olebobman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Boundary enforcement/ lies. Did I Rambo? First off, this is not rambo. Second off, be prepared to actually walk away from this woman. I see a few mistakes here, which doesn't include a 25 year old guy that has two kids with (presumably) a woman from his high school days. Get a lawyer, get your affairs in order, read the sidebar (actually read the books & divorce section) and prepare for a legal battle with your baby mama if you are pulling the eject handle. Get to work. EDIT: Saw your update on how your wife is 32 years old. Yeah, anyt…	/r/askMRP	06/03/23 02:02 AM
3	Observations of a dying man The reality of it all is that he stopped being attractive the moment he got married, every single time. This is the crux for every single guy that either promotes a girl to a relationship, moves in with his SO, or proposes/gets married. Every. Single. Time. Foot off the gas and too much supplicating her needs, wants, and feelzz.	/r/askMRP	05/03/23 09:32 PM
4	Enforce Boundary or Let It Go Focus on improving your life. You still have to make yourself a priority in your life - not "her, she, wife, LTR". How much work have you been doing through the sidebar? Get focused on your lifting and diet routine. Start with the basics and shut your mouth.	/r/askMRP	02/03/23 05:33 AM
1	Delusional red pill talking heads. This place is turning into the worst of TRP...	/r/askMRP	22/02/23 06:54 PM
4	I fucked up by showing weakness, need advice Terrible post all around. Someone watches too much Richard Cooper based on the phrases you use in this post. Shut up, sidebar, get lifting, and post in OYS if you want to fix you. The woman isn't the problem, you are...	/r/askMRP	01/02/23 03:05 PM
6	Married and Lost Desire You have work to do and it starts with reading the sidebar. Once, twice, and three times for good measure to digest the material. During that time, you need to learn to shut your mouth, go lift heavy (develop lifting routine & diet plan), build an interesting life for you, and figure out what you want. For a guy that has lost interest in his wife, you seem to have spoken a lot about her in this post... Get to work and come back when you have a specific question to your journey.	/r/askMRP	26/01/23 07:15 PM
3	She had a meltdown and I decided it's crossing my boundaries The best comment on this entire thread.	/r/askMRP	26/01/23 07:13 PM
2	Tried to deal with criticism, feel like I did bad Me: 20's, dating this one for almost a year This entire post for a plate... RE: Anything under a year isn't a relationship - sidebar.	/r/askMRP	21/01/23 10:44 PM
10	(FR) This outcome from MRP, I did not expect Found MRP through dead bedrooms 6 months ago. Stopped reading. Keep the hammer down for 6 more months and then you can decide what you want to do.	/r/askMRP	03/11/22 05:12 AM
2	Help getting started Sounds like your girl branch swung to someone better...	/r/askMRP	30/10/22 02:03 AM
1	The answer is always the same? Do you have any tips? Accept the fact that MRP is about the man - only. Others have said it better than I can... When I initially came to TRP/MRP in my situation a handful of years back now, I had to internalize and expect the fact that this journey was for me and me only. Your SO will only follow if; 1. You are worth it, 2. She wants to follow, & 3. You want her around. You still need to internalize the sidebar material. Books like NMMNG & WISNIFG should be re-read and looked back on.	/r/askMRP	26/10/22 06:50 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 25, 2022 Your wife has been "making" plans behind the scenes if she keeps bringing it up. Don't kid yourself... Make sure you do this QUIETLY behind the scenes. The two additional suggestions are mandatory for you in your situation. The point of doing all of the divorce/lawyer prep behind the scenes is so when you serve her (you are first), you will have the advantage in court.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/10/22 06:45 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 25, 2022 I'm still holding the divorce gun. I have nexted one lawyer and moved on to number 2. I have plans in place. What "plans" are in place if I may ask? I doubt any... I'm adding to your list. Separate Mailing Address: You better set up a temporary mailbox to avoid the inevitable shit show that will ensue if your wife picks up the mail before you when your lawyer is sending you documents. I highly recommend that you get yourself a temporary mailing address during your divorce process. You can go to …	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/10/22 02:28 AM
2	How to build frame while you're building the life you want? I will just end by saying i don't have enough life experience to know right and i'm sure some men here can guide me through. No one is going to "guide you" here... STFU, sidebar, lift, and live the life you want.	/r/askMRP	24/10/22 03:14 PM
13	I guess I know the answer for this This post shows that you don't have frame. LTR GF maybe having something with his colleague? A few changes in attitude shows that something is going on. All of your answers will be found in the sidebar and reading through the main MRP sub. The only point I will share here with you is that you are way too overinvested in this woman's life. If you had shit going on, you wouldn't give a fuck what she is doing when you are not around. Why? Because if you were in a relationship based on when you want…	/r/askMRP	22/10/22 10:50 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 18, 2022 5'6" - 205 lbs - 28%BF Navy Count those calories & lift heavy.	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/10/22 02:31 AM
-1	Mental illness This is all on you - 100%. The problem you have is that you are wanting/needing/using your wife as a vessel to fix your own problems. That's not how it works here... You have to constantly work on your shit - RE: sidebar. Stop expecting your wife to pull you out of the bullshit you directly or indirectly put yourself through. What happens if she bounces? Yeah, excatly everyone's point here...	/r/askMRP	19/10/22 08:45 PM
3	Question about OYS I will break this down for guys actually doing the work here, not some 18-year-old who is either trolling or trying to be funny... Any guy that has actually gone through the sidebar will understand there are 5 phases when it comes to dealing with women in the sexual marketplace. This is a basic understanding to any guy that has been around the TRP/MRP space for a minute. Hell, even books on the sidebar such as 'Tactical Guide To Women', 'Rational Male', and 'Pook' go into this at length. These a…	/r/askMRP	17/10/22 03:18 AM
6	Progress + question about frame/IDGAF with destructive behavior from wife An entire post about your wife; yet, you have been around here for a while? At the end of the day, you cannot control what your wife does. Period. The only thing you can control is yourself. You get to control your response and your actions 100%. You cannot "save" your wife. Even if you tried, you would ultimately make the situation worse. It's clear you still aren't through any of the sidebar material. Finish all of the sidebar and then come back to this post to see the holes that you were miss…	/r/askMRP	12/10/22 06:05 PM
1	Where to to go The best advice I can share is that at 19, you are not allowed to have preferences yet. Yes, the others have mentioned it - sidebar, lift, and go after your goals. But, in the grand scheme of life, you have zero experience. You need to go out and enjoy life. Try different things. Fail, get back up, dust yourself off, and on to the next. In my view, you are still years away from a relationship as that will come with time, but get out there and practice with dating, go make some friends, try new h…	/r/askMRP	11/10/22 02:56 AM
1	How do you deal with permanent STD and dating I'm also new to the RP and I'm building and defining my frame along they way. Based on everything you wrote, you haven't even touched the sidebar. Oneitis? Check. Over investment? Check. No mention of lifting? Check. No mention of sidebar readings? Check. Check. Check. Get back to the basics and the fundamentals of what this place is all about.	/r/askMRP	30/09/22 05:01 AM
2	First Mate Wanted Me To Hire A Bailing Expert You have been given a lot of good, solid feedback in this comment section. If you take everything you received in the right direction, you will be well on your way to becoming an HVM who lives his life on his terms. I can't stress this enough, but shutting your mouth, reading the entire sidebar (more than once), taking action on your choices, and lifting will be your saving grace. I first came to this place back in 2018 and got that ass-kicking I deserved (like all of us at one point). I can tel…	/r/askMRP	22/09/22 06:55 AM