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A dog with a bad owner wont take a crap indoors for fear of being hit with a rolled up newspaper. The owner is generally lazy, and doesn't notice that the dog shits all over his poorly maintained lawn until he steps in one of them and then gets angry at the dog for having taken a shit there despite the fact that dogs need somewhere to shit. When he gets angry, the dog stops shitting for a couple of days out of fear of the owner. Finally, the owner thinks, I've trained that dog to shit somewhere …
/r/askMRP24/01/17 08:49 PM
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So much better until the "and then some questions" part. You framed both questions with "her"... this is about you, and no one else. Ok, maybe your kids too, but certainly not "her". Until you start wanting to be awesome just for the sake of you being awesome, you'll struggle. Gods speed man, hope the next 30 days go well for you and only you. Ok, maybe your kids too.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 03:03 AM
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Some other guy was flirting with your wife, having fun, being carefree, and taking photos worth sharing with her social circle? You don't want to kick this guys ass, you want to engage him and find out why and how he's able to be so much more attractive than you are.
/r/askMRP20/12/16 02:53 AM
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Acta, non verba, dude. Why should she believe what you are telling her? Put the effort into improving and owning your shit, and if she notices, great, and if she doesn't, it's her loss. Telling her what is going to happen, and how you're going to be awesome and stuff, and be a leader, is just so meaningless. It's like you're trying to get approval from her in advance of actually doing anything, which is a double fail because what the fuck do you want her approval for. Why not just own your shit …
/r/askMRP19/12/16 04:31 AM
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I don't see getting angry and ranting at me as disrespectful, so long as its infrequent, based on something close enough to reality, and part of a private conversation between the two of us. This case ticked all those boxes, so I was happy to leave her to get angry and get through it herself. Women are emotional and irrational, this sort of thing is the programming, not a bug.
/r/askMRP16/12/16 02:23 AM
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More likely, she's miserable because she's married to a man who isn't even good enough to bake a lava cake for. Come on dude, look through your ego here. Why is she responsible for your happiness? Why give someone else control of that?
/r/askMRP04/11/16 12:06 AM
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A better goal is "Become a man that all women want to fuck".
/r/askMRP11/10/16 09:51 PM
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I was going to argue that I was never AS pathetic as this guy, but being the least pathetic faggot out of a pair of pretty pathetic faggots really shouldn't be enough to satisfy my ego. I read that post pretty much weekly, and it still stings every time. However, since then, I've made good progress since by doing little more that trying to really understand and implement the basic tenet of "be attractive, don't be unattractive/be energising, don't be enervating" while note pushing the more aggre…
/r/askMRP25/08/16 02:25 AM
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Some black comedian? Just like Steve Jobs was some tech guy, or Michael Jordan was some ball player... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i5mIL3F5QDA
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 08:28 PM
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Short term win, long term loss. Talking and making those kinds of threats might scare her for a week or a month into good behaviour, but its not going to last unless you genuinely become awesome, and are genuinely positive and happy rather than just acting like it. I looks to me like you have completely backed yourself into a corner. Are you 100% ready to pull the trigger and next her when she acts up next? Do you have an escape plan all lined up, with slush money sitting in a personal account a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/16 11:08 PM
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Agree 100%. It wasn't in front of the kids, but it still needs to stop.
/r/askMRP07/07/16 08:50 PM
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Agree on the respect point. On being in her frame, which is a concept that I am still working to actually understand, do you say that because I cared enough about it to revisit it later in the day, because I let her unload her shit storm without shutting it down, or because there was no genuine recourse for the disrespect shown? Hopefully, I just answered my own question.
/r/askMRP07/07/16 08:50 PM
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Your marriage is over. She fucked another guy, and told you about it. There is nothing here left to repair other than yourself. If you embark on that journey of self improvement, then this is a good forum to seek feedback on your progress as you drive it yourself. But if you are after advice on how to repair your relationship, you're just going to get cold shouldered, insulted, or both. Whichever path you choose, you are going to deserve what you get.
/r/askMRP07/07/16 03:24 AM
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Yeah, STFU and DGAF would have been better. And yes, its a perfectly cromulent word, and has much the same meaning as timely.
/r/askMRP07/07/16 03:08 AM
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It wasn't that I particularly cared about what she thought or said, but I did care about the blatant disrespect. Me<<<Fruit. But yeah, considering it was just between the two of us and not in front of the kids or anyone else, STFU and wiping it from the memory would have been a better way to go, so add revisiting the issue later in the day as another mistake. The best response would have been to have summoned the strength to get out of bed, then give her a kiss on the top of the head, tell her t…
/r/askMRP07/07/16 03:03 AM
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How long you have implemented red pill into your marriage? Just shy of four months. Where are you at on the 12 Levels of Dread? Somewhere between 1 and 4. Still working on building and maintaining frame and fighting off shit tests, but I don't have these locked down just yet. Level 2 is going well, MAP is on course, and seeing good rewards in the gym. I've always been a busy guy with external interests and friends outside of my wife's sphere, so level 3 was never the issue, but learning how to u…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 08:57 PM
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Would she eat the ice cream while you guys fucked? That actually sounds pretty hot to me. Mixing food and sex... Yes please. Nothing beats eating a good sandwich while receiving a BJ, and on that note, I find the pastrami to be the most sensual of all the salted, cured meats.
/r/askMRP24/06/16 01:43 AM
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Well, I did scream at her earlier in the day when she brought me home pineapple-mango drink from the supermarket rather than the pineapple-coconut drink that I asked her for. But she deserved that for being so stupid.
/r/askMRP10/06/16 02:53 AM
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That's all in the eye of the beholder. Man makes a comment. Woman who views man as having inferior SMV views it as arrogant and smug criticism. "How dare he say that to me?" Woman who views man has having superior SMV views it as confident and cocky leadership. "He's right, I should listen to him." How she views me, and how she scores our relative SMV, is up to her. There is nothing I can do about her judgement, and ultimately, she is only one data point. If I can get to awesome, and she doesn't…
/r/askMRP10/06/16 02:19 AM
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I had been acting like a sullen loser for much of the afternoon after hurting myself, and had sucked the energy out of the house. I had been unpleasant to be around. The report may seem heavy on what she does and says, but only as it pertains to her being a reflection of me. This is all about me.
/r/askMRP07/06/16 10:23 PM
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Take it and run with it. I took it from the Shawshank Redemption.
/r/askMRP07/06/16 10:18 PM
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I know. Acting outwardly like you DGAF is one thing, but being able to genuinely internalise it is a whole different story.
/r/askMRP01/06/16 01:47 AM
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Fair question, but this is how it happened. 0-100 in a split second.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 11:57 PM
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Thanks man, appreciate the support. It's all baby steps, but baby steps in the right direction.
/r/askMRP31/05/16 01:34 AM
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I don't think the "huge fucking dildo" options goes nearly far enough here, unless its a huge fucking dildo that has a serious design flaw that means it can only be used anally. Then we're close. Dickish things that the OP mentions that he has done in his posts: 1) frequently spends nights away from the house, leaving his wife to deal with two kids, one of which is 6 months old. 2) texts at 5am to confirm he is staying away when it had only been implied earlier. 3) responds like a half autistic …
/r/askMRP23/05/16 12:10 AM
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LTR just asked me why I don't put up a picture of us together on facebook fuck like a champ anymore...Ive been struggling with this comfort test or shit testwhining for a while and I just change the topic of conversation or evade it by ignoring she askedhim (keep doing this?). I used to do this in the past, but since I dont "FEEL" like it anymore (since discovering redpillgetting married and having kids my views and mentality has shifted) I dont do it, and I will whenever I want to do it, herhim…
/r/askMRP05/05/16 09:31 PM
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As the poor guy who wrote the post you identified with, Jack's response fucked with my ego (or vice versa) to the point where it took three or four re-reads, and a fitful night's sleep, to be able to get my hamster to stop saying "fuck, he's way off on x, y, and z, therefore just ignore him" and start saying "fuck, he might not have gotten everything right, but he's been able to see through the couple of hundred words you wrote and hit home on some really deep home truths". There is so little ho…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 01:39 AM
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I'm just now realizing how much anger I have after all the years together Direct that anger internally. For you to get anything positive out of the anger, you need to be angry with you. If you have any latent anger at her for how you and your relationship is now, then it will come out in your interactions with and treatment of her- when you think you're being cocky funny, you're probably being arrogant and demeaning. The key difference between those is timing, delivery, and context. Until you've…
/r/askMRP27/04/16 10:02 PM
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Thank you for this, much appreciated deconstruction. Much of what you have said here hits home. The energising v enervating angle is something that I hadn't ever considered in my marriage or personal relationships, but on reflection, seems like such an obvious home truth. We all love the people who raise the energy when they walk into a room, and bring out the best in us. Such an attractive quality. Jack10, you may well be the best internet stranger ever.
/r/askMRP19/04/16 08:32 PM
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It's the blue pill as fuck option. To the casual observer, I have the higher SMV- younger, in better shape, good income, decent wardrobe- but she's got ample reason to discount the outward appearances of value thanks to a solid year of really weak BP shit, and a few years of mildly BP shit before then. And yes, yes, and more yes. So infuriating. Have read MMSLP and NMMNG, currently on WISNIFG, and have the others lined up on kindle.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 10:41 PM
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Mentally, I'm approaching my response choice as a prisoner's dilemma situation rather than an ongoing scorecard, which I guess is still technically keeping a scorecard albeit one with a short memory. Trying to condition her behavior by rationing out my Affection and Attention.
/r/askMRP18/04/16 10:23 PM
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Thanks guys. Subtle change over time would have been ideal, but I had to give her something to get us out of the counselling. A flat 'fuck that, we're not going anymore' wouldn't have worked- too strong based on recent weakness.
/r/askMRP15/04/16 10:25 PM
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