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It’s a lesson for you to understand that as a woman you are the prize, and you never chase men and never give them your full attention. Not even after they invest their all in you
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 06:27 PM
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He got bored of you fast. You were not a challenge to him, and it sounds like you were too available
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/25 05:46 PM
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Don’t respond.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/24 01:17 AM
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Do you have anyone in Paris? I’m in California but want to marry in Europe because that’s where I see myself living
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 08:36 AM
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Btw any loser is ready to commit to HVW because he has nothing to lose and a lot to gain so I’m not sure why you act like being married is like being in paradise when in fact it’s living with someone who’s snoring, farting, scratching their balls, and on top of that starts to take you for granted with time because all you ever needed from them was commitment 🤡🤡🤡
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 03:12 AM
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Because all you care about is having some man in your life, and I require more than just commitment from them?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 03:09 AM
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Red Pill Women seek commitment from men, and Captains or strong, competent leaders as partners. This follows the basic sexual marketplace transaction: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, while men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Only commitment of HVM matters. Someone who can’t manage their finances is not a HVM. Also, women are both gatekeepers of sex and commitment as women can date multiple men until one convinces them they’re worthy of a woman’s commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 02:09 AM
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How do you know a man loves you? Because he told you so? 😁
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 01:38 AM
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Marriage wouldn’t bring me any benefits, it just makes men feel like you’re not going anywhere. And yes, relationships between two adults are always transactional. The only unconditional relationship you will have in your life would be with your kids if you choose to have them.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 01:37 AM
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Yes, he’s okay with that ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 01:32 AM
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Engaged to someone who’s taken care of me financially since the beginning of the relationship as it always should be between women and men.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 12:23 AM
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Absolutely. She’s the guy in the relationship. And to think about that — one commenter below advises her to give him full control of her finances “to reduce stress and to help build intimacy and trust” as if this is going to reduce and not increase her stress levels further. She’s stressed enough already, folks. Reddit sometimes 🤡🤡🤡
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 09:21 PM
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How can a woman feel taken care of by her man if he doesn’t cover all her expenses and has access to her finances? IMO, this is really bad advice and definitely not in a woman’s best interests. What’s in a woman’s best interest is to have an access to all husband’s bank accounts, having an agreement that his money are your money while also agreeing that your money are only yours. Being feminine doesn’t mean being dumb and just caring about intimacy and trust-building, although occasionally playi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 09:18 PM
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Why should she give him any control of her finances if she doesn’t have access to his finances?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 05:16 PM
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Does he cover all your expenses or you split everything 50/50?
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 05:14 PM
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That’s what my brother said to us when he met his gf at 28 when she told him she wanted kids. Within a year of their relationship she got pregnant and they got married. While he didn’t want it, he’s happy in his marriage and family life now.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 04:49 PM
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100% agree with you, and thank you for all your comments. They make huge difference even if I get defensive and play devil's advocate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 10:48 AM
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You're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:33 PM
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I've never met a mature guy my age, unfortunately. He doesn't want kids immediately but wants them when his partner is ready. Anyway my post was more about my concern about not being physically attracted to him on a first date. I want a slower pace, and this is what he'll get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:18 PM
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He's living a nomadic lifestyle just like myself. No, he doesn't strike me as a manipulative type, but thanks for bringing up my potential blind spots to my attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:16 PM
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Yes, I've started talking to people (just in a messenger) in October, which LVM was aware of. I haven't started seeing anyone until couple days ago, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 07:05 PM
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I don't think he can control me. I have more energy than this guy, and I am not intimidated by him. He's alctually nervous around me. I've basically interrogated him about his life on our first date, which I don't think is normal, but I felt like it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:59 PM
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He never said he wants to meet me every day, he just asked me at the end of the first date if he can see me the next day and if I want to take a dance class with him. Also, I must say that we've been talking since October 2021 and only met a few days ago in a country where I am staying now. He doesn't live in this country, neither am I (we both work in tech and living a nomadic lifestyle) but has a development team that he manages in this country. Why would you block this guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:56 PM
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I starfish and expect the guy to please me. I specifically date people who enjoy pleasing women. This type of guys is so easy to spot from the very first date. This kind of entitlement is extremely unattractive in my book, and I’m sure I would have left him in the middle of the first date, because life is too short to waste time on assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 09:42 AM
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Wow. You perfectly worded what I felt when I was dating my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 10:28 PM
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I am curious as to what is your reasoning to this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:14 AM
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I'm 29 yo and I have never given a blowjob in my life although I have had 3 long-term relationships. I must say, though, that the men I dated are people who love women in general and that also involves pleasing women sexually. They were always more focused on my pleasure, not their own. Another thing is that I always had the idea my parents instilled in me that this is the only acceptable behavior from men ("I'm worthy of the highest treatment" kind of talk) and also blowjob is something only my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:57 PM
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So accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:33 AM
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It didn’t work out because I moved to the States. You’re assuming way too much. Yes, and the handbook is full of very different stories with different experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:15 AM
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I’ve had a long-term relationship where our first date was a walk, followed by going to opera, then dinner dates, trips etc. Things are not black and white when it comes to relationships. I don’t want any investment on a first date. Similarly, I can only offer up to 20 mins of my time as a first date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 12:13 AM
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it’s just his excuse to try to get women to come over to his place without being obvious. I think the intentions here are pretty obvious for most women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:30 PM
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He suggested coffee or drinks. I chose the “hello walk” as I used to leave coffee/dinner/drinks dates before. I don’t want any investment before I like the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:55 PM
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I can’t afford to spend an hour or more on a first date. 20 mins is my limit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:52 PM
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All good valid points. Those possibilities (him following me or bumping into a different date) have been ruled out by me. Also, I don’t drive, since it’s NYC. But when he walked me to the crossed streets of where I was supposed to meet a different person, he asked me if I deliberately allocated 20 mins for him. I said: “wasn’t this what you wanted?” (in his texts he sounded like he wanted to check me out, I wanted to do the same), jumped on a bike and rode away. Only after I made sure he was gon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:47 PM
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No, I have nothing to say. He obviously could not care less about me as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:29 PM
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Yes, “limiting” and “a bit much”. I’m a young working professional (tech) from Eastern Europe trying to date in NYC. It’s hard for me to grasp the reality sometimes of how spoiled some American men are compared to men back in Eastern Europe. I just can’t imagine getting such texts/offers from men in EE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:40 PM
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He didn’t know where I was going. It was a “hello walk” for both of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:44 PM
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The first “date” was him walking me to a different date. It lasted 20 mins, which was my plan. I don’t see myself doing dinners with strangers. But yeah, I get your point that it has to be at least suggested by men, and a woman gets to decide what to do with that dinner invitation: either go with it or modify it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 03:31 PM
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Never answer stuff like this. The way this question is put implies that you’ve already been discarded by this person as a potential partner in their head. So any answer from you would be begging them to consider your application.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:46 AM
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he’s Croatian. I’m not, though. lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:03 AM
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Had really high hopes for this guy, but now I see that he’s planning to ignore my requests, because he’s “too busy”. So am I 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:28 AM
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