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| 61 | I'm worried I'm becoming a misogynist | General | omellil | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 04:09 AM |
| 11 | Jennifer Garrison and the cult of stupidity | Social Issues | omellil | /r/MensRights | 21/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 0 | "All Men are Trash" author: @chloebryan | Humour | omellil | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 06:56 PM |
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| 4 | Would you go to a male-only gym?ABSOLUTELY. Been casually taking about how I wished for a male-only gym for probably 20 years. -when I was new & very young & scrawny, didn't want girls seeing me exercise because I was self conscious. -when I got super fit, I didn't want the boy/girl dynamic when I was trying to focus on being super fit. Loved the attention from women in those days, naturally, but NOT AT THE GYM. -in my 40s now, I don't like being distracted by hot young girls I shouldn't (and don't want to) look at. Feels awkw… | /r/MensRights | 02/04/22 03:45 PM |
| 8 | "Wow, I could never get away with that."I get silly and play with random kids ALL THE TIME (42m) and I have done so as long as I can remember. Obviously don't physically touch them and make sure mom /dad is aware of the action, and you're basically fine | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Help me!I really hope this isn't downvoted to hell not because I care about the votes of whatever, but because it's sincere, but I feel like a lot of you are going to disagree with me (which is fine and understandable; you're probably all pretty normal people unlike OP or seems, and unlike myself) so all you well-intentioned normies, prolly you'll just never get it. First, I feel you. I feel your loneliness. I really, really do. I'm a loser 10x what you are I would wager, and it's largely due to my own … | /r/MensRights | 07/02/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this."My young son is likely to be short (Latina wife, he takes after her physically) he's already smallest in his daycare I'm so f*cking worried for him. I grew up with a couple guys in the 5'5 - 5'8 range as adults, and really got to see their struggles. It's no joke at all. I have no advice, but I sure do feel for you. Sounds like you could use as much support as you can get, so there's mine. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Feminist doctor shames men who feel psychologically damaged by male genital mutilation. Claims these men are "mansplaining" and have a "fragile male ego".Just checked out her twitter, read (skimmed) about 5 days worth, and I'm sorry but, What an Ignorant, Sexist Bitch. I really was just floored with a lot of it, tbh. And she's an A) doctor, and B) politician? Holy fudge, I'd be terrified if she were my family's doctor, and if just leave if I were anyplace that she held any sway or authority. Her poor sons. | /r/MensRights | 06/01/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | This account literally is a misandry accountOkay but, that's just hilarious, not only because it makes you want to cry and laugh at the same time, but also because you know 100% that whomever created it did so with absolutely no sense of irony. Amiright? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/18 04:47 AM |
| 1 | If your wife or girlfriend hits you during an argument for the first time, should you break up with her immediately and never go back to her? Why?Leave leave leave no matter what fucking RUN, lest what has happened to me, happen to you, as follows... a copy/paste of my own comment on another thread: This post hits home. My fucking wife is doing little things that hurt our 2 year old daughter, not seriously, but still causing pain, and because she's got a history of violence it's really worrying me. A bit of background: we've been together over 7 years, and in the first two while we were dating, there were a handful of incidents of her get… | /r/MensRights | 25/12/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Entitled to no punishmentThis post hits home. My fucking wife is doing little things that hurt our 2 year old daughter, not seriously, but still causing pain, and because she's got a history of violence it's really worrying me. A bit of background: we've been together over 7 years, and in the first two while we were dating, there were a handful of incidents of her getting violent while drinking that were WAY over the edge. Honestly I should have ran for the hills at the first whiff of violence, but what can I say? I was… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/18 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Canada descends into the dark agesI love our country, and as much as it pains me to acknowledge the fact, our Yankee friend is correct that it (is becoming/has become) a socialist shit hole. Furthermore, I don't believe there is a single political metric by which any reasonable person could conclude that Trudeau is superior to Trump. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/18 06:23 AM |
| -9 | Men in 2018I'm guessing you're in a place where prostitution is illegal? | /r/MensRights | 29/10/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Should women who make false rape accusations face the same or similar punishment to actual rapists? Why or why not?Save the "same or similar punishment" for perpetrators of paternity fraud. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | If I bequeath a scholarship for men. Is there anyway I can ensure it doesn't get stopped by the state?We can turn our shorter life expectancy into an advantage! Lol this is where we're at now. At least we may laugh at the hopelessness | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | If I bequeath a scholarship for men. Is there anyway I can ensure it doesn't get stopped by the state?If you have that kind of scratch, hire a lawyer, form a trust, have the scholarship managed by the trust with the lawyer as the trustee. You can never be 100% how the courts will decide if it is challenged, but that way you may at least know that it will be managed in the spirit of your interests, which is all you can ask. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/18 03:38 PM |
| 12 | So I just found out my girlfriend of a year is a radical feminist...Nah. Stick with the tl;dr, which is: You can't. Get it now. I only wish I would have received and followed the same advice before it was too late (read: children) | /r/MensRights | 17/10/18 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Tony Robbins shuts down #MeToo HecklerIf you like Tony Robbins, you'd love his mentors - Richard Bandler & John Grinder | /r/MensRights | 17/09/18 06:27 PM |
| 3 | The movie Gone Girl seems to be mainly about critiquing the way the society and media demonize men and favor women and how wives have the upper hand in marriages. But nobody seems to have noticed. Spoilers.David Fincher is a great director; I've enjoyed a lot of his films | /r/MensRights | 17/09/18 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Top South African engineer sacked after claiming women prefer 'family and raising children' rather than working in business. Mr Pillay said men seek high powered roles due to their 'appetite for work load', Whereas women want flexibility so they are able to care for their children.There is no shame in it; to the contrary, I would suggest caring for one's child(ren) could be something of which one may feel proud. Not only is it hard work, but what could possibly be more important? | /r/MensRights | 08/09/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | My Orgasm Is Not Your Property (So Stop Saying You Made Me Come)That's pretty much how most men approach sex, and is exactly what I was trying to describe in my post- as you say, you prefer focusing on her pleasure. Also, I never said I don't care about the other person, what I suggested was if each person took care of themselves, and in doing so two people found each other who were satisfied in those means, that would define compatibility, under the terms I outlined. Anyhoo, those are just my thoughts, just putting them out there. Not trying to convert you … | /r/MensRights | 07/09/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | What motivates you guys to stay in shape?I've found that my mind benefits from physical exercise more than my body. When I started, my goals were to look better; to not be insecure about my body; to attract women. Years later, none of those goals remain - Running achieves a mental state I can only compare to meditation,and after a long run, I feel so at peace with myself. My body is empty, all of my negative thoughts and emotion burned away by the same fire which has scorched my lungs, beaten to a pulp by the pounding of my heart,and I… | /r/MGTOW2 | 06/09/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | My Orgasm Is Not Your Property (So Stop Saying You Made Me Come)I've long found it interesting how men equate their whole sexual identity around pleasing women--a guy will brag about making a woman orgasm once or multiple times, even lie about doing so, even though it doesn't really benefit him at all. With casual sex/ random partners, it's even more bizarre when you think about it; you're likely not going to see that person again, so it's not like you can reap any future benefit upon future engagements with that person. A man's sexual self worth appears to … | /r/MensRights | 06/09/18 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Radical American Abortionist Meets Radical American Political Feminist Ideologue With Bias On the Brain... Beware The Rabbit Hole.Zakly. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/18 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Your little man has rights, tooBoth seem to me to be fair comments. That said, one can generally walk away from religion at any time, and ear piercing, while certainly permanent, is not a major ordeal with long term ramifications. Neither of those two applicable parallels remotely compare with the definite harm and potential loss of life which may occur as a by product of circumcision. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/18 07:26 PM |
| 5 | It's All Her Fault - The woman who founded the 'incel' movement - BBC NewsImma have to learn a little more about the incel community. What JP describes as "the crushing force of sexual selection" must often, it seems reasonable to assume, have an incredibly damaging effect on the human psyche, and given that we have roughly twice as many female ancestors as male (thanks again, JP) it stands to reason that men would bear the brunt of this. With that in mind, an incel community could be a hugely beneficial thing, though there are bound to be a few folks who go right off… | /r/MensRights | 30/08/18 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Some Institutions Just Can't See Thier Own Misandry Until It's Pointed Out To Them. Effacing The Male Is Like That.Nah, go check the Children's Society Twitter. It's (sadly) legit. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/18 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Some Institutions Just Can't See Thier Own Misandry Until It's Pointed Out To Them. Effacing The Male Is Like That.source? | /r/MensRights | 30/08/18 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How many guys here have attended counselling, or anger management courses, or anything similar to help get a handle on your actions and behaviour?Yup, and absolutely yup. Get a shrink, go as often as you can. They're amazing. I can't afford right now, I wish I could. Helped so much. For me, it was the ONLY time I could really talk; a shrink is like a paid best friend, the only friend you can really, truly, 100% trust that nothing ever leaves the room, who just listens and asks nothing in return. Except money. Lots of money. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/18 06:26 AM |
| 1 | So 81% of journalists killed were... menhttp://www.niemanlab.org/2017/10/the-share-of-women-in-newsrooms-has-increased-barely-1-percentage-point-since-2001-asne-data-shows/ According to niemanlab, hardly advocating from an MRA, perspective, 39% of journalists overall are women, further illustrating the stupidity of this statistic. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | I love the FB page named "Motherly". They always post about how being a father is just as important as being a mother in parenting & how children need their fathers. So wholesome.Fair enough- that may be true, for you, and for some others as well I'm sure. But as you say, you hear this expressed so often; it's probably a reasonable generalization for most people, although there are always bound to be exceptions. I'm sorry that you would not be able to experience the depth of joy and love common to most people from having children. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I love the FB page named "Motherly". They always post about how being a father is just as important as being a mother in parenting & how children need their fathers. So wholesome.Generally speaking, when you see a bunch of "literally" and "actually" type words, it's both misuse and exaggeration. Kids are literally, actually, completely & absolutely the greatest love you will experience you in your life. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | I love the FB page named "Motherly". They always post about how being a father is just as important as being a mother in parenting & how children need their fathers. So wholesome.Can't watch this video right now - makes me think about my kids and start to tear up. Would be inappropriate to cry in this truck stop eating breakfast. I miss my kids so much. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/18 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Suggestion: If Men's Rights Activists are tired of being lied about and being misrepresented by the CBC, then Operation Canadian BaCon II might be for youThanks for posting this; I'll certainly be intervening. I used to love the CBC, however for some time now I haven't been able to bear listening to Radio 1, because of exactly the bias in journalism you describe, in a multitude of manifestations beyond just gamer gate | /r/MensRights | 12/08/18 02:36 AM |
| 6 | I'm pretty ripped from going to the gym twice a day most days and all the women at work keep grabbing my biceps and triceps and getting clearly aroused.In my 20's I was really athletic and encountered the same on numerous occasions. BTW I'm straight, and it was women of all varieties and ages. I never made a huge fuss about it as I never felt like a victim, however I did point out the inequality were the shoe to be placed on the other foot. Predictably, it was always sloughed off with some stupid comment which would typically reinforce the double standard, eg "C'mon you know you like it" after which time I always knew there was no point to enga… | /r/MensRights | 29/07/18 04:44 AM |
| 8 | 'What century is this?’ Shoppers’ outrage over inflatable ‘perfect woman’ on sale in Peacocks – and the doll is ‘sexy’ and ‘nag-free’ Hypocritical of them to be outraged: How many products are sold aimed at women with men the target of the humour?It's not nagging, it's "toxic feminity"? | /r/MensRights | 27/07/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Jennifer Garrison and the cult of stupidityI could hardly agree more. After the first two paragraphs it became increasingly painful to read, and it was all I could do to finish the thing. By the end, I felt a deep sense of relief for just being done. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | MRM and the Pro Life Movement: How feminism turned me pro lifeI view abortion as a personal choice. I happen to be pro life for myself, however I wasn't always, and there are certainly compelling arguments on both sides. Roe v Wade is a great read, from what I recall, and this thread makes me want to revisit it. That said, I feel rights and responsibilities should be universal. While I fully respect that where I live (Canada) abortion is legal, the rights associated are only afforded to women, yet the corresponding responsibilities are largely doled out to… | /r/MensRights | 03/05/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Vancouver has women's only apartments nowI've lived in Vancouver my whole life. Women only apartments have been made available to women for at least a decade, as I recall. | /r/MensRights | 18/03/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | #MenAreAwesome??? This is just saying men built this, and that those who did so were supporting families. There is no comparison. I'm sure 1,000 other comments say the same lol | /r/MensRights | 10/02/18 08:26 AM |
| 7 | My mom is a domestic abuser but she got my dad arrested for domestic abuse.So common, in my life as well. Mom screaming at dad, slapping him, he raises his voice and ~boom~ cops called, dad hauled away. Happened twice. During the divorce, she ran off to a women's shelter with my sister and I (small children) to, you know, support her case. Pretty sure my dad never touched her, not once, not ever. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/18 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.Totally different life, exactly same results. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.If that's really true, then good for you, really. I suspect you've never felt the wrath of a spurned woman yet, though; your thoughts may change when you do. Fight the good fight! | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.This fucking thread is killing me, I can't stop laughing. Are you all 20 years old? Hey I'm not complaining though; it's not at all harmful outside of maybe making men look bad, but we're all fucking trash supposedly anyways so who cares? | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.lol I don't really miss being young. That's a shit comment btw, but if you're as young as I think you are you get a pass. I'm truly laughing at the computer screen. So simple, blunt, and honest. And inappropriate. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.YES! Exactly. You're at their mercy. They get mad, maybe they slap you; ya you'll live but then you're in an argument and she's hitting you and there's nothing you can do. If you even try to talk reasonably it generally escalates things because she's mad already and not thinking clearly; call the cops and you're the one getting arrested more often than not; leave and go get a room, sure, spend some cash and miss your kids and then you have to have a long discussion about why you're bad when you … | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:41 AM |
| 0 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.Exactly, precisely, concisely, this. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.Sometimes you can just not be in the mood. Maybe shit is happening in your life. I dunno. I recall even when I was a younger man being plenty sexually active and having beautiful girlfriends, but not being in the mood sometimes. And when you get older, that drive decreases, and honestly it's kind of a nice feeling when it decreases, not being a slave to your dick all the time lol, except when your wife is pressuring you for sex all the time. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.Truth. Try telling women that, though. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.I'm pretty sure that law only applies to women. Really, I think that's the law, but admittedly I'm not 100% certain. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Men have unwanted sex with women in order to conform to gender expectations and to avoid uncomfortable interactions finds new research by an NYU sociologist.Story of my life; isn't it the same for most/ all of us? I really couldn't count the times I've endured unwanted sex. It's in the hundreds, it's basically normal, for me at least. It's always happened, and is even far more common now that I'm nearly 40 years old. Seriously is this news? Doesn't everyone do this, if we're being honest? Have you ever tried rejecting women for sex? I've done that multiple times as well, but the ratio of times I've endured unwanted sex relative to those times I've r… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/17 05:28 AM |
| 8 | I'm worried I'm becoming a misogynistI didn't do right, but thanks anyways though. I could explain it away with entitlement and privilege, and if that were the only thing, I might. Did you read the part about excessive drinking? Angry disposition? That's not healthy stuff, and the thing with the girl, however trivial, was a manifestation of that. It's not the beef itself that's the problem so much as why & how it happened. It was two 10lb dumbbells, and there were more of the same, and hardly any male uses those dumbbells anyways. … | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 07:33 AM |
| 2 | I'm worried I'm becoming a misogynistThanks for your great response, much of it rings true to me. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 07:21 AM |
| 13 | I'm worried I'm becoming a misogynistYeah, I admit there's a part of me that sometimes looks at MGTOW and thinks, "that doesn't look all bad..." except I'm a married father lol | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Married cheerleading coach busted for having sex with studentThanks for your reply; I'll try and answer your question. Unlike the mind of a 35 year old, the mind of a 17 year old isn't fully developed, no matter how cool my Porsche may be. The 35 year old always has control. That's unfair, and in the interest of brevity & clarity : that is how, exactly, someone is being taken advantage of. If there are exceptions, they are rare. As far as I can conceive, and please understand that I am sincerely not trying to be rude, there are only three options: You may… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Married cheerleading coach busted for having sex with studentAlright, if that's how it is then fair enough. I respect your opinion, but I don't think you and I could ever be friends. I suspect that if you actually saw me (or someone like me) taking advantage of a young girl like that (and that's EXACTLY what it would be) you wouldn't in practice be quite so chill. But if you say so, I'll take you at your word. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Ann Coulter: ‘I’ll happily take 69 cents on the dollar, if I never have to pay for dinner’I'll happily give Miss Coulter 0.31¢/hr more than me, and let's put her & hers in a job where every time someone is seriously injured or dies at work, it's pretty much always one of them. Oh, and I won't moan and complain about the pay inequality, not even once, I promise. Aaaaaand you don't even have to buy me dinner! Just a freebie for ya! I worry about not coming home to my pregnant wife and daughter every time I go to work. I do the job and take the risk and hope the insurance I buy with my … | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Married cheerleading coach busted for having sex with studentI could go hang out around my local high school and seduce some 17 year old girls, too. They would consent and have a great time. I bet I could get them to show up in court and tell the judge it was true love, even! So, that would be okay with you? | /r/MensRights | 19/11/17 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Will You Help CAFE Open the First Shelter for male victims of domestic violence & their children?If I fork over the 10k for the named room, can you please make sure it (or another like it) is left open for my daughter and I? I wish this were a joke. | /r/MensRights | 16/11/17 03:26 AM |
| 4 | Have any of you been sexually assaulted or harassed? Why is society acting like it’s something that only happens to women?I think almost all men have suffered sexual assault and physical assault. I've had my ass grabbed by woman strangers at least 4 times I can remember, the first time I was maybe 15. I've been raped by a woman. I've been slapped or otherwise hit by, I would guess, ten female partners over my life when they were angry. I've never groped or struck a person, woman or man, with the exception of two fist fights at the ages of 10 & 13. Of course, I'm larger than the women who have hit me, however if the… | /r/MensRights | 13/11/17 10:34 PM |
| 1 | So how many male feminists or white knights have been outed as sexual predators so far? Life comes at you fastI've only skimmed over the emerging Louis CK issue, and it's my understanding based on what little I've read that he made offers to numerous women with whom he worked, or who were colleagues. Also, it's my understanding, which again may be incorrect, that these were just offers; he never coerced anyone or forced himself upon anyone. Also, from what I gather, the offers were generally sexual in nature and in some cases pretty vulgar. SO... assuming that I have a basic grasp on what occured, What … | /r/MensRights | 11/11/17 06:37 AM |
| 1 | So how many male feminists or white knights have been outed as sexual predators so far? Life comes at you fastJian Ghomeshi, the Pioneer. Couldn't happen to a more misguided, innocent guy. | /r/MensRights | 11/11/17 06:08 AM |
| 4 | I never knew men could experience gender discrimination in the workplace... Until today.Is there anyone else? I would suggest almost everyone, myself among them. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/17 08:12 AM |
| 5 | Why do so few men take gender studies courses? | Gee guys, I don't know. It's a complete mystery to me; do you have any explanation for it...? /sThat is so absurd I would think it better suited to The Onion. Article is from 2012 btw. | /r/MensRights | 06/11/17 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Because some people are slow here's the actual screenshot to prove my pointSomeone in this sub is full of something, that's for sure... | /r/MensRights | 06/11/17 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Difference Between Propaganda and RealityAlthough you'll definitely encounter some just anger towards feminist ideas which many here feel are harmful towards general society and, in particular, men, I don't think you'll find too many people here who "hate feminists," first of all. Second, if you've never heard a feminist speak in opposition to the nuclear family, then I would like to suggest that maybe you're not seeing the broader picture. Feminists have for some years successfully supported the notion that raising children and lookin… | /r/MensRights | 05/11/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | My buddy is in an abusive relationship, how do I help him see it?Even if he does see it, there's not much to do about it afterwards, with little to gain and a lot to lose. Still, that doesn't necessarily mean that it's wrong to fight the good fight. Maybe start by watching The Red Pill with him, see if he warms to that (in particular the male abuse portions) I'd suggest talking baby steps until he reaches the conclusion himself | /r/MensRights | 05/11/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Michelle Obama Says That Women Need To Stop Babying Their SonsI say that Michelle Obama's comment suggests she lacks understanding and possibly parenting skills | /r/MensRights | 05/11/17 09:30 PM |
| 7 | Andrea Leadsom suggests men should not be nannies because they may be paedophilesI suggest Andrea Leadsom be counted among the large number of sexist idiots | /r/MensRights | 05/11/17 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Againstmensrights trying to argue why unsuccessful suicide attempts are more important to worry about than actual deathsI suspect female suicide attempts are in-line with sexual harassment against females, which is to say they are likely vastly exaggerated; answering "Yes" on a survey or taking a few extra aspirin are to a suicide attempt what getting a smile and a wink from an interested male is to sexual harassment. Only, in these times, it seems so-called "strong, empowered feminists" are so bluntly traumatized by a man expressing interest in them that there's nothing left to do, except go home, drink half a b… | /r/MensRights | 04/11/17 08:03 AM |
| 2 | My university is advertising jobs which are 'female only' positions, this blows my mindI dunno about you folks, but I just couldn't resist applying. I don't think I'll get the job, but I hope they get the message. | /r/MensRights | 02/11/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this would have been acceptable if and older male had asked a group of young females what ‘base’ they’ve been to? [4:10]Ah! It all makes sense now; up until your Siskel & Ebert (sic?) moment there, I'd been reading all your posts and trying to reply in turn, but if you on the other hand have just skimming through my comments, then it makes sense why you keep asking questions I've already answered (and in some cases repeated answers). I almost started cutting examples, but I don't think there's any point. I don't think you understand terms like "context" based on what you've written, and to what you've applied the… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you think this would have been acceptable if and older male had asked a group of young females what ‘base’ they’ve been to? [4:10]Tl;Dr your movie list, but thanks. I skimmed through your comment as well; I feel I've already addressed most of what I gathered present as questions, but you have your views and that's fine. It still appears that you're trying to put words in my mouth, I suggest you just kinda go back and read what I said again if you want to continue this conversation. BTW, you are under 30, no kids, ya? | /r/MensRights | 27/10/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this would have been acceptable if and older male had asked a group of young females what ‘base’ they’ve been to? [4:10]I don't recall saying cultural values should be universal; you're putting words in my mouth in what appears to be an attempt to create an argument you feel you can win. What I did do, however, was suggest that our boundaries lay very far apart, which I guess I'll now repeat, in order to illustrate that what you are trying to say for me is the opposite of what actually occurred. Have a nice day. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this would have been acceptable if and older male had asked a group of young females what ‘base’ they’ve been to? [4:10]3rd paragraph. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/17 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you think this would have been acceptable if and older male had asked a group of young females what ‘base’ they’ve been to? [4:10]I stronly disagree. With all my heart. It's not appropriate to talk to children like that. No, my daughter isn't a wilting flower, as you say, and either am I. I am a parent, and I don't curse around my child, nor act flippant surrounding sexuality. I understand my position as a father and that how I and her mother act will influence how my daughter feels is appropriate for herself to act. Of course she will be exposed to cursing, vulgarity, and such, but not from me. And when she is exposed to … | /r/MensRights | 27/10/17 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you think this would have been acceptable if and older male had asked a group of young females what ‘base’ they’ve been to? [4:10]Imagine the whole video, not just the "bases" part, but picture a middle aged white male, saying the exact same words. The woman is vulgar, crass, inappropriate all over the place. I'm constantly awed by this kind of thing. | /r/MensRights | 27/10/17 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Reverse-Gender Catcalling Fails To Produce The Intended Response In This Funny, Sad Experiment | Fast CompanyAgreed | /r/MensRights | 26/10/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Reverse-Gender Catcalling Fails To Produce The Intended Response In This Funny, Sad Experiment | Fast CompanyI wouldn't go so far as to say they're not bright, just not objective / independent thinkers. Good hardware, just bad software, you know? Too bad it wasn't so easy as formatting the drive and reinstalling from scratch. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/17 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Reverse-Gender Catcalling Fails To Produce The Intended Response In This Funny, Sad Experiment | Fast CompanyIt's odd to me that they are surprised; in light of how much we men do to try and satisfy our sexual needs via pornography, strip clubs, and prostitution, and the various risks we take in doing so, I would figure it would be obvious to women that men are mostly all undernourished in terms of sexual health & well being. I can't say we're starved, but we're thin, and the above mentioned outlets are a poor substitution for a great partner with whom one enjoys a great relationship & satisfying sex. | /r/MensRights | 25/10/17 09:31 AM |
| 1 | My ex [25F] took my [25M] clothes off when I was too drunk to really move or say anything to stop it and had sex with me, I just let it happen, it still sticks with me.Really? It seems you don't know what snide (I think 'snide' would be the correct usage, not 'snidey', since we're using our brains) means, because I can't imagine how my comment (singular) could be seen as ironic or malicious. Your reply, on the other hand... So, uh, chill maybe? Nobody is attacking you, or, at least I'm not, but I digress. I don't know what part of the world you're from (although I could probably guess) but where I live the nature of the relationship doesn't matter. Even if you… | /r/MensRights | 24/10/17 03:12 PM |
| 1 | My ex [25F] took my [25M] clothes off when I was too drunk to really move or say anything to stop it and had sex with me, I just let it happen, it still sticks with me."I wouldn't go so far, because he didn't communicate his lack of consent, neither during nor after the fact." No means no, silence means no... wait, that's only for women I forgot sorry https://carletonjhr.com/2013/06/25/new-centre-aims-to-educate-students-on-realities-of-sexual-assault/ (sorry old link just grabbed the first thing to pop up) | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 10:04 PM |
| 1 | My ex [25F] took my [25M] clothes off when I was too drunk to really move or say anything to stop it and had sex with me, I just let it happen, it still sticks with me."Even if she did sexually assault you, I don't see how you could win at court where you theoretically have to prove this beyond a reasonable doubt." I kinda don't even want to spell out the double standard | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | My ex [25F] took my [25M] clothes off when I was too drunk to really move or say anything to stop it and had sex with me, I just let it happen, it still sticks with me.Your story closely mirrors how I lost my virginity, with a few differences. In my instance she wasn't my girlfriend, but a girl whom I'd been refusing for a few weeks. She wasn't attractive to me physically, first of all, and she was trying to convince me again and again to just have random sex with her. Not very appealing to a teenage virgin. I was super intoxicated, and she slipped over when she saw my friend helping me stumble back home. She slipped into my living room through the sliding doo… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Japanese men in their twenties want male-only train cars to avoid false accusations of sexual harassment.Fair comment. The distraction portion of what I wrote is, as a you pointed out, not a uniquely male issue to be sure. I'm sorry you feel extremely guilty about women's only sections /hours, and when you factor in religious issues, it certainly does make things more complicated. I won't say anything about the religious implications because I haven't previously considered that end of things, and I'm certain whatever I wrote wouldn't be well thought out (I'm a slow thinker lol) | /r/MensRights | 21/10/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Japanese men in their twenties want male-only train cars to avoid false accusations of sexual harassment.I'm sure that's also true for women that men are distracting, however I doubt women receive anything comparable in terms of hostility from male counterparts in the event they do glance in a man's direction, be it a result of distraction, or if they are simply using equipment unavoidably in line of sight. If it were just distraction and not the hostility, I'd probably feel as you do. In any event, it must be nice to at least have the option to have a women's only hour. At my gym, they have a whol… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/17 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Japanese men in their twenties want male-only train cars to avoid false accusations of sexual harassment.For years I've been talking about how I wish there were a male-only fitness centre/gym I could go to. I couldn't count the number of times a woman was unavoidably in my line of sight while using a bench/machine/whatever and I've been subjected to dirty looks and occasionally rude comment for my so-called leering and ogling. On occasion, there will be a woman who I actually find attractive, and that's the worst of all; I have to very consciously avoid them not only for fear of repercussion should… | /r/MensRights | 21/10/17 06:26 AM |
| 1 | A story from a feminism page :/Forgive my stupidity, but precisely what is called censorship, which I have bought into? My opting not to vent negative emotions for lack of what I feel to be a safe forum? | /r/MensRights | 19/10/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Found this in a shopping center toilets in Melbourne Australia.That's really nice to sse, makes me feel good. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/17 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Make a #MeToo thread here?I wouldn't call it a "female thing" because there's some great females out there (Karen Straughan thank you so much!) and I don't think all of them would necessarily like to be associated with #metoo. Unless you meant that only females were allowed to join in without fear of (real) harassment? | /r/MensRights | 19/10/17 07:16 AM |
| 1 | A story from a feminism page :/Then I certainly misunderstood, and thank you for clarifying. That said, much of what I wrote still applies; I still worry about the "cut & paste" potential of your post; I still bottle up a lot of anger surrounding gender issues for a lack of a place to safely vent; I still hope to see change, someday. | /r/MensRights | 19/10/17 07:10 AM |
| 1 | A story from a feminism page :/You know, I feel so much fucking anger inside whenever a lot of issues come up. Like circumcision. The worst part though is that I can't justify venting it, because I feel someone will cut & paste a link to illustrate "See how bad MRA's are? Look what this one wrote!" Even anonymously, it just paints us all bad. And I do care, because I want to see change take place. That said, it feels horrible to just never let it out and bottle it up inside, as I have been for-fucking-EVER, so that I can (hop… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/17 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Make a #MeToo thread here?I don't feel it's inappropriate, however I do disagree because I feel the #metoo campaign is counter productive no matter what perspective I try and view it from. Furthermore, I find it generally distasteful and would like to distance myself from it as much as possible, and if it were to become a 'thing' here, then I'd have to look at it more frequently. Having just looked at twitter, it seems that expressing sexual interest has somehow been perverted into being viewed as a form of harassment. I… | /r/MensRights | 19/10/17 03:19 AM |
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