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Field Reportoldsoulkt/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:00 AM
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Field Reportoldsoulkt/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 02:46 PM
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Field Reportoldsoulkt/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 01:33 AM
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oldsoulkt/r/askTRP15/02/19 06:52 AM
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Red Pill Exampleoldsoulkt/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 04:33 AM
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Red Pill Theoryoldsoulkt/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 11:16 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleoldsoulkt/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 11:09 PM
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oldsoulkt/r/askTRP31/08/16 10:54 PM
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Red Pill Theoryoldsoulkt/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:34 AM
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oldsoulkt/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:41 PM
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Seems like you didn’t build enough comfort or shes not interested. Don’t hit her up again unless she hits you up. Next.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:31 AM
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Good for you. Now read the sidebar some more, lift, gain some abundance, and stop browsing and posting in those toxic subreddits your post history says you’re active in. No girl is a unicorn. No girl is perfect. No girl should be trusted, everything a woman says should be taken with a grain of salt. Trust her actions, not her words. As J. Cole said in his song Nobody’s Perfect “She say she only fucked like 4-5 ninjas So you know you gotta multiply by 3”
/r/askTRP21/12/19 12:30 AM
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Rejection is better than regret.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 11:46 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:23 PM
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I enjoy having abundance.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:23 PM
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She didn’t beg for exclusivity. It was non-exclusive. I decided she was good enough to promote to a girlfriend status so I officially had the conversation with her and she is now my girlfriend. Doesn’t get much simpler than that.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 03:22 PM
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I only messaged her to make sure she wasn’t on some crazy shit. Everything’s good now. Should I soft next, ignore or continue like nothings happened?
/r/askTRP10/03/19 03:31 PM
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Normally when a woman says she’s not like others I agree and amplify. But this chick, I have no clue. It was so off putting. I could feel the disrespect in her words. She tried to boast herself by putting me down and that tells me a lot about her character. No point in fucking a girl or a plate you’re not having fun with, that’s just my opinion. So she got the boot
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:23 PM
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Most definitely will. I’ve reached a point in my life where most women are boring or say nothing of value. Crazy thing is I woke up this morning to a text from her apologizing for her actions last night. I ignored it and will continue to go about my day.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:21 PM
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I know it was a basic shit test but honestly this girl was annoying. Her breath smelled, she was drunk, cocky for no reason. I just needed an excuse to kick her out. I was no longer having fun. And she became instantly unattractive to me.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 12:18 PM
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Never talk about your sexual life or the amount of partners you’ve been with. She lied when she said she’s never had sex outside of a relationship. That’s just her ASD kicking in and her hamstering up an excuse. You talk to much. Talking kills the tingles. You’re not a woman. Escalate. Plate and game other women, from the looks of it you’re overthinking the situation and oneitis is starting to creep in.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:09 PM
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No, I don’t know what you mean. There are other women. Stop hamstering up an excuse. If you are in the same house and group every day, you live with her. Spend the remaining time there sight seeing or going out and meeting other chicks.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:58 PM
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Don’t shit where you eat. This could go horribly wrong for you. There are 1b other women in the world that don’t live with you. I suggest you start there.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:46 PM
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TRP isn’t about “getting girls” it’s about improving your life as a man and understanding how dealings and interactions with women work. Go socialize, meet people, continue to lift.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:44 PM
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Straight from TRP sidebar
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:40 PM
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Wow. First things first Rest In Peace to your manhood. Whatever feelings she had for you, I can assure you after you broke down crying in front of her, they are GONE. It’s all downhill from here. You’re not fully immersed in the pill. You have major oneitis. She’s not your girl, it’s just your turn. Go lift. Meet other women. Gain some abundance. In my opinion don’t ever talk to this girl again. She’s more of a man than you at the moment. So is my 12 year old sister.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:38 PM
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Can’t tell if this is a serious question or you’re just autistic. Staring is high LOI. Go talk to her. Stop talking with your eyes and man up. Approach her. The fact that you wasted time asking us when you could’ve been inside her cheeks...
/r/askTRP24/12/18 10:06 AM
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Why does she need to talk about it? Just enjoy it and stop overthinking it. Continue to escalate. Stop texting so much, in fact, go out and game other women. Too much focus/investment on one is not healthy. She’s not you’re girl and you’re already overthinking situations.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:21 AM
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Your ex girlfriend is going. Enjoy the single life. Spin plates, gain abundance, lift.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 06:28 PM
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If anyone wants to know where the line comes from it’s from a poem titled “Invictus” by William Ernest Henley. It’s the last stanza.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 04:33 PM
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Always appreciate your replies.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 05:04 PM
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She keeps texting me asking if we are gonna talk. How should I proceed in that aspect? I’m stumped. She says she wants space but she’s trying to contact me.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:39 PM
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Not so much destructive but just engaging in things that don’t mean that much to me as of this point in time. Thanks for your input. All I can do is keep improving.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:47 PM
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If you have an iPhone it must be a bug. There’s a huge bug iPhone has the causes the letter “I” to be replaced with the “?”. Try updating to the latest version is iOS.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 11:03 AM
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Like the other user said. Ask her to pay for stuff and start small. I️ currently have Jessica doing my accounting homework for me now as well lol
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 11:54 PM
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Believe me with virgins it's a process. Hopefully before I graduate I'll get her, if not then oh well.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:10 PM
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If you read the post it says I'm enjoying it up until I decide to end it. It's not a matter of can't or can. Because I most definitely can. I'm just enjoying the moment for now. My exit has already been planned and I have a time when I plan to end it.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:09 PM
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Well I never said she knows TRP I simply said the things she does and tells me confirms it. As for getting back with my ex I would never do that. It was a mutual break up. We were friends way before we dated. And that's the only reason we remain friends now. But I get what you're saying.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 02:13 PM
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Good point, I just changed the flair.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 03:41 PM
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Not twice. Once. The drive was 8 hours total. 4 hours to and from. She paid the trip, I had sex, and overall it was a nice vacation/weekend. As stated in the post, I am seeing 2 other plates that live in my area. The only reason I drove to her is because she paid for it and it was free sex I didn't lose anything out of it and I had a good time. I wouldn't do it again though. She said she'd be coming down to visit me later this summer, but we'll see. I'm focusing on more important things.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 03:12 PM
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Pretty much sums it up. Let the past make you better, not bitter.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:05 PM
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You don't hate yourself. You hate your circumstances. Don't feel like you have to prove anything to anyone. Just because you're on chapter 1 of your life and someone else is on chapter 2 doesn't mean anything. Everyone follows their own path. The best way to overcome this is to lift, find a hobby, start going out and being around friends and family more, do things that make you happy. Don't worry about what everyone else is doing because they could give two shits about what you're doing. As for …
/r/askTRP03/06/17 01:57 PM
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Getting them over isn't the hard part. Maintaining them is as they will always want to be exclusive with you. Understand all plates break eventually and there's nothing you can do but go out and get another one. In my case if I invite a girl over I always go with "should" or "let's" instead of asking them. Example: "You should come over tonight" it makes them more inclined to do so. You can always meet up with her somewhere close to your place, suggest you both head back to yours, bang. But if y…
/r/askTRP03/06/17 04:38 AM
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Level 1 beta here breaking up very soon with a 2 year LTR. If you've already thought about it just go ahead and do it. Don't hesitate as you seem to have already made up your mind. My SMV plummeted after moving in with her and relying on her for almost everything. You moved in with her and you're not married. Don't do this again. Also, your SMV didn't Plummet because of her, it plummeted because you were too lazy to take care of yourself. Supply of sex is still surprisingly steady but has been b…
/r/askTRP03/06/17 04:23 AM
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Soft next. Whenever she starts to withhold sex, it's a power play. Don't take her to dinner, don't do anything outside of sex if you have no intention of dating her. Test her and invite her over to your place for drinks, escalate. If she responds and you end up fucking you'll realize she was shit testing you and she's back in your frame. If she resists, you have your answer, hard next at this point because yes she's trying to turn you not only into an orbiter, but beta bucks as well.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 04:11 AM
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I'm not chasing, calling, not freaking out. Just asking a question. I feel like this sub jumps to conclusions too often. I simply wondered why she flaked the best answer I can come up with that's not even in this post is: it doesn't fucking matter.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 04:08 AM
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Ah I get you. I also like to test theories and TRP strategies too. It's a fun game to see the tactics and such here actually working when out into effect. Good on you mate just don't get into the oneitis trap. Expand your plates, lift, improve yourself and your life will follow.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 03:11 AM
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The sidebars will tell you everything you need to know so read every post there and on r/TheRedPill sidebar as well before posting here asking for advice. As for generic advice, have fun, be confident, be direct, flirtatious, ask for number.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 03:04 AM
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An approach a day keeps the beta away. You're doing good just keep us up and don't forget to have fun with it. The way I do it is talk to women like I have known them for ages. Never tried the hot and run technique but it's interesting.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 03:00 AM
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What would you advice me to do. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:54 AM
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Good job but don't say it believe it, don't engage, and move on.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:34 AM
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I just kind of touched this in another comment but I will never engage with her in any way besides the few times a year I'll see her at my side job. I just want her hamster to start turning. You shouldn't want anything. Stop trying to fool everyone. No ones hamster is turning but yours. Why do you give a fuck if your ex hamsters? Why do you care enough to even make this post? You shouldn't. The fact that you have made this post and made this comment shows me that you have oneitis. Again, gain ab…
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:24 AM
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I feel you but I'm not saying I'm going to reach other and vent to her as I don't care and still have other plates. I get another plate to replace the broken one simple. I just wanted to understand her reasons, to which I knew them but I wanted to confirm affirmations which is the main reason you'll find me posting here. But thanks for the heads advice.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:19 AM
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In person, also make it clear that you are over, and you don't owe her any explanation other than the fact that you and her are simply not compatible the way you thought you were. Then hard next and ghost. Don't go back on your choice because by then it'll be too late. You'll be in her frame.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:17 AM
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Exes want to feel like they didn't do anything wrong to cause the breakup. Once they have this feeling of closure they turn tail and run never to be seen or heard from again. Or you have the other majority who will keep you around as an orbiter and for validation.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:15 AM
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Jesus the hamster is strong with this post. If she wants to see you she has to come to you. That's how it works. But aside from that you're developing oneitis and slowly working your way into an LDR. If you do this it'll say you're far more invested into her then she is into you. I would've even give her the time of day. 130 miles away? What a joke.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:13 AM
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DO NOT ENGAGE. ABORT ABORT ABORT. But seriously don't respond at all. Ignore her. She's trying to reel you back in, possibly because things with another guy didn't work out, she wants to keep you as an orbiter, she wants to get validation, attention, get you in your feelings then fuck you over again, all of these are possible reasons why. And you should know this. If not I'm reaffirming it for you. Talk to other women, gain abundance, lift, love your life. Don't feed into bullshit with an ex. Ne…
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:08 AM
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The best reaction is no reaction
/r/askTRP03/06/17 02:05 AM
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Gotcha, so treat it like a regular flake basically?
/r/askTRP03/06/17 01:35 AM
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Eh I guess but I'm not butthurt has a I had a backup plate already schedule, I was just shocked because something like this has never happened to me and I didn't know how to react. Flaking? Yea it's happened before, many times. But flaking and blocking? Shit this is the first time
/r/askTRP03/06/17 01:35 AM
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It's not that I care it's that I'm shocked about why and wondering if this has happened to anyone else.
/r/askTRP03/06/17 01:26 AM
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She's still fucking him and no she is not LTR material. Hard next because you're developing oneitis. She is plate material at best, nothing more. Move on and game other women. If her story makes you want to vomit, it means you have oneitis and have already lost the battle. Gain abundance, lift, move on.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 03:30 PM
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Rinse and repeat. Never fuck an ex if you aren't mentally prepared to do so. OP is hamstering reasons because he has oneitis over her. OP should move on, gain abundance, increase smv, lift.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 02:44 PM
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I get what you're saying I do; however, this is not oneitis and I do not have oneitis. If you can't understand this and why this is then what one can derive from this is that the title endorsed contributer is a meaningless title.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 02:04 PM
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Are you trolling or just retarded? I'm actively seeing 3 other women. I have no idea why this concept is hard to grasp.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:46 PM
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oh, I'm not shitting on you for getting your dick wet. Be under no illusions of whose frame you're in. She didn't think about you for a year, wanted dick, called, and you came running, 0 resistance. No illusions, this was 100% her frame, from start to finish. IT doesn't matter, because shes an ex who is DTF, but if she decided to start some drama, you'd be here in a heartbeat, asking what to do... Awareness is half the battle brother Awareness is half the battle, but no I would not be here in a …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:25 PM
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This is stupid. I'll repeat to you what I said to another user. Define oneitis. Again, I'm not invested in her outside of sex. I can understand how you might confuse this as being oneitis. But no it isn't, I'm not texting or calling her everyday, I'm not beta bucks, I don't orbit her, I have no intention of getting back together with her, and I'm actively seeing other women. This is not oneitis, if you think it is you need to reevaluate your definition of the term and read the side bar again. Th…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:21 PM
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Define oneitis. Again, I'm not invested in her outside of sex. I can understand how you might confuse this as being oneitis. But no it isn't, I'm not texting or calling her everyday, I'm not beta bucks, I don't orbit her, I have no intention of getting back together with her, and I'm actively seeing other women. This is not oneitis, if you think it is you need to reevaluate your definition of the term and read the side bar again. The opportunity to fuck my ex was there I took it, at the end of t…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:18 PM
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The opportunity to fuck was there, I took it. Say again?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:15 PM
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I wrote a long post on how I FUCKED her. But alright.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 01:13 PM
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This resonates with me. Early mid 20s should be spent traveling the world, experiencing new things, going to college, trade, or military. Doing what you want to do. Not saying don't fuck women along the way because you no doubt can. What this means is don't get into an LTR around this time because they can and will only limit you. And as far as exes are concerned I don't see the harm in fucking an ex of you are plate spinning, don't have oneitis, and don't get caught up in feels. Or try to get b…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:59 AM
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It was more of a joke haha but you're right at the end of the day a plate is a plate and eventually they all shatter.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:55 AM
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Only fuck your ex if you don't have oneitis and are completely over her. An ex will always be a plate and nothing more. Do not invest time or commit into her. She is only good for sex nothing more. An ex is an ex for a reason. I'm not in her frame, if anything she is in mine. An ex is nothing more than that an ex. I don't owe her any commitment outside of sex. Especially since I didn't have oneitis after I broke up with her, I don't see the harm in fucking her ONCE in a while. And yes it's abund…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 11:44 AM
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Sorry bud, but: TRP is not just about fucking women. Many of us are still confused by what TRP actually means. TRP is also about self improvement for men. If you look closely you'll see that TRP weighs heavily on self improvement. Lifting, abundance, frame, etc. all list ways on how men can not only fuck women, but improve themselves in the process. If you believe TRP is only about fucking women, then you have not fully internalized TRP. At its core TRP teaches self improvement. Your primary foc…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:18 AM
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Again, TRP IS indeed a sexual strategy subreddit. However the main focus is not to only fuck women. If you look closely you'll see TRP weighs heavily on self improvement. Lifting, abundance, frame, etc. all list ways on how men can not only fuck women, but improve themselves in the process. If you think TRP is only about fucking women, and that fucking women is the main objective, then that my friend is a rookie mistake and you're still living a blue pill truth. I suggest you go read the sidebar…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 05:57 AM
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What I meant was don't make that your sole mission. Fucking women is not the main objective. Improving yourself is.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 05:15 AM
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It is a lessons learned post or so I thought lmao
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:28 PM
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She knew what she was doing. She saw the mess she mad I shouldn't have to tell her to clean up after herself she's a grown ass woman. (23)
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:27 PM
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I've skimmed some of it in the past, ill give it a more thorough read this time. I particularly liked his Corporateland series as it's helpful in business. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:26 PM
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Well currently she's coming over tonight to give me a blow job and fuck. So I didn't entirely fuck it up. But it's lesson learned. I didn't even have to say anything. She offered.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:23 PM
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Yea I browse both frequently mainly a lurker but when I do post it's usually questions, examples, or field reports. Thanks for all the advice. I love this subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:21 PM
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Thanks but sometimes when you're mad you don't really use all of your common sense and judgement but a lot of the pointers and tips in the thread were good. I'll do better because you can only improve which is what TRP is all about: self improvement.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:18 PM
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It wasn't that, it was that she was on her phone the entire time. But as many others have stated I see how I overreacted and it's nothing more than a learning experience.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:16 PM
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Thanks for all the advice and tips. I'll read the side bar again more carefully. It's a learning process.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 03:02 AM
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Yea those replies would've been better. I admit I lost my cool but it's a lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:13 AM
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I'm not mad because she didn't have sex with me. I was mad because she disrespected me and my property. But I see what I've done wrong as others have pointed out, but no, I'm not new here.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:10 AM
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Plate discipline? Can you elaborate? Or point me to where in the sidebar this is?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:08 AM
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Always got bullied and perceived as the small guy. Started lifting during the summer of my sophomore year. Came back junior year and everyone thought I was on steroids. I literally blew up in one summer. I have Serious Mass by Optimum Nutrition to thank for that
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 11:31 PM
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Either way you shouldn't have done that. It's not your job to be there for her. She's an ex/oneitis. The fact that you still engage her shows to me your oneitis is not gone.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 01:33 AM
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Yes. Don't engage or reply. You shouldn't have even picked her up from the party. It's no longer your job to make sure she's okay.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 01:16 AM
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Upvoted you for this. Allow me to explain. I was in a pissing match with my mate. He's convinced not all women are the same and TRP is nonsense. I disproved his theory by proving to him when you chase a woman she gets turned off as she now feels that she "has" you. If you look at my other post I go into detail about the women. Even after I fucked them my ex found out and tried to come back into my life. I fucked her one last time and ghosted her. So if I'm being honest and accurate it was more s…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 06:11 PM
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Try r/legaladvice
/r/askTRP22/04/17 12:42 AM
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Exactly that's where one of my mistakes was
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 02:58 AM
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Thanks for that. I understood what it meant but wanted more clarification.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:42 AM
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What do you mean withdraw from her?
/r/askTRP07/04/17 02:21 AM
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I don't want that. I'm just enjoying the ride and my LTR knows this but her parents have other expectations. Also my LTR still resides with her parents.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:52 AM
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I'm not going to have kids with her or marry her. I'm just enjoying the ride while it lasts. But if the ride has to come to end end, so be it. But you're right it is tricky and this will affect the relationship in the long run.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:30 AM
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I agreed to talk to them out of respect. But already made the executive decision to not pick up her siblings or do shit the parents asked. I even told the parents this.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:29 AM
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What do you mean? Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:24 AM
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I have said this. And she continues to talk to her parents but they are still not listening. It doesn't help that my LTR is 21 yrs old either. They are treating her like a fucking child.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:18 AM
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Yea it is. And I'm not for it. I feel the best course of action is to end things with the girl.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:17 AM
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So which option do I go with in this situation? Or do I just abandon ship altogether?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 12:14 AM
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This. Text "ok" and move on.
/r/askTRP18/03/17 01:57 AM
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"me too thanks"
/r/askTRP07/02/17 06:23 PM
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No. Why the fuck would you want to fuck your ex? Especially if she didn't put out before. You have oneitis. Go to the gym and lift, find another woman, gain abundance mentality, and read the sidebar. There is no reason on Earth that you should hook up with an ex. However, if you do, make sure she is not getting your time or affection. There should be no cuddles after sex or paying for her shit. She's a plate now and forever more. Also to ensure you don't trap yourself up go out and find another …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:30 PM
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Again, read the sidebar. You can ask her like this "Hey let's get drinks at "location" around "time". See you there." Or invite her to your place.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:19 PM
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Read the sidebar. Stop snapping and texting her. Texting is for logistics. Schedule another meet up, apply kino, etc. and see what happens from there. Women love to talk, but always ignore what they say; instead, pay attention to what they do. If she declines the meet up and doesn't offer a reschedule don't text her again, find another girl who's interested. Stop sending snaps. You are not her snapchat buddy.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:03 PM
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Good way of looking at it, but I'm not into straying or cheating. It's just she acts like a child and get upset when I don't do something she wants me to do. You know the things women do: silent treatment, pouting, "I don't understand why you can't XYZ!", etc EDIT: maybe I was confused about dread game, thought dread game was acting more aloof/stoic
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:52 PM
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Thanks for this, I didn't remember if this is the one I read or not, I'll give it a gander.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:50 PM
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No, you failed that because you had "the talk" with her. Always let the woman decide if she wants a relationship or not. If you do the "what are we" talk you look weak and needy in her eyes. What you should have done was invite her over and do more action and less talking. You do this by applying kino and escalating. It doesn't matter what a woman says, always trust her actions. Words mean nothing. A woman could look you in the eyes, say that she loves you, but be fucking another guy on the side…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 06:13 AM
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Tip: Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:52 AM
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She wants to fuck you again. Or she wants attention from you. She's displaying signs of jealousy by calling you out and stuff, most likely in an attempt to keep others in the workplace away from you. The only way to find out for sure is to invite her to dinner. If she declines/wants to play games hard next.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:50 AM
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No one is ever satisfied, that's life. Everyone is simple going through the motions and doing their best. But you've already made the decision to branch swing, so go ahead and do it. Do what makes you happy.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:47 AM
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Break up with her and do your own thing. Chances are the relationship won't last anyway. You say she's good but there are plenty of women out there just like her, if not better.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 05:41 AM
5

What kind of advice are you expecting? Odds are people would have given you something similar to the advice I've given you. Don't come asking for answers if you don't like what you read. You're not special, someone out there has been in a similar situation as yourself. You said it in your post. AWALT. Go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:47 PM
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Don't ever respond to a text from an ex. She's an ex for a reason. You failed the text by indulging her and giving her your time and attention. The fact that you're even thinking about this issue means you already lost the game. You should not be worried over old pussy. Get some new, enjoy your good life. Hard next ex and delete her contact info or block her number.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:13 PM
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Distant. Going on vacation alone. Ignoring how you feel about it. You enjoyed your turn, time to cut your losses with this one and move on. She doesn't respect you, most likely isn't attracted to you anymore for whatever reason. And is probably going on vacation with some dude or will end up fucking some dude while she's away. Hard next her.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 11:10 PM
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No. You have oneitis. We live in a world of abundance. Abundance of food, information, time, and women. There are plenty of women out there who you could have sex with that aren't your ex. Ask yourself if you could really have relations with her while she fucks other guys on the side. Even if it's only sex. More than likely she's offering you the promise of sex to keep you around long enough to become an orbiter. Drop this one like a bad habit OP. If you ignore my advice and decide to fuck her d…
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:04 PM
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You should be using their experiences to improve and better yourself. TRP isn't about women. It's about self improvement.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 02:56 AM
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Stop wasting time with her if you aren't FUCKING her. You're an orbiter. Meet her in person and determine if she likes you or not by escalating. Stop playing these snapchat games. You're basically her snapping buddy.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 02:40 AM
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This is knowing what you want and what you don't want. You're not attracted to her. She's not what you want. Go out and find a girl you're actually attracted to.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 02:38 AM
3

Your name isn't Morpheus, your friends, aren't Neo, and this isn't "The Matrix". Your friends will learn on their own time. Just as you did. You can give them pointers and such;however, keep in mind you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 02:36 AM
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You too friend, thanks for all you do.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:27 AM
2

Nothing lasts forever in her mind she's already framed the relationship as over and there's nothing you can say or do to change that. Break up with her now and save yourself the trouble. Pursue other women, gain abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:08 AM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:04 AM
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Well I'm black if that means anything lol
/r/askTRP26/12/16 05:51 AM
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Can you elaborate on this law? I don't really understand it
/r/askTRP26/12/16 05:21 AM
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8 inches erect pretty average imo EDIT: People downvoted me for my size? I don't get it lol
/r/askTRP26/12/16 05:20 AM
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Yea but we already made plans to go out tomorrow. If I cancel now it'd seem like it was about this incident. How should I proceed?
/r/askTRP26/12/16 05:05 AM
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Good shit my buddy said the same thing
/r/askTRP12/11/16 09:20 PM
1

She doesn't affect it. We work together but we turn in entirely separate papers and the professor grades us separately.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 07:28 PM
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Text her once more to confirm. It she doesn't reply, don't double text her. Meet the other girl. If this girl is serious about going out with you she will. Treat it as if she's rejected you. Move on. Game women in person rather than online. Women online are like the one you described above. They enjoy validation and orbiters.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 12:46 PM
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Never double text.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:28 PM
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Thanks for all the advice I needed it. But I also needed a reality check about how the girl was toxic/bad for me and AWALT. Got anything like that for me?
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:29 PM
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No it wasn't worth it. I always initiated the sex with the last girl. The only one who may have been worth it was the LDR and that wasn't even worth it due to the distance and time. None of these girls were worth it. I took two of the girls virginities. They were sexually inexperienced and eagerly waiting to ride the CC.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 01:28 AM
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You'll figure it out soon my friend. That's life we are all just tryna figure shit out
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:50 AM
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Haha thanks but my one and only hobby is lifting weights thanks the only thing that makes me happy.
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:49 AM
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Well I'm in college studying economics so I guess I'll focus on lifting, studying, improving. I'll talk to women and plate them when I have time. You're gonna take on a language sounds great. If you do which one? I myself am gonna learn coding but don't know where to start
/r/askTRP28/10/16 03:49 AM
1

Just go NC completely? Don't even tell her I want to break up?
/r/askTRP27/10/16 05:01 PM
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Kek
/r/askTRP27/10/16 03:41 AM
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Unless your name is Morpheus and his name is Neo; if not, then no. He has to figure it out on his own. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 09:01 PM
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Oneities is: Attatchment Neediness When you find yourself not being able to live without said girl. When you believe she is your soulmate When you constantly supply her validation and comfort When you lose abundance mentality When you put her on a pedestal When you stop talking to all other plates to focus on her Love is: The opposite of everything above You can love a woman just don't make your world revolve around her. Be willing and ready to leave the moment she stops making you happy, create…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:15 PM
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He meant attract lol
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:09 PM
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Who gives a fuck. You're not trying to fuck her. TRP doesn't necessarily apply to family members.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 02:39 AM
2

I mean you could man. It all depends on the woman mostly. If you just met them in the park then that's a no. But if you go out and take a woman on a date to the park you can open her up to the idea of it.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 09:20 PM
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Ahhh, public sex is great. But she seems to be exaggerating so I wouldn't take her serious unless she pulls you into a sauna and fucks you as well. Public sex is for a great thrill but I don't know what kind of gym you or her attend so I have to assume she's exaggerating to get your attention/approval. Public sex is tricky. Yes you do it in public but you do it in a private place as to make sure no one can see you. I've heard of people catching sexual offender charges for getting caught in the a…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:57 PM
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The first mistake was getting back together with her. Secondly, always trust your gut. If you suspect she's cheating 9/10 she is. Just break up with her. Save yourself from the wasted time. Move on and meet other women and for Red Pills sake don't take her back. Never trust a woman's words, only her actions. Read the sidebar, lift, abundance mentality, self improvement. Never take back an ex. It's one of the worst things you could do and only a select few can plate an ex. Also read my post on so…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/508uxf/social_psychology_and_trp/?st=ISHRCOZQ&sh=2c338915
/r/askTRP30/08/16 05:39 PM
2

Women always want an audience. When an audience is granted their ego is boosted. For example a woman who constantly receives compliments from orbiters and other men will feel better about herself and be more stuck up in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:34 PM
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Read the sidebar. There is a post about "The Talk". And handling/managing plates.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:37 AM
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Occupy your time. Don't make a woman the focus of your life. Work on yourself. Put the time and energy you spend mate guard it into lifting or reading books or making money. A woman shouldn't be the focus of your life she should only compliment it. And yes abundance mentality plays a major role.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:24 PM
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Read askTRP sidebar and TRP sidebar. And search for any posts pertaining to your question as others have had similar questions/issues.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:19 PM
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Work part time. Never put a job before school. You'll fall behind. Go to class in the day and work in the evenings or at night or weekends. A common misconception is that your degree will help you land a job. This is true; however, it will not help you land a good job if you do not have any experience backing your degree. Focus on school, work part time, find out if your school has a work-study program, or volunteer somewhere. All will give you experience.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:17 PM
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First answer: by reading the side bar. There's a plethora of posts about plate management and having "The Talk" Second answer: never go raw with a plate. Always be in control of the birth. You have to assume a plate is fucking other men. Protect yourself at all times, this also prevents unwanted pregnancies. It has nothing to do with trust. Never trust a woman's word, always trust her actions. Unless you're trying to get married or an LTR. Just make sure your pull out game is strong.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:12 PM
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I can't format properly as I'm on mobile. But what the above poster said before me, stop caring. The reason a majority of men mate guard is because they put primary focus on one woman. Women are objects. Treat them as such. It seems what you lack is abundance mentality. Put it this way, if you had 10 women who were down to fuck with just a text or phone call, would you mate guard or care what one does? The answer is no. Don't spend so much focus on one woman. The idea of platings a to have multi…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 02:08 PM
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100% couldn't agree more.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:40 AM
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This. After I lifted and got my SMV value up, I noticed not only women found me more attractive but but my confidence increased and I found pure happiness and enjoyment in lifting. Lifting is for self improvement. The entire RP is for self improvement.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:00 AM
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Once a cheater always a cheater. Tell her it's over. Read the sidebar, lift, abundance mentality. Who cares if she has anything on you. Hard next and erase her from your life. You shouldn't care about what scum does or thinks. Tell her it's over and mean it. Do not take her back you'll only end up wasting your own time. Go out and meet other women.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 03:19 AM
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Congratulations, you played yourself. "something came up and I'm going to be busy tomorrow. Another time." For future reference, remember abundance mentality. Plate more women. Don't make this girl your sole priority and don't try to date her when her and her boyfriend end up failing. Remember it's just your turn. She's not LTR material, and the way she's cheating on her boyfriend, I wouldn't even consider her plate material. But it's up to you. Her even suggesting you hang out with her and her …
/r/askTRP28/08/16 03:03 AM
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"No thanks, I already have plans tomorrow. Maybe another time."
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:53 AM
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Made the post mainly for insight on how to improve game. Thanks for your input, it makes sense.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:26 AM
1

Shit never thought of it like that. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:19 AM
1

Define what you mean by more direct over text. I deleted her number so I can't contact her even if I wanted too. I agree I was thirsty and about the beach and dinner part, think so? I was trying to fuck her on the beach It works pretty well for me, I usually invite back to my place but my roommate was home that night
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:14 AM
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Thanks man, good shit right there. I'll follow it.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 02:12 PM
1

Easy guaranteed tail in case a plate or two flakes. She won't give me future headaches as I care little to none.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:23 AM
1

I see. Would this have been a shot test or comfort test that I've failed?
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:22 AM
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Not gonna lie I am or was one of those faggots who had a GF just to say I did. In a way I am pedestalizing her or I was. But after reading these replies I will cease contact and let it go. Contrary to what you believe I am using the red pill to better myself. I don't want to win her back and my brain knows this. My heart however is a bitch a sucker for it. In time with applying the red pill and everyone here that helps I will get my emotions in check and no longer suffer from attachment or ONEit…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:20 PM
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I will. Thank you. I've learned to let it go.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:17 PM
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I rest one day a week. I workout six days a week. BF 11% I weigh 180. I do not stay on my phone in the gym but I don't really need your validation either. You're right about the abundance mentality. Right now I'm simply waiting for the fall semester to start. Thanks man you hit me with that good advice.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 02:17 PM
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Yea but it's hard to embrace this lonely single life. Haven't been single for this long in over 6 years and I find myself spiraling back to her as a result. I am gaming other women and experimenting with TRP so I'm not sure why my ONEitis/fixation is so strong for Sammy. And I lift everyday lol I'm at the gym right now.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 11:32 AM
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