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Been married for 32 yrs. She has been on and off BC various times during our marriage. There are definitely differences in sex drive and attraction. Throw menopause into the mix and it creates some challenges for an Alpha male. My wife would destroy a beta within a few months. Good thing is that she knows she's a handful and the average dude could never make her happy or keep her under control. The biggest difference is when off BC and she is ovulating there is a big change in sex drive.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 10:58 PM
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The stay plan and go plan are the same. Stole that from another post I read here. Sorry can't remember the original author. If you fix yourself your marriage will get better too. Then you get to decide if you want to stay or go.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 11:36 PM
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You are correct, I got into an issue with a campaign candidate putting a sign in my front yard that resulted in her calling the sheriff. Wife was taking me to the train station to go to work and the Sheriff called me so she got to overhear the call. Call started well but then he started down the, lets all just get along, path and I put my foot down. "Happy to get along as long as that doesn't involved me compromising my principles or rights." He didn't seem to understand so I said, "Look if I br…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 03:41 PM
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On the Uber comment, I need to be a little less confrontational. I work in a very large city every day, take cabs, Uber rides, city buses, mass transit, etc... very comfortable with all those places. Some times when we go out in the city I will get a little confrontational with a cabbie and I just realized in your post that I cross the line from making her comfortable into starting to scare her a little with my very strong personality in dealing with situations. I think if I dial it down a bit s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/16 05:47 PM
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This sounds a lot like some of my issues. Im not going to give a detailed accounting of the last 35 yrs of my relationship but in a nut shell, lack of sex has never been an issue, lack of high quality sex was an issue anytime I start displaying beta characteristics. Sometimes she can deal very well with active dread other times it makes her go bat shit crazy. I've always been alpha in all aspects of my life, Grandpa was as alpha as it gets, grandma was the perfect wife. They were married over 50…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 04:55 PM
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I love being called "asshole". I personally think that is a sign you are just assertive enough to own your shit, but not really an asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/16 12:02 AM
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Do not use logic to try to understand your women. It will just make your head hurt. She's not logical, she's emotional!! I personally think your mistake was not buying the new car for yourself in the first place. I have a very hot wife and I want her driving a nice convertible, looking sexy and feeling beautiful, but not at the expense of me driving a wreck. I drive the vette cause my plates like it, she drives the Benz cause thats what I want her to drive. If I decide I want to drive the Benz o…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 08:55 PM
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Lots of times, women get itchy and bitchy when they are horny and you just have to "get it" and ride the wave, initiating at the right time. This happens all the time in my marriage. Especially when ovulating. Sometimes I have to be a little forceful but once she gets a few O's out of the way all is good again.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 07:17 PM
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Just gave the thread a read. Very good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/16 03:02 PM
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Do you actually have threesomes? Curious how the MRP group feels about bringing a third person into the relationship, mmf or fmf?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 09:39 PM
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I highly recommend we-vibe 4. Works with bluetooth/smartphone, g-spot and clit. I also have trained my wife to carry a butt plug in he purse. As we are parking the car at a restaurant I will tell her to put in her plug And make her wear it through out dinner. By the time she gets home she is wet and ready. I also have her wear it on the back of the harley. She loves it but you have to tell her to put it in. Take responsibility for pushing her into uncomfortable places. She will love you for it. …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/16 04:52 PM
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My friends know by now that when I say, "I have to ask the old lady", that is politely saying, "no".
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/16 07:03 AM
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Wow, I own a couple vettes, one is a Z06. Blast to drive, very fast at the track (pass lambos regularly). Maybe you need to drive it harder?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 11:56 PM
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Open relationship/swinging could work for some, but it's fighting her nature. The best open relationship would be one where it's one sided or very close to it, where she may try a few hookups, become dissatisfied, and double down on pleasing you. Exactly, if you are a good man with a big penis this strategy actually helps. She will quickly discover just how good she has it and will bend over backwards to keep you happy.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 08:31 PM
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I didn't say I wouldn't leave her if she took me up on it. You are assuming too much. I just made her realized that there is no better options out there.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 09:28 PM
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Do not talk to her at all! Thats why you are going to pay a lawyer. IF any talking needs to be done, he will handle that.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 08:49 PM
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I agree with you. I encouraged my LTR to go sleep around. I told her, "I guarantee you will not find anyone more alpha than me. All you are going to do is further strengthen the attraction you have for me." Just made my Dread Game that much stronger. She quickly realized I was right. Its good to be a 1%'er!!!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 07:10 PM
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I agree with everything you are saying, after the fact. My point is that we all agree women will lie, so why would a man even have sex with a women if you are willing to put 100% of the birth control responsibility on her and you know she will lie. I'm not sure I would get behind my son avoiding all responsibility even if she told him she wanted to get married and was on the pill, etc... because I would have spent many hours schooling him on how women lie and you need to take responsibility for …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:25 AM
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Condoms may be far from fool proof but they work quite well the vast majority of the time, but only if you actually wear them. They are certainly far from fool proof when they are still hanging on the rack at Walgreen's and your dick is balls deep in some whore you picked up 30 minutes ago. I look at it slightly differently. I don't want any offspring of mine to have their first home be some whores stretched out cunt. I care enough about my offspring to either wear a condom or be particular abou…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:45 PM
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This is golden. Unfortunately there are other threads on TRP that is encouraging guys to escalate this situation by refusing to take responsibility for the children they father. Yeah sure, they blame it on the woman and some guys even suggest that the women forces the man to get them pregnant, which baffles my mind. As men we need to either quit getting women pregnant or if you can't abstain or wear a condom ,then for god sakes, at least be a father to your children. Stop the decline of society …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:41 PM
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Yup and Im happy about that. More men need to have strong morals and quit letting these worthless whores control their lives and define their morals. You are really insulting of most men by suggesting that we do not have control over our own morals and we let some female define what is right and just. I think we are hitting on the real issue with western cultures these days. It's not that women are more controlling its that for some reason men are letting women dictate their morals. PLease take …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:14 PM
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SO how do I get drug into parenthood against my will? Does the women rape me, steal the used condom from the garbage? Wear a condom. Do you not understand how woman gets pregnant? If I chose to not have sex or wear a condom, which is my choice, not hers, than she can't drag me into anything against my will. What kind of a pussy are you anyway?letting women drag you into situations you don't want to be in?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:10 PM
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It is impossible for a women to drag a man into parenthood against his will. Don't fuck her if you really don't want kids. Is there no men anymore with any self control. This sub talks alot about taking control and focusing on your self, etc... and then there is this huge contradiction that says, "I can't control my own sex drive. I have to fuck everything and if I get a girl pregnant, thats her problem". Very irresponsible for society.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:59 PM
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I agree with this except, you are all assholes for getting into this situation in the first place. If she is manipulating you into trying to control you by getting pregnant, aren't you implicitly turning over control to her by not wearing a condom? You fell for her manipulation, don't be a fool. Have the ability to look more than 5 minutes into the future.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:57 PM
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Bareback isn't a requirement for sex. I'm not referring to the legal system I'm referring to my own morals and lack there of for you. You might want to familiarize yourself with biology. Women can't have children on their own. It requires sperm. The sperm donor has a moral obligation to the children he fathers. It is unethical and bad for society for men to run around impregnating women and not taking responsibility. I am not paying for your illegitimate kids. Just because women are immoral does…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:53 PM
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Agree wholeheartedly. From my viewpoint the OP is suggesting that men express the same traits we despise in women, manipulation, lies deceit and a very self centered outlook on life. I don't ever want to take on those characteristics. I do agree with the OPs approach and it would likely work, but so would just not having sex with her in the first place or wearing a condom which would be far more inline with my morality.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:09 PM
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This is total bullshit. If you impregnated a women then you also have a responsibility to the child. It's your kid. If you don't want to be a dad, put on a god damn condom. Im sick and tired of irresponsible men running around knocking up these whores and then expecting me to foot the bill for the rest of their lives with Food Stamps and Welfare. If you are so god damn TRP then take some responsibility. That is the fundamental problem with the high crime rates in Chicago, a bunch of gang bangers…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:03 PM
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He is clear that passion and romantic love last only a few years. This is something scientifically proven. Do you have a reference for that? I completely disagree with your post. Since Im living proof that passion and romance can last much longer that a few years. Marriage takes work. PAssion and romance don't just happen. You have to put effort into the relationship to get something out of it. You can't be a passive participant and expect to get a positive return on any relationship, especially…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 06:35 PM
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Does it matter as long as both of you are happy? It's probably a combination of the two. I know my wife is crazy about me and she also thinks Im a little unpredictable and "crazy" which is good because it keeps her from becoming bored with the security and comfort I provide. I always keep things exciting for her. For instance I call her from work on Friday and tell her to "pack for a 3 day weekend and be ready for the limo to pick her up at 5:00pm, we are going to Vegas for the weekend." Keeps h…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 06:24 PM
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Maybe that has something to do with the need for a second wife. Didn't he break a commitment to his first wife by cheating?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:02 PM
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Why does everyone keep blaming the law, women, etc... I thought part of TPR was taking responsibility for your own situation. You need to do a much better job of choosing a wife, and providing boundaries and control once married. I personally think guys who go through life without finding a great wife are the losers. There also seems to be a lot of unwillingness to take responsibility for having children. There are a lot of posts along the lines of, "Im getting screwed because I have kids". One …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:59 PM
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He wasn't all that TRP if his first marriage failed and he remarried. Glad it worked out the second time but I wouldn't say he's all alpha. More likely his second wife is more RPW.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 04:54 PM
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I agree, doing anything to impress other people is pretty beta. I buy new shoes and dress nice because I like the way I look, not because I give a shit about other peoples opinions. Doing shit for yourself no matter how much it costs is the sign of a strong, confident man. Not going to say alpha because too many people on here trying to identify traits as alpha, in my mind alpha is an attitude, not a set of traits.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 02:57 PM
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This has been my opinion for some time now. I have always been alpha and never really understood until TRP that there were betas. It still took me sometime to understand why all these guys are letting crazy women ruin their lives, Take Control of your own destiny.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 05:50 PM
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Assuming you haven't completely given up on women in general, I prefer to apply the notion of wabi-sabi to help deal with their flaws. Their beauty is in their imperfection. You have to love their crazy rants, and enjoy the challenge of taming a wild mare. I personally love a challenge and rise to shit tests like a gladiator entering the arena. But that is how i approach life in general. I have never used the word deserve to refer to me. I don't even think about what the world or society owes me…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 10:15 PM
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Nothing keeping us from continuing to keep them on a leash except weak willed, pussified men.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 09:55 PM
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Nice answer. Thanks. Good to see things from a different perspective. My situation is slightly different in that there aren't any kids. It likely would have worked out very differently if there were.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:44 PM
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I knew a girl I met shortly after high school that was dating a friend of mine. She had two kids from a previous marriage and told my buddy she had her tubes tied. Not too long after that she got pregnant and took him to court for child support. We used to party in her mobile home :) and her son would wake up and walk out to the kitchen at 3am to see 5-6 guys and his mom drinking and partying around the kitchen table. She would yell at him and tell him to go back to bed. 30 years later the son i…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:24 PM
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I also do not think times have changed that much in the past 30 yrs. All 3 of my wife's OLDER sisters are divorced multiple times. Her mom is also on her second marriage. If the only difference was time than wouldn't her older sisters also have the same "old time" values?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 09:15 PM
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I agree with you on these points but I personally don't shy away from things because they are difficult. I actually embrace difficult tasks and rise to face the challenge rather than look for an easier path. I could certainly next the current wife for a young hottie who is infatuated with me but that would be the easy way out. I prefer to stick with the challenge and win. there is also that little thing called commitment and wedding vows, for better or worse means something to me. I guess these …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 09:11 PM
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Interesting thoughts. If she satisfied her lust in her teens then you already screwed up. My wife satisfied her lust in her teens with me and I married her before she got to her 20's. I also find it interesting that you reference religion. I personally find religion to play right into my wheel house. "Love honor and OBEY". Obey comes directly from the bible. Find yourself a good god fearing woman and you are golden. Check out Christian Domestic Discipline or for the non religious folks, try a lo…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:59 PM
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Sounds like you chose the wrong wife. That is also part of the mans responsibility. Chose wisely. We were out to dinner last week and were sitting next to a couple that had just gotten married. I struck up a conversation with them and she said she was shocked that we had been married so long and married at such a young age. She said she wanted to wait to get married. I looked at her and simply said, for what? what were you waiting for?? I didn't push the topic any harder cause I didn't want to r…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 08:50 PM
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Maybe they are working 80+ hours because they are incompetent. I know I work with a lot of people who work 60+ hours / week and I get more done in the 20ish hours I work. They are pissed off because I work a lot less than they do but my work product is far superior. Its not about effort, its about results.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:52 PM
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This is all part of the pussification of America. My grandfather owned a car dealership and service station. There was no discussion of how you made your coworkers feel, or political correctness. Real men did difficult, physically tiring work for long hours and made some money. They all worked for Grandpa so you could say they were all working for very little money to make one guy rich. That one guy had the testicles to open a business in 1929 shortly after the stock market crash. He also worked…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 06:32 PM
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