omanisherin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
98	Alpha Male Documentary		omanisherin	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/14 08:17 PM
0	Reading list for woman in marriages with non-red pill men.		omanisherin	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/15 01:44 PM

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9	"If you could give your younger self just one piece of advice about seduction or dating, what would it be? The chasm of need you have, the part of your mind, your body that is obsessed with getting a woman's attention, it's a trap. She won't fulfill you, and if you are weak you will only disappoint her. You have to bridge that chasm yourself. Lift, read, do things that would make your ancestors proud, become wiser. Practice delayed gratification, learn to be funny, live an interesting life. Fill all your gaps with hard work and discipline. When you are ready, only give your commitment to someone wort…	/r/seduction	02/12/24 05:05 PM
20	Girl who I slept with and have been dating seeing other guy in trip You should probably talk to her and find out if she wants to be in a committed monogamous relationship with you, or if she wants to keep it casual. Set that baseline, figure out if you want what she wants, and move forward accordingly. But if you thought you both caught feelings and it seemed like you were in a committed relationship, and she's seeing other people, she's a bad person to give your commitment to. Move on.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 05:14 PM
2	So what turns on women? ROFL , I mean, I am picking up what you are putting down...	/r/seduction	15/08/24 06:44 PM
3	So what turns on women? Welp, go ask one which lures they prefer and what line tension they suggest, and any other type they might have, and let us know.	/r/seduction	15/08/24 03:24 AM
14	So what turns on women? In a one on one , partner to partner situation, a man should be talking to his partner about what turns her on. But as a guy, you need to improve your game, so you can have a partner. In a seduction context , a straight woman often has no idea what will turn on another straight woman. They have a deep and personal knowledge on what they feel when things go right for them, but may have little context on what their seducers methods and perspective was while they were being seduced. For instance on…	/r/seduction	14/08/24 07:52 AM
14	So what turns on women? It's hard finding women that have turned on a lot of women, as a man.	/r/seduction	14/08/24 02:53 AM
2	Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media? Much easier. You would have to work your social circles and meet people in person. Being charming mattered. Then if you hit it off you would go on a date. Digital dating strips that first layer of interpersonal contact out, and changes the whole dynamic to who has the best pictures.	/r/seduction	30/07/24 12:03 PM
1	I always see people say aproach 100 girls, but whats the point if u know it's not gonna work It's not about them. It's about refining and cultivating yourself. The act of approaching 100 girls will force you to think about, refine and improve yourself. The outcome doesn't matter.	/r/seduction	18/07/24 01:29 PM
2	Women’s interest just die out You need to work on your game. Google it. Being hot is great but you have to be interesting, generate high emotional content and cultivate interest or girls will bounce. Also super hot girls are usually flakey in general.	/r/seduction	26/04/24 02:00 AM
12	Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates? It's not about the move, it's about the quantity and quality of emotions your company brings her. So if your dates are Wendy's with awkward small talk, you are doomed. But if you are taking her on action dates, making her laugh, giving her the tingles and in general she finds your company exciting and fun you are on the right track. That being said, once you get her interested and there is mutual attraction, you should be physically escalating.. Not an awkward sudden attempt at a kiss with no wa…	/r/seduction	06/04/24 04:54 PM
3	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? A lot of guys fall into this trap... We use logic to frame how we view the world and expect other people to be rational, and get irritated when things are irrational. Most of the girls we will be approaching are driven first by emotions though, so you have to change your model, and expectations, and know that "right and fair" aren not going to apply, just her feelings in the moment. So if a girl throws smoke like this, instead of being indignant or irritated, work on having a funny, interesting …	/r/seduction	18/02/24 03:11 PM
4	Would you see it as creepy if a 40 year old kept approaching girls in their 20s or 30s in clubs? Eh, the girl dictates the creep factor, and that's heavily influenced by how attracted she is to the guy approaching.	/r/seduction	18/02/24 03:32 AM
0	How do I compete (and win) taller and better-looking guys without getting hopeless? Lead social events. Have fun things rotating around you constantly. DJing, running social events etc... If you are competing on physical attributes alone you are only using half the tools in the tool box.	/r/seduction	10/02/24 12:01 AM
2	I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M) You want to win your lovers interest though game. Keep her laughing, guessing, emotionally invested. Anyone you attract through a show of wealth will only be a leprous tick in your life. Hide your wealth in the beginning. Work in your game.	/r/seduction	11/09/23 02:30 AM
1	Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive? Not seductive, no.	/r/seduction	15/06/23 02:16 AM
2	12 Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive Men! On Tinder. In real life game comes into play, hence the post.	/r/seduction	30/03/23 02:26 PM
2	Went on a date with a girl, I think I was being too much of a nice guy. She’s been dry on the text backs. Is this a bad sign? There is a psychological trap when you only have one girl you are talking to, you tend to obsess over them, put them on a pedestal. The way you protect yourself from that is to be talking to 4-5 girls at a time. Always be approaching, until you are in a committed relationship. Your commitment is the prize, but girls have a lot of options. Don't fixate on one person until the attention is mutual.	/r/seduction	24/09/22 10:16 PM
126	[33M] My game is tight in all areas: look good, feel good, make good money, well built etc. I just don't have the balls to approach! How to work my way up to an approach? Don't approach a girl. Start talking to everyone. Start beaming out positive energy to srangers on the regular. Have no intentions, just give out compliments, share a laugh, make a joike etc... If you only approach pretty women they will smell your intent. Don't have an intent. Just connect with folks. Then when you connect with some you are attracted to, ask me if they are interested in getting a coffee. Smooth transition.	/r/seduction	06/09/22 10:50 PM
2	This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why? You should put some effort into studying "push pull" attraction dynamics. Generally women are attracted to lots of feelings. If you don't generate feelings in a woman you are "boring". The skill you need to learn is amplifying her feelings through teasing , adventures, surprises etc... Sounds like the only tool you have in your tool box right now is beong toxic.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:34 AM
3	Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general? No game. I've seen short fat repulsive men have harems of chicks because they were funny, interesting, and organized fun social events. Confidence is important but yoi really need to work on eliciting feelings from girls and never letting anyone elicit a negative reaction from you.	/r/seduction	23/07/22 04:02 AM
2	What do you do when a woman questions your manliness? This is an emotional fitness test. The best strategy is to agree and amplify it into something ridiculous.... Alternate response " Holy shit, thats crazy you picked up on that. I've been passing for yeeeaaaarrrssss. You are like a Detective, but just for dicks. A " dicktective ". As a matter of fact that should be your new nick name..."	/r/seduction	03/07/22 05:39 AM
1	do you think being tall actually gets you girls? Im 6'4, being tall helps but girls won't throw themselves at you unless you are famous. Not the ones you want anyway. You still need to work on grooming, being interesting and funny, push/pull, having social power and a career.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 02:11 PM
3	Girls disappearing after sex Classic pump and dump Brother. Best to delay gratification.	/r/seduction	01/05/22 07:28 PM
5	Girls disappearing after sex It's totally normal and good to feel a pair bond with someone you have sex with, and it's totally normal to feel awful when that pair bond dies. I suggest maybe holding off on sex until you find someone you can have a deeper connection with. Why give the best of yourself away to strangers that wont appreciate it?	/r/seduction	01/05/22 04:17 PM
2	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" Prove it. Slim down to less than 20% body fat if you aren't already. Put some effort into your wardrobe, haircut and lifestyle. Read a bunch of books on how to make friends and influence people. Start leading community groups centered around fun stuff you really like, that girls might really like too (biking, cooking, makers spaces). Develop a fun positive and interesting friends group, and generally make yourself and your life appealing for potential partners. Once you have done all that, let's…	/r/seduction	24/04/22 06:44 PM
1	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" The underlying premise here, it that you need to keep working on yourself to add value to your relationships, and you should find a partner that is of the same mindset. If you continuously improve yourself and increase your value as a partner, funny - fit - interesting, the quantity of women interested in you as a partner will go up too. You will have more options.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 04:30 PM
149	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" It's a good wake up call. Your long term relationships aren't garunteed. You have to work on them every day. Fit, funny, interesting, you have to earn her every day. You don't own her. Keep in mind the reverse is too too. Don't settle for someone that isn't actively earning you every day.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 06:20 PM
5	Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them? Women are attracted to mates that maximizr their quantity of feelings. The "abuser" is more fun and interesting than you, so she's more attracted. Focus on learning and getting good at game.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 12:54 PM
2	How do you guys deal with womens fuckery? It's an art: https://thepowermoves.com/shit-tests/	/r/seduction	18/04/22 08:15 PM
2	This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok. Watch what she does, not what she says.	/r/seduction	12/04/22 02:12 AM
2	Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates? Well, yes and no. If you have no game, but are attactive and have some social clout, some women will come on to you. But if you are boring and awkward you will destroy that attraction pretty quick. I think every guy regardless of attractiveness needs to have good game to keep the partner he wants interested and satisfied.	/r/seduction	21/02/22 02:35 AM
1	Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy. Ugly broke dudes can close. You can get past this, just put some effort into your mindset and improve your game. All that bitterness you carry around is partner repellent.	/r/seduction	16/02/22 09:37 PM
2	So is hitting on people while they’re at work always bad? Cause if you like a specific person and that’s the only place you know where they’re at, what then? Yeah it's tricky. The gist of what you should be going for is start living your best life. Do fun shit with fun people, then invite this person into your journey. I'd start with building a repoire. Small talk get to know them see what they are interested in, then weave a platonic group event in and invite them. If not then I'd just try and slowly build a friendship up with them.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 04:28 PM
13	So is hitting on people while they’re at work always bad? Cause if you like a specific person and that’s the only place you know where they’re at, what then? The problem is that the person is trapped at work and obligated to interact with you. It puts them in a difficult situation. Might be better to start with friendliness then invite them to a platonic group event like a party.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 04:20 PM
1	Deez nuts joke to a girl Safe yes, classy no.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 01:12 PM
2	If you’re on an ‘unofficial’ date and another girl comes up to you asking for your number, what would/should you do? You're right the genders are different. If you are just two friends out for a coffee, you flirting with someone and getting a number is fine. If this is the "getting to know you" date, that isn't a date, you shouldn't be giving other women your attention. That's disrespectful. Your woman shoul feel "special" or " the most important". Even when wh s not your woman yet. And especially in a long term relationship.	/r/seduction	15/01/22 01:54 PM
9	If you’re on an ‘unofficial’ date and another girl comes up to you asking for your number, what would/should you do? The litmus test here is "How would you feel of you were in her shoes?". Once you're have that answer, be cautious not to hurt people's feelings.	/r/seduction	15/01/22 02:48 AM
6	[deleted by user] That's code for they think your boring. Learn how to tease, push-pull and handle shit tests. Your woman wants to be surprised, laugh and in general feel a lot of emotions. You need better game.	/r/seduction	01/01/22 04:28 AM
3	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. Not really the kind of girl you commit to bro.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 05:58 AM
108	[India] my therapist just told me that cold approaches don't work in this society Also "You look cute" is some lazy game. Never lead with a compliment about a girls looks, you immediately give them the skeevies. Try asking a question about what's good on the menu or ask about something local that you are not sure about. Try to break the ice without alluding to her that you want to get in her pants.	/r/seduction	29/11/21 12:36 PM
2	Gym and fitness really take things up to next level Nah. Being fit, not just skinny but with noticeable muscle mass and having some confidence and game will vastly improve your outcomes. Give it time.	/r/seduction	08/10/21 06:54 PM
1	To me, it feels like I can only approach a girl if we meet in a place where that's "socially acceptable", be it at a bar, work or school. How do you approach a girl who's just trying to mind her own business that you met at some random coffee shop? When you "approach" a woman you are coming at it with the wrong mindset. It's easier to talk with lots of people and engage with no expectation of outcome. As you get better at talking with strangers and making them laugh/smile (kids, grandma's, girls you don't want to date, etc...) you will find it easier to connect with girls you are attracted to in public spaces. A pretty girl will see right through you if you are awkward, inauthentic, or riled up when you first start to chat her up.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 09:44 PM
4	A young mans FULL self improvement guide (Taking action, responsibility, mental health, building an aesthetic physique, addictions & productivity, relationships, finding your purpose) Sounds like you are denegrating millions of people to prop up your own poor self worth. You are going to want to start with chapter 3.	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/21 03:17 PM
4	How do you know if you’ve been settled for? Your heads in the wrong place. You need to double down on yourself. Improve your game, get some interesting hobbies, get some interesting stories, make some interesting friends, watch and understand comedy, lift. What you need to be focusing on is maximizing your attractiveness, which in short means maximizing the emotions you evoke in her. You are just beginning, choose a mission and chase it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 01:12 PM
1	“we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are” Unless your not hit. Then 99% of cold approach is game ROFL!	/r/seduction	16/02/21 03:19 PM
1	I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value. The concept of high value only exists in the girl's mind. The dude peacocking to get her attention can succeed at any level of status/success/wealth as long as he gives her the feels and can keep her interest/attraction .	/r/seduction	16/02/21 09:59 AM
1	Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1] Sort of, covert contracts extend far past just sex with girls. It's a subconscious way to avoid conflict and will ensure you never get what you want in life. The key here is that the nice guy has made a contract in his head, If I do this, then they will do this. But he failed to gain consensus with the other person. A lot of nice guys will do Covert contracts with everyone in their lives. "I bought you pizza last week, it is not fair you won't let me borrow your car on Friday". This is how guys …	/r/seduction	11/02/21 02:12 PM
1	Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1] You forgot to mention nice guys #1 character flaw: covert contracts. Or, because I did all these nice things for her, she should be romantically interested in me. Which is not how it works. There is a book, no more Mr. Nice guy. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_More_Mr._Nice_Guy_(book) read, would recommend:	/r/seduction	11/02/21 03:32 AM
7	Advice from my grandma As a girl, you probably do a lot to maintain yourself. Shave your legs, smell nice, dress well, and can do all sorts of crazy stuff with hair that involves more tools than an autobody shop. Young men don't have to do any of that. But... if they want to be the best partner that they can be, they need to be interesting. They need to dress nice, be funny, interesting, and do everything they can to make their significant other have deep feelings. In a long-term relationship, this involves pushing an…	/r/seduction	02/02/21 10:30 AM
3	Advice from my grandma I'd need more specifics.	/r/seduction	02/02/21 10:22 AM
75	Advice from my grandma Many women are attracted to men that they percieve as higher status, unavailable, mysterious. If she's chasing you instead of you chasing her it may create a positive feedback loop that reinforces her attraction to you. Your Grandma was telling you to play it cool and not be thirsty, because that's what will get her gears grinding.	/r/seduction	02/02/21 02:18 AM
2	“we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are” As an experiment, the next time you make a phone call intentionally smile while you are talking to the person. Practice that, filling yourself with joy and laughter. Once you get into a groove you will hear the other person respond in kind, - probably. When you intentionally beam out positive energy emotionally balanced people respond favorably. Once you have done that a few times the next thing you need to master is having no expectations when you talk to a pretty girl. To practice this, talk a…	/r/seduction	28/01/21 01:17 AM
8	“we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are” Nope solid advice. Most of cold approach is the energy and body language you give off. What girls won't understand are the principal's of game, which I think you are aluding too. Basically you can say anything, but, it needs to make them feel something. It could be silly, funny, intelligent, ridiculous, doesn't matter, but If they don't feel anything, it will fall flat. That's where your body language and vibe come in. Women communicate non verbally about 70% more than men, so you have to be min…	/r/seduction	27/01/21 03:31 PM
3	If you want to know her REAL sexual history... No I'm from Michigan, WASP. And if you are a young man from a western country to minimize your chances of divorce rape, you need to make sure you only fall on love with women that are good candidates for marriage. All basic side bar stuff. If you have kids, and your male, and you get a divorce it's horrible both financially and emotionally. Choose the partners you commit to wisely man, it matters.	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/21 04:22 PM
17	If you want to know her REAL sexual history... Nah. High partner count correlates to weaker pair bonding. Of you are looking to wife someone up, your best bet to avoid future divorce is less that 5 partners. Legitimate red flag.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/20 12:52 PM
3	Holding your frame /standing up against bigger guys. What would you do in this case? I'm 6'4, 280. Tell him to fuck off. If he has a job and assets, he's probably not going to fight you. He's intimidating you because you give off a prey/victim vibe. If he does get physical, destroy him. Relentlessly attack him until he is afraid of you, and if you lose, take the beating, and don't relent, always get up and attack him again. He can't kill you without going to jail, and if you don't quit Fighting he can't win. But whatever you do, don't be afraid. Don't be afraid of the confrontat…	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/20 11:35 PM
0	My boyfriend asked for my fathers blessing. He said no. An outright rejection has no value. But if your Dad gave some constructive criticism it might be valuable advice for your intended to follow,and improve your quality of life. Common addictions like porn, alcohol, video games etc... or a lack of ability to provide, immaturity and narcissism are easy predictors of divorce. The greatest predictor of divorce is when a partner shows public disgust for their partner, for instance. If your Dad used this moment to give him some life pro tips, that's his…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/08/20 05:34 PM
2	Four general areas to develop power In College I had to take a business class that touched on organizational power, or who has power and what kind inside of a corporation. This might be a useful bit of knowledge for those of you that haven't seen it before: https://www.hrbartender.com/2017/leadership-and-management/leadership-power-types/	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/20 09:11 AM
1	You’re Never Safe - Hypergamy at The Highest Level To live your best life, and when pressed to compete with other men, professionaly or romanticly, to put yourself at advantage.	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/20 04:09 PM
3	You’re Never Safe - Hypergamy at The Highest Level From a sexual market value perspective, professional athletes are near the top in value for lots of women. Rich, fit and famous are tremendously powerful attractors. That's why people benchmark using that stereotype.	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/20 04:08 PM
2	I think he's more attracted to 2d girls and naked twitter models than me Classic porn addiction. If he isn't down to recover, you can anticipate more of the same. Your time would probably best be served by moving on.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/05/20 03:57 PM
35	Why is an opinionated woman a thing of repulsion? Is that gender specific? Conversation is kind of like touch. Someone either feels good, bad or indifferent after you do it. If your friend is adverse to conflict, and finds debate uncomfortable, they may find debate oriented based conversations distasteful. Maybe they disagree with your opinion, but do not feel comfortable contradicting you. Personally I love a good throw down (male) but have found lots of folks are afraid of conflict, even in it's mildest form. The current climate of cancel cul…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/03/20 06:31 PM
2	The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony. Watch what they do, not what they say.	/r/TheRedPill	25/02/20 06:30 PM
36	Female Best Friend This is a very bad dynamic for you in the long run. Poor boundaries on his part. He's one emotional fight or drunken night out from crossing some important boundaries, which puts you in a high risk position. I would not consider this guy a good long term relationship prospect.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/19 02:23 AM
3	Female here. I barely get approached Generally speaking I would not approach a women without at least some indicators of interest. Eye contact, touching hair, getting her to laugh at something, some sort of signalling. The rate at which you are approached is not a good indicator for your level of physical attractiveness. I'm guessing you get attraction queues all the time from men and don't even know it.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/18 09:27 PM
2	I Need advice top adding to the count. Stop right now. Work on becoming a high-quality woman and stop using dick as a salve. Fix whatever is broken in you that makes you choose shitty men who treat you poorly. This is 100% IN YOUR HANDS TO FI There was a study out of a Midwestern University I read ( I can find it again if you wanted me to). It had a sample of several hundred women leaving the university and their partner counts.... Women with less than 5 partners had an 80% chance of their marriage succeeding…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/18 08:12 PM
2	Is Having Lots of Guy Friends a Red Flag? I totally get what your saying Nuke. It's not a reflection on the woman though. Many guys that are friends with women ( especially introverted engineers) have ulterior motives. Nice Guy syndrome. You think it's cool and platonic until one day they are going in for the kiss. And you didn't even see it coming. Or maybe he's hot and funny and knows exactly what he's doing. In red pill land we call these guys orbiters. Guys just biding their time, waiting for a weak moment so they can make a move. I…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/18 07:05 AM
5	Why are most programmers and tech workers soyboy sjws? High empathy does not mean good or bad. It just means you are able to understand what the other person is feeling. Most college professors are super liberal, and they are both highly intelligent, agreeable and have high empathy. In contrast, most CEO's, Politicians and highly successful people score very high on the Sociopathic scale. They are intelligent, disagreeable and manipulative. But that group is resented by just a few percent of the population.	/r/TRPOffTopic	14/08/18 07:46 PM
4	Why are most programmers and tech workers soyboy sjws? High intelligence usually is coupled with high empathy.	/r/TRPOffTopic	14/08/18 05:20 AM
1	Hypergamy has got me messed up. Hypergamy is dropping your current partner for a better option. Upgrading, if you will. The term you are looking for is "alpha widowed" where you have had a certain quality of man, and now you are in a position where you might settle for someone less attractive, but that partner will never be as good as what you had, and the sex will suck.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/07/18 10:09 PM
8	Go Out and Test It. OP is right, people do treat science like a religion. A lot of it is falsely represented for personal gain. However, Mastery over a discipline takes a very long time. And the difference between good, and mastercraft is a lot of very subtle differences that add up. Please know when you do not have an informed opinion, and show some respect when someone has put in the work you haven't, and is kind enough to share their informed opinion. 99.9% of the people reading this don't have the chops to dete…	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/18 01:57 PM
6	What makes a marriage unfixable? One of the number one predictors of divorce is disgust (or contempt). When one partner is publicly showing contempt of the other you can bet money that the relationship is permanently shot.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/17 03:29 PM
1	The Future of Sex There is no way to outpace birth rates of under-developed nations. -- Actually, the Bill and Malinda Gates foundation have found a way to slow down the birthrates in 3rd world countries. They found that the reason family sizes are so big there is because of infant mortality. The foundation invests in lowering the infant mortality rate through free inoculations. Family sizes are shrinking in the affected areas.	/r/TheRedPill	19/05/17 11:48 AM
2	How did you break the barrier so to speak? I'm with the rest of the guys here... Start talking to everybody all the time. Be aware of posture and eye contact, give random compliments to people and let the fear drop. If you are thinking in the back of your head "OMG I'm going to try and get this girls number" you will psych yourself out, she will smell your fear and you lose. If she is the 100th stranger you've talked to this week it's no big deal, and natural conversation can commence.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/17 01:18 PM
2	Fat and stupid are close kin. Optimally you want a low body fat percentage and visible muscle mass. If you are already skinny, you've won half the battle.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/16 03:48 PM
30	What counts as riding the 'cc'? It is just a reference to a women who was promiscuous in her 20's. Often during her college years... (for reference 10+ partners in just a few years). When an RP man says "she was Riding the CC", he is saying that her sexual history has most likely damaged her ability to pair bond, and that committing to her would be foolish.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/16 03:08 PM
1	I Keep A Negative Person Around As A TRP Experiment - The Toxicity Reeks Help him out of the cave, send him to the book of Pook.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/16 12:54 PM
2	Video dripping with RP truths sitting on the front page. All the simple pickup videos are well done.	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/15 03:04 PM
1	Funny article about women in Australia upset the top 0.1% of men won't commit to them You forgot game. You can have all of the above traits, but if you are lacking personality, being interesting, understanding how to push-pull a woman's attraction... You don't have anything but good Tinder pictures.	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/15 12:33 PM
1	Harassment Training at my work - wow You would have to click on the acts and read them. That's pretty lame though, So here is the short list of protected races: Black or African American (not of Hispanic Origin) - A person having origins in any of the Black racial groups of Africa. Hispanic or Latino - A person of Mexican, Puerto Rican, Cuban, Central or South American, or other Spanish culture or origin, regardless of race. Asian - A person having origins in any of the original peoples of the Far East, Southeast Asia, the Indian S…	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/15 03:27 PM
1	Harassment Training at my work - wow So there is this legal thing called a "Protected Class". If you are a member of a protected class (ie. a minority, woman, older, gay etc...) you have legal grounds to sue for discrimination. White males are not a protected class, and have no legal grounds to sue for discrimination. It is completely legal to discriminate against them for any reason whats so ever. Important to know if you ever want to have employees or manage people. To complain to your HR department regarding is probably not in y…	/r/TheRedPill	10/09/15 02:20 PM
1	Man flees Canada after losing his kids and $1.2 million home, and being forced to pay $4000 a month to his wife. Is labeled a "deadbeat dad" by the media. Men do not always have to pay more in a divorce proceeding. It depends on the local government you are residing in at the time of the divorce. I live in New Hampshire (USA) and the default custody arrangement in a divorce is 50/50, with very view alimony settlements. For the mother to get sole custody (which is how the mother ends up getting paid) the mother has the burden of proving that the father is an unfit parent. Which takes some pretty serious evidence. Other states though, like Maine and…	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/15 01:11 PM
2	Benevolent alpha wonders why ' My[30m] fwb[29f] broke down crying saying that she "is wasting away her life sucking dick". ' Regarding: " is a benevolent alpha possible?": Alpha does as Alpha wants. I have found as I have gotten older, that every relationship (business or personal) is better when both parties are in a win/win condition. Relationships that end poorly (or perceived betrayal) have a way of coming back and biting you. Being aware of Machiavellian principals and the laws of power is exceedingly important, but being hyper manipulative can be exhausting if you are not born to it. If you are an alpha that is …	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/15 02:24 PM
1	Date with hot girl was leading to sex at her place. I said "nah- I'm good. Cya" and left. Right. Redpill empowers a man to have more choices. And makes him more effective at reaching goals. But power and choices do not mean satisfaction.	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/15 02:20 PM
1	Reading list for woman in marriages with non-red pill men. I see, thanks for the correct perspective.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/15 02:54 PM
2	Reading list for woman in marriages with non-red pill men. Thank you for your suggestions. Great question, this is definitely girl talk. My SO (Significant Other) wants to help her best friend out. She likes how I handle our relationship and asked me for some advice. I'm going to give your recommendations to her, to talk about with her friend. First rule of the Red Pill is not to talk about it though, and if this were a guy I'd suggest a few books, so I figured I'd poach your reading list as a place to start. But I didn't see anything in your sidebar th…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/15 02:34 PM
2	Suits make men more attractive, ergo let's effectively ban suits As an IT Director I use a "Casual Office" environment as a hiring and retention tool. However I would never have been promoted to my current position if I didn't present myself better than my peers. Dress it up, be at least as fashionable as your boss.	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/15 04:19 PM
7	A Failure in Understanding (or Please Ignore My Immoral Behavior) We all know that power is amoral. But for you young bucks coming up... if you ever want to cultivate power you have to be able to delay gratification and protect your reputation (48 laws of power). Fucking another mans wife is weak and stupid. It's a high risk, low reward act that can destroy your reputation and impact future opportunities. If you are going to harm someone, do it with intention. Do it for clear and articulate gain, and don't expose your reputation to harm in the process. Or bett…	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/15 06:54 PM
1	How can I learn to physically defend myself? [x-post r/AskMen] Sometimes you are responsible for the safety of the people around you. Your mother, your date, your kid's etc... It's good to invest in some basic hand to hand skills to give yourself more options.	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/15 09:51 PM
2	How can I learn to physically defend myself? [x-post r/AskMen] When I was 17 I got into a fight, and my opponent pulled a knife and opened up my arm. I found myself in a similar situation that you are in. I tried out 6 different schools (Manchester NH) and found one that I stuck with for 12 years. I feel confident in any physical confrontation now. Here are my two cents: You should feel like your instructor can kick your ass, and everyone else's ass. He won't brag about it, but you will feel it when he's choking you out. Try to avoid sporting martial arts. …	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/15 09:38 PM
3	AWALT: Female deadbedroom victim fixes her marriage Zinc is required for testosterone in the male body. http://www.muscle-health-fitness.com/raising-testosterone-levels.html/	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/05/15 08:44 PM
2	The Woman and Her Partner Count With regards to women and long term relationships, Athol Kay did a pretty good article defining what a red pill women is: http://marriedmansexlife.com/2012/08/what-exactly-is-a-red-pill-woman/ With regards to your point on partner count, check out numbers 3,5 & 8 EDIT: A study showing the risk of divorce and how it correlates to a women's high partner count. Synopsis: http://freenortherner.com/2013/06/21/sexonomics-odds-of-divorce/ Actual Report: http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookof…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/15 09:29 PM
4	She doesn't want your help. Stop offering. So I was married for ten years. One of the issues I had with my Ex was that she kept coming to me with dumb easily solved problems, and I would get pissed off when she didn't take my advice and just fix the problem. Turns out that women have completely different communication systems then men and talk about problems without any real desire to fix them. But as a man I am hard wired to resolve issues. I used to think that the women in my life were just whiny, but it turns out I had to learn how to…	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/15 01:38 PM
1	DANGER: Women can now falsely accuse of rape with no repercussions Props to NYC Cops that deal with this sort of stuff. I wouldn't have the patience or the heart to deal with this kind of crazy, fairly, day in and day out.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/15 02:49 PM
2	The brutality of the first rule. I suggest starting him off with some reading to establish a core belief system before sending him deep into TRP... http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 https://bookofpook.neocities.org/ Are pretty easy to digest.	/r/TheRedPill	04/03/15 11:10 PM
1	why is the red pill party line "don't talk about red pill to non red pillers"? The purpose of TRP is to help a weak male and make him stronger. Men get stronger (physically, mentally, emotionally) by taking action (lifting, reading, introspection), not talking about or debating their feelings. When you find a man that is a position where he has been weak, and is hurt and is looking to pick himself up off the ground, that is the time you hand him a copy of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and encourage him to improve himself. Out of kindness, and out of fraternity. TRP is a personal …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/14 05:39 PM
4	Some powerful words for those of us trying to raise our SMV Figure out the ratio of time on a piece of cardio equipment for each of the food items. BK Bacon egg and cheese croisanwich = 350 calories BK Hashbrowns = 250 calories Depending on your age/weight that is probably about 30-45 minutes of running you have to do to burn that off. Next time you are in the drive through ask yourself if whatever you are about to ingest is worth an extra 45 minutes on the machine. When you are on the machine, tell yourself "And this next 30 minutes is for those hashbro…	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/14 04:18 PM
2	I always thought I was alpha until graduation of college. Regarding developing personality: Being younger and fresh out of college, you will find personality grows with life experience pool (not the same as charisma). I recommend becoming an experience junky (always try new things), do community service where you interact with the public (better understanding of the range of the human experience), and reading books that have ideas you have never encountered (Shambhala-The-Sacred-Path-Warrior ISBN-13: 978-1590304518). <- Chogyam has closed for me severa…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/14 11:19 PM
7	Office Politics Be Professional, meaning: Do what you say you will do, when you say you will do it. This is especially difficult as a software developer. Find out the things that cause your boss the most pain and problems. Be the solution to them. Also protect your bosses reputation, and make sure he knows that you have his back (don't complain about him or inter department problems to others). At the end of the day, he will most likely have the biggest impact on your performance reviews, promotions and raises.…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/14 06:06 PM
1	I've Been Rejected 335 Times. I like happiness, but I don't chase it. I chase satisfaction.	/r/TheRedPill	02/12/14 05:20 PM
1	48 Laws of Power are for Women First, I have been successful in my career (Director of Information Technology with no desire to become a CTO). I have found that the 48 laws of power absolutely apply in the work place, especially in groups over 50 people. If you have any intention of rising through, or selling to, management at larger firms you should be very familiar with the concepts. Even if you don't apply them, you need to be able to recognize when they are being applied.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/14 04:23 PM