth of free time compared to women over 18 years of child careRight and my wife, before we were married, kept her whole paycheck. It was a lot less, to be fair, but she had literally nothing to worry about. After we got married ... I assumed all of her student debt (which for a masters was considerable). I think I agree that women just want men to do more housework. I understand how it can feel demeaning, giving the impression that men think “oh that’s woman’s work I’m above cleaning this.” But that’s just not true ... they just aren’t able to see the effo… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/20 01:01 AM |
| 29 | As a conservative estimate, men lose an extra 156 days worth of free time compared to women over 18 years of child careAmazingly, for some reason, the additional hours I put in at work so that I can pay for rent, entertainment, groceries, etc, is unappreciated. Never acknowledged. If you consider the fact that I work 75-90 hours a week and the fact that my wife works 40-50 hours per week and the fact that my hourly rate is higher than my wife’s (she works in a lower paying industry by choice), it doesn’t make any logical sense for me to spend time doing more housework. Not to mention, me spending an hour dealing… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/20 09:29 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of the gender equality debate in STEM?Due to the Peter Principle, there are incompetent people in every field at every level. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/20 01:43 PM |
| 2 | My Concern About Feminism. Is it valid?I agree that it is happening but I do not think it is a permanent feature. Remember it’s all about feelings with these people, not about real problem solving. At the end of the day, women are attracted to masculine men. If they get what they want ... they won’t like what they turn men into. Which means there is a boundary to how far this can go. Have we reached it yet? No, probably not. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/20 04:38 PM |
| 5 | How do you usually respond to the argument that men's advocates aren't actually fighting for men's right but that it's feminists that are fighting for men's rights?The problem isn't the accusation, the problem is that the people spouting this bullshit are usually too far gone for any attempt at good faith engagement — they just want to mock, ridicule and score some cheap points humiliating you, based on the remains of the waning reputation feminism enjoys with the general public. I agree with this. I don’t really have anything to add other than it sucks. It’s a defeatist point of view but the public discourse against anything pro male is so strong that to … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/20 01:28 PM |
| 3 | I think I'm suffering from internalized misandryThank you for making this post. I mostly lurk on this sub because I rarely have something to add, but I wanted to chime in here. All of my life I’ve been a “good progressive.” Except society has changed; the left hasn’t won any major victories and instead they’ve won tiny battles about “oppression” and the “patriarchy.” So nothing really changes except somehow I’ve been made out to be the evil white man. At my company there is a major push for additional diversity and inclusion, to the point whe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/01/20 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Someone help me, please. My life is spiraling and I’m losing the battle.I make significantly less money than I ever have in a start-up role that will hopefully land me an apprenticeship with the same company in a union pipe-fitting position. Why? When I was your age, I think I made $11,000 for the whole year. I was presented with a choice - continue to take it or do something about it. I made north of $300k last year. Guess which choice I made? If you’re worth more ... why are you playing games with a startup getting paid less? Unemployment is very low right now. If… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/19 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Do Red Pill Liberals Exist?I’ve thought of myself as a liberal since I disagreed with invading Iraq in 2003. But the current crop of liberals have shifted the goalposts and I believe most of my views would now be seen as conservative. My opinions honestly haven’t changed much. For example, the left used to be pro workers rights. One of the ways they would protect wages was to have a strong immigration policy. It seems to me that it’s just simple economics that flooding the country with low skilled laborers will screw up t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Women aren't shooting out of their league; "Chad" is not hooking up with ugly women.It's why people with high levels of adipose fat are more likely to pair with others who have high adipose fat. I take issue with this. Fat people still find fit people attractive. They’re not getting with other fat people because they’re more attracted to fat people because they look like them. Fat people mate with fat people because a) that’s all they can get and b) their shitty habits rub off on the other person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Stock Market for noobs?Buy a target date index fund from vanguard. The target date is the year you retire. Dump the legal maximum you can into this every year. Set it up as a traditional 401k; your employer will have this already or the person on the phone will know how to set it up. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Mike Bloomberg is running for president. How do you think he would be for men's issues?I think he might actually be beneficial for men’s issues, because the democrat party by and large seems to be opposed to any sort of men’s rights. Bloomberg could play the role of Ross Perot and spoil it for the dems, which might block additional feminist reforms from happening. As far as other left wing issues, such as Healthcare For All, he’s going to be detrimental to them for the exact same reason as above. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/19 12:32 AM |
| -1 | As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"?You mean consuming fewer calories than you burn? Does the equation somehow change because you’ve had a baby? Stop eating carbs, hit the gym for 45 minutes 3x a week. But you can’t do that because you’ve had a child? I’m not saying it’s easy - obviously sugar tastes good and working out is taxing ... but nothing about his equation is different for you just because you’ve been pregnant. Giving in to excuses like this is one of the reasons why the average American woman is now obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 05:26 PM |
| 5 | As the average American female is a whopping 171lbs at 5'4, is wanting a girlfriend under 140/150lbs now considered "high standards"?It does not. Stop making excuses. If they wanted to be fit, I mean really wanted to, they would be fit. Most women gain weight for the pregnancy and never bother losing it because they don’t have to - they’ve got their BB and plenty of thirsty dudes who will still hit it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you care about the intelligence of your partners?I think intelligence matters as far as “would this person embarrass me in front of my peers if I introduced them?” So it’s more of a “it doesn’t enhance, but lack thereof detracts.” Other factors are at play here, but if intelligence is lacking it’s pretty noticeable. Beyond that, I don’t think it matters because “intelligence” is such a subjective term ... plenty of people with average IQs have PhDs, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/19 10:27 PM |
| 8 | Nikki Glaser spittin' Red Pill truths on Joe Rogan: "I need an excuse to be bad"Yeah. This is my understanding. It’s more of an incel point of view. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 08:00 PM |
| 59 | Nikki Glaser spittin' Red Pill truths on Joe Rogan: "I need an excuse to be bad"The black pill follows the red pill in 2019. Not trying to derail your comment on society, I just wanted to add something on the last sentence or wrote. The fundamental difference between the black pill / red pill is whether or not you feel like you have an internal or external locus of control. At the end of the day, however, it doesn’t matter what your view is because self improvement will benefit you regardless of your beliefs. It’s just like how depressed people are told to clean their room … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Poll: Does a guy going after a woman out of his league(3 or more points higher in attractiveness) show a lack of social awareness on his part? Or is it simply a guy trying his luck? Or both?It is showing lack of awareness from a bluepilled state of mind. By “self selecting” and avoiding women who are out of your league, you’re subconsciously putting yourself into a few categories that are all instant turnoffs: Putting women on a pedestal Displaying low confidence (which like it or not comes through subconsciously when you’re clearly nervous) Signaling that she’s higher status than you so you’re already pre conditioned to do a lot of blue pill type behaviors (similar to #1). My unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/19 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Universal Orlando Resort fires low wage 'Despicable Me' costume performer after woman complains he used the "OK" symbolWoman accuses man of using fake hate symbol. The OK symbol is not a racist gesture. Company fires the guy who's low on the totem pole, no questions asked. I thought this article would be of interest for this community and I am not trying to race bait. Try flipping the genders. Would a female performer have been fired for the same reason? I don't think so. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/19 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Agree or Disagree?New York isn’t fucked. It’s the most valuable real estate in the world with the largest and most skilled workforce and the largest amount of capital to deploy. WeWork is just a shitty company led by a nut job leftist that was propped up by greedy venture capital investors that made a boneheaded decision (looking at you, SoftBank). We (New Yorkers) didn’t want Amazon anyway. Deblasio was going to spend $3BN on a new subway stop just for amazon and they weren’t going to pay any tax. My rent is hig… | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | What are the best RP resources on money and career?Your house should only be 2-3x your gross income otherwise you’ll potentially have financial problems if anything comes up. Saving the down payment is usually the hardest part. In the US if you’re a first time homebuyer you can qualify for various credits that lets you put less down. So long as the mortgage is within your budget it’s probably ok - just remember the 25% rule (after tax, not pre tax). Try to get a 15 year fixed rate mortgage. If you have to go for a 30 year adjustable rate that pr… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 11:05 AM |
| 14 | What are the best RP resources on money and career?Here’s what I did to increase my income by a factor of 10 (yes, ten times more) from 22 to 32. I don’t feel rich by any means so take this with a grain of salt. Quit playing video games (you can still play occasionally but your life is too short to spend big chunks of time on this). Invest in yourself constantly. Physical and mental. Aim to improve every single day. Pick a trade and stick with it. Change jobs every 2-4 years to maximize your salary and ensure you’re always being paid the market … | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 09:50 PM |
| 5 | I'm just tiredI think a lot of people feel the same way. I’m at a point in my life where on paper, things have never been better. I make the most money I’ve had, I live in the nicest house, am the fittest I’ve ever been ... and I don’t feel like doing shit. I’m right there with you man. Wish I could offer something to make you feel better. | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/19 10:24 PM |
| 26 | Only honest and decent beta men need apply to take care of Chad's 2 amazing kids with the remote chance of getting sex somedayI don’t understand why they write “NO CHEATERS.” Like ... does this seriously filter anyone? “Oh, I was going to swipe right buuuut she says no cheaters and I’m a cheater so I guess I’ll swipe left.” | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/09/19 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Do all men only want sex from women?I might be in the minority here but I personally want a partner. Not someone to be led, not someone to be 100% subservient, etc. Unfortunately, TRP teaches us that this is blue pill thinking and what I am seeking is basically a unicorn as women will naturally be attracted to men who lead them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Why can't people read the goddamn sidebar before asking questions here?The problem with the sub is (most of) the more active users will be new(ish). Once somebody internalizes the tools, there isn’t much discussion left to be had. I’d rather the newbies ask the questions to still have an active sub; sometimes the responses are overly hostile (ie “read the sidebar faggot”). | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Female comment outlines the double standards and hypocrisy that exists in today’s social structure in regards to what women want and how they want to be treated. No wonder men have no idea what’s okay and what’s not anymore.This is actually wrong. The “freer” the society, the greater the inequality between men and women. Scandinavian countries, for example. The more totalitarian a society, say North Korea, the more equality. | /r/MensRights | 16/09/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Is "I'm glad you're not super jacked" a shit test?I had a similar conversation with an ex GF some years ago that was like a “light bulb” effect for me. In my opinion, yes this is absolutely a shit test. Your best move is to completely ignore her comments and just keep working out. As I started to work out more, she complained I spent too much time in the gym and not enough time with her. I, of course, invited her along with me. Obviously she didn’t want to put in this much effort (she already had me so why bother?), women don’t want to run the … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 04:04 PM |
| 12 | Female privilege in college educationThis literally happened when I was in University. The requirements to graduate from the engineering school was minimum GPA of 3.2. Too many minority students were failing to meet the standard by the time they were on their last semester and were forced to repeat courses or drop out. So the school lowered the GPA requirement to 2.0! Some of the classes were so easy too ... tests graded on a curve, bonus points just for showing up, homework not graded, etc ... literally just show up and get a C on… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/19 11:20 AM |
| 10 | Why do good-looking men date ugly women?Don’t you think that by raising her SMV, other dudes will swoop in? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | The only way to count how many "strong" and "independent" women have been empowered by feminism is to measure their waist & check their weight. That's all that feminism really AMOUNTS up to.Can anyone explain to me the disconnect of fat women thinking they deserve fit men? Just because Chad will fuck you doesn’t mean you’re higher value. | /r/MGTOW | 26/07/19 07:40 PM |
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