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| 2 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.Enjoy the new ride, get a good lid, and stay safe out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Marital settlement finally signed! Can I buy a motorcycle without risk of splitting? Or should I wait Judge’s decree.The real question is, what bike are you getting? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | My ring is at the bottom of the oceanMine is tungsten as well, just a simple band. I like to repurpose it into something motorcycle related, but I haven't found the right use case yet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 02:24 AM |
| 3 | How did you guys develop any appetite for intimacy after the divorce? I’m afraid that my thoughts of perpetual celibacy may be unhealthy.I'm not really seeing it as an obstacle, to be honest. I have plenty of things to occupy my time, and a relationship isn't something I want to add to the mix. I'd rather focus on my hobbies and self improvement. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Post divorce BaconCyberpunk is a preem investment choom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | My wife of 18 years a Mental Illness and I can’t deal with it anymoreWhile I can't offer any financial advice, your situation is very familiar. Give your kids a safe, supportive and stable environment; and take care of yourself so you can take care of them. It's probably gonna get rough and dark, keep going and don't give up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/09/25 01:37 AM |
| 2 | What did you do with your wedding ring ?Same here, but mine is tungsten. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/25 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Is this normal? Letting go of everything post divorceWhen my kids are old enough and on their own, I'm trimming my life down to the essentials. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 02:10 AM |
| 3 | What do you do on your days off with the children?Me time, personal projects, and hobbies. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/25 01:04 PM |
| 18 | Why do poor people get dogs?To fill an emotional need. Don't get me wrong, I love my dogs, but if you're barely scraping by, a dog is not the answer to your problems. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/25 12:37 PM |
| 2 | First day back in the gymKeep it up! I just joined a boxing gym and it's awesome. I'm terribly out of shape, due to a sedentary job with long hours. I committed to a full year at the gym, I can't stick to exercise unless someone else is making me do it. 😀 | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/25 02:37 AM |
| 3 | When did you get back out there?This is my mindset as well. My time (what little I get between work and kids) is mine. I have plenty of hobbies to keep me busy. Looking into joining a boxing gym to get back into shape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/25 04:40 PM |
| 3 | What hope do/did you have of dating and finding someone in your 40’s?No interest at all, but I'm willing to bet it's a mess out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Useless at 50Well, I have two kids, so they consume a majority of it. When I have time to myself, I have multiple hobbies that I enjoy, then there's always the ever-present chore list. I have a very sedentary job, so I need to start getting back into shape. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Useless at 50I'm still working on getting mine finalized. I'm a few years younger than you, but I agree I have no interest in dating or any of the drama that comes along with it. My time is mine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | SAD RANT: Just went through pointless mediationDo you mind posting about your experience with the gal? I initiated that process with my stbxw, which wasn't received well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 05:24 PM |
| 6 | If their mom does this, what would you do?I would pay the dance fees, those are for your kid. But that's just me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/25 11:03 PM |
| 6 | Don't lose your cool.I did that exact thing! Your problem now buddy 😆 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | New GF asking for too much?100%. Don't get yourself in the same kind of situation again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/25 06:55 PM |
| 5 | New GF asking for too much?You gotta learn how to be alone and comfortable with yourself. It takes time, but it's worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you afford to live?I have an uncommon skill set. So it's not typically too hard, but you never know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/25 12:00 AM |
| 5 | How do you afford to live?My divorce isn't finalized yet, but I plan on trying to find IT contract work that can be done in my off hours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I take the step to converse about divorceYou are not responsible for someone else's actions. I'm sure others will come along and chime in with a lot more wisdom and input, but that was one of the best things it was ever told to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Finding love at 40 with 4 kids?This is exactly how I feel. No desire to date, my time is mine now. Sure I get lonely sometimes, but that's life. If I meet someone in the future, that's cool, if not, I've always got me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Check Out This Sh#t - This May Be It.I was just responding regarding the MLC acronym, I don't know what it is so I had to Google it. And Major League Crickett was one of the first results so I just went with that! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Check Out This Sh#t - This May Be It.I knew it was Major League Cricket's fault. I've always had my suspicions. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 08:53 PM |
| 9 | New partner not liking my kidTime for her to hit da bricks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/25 11:17 PM |
| 7 | Thoughts on this approach after a 12-yr marriage going south?I am well aware of the root cause of my hesitancy and reluctance to consider dating, those are my issues, as well as a newfound appreciation for my freedom and time. We never get one second of wasted time back. There are definitely some bad actors in the dating world, and I know not every woman is like that. Plenty of awesome people out there, but I want to work on making me awesome, for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 12:02 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on this approach after a 12-yr marriage going south?Free agent, the only way to be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Been a while, new drama emergingFollowing, for future reference. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/25 01:03 PM |
| 6 | Is this normal???I thought I was ready, but I just couldn't. Still too much to work through, and I don't want to give up what little freedom I have. Give yourself time and patience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/25 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Found out my wife is a garbage human.This. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/25 09:26 PM |
| 3 | For those of you who had to go through “war” in your divorce I want to hear your story and how you made it out.Listening and taking notes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/25 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Need advice from fathers who've dealt with unstable ex...scared of her at this pointFollowing.... I'm in a very similar situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/01/25 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife Kidnapped the kids | She's a fugitiveThat's one of my big fears about my divorce. I hope they find the kiddos soon, safe and sound. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 01:12 AM |
| 4 | Mental health checkTake time, for you. Don't rush into anything. You'll be glad you did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/24 12:55 AM |
| 5 | Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know)Stop considering and just do it! You won't regret it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 04:28 PM |
| 2 | You'll get there eventuallyI'm in a similar, albeit less extreme situation. Your resolution makes me hopeful. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/12/24 09:23 PM |
| 2 | What new hobbies or interests have you started since the separation/divorce?What bike did you get? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/24 01:04 AM |
| 2 | I'm struggling with not seeking revenge.I agree with what everyone else is saying. Words won't have the effect you're hoping for. Improve yourself improve your life, that is the way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/24 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Dating ConfidenceThis! My small amount of free time is mine. I'm perfectly comfortable doing things on my own. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/24 03:23 PM |
| 2 | A Tale of Two Different Stories... An UpdateKeep moving forward, it's the only way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/24 01:49 AM |
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