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they skew towards being working class. having to figure how to raise their kids without additional labor i.e. nannies and babysitters while also having to work to earn income.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 04:25 AM
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So, thats why you don't see that many black women (in America) jumping up and down about feminism. Makes perfect sense.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 05:46 AM
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This isn't hamstering, this is marketing. Therapists make money unraveling emotional events for people. An affair is a complex emotional event. Betas sink a lost of personal value (cost) in to relationships. People have am irrational fear of losing sunk cost. Enter the therapist to try to recoup. Thats what this woman does. If she simplified things and said " you're SMV dropped to a low enough point where your desire was no longer valuable enough to keep your partner committed", she wouldn't hav…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 05:50 AM
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Capitalism is insensitive to feminism. It doesn't care who is doing work, so long as there are profits and the ability to generate profits grows across the macro economy. When the cost of goods and services decreases, the cost of labor also decreases. This puts less wages in the pockets of the average worker. Families needed two incomes, starting around the 1970s, to handle the consumer surplus created by the beginning of globalization. Women have always worked. They worked on farms along side m…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 06:07 AM
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You're on to nothing new, here. Google marijuana and female arrousal and you'll find plenty of content on the topic.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 12:41 AM
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Or perhaps a disordered narcissist
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:25 AM
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I have a date on thursday. I showed her the link. She's willing to go through the questions with me. Will report back.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:17 AM
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I'm growing very tired of this kumbayah, circle-jerk bullshit. Please take your mangina over to the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:41 AM
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Its not hard at all. The key to being successful; live in or near a big city. Big cities have vibrant sexual marketplaces. I live between NYC and LA. NYC has a 2:1 ratio of women to men in most neighborhoods (google it). Go out. Be social. Be in shape. Be confident. i.e. read the sidebar. Its not wrong. I can meet women out at night but tinder treats me really well. My sweet spot is getting a girl thats 26-29. Wall is coming but she's got a few years left in the tank.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:17 PM
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I'm 36. Single. Will not marry. Ask me anything.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:47 AM
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The OP should def. follow this advice.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 12:40 AM
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Young man. This is a comfort test, not a shit test. Please review: Shit tests vs comfort tests
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 10:06 PM
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I've grown frustrated with the anger I read on postings here lately. She is simply following the script she has been taught to follow. Bang away your 20s, beta-up when its time to get serious. She's not be taught about SMV. It's not your job to teach her. This is just a shit-test. Agree and amplify. When you're done spinning her as a plate, you may choose to let her know that she's not that the 'one' you wish you give your commitment to because of SMV reasons. Or you may let her down gently. The…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 01:39 AM
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You get much more from pop psychology and business books than course work. This book is a landmark in personality psychology. People are on one of four personality types. Being able to classify someone at a high level does wonders for understanding them. p.s. Based on the OP, I would wager you're a Rationalist.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 03:35 AM
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I went to UofM - where is this policy stated?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/14 10:06 PM
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Clothes, as has been said, do make the man. I strongly suggest you do your homework. StyleForum.net is probably the best place for information, but it is poorly organized. To learn "the basics" (and then some), try the Esquire The Handbook of Style: A Man's Guide to Looking Good Style is different than fashion, so learn the difference between the two when making your wardrobe selections.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 04:28 PM
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Do not fool yourself in to thinking staying together for the sake of your child is a good thing. Your child is at the age where he is going to start realizing that you're making massive compromises of yourself. He will start connecting the dots and will blame himself for his parents deluded selves and unhappiness. If you're are truly congruent with the no more mr. guy stuff, you need to show a lot more strength and stability. A divorce is ok if you are your childs rock. The love of an alpha dad …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:03 PM
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Some have a vague notion their SMV has gone down but wouldn't know how to articulate it. Otherwise, they are the same. The age of their child will inform their need to find another bux.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:08 AM
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So there is this: Women aren’t needy; we know who we are, and we’re determined to get what we want out of this world. We want meaning. We are our own people, with strong minds and sharp opinions. We’re well-educated and deeply contemplative. We embrace our individuality to the fullest extent. Why does nobody point out that the middle and working class males of pervious generations did not get any meaning from work. Classic entitlement demanding that meaning come from work though its really just …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 11:20 PM
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How much more attractive do you think you are to her, than she is to you? Probably equal. How much older do you look compared to her? She's part Asian, I think. So she looks younger than me, but has that vague hard-to-pin-down look that many Asian women have. You want to be able to relate to her on some level, or if there is an obvious difference, work it in to a positive aspect of your sexual value to her. Any suggestions on how to do that?
/r/askTRP07/11/14 04:13 PM
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def B cup. perky.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 03:45 PM
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do her tits determine a course of action?
/r/askTRP06/11/14 10:28 PM
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I've had many women, post wall, gush about their past. Here is what it takes Repeatedly assure her that you're not judgmental. You think there is an unfair double standard for women; that women should be able to do whatever their biological impulses compel them to do. This removes any fear of punishment. Never call her a slut or use judgmental terms about women around her. Praise her for being daring and uninhibited. These makes her want to share more and strokes her ego in the direction you wan…
/r/askTRP06/11/14 08:09 PM
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My posting was just one example of how out of whack it can be. Not an example of the types of women I date.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:03 AM
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so most of the women you date understand SMV and have appropriately judged theirs correctly? I doubt that.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 01:20 AM
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I have a baby mama. I highly recommend this approach versus getting married. She was in her 30s and the wall was approaching. There will be a lot of these types of women available to you as an alpha in his 30s. Choose wisely, NEVER, EVER MARRY. There is no point. You will also want to know the child support laws in your state. My state is considered a 'men's rights' state by some - because the laws are actually fair. Feel free to ask questions.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:59 PM
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My point is that most women have inflated SMV perception. Why next a potential plate? Its just hypergamy / entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 03:57 PM
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Vasectomy is a great idea once you've had kids. He prob had to sell his wife on it this way. That part is beta. He couldn't just say 'I don't want any more kids so I'm not going to have anymore' because she had to approve.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 08:31 PM
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Showing abundance is part of frame control, in the sense that you always want to make sure you demonstrate you have options, and you can walk away and get other women, no matter what the situation. I don't know if it fits nicely here. In the above cases, the women were shit testing me. By stating the facts, I was trying to convince women that the sexual marketplace exists. A basic tenant of TRP is understanding that women aren't rational in dating. The alphas make them feel the best. They are pr…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 03:43 AM
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A few examples: Was dating a chick in the middle of a nasty divorce. She would be slutty with me and then demure. Teasing me with sex. I got frustrated and told her that "she should be careful playing games, because most guys are gonna game her way harder - who is gonna want to be with a 30 something divorcee in the middle of a divorce unless its for sex" Here is one I would do a lot - girl voluntarily making it obvious her SMV is low due to partner count "I'm sick of guys just using me for sex.…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:24 AM
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I don't know what her family background is. I myself, have a thing for HB9 Indians. Some do not. To each their own. If she's culturally Indian, being with you is not part of her long term family plan. She is being a slut with you even if she professes monogamy with you. Why you ask? Her family has an Indian guy in mind. A marriage might even be arraigned. Until she's with him, she's slutting around.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 02:16 AM
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two lesbians lived downstairs from me in my last apartment. never have I ever been witness to so much drama...
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 04:17 AM
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I have a woman that is raising my child. We are not married and never will be. I live in a state that is very fair about child support. My child support is cheaper than a full time nanny. Her quality, invested discounted childcare is the male equivalent of the betabucks. Interesting to note that a lot of the money goes to buy things my child needs and doesn't actually pay for the work of raising a child. I date younger and better looking woman. Our dates are fun. I go on trips with the ones I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/14 03:41 AM
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You're not jumping category from beta to alpha. You're jumping from low-value beta without interest to low-value beta with interest. Beta interest isn't flattering to women's egos. It repulses them.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 07:23 PM
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Women like getting dominated by alpha cock much more than they want the world to know. Gentle sex is something I recall from my college years. It was for girls with their V-cards or low partner count. Fast forward to late 20s... girls want hard, pounding alpha cock. THEY ARE LOATHE TO ADMIT THIS Why? Women need betas and white knights to stay bought in to the myth of romantic cuddle sex. They know if they can't get the alpha they desire to commit, they need the betas on-the-ready when the wall h…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 09:59 PM
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I personally spent my 20s and early 30s anguished because I wanted kids but I did not want to get married. I did not have a lot of personal wealth at the time but I knew it would come later, which made it more frustrating. I like the plate lifestyle and intuitively knew that marriage was a raw deal. As I aged this got worse. I really wanted kids and had a looming sense of mortality. I basically found a plate that was single, aging (in the same boat) and knocked her up. While none of it was consc…
/r/askTRP14/10/14 04:40 PM
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ha- no. spinning her would be bad for my son. she does know that I still find her worth banging on occasion but its never said aloud - she knows that I keep a hard line on what's good for junior and what is not.
/r/askTRP13/10/14 08:42 PM
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That seems to make a lot of sense. How old do you think the kid needs to be?
/r/askTRP13/10/14 07:27 PM
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I am aging - I do think my SMV is starting to go down. I feel like I'm keeping in the game with the 'appear to be a possible bucks with alpha traits' -
/r/askTRP13/10/14 07:16 PM
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I'm a provider for the kid. She's pretty good about not forcibly dipping in to that action MOST of the time. A credit to my RP awareness and willingness to set boundaries. I find that I have to constantly redirect her attempts (mostly passive manipulation) to fulfill her emotional needs. Lately, there is also an increasing need for material provision as she really does need to move to a bigger place to live. I keep suggesting she find a guy that she would enjoy doing that with. That seems to con…
/r/askTRP13/10/14 07:09 PM
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You're absolutely right. Here is a tangential question. My baby mama is 38 - hit the wall. I keep telling here to find a beta provider (not in those words, obviously) as I truly think she'd be happier. Is it reasonable for me to think that she can get that done considering her SMV as a late 30s single mother is pretty low? I suspect her standards are out of line with her expectations, but I purposefully avoid getting too deep in her own psychology. I just try to influence her with suggestions I …
/r/askTRP13/10/14 05:53 PM
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