oliviaj20 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Pretty sure women actually under taliban rule/sharia law would beg to differ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:57 PM
2	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. The us has not been stripped of the right to terminate a pregnancy. It is now up to the states to decide—so everyone should be petitioning their local govt if this is something they care about. Only something like 13 states have banned it, and not entirely, there are exceptions in those states.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:52 PM
4	Do women pursue attractive men just for casual sex? manyyyyyy women dont like casual sex for a variety of reasons that only pertain to them, and nothing to do with being shamed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 08:27 PM
1	Ladies, let's talk about....hair! My partner is bald. Shaved his head before we started dating, when he started losing his hair. I find it really hot, but I’ve always had a thing for shaved heads/bald heads a la vin diesel. He also works out and has big muscles and a salt &pepper beard so that is a plus. I grew up with him and knew him when he had hair…he’s just as attractive now as he was then, to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 12:11 PM
2	Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interested I met a guy who used the "you were in my dream last night" line. when he sent it i screenshotted and texted it to all my friends and we got a good laugh. when my bartender coworker received the same message from the same guy a couple of weeks later i got another good laugh with her. OP's strategy reminds me of this.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 10:47 PM
1	Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look? hate that being healthy is a fad here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/22 05:50 PM
1	Is height preference more than just physical attraction? The height thing is real, it’s all over OLD…must be over 6 ft	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 08:33 PM
3	Is it over for me? The above poster said something so relevant that could be helpful to you in your position, or really anyone entering the dating world. think of what your standards are, the things you expect, the things you would like to see and feel, and then the things that are total deal breakers. your list may evolve, but hold your ground on the things you hold dear and don't be afraid to let someone go because they aren't meeting your standards. I also came from an abusive background and wish someone had to…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/22 08:41 PM
5	Debating ending it with my fiancée, utterly lost. GET OUT op, listen to this post!!! (accidentally deleted but reposting Bc this post is so important!!!)	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/21 12:39 AM
1	Should I be concerned if a man doesn't think sex has to be deep / emotional? I'd say this is quite common among men and women. I'm in a relationship so don't use online dating, but it would appear that the majority of the participants are looking for casual sex. only an observation from the dating subs i peruse.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/10/21 07:15 PM
4	Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together? This is absurd. There is nothing she needs to be forgiven for, as she didn't do anything wrong. This man is controlling, jealous, immature, and I'd be slightly abusive for this type of behavior.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 07:07 PM
6	Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together? Why does he get to dictate your life in this matter? Please don't go back to him. I would bet this type of behavior escalates quickly if you do.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/21 07:05 PM
6	Any success stories of meeting your husband/partner at 30+? I say all of that to say, do not get disheartened! you have plenty of time to find a guy, vet them, and create the life you envision!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/21 07:13 PM
14	Any success stories of meeting your husband/partner at 30+? Oh my gosh the world is your oyster! I know typically in this sub the advice skews toward being on the younger side when you get married, but let me tell you, had I married any of the LTRs from my 20s and early 30s I would have divorced or been stuck unhappily for the rest of my life. I spent my early 30s doing a ton of work on myself, and building the life I was content with, just for me. Right around the time that I had become super happy with my achievements and my mental health (age 36) I me…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/21 05:43 PM
3	I feel that my parents destroyed a lot of my value You're welcome! I have found that building small habits eventually end up in a big change. It may feel like you're just treading water for a while, but soon you will look back and see all the ways you are different now. I would also try a workout plan, do some research on bettering your diet, cut back on alcohol, and don't give up! It is super easy to fall back into unhealthy ways, but don't allow yourself to go there. Also, your mental health is super important. It seems like you've discovered …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/21 05:38 PM
5	I feel that my parents destroyed a lot of my value With some intentional work and effort you can grow past this. I also didn't have much guidance growing up, and subsequently made some mistakes and did some things I am not proud of. When I finally saw the light and needed a change, something I found helpful was finding someone I could look up to. It can be someone you know personally, or someone you don't know, like a celebrity. Find someone who epitomizes the morals and values that you aspire to hold. Going forward, and I mean starting right no…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/07/21 03:48 PM
21	What the f*ck has happened to men these days? I am continually mind-blown at how many porn addictions are out there. I also cannot tell if this is something that was always there, or something i'm just seeing now that my eyes have been opened.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/21 10:04 PM
14	Any women here who were really neurotic due to trauma but have turned their lives around? Not OP, but the part about lack of female role models pinged something within me. Though I have considered so many instances/issues/causes of my own trauma from my past, it never dawned on me that not having female role models, or really, positive guidance of any kind, shaped some of the "mistakes" I made as a young adult. Thank you for mentioning that, it resonated.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/06/21 10:12 PM
1	Advice: get the HPV vaccine I think you’re fine! Plenty of comments suggesting that each person research for themselves! So glad you had a good experience!	/r/RedPillWomen	10/03/21 12:31 PM
7	Advice: get the HPV vaccine Unfortunately, an "actual doctor" failed to inform me of potential risks, so I am voicing what happened to me. ETA: I'm saying all of this to promote one's own research...for anything medical. And otherwise, actually. Research is in one's own best interest.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 07:52 PM
6	Advice: get the HPV vaccine It is not safe for everyone! There are absolutely risks of adverse reactions, as with any vaccine. It is a personal choice for each person to make.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 06:11 PM
10	Advice: get the HPV vaccine Not to scare anyone, but it is advised to do your own research on this vaccine with regard to your body and how you react to other vaccines. I got the vaccine around 10 years ago, when it was first introduced, and it seemed to trigger an autoimmune response of vitiligo on my forehead, which will never go away. Also worth noting, prior to getting the vaccine I tested positive for a very mild strain of HPV and within 3 years my paps were coming up clean. So it is possible for your body, with a mil…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/03/21 06:08 PM
1	How to look more womanly? look up mad fit on youtube, she has really great short exercise videos with squats and lunges. with a regular routine you will begin to build up your legs and booty!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/21 08:36 PM
4	My family and morals. It is ok to have boundaries! You are setting boundaries about conversation topics and jokes of a particular nature and there is nothing wrong with that! When receiving pushback on a boundary that I have set I always like to remind myself that the people who do not respect your boundaries are people who gained something by you having none. When people make changes, positive or negative, it can be difficult for peers to recognize and respect that. Keep doing you and taking care of yourself and you…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/12/20 06:01 PM
4	How to be the type of woman that men gravitate towards and want to protect? You seem to be generalizing men, and at 22 I am not sure you have the eyes to even be able to make assumptions like this, especially if you've never been in a relationship. You'd be wise to exit the dating scene entirely and work on yourself. Build a life for you, assuming that you are to remain single. the right person will come along, and maybe not in the way you expect. you're so young...plenty plenty plenty of time.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/20 04:05 PM
18	Addicted to Porn and Vibrator? Sure, but they can also have an unhealthy relationship with toys/masturbation/porn and that is what's being addressed.	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/20 07:20 PM
22	I’m snarky, fast to react and very facially expressive, and it’s ruining my relationship. I behaved like this in my 20s. As I got into my 30s I began to understand that this type of thing is very annoying to other people and rarely gets me the results I desire. I decided to start shutting my mouth. Seems simple, but it has taken a lot of discipline and practice. Once I was able to shut my mouth instead of immediately responding, I started learning how to respond appropriately. Now, I pause. Reflect. Respond. I feel so much more in control of myself. But its hard work!! You have to al…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/05/20 08:54 PM
9	Feeling lost. Tired of holding my tongue they literally are though.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/20 11:38 PM
6	You don’t need a pill to understand why marriage is not a good idea and why the vast majority of the general population is not suitable for it there's also more to life than chaining yourself to one person for the duration of 30+ years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/20 09:59 PM
12	How to avoid turning bitter when in the presence of women more attractive than you? When i was in my early 20s I had a big problem with jealousy of "pretty girls", even though I am considered an attractive woman. I say this for 2 reasons. 1. Once i addressed the root of my problems (went all the way back to childhood, dad issues/mom issues, rejection, abandonment) I was able to learn how to treat myself, and others, (with grace) and build my confidence and self esteem. 2. looks do not dictate mental capacity---everyone has their own struggle. As I mentioned, I am an attractive …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/03/20 04:56 PM
1	How many of you admit to being shallow? lol ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/20 10:39 PM
1	How many of you admit to being shallow? i own that i go for people in my league, and i feel that i am attractive. i don't consider it shallow, i consider it dating within range.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/20 08:34 PM
6	How many of you admit to being shallow? Lurker here, I am genuinely confused at recent posts, like this one. Why is it shallow to go for attractive guys, and not be interested in unattractive guys? I can't force myself to be attracted to someone that I'm just not attracted to. I don't feel that I'm shallow for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/20 08:03 PM
12	Super secret tip to discovering he has feelings for you was going to say the same thing.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/20 05:22 PM