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| 5 | Women looking out for other women. Male aggressor in the same house as the victim while on zoom with judge. This is power play at it's worst and horrifyingThis judge and DA have had a wild week of Zoom hearings. There was also one with a guy trying to get his license back... From the drivers seat of his car 🤦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:02 PM |
| 29 | “Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.Thank you for reminding me I can pop my pecs, it's going to be my whole morning now 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 01:33 PM |
| 11 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.The only "CF" men I've met are too lazy to get a vasectomy, and usually are the ones to suddenly become fathers because they're also haphazard and lazy with their sperm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:16 AM |
| 10 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!Who tf falls in love with an $8 ring?! Who thinks a man spending $8 on junk jewelry is sPeCiAl? You'd be better off buying a Subway footlong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:44 PM |
| 9 | Having boundaries does not make you controlling or insecure, and cut anyone out of your life who tells you otherwise.If he can't remember what I look like naked when I'm not around without a photo reference, then he's not worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 01:14 PM |
| 15 | This is why it’s so important to have financial independence and a career as a woman, so if your partner runs out on you one day, you won’t be blindsided like this poor mother of 3 young kidsI'm pretty sure this is any divorce attorney's DREAM And new woman probably won't want him around once the lawyers are done with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:20 PM |
| 10 | How is it that, in an age of supposed "dating equality," women still get the short straw?Ffs I'd say we must have the same ex, but the 40 hour full time job with good benefits (benefits being the reason I agreed to marry in the first place) disappeared shortly after the 1st wedding anniversary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 19 | Had to share because it made me crack up! Can’t even offer to but me a whole meal!Bet he ended the date because he was big time butt hurt that a woman beat him at Ping Pong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | I don't have a good title this is just hilariousTl;dr, a lot of Americans are puritanical idiots https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/555770/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 5 | “I’m part Viking” Avoid Men Who Fake Their Ancestry or Try to Claim Their Ancestors Accomplishments As Their OwnThey always pick Cherokee because Cherokee tribes had the most open rolls. It's also a coded way for old white people to say there's a couple of black folks in their ancestry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 15 | “I’m part Viking” Avoid Men Who Fake Their Ancestry or Try to Claim Their Ancestors Accomplishments As Their OwnDidn't they try to ban the Vikings rather than just wash their asses 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:38 PM |
| 24 | Want your friend to finally figure out that her guy is an lvm? Send her a beautiful bouquet for Valentine's Day.Hot tubbing and a prime rib dinner with my bff when she gets off work tomorrow. I also made some shortbread thumbprint cookies with a homeade strawberry lemonade jam. Her crummy boyfriend hasn't planned anything (just like Xmas) so I figured I'd swoop in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:16 PM |
| 4 | I said “men are actually awful” and this is the response I’m getting. I said this in response to a woman who said that she was harassed by a man. why is there more outrage over a statement instead of the fact women are literally being harassed?Sometimes I can't sleep at night wondering where all those clowns from the Clown Year went | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 01:49 PM |
| 6 | Women are showing her/his side of the bed differences and they are disgusting. He looks like a homeless slob while her side is clean and organized. The anger in the comments from men is palpable 🤮🤮Yeah that's why I have dogs. Sure, they bark at nothing a lot, but at least they try | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 12 | I am so beyond done being the mommy-maid-therapist figure and I honestly think I will remain single for the rest of my life. Love is simply not enough.At this point we should just call it Man Brain since 99% of them act like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 19 | Real article from a real estate agency in Bathurst, regional New South Wales AustraliaSame! Spent less than 20 grand on my house almost 12 years ago. Never had an ex bf or husband who lifted a finger around here, but lord knows all my women friends and family are always the first to offer help on a project/repair (funny how all the women I know have more experience in construction and repairs than 99% of men I know) This place is cosmetically rough looking but quadrupled in value because I replaced all the major things (roof, wiring, furnace etc). I can't wait to finish floors, f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 01:49 PM |
| 7 | mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiMMy auntie, bless her heart, was complaining that her 3 grown sons still live with her. She admitted they have it too good to ever leave and that they need to find wives. My normally LVM brother actually went off on her that it's extremely unfair to expect some other women to deal with her man children and "that's a fucked up mentality to have" I was stunned to say the least | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:42 PM |
| 4 | The housework user typeOmg WASHING WALLS NVX was blown away when I washed the walls. "I don't think my mom ever did that" "Your mom has smoked indoors in her house for 30 years and her walls and ceilings are spotless. How do you think that happens?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 02:18 PM |
| 12 | Men's friendships aren't 'stronger' or 'deeper' than women's friendships.Yup, and then you're accused of "stealing" YOUR friends from them and being a hateful bitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:05 PM |
| 17 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.Damn, I JUST deleted the message request I got from an ex back in November before I read this Oh well, next time 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:46 PM |
| 19 | Can we talk about the sexism in medicine??One summer I scratched a quarter sized patch of eczema on my leg while doing yard work, it got infected and blew tf up very quickly, so I got my doctor's office to squeeze me in with the first available. My entire knee is red, swollen, itching, hot to the touch and dripping pus and fluid at this point. The male doctor I saw barely looked at it. Acted like I was exaggerating about the pain, and decided I was lying about cleaning it and that cortisone cream wasn't doing squat. He prescribed me 3 d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 11 | Desperate, Deluded PickMe™️ Proposes to Her Felonious Prince the Day He Comes Home from JAIL. Pickmeisha Now Swears Her Life is ‘The Notebook 2’.......(Swipe for a wild & tragic ride.)Right? My mom would beat my ass and his if I pulled this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 07:28 PM |
| 42 | The "Unconditional Love" mindset is toxic and you should refrain from itUnconditional love is only for pets and young children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 03:20 PM |
| 5 | LVM in disguiseIf he's a shit romantic partner, there's a reason why his marriage didn't work even if it was "arranged". You also will never truly know what kind of parent he is until you physically see it. Scrotes who shake babies will claim they're father of the year and love their kids more than anything... all the way through their prison sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.Yup, my brother fucked off with suicide threats once I told him I WOULD have him taken to the hospital for observation, and by the time he'd be out our mother and I would put him into inpatient treatment for his drinking and mental health issues if it was THAT BAD. It's been 2 years and he quit drinking and is behaving like an adult now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:10 PM |
| 3 | What having a service dog taught me about menI divorced a person last year who told my best friend they were jealous of the time and attention I spent on her and my pets The biggest slap in the face was that I spent over 3 years paying for everything and doing everything else while they did the usual lazy unemployed scrote shit. They literally lived like my dogs do, just with far less gratitude 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:18 PM |
| 7 | What having a service dog taught me about menIt gets wilder once your dog gets old. Towards the end of her 12 year life, my St Bernard had mobility issues. Due to COVID and unemployment, I was able to devote all my time to her. I had a NVM I knew for 15 years tell me my priorities were "messed up" because I had to help my dog up, let her outside with the others, change water and give out medication, instead of ignoring my dog and listening to him whine for HOURS STRAIGHT about his NVM problems he brought on himself. I threw his ass out of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 61 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”Right? Like how tf are you going to let an "immature" person raise your kids then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:40 PM |
| 11 | So this women who suffer's from loneliness and social anxiety (check her oldest videos) travelled across the world to meet a guy she met online. She paid for all the travel expenses and went to meet him in the middle of a pandemic YIKES. Does he give you red flags?This is how a friend of mine moved states a few years ago (never met the man IRL, didn't tell anyone she was moving until the last minute), annnnnnnd she just moved back here because she's divorcing the abusive scrote who lured her away in the first place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 19 | When older men shame younger girls that they need to have kids ASAP for biological reasons, but still think they are forever fertile. Rant in the comments:I went to high school (early 2000s) with a guy who's dad LIVED THROUGH THE GREAT DEPRESSION. This old man was a lawyer who hoarded food scraps and trash and regaled us with really sad stories about his childhood (Tbf, I did learn a lot about the 1920s and 30s) He had 5 siblings, ages 12-40. Turns out his father was on his 4th wife and pretty much traded them in like an old car every 10 years or so. I never met the 4th wife, but lord even at 15 I felt nothing but pity and confusion for her after … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:24 PM |
| 3 | They never change! Abusive husband on fetlife"Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft is amazing and necessary reading. I don't know if I could have navigated 2020 without it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:59 PM |
| 15 | Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is.I love telling them "I know" when men tell me I'm pretty. "Oh I'm sure all kinds of boys say that to you" "Actually I own mirrors and go to the eye doctor regularly." Tf do they think we'll say? "Oh no, Papa forbade mirrors lest I fall prey to vanity, have a crumb of pussy good sir" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:21 PM |
| 11 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?It was when I broke my toe in several places, and my best friend and my mom had to come over daily to make sure I wasn't dragging my ass out of bed to take care of my dogs and try to clean up. Waking up to my friend and my mom cussing out my unemployed, game addicted, lazy, fat, sex pest of an ex made the 5 years I'd been married to that person hit me like 5 different trains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 11 | "MeN dOnT gEt AnY CoMpLiMeNtS"I fled when one was like "Did you see me do skateboard trick?" I was already planning my escape when I saw he brought a skateboard to meet me at the farmer's market, when he said that I told him I think I had diarrhea from too much iced coffee and had to go home FAST. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:27 PM |
| 9 | I am speechlessI've watched enough true crime and lived long enough to know to just let a man talk and he'll eventually tell on himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:17 PM |
| 15 | As if we didn’t all see it coming but OOOF are these pandemic relationships are gonna end badly 🤡😬Seriously, I was just starting to go out with friends again. I was at a show when my school robocalled me to say campus was closed until further notice. Now, with 9 months of dudes sliding in my DMs, friends telling me about their new or old failing relationships in between trying to set me up with their bf's nasty friends, god I'm glad I've been in my house alone for so long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:14 PM |
| 12 | As if we didn’t all see it coming but OOOF are these pandemic relationships are gonna end badly 🤡😬I didn't even feel bad the other day when I said to one of my friends (who started a pandemic relationship with a LVM and I've been hearing alllllll about it) that I'm totally judging all these pandemic relationships and can't wait until they end | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:09 PM |
| 1 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't.It's sad I felt safer bolting down a bum trail to a bus stop after that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:03 PM |
| 5 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't."I'm amazing at oral" Weak tongue, cold weird little mouth, couldn't ever find clit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 2 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't."I'm a great baker" You are not Paul Hollywood just because you destroyed your mom's kitchen once to make a checkerboard cake. I had to explain to them they need to SOFTEN BUTTER before trying to make cake batter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:01 PM |
| 51 | “My boyfriend thought we’d been engaged for two months. I had no idea.”Eh, I never heard shit from my ex's family even though my ex MIL allegedly agreed to cater (according to ex). After a few months I opted for a basic courthouse wedding then a restaurant afterwards because I was getting no help from anyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 7 | Open Relationship?"Love is infinite" sounds like all those scrotes who talk about "unconditional love" when what they want is a bangmommy to fuck and coddle them. Infinite/unconditional love are reserved only for animals and children, beings who are truly reliant on us for survival. Not grown ass men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 24 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapians"We", there's a lot of "we" And they don't like being asked who tf is "we" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:05 PM |
| 31 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansWhat is it with broke men and running any and all cars they get their filthy hands on into the ground? It's always in record fucking time too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:01 PM |
| 28 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't."I'm not a raper"- blurted out on a date, claimed it was a movie quote, quickly changed the topic, shocked Pikachu when I responded by bailing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 33 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't."I'm very smart"- took this scrote almost 6 years to get a bachelor's, and they didn't even hold down a job or have any extracurriculars. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:56 PM |
| 635 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!He didn't even apologize to his wife... He apologized to HIS DAD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:35 PM |
| 13 | Women are constantly made to feel bad over their body count being pass 4 or 5 yet praise men for have 10+. It’s just complete hypocritical bullshitSame with not having any nudes exist of you. No one believes me, then they look at me like I grew another head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:42 PM |
| 9 | Women are constantly made to feel bad over their body count being pass 4 or 5 yet praise men for have 10+. It’s just complete hypocritical bullshitI both love and hate this, because it turns my number to ONE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Female friendships should be held sacred in a cesspool of LVM. Here's why:Oh definitely, at least in my experience. Of all the women I know, the majority are dating varying degrees of lame, boring man babies and trying to balance seeing/caring for them and working. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:38 PM |
| 9 | Female friendships should be held sacred in a cesspool of LVM. Here's why:Were you in my head at 4 am this morning? lol I've pretty much just stopped bothering with a lot of people since I got divorced. Realizing I was the only one to ever initiate anything was a big part of it, and honestly going through my old messages and seeing how often I was the person to check in compared to the people I was trying to talk to for years was pretty fucking depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 27 | MEN WANT DEBT FREE VIRGINS!11 Nah, they want anyone they can control.If you work a physically demanding job, you should have the physical stamina to run the vacuum, load the dishwasher, and take the trash out while you throw dinner together after work. These men really love to tell on themselves that they're either doing their job wrong/unsafely, they're lazy, or they're stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:58 PM |
| 18 | I broke up with him! Please laugh at his clownery with me.From my experience, my ex's family was all too happy to let me carry their adult child's whole burden. What else is a woman for after all if not someone to pawn off your ill raised, maladjusted manchild??? Of course, when I threw my ex out, I got TONS of calls and messages from them asking me wtf is wrong with ex, how long have they been like this, why don't they think they should have to work, how long have they been spending all their waking hours on porn and video games? Etc I cackled. I'd be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:02 PM |
| 8 | Y’all... 😂 💁🏻♀️ Merry Christmas Eve!Lmao, my friends and I all got married in a 1.5 year timespan 6 years ago Annnnnnnd the last of them just moved back here to stay with family and get started on her divorce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 02:52 PM |
| 40 | B I G FACTSAND pleased he's propagated his crummy genetics even if he never sees the child again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:45 PM |
| 6 | This sounds like my last relationship!You shouldn't trust it because that's literally the same thing all ex's say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 35 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴I bought my house in cash by myself when I was 20. (In 2009, big foreclosure crisis, cheap houses) My NVM ex I was with at the time well, I'm sure you can imagine what kind of contribution he made to that investment (Nothing) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:39 PM |
| 7 | ZVM Martin Shkreli manipulates pickme, ruins her life, then ghosts her from prisonI ALMOST feel bad for her. Then I got to the part where he ghosted her after he found out about this article 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:18 PM |
| 73 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴Seriously. My marriage was garbage, but when I caught my ex haphazardly pissing in our only bathroom (after weeks of me trying to figure out if there was a leak because my house is pretty old), I blew up so bad and flung a piss soaked towel in their face. Ex SAT TO PEE for the last 2 years we were together, that's how angry I got. Actually best part of that ex is the embarrassing pee stories I witnessed. You haven't felt true joy and mirth until you see your NVM accidentally piss into their own … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:45 PM |
| 38 | Don't get trappedI'm ALWAYS surprised at how many people seem to hate their spouses, parents and children. You'd think after so many years on the internet I'd know what I was getting into when I clicked that link. It certainly explains why there are so many deeply unhappy, maladjusted people running around though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:41 PM |
| 68 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.Oh lord. I can already guess who would end up having to Clean the Sex Doll after he's done with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:27 PM |
| 9 | as soon as a guy says this, run. this is him telling you that he’s manipulative as hell.I wear that Crazy Ex sash with pride. Because when people encounter me in real life after hearing all these wild stories they walk away with an entirely different opinion of the person/people who told them I'm a crazy, drunk, frigid, abusive gold digger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:50 PM |
| 9 | as soon as a guy says this, run. this is him telling you that he’s manipulative as hell.Lmao, my ex did this with me and their gf before me. It backfired. We hit it off immediately and became best friends and ex never tried to introduce me to any other exes. Ex was pissed and still is to this day 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:46 PM |
| 15 | Scrote doesn't want women lifting and being physically (or mentally) strong, would rather have us do our nails while listening some soft musicOf course his name is Randy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:22 PM |
| 8 | Don't Get Caught Slipping: Holiday Hoovers and Ghosts of Relationships PastExactly 1 year ago today, my ex moved out. I've been no contact since the divorce was finalized in September, blocked them and their flying monkeys on everything. I still will not be surprised if I hear from them in the next month. Narcs gotta narc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:01 PM |
| 14 | Why are all the stories of women buying houses with their boyfriends nightmare fuel?This is a Red Sea not a Red Flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever experience having disturbance in your monthly cycles with you were with an LVM/NVM?My reproductive system has turned out to be my canary in the coal mine When I was still married, there was a whole year towards the end where I just constantly lightly bled. My ovaries were basically big clusters of cysts when I got an ultrasound that same year (which I figured since they'd rupture painfully every now and then). Go figure 2 months into being single everything got back on track. Looking back, every time I got involved with a NVM dirt bag, after a month or two I'd start cramping, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:41 PM |
| 10 | Every time I see a before 1 year HVM post. Girl na na, please reconsider. He's just doing the bare minimum.I personally like the idea of a quarterly review | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 2 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.This helped me SO MUCH https://www.unfuckyourhabitat.com/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 10:09 AM |
| 23 | LVM avoids his own wife and kids yet finds time to lecture strangers on their reproductive choicesUsually the same guys who swing between calling kids "blessings" or "consequences of sex" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:07 PM |
| 7 | You don't even have to try to weed them out on OLD, you just breathe at them and they melt into incels mid-conversationThis reads like every message my junkie ex has sent to me and my women friends who also knew him in the 10 years since I threw him out. (I have not spoken to him since, but every few years I find a message request with textbook NVM manipulation talking points and they're actually pretty funny now) Dude HAS to ALWAYS bring up his past and present drug use, because it's always been all he has. To him, his drug use and addiction has always been a permanent part of his character and personality, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:51 PM |
| 25 | Yeah, by “missed out on so many games” you mean “be a minimally involved father by dedicating some more of my time to working and taking care of my wife and child as I should?”The divorce will come in about a year or so, once his ass crusts over and the Cheeto dust finally settles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:56 AM |
| 39 | LVM movie red flags! 🚩If he reads and idolizes Bukowski, run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:36 AM |
| 23 | How my dogs made me realise some guys suck.I have a pit bull, a Rottie and an ugly little dog (I had to send my 12 y/o St. Bernard to the rainbow bridge a week ago) I can't tell you how much having dogs has saved my ass and enriched my life. I have yet to be involved with a man who didn't get JEALOUS of the attention and care my dogs receive. Straight up mad that I provide the basics of love and care to my pets who were here first. You'll see a man's true colors when you encounter health or end of life issues with your dog too. I had a N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:33 AM |
| 23 | Why are women expected to change for men?My ex got ALL excited when I said I was playing a video game. Until they saw it was Katamari Forever which doesn't involve guns or bombs or ridiculous man saves world fantasies and got extremely sulky and pissy that I wasn't playing a "real" game Go figure, ex also hated that I was always way better at air hockey, skee ball, Tetris, Mortal Kombat, board games, horseshoes etc. You know, games you play with other actual humans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:20 PM |
| 45 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???Probably because he's "dIsAbLeD" according to her. But he certainly has plenty of time and energy for video games that TOTALLY couldn't also be used for an accommodating job on that very same computer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | There's a worrying amount of posts where the woman has no idea she deserves respect and bodily autonomy...I know FDS isn't big on male friendships, but a couple of those and/or some large angry male relatives can really come in handy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:09 PM |
| 45 | 41 y.o. husband and father is upset his wife no longer wants him to spend several nights a week partying with friends now that they’re married with a childMy mom's ex bf and his buddies hang out A LOT. It's so they can get loaded on alcohol and cocaine all weekend even though they're middle aged men with serious health issues because they've partied hard every weekend for like 30 years. Few of them have wives, have savings or own property, because they blow an entire paycheck in 2 days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Scrote from ELEVEN years ago just rang my bell unannounced to "reconnect" 🤮I've been calling them the Fuckwad Ghosts of Hookups Past I had a NVM abusive junkie ex send me a message over the weekend. I threw this POS out 8 years ago and went no contact. Ex is now living a "clean" lifestyle, and has a "new career" as an addiction counselor that he started A WEEK AGO. This man doesn't even have a GED, is a violent predator with a record, and was bragging all summer about his "super cool" heroin relapse in Boston he tries to play off as accidental and a fun mistake. Go fig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 61 | There's a worrying amount of posts where the woman has no idea she deserves respect and bodily autonomy...The last time a scrote pulled this shit with me, he ended up being savagely beaten by 2 male friends of mine and my uncle who was fresh out of prison. He never tried that with me ever again 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:59 PM |
| 8 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I didn't sleep for a few nights after I found out homicide is the leading cause of death for pregnant woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 10 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I think I was 4 when my mom was bringing me to her anatomy and physiology class and they were covering pregnancy and childbirth. I was HORRIFIED because my mom was pregnant at the time, I was already not thrilled to have a sibling, and my whole thought process was just "Why would you do this to yourself?!" Pretty sure that's part of why 28 years later I don't have any kids | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?"I mean shit, if you want it to be a bicep it needs more veins!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that men are MORE likely to cheat when their partners are pregnant?I've had the "I love you but it's time to accept that your baby daddy is a fucking loser, you need to stop fucking losers because it's ruining your life" conversation way too many times this year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:39 PM |
| 6 | sex is not a need, it’s a want"It's the only form of intimacy I understand"- My ex, who was all shocked Pikachu that I wasn't flattered and wet from that very gross bad statement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How to recognize future fakingIn my ex's case, I think it's both genetics and upbringing. Ex MIL got pregnant with ex BIL like 3 months after she gave birth to my ex (which is horrifying once I did the math and read between the lines). Naturally with a newborn, a 1 year old and no support, she got hit hard with PPD and was doing very very badly for a couple of years before she was able to get help. So my ex definitely missed out on some important bonding and development as a very young child (all because their narc father ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Beware of men who want open relationships but later decide to change their minds when they see that their partner have way more options than themLmao, from what I heard the best part is they had the option to have an actual room like a human being, but chose the nasty ass hoarder basement and once again doesn't get why people aren't lining up to get with such a major catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Wow...Oh for sure, I can see it on both sides of my own family. The men barely make it past 60 (unmanaged diabetes and heart disease, then stroke every damn time), the women live to their 90s and live independently until the last couple months of their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 10 | How to recognize future fakingThe person I divorced was very much a covert narcissist, the family scapegoat, and the most spineless, pathetic, brain dead person I've ever known. Especially when compared to their blatantly narcissistic father and brothers, who were monstrous people but at least had high paying jobs and were capable of taking care of themselves. My ex MIL was always very warm, fun and kind. But having 4 narcissists (then 3 after divorce) in her house destroyed her physical and mental health. At every family di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:57 PM |
| 89 | Wow...Because so many men are allowed to maintain the palates of toddlers well into adulthood. My brother has lived off chicken nuggets, Chef Boyardee, candy, pop etc for over 20 years. My mom never forced him to eat home cooked meals or drink water the way she did with me. He's 27 now and makes an effort to eat better, try new things and take supplements after years of me brutally roasting him for eating like a giant baby, but the damage is already done because his teeth are falling apart from the in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:24 PM |
| 119 | Wow...Oof, I was married to one of these. By the end I was making myself steak dinners while ex had hot dogs and ramen they had to microwave themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 02:17 PM |
| 14 | Beware of men who want open relationships but later decide to change their minds when they see that their partner have way more options than themI lived this 😂 Ex was a porn sick narcissist and a coercive sex pest among other things. We slept in different rooms, didn't have sex for months etc Their brilliant solution to fixing things was an open relationship. I said yes because I just didn't care and knew exactly what would happen. I spent these 3ish months to work on emotionally distancing myself, getting my finances in order and talking to my lawyer friend. Ex got a couple of hookups, but they quickly bailed. Meanwhile I was getting ph… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:56 PM |
| 7 | I’m actually so fucking triggered right now.Ugh. I lost 20 pounds and had a drastic decrease in PCOS issues within a few months of throwing out my ex and filing for divorce. Separation and divorce was actually originally recommended to me by my obgyn and nurse practitioner 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:40 PM |
| 12 | I’m actually so fucking triggered right now.They love to say "I don't remember", then launch into a long detailed story about themselves during the period of time they "don't remember" not long after. Lies come to them as easy as breathing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 03:32 PM |
| 3 | One of the thousands of reasons why I never want to live with a man or have childrenThose kids would learn real quick once their sperm donor had to go live in the garage until the COVID vaccine comes out and he finds a new home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 9 | Sad but true, gotta just laugh at this point 🤣Knowledge is power! These posts, and Lundy Bancroft's book helped me dodge a huge red flag festooned bullet Old Me would have walked right into this summer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | FDS, But Make It SpookyIt's amazing! I think I've watched it through 5 times now (it helps that Dan Levy is beautiful and all the writing and acting is flawless) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 03:02 PM |
| 29 | Girl wants to send her boyfriend nudes but feels self conscious, predictable replies ensueI knew a couple where the man traded the woman's nudes FOR WEED without her consent while they were together And he wondered why she was mad and flushed all his ill gotten weed 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 19 | Girl wants to send her boyfriend nudes but feels self conscious, predictable replies ensueMeanwhile, I'm looked at like I sprouted multiple heads because I have no nudes, and never will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Duck hunting is akin to breathing for duck hunters and wives should be happy that their spouse abandons their family 60 days every year. This post is viral and the comments are so awful. And- where im from, duck hunters literally only sleep, eat, work and duck hunt during duck season."Provide bounty"- I highly doubt he's shooting that many ducks sis. And that big nap is probably for all the beer he was pounding with his buddies before he drove home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 10 | Save yourselves "men"Actually this is how my ex killed 3 perfectly good cars. My mom actually slapped ex upside the head several times when she found out the reason her old SUV had died was because ex never checked the transmission fluid and ignored all the lights and noises. Actually now I should probably go add "keeps up on basic car maintenance" to my list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:46 PM |
| 16 | FDS, But Make It SpookyJohnny Rose in Schitt's Creek | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Don't have kids with LVM.I've never had kids, but I've been told by many women how bad those pregnancy hormones fuck your brain up. It makes sense though. We wouldn't have lasted this long as a species if pregnancy didn't dump tons of feel good hormones into us to lull us into thinking it's a good idea to see the pregnancy through regardless of who the father is or the state of the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:05 PM |
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