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This 😂😂😂
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:10 AM
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This guy sounds miserable tbh
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:05 AM
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Your first point you say that ‘men value women less when they have sex early could not be further from the truth’ … Then you say men value women with fewer sexual partners? How can we 1. have sex with men soon yet 2. Have few sexual partners? These two directly contradict Aka you want every girl to fuck you early on for the sake of your pathetic self esteem or else you leave (yet you’ll probably ghost anyway if she fucks you early) but the girl you want to actually be with has to have few sexual…
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:40 PM
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Touché
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:55 PM
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I agree that her standards should remain consistent across the board. If 2 dates is her standard then so be it. Same goes if her standard is a year. You have to realize her pov is different from your pov. The timing of sex has no relation to how much she values you. Men value women less the sooner they have sex with them, and value them higher when they don’t give it up so easily. You guys think in more arbitrary terms when it comes to timing of sex. Women just want to feel safe and secure with …
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:51 PM
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These are very real insecurities* men have. If you would just let the relationship form naturally then you would actually lower the chances of these things happening to you. Nothing is a bigger turn off than pressure to have sex when she isn’t ready. Like I said before it (usually) takes more than visuals to get women sexually aroused. We are not men. The quicker you understand that the more successful you’ll be
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:48 PM
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Unless you’re 100% sure she hasn’t made other guys wait, then you are just assuming things out of your own insecurity
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:31 PM
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100% agree and feel this. It’s just not always that black and white. Women are people too and we go through life changes and shifts in our mindsets as we grow. I’m just saying there could be 2 people who are perfect for each other where the woman makes ALL men wait 3 months and the guy walks away because he didn’t get sex after 2 dates. That’s unhealthy of the man and unfortunate for both. Men make these assumptions that the woman has been a slut until the day she met him. It becomes a competiti…
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:29 PM
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Women have a lot more to factor in when it comes to sex than just attraction. Pregnancy, STD’s, are you going to ghost her right after, are you a serial killer. You take it as her not being super attracted to you when there’s a million other things she’s trying to navigate and consider. What if she’s on her period?? You’re just gonna walk out and never look back because of some rule you made up? It’s not always about you. Maybe stop focusing on yourself and your perceived attractiveness and actu…
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:20 PM
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Like I said before I just think you might be missing opportunities because most girls need emotional connection in order to feel sexual attraction (most girls). We are different from men. Men can look at a woman and want to fuck her. Women typically need more than just the visuals. As goes the saying “there’s no one has horny has a woman in love”
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:14 PM
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Because to them it’s stats in a game they want to win. It’s not emotional for them the way it is for us
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:10 PM
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Yeah exactly. You didn’t keep talking to them. Because once you get sex you’re gone. And now you’re mad that girls want to vet you first
/r/seduction21/06/22 08:08 PM
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And where are they now? Lmao. Clearly that wasn’t enough for you to keep seeing them. Exactly why girls are right to weed out people like you. Maybe you should do some soul searching and think about why quick sex isn’t actually what makes/keeps you interested
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:48 PM
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That doesn’t make any sense? You leave if you don’t get it fast enough? You’re clearly not after anyone’s personality …
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:45 PM
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So if a girl really likes you but isn’t ready to have sex after only 2 dates you walk away? You are pressuring girls because you have an ultimatum: sex by date 2 or you are out. Sounds like you feel the need to compete against the guys in her past and this really doesn’t have anything to do with two people wanting to form a relationship
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:36 PM
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So you leave if there’s no sex. Meaning sex is the most important thing you value a woman for. Why not give her a chance to get to know you first (more than 2 dates)? Are you not confident your personality will hold up that long?
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:32 PM
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What if she makes every guy wait? Is this really about her giving you sex early on or is it about you being insecure about other dudes?
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:31 PM
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How do you know she had sex with them immediately? Some girls actually vet every single guy.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:30 PM
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I think this response shows that he doesn’t understand women. Not all the time, but more often than not women need an emotional connection first before they really want to rip your clothes off. Not likely to happen after only hanging out two times. I think this will make him lose promising opportunities/relationships in the future
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:23 PM
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But it’s a 50/50 chance you get post nut clarity and ghost the girl. Sometimes girls just wanna make sure that’s not gonna happen before jumping into bed with you
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:15 PM
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Chemistry and attraction are all important. But making things sexual by a certain timeline will not make or break it. Most girls know fairly early if they like you/want to be sexual with you. It’s kinda out of the guy’s control.
/r/seduction16/05/22 01:39 PM
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100%. It’s not whether or not YOU make things sexual. She either wants to be sexual with you or she doesn’t.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:47 AM
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I guess because women usually do want that by default (typically) it’s up to men to let us know when they also want that. It’s definitely different for each situation. But it’s kinda like we can safely assume that that’s what women want, but guys are usually okay with casual relationships more often than not so when a guy actually does want a relationship he will let us know / go for what he wants
/r/seduction24/01/22 05:19 PM
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This is confusing though because other comments say that if the guy isn’t initiating this conversation then you know where you stand. Sort of like ‘men are the gateway to relationships’ aka if he wants to be with you he will go after that
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:08 PM
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This annoys me so much. They see their wives as a resource that gets taken away from them. This puts the mother in a position where she feels she has to divide her energy between baby and husband. In reality it should be BOTH parents giving equal effort to take care of the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 05:20 AM
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No, I’ve had boyfriends cry to me in the past and it was nice to know they felt like they could be vulnerable/their full selves with me. Made me see them as full human beings and not just a strong stoic man. I always thought it endearing and never had any judgmental feelings
/r/seduction12/01/22 09:46 PM
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Community dick is disgusting. Time for us to judge men for their body count the same way they judge us/put us on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:29 AM
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So true. I think women fall easier and harder but when we are done we are done. And I think for men it’s the opposite. Takes soo much for them to really fall for a woman and then they are shocked when she actually walks away and they start to chase/lovebomb. It’s 100% an ego thing but still
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:00 AM
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Personally I think you can tell by one make out session alone whether their is chemistry. They don’t need full blown sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 09:15 PM
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Don’t think you screwed up but she may think you’re not interested in her. If that was me I would take it as a clear sign that we’re just friends and you don’t have an interest in me. Yes it makes you look desirable but tbh most girls don’t want to be in a competition. Just my thoughts
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:29 PM
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Yes I’ve gone up to guys an introduced myself. Yes the guy has to be decently attractive etc, but it’s more about me feeling good about myself and carefree enough to do it
/r/seduction23/10/21 07:05 PM
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