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1	Men are the ones who settle. You’re correct, thank you for showing me those. Aren’t men the gatekeepers of relationships though? Everyone knows that men will lower their standards, even going for the most unattractive women to get their dicks wet but wouldn’t introduce them to family and friends. I agree with the initial poster and the 80/20 graph only seems to back up their claim. Men have a clear preference for who they find most attractive and will still take a shot at them while also putting out feels for fuglies in the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/24 09:01 PM
–	Men are the ones who settle. Sending messages exclusively to the most beautiful women is putting in effort? Plus, the opposite was true for women. They sent just as many messages to men they rated as less physically attractive. Men did not, they spent most of their time going for the top percent of women. Maybe if men on dating apps lowered their standards instead of competing amongst each other for the prettiest white women in their early twenties, they’d have more options. Instead, not being able to secure a 20 year old b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/24 07:12 PM
–	Men are the ones who settle. Why do you all leave out the fact that the study showed that while men considered more women to be physically attractive, they still spent most of their time going after the hottest ones. Other Ok Cupid studies also showed strong racial and age preferences from men as well. So while men will fuck anything, they put the most time and effort into going after young white women in the top percentile of attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/24 06:26 PM
1	Female Attraction Standards Doesn’t matter. Even if you don’t have children, the urge to reproduce is still present and influenced by biology. Both women and men’s sexual and dating behavior is due to the potential of creating offspring. Your hormones don’t care that you aren’t going to actually get a woman pregnant, they still motivate you to act as if you will. The same is true for women. My argument is completely is still correct and easily understood by those who understand biology.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 09:55 PM
1	Female Attraction Standards Yeah, being attractive, aka displaying good genetic qualities and having a pleasant personality, aka displaying an ability to help rear potential offspring is nowhere near perfection. It’s the bare minimum to show a woman that her 9 months of using her body to grow another, potential permanent disfigurement or death, plus 2 years of lactation are worth it. Like damn, I get that it’s your sexes biological imperative to try and score the best deal for the lowest buck, but come on now. You’re showi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/24 01:27 AM
1	Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers? Both sexes have check lists that when met inspire feelings. I really wish women and men would stop pretending otherwise. Unless you pick your partners blindfolded and have absolutely zero requirements, you too have a “checklist” of sorts. Even when attraction happens spontaneously, it’s because that other person appeals to you in some way, otherwise, you’d be open to dating and falling in love with absolutely anybody. Very few people are capable of this, I much prefer honesty and believe anyone …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 04:49 AM
1	Female Attraction Standards You’re wrong about that. Many species like wolves, chimps, and orcas live in mixed sex “societies” in which only some males breed. In other species, like lions, top males get to live in the pride, while the unchosen fend for themselves. Male hierarchy’s exists in most species, but you can always opt out and live as off the grid as possible. I’m a woman who is never going to be reproduce and plan to live as simple of a life as possible. However, my life is bigger than reproduction and I appreciat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/24 04:40 AM
0	Female Attraction Standards Sure, collapse of an artificial society that was doomed to fail the minute men began suppressing female sexual selection. The society we have created operates in opposition to nature, it was never going to last and there’s no reason it should. Your desire to continue it is the cause of this sub’s frustration. Unchosen men still trying to wedge their way into a game that they were never meant to play. If your forefathers hadn’t done the very same thing, then you wouldn’t be here complaining. Too …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:44 PM
1	Female Attraction Standards You’re actually faring better than most males in the animal kingdom. For example, male lions without a pride are forced to survive on their own, leading to much shorter life spans. In nature, chosen males either live amongst females, or are solitary creatures. Ideally, you wouldn’t have been born at all, but that’s an argument to have with your parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:39 PM
1	Female Attraction Standards It is %99 of the equation, good looking men don’t have to posses any of those qualities you mentioned. I’m not talking about average to slightly above average looking men, the top percenters in both sexes are very rare. Im telling you this as a woman. Women will ignore red flags for extremely attractive men, unless he straight up calls her a bitch or becomes physically aggressive on the first meeting, he’s going to get a pass. I had been friends with a male model for some time, he was 6’4 and hi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:35 PM
1	Female Attraction Standards Of course it’s true. Life exists to propagate itself aka to pass on our genes. Thats our biological “purpose” and evolution has embedded us with certain instincts. Women want quality and men want quantity. It makes sense because a man can serve his biological imperative in seconds, all he has to do is ejaculate and he has potentially passed on his genes. A man’s biological duty ends at ejaculation, while a woman’s is just beginning. Nine months of pregnancy, life threatening labor and the birth,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 06:24 PM
6	Female Attraction Standards Good looks are the absolute most important factor of desirability. Physically attractive men are the most successful with women, period. Status and wealth can be leveraged, but those women are in it for survival, not sexual attraction. Regular and enthusiastic sex happens when a woman is aroused, not because she needs to keep a roof over her head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:49 PM
5	Female Attraction Standards Extremely, if discussing a purely physical point of view. No more than forty percent of men would be considered desirable based on their looks alone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:12 PM
1	Would you say dating is easier as a straight girl or guy, or easier as a gay guy or girl? It depends on what your reasons for dating are. In it for sex? Gay men definitely take the cake. Motivated by commitment, an easy win for lesbians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:02 PM
1	Would you say dating is easier as a straight girl or guy, or easier as a gay guy or girl? It depends on what your reasons for dating are. In it for sex? Gay men definitely take the cake. Motivated by commitment, an easy win for lesbians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 11:02 PM
3	Female Attraction Standards Monogamy only became necessary when men highjacked reproduction to allow the majority to reproduce. There is no reason that most people should be coupled up, let alone have children. If only the top men got to pass on their genes, the population would naturally decline, and the gene pool would clean itself up. Intersexual competition amongst men would lessen and the world would actually be safer because the men that exist would have less trouble finding partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:55 PM
13	Female Attraction Standards Everything boils down to biology and the very different roles women and men play in reproduction. Mens reproductive strategy selects for quantity over quality because men don’t get pregnant. Sex is a low risk high reward activity for them. Women’s reproductive ploy is that of quality rather than quantity because we can get pregnant. Making sex a high risk typically low reward activity for them. Women are supposed to be the pickier sex. Despite men’s moaning about women not being more sexually re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/03/24 10:39 PM
1	Even ignoring the RP/BP doomers, how does anyone not becone cynical about long term monogamy when working in an office setting full of cheaters? Monogamy wasn’t created because women and men have one true love that they want to remain emotionally, romantically, and sexually reserved to for the remainder of their lives. Monogamy exists to ensure paternity and give children an economic advantage because single parent households are typically poor. It’s also not the mainstream despite the West’s fairy tail depictions of it. The majority of cultures worldwide are not monogamous. Most women and men remain sexually and romantically attracted t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 08:21 PM
4	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? No, you are saying one thing while reality is demonstrating the exact opposite. Are you seriously so dense that you don’t understand how illogical that is? You’re literally saying “even though the thing I am claiming to be true isn’t happening, it’s still true!” I take it you’re either highly religious or a science denier because I can’t think of any other explanation for your unfounded beliefs. Are you at least consistent? Do you carry this make believe world view into all aspects of your life?…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 08:09 PM
–	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? So observable reality goes against your opinion and yet you still believe you’re correct. How illogical, but that is to be expected from the emotional sex. You’re denying reality in favor of a fantasy you have created.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 07:51 PM
2	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? You are though, that’s why revenge porn laws exist. It’s not even just revenge porn, if someone posted a video of a woman giving birth without her permission, she could also sue. Some of the images were altered as well and not real. AI porn is increasing and new laws will come about because women and children are having their images used without their permission to create porn. You being upset about the law doesn’t change anything, and what an emotional argument to make, much like that of a chil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 06:17 PM
4	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? Revenge porn is not a part of free speech. Shes not suing because of what he said, she’s suing because he posted altered and real intimate pictures without her permission. Just like any man could sue if AI images of him being fucked in the ass by another man were being flooded onto social media. Plus, as I stated above, men sue for defamation as well. So what is point exactly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 05:31 PM
2	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? She’s suing because revenge porn was posted of her dumbass. That is a crime in multiple places. Men in the public eye also sue for defamation. Russel Brand sued because of a cheating allegation in the past. He was upset that a publication wrote about him being unfaithful. So yes, men do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 05:26 PM
1	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? That’s exactly the point. You tried to claim that off hand remarks, that aren’t even exclusive to age gap couples somehow makes it a real world problem. My sarcastic response demonstrates how ridiculous your claim is because these couples don’t face any repercussions besides petty gossip. I take it that you’re either an emotional shit lib who believes that comments made in passing online and in real life are akin to hate speech, or you suffer from autism and are unable to comprehend that satire …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 05:15 PM
7	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? They’re incapable of having a cohesive argument because of how emotional they are. It all boils down to hypocrisy and constant contradictions, every single time. Even when you hit them with reality, including statistics, they claim that those aren’t real as well because women be lying! The only data they consider and that shapes their entire world view is a fucking OK Cupid poll, that’s where the idea that women only want the top %20 of men comes from. So they’ll ignore the real world facts that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 04:57 PM
7	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? The men on this sub are solipsistic to an alarming degree. How are you going to claim that the majority of women, even when discussing among themselves aren’t actually telling the truth because YOU disagree with them. Yes, inside all of those exclusively female spaces, or when women are hanging out with their girlfriends, we’re all still lying! Our thoughts and desires aren’t actually what we say they are, because how can women actually know themselves without a man telling them first? The real …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 04:49 PM
1	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? Oh no! An off hand remark, whatever shall those couples do. I didn’t know the situation was so dire, because as we all know, off hand remarks have only ever been reserved for age gap couples. No one, and I mean absolutely no one else ever receives negative comments about themselves or their lifestyle choices. I really hope that these couples can recover from being destitute without jobs since it’s so common for age gap couples do be denied employment, refused housing, and have peanuts thrown at …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 04:41 PM
3	What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have? Red pill: All men are autistic to some degree and it’s the major hindrance in their ability to understand women. Female intrasexual competition is hardly discussed even though it’s even more relevant than hypergamy. Blue pill: Men pursuing women for their youth and beauty is okay. Women’s preferences don’t hinder their ability to love when they settle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 10:24 AM
1	How does hypergamy explain things like gangbang fantasy? based	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 10:00 AM
1	Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating. Something is better than nothing? Okay then, fuck other men or start cruising at senior citizen centers. The elderly are extremely sexually active and those women would be more than happy with a young body. You don’t want to fuck men or 60+ year old women though do you? The reason men are unable to sympathize with women’s dating woes is because you refuse to acknowledge that women and men’s perceptions about sex are vastly different. This sub will talk biology all day long when it comes to hyper…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 09:50 AM
1	Why I believe Men are unsympathetic towards Women's grievances in dating. Men don’t have friends? Why can’t you offer each other companionship while single as well? Most women aren’t having casual sex and aren’t interested in friends with benefits. Even if that was the case, you’re all constantly contradicting yourselves on this sub. I thought men were the gatekeepers of relationships, not women. I thought hot guys would sleep with women beneath them, but would commit to them. What you say is the exact opposite. Which one is it? Why do the vast majority of people end …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 09:11 AM
46	Why do many women say age gap relationships have a "power imbalance" yet say nothing about wealth gap relationships? It’s so obvious that none of the men on this sub bother spending anytime actually listening to women. This is an extremely common topic of discussion, especially amongst feminist. Women are constantly speaking about the dangers of relying on a man financially and it’s their main argument against being stay at home mothers. There’s nothing modern women discuss more than encouraging each other to achieve financial independence. I won’t lie, some older women are jealous but it’s blown way out of pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/24 08:49 AM
–	Is it hypocritical for self-described feminist/egalitarian women to expect men to pay on dates? Why or why not? Mainstream feminism isn’t against gender roles at all. They’re actually enforcers of it. Most self described feminist still wears makeup, push-up bras, remove all of their body hair, want to become wives and mothers, etc. It’s very obvious that those women aren’t against gendered expectations. The fan fiction needs to stop. The day you score a date with an actual feminist, a woman who doesn’t do any beauty rituals and digs holes for a living but still expects you to pay, post about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 08:32 AM
–	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric I can’t wait for this to happen but with gay men wielding all of the power so that it is your prostate that becomes public property. Inshallah.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 08:24 AM
3	how “male feminists” embody toxic masculinity Vaush is a pedo freak, so not a feminist at all. To be honest, there are no male feminist. There aren’t even female feminists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:29 PM
3	How much do you think enforced sexual conduct affects men? Both women and men uphold gender ideology and its proposed roles. I would say it’s more likely to be enforced by women onto other women, and men onto other men. Thats what I see the most of. So yes, men, especially heterosexual ones are expected to behave a certain way while expressing their sexual attraction. Many heterosexual women would assume something was wrong is man was not extremely forward in a private sexual setting because of the expectation that men are uncontrollable horn dogs who c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:27 PM
2	Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standards How is wanting a partner with comparable attributes having high standards? Would you tell a physically attractive man that his desire to have an equally attractive partner was a high standard? If a woman has a degree and wants a partner with one as well, is that a high standard? I think holding others to the same standards you hold yourself is actually the fairest thing to do. Typically, it’s the exact opposite, people holding others to standards that they themselves don’t fit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 09:47 AM
2	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric Liberals are a plague. They virtue signal to get their rocks off but will flip anytime you call out their inconsistencies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 12:35 AM
2	Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standards Maternity leave isn’t universal and is almost always unpaid. Pregnancy is always incapacitating. Pregnancy shifts a woman’s organs, shrinks parts of her brain, changes her entire immune system, sucks her body of nutrients, leaves a wound the size of a dinner plate in her uterus, tears her genitalia, shortens her telomeres, and takes two years to fully heal from. Do you know what else shortens telomeres? Smoking. That’s best case scenario. It also causes organ prolapses, tears so bad that reconst…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 10:19 PM
3	What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30 Resources actually make a man appear more physically attractive to women. There are studies to back it up. Depending on how much money a man make or what kind of car he drives, he’s actually seen as being better looking by women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 08:55 PM
2	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric Yep, unfortunately both women and men lie about this extensively. I try to be an honest voice of reason, but get booed by both crowds. Such is life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 08:29 PM
8	What is a the bitter truth for men about dating over 30 Really great and honest reply.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 08:28 PM
1	Woman who complain about ot being able to find a "good man" just have very high standards I don’t disagree that many women who complain about their dating options refuse to acknowledge their own smv. However, including “making as much as them” as a high standard is dumb. For all of human history, the least a man had to provide in order to pass on his genes was resources. Risking potential pregnancy while not being financially secure is a red flag in both sexes, and a clear sign that they will be unfit to parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 08:26 PM
1	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric I do. I’m not someone who indulges in cope or expects others to. I know that many men are unattractive to women and won’t be chosen because of it. That’s biology baby, no males of any species all get the opportunity to mate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 08:19 PM
0	One of the smartest comments on here recently really resonated with me about the current social environment Nothing in your comment made the wall of context you just added clear lol. I don’t see nearly as many women citing their reason for loneliness being a lack of options in sex and dating. I mostly see women talking about a lack of familial support when raising children and less opportunities to cultivate female friendships with age. I don’t doubt that there are women who feel lonely because of their inability to secure a partner they’re truly attracted to. I just don’t think it’s as prevalent as i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 08:15 PM
9	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric Maybe you live in a bubble of utopia that sympathizes with poor people, but I don’t. I live amongst liberals and even they despise poor people, especially the homeless. Americas attitude towards the poor in general is not kind at all. The exception being those who eventually experience it themselves, but before that, they typically don’t care. Also, being poor can make it so that you’re unable to access food, shelter, and water. Aka, your life is at risk. Not being able to date or have sex isn’t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 08:08 PM
8	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric Paying taxes doesn’t require an overriding of your bodily autonomy. Do you seriously not see the difference between giving the government money and being made to have sex with someone? Are you going to bend over for another man anytime soon just because he really really wants it? Prison abolitionist would agree that being made to give up one’s autonomy is wrong, that’s why they want to fix the current system. The greater good of who? Mens penises? Taxes being paid benefits the greater good becau…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 07:55 PM
2	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric Again, what else is there to say? Those are things that will make you more attractive, even if it’s by a minuscule amount. Someone who is not attractive to the opposite sex, outside of extensive plastic surgery, isn’t going to be able to naturally raise their smv more than a point or even just half of one. The exception being men making a bunch of money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 07:50 PM
18	Advice for unsuccessful men in romance vs advice for financially unsuccessful people and incel rhetoric vs socialist rhetoric What other solution is there? If you’re unattractive to the opposite sex, the only thing you can do is attempt to raise your smv. If you’re unable to do that, there’s nothing else that can be said or done. Some version of this take is asked on this sub everyday. There is no “solution” to the male loneliness epidemic because you can’t force women to date and fuck men they don’t like. So what advice are you actually looking for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 06:46 PM
–	is hyper-individualism ruining our relationships? Takes like this are fascinating to me because they can only exist by disregarding all of history and human nature. There has never been a time in which people pursued romantic relationships for utilitarian purposes. Especially heterosexual ones, which almost always result in offspring.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 06:38 PM
1	Better to lie to Women than be honest If a man’s loneliness is caused because he’s unable to get his penis wet without lying to a woman, he’s a loser and sex pest who should stick to blow up dolls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 06:33 PM
0	One of the smartest comments on here recently really resonated with me about the current social environment What do you mean by women being voluntarily lonely? I hope you’re not implying that because men are willingly to have sex with them that they shouldn’t be lonely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 06:28 PM
1	"Filtering out fuckboys" is a really dumb excuse for expecting men to pay for nice dinner dates True parasitism is expecting women to potentially risk pregnancy and childbirth while being too stingy to pay fifty bucks for dinner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 06:26 PM
1	Men are salesman, Women are marketers You’re correct. Women and men have vastly different roles in reproduction, with women’s position putting them in the position of chooser. “Romance” is men’s opportunity to show a woman he is heavily invested in her, and thus their potential offspring. Women attract said romance by displaying attractive physical qualities, mainly youth and beauty. Many on this sub will try to deny that this same dance exists amongst the “Chad’s” of this world, but the same does apply for them. Some highly attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 06:17 PM
1	Men and women are far more similar than they want to admit. What makes you believe that? There are numerous studies on male libido and their willingness to engage in casual sex. Religious and conservative men are no different, some might have amazing self control, but the desire is still there. Men even admit this about themselves. The difference is that if a man had the opportunity to settle down immediately with a wonderful woman, vs settling down after being able to get his fill with numerous women, he’d pick the latter. On the other hand, most women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 06:04 PM
6	How are men supposed to deal with being the hornier sex? Neuter yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 03:43 AM
7	Men and women are far more similar than they want to admit. I disagree, completely. Most men, if given the opportunity would be thrilled to bed a new attractive woman on a weekly basis. Eventually, he would settle down with a woman, but not until he’s had fun, and lots of it. Even if women had the opportunity to hook up with a different hot man for weeks on end, without the possibility of a relationship, they wouldn’t. I know that might be hard to believe since this sub takes the actions of women open to casual sex as a representative of the majority, bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 02:50 AM
–	You need three things for a successful dating cycle. I think this is a universal law that's true for everyone You only need one thing to be successful at dating, being attractive to the opposite sex. That’s literally it. That attraction can come naturally from your appearance, or you can supplement it with some form of status. Both women and men will overlook a plethora of red flags as long as the individual is attractive. Women and men who tell you otherwise aren’t typically trying to virtue signal, they’re just dense. It’s almost always highly attractive men that are successful with women that tell ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 11:59 PM
1	How did the patriarchy start in the first place? A small minority of females dominate. Those dominate females also use their status to subjugate lower ranking females. High ranking female Bonobos help their male sons rape, boy moms are a plague in every species. It would be like claiming that since England has a queen, they’re not actually patriarchal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 11:50 PM
3	Modern dating is one vicious cycle of overrating oneself and then going after the people better than us. Says the man whose entire argument is based on the fact that he believes women’s right to consent is somehow unfair. At least have the integrity to stand in your beliefs wholeheartedly instead of pretending that what you mean is about something else entirely. You’re upset that women have the right to chose who they date and have sex with, cool, just say that. Or maybe you really do lack reading comprehension and my explanations are wasted on you. If that’s the case, I hope reading lessons are in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 08:58 PM
1	The Wall exists but also doesn't Good luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 08:50 PM
3	The Wall exists but also doesn't As a woman, yes. It makes me very happy that I have the ability to choose not participate in the biological circus that is mating and reproduction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 08:32 PM
-1	The Wall exists but also doesn't Oof, I had previously seen her posts with lengthy captions trying to “disprove” the haters who don’t consider her as attractive anymore. I could tell it was coming from a place of deep rooted insecurity. Such is life, it’s a shame she didn’t develop a sense of self outside of her youthful beauty. I would be terrified to reach middle age believing I was invisible just because men have a normal preference for younger women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 08:30 PM
3	The Wall exists but also doesn't They don’t care. In an ideal scenario they would have an ever revolving harem of young hotties. Once you aged out, they would replace you. That’s why men without options just eye fuck younger women while out with their older girlfriends and wives. I can’t tell you how many times men have openly flirted with, or approached me with their age appropriate partner in tow. It’s one of the reasons I won’t be dating or getting married, I refuse to be a cuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 08:23 PM
0	The Wall exists but also doesn't Depends on the ages. A less attractive 25 year old but a truly beautiful 35 year old? The 35 year old would be considered more desirable. Anything over 35 and younger than 25 though, doesn’t really matter. Part of a man’s attraction towards a woman is her youth, in a sense, that is what makes her beautiful. Just like a man’s resources can make him more physically attractive to women despite what his facial aesthetics actually are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 08:03 PM
4	Modern dating is one vicious cycle of overrating oneself and then going after the people better than us. Yes, and equality means all humans are granted the same rights. Once again, your human rights cannot infringe onto another. So there is no version of equality in which you can argue that another persons consent violates your rights. Name an alternative that doesn’t infringe on a woman’s ability to consent to who she dates and has sex with. Name it. In the mean time, why don’t you start packing up your home. I’ve decided that I want it, and it’s unfair that it’s not mine. You and I both have the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 08:01 PM
3	Modern dating is one vicious cycle of overrating oneself and then going after the people better than us. Egalitarianism is the belief that all people deserve rights. Your rights cannot override another human beings consent. So yes, women having the ability to choose and exclude potential partners is egalitarian. You have the same right, your inability to secure a partner doesn’t change that fact. A woman you don’t find attractive or even another man can solicit you for sex, and you can say no. Is it unfair or somehow a sign of inequality if you choose not to engage with them? In a fair society, nob…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 06:58 PM
2	Who do you think needs more attention, males or women? And why? Both, they just crave it in different contexts. Men are desperate for sexual validation and would happily trade places with women if it meant being objectified for their bodies. Women on the other hand are just as desperate but for romantic attention. They want highly attractive suitors to compliment and court them. It would be great if both groups went to therapy instead of resenting each other for not getting what they want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 05:54 PM
3	Modern dating is one vicious cycle of overrating oneself and then going after the people better than us. The alternative is restricting women’s rights, so yes. Men already did that, and this is the result, their unattractive offspring raging about a woman’s right to choose who she dates and fucks. Do we get to capture all of the lions, force them into captivity, and then make the females mate with the males they never would have out in the wild? What would even be the purpose of that? Why do you want to do that to humans? You want to get laid, women don’t want you, there’s nothing that can be done …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 05:15 PM
4	The Wall exists but also doesn't Yes, this is true. It’s strange when people try to disprove the fact that aging makes one less physically attractive. Both women and men have an ideal that they consider the most attractive, but most won’t get it. Thats true in youth as well though. Men will always prefer younger women but most will still find some older women attractive, and will choose any partner over none at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 05:10 PM
4	Modern dating is one vicious cycle of overrating oneself and then going after the people better than us. An inability to get your peepee touched doesn’t disprove anything I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 04:26 PM
0	Modern dating is one vicious cycle of overrating oneself and then going after the people better than us. Yes, and that’s a result of it being the most egalitarian. You understand that in an egalitarian society, everyone has equal rights, which includes the right to choose who they date and have sex with. That requires consent, and if nobody consents to sex and dating with you, that’s them exercising that right. Sex and dating are naturally discriminatory, that’s fair and how it should be. In the past, more restrictions were put into place to coerce women into relationships that they would have othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 04:19 PM
5	Modern dating is one vicious cycle of overrating oneself and then going after the people better than us. Modern dating is the most egalitarian throughout all of human history, which is a good thing. Most people have no problem understanding why a person if given a choice, would choose the bigger newly renovated house. No one would bat an eye if someone with the funds chose a Porsche over a Honda. If you could have chosen you own body, wouldn’t you have chosen the best? Yet, when it comes to dating, people on this sub can’t seem to comprehend why the same applies to picking a partner. People have al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 06:42 AM
3	Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age? Men will always prefer younger women and find them more attractive. As long as they don’t intentionally prey on younger women’s naivety and groom underage girls, there’s nothing wrong with it. Now, their collective delusion that they get more physically attractive as they themselves get older is another story. Neither sex needs to rip on the other for simply existing past a certain age and your innate human value doesn’t decrease because of it. However, in discussing heterosexual dynamics(which …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 11:12 PM
1	How did the patriarchy start in the first place? Biology. All throughout the animal kingdom, even in species in which females are larger, there is an imbalance. The female and male biological imperatives are at odds. Males have a more insistent urge to mate and reproduce, so they’ve worked out ways to give themselves as many opportunities to do so. Humans just slapped a name onto it, patriarchy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 11:02 PM
1	Choose better is always the response when women are in bad relationships? Do you show the worse parts of yourself when just meeting someone? I’m a woman myself if that makes a difference. My whole life I have watched women walk right into bear traps without thinking twice, even if everyone is warning her not to. Women who want relationships with men and center their lives around romance are as desperate as men whose main motivation is sex. Just like those men will overlook red flags, potential diseases, and so on, so will women in the pursuit of a relationship. I’ve been cut off and ostracized for acknowledging the red flags my femal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 10:35 PM
1	“Women are hornier than men” Women misinterpret their libido under set and rigid circumstances as having a higher than usual sex drive. Every woman I know who claims to be hornier than men, is only talking about the context of being in a committed relationship with someone they find highly attractive. Remove the commitment and make the man less attractive, and the libido is gone. Men are the opposite, context doesn’t matter. Even the horniest of women wouldn’t be down to have sex with even %20 of men. Meanwhile, even men wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 10:06 PM
1	“Women are hornier than men” That study is greatly misinterpreted. The women in that study, many of whom were bisexual, were simply asked if they had experienced domestic abuse. When you look further into the study, most of them reported abuse from their relationships with men, not women. So no, lesbians don’t experience higher rates of domestic abuse while in relationships together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 10:00 PM
1	Do you think that it’s because of the way genitalia are constructed that the human mind perceives sex/cheating differently First and foremost, this is an extremely heterosexual take on the subject. Would a woman in a relationship with another woman be seen as less bad for cheating if she wore a strap on? Do gay men more easily forgive tops? Even within a heterosexual couple, if the woman cheats but only receives oral sex and no penetration, is it a less damaging offense? What if the other man doesn’t insert his own penis but uses a dildo instead? The only reason infidelity is thought of differently depending on the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 05:47 AM
3	The red pill men on youtube have 30 and 40 YEAR OLD WOMEN terrified of aging. Can we please normalize older women being just as beautiful as the 20 something year olds Men are attracted to younger women. Normalizing aging isn’t going to change that. Older women can still be attractive, but they’re never going to be considered as beautiful as younger women. If women are going out and slicing up their faces because they’re scared that they’ll no longer give men boners, that’s on them. Either develop a life and self esteem outside of being perceived as a potential attractive mate, or accept the terms and conditions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 05:38 AM
0	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Wanting a mate with a higher sexual value than you is hypergamy. Women and men are not the same and aren’t valued in equal measure. What makes a man more sexually attractive is going to differ from the traits that up a woman’s appeal. Just because these traits are different, doesn’t make valuing one over the other more or less hypergamous. Women wanting to secure men with access to more resources is a reproductive strategy. Men lusting after women’s youth and beauty is also a reproductive strate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 01:07 AM
2	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them As you should. Settling is the reason %99.9 of heterosexual couples are in a non stop bitch fest about how much they can’t stand each other. People incapable of being alone that end up taking the best that they can get, but resenting them for not being their preference. Both women and men who complain about what attracts the opposite sex are just frustrated that they don’t match said description.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/23 12:18 AM
1	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive What? How did you arrive at that conclusion? Unless in your mind you believe sexuality lessens a man or woman, I have no idea what you’re talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/23 11:10 PM
1	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them My argument is based on biology, nothing more and nothing less. Both women and men are attracted to specific features, most commonly those that highlight sexual dimorphism. Finding fault with women’s preference for height in men is as silly as judging female lions for wanting mates with larger manes. I’m a woman, I don’t judge men for having a preference for younger pretty women with narrow waist and wide hips. Why would I? Humans are animals and we behave as such, especially when it comes to ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/23 11:02 PM
2	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Men want partners that are better looking than them. Status is tied to appearance as well. So yes, men if given the opportunity will partner up with a woman out of their league looks wise. You would have no problem claiming an average looking woman going after tall facially attractive men was hypergamous. Although most men and women marry someone of the same economic status, when give the opportunity, women will marry up. The key word for both scenarios is opportunity. The vast majority of men a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 02:44 AM
1	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them The idea that I feel so different from the rest of humanity can often come across as cringe to others. I’m very neutral to it. Honestly, it elated me initially, realizing my observations were correct and that I wasn’t crazy despite what people were telling me. I just personally won’t be adding to the circus via my genetics, being a voyeur is enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 01:30 AM
3	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them They don’t. The most common female body shape is the ruler which is having little to no waist definition and narrower hips. Women have wider hips than men because men have extremely, extremely narrow hips, so it doesn’t take much to be wider than them. I’m an hourglass and have only known a handful of women throughout my life who are as well. Most of the women I see in everyday life don’t have defined waist or wide hips. Round hips are also uncommon, as more women have hip dips. Look at Pamela A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 01:20 AM
2	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them It’s cringe, but I’ve always felt different than the majority of those around me. I’m a studier of human nature and have always intently watched those around me. Thats how I came to believe such things as the blackpill before I even discovered the actual concept. I think reaching sexual maturity distorts us and makes us wretchedly selfish creatures. There are of course exceptions, but it’s extremely rare to come across them. I would have less of a problem with it all if we were at least honest, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 01:13 AM
1	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Exactly, that’s why I said both men and women participate in hypergamy. Both men and women would choose partners that rank above them in terms of either looks or status. %99.9 of all romantic relationships are transactional. Men settle as well and if their female partner doesn’t uphold her end of the bargain through labor and sex, his love also fades. Trying to demonize either sex for their shallowness is stupid, both men and women prioritize superficial traits and lose interest when their partn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 12:49 AM
1	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Unless you’re an antintalist like me, you should. This entire subreddit and the battle between the sexes is because both have a desire to gain the upper hand in reproduction, aka hypergamy. Birthing new people, especially heterosexual sons who will be considered unattractive is pointless. They’ll be miserable and resentful of the fact that they can’t attract women and reproduce themselves. I think it’s cruel to be honest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 12:41 AM
5	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them I know that, it’s a mating strategy, and a smart one at that. If someone is capable of securing an ideal mate with the features found most attractive, then they should. Man or woman, doesn’t matter, the next generation benefits from that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/23 12:17 AM
7	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them What’s not clicking. You cannot change your skeletal structure or redistribute your body fat into certain places. No woman is lifting her way into a new body shape. A minority of women on Instagram who use intentional angles, manipulative lighting, and shorts/pants with inseams to create an illusion of a more defined ass, to sell workout plans aren’t an accurate representation of the female body. Sure, you can build your glutes a bit, but no amount of working out will give Kate Upton or women bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 11:17 PM
7	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Same here! You just wake up with your body shape one day post puberty. I strength train and see so many women doing the same with the sole purpose of attempting to change their body shape. Unfortunately, it’s an extremely common misconception that keeps getting pushed by men and women alike who think that any woman can just “build an ass” in the gym. It’s just not true and we have genetics to blame for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 11:01 PM
5	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Men also don’t need to be 6 feet, yet both the hourglass figure and men’s height starting with a 6 are the ideal and most sought after. The pear body shape is only naturally occurring in about %20 of women and once again is due to fat distribution. Pear shaped women have naturally narrow shoulder, small rib cages, and fat that accumulates mostly on the thighs and buttock. Muscle gain, which is much less in woman is never going to produce an entirely new body type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 10:58 PM
3	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Yep, and I’m a supporter of hypergamy. I’m glad my biological father shot out of his league looks wise so that I could take after my mother and gain her attractive qualities. No man over 6 feet is going to think to himself “my mother was so shallow for seeking out my tall father and passing on his genes to me!” I refrain from sex, relationships, and reproduction myself, however those that partake should always go for the absolute best that they can attain. Their children will thank them later ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 10:52 PM
9	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Body shapes are due to bone structure and fat distribution which is genetic. An hourglass figure is determined by the width of your shoulders and hips. You cannot lift weights into an entirely new skeletal structure. Take Kate Upton for example. She is apple shaped, carrying more weight on top with narrow hips. She’s extremely fit and does strength training, she will never attain an hourglass figure and neither will the vast majority of women. Sure, everyone can lose weight and gain muscle, but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 10:40 PM
14	Hypergamy doesn’t really exist but women don’t know what attracts them Hypergamy exists in both of the sexes. The vast majority of people if given the opportunity, would choose the most attractive mate possessing the most sought after qualities. These qualities in both men and women are extremely rare. Hourglass figures are only thought to be had by about %8 of women. Men over 6 feet make up about only %10 of the population. The idealized image for a partner in somebody’s head hardly ever matches who they end up with. Despite this, most people cannot function witho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 10:22 PM
1	Light "creepy behavior" can be flirtatious and playful if she personally finds you attractive Yes, this is literally how attraction works. It’s no different than the discomfort most heterosexual men would feel about openly gay men making advances at them. If an openly gay man made a flirtatious comment and reached for your arm, you wouldn’t be jumping for joy. An attractive young woman on the other hand? Bingo, you’ve got it, the most basic and straight forward concept to understand that heterosexual men think they’re always discovering themselves for the first time. Brilliant, a modern …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 10:13 PM
1	Women who don’t have casual hookups are only appropriated online I can’t tell if you actually believe your own lies or if you’re purposely pretending in order to deflect. You have the proof directly in front of you and you’re still denying it. You put words in the OP’s mouth that were never said and continue to insist that they were. You have literally made up an argument that never existed in the first place. It’s either due to mental illness or failing to advance past a 4th graders level of reading comprehension. There is no projection here except your own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 03:01 PM
2	Women who don’t have casual hookups are only appropriated online You lack reading comprehension and pulled words out of thin air in order to make a failed attempt at winning a nonexistent argument. Now you’re doubling down. The no child left behind policy really did have disastrous consequences, it’s a shame you fell through the education systems cracks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 02:10 PM
4	Women who don’t have casual hookups are only appropriated online No she’s not. She never mentioned anything about women sleeping with men in a shorter amount of time. Your schizo typing in the attempts to make an “own” that you’ve made up. Run hamster run.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 03:58 AM
–	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! Okay, so finally we arrive back at your original point. You think unattractive women shouldn’t expect men to put in effort to date them. I don’t know why you had to pretend that’s not what you really meant by adding unnecessary context and projecting intentions onto that woman. Anywho, it’s a good thing that unattractive women remove themselves from the dating pool entirely instead of putting up with men who will resent them for having to “try.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 09:17 PM
2	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! Again, your added context has nothing to do with your original comment or the woman you responded to. You made no mention of your profiles specifics, you just stated that ugly woman still expect you to put in work. An unattractive woman responded saying that’s exactly the reason she doesn’t date and you tried to turn it around by assuming she’s only going after men out of her league that will use her for sex. Let’s be honest here, your original comment was true, many men expect less attractive w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:35 PM
1	How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women? Body types. An hourglass figure is mostly determined by bone structure, wide hips and shoulders that make the waist appear slimmer in comparison. That bone structure doesn’t change with weight gain. A thin woman with a straight up and down body type won’t become an hourglass with weight gain either. Your body type generally stays the same at different weights unless morbidly obese.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 09:53 PM
3	A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun! That’s not what you said though. You said that ugly women still expect you to put in work. That’s a common premise spouted on this sub and would be an obvious turn off for less attractive women looking for relationships. You moved the goal post by mentioning hooking up and assuming she’s shooting out of her league which has nothing to do with your original comment or hers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 09:37 PM
–	CMV: The 80/20 rule (or 90/10) for dating apps is correct, just not the narrative. The 80/20 idea came from dating app data and doesn’t reflect the real world. Firstly, the majority of people aren’t on dating apps. Dating apps attract a very specific demographic, and they still don’t represent the majority of the population. The study this is based upon also conveniently leaves out context. While women found %80 of the men they rated as unattractive, they still messaged those men. The opposite of men was true, they found more women attractive but only messaged the top %. These…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/23 10:19 PM
1	Why be angry at women over their attraction? ? Are you disputing the fact that for the majority of human history most men didn’t procreate? That’s an established fact. Before monogamy though marriage became mainstream, a minority of men fathered the majority of children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 10:16 PM
1	Why be angry at women over their attraction? Not really, that would be assuming that all of his predecessors had consensual relationships. Up until the popularization of monogamy, majority of men didn’t procreate. Many marriages, even today are arranged aka coerced. In the past it was even more common for a woman to be sold off or made to marry because her family could no longer take care of her. Kidnapping your bride wasn’t unheard of either. Many of the men alive today are struggling because if their female ancestors had a choice, they w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 09:54 PM