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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages?		oluxysis	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 10:09 AM

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1	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? Absolutely. Blue pill conditioning made me fall for a lot of guilt trips coming from my mom, and my dad was never really a male role model. He tries to assert himself on occasion and my mom lets him, but now I see it for what it is. I have a long way to go.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 03:54 PM
1	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? You are absolutely right. I made choices previously that brought forth a lot of tears, and while I don't necessarily regret my actions, the blue pill conditioning in me makes me think that I need to go with the flow to appease them. When the process started, I did give them conditions, not that they adhered to it and now I just reject all they bring forward. And yes, I am mallu. You know of some? :)	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 03:48 PM
1	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? Reading the responses and replying to them with my own has made me question if I am in hamster mode. I feel like it right now. Is there something worse than being Beta?	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 03:33 PM
3	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? Yeah, I feel like I am talking too much about how I have to conform to what they want out of my life instead of what I want. When I was overseas, I was effective in keeping my distance, living as I wanted. Now, we live in the same country, I live with them, and I would be in deep trouble if it weren't for that. Like I said earlier, the power in our relationship doesn't rest in my hands atm. I am aggressively pursuing new job opportunities and have set in motion the application process to other n…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 03:22 PM
2	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? lol, my parents vetting her well? First off there's no potential partner right now, just some profiles that my parents like on the many, MANY matrimonial sites they have subscribed to. Think dating website, except set up for the purposes of families to find potential partners for their children. I laugh because every time my parents bring forth a profile they like, it only has to do with what her educational qualifications are and what her family's religious values are. Case in point, last night…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 03:12 PM
1	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? The immensity of marriage was mentioned to me when this first started; I was still under blue pill influences at the time, so I didn't really give it much thought (Nah, shit will work out, communication and love and all the other rom-com disney teachings). This is basically a juggernaut though. I can slow the process, but not really stop it, and I intend to take advantage of whatever I can do to halt its progress as much as I can. If my family were the rational kind, I could sit down and talk to…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 03:01 PM
2	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? yep, you are possibly very right about how she is. The thought that culture would make for different attitudes is prevalent in my head, trying to rid myself of it. But wtf do I know? You guys have been there, done that and I'm learning something new everyday. Taking notes and wrestling the blue pill mentality out of me as we speak.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 02:47 PM
2	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? The sexual aspect of it is something that is on my mind at times. I have sexual experience from my time here and abroad, but it is something I could NEVER EVER disclose to my SO, and it is EXTREMELY unlikely that she will have any history of her own (not impossible, <1% chance). That doesn't mean that she won't be a slut after marriage though. Honestly, the inner workings of marriage is not something discussed in my community, and without dating, you're basically falling down the rabbit hole bli…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 02:27 PM
2	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? I will do that. Do you recommend any particular site? True enough that Indian culture has changed, so I may be unnecessarily too apprehensive about the whole thing, I'll see how things go. But the religious factor in my situation tells me that the stereotype is still alive. There are exceptions of course, but I've never seen it in real life, have only overheard hushed stories (never spoken out loud in front of respectable company since its basically gossipy bullshit) of random occurrences happen…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 02:09 PM
2	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? I didn't say that I wasn't getting into shape, merely that I am not going to a gym. The bodyweight fitness programs advocate the exercises you mentioned and I am following it. While you may like Indian women, I am not into them. The women from different parts of India look very different and if all you've seen are pictures of them online, I believe you are in for an eye opening if you were to go someplace where there exists a significant enough population of them and you see the average Indian w…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 02:04 PM
2	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? Thanks for your input. With AWALT, I felt that things like the cock carousel was not something I needed to be concerned with. But of course Hypergamy, Shit Tests, Hamstering etc are going to be in play.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 11:09 AM
2	mRP'ers in Arranged Marriages? Your reply is basically what I have come to understand, TRP lists tools I need to choose and use wisely. And I agree that I need to DHV, regardless of race or culture. Reading The Rational Male has bluntly forced me to acknowledge what I knew in the back of my mind, that I currently do not hold the power in my relationship with my family. The indiscriminate actions of my youth are now coming back to bite me, the changes I have made in my life are to combat that. Personal life wise, I am a mess. …	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/17 11:06 AM