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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Does there exist sane, monogamous, intelligent and an attractive girls at all in the whole existence of life?Well, your point of having rough edges in people - it is great thing that have. I actually find it endearing with people, that they have their own things that they are insecure about. I do as well, and I have myself dealt with issues, and still working on some aspects. I'm not perfect. And because of it this general imperfection, people are more relatable, and this vulnearibility in itself allows people to form deep connection between each other, which is in itself amazing. But what comes to gir… | /r/seduction | 13/11/15 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Over-thinking the importance of confidence at dates makes me go into my headspace and I get stressed out. How to solve?Thanks gor your responses, and particularily to this gentleman. I got a realization that I stress confidence only at dates that I see to have long-term potential, which leads to the point of having no expectations about the girl. | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Over-thinking the importance of confidence at dates makes me go into my headspace and I get stressed out. How to solve?Thanks for your responses, and particularily to this gentleman. I got a realization that I stress confidence only at dates that I see to have long-term potential, which leads to the point of having no expectations about the girl at all before I get to date them. I usually have no problems with confidence at the second dates due getting comfortable with them. | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | "I don't have sex on the first date" - how to handle in unreactive manner?Thanks for the responses. I thought it to be a form of a shit test concealed to "I'm not a slut and though I enjoy sex, I don't admit to have sex on the first date because of the centuries of societal expectations that I am reactive towards." | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 09:20 PM |
| 4 | How the fuck do I get girls to stop doing this? (Pic is of girl and the "this" that she's doing)Not worth of investing any time. | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Narcissism and egoism will DESTROY your gameI see that there exists a lot of confusion between self-esteem and ego along the idealization of narcissism within PUA community. There is a difference between having a self-esteem and an ego. All people are born with self-esteem. When this self-esteem gets wounded at early age, person grows inflated ego in order to over-compensate loss of inner validation - when there is no inner validation, validation needs to come from external sources, from comparing others to self. Ego in itself, is a "scar… | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | When to reveal insecurities to girls?This, definitely. Few things more about relationship-standpoint: Showing insecurities can get girl more attracted to you, when it is done in social context that is initiated by the girl and in a form that is not leeching emotional support, but to confide in a way that you are dealing with these issues, but you let the girl know you can handle things by yourself in a casual, non-dramatic way. It is really bonding experience, and if you have prior shown "too good to be true" kind of vibe, this wil… | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 09:38 PM |
| 6 | This is why I love Tyler's talks so much. He focuses on BEING and BEHAVING rathing than DOING something to seduce. Watching him is a great source of inspiration to me.Tyler has awesome inner game concepts. He is kind of guy that has great value to offer for people that discover pick-up from the "outsider" type of self-identified personality - people that are intelligent, but horribly misguided by cultural standards and lack sense of self-esteem because of their past experiences and their own, self-inflected negative self-talk. | /r/seduction | 02/10/15 09:03 PM |
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